Thank you for giving new life to my dying marriage.
This program is truly marriage saving! My marriage was on the edge of the cliff and I had one foot off the ledge ready to jump into the divorce pool.
We were so disconnected and every time we talked was a fight and it felt like the fight that was going to end it all. We both felt under appreciated , disconnected and unloved.
Within weeks of this course and putting in the work, our relationship changed! We were connecting every day (odd at first because we drift so far apart). After connected, it was easier to talk. We learned our fighting styles and it was a lightbulb moment and we used it to recognize why we were the way we are to each other.
In 7 weeks, my broken marriage has made 180 degree turn. We are connecting, communicating, fighting less, able to have hard conversations and are actually giving each other the love and appreciation we both needed.
Thank you for giving new life to my dying marriage
I feel heard! This is huge after not feeling heard for all these years.
The Conflict Cure was a God send that I happened upon on social media.
Over the 36 years we have been married we have had the same arguments just on different days. This program has given us tools, taught us how to safely communicate, encourage one another in a meaningful way, and so much more.
I feel heard! This is huge after not feeling heard for all these years.
We have sought counseling over the years that did nothing to improve our relationship. They seemed to be expensive gripe sessions and a waste of money.
The Conflict Cure is so different, with exercises to discover the basis of the emotional problems that led to hurt feelings and arguments, and ways to navigate and heal these issues. We are excited to see where it leads. We anticipate much happier retirement years by applying your teachings – wish we had it years ago!
I was very impressed and would recommend to everyone!
There was so much informative and helpful content and tools jam packed into this program.
A wealth of useful education and practical strategies to help any relationship in trouble, or simply to enhance any relationship.
I was very impressed and would recommend to everyone!
...the best is yet to come.
Participating in the Conflict Cure has given us the tools that we have been looking for.
It’s been such a gift to finally learn what it was that was keeping us trapped in a conflict stage for 30 years even with so much past love and effort, the materials, tools and sequences here have been fine tuned to truly work for anyone.
I wish we had found it earlier, Worth every penny.
We loved it so much we purchased the following program Better Together and look forward to the next stage of our lives together…the best is yet to come.
This course has saved our relationship and I will forever be grateful for it.
Me and my boyfriend of 5 years, butted heads a LOT! We were absolutely in a power struggle.
After taking this course and just 2 lessons in, we began to learn how to communicate with each other in a way that was calming to the other, without an argument arising in the midst of it. We have only had one instance come up about midway through the course and was able to immediately deescilate and end it, before it became a full fledged fight, just by using the tools we had learned in this course.
We have learned sooo much about everything we were doing wrong and why we were about to break up.
This course has saved our relationship and I will forever be grateful for it.
Thank you Bruce.
Thank you Bruce.
Your wonderful and powerful course has enriched our relationship and given us tools and new understanding that will lead us to a secure relationship and to enjoy each other and be supported to enjoy and manage life forever together.
This course brought peace and tranquility to our relationship.
This course brought peace and tranquility to our relationship.
Anyone who has been in a relationship for several years would benefit from this recharge.
We started loving one another and we became closer.
My wife and I fought all of the time. Someone would say something or we would disagree then we would get into a fight. Round and round we would go. We were pushing each other apart. I was looking for something to help us.
I found Bruce’s “Conflict Cure” in an advertisement on FB. I started the course myself. My wife was not interested in taking it. Within 2 days of us putting into practice the activities of module 1 we stopped fighting, and we started loving one another and we became closer.
This course saved my marriage! It made us feel more satisfied, connected and loved in our marriage.
I would recommend this course to anyone. It is wonderful!!
The Conflict Cure is truly a MIRACLE.
Dear Bruce,
First let me say how much this program has been saving our marriage.
After almost 13 years together we were finding ourselves stuck in the Power Struggle stage. (The exact description you used in the Instagram reel where I saw your program come across my feed. The reel that made me stop in my tracks and say, Holy Crap!! That’s US!) I felt it in my heart how much your words resonated with me in that reel.
I chose to attend your mastermind class, and after that, I KNEW that I had to delicately approach my partner with ONE MORE THING to try. And oh, how we have tried ALL. THE. THINGS!!!! I shared with him what I learned and even signed up AGAIN, so he could watch it.
And to my surprise, he agreed!
