Wish I would have been given this chance a long long time ago.
My name is Della Keen and I truly believe this program has a gold mine of information within a structured setting that is delivered by a great man that is very well educated in the topic of helping and healing broken and/or damaged marriages, relationships and etc.
Knowledge is power. He delivers that in abundance. I’m so blessed to have came across this on the internet. Wish I would have been given this chance a long long time ago.
Thank You Mr. Bruce Muzik for your “Love at first fight” counseling program.
We've grown and are able to see where things are going before they happen.
The Love at First Fight program is great if you want to save your relationship. You’ll soon realize after starting the program that the negative patterns that taint your relationship become a thing of the past. You will soon once again connect with your partner and feel as if you’re getting to know them all over again.
My wife seems happier since we started the program. Things that used to bother her seem less important now. She seems to have regained hope and that’s great. I also feel we’ve grown and are able to see where things are going before they happen. It’s led to less conflicts and we’re there for each other rather than against.
The program is non-intrusive and leads to personal growth rather than blaming one or the other. I was hesitant at first but was pleasantly surprised at how well it went and its impact on us.
Is a true game-changer.
The program is based on principles that made me feel safe and understood. Not broken and at fault.
“Connect first, communicate later” is a true game-changer.
“Whatever isn’t love is just a misunderstanding” is also a great understanding or reframe.
Bruce seems to actually believe in love and truly value relationships!
Unlike many other therapists and even relationship coaches who are very relativistic about the topic and eager to discount a relationship on some intellectual, rational grounds. But we’re talking about love here, and no rational calculation is enough to make a marriage work.
Throughout the program Bruce was being helpful and kind and his light manner and sense of humour made for a warm and understanding atmosphere.
The amount of knowledge about what makes relationships work in real life that programme contains is impressive. And best of all, none of it is “how it should be”, but it’s all based in pragmatism, in what works, in studies of real couples.
This is a truly comprehensive program which touches on spiritual and sexual aspects of a relationship as well.
I recommend Bruce Muzik as mentor to anyone at any stage of a committed relationship.
Before you throw in the towel for good please try this- you have so much to gain!
My husband and I began this course at each others throats! We were the definition of insanity, our families worried about our stability, as we often used them to vent to.
We have been married 16 years, all of which were alongside my husbands military career. Since his retirement, we fell into arguing and fighting daily, we both lost hope and we’re on path for separation and divorce.
When I found Bruce, it was a free 3 hour course that revitalized my faith that we haven’t tried everything, and that this course could be our way back to each other!
My husband and I were astounded at even just the first couple weeks how much relief we felt together. There was definitely some hard things to face, and accept; but the program helped us see light at the end of the tunnel.
We worked through heartbreaking things and we do feel authentically closer then we have ever been before. Learning attachment styles and personality types was a game changer.
If you’re hopeless and tried it all, before you throw in the towel for good please try this- you have so much to gain! I will forever be grateful the universe aligned and I found this program. Truly saved our marriage.
The first counseling that placed greater emphasis on uncovering why I react the way I do and strategies to effectively deescalate the conflict.
My spouse and I have participated in couples counseling in person on 2 separate occasions with 2 different therapists. We have learned our flaws and the root causes that escalated our conflicts into what I described as running gun battles with words and emotions.
This is the first counseling that placed greater emphasis on uncovering why I react the way I do and strategies to effectively deescalate the conflict before it becomes toxic.
More valuable to us than a year of counseling.
This program is the real deal. It causes you to go deep and learn about yourself and your partner and gives you actual tools that you can use to make real change.
It is a game changer for both personal development and relationships and was more valuable to us than a year of counseling.
Seven week program did more for our marriage than a years worth of traditional in-person couples counseling.
Bruce – Your seven week program did more for our marriage than a years worth of traditional in-person couples counseling.
Thank you for your help and dedication to saving and restoring marriages.
Justin
I've read a lot of books about relationships, but nothing has compared to this course.
This program was extremely helpful to me, especially in understanding reoccurring conflict. It was the one thing tearing up our marriage. My husband was blaming it all on me!
