We are now a team working together to heal our relationship and transform it.
Thank you for your work and this course! I’ve learned so much about myself and ways to express my needs and feelings, communicate and connect in meaningful ways with my partner.
I am sharing the knowledge and practice with my partner, and we are now able to have deep conversations, be emotionally present and honest, meet each other’s needs in a more connecting way.
I am so humbled by the experience; We are now a team working together to heal our relationship and transform it.
It really allowed us to take a step back and consider each other's feelings and how our responses to each other affected us.
This program was both insightful and provocative. It really allowed us to take a step back and consider each other’s feelings and how our responses to each other affected us.
We would definitely recommend this program to many of our friends.
Thanks Bruce! Boom shakalaka!!
I’ve been married for 44 years and I can tell you we are closer now than maybe ever before.
For anyone experiencing a “stale” relationship or have a need to overcome hurt feelings due to an infidelity, Bruce’s program (if followed) could be your saving grace.
I’ve been married for 44 years and I can tell you we are closer now than maybe ever before.
Not to mention our intimacy is at the level of 35 yr olds. 🙂
Thank you Bruce for all your wise and well put advice, giving me the marriage I’ve always yearned for!
It has saved our 12 year marriage.
Completing Bruce’s Love at First Fight course has been a game changer for us it has saved our 12 year marriage and we will be forever thankful for your amazing knowledge and commitment to supporting us through this incredibly difficult time.
We can’t believe how our relationship has turned around in just 7 weeks.
I think every couple should do this course regardless if it is in trouble or not the skills you learn you can apply to every relationship or friendship you have.
Thank you Bruce you are a gift from heaven. Xx
I would recommend this course to anybody that wants to improve their life and their relationships.
I thought the course was great. I really think it helped me to understand the inner workings of personal relationships which I have been sharing with others.
I would recommend this course to anybody that wants to improve their life and their relationships. For me it has deepened my understanding of both myself and my partner.
I feel more seen, heard and understood by my husband than I have in a long while... A shift happened that has lightened and opened my heart.
When my husband and I fought, I felt rage and hatred in my heart. I questioned whether we would make it much longer. The anguish was unbearable.
I found this course through a suggestion in a facebook group. I signed up knowing we had nothing to lose. The first few weeks were tough because I couldn’t imagine that we could shift out of the continual argument cycle we did so often.
But I feel more seen, heard and understood by my husband than I have in a long while. He understands his part in the arguments, and understands where I am coming from. I understand him and his needs more as well. We learned we never learned how to communicate properly and created a toxic environment for both of us. When we learned this, a shift happened that has lightened and opened my heart.
I am grateful we decided to say yes to this course. I am hopeful for the future.
Little did we know, that we would get sooooo much more in only 7 weeks, that we would never have gotten in years of traditional counseling.
I found Bruce Muzik after deciding to abandon traditional marriage counseling.
In traditional counseling, we spent a fortune over the course of just 3 months, only to find ourselves even more conflicted in the relationship and with no hope of making any progress on our own.
In fact, the therapist actually became to each of us, what he was supposed to be teaching us to become for each other. He taught us no tools, and shed very little light on what our source of conflict was.
When I listened to Bruce’s short series of videos on YouTube, I knew that Bruce had a way of thinking and offering his insight that showed me hope. I shared it with Mark, on the heels of both of us on the verge of abandoning the relationship. We both felt a sense of hope and decided to take the course.
Little did we know, that we would get sooooo much more in only 7 weeks, that we would never have gotten in years of traditional counseling.
Bruce’s course has been an amazing journey of personal and relational growth that included a lot of self-discovery, difficult “thruths” that were faced, and methods that we learned and utilized; giving us a basis from which we could make progress against our constant conflict.
This course turned the light on for us and has helped us improve our relationship.
This course has helped both of us understand each other and we realize how we got where we are through childhood trauma.
This course turned the light on for us and has helped us improve our relationship.
Thank you Bruce!
We are able to talk about any difficult subjects without triggering each other.
The program is challenging, it requires work, but we put in the work and wow did it pay off!.
We now feel so connected and our relationship is going from strength to strength. We are able to talk about any difficult subjects without triggering each other. We have both grown so much as individuals and as a couple.
Thank you Bruce, saying you saved our relationship just doesn’t do it justice, you have saved it and set us on a course to bliss.
I wish I’d had this coaching when I was 20. It has changed my life.
I wish I’d had this coaching when I was 20. It has changed my life.