During the first 5 years of our marriage, we reveled in the blissful Romance Stage where we co-owned and operated a thriving landscape maintenance business where we worked happily side-by-side and were together 24/7! I ask you, how many married couples can DO THAT, and STILL remain married? Apparently, we thrived on it. Then after deciding 30 years in the landscape business was enough, (and so our aging bodies were telling us) we retired from that work and Brad moved on to a different, mid-life career path that slammed us both into a more traditional (and separate) employment role, where we only saw each other in the evenings and on weekends.
This was A HUGE and significant change in the dynamic of our life together. A challenge that was becoming increasingly difficult to navigate, even after 6 years of trying to adjust we found ourselves smack dab in the middle of your Power Struggle Stage. And the last 2 years especially, had been slowly and increasingly intensifying to the point where we were beginning to question how much longer we would even be together.
The enormous fire we once shared had become a dying coal buried under a soggy mountain of resentment, blame and ego. We were becoming desperate to find a way to re-ignite the flame between us. But we didn’t know how. We just knew, that underneath, the love was still there. We just needed the right TOOLS to fan it back to previous glory!
And that’s where you stepped in. Not even halfway through The Conflict Cure, we have found more connection in the last 3 weeks than we have had in YEARS! Our love flame has re-kindled and we are, oh so gently, breathing life back into its delicate heat. The techniques we are learning in this course are proving invaluable and incredibly compatible with our love values of kindness, gentleness, and respectfulness. Values we had temporarily forgotten in the struggle of this stage.
Brad has expressed to me that there is SO MUCH in this course to absorb, that he wants to restart it from the beginning upon its completion. And I agree wholeheartedly!
I have already recommended The Conflict Cure to MANY of my friends who would most definitely benefit from its magic!
Trust me when I say, that what The Conflict Cure has done for us in such a short amount of time is truly a MIRACLE in my book. You don’t realize HOW many things we have tried, all to no avail, which is kind of ironic considering how we met in the first place….in a Divorce Recovery Support Group! LOL! THAT particular tale is a long and beautiful one; that of an innocent friendship blossoming into an amazing love story.
I can’t thank you enough for this amazing program.
Many Blessings,
Carla & Brad Heins
A DEFINITE MUST for everyone!
This program was so full of knowledge and kept to a simple form to understand.
I wish if only I had discovered it years ago. The weekly modules were very easy to fit into your life day to day…A DEFINITE MUST for every one.
My husband and I have really begun making huge inroads on our relationship.
This course just works, if you want it to. With commitment and an open heart and mind, the knowledge path Bruce takes you on is worth every moment.
My husband and I have really begun making huge inroads on our relationship and we attribute this solely to the inspirational delivery of this course.
Thank you Bruce.
Bruce's programme helped my husband and me to come unstuck from a cycle of arguments.
Bruce’s programme helped my husband and me to come unstuck from a cycle of arguments and move forward into a connected and loving relationship where we now have effective tools to work through our difficult moments calmly.
Having tried relationship counselling in the past without result we both engaged in this accessible, clear and in depth program and got the results we were looking for.
Thank you Bruce for making the research so easy to understand, your analogies and examples resonated easily with me, the structure is and sequence of the modules works extremely well and the tools are invaluable and the whole course is so accessible.
After completing the program I have reconnected with the guy I fell in love with back then.
We’ve been together for 19 years, after completing the program I have reconnected with the guy I fell in love with back then.
It was a pleasure to do this course and a real eye opener.
Bruce has an amazing way of speaking that hits right at the heart. He is funny, empathetic and incredibly educated in this field. It was a pleasure to do this course and a real eye opener.
Helped me to realise that we are not the only ones with relationship issues – we are all the same, struggling to be loved, heard and understood. Thank you Bruce.
Our marriage is now flourishing.
I am incredibly grateful for the transformative experience that the Cure Conflicts course provided for my marriage.
Before enrolling, my spouse and I found ourselves stuck in a cycle of misunderstandings and arguments. This course equipped us with invaluable communication tools, fostering understanding and empathy. The expert guidance and practical techniques not only resolved conflicts but also strengthened our connection.
Our marriage is now flourishing, thanks to the skills we gained from this impactful course. We are now closer, we trust in each other with the confidence that we want the best for our relationship.