I didn’t understand that it is actually normal in a marriage and that it is NOT all my fault and can be fixed! I’ve read a lot of books about relationships, but nothing has compared to this course.
I don’t know how I found it but I am so so grateful I did. The information is priceless.
TAKE THE COURSE, it will help.
I’m not a person that likes take help classes, I taken a few, my wife and I went to counseling to 4 different therapist. Some help, but never just dove into reconnecting, before you can deal with the problem, Just talked about what the problem at hand was.
I believe, which not always . That you can take nuggets out of any courses you take, Bruce’s course had many nuggets for me. Yes, done things didn’t connect with me, but enough did and really help my relationship, probably the most , no The Most in any relationship help threapy we taken.
Sorry for the rambling.
TAKE THE COURSE,it will help.
My husband and I were practically divorced.
Bruce is just a wonderful human. I admire the love and compassion he radiates.
My husband and I were practically divorced. The program really taught us so much, especially how we lost our connection and ways to get it back.
Thank you for your dedication to saving couples! Love you!
Handling conflicts and differences has become alot easier and straightforward.
Bruce’s program has taught us alot, so many insights and aha moments.
After years of being completely disconnected and caught up in conflicts and power struggles, making eachother completely miserable, we now feel we have a better connection and more loving communication and have learnt to understand and see things better from eachothers perspectives.
We are able to communicate in a way where we feel safe to express our truths and are also heard, valued and respected, and handling conflicts and differences has become alot easier and straightforward.
We have been given some wonderful tools to guide us through our life’s ups and downs and develop a stronger, happier, loving and secure relationship.
With continued practice and faith, we will continue to get stronger and can look forward to a better more harmonious future together with lots of love and joy along the way.
Thankyou Bruce for your great program and wonderful insights, its a tool for life, thankyou.
It has been much better than any therapy session I've ever received.
This is the most in-depth couples counseling course I’ve ever experienced. It has been much better than any therapy session I’ve ever received.
The course requires dedication to exploring your shadow sides, and learning how to shift your mindsets and patterns to become more intimate.
It is not easy, but provides so much reward by the end. Not only do you learn the tools to get along better, but there is a lot of self discovery as well.
It was well worth the price!
It will make a big difference in your relationship.
This course is full of tools and information that can help you get back on track and learn about each other. If you commit to the time needed and following through with the training it will make a big difference in your relationship.
I'd told him he needs to move out... Now we're communicating, planning our future, and having great sex!
Bruce’s course has literally saved our marriage! We’ve been married for 33 years and it has been a struggle.
We could not communicate. Every interaction held the possibility of me being hurt. His perception of me was skewed and this would cause him to lash out at me for doing everyday mundane activities, or even doing nice things for him. He constantly perceived me as a threat and would fight with me, berate me, and disrespect me. I was often left feeling unimportant, disrespected, hurt and sad.
The result of this course has changed everything! I heard the words that I have been praying to hear: “I’m so sorry I have hurt you, I have been such an asshole, I don’t deserve you, will you forgive me.?”
He has repeated that to me several times already and I can feel his sincerity. He is genuinely showing regret and feeling my pain. I cannot say enough about how this has changed our marriage and changed my life!
Just a few months ago I’d told him he needs to move out (he didn’t) and now we’re communicating, planning our future, and having great sex!
This course has truly revived my marriage.
Bruce, this course has truly revived my marriage. My husband and I are using the tools we were taught and we are becoming closer and more love is flowing between the both of us.
We had tried traditional marriage counseling many times in our 16+ years yet your program is the ONLY one that “clicked” for the both of us. Such a refreshing approach with this relationship program because it truly does create closeness and understanding.
I cannot thank you enough! God bless you Bruce!
We were constantly fighting and talking about divorce before our Love at First Fight course.
I highly recommend this program to any couple because we were constantly fighting and talking about divorce before our Love at First Fight course.
My wife and I are communicating better now and have revitalized our love and commitment with each other.
Bruce Muzik is a talented speaker and gifted relationship coach. My wife and I both felt comfortable tackling our problems with his guidance.