The bit of me that felt inadequate, incomplete and a relationship disaster, has been soothed and rebuilt. From now on I will be having the most amazing life I’d always secretly wanted but never felt I deserved.
I now know how to be the person I always felt I had the potential to be, with my partner there beside me, in the best ever, interdependent relationship.
I wish Bruce was teaching this to the whole world, particularly kids so they can avoid the pain I’ve experienced.
Stop struggling to figure it out on your own.
This course was amazing and highly recommend it to anyone. Even if you have a great relationship you’ll gain so much awareness about yourself and each other it’s profound.
We love to learn and so this was exciting and I loved the concrete solutions and scripts to use in certain situations. Over time they will become more second nature.
I’ve taken a lot of personal development and much of what Bruce talks about I’d never heard before and it all made sooo much sense.
Stop struggling to figure it out on your own. We weren’t taught to understand ourselves, our past and our emotions much less our partners so this will help you be more connected to yourself and your partner!!
Thanks Bruce this was valuable!!
My wife and I were on the verge of divorce.
My wife and I were on the verge of divorce. She had already decided to leave.
The program completely surprised my wife in it’s ability to restore loving connection. We both responded together, just as Bruce promised.
Thank you Bruce for helping us stay together!
It has saved our marriage.
We were headed for divorce until we signed up for the “Love at first fight” program.
I am able to be more understanding now. We communicate better and have learned what triggers each other so we can make changes to prevent hurting each other.
It has saved our marriage and helped us to connect with each other.
The program helped us immensely!
My husband and I found Bruce to be engaging, practical, and spot on with his descriptions of how relationships unravel and what techniques provide the scaffolding needed to jump in feet first and repair or refresh the relationship.
Every person is treated with respect and Bruce passionately honors the process he offers people to uncover root problems and to use his resources to make observable differences right away.
He has the uncanny ability to strip away the surface issues and get to the heart of the matter in seconds! He is reliable and dedicated to his practice and we found the program helped us immensely!
Bruce keeps things real and encourages honest, reassuring communication that diffuses the heat and leads to harmony.
Definately be working on a co-parenting relationship now rather than our marriage if we did not find you and this course.
Bruce, you are genuinely a relationship genius. Your advice and knowledge is invaluable. We would definately be working on a co-parenting relationship now rather than our marriage if we did not find you and this course.
I have learnt more things about myself and what I do to hinder and sabotage my healthy connections than I ever thought possible. I always blamed my husband, or it was always something someone else was doing to cause the reaction in me that they were getting and now I understand how to show my soft emotions and be vulnerable I can see how much I have to develop and be aware of in myself that contribute to the way my relationships are and have been in the past.
Thank you bruce.
For anyone wondering if this is a course for you, do it!! Even if your partner isnt willing, you will learn so much more about yourself that it will give you a boost in self-esteem, self confidence and self awareness that you never thought possible.
Keep doing what you do bruce because you are brilliant at it. Thank you so much again.
We are more connected now than ever before and we have been married for 33 years.
We are more connected now than ever before and we have been married for 33 years. We are fighting less and when we do have a disagreement we know better how to find out what the root cause of it is so we can solve it together instead of accusing one another like we used to
Love at first fight has really opened my eyes to just how important it is to get and keep connection with your partner and how everything else seems to fall in place once you achieve this.
This program is a lot of work but worth so worth it to anyone who wants to save their marriage.
Valuable lessons that I can apply in any relationship.
This program was really beneficial in spite of the fact that I am single.
I learned valuable lessons that I can apply in any relationship, and some that will come in handy if I ever fall in love again.
More insight into our marriage than anyone else over our 42 years of marriage.
Bruce is a relationship expert. He lives what he teaches & gave us more insight into our marriage than anyone else over our 42 years of marriage. He helped us discover root issues & then how to solve the problems.
This course is jam packed with revelations & helpful, meaningful tools. We grew to appreciate our strengths & growth areas.
Bruce speaks truth from his heart. We appreciated his own vulnerability & kindness.
It was excellent & we are hopeful for continued growth & healing in our marriage. We are grateful for what we have learned & excited to share with other couples.
Within the first 2 weeks I started to see changes.
I joined the course solo and was sceptical about how I alone could turn around my relationship which for 14 years was on the brink of breakdown.
We were both moving in opposite directions and just waiting to move on in our lives. I was desodorier something to change and need help desperately but never in a million years thought that in a short space of time I alone could turn things around so dramatically.