I wholeheartedly recommend it to anyone seeking to revive and enhance their relationship.
I loved the program and wholeheartedly recommend it to any couple.
Loveatfirstfight is the first relationship program I’ve taken that actually makes sense!
Bruce tackles real life situations with real life solutions that really can’t fail if both partners are invested and committed to each other.
I loved the program and wholeheartedly recommend it to any couple, whether they are struggling, or not.
We're head over heels in love again!
The Conflict Cure was the miracle that was truly God sent. I was at the most helpless moment in my relationship. My fiancé was leaving me for another woman, there was no way to change his mind, he was moving out. I got down on my knees to pray for a miracle, the next morning I stumbled on Bruce’s video on FB.
I signed up immediately because he said I could single handedly save my relationship, I had nothing to lose. My fiancé didn’t wanna take the course, but when he saw the changes in me, he slowly turned around, the started to do the course with me.
We had so many AHA moments and by the end of week 5, he proposed we get married this year. By the end of week 6, we had set a wedding date, his infatuation with the other woman completely faded, and we’re head over heels in love again! We’re actively and happily making wedding plans!
Thank you Bruce, you’re truly God sent!
The world would be a better place if we all had these skills.
This program everyone should take. It is not a course just for couples struggling. This course provides all the vital information for any healthy relationship! The world would be a better place if we all had these skills.
I’m not in a relationship now, and I took this course. I wanted to find out why I couldn’t make a relationship work and what skills I needed.
I am so grateful to you Bruce. In eight weeks, I already feel more aware, knowledgeable, confident, and capable of attracting and being in a healthier relationship. I’ve even shared so much of this information with friends that probably eight of my friends have signed up.
It is the best course out there!
This program should be mandatory for all couples - it would have saved us years of suffering.
This program should be mandatory for all couples – it would have saved us years of suffering. I am so glad that I know about it now, because it reframes what feels like personal slights into a broader context of human attachment patterns.
This makes it easier to identify and rectify exactly where and why the relationship is breaking down, and how to fix it in an way that makes both people feel seen, heard, valued, safe, and loved.
I regret the years I spent in my marriage taking things personally and not taking responsibility for my own behaviour. Now I know two things I never thought I would: how to feel safe and how to be happy. Years 18 of our marriage is finally looking bright.
Thank you Bruce!
I now feel more capable, and therefore less afraid, when things come up.
Wow, wow, wow!!! The thoroughness, clarity and value of this course work offers a game changer.
When I began I was utterly shattered, frustrated and feeling despair in my current relationship, and in relating with my son’s father. I have historically leaned towards being conciliatory, and absolutely averse to any conflict, always compromising myself in a commitment to harmony which was therefore never true harmony.
All that Bruce models in this course work has been an answer to my prayers, as I didn’t have such examples to draw upon previously for how to deal with conflict.
I now feel more capable, and therefore less afraid, when things come up. Just being able to be more relaxed, by having greater awareness and effective tools, is helping me in all of my relating.
I’m wildly grateful that this body of work exists and is so easily absorbable. I looked forward to each video and inspiration. I feel a great hope for the first time in a long time.
Thank you, Bruce!!
Even working alone I have seen improvement with our relationship as I have new skills to utilize.
This program has been well worth the time and expense. I strongly recommend it to anyone wanting to improve or save their relationship with their spouse/partner.
Even working alone I have seen improvement with our relationship as I have new skills to utilize. Learning about my own patterns and the ways that I react to situations has truly shined a light on how I can become a better communicator and to get my needs met.
Thank you Bruce for this opportunity- Rachael
The whole course had me wowed from beginning to end.
If you want to cure conflict within your relationship, then this is a must! The whole course had me wowed from beginning to end.
The vast knowledge you will receive has been gathered by highly respected professionals in their individual field of expertise. They have done the hard work you just need to listen to what has been proven to work.
It is amazing how much the insight of others can change your whole outlook on a situation and all for the better.
You will enjoy the time you spend with Bruce Muzik who hosts the program as he walks you through the course. I even found myself eager for the next Module to arrive.
You will receive important information and tools throughout the course, but it is not all serious it’s fun too.
If you value your relationship, just sign up! You won’t regret it!
There is an increase in the trust between us and a decrease in fear and resentment.
Quite simply, the best course I have ever done.
