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This program is so amazing. I did this program as a single woman as I had recently separated from my partner.

My relationship with myself has changed. I have more awareness and a greater compassion and love and worth for myself. It’s ok to have needs and to express them. I’m so excited I have the tools to have a healthy, securely attached relationship with great connection and communication tools.

There is so much incredible wisdom and practical tools provided.

I wish I had the tools earlier. Bruce is also so lovely and wise. I recommend this program to everyone.

You learn priceless life lessons and practical tools that I hope everyone learns.

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Melissa Parker

...the only course we have committed to and completed together during our 22 year marriage.


Bruce’s programme exceeded our expectations, our relationship was at rock bottom and we had been stuck for a very long time.

Apart from raising the children, it is the only course we have committed to and completed together during our 22 year marriage.

Bruce helped us to rebuild our friendship, unpick behaviors and skill us up going forward.  The homework was exhausting but we stuck at it and thoroughly enjoyed the journey, thank you Bruce.

 

 

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Rachel and Neil Macdonald

If there is a misunderstanding, I can now stop & think instead of assuming the worst & walking away.


From the pre-worksheets to the final video, this course has given me a revolutionary insight into myself, my partner (as he did the course with me) & our relationship.

If there is a misunderstanding, I can now stop & think instead of assuming the worst & walking away.

We are stronger than ever & use elements from the course regularly. 

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Laura Bailey

After 42 years of marriage, we were stuck and couldn't continue...Now, we are encouraging our newly engaged son to go through this with his fiancee.


After 42 years of marriage, we were stuck and couldn’t continue. We have read many books on marriage, attended and listened to marriage seminars and workshops, participated in individual and marriage counseling, went on a cruise focusing on marriage, and have even attended weeklong “schools” for counselors and pastors. While we received some helpful insights from each of these, we were still stuck. Even though we occupied and operated in the same house, our marriage had been essentially dead for over three years.

Last fall we each participated in separate intensive weekend retreats that brought a lot of insight and healing and freedom as individuals, but we were still stuck in destructive patterns. I continued to pursue learning, and found your Love at First Fight information. My husband said he was all in when I told him I had signed up for the course.

This program has given us practical tools that we have never owned. We have a better understanding of what each of us bring to the table. Our communication patterns were counter productive. This program has provided the means to relearn and apply productive understanding, communication and behavior.

The life-time access to the materials is allowing us to continue to learn, apply and connect. We are also excited about how these positive life-changing tools will affect our relationships with our children, their spouses, our grandchildren, and others in our lives.

We are encouraging our newly engaged son to go through this with his fiancee.

We wish we could have had access to the information in this course for our premarital counseling. We now have the tools and desire to continue growing and connecting in significant productive ways.

Thank you, Bruce.

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Miriam and DuWayne Heppner

There was no hope, until I came across Bruce and immediately we were hopeful.


Having gone through a couple of marriage counsellors and failed, we were stuck on the what to do next.

Almost felt like there was no hope, until I came across Bruce and immediately we were hopeful.

The program has not only helped our relationship but the tools we have been provided with will help us with all relationships.

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Dilly Hibbert

Bless and enrich our union.


34 years into our 2nd marriage (we’re in our 70’s!), we were referred to this program. We discovered much about each other and ourselves that will bless and enrich our union.

I like to say, “Bruce has given us a new toolkit full of live tools for us to practice using.”

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Mitchell Jim

My relationship changed from 30% to 98%


This program was worth it . I thought my marriage was unfixable until I joined Love At First Fight. At some point I said I would go for a divorce.

But the program saved my marriage and it is like we just got married again. My relationship changed from 30% to 98%.

My hubby never agreed to join until the 5th week, but to my greatest surprise when I shared all my homework and assignments – there was one assignment that you would never believe will work.

I can agree with Bruce when you say Connect first and then communicate later – it’s a good strategy.

Bruce