I whole heartedly thank Bruce for this course and tools he tought.
To be honest within the first 2 weeks I started to see changes as a result of implementing the tools and after discovering the reflective conversation tool my relationship changed dramatically!
We are now connected, in-love again, want to spend time with each other, started to actually open up without fear of being judged and if things start to get into an argument I have to tools to deesscilate.
We havnt had another full blown argument since I started the course.
Big Thank you Bruce credit is all to you! I believe being alone on the course was a benefit because I wasn’t relying on my husband to do his part!
This programme goes deep.
Bruce’s programme is amazing. I still have a lot to work on, but now with the right tools, I’m planning to continue working on my own issues of opening up and making myself vulnerable in order to help us both better communicate.
This programme goes deep, and the way Bruce explains things is astounding and helps you look at things with a different mindset.
I still have a long way to go, but my husband has told me he’s proud of me for working on our relationship, and that means the world to me. So, thank you Bruce. You’re the best!
I thought I already knew all there was to know about relationships...
This is a well designed course and the tools are effective.
I thought I already knew all there was to know about relationships and that we had already tried everything, but this is better and more effective.
I recommend you try it if you are feeling hopeless about your relationship having a future but you don’t want to break up if possible.
It worked way better than I expected.
The program is fantastic.
Given what I invested in this program, it worked way better than I expected. I am grateful that Bruce shared his wonderful insights and tools to navigate relationship challenges and have a more connected and rewarding relationship.
I highly recommend this program to all couples at any stage and to singles who want to be in a loving relationship.
We feel more in love and connected than ever.
We loved Bruce’s easygoing, no nonsense approach to relationships. The way he shares his own experiences really breaks down barriers and encourages open communication.
Bruce is really good at simplifying things down and his great sense of humour keeps things interesting.
We loved doing this work together. It’s truly life changing. We feel more in love and connected than ever.
Now I see a glimmer of hope and possibility, where before I saw only despair and hopelessness.
I learnt so much about myself, my partner and relationships.
I feel as though this course has helped me learn how to love.
Now I see a glimmer of hope and possibility, where before I saw only despair and hopelessness.
Well worth the effort, time, and money.
My husband and I highly recommend this program. We were initially a bit wary about its usefulness, but we followed it step by step.
Several tools have helped us significantly improve our conflict problem. We intend to practice the recommendations regularly and maybe get a refresher course at some point.
It is well worth the effort, time, and money.
Even though I was not in a relationship when I took this course...
Even though I was not in a relationship when I took this course, I found this course to be incredibly valuable in learning the Art of Relationship Intimacy.
I feel less triggered now that I have a greater understanding of other people. I’m still not in a relationship, but I can’t wait to try out these tools with a partner.
Bruce is a master at coaching on relationships and intimacy and I feel confident in myself that I have the tools now to cultivate a deeply loving, intimate relationship.
Worth every penny and every minute!
I personally think it should be taught in all High Schools!
It is a work in progress… but the program has helped us communicate our feelings better and share our needs. We are finally going on ‘fun’ dates – without the kids! (we used to only go out to dinner alone together for birthdays, holidays or our anniversary)!
The content is very easy to follow and use in ‘real life’. Bruce is very knowledgeable in relationships and communication.
The live calls were a great way to have specific questions answered and Bruce was always approachable and helpful.
I highly recommend this course and I personally think it should be taught in all High Schools!
I took this class as a single person...
I took this class as a single person, but this class has altered my approach to healing, dating, and understanding my friends and my needs, wants, and requirements for the next relationship.
I would love to see this type of all in middle and high school, possibly combined with meditation and dance classes.
I highly recommend you learn these tools to take with you for the relationship you deserve and can and will co-create. – Chelsea Peil
It actually works.
It actually works. It’s a bit of a commitment but it works.
You want to fix what was once broken then sign up.
Bruce is not crazy, he knows his stuff.
I am happier and enjoying life.
An excellent program for developing intimacy and love in a marriage. I have developed a greater love for my husband and that has flowed over to my other relationships.
I am happier and enjoying life.
We got busy when I was schedule to complete the program. I did it 3 months later and enjoyed still having access and reading some of the comments at the end of every week.
Helped us practice relating in a healthier way.
This program has taught us tools be more aware of ourselves and eachother and helped us practice relating in a healthier way.
We have hope for a happy future.