I have been able to apply these learnings and tools in my relationship with my husband, our children, my parents and friends, and my colleagues. My ability as a manager of people in teams to achieve outcomes in high pressure situations has become next level.
The connection between us has strengthened, as has the love and affection. Our conflicts no longer escalate into fights. There is an increase in the trust between us and a decrease in fear and resentment.
We can talk now.
We have been ambicable separated For five years.
This program Was so worth it in a number of ways.
First of all you feel like Bruce is right there with so knowledgeable and so easy to understand what he is trying to get across to you.
I have been married, and we have been ambicable separated For five years. We are trying now to see what our next steps should be .
Thus program has helped us so much we both feel better about making a decision than we ever have and we all right with not knowing and taking the information we have gotten from the program and process it and take our time !
H thank you Bruce
We started to understand each other 100% more.
We’ve been together for twenty-eight years, and whilst we’d had our ups and downs, we were living peacefully enough but I was feeling lonely within the relationship and David was missing a loving, physical relationship.
When we learned the different languages of love, apologies, and the different ways of protesting, also the significance of bidding, we started to understand each other 100% more.
The things we have learned to do are sustainable, because they make sense, and we are now looking forward to our future with excitement and interest.
This program is revolutionary!
This program is revolutionary! So much valuable information and tools…no need to let your relationship suffer any more. Highly recommend!!
I can hardly believe the results of this transformation.
When I proposed this course to my husband, I was grasping at straws. My efforts, as well as our visits to the psychologist, did not make much progress in reviving our relationship.
This course we received exceeded all our expectations and the results started to appear after the first week. What is important, Bruce managed to gain the interest and attention of my husband and managed to awaken his understanding, empathy and love. He also managed to point out the things I need to do to make our relationship work.
Today I have a man who is warmer and gentler than he has ever been, and I can hardly believe the results of this transformation. Sometimes I wonder if it will last.
I think that during this course we both learned how to work on our relationship and how to solve problems before they turn into something bad.
In any case, I am very happy at this moment and I want to enjoy what I have been dreaming about for years.
A structure on which we can rely on.
Good analyse of the couple dynamics, helps to setup a structure on which we can rely on to react in a better way to various issues.
This program truly saved our relationship.
I highly recommend this course to anyone struggling in their relationship.
My partner and I had really rough months before joining this program, with so many fights and frustration and threats to our relationship. This program completely changed the way we see our relationship and how we deal with our conflicts, with our challenges, with our differences.
It taught us to listen. It taught us how to be a team. It gave us new beliefs about the relationship that make so much more sense and make so much better than the conventional wisdom.
It truly saved our relationship and I could not have been more grateful to Bruce for that.
By far the best investment I’ve ever made.
I feel powerful for the first time in years...If you are hesitating, DON'T.
I wish I had taken this course when I first got married 15 years ago. I felt hopeless at the beginning of this course, but it has given me hope that these tools can truly change relationships. Thank you, thank you.
I feel powerful for the first time in years, and I am changing how I show up in our relationship.
I signed up for this course as a last ditch effort to save a marriage that everyone I know has been telling me to leave for years. He is definitely the explosive one in our marriage and I have been so shut down. Realizing that we are both playing a role in things made me feel powerful enough to show up differently and effect change, not just in my marriage but in my relationships in general. I learned tools that are helping me as a parent.
I thought I had read every relationship book out there, but this teaches you how to go deeper, gives you steps and tools to follow, and helps you get so much insight into the WHY of what’s happening. If you are hesitating, DON’T.
If we hadn't taken it or hadn't committed to it, it would likely be the end of us.
This course was seen by my partner as a last resort and if we hadn’t taken it or hadn’t committed to it, it would likely be the end of us.
Instead we learnt an incredible amount about who we are individually and how that affects our relationship. What I needed most was concrete tools because I wanted to work on fixing our relationship but had no idea how to do it and where to start.
This need was fulfilled brilliantly through the Conflict Cure course.
And while we still have a long way to go, we are in a much better place than when we started the course and are now working on how to keep improving rather than wondering if this relationship will continue.
Whether you just started dating or have been married for years!
I would recommend the Love At First Fight course to anyone – whether you just started dating or have been married for years!
It is an insightful course, that will not only help your relationship, but also help you grow as an individual.