We have virtually stopped arguing and blaming.
For me this program was revolutionary and for the first time ever I’ve gained a deep insight into what I need to do to improve my relationship.
We have virtually stopped arguing and blaming (mainly me) and while still practicing, my listening skills are improving.
A real eye opener... ( The Art Of Love )
Bruce’s Love At First Fight Program is a real eye opener into the knowledge of how relationships work and how relationships can be recreated.
It’s more than a program; Bruce has it down to an art form. ( The Art Of Love )
The change in both of us is unbelievable.
After 17 years being together with my partner, with over 7 years of coping with my partner’s addictions and feeling unheard, unconnected, unaccepted for who I was, and out of ideas with other therapist and books to try to save our situation, I separated from my partner, Mark.
I needed the separation to understand why I was in a relationship like this and what part I had in it. I couldn’t be under the same roof anymore. Our conversations were always so toxic and it was making me ill. And I knew I had to work on me too.
After 17 years I didn’t want it to end in a confrontational way. If it was going to end I wanted it to be cordial and to learn why it happened and know there was nothing else left to do.
Then one day I saw Bruce online.
Immediately he was explaining on his YouTube page the exact feelings I had and the exact situations I had been involved in with my partner. I couldn’t believe it! He was talking to me! Was he in my house and heard our conversations?
I signed up right away for his 7-week course.
Within the first hour I shared some of the information with my partner. We were separated but still communicating here or there. He wasn’t participating in the program but he showed interest When I shared some of Bruce’s stuff. A matter of fact, he showed more interest than he had in 7 years of counseling and other books that we had tried to do together.
As I kept doing the course, I followed what Bruce said to do when sharing with your partner. And within a few weeks, my partner started to participate in some of the exercises.
Now that I finished the 7 weeks, He is going to do the course. And I am going to retake the course with him. I was smart enough to buy the lifetime option.
The change in both of us is unbelievable.
We are reconnecting again. And even if we decide not to get back together again, we both have become better people and understand much more about ourselves individually and as a couple and how we both were responsible for the split.
We have shared this with other friends and they too are amazed at how helpful Bruce is.
No matter what happens, I feel so empowered with tools that’ll help me for the rest of my life. I foresee, my relationship rekindling and us getting back together.
This course is worth every penny. The materials are awesome. Do the homework, I found myself excited every week when Bruce would release the next videos, handouts and homework. Apply yourself, utilize the live phone calls. Talking to Bruce in person is life-changing. And I guarantee you will finish this program feeling empowered and with the tools to be a better partner and to make your relationship magnificent.
I am no longer scared to discuss my feelings with people.
This program gave me the understanding of how to confront conflict in a caring and respectful way. Not only can I use it with my partner, but I can also use it with anyone else in my life.
I’m able to use the skills at home and at work, and I am no longer scared to discuss my feelings with people. I also understand my behavior patterns, and I’m able to let go of the guilt behind them rather than continuing to believe that I am better wrong, these are just behaviors that I am doing.
It’s empowering to know that I can change these and that I’m able to change the way the others respond to me through my behaviors.
We had amazing results!!!! He is back in our bedroom... and we are loving each other again.
I have been married for 50 years and my husband stopped talking to me and ignored me . He told me to get a divorce and he wanted nothing to do with me. This was a shocking event in our lives since we seemed very happy. Had a Therapist, 2 really and they could not figure this issue out. after 6.5 months of no talking , I started this class.
The first week on hearing what to do and his instructions , I apologized to my husband for the hurt we were going through and he heard me , that opened him up little by little. It is 9 months and he is back in our bedroom and he is talking again and we are loving each other again. I finished the course and did what Bruce said to do and we had amazing results!!!!
Thank You DeeDee
This allowed us to understand and communicate with one another in a way that 2.5 years of couples' therapy never did.
My partner and I decided to give the program a try because it was reasonably priced and after watching Bruce’s free videos seemed intrigued.
The program gave us so many useful and easy to follow exercises to reignite the spark that has turned into a flame that heats up the passion between us. The information that we have learned allowed us to understand and communicate with one another in a way that 2.5 plus years of couples therapy never did. The work we did came with many “A ha” moments and has brought us to a space that we were beginning to believe was unachievable.