Thank you, Bruce, for this valuable program. We had tried marriage weekend and counseling. Your program gave us valuable information and tools that made a difference very quickly. And it was more affordable!!
We have hope for a happy future. Thank you!
We have learnt so much and have so many new tools at our disposal.
Bruce is so down to earth and made us both feel comfortable and able to be vulnerable on the coaching calls.
We have learnt so much and have so many new tools at our disposal to help us grow together again.
Thank you so much, Bruce!
Join & see it for yourselves!
This is an amazing transformative program for couples wishing to improve their relationships!
Highly recommended for those, stuck in a rut and willing to work on their relationship to live a happier, more fulfilled life.
The program is full of fantastic insights, explained in a fun & engaging way!
Bruce is an absolutely brilliant coach – he will inspire you from the “get go”. Join & see it for yourselves!
A fight that would have been on for days before are now arguments for couple of hours.
When your little voice inside feels lost and tells you “I don’t know what to do right now.” While fighting with your partner. Well Bruce knows.
His program gives you all the tools you needs to have a loving and peaceful relationship. You still need to put the work on.
Bruce doesn’t do that for you but will definitely do that with you. It works though. A fight that would have been on for days before are now arguments for couple of hours. Soon it will be no more I am sure of it.
My husband wouldn’t do the course but even doing it on my own has made a real difference.
I joined the course by myself when my 15 year marriage to my husband hit complete rock bottom. He was angry and blaming me for all our problems and I was just so sad and lonely.
Over the seven weeks of the course I have learnt how to communicate with my husband in a safe way. My husband wouldn’t do the course but even doing it on my own has made a real difference.
We are now talking again, we are kissing and we are hugging. He has now agreed to do the course with me.
Bruce has given me really practical tools and techniques which are already repairing my marriage. I felt completely desperate before I joined the course, feeling like my husband was about to leave me. Now I feel like I am not walking out blindly into the next stage of my marriage.
Bruce has given me so much hope for the future of my marriage.
Our relationship improved very quickly.
This course was enlightening and thorough. Our relationship improved very quickly. We feel the tools we have gained will continue to help us through out our marriage.
Thank you Bruce for an amazing program that was convenient and affordable.
This course has transformed our relationship into one of loev and respect.
I am beyond grateful for Bruce and the course he has created.
Before this course, I was at a complete loss for how my husband and I could move forward witb our relationship. We were constantly disagreeing and very disconnected since having kids.
This course has transformed our relationship into one of loev and respect. It gives me so much hope for our diture ahead together.
Honestly, the information shared in this course is invaluable. There was not a sentence wasted. So many aha moments.
Thank you Bruce for sharing your wisdom and knowledge.
This is a listen, act and DO program. Just Nike it "Just Do It"
Your program goes a long way in helping people to use the 4 Wise men effectively. How, When Where Why.
Wonderful program that will work if you are committed to a successful life long partnership. Commitment means you may have to drop some less important things in your life to make the time to do the relationship course effective.
In other words this is priority One. This is a listen, act and DO program. Just Nike it “Just Do It”
The entire course was an AHA moment for me.
The entire course was an AHA moment for me. It was not anything that I had expected it to be. But exactly what we needed.
I knew from the moment that I listened to the webinar that this was exactly what we needed after having 6 couples counselor’s in our 27 years together (celebrated our 25th wedding anniversary this year!)The only counseling that helped at all was the 6th one we had and then this program was the most helpful of all.
My husband and I are finally able to understand each other better and resolve conflicts faster. We are not completely there yet but things are so much better.
There is no way to describe the wealth of knowledge or information in this program. After going through six different counselors over the course of 27 years to improve our marriage and resolve conflicts, this program is what has helped us do that.
In just seven weeks our marriage has improved immensely and we are excited and hopeful for what is in our future.
Thank you for everything Bruce!
This program is so amazing. I did this program as a single woman as I had recently separated from my partner.
My relationship with myself has changed. I have more awareness and a greater compassion and love and worth for myself. It’s ok to have needs and to express them. I’m so excited I have the tools to have a healthy, securely attached relationship with great connection and communication tools.
There is so much incredible wisdom and practical tools provided.
I wish I had the tools earlier. Bruce is also so lovely and wise. I recommend this program to everyone.
You learn priceless life lessons and practical tools that I hope everyone learns.
...the only course we have committed to and completed together during our 22 year marriage.
Bruce’s programme exceeded our expectations, our relationship was at rock bottom and we had been stuck for a very long time.