I really appreciate the knowledge that Bruce shared with us!
Our relationship was pretty much over, my partner had left...
Our relationship was pretty much over, my partner had left, if i didnt find this course we wouldnt have made it any further, we were very deep in the “power struggle” stage and just didnt know how to get out.. this course has moved us closer, we are now talking and working on a new version of us.
After 40 years of marriage, one would think we had found all of the answers! But there is always more to learn.
This course is a life changer.
Conflict is a relationship is a given. This course shows you a simple way to navigate those rocky times with kindness. That was what was missing between my husband and I. Kind negotiation was what we learned. And we discovered we could use these tools outside of our relationship.
After 40 years of marriage, one would think we had found all of the answers! But there is always more to learn.
It is definitely worth every penny!
This program is nothing short of transformational!
This program is nothing short of transformational!
We worked the entire program together as it was provided, did all the exercises, and made the time and effort a priority. It was hard. It was emotional. It required courage. It required persistence.
It was ALL worth it!
We have learned how to better stay present and care for each other's needs.
We suggest this course to anyone in relationships. We have learned how to better stay present and care for each others needs while in a place of emotional self protection.
This has also helped us tp be able to discuss difficult topics while putting aside defensiveness.
What we thought was a Hail Mary actually worked!
Our relationship had all 10 warning signs that it’s in danger. Even with couples and individual counseling, we felt like we were stuck in a bad situation after 25 years of being together. Divorce might be the only solution left until I stumbled on Bruce’s master class video.
To my surprise, my husband was willing to try the conflict cure course with me. We both assumed the other person had given up while deep down we still loved each other.
Connection first, communication later was a big AHA moment for us.
The program provided many tools for us to better understand each other and better communicate our needs. We are now on the right track and no longer display any of the 10 warning signs.
What we thought was a Hail Mary actually worked! – Diana
I persisted and I am happy that I did.
I was initially skeptical that some stranger from South Africa could be of help to an American/British and even after the first session I was not sure I would continue. However I persisted and I am happy that I did.
While Bruce’s stories were sometimes corny, he has a way of using them to make a point resonate well. I complete the course in the allotted time and find myself relating with my partner and other people in a much healthier way.
Thank you Bruce.
The course is not easy, but it’s very rewarding and totally worth the effort it took.
This course really changed my partner and I’s outlook on not only our relationship but each other as people.
We now have a better understanding of who we are innately. Which has allowed for more intimacy and vulnerability to be created. We have grown so much through this. It also taught us that we can go through hard things together.
The course is not easy, but it’s very rewarding and totally worth the effort it took.
We are already saying we want to do it again at some point. 🙂
He saw the change in me.
When I listen to each model, I either go ”Yes! that make a lot of sense” ”Wow! that’s what I need to implement next”
Thank you Bruce. I enjoy your program and love how you speak to me with truth and kindness on what ”I” can do in order to get the results I need so I can be confident about myself and to be a better person and a better role model for others especially my children.
Your program changed me and as a matter of fact my husband (who hasn’t started the program yet), told me that he had paid to have lifetime access to the program this morning and will catch up.
Why? because he saw the change in me. Because he sees value in your program for our family’s sake and wants to help us connect even more and better. I can’t wait to discover our-selves together and to move our relationship closer to maturity level.
You are right, no need to force your partner to do anything.
Have to say he was happy to do find his apology language and to do a reflective conversation with me once 🙂
This program is a gold mine of information delivered by a great man.
My name is Della Keen and I truly believe this program is a gold mine of information within a structured setting that is delivered by a great man who is very well educated in the topic of helping and healing broken and/or damaged marriages, relationships and etc.
Knowledge is power. He delivers that in abundance. I’m so blessed to have came across this on the internet. Wish I would have been given this chance a long long time ago.
Thank you Bruce Muzik for your “Love At First Fight” counseling program.
We've grown and are able to see where things are going before they happen.
The Love at First Fight program is great if you want to save your relationship. You’ll soon realize after starting the program that the negative patterns that taint your relationship become a thing of the past. You will soon once again connect with your partner and feel as if you’re getting to know them all over again.
My wife seems happier since we started the program. Things that used to bother her seem less important now. She seems to have regained hope and that’s great. I also feel we’ve grown and are able to see where things are going before they happen. It’s led to less conflicts and we’re there for each other rather than against.