Having completed the program we realize we have only scratched the surface to the level of communication, understanding, and most importantly compassionate love that we will achieve with continued dedication to applying the tools we learned. Our relationship has changed by recapturing that missing intimacy I believed was lost forever.
It has also changed the relationship and communication between us and our two teenage children. I encourage you give this program a try, you will not regret it.
We've spent a great deal on couples' counseling. This course was far more effective and a greater value!
We have spent a great deal of money on couples’ counseling. This course was by far more effective and a greater value!
This program puts more accountability on the participants to explore deeper into their relationship than couple’s counseling. The tools presented were extremely helpful.
We have been married for 40 years and both wished we would have had this information and tools to use to improve our relationship about 30 years ago! Well worth the time and money!!
I've been able to tell my husband my difficult feelings for the first time in 20 years.
I had spent years reading and listening to relationship counselors, searching for a fix for my relationship. Bruce’s Love at First Fight program is the first one that has really worked for my partner and me.
Bruce has a way of seeing to the core of relationship problems and helping others find their way out of them. His step-by-step methods to create connection work! Implementing his simple tools for communication has enabled honest, effective, and loving conversations. And he teaches how to do all this & more without blaming & vilifying one another.
I’ve been able to tell my husband my difficult feelings for the first time in 20 years, and he was able to help me process them with love & compassion. These experiences are helping to repair my sense of safety in the relationship.
We still have work to do, but we are so grateful to have the tools we need to do that work. My partner and I feel empowered & hopeful for our future. I’m so grateful to Bruce.
Instead of fighting each other as we explore reconciliation, we are fighting our misunderstandings.
After years of couples counseling that didn’t get us unstuck, exhausted from our power struggles, we divorced 2.5 years ago. I wish we had the benefit of going through Bruce Muzik’s course.
We learned how much our insecure attachment styles played in our circular fights, and how to soothe each other in midst of a fight so it doesn’t escalate so we can be open to listening and understanding each other. Instead of fighting each other as we explore reconciliation, we are fighting our misunderstandings.
Even if you are not in crisis, your relationship will improve if you both work through the course.
We went from civil war to reconstruction.
We went from civil war to reconstruction. Now we know how to work together and build a stronger relationship at every conflict.
Totally recommend this to anyone who wants to build a phenomenal relationship.
The course delivered everything it promised and so much more in personal insights, understanding of my partner, how our relationship was working… The material is extensive and delivered in an engaging way with real-time calls and coaching and really great practical tools – totally recommend this to anyone who wants to build a phenomenal relationship.
Your course was way cheaper and by far the most useful, transforming, interesting, and successful thing I've ever done.
Your teaching methods are absolutely outstanding. You provide so much value. Your course exceeded my expectations on every level. I’ve spent so much money on counselling and in other courses with varying success… your course was way cheaper and by far the most useful, transforming, interesting, and successful thing I’ve ever done.
Every couple could benefit from this course, even those in relatively happy relationships. You have taken all the great research on creating long term, committed, deeply fulfilling relationships and put it into a phenomenal 7 week course.
This has been such a gift to me. I was on my way out of my marriage before this course… so deeply hurt,angry and hopeless. Now I’m excited to grow with my partner. Every day I feel myself soften more and open back up to being loved.
I will carry with me for the rest of my life not only in the relationship with my partner but with my children and anyone else in my life.
Bruce is an incredible teacher. He’s making difficult to grasp concepts easily explained. I knew when I signed up that what he’s teaching is the latest most reliable research and concepts that actually work and support everyone in the relationship. What I didn’t know was how much I would enjoy doing the course. Bruce’s enthusiasm was contagious and his story telling captivating.
I learned so much that I will carry with me for the rest of my life not only in the relationship with my partner but with my children and anyone else in my life.
It has helped me turn my marriage around just learning how I was in my relationship with him.
I do recommend this class to anyone who desires a better relationship. It has helped me turn my marriage around just learning how I was in my relationship with him. The pieces started coming together and time again to fill up once again for my husband.