Apart from raising the children, it is the only course we have committed to and completed together during our 22 year marriage.
Bruce helped us to rebuild our friendship, unpick behaviors and skill us up going forward. The homework was exhausting but we stuck at it and thoroughly enjoyed the journey, thank you Bruce.
If there is a misunderstanding, I can now stop & think instead of assuming the worst & walking away.
From the pre-worksheets to the final video, this course has given me a revolutionary insight into myself, my partner (as he did the course with me) & our relationship.
If there is a misunderstanding, I can now stop & think instead of assuming the worst & walking away.
We are stronger than ever & use elements from the course regularly.
After 42 years of marriage, we were stuck and couldn't continue...Now, we are encouraging our newly engaged son to go through this with his fiancee.
After 42 years of marriage, we were stuck and couldn’t continue. We have read many books on marriage, attended and listened to marriage seminars and workshops, participated in individual and marriage counseling, went on a cruise focusing on marriage, and have even attended weeklong “schools” for counselors and pastors. While we received some helpful insights from each of these, we were still stuck. Even though we occupied and operated in the same house, our marriage had been essentially dead for over three years.
Last fall we each participated in separate intensive weekend retreats that brought a lot of insight and healing and freedom as individuals, but we were still stuck in destructive patterns. I continued to pursue learning, and found your Love at First Fight information. My husband said he was all in when I told him I had signed up for the course.
This program has given us practical tools that we have never owned. We have a better understanding of what each of us bring to the table. Our communication patterns were counter productive. This program has provided the means to relearn and apply productive understanding, communication and behavior.
The life-time access to the materials is allowing us to continue to learn, apply and connect. We are also excited about how these positive life-changing tools will affect our relationships with our children, their spouses, our grandchildren, and others in our lives.
We are encouraging our newly engaged son to go through this with his fiancee.
We wish we could have had access to the information in this course for our premarital counseling. We now have the tools and desire to continue growing and connecting in significant productive ways.
Thank you, Bruce.
There was no hope, until I came across Bruce and immediately we were hopeful.
Having gone through a couple of marriage counsellors and failed, we were stuck on the what to do next.
Almost felt like there was no hope, until I came across Bruce and immediately we were hopeful.
The program has not only helped our relationship but the tools we have been provided with will help us with all relationships.
Bless and enrich our union.
34 years into our 2nd marriage (we’re in our 70’s!), we were referred to this program. We discovered much about each other and ourselves that will bless and enrich our union.
I like to say, “Bruce has given us a new toolkit full of live tools for us to practice using.”
My relationship changed from 30% to 98%
This program was worth it . I thought my marriage was unfixable until I joined Love At First Fight. At some point I said I would go for a divorce.
But the program saved my marriage and it is like we just got married again. My relationship changed from 30% to 98%.
My hubby never agreed to join until the 5th week, but to my greatest surprise when I shared all my homework and assignments – there was one assignment that you would never believe will work.
I can agree with Bruce when you say Connect first and then communicate later – it’s a good strategy.
Bruce I must say so many marriages need you at the moment. Please permit me to invite them. I was scared because I was feeling mine was different because I am African. But I don’t think it has to do with where you come from .
This strategy is an eye opener and has changed my home.
Our relationship is greatly improved and we look forward to the journey together now.
Bruce knows his love! He is engaging, charismatic and makes the course fun. He is also direct (in a kind way), honest and inherently helpful. You really feel he wants the best for you and your relationship.
The course content is amazing! You learn not only about your relationship but also gain, a much deeper understanding of your part in the dynamics, a much better understanding of your partner and also yourself as an individual. The things you learn within the course can spill over beneficially into other relationships too.
This course packs a loving punch and we feel like better people for it. There were insights and ‘aha’s!’ every week. Our relationship is greatly improved and we look forward to the journey together now.
We have rediscovered our lost passion again!
Bruce, your course delivered more than I could have even hoped for.
Honestly, our 34 year marriage is experiencing a true renaissance. While we had no major upsets or infidelities, we had lost our connection and joy.
We feel connected, we are feeling joyful even, and we have rediscovered our lost passion again!
Your course has given us the tools to revitalize our relationship and move it to a much deeper level.
This program will provide as much personal growth and insight as it will relationship growth!
This program will provide as much personal growth and insight as it will relationship growth!
Bruce is extremely empathetic and knowledgeable and is easy to relate to – he feels more like a trustworthy friend than a coach.