The program is non-intrusive and leads to personal growth rather than blaming one or the other. I was hesitant at first but was pleasantly surprised at how well it went and its impact on us.
"Connect first, communicate later" is a true game-changer.
The program is based on principles that made me feel safe and understood. Not broken and at fault.
“Connect first, communicate later” is a true game-changer.
“Whatever isn’t love is just a misunderstanding” is also a great understanding or reframe.
Bruce seems to actually believe in love and truly value relationships!
Unlike many other therapists and even relationship coaches who are very relativistic about the topic and eager to discount a relationship on some intellectual, rational grounds. But we’re talking about love here, and no rational calculation is enough to make a marriage work.
Throughout the program Bruce was being helpful and kind and his light manner and sense of humor made for a warm and understanding atmosphere.
The amount of knowledge about what makes relationships work in real life this course contains is impressive. And best of all, none of it is “how it should be”, but it’s all based in pragmatism, in what works, in studies of real couples.
This is a truly comprehensive program which touches on spiritual and sexual aspects of a relationship as well.
I recommend Bruce Muzik as mentor to anyone at any stage of a committed relationship.
We feel closer then we have ever felt before. Truly saved our marriage.
My husband and I began this course at each others throats! We were the definition of insanity, our families worried about our stability, as we often used them to vent to.
We have been married 16 years, all of which were alongside my husbands military career. Since his retirement, we fell into arguing and fighting daily, we both lost hope and we’re on path for separation and divorce.
When I found Bruce, it was a free 2 hour masterclass that revitalized my faith that we haven’t tried everything, and that this course could be our way back to each other!
My husband and I were astounded at even just the first couple weeks how much relief we felt together. There was definitely some hard things to face, and accept; but the program helped us see light at the end of the tunnel.
We worked through heartbreaking things and we feel closer then we have ever felt before. Learning attachment styles and personality types was a game changer.
If you’re hopeless and tried it all, before you throw in the towel for good please try this- you have so much to gain! I will forever be grateful the universe aligned and I found this program. Truly saved our marriage.
The first counseling that placed greater emphasis on uncovering why I react the way I do and strategies to effectively deescalate the conflict.
My spouse and I have participated in couples counseling in person on 2 separate occasions with 2 different therapists. We have learned our flaws and the root causes that escalated our conflicts into what I described as running gun battles with words and emotions.
This is the first counseling that placed greater emphasis on uncovering why I react the way I do and strategies to effectively deescalate the conflict before it becomes toxic.
More valuable to us than a year of counseling.
This program is the real deal. It causes you to go deep and learn about yourself and your partner and gives you actual tools that you can use to make real change.
It is a game changer for both personal development and relationships and was more valuable to us than a year of counseling.
Seven week program did more for our marriage than a years worth of traditional in-person couples counseling.
Bruce – Your seven week program did more for our marriage than a years worth of traditional in-person couples counseling.
Thank you for your help and dedication to saving and restoring marriages.
Justin
I've read a lot of books about relationships, but nothing has compared to this course.
This program was extremely helpful to me, especially in understanding reoccurring conflict. It was the one thing tearing up our marriage. My husband was blaming it all on me!
I didn’t understand that it is actually normal in a marriage and that it is NOT all my fault and can be fixed! I’ve read a lot of books about relationships, but nothing has compared to this course.
I don’t know how I found it but I am so so grateful I did. The information is priceless.
TAKE THE COURSE, it will help.
I’m not a person that likes take help classes, I taken a few, my wife and I went to counseling to 4 different therapist. Some help, but never just dove into reconnecting, before you can deal with the problem, Just talked about what the problem at hand was.
I believe, which not always . That you can take nuggets out of any courses you take, Bruce’s course had many nuggets for me. Yes, done things didn’t connect with me, but enough did and really help my relationship, probably the most , no The Most in any relationship help threapy we taken.
Sorry for the rambling.
TAKE THE COURSE,it will help.
My husband and I were practically divorced. Now we're back together!
Bruce is just a wonderful human. I admire the love and compassion he radiates.
My husband and I were practically divorced. The program really taught us so much, especially how we lost our connection and ways to get it back. Now we’re back together!
Thank you for your dedication to saving couples! We love you!