Now I have insight into how to address issues in the future.
My four year relationship had just painfully ended when I ran across the Love at First Fight course. It probably wouldn’t be as meaningful working it on my own but I signed up anyway and I’m so thankful I did.
Now I have insight into how to address issues in the future. My prayer is that a future partner and I will be way better at navigating from the Romantic phase, through the Power Struggle phase and into the Mature phase of our relationship.
Love, long-term love is my goal! Life is too short to beat one’s head against the relationship ending brick wall.
I was ready for a divorce. I did the course anyway and in Week 2 we had an Ah-Ha moment. Romario finally understands how to connect with my heart.
When we started the program I felt it was my last chance for my marriage.
I was seeing a counselor and he encouraged me to join this program, but I was ready for a divorce. I was not feeling loved. In my mind, we were just two roommates. He is the sweetest guy in the world but there was no romance. I was planning to give him the (divorce) papers to sign.
I did the course anyway and in Week 2 we had an Ah-Ha moment…
Romario finally understands how to connect with my heart. He said the scales fell off of his eyes and he could see how he was not loving me. Since that day he’s starting to love me full force.
Since then I’ve felt so loved and I fell in love with him again. I just want to be together with him for the rest of my life.
Basically you saved our marriage and we’re in the honeymoon again. It is amazing. I don’t have the words to express how happy I am in my marriage right now.
I learned so much from the coaching calls with others. I like the format of the program and the exercises. It really helped us understand each other and to connect deeper. Thank you very much from the bottom of my heart. I appreciate everything that you did for us.
My fiancé told me our relationship was over. It’s been a huge improvement from where we were.
We were engaged, but had a huge fight. He (my fiancé) told me that he wanted me to move out and that our relationship was over.
We’re in a very good spot right now. We went out to a movie yesterday. We had dinner. He took me out for my birthday as well and we talked a lot and I feel like me opening up has really changed the way that he has opened up and I give him space and I know what he needs because he’s a turtle and I’m the hail-storm.
At the birthday dinner, he said, “I don’t want to lose you to somebody else.”
It’s been a huge improvement from where we were. So thank you so much. I feel so much better. I’ve been through a lot but every time I would listen to your videos or I’d watch, I’d feel hopeful.
We’ve managed to break the cycle and consistently be there for each other, loving each other.
Well I definitely feel more unconditionally loved – where it’s not so much of a connection/disconnection cycle. I feel like we have it very consistent at this point – this flow of love, connection, and intimacy.
Before, we would have times of more distancing and coming back and distancing and coming back and we’ve managed to somehow break that cycle and just consistently be there for each other, love each other and that’s obviously a huge breakthrough and I think part of what led us to be able to take the next step with each other as well.
(Towards the end of the program Murray proposed to Marisa – she said YES!)
My partner is a recovering alcoholic with ADHD, autism and complex trauma. Who would be brave enough (and qualified) to take that on? He's called Bruce Muzik.
I am 64 and I have done a lot of therapy through personal growth. So has my Partner. My partner is a recovering alcoholic with ADHD, high functioning ASD and complex trauma that he only shared with me at his 56th Birthday. Now who would be brave enough (and qualified enough) to take that on? He is called Bruce Muzik.
We had a pretty awesome relationship for several years that we had worked hard at because of the above with many therapists. However we kept on hitting a brick wall. This course did not bulldoze it down it created the most beautiful opening for both of us to feel safe to walk through together hand in hand or individually when needed.
I discovered through the course I am not securely attached either and it created a secure understanding of what work needed to be done . It was inspiring it gave me hope it soothed both our fears it gave us structured strategies and exercises to face our fears . It allowed me and my partner to re write our pathways together respectfully. It gave me insight and excitement to try the new ways. It taught us the way to be connected to give us how to have it all: independence as well inter-dependence. It taught me how important even in the darkest moments that connection is so important and how to bid for it.
Thank you Bruce.
Truly see your partner. Perhaps for the first time.
This course will let you really see yourself, sometimes in ways that are difficult. But in that seeing, you will also be able to truly see your partner. Perhaps for the first time.
I learned more in the 8 weeks than I ever did through counseling.
This is the relationship course everyone should take. No one is taught how to be in a relationship and most of us muddle through and never get to the point of a fulfilling relationship. I learned more in the 8 weeks than I ever did through counseling.
Some of the concepts taught were familiar – we learned them as part of counseling but at that time, we were too busy fighting to learn it. The videos and homework bypass the relationship issues by teaching the concept and then have you work on applying them as homework. It is very effective.
I can’t believe that only 8 weeks ago, I really couldn’t see any future with my partner.
We were in constant conflict. There was so much anger and hostility, on a daily basis. We have two young children, and I had started to envisage what my life would look like as a single parent.
Within the first week, notably from using the connection rituals, we were calmer and kinder towards each other.
This course is so much more productive than marriage counselling. Understanding how to communicate in a different way, understanding why we react the way we do in our relationship, and understanding how to express ourselves in a more effective way has been so enlightening.
We are communicating so much better and are so much happier. I can’t believe that only 8 weeks ago, I really couldn’t see any future with my partner.
Not only rescued my marriage from life support but also brought miraculous results at my job and in other groups I'm involved with that are a big part of my life.
This program is really one of a kind and the best out in the marketplace for development. Any other alternatives that I have personally used were recipies for disastrous divorce. I had wasted literally $11K with marriage coaches, therapists, and programs that resulted in a further disconnected marriage.
When I ran across Bruce’s program on a Facebook ad I just knew this would be the answer I was seeking and I ended up being more developed and a better communicator in all areas of my life that not only rescued my marriage from life support but also brought miraculous results at my job and in other groups I’m involved with that are a big part of my life.
Where others fail, Bruce’s program suceeds without excuses. This program sets a new standard and raises the bar to what should exist out in the marketplace. His program is affordable for anyone also and is no where near thousands. He produces the value above and beyond the cost. I got the pathway to an extraordinary life which is what mankind is destined for anyways. He puts the possibility in what occurs as impossible.
I only wish there was a part 2 or a mastery program.
I tell everyone I know about Bruce's program and how much it changed my life!
This program has saved me. Not just for my relationship with my partner but everyone I have a relationship in my life including family and friends. I have learned so many tools. When I implement these tools in my everyday life, I feel conflict with anyone has been at a minimum.
I tell everyone I know in my life about Bruce’s program and how much it changed my life! It’s amazing that one person in this world can put every utensil on the table and say use them I promise each utensil has a purpose you just have to use them to see what they can do for you!
From the bottom of my heart Bruce this has been a blessing and I am very grateful!
We now know how to be a team and tackle the misunderstanding and not each other.
I cannot recommend this course highly enough.
My husband and I learned so much the first time around and the material is so rich that we knew going back to re-do the course two years didn’t mean things weren’t working, it meant we were ready to appreciate the depth of the perspectives on offer and engage the ideas and practical applications in a way that was more nuanced and could bring us even closer.
Overall, we have learned so much about clear and respectful communication but more importantly we learned that our disconnection and the pain of it was based on misunderstandings of one another’s motivations and intentions and we learned to have more compassion and more patience for how in our own way, we were each doing our best but we couldn’t see through the misunderstandings.
Bruce’s course really made clear that whatever wasn’t love was misunderstanding. It sounds like a cheesy tagline, but it’s really true and all the materials in this course illuminate this core principle. My husband and I still have disagreements but we now know how to be a team and tackle the misunderstanding and not each other.
I learned a lot about myself and how to be a better listener and a soft-emotion talker.
I learned a lot about myself and how to be a better listener and a soft-emotion talker. My husband did not participate but I feel it was still beneficial for me. I think if he participated some old hurts would have healed because the program helps you have a softened heart and gives you tools to work out differences.
I did find Bruce’s statement about what is not love is a misunderstanding true a lot of the time. An example ( my husband and I do not live together) my husband attended a retirement party for someone who did not pay their bill with my business office. I was greatly offended. He totally forget about it and said had he remembered he would not have attended. Before the program, I would have just been hurt. However, instead, we spoke about it and I no longer have any negative emotions.
I was feeling frustrated, alone, and stuck.
Bruce’s pitch came on my Facebook ad when my husband and I were at a standoff from another recurrent conflict. I was feeling frustrated, alone, and stuck. Then Bruce came along out of the blue with a course that was so much cheaper and doable than online marriage counseling.
His course provided hope, vision, and a way forward for me, even with just providing more awareness of myself and how I can show up more in our relationship. I have yet to master all the skills, but already I have experienced more effective communication with my husband, and the life-affirming value of my own role and contribution to our continued growth.
You will hit a rocky road and this program can help you navigate it.
This program is suitable for all couples married or not and same sex couples.
Whether your not talking to each other and looking at divorce or whether your happily together this course will enable you to go to the next level in the right direction.
I highly recommend this program for anyone who is in a relationship. You will hit a rocky road and this program can help you navigate it.
What AMAZING, FREAKING AMAZING Course you have put together Bruce!
This course has been life changing!~ I did the course alone and am so grateful for discovering myself, my attachment style, exposing my blind spots, showing me my weaknesses and giving me concrete tools to use to help me have success in relationships.
There’s a part of me that just wants to be perfect never make mistakes. This is such unrealisticly high expectation or finish line I set for myself and it is self-sabotaging. I am learning to give myself ample space, grace and time to practice these new behaviors.
Above all, I have learned that I show up best when I am emotionally honest, vulnerable, accept responsibility for my actions, share the soft emotions, ask for the things that I need, engage with my partner with kindness, look for the misunderstanding when tensions arise and then stand together and fight for our love and look for ways to find the misunderstanding together. What AMAZING, FREAKING AMAZING Course you have put together Bruce! You have truly found your calling in life. I thank you from the bottom of my heart.
I have led courses and both been a therapist and been in therapy... Love at First Fight is a gem!
The Love at First Fight program contains so many concrete practical tools and can help couples to live together again in true love and connection. It is thorough, Bruce is very down-to-earth and kindly cuts straight to the point to be helpful.
This program provides us with the action-based skills needed and some well-researched psychological education. The live mentor calls takes it a step beyond other self-help courses or books.
I have led courses and both been a therapist and been in therapy to know many of these concepts and I still found it addressed and supported growing edges. Love at First Fight is a gem!
Michele
Less confusion and misunderstandings are occurring between us.
Bruce has helped us create a safer space for us to connect on a more meaningful level. Less confusion and misunderstandings are occurring between us. More honest insights are coming out, and that has helped us be more vulnerable and accepting of each others differences, without disconnecting.
The most enlightening thing to happen in our relationship since it started.
Bruce and his program have been the most enlightening thing to happen in our relationship since it started.
Despite the love for each we continued to have regular conflict which we were both struggling to deal with. The LAFF program was our last attempt at communication and rebuilding our relationship and so far it has made giant leaps forward in comparison to where we were.
We’ve learnt more about ourselves, each other, and how to interact in our relationship in this 8 week program than we did in 15 months of marriage counseling.
Thank you Bruce for all that you do to help others, you have a gift and we are grateful for everything that you’ve shared with us. We have much to practice but I have hope that our relationship will only get stronger over time.
Our relationship has absolutely blossomed!
Our relationship has absolutely blossomed! We went from distant and rocky to connected and fully loving in just 8 weeks!
The reoccurring fight has been put to rest (just like you said it would) and we have these amazing skills that mean we stop any other potential arguments in their tracks. It’s an incredible super power!
“Marriage whisperer” is a well-earned title for Bruce. This program is absolutely incredible and is worth every penny and more! The skills you’ll learn are game-changers!
If you’re considering this program, even a little bit, do it and watch your relationship transform, you will not be sorry! It’s going to work!
We love the Love at First Fight teaching program!
We love the Love at First Fight teaching program! It has showed us how to lovingly and compassionately relate and respond to each other. We feel that your level of compassion and love for other’s’ relationships is amazing, and so appreciated ! Thank you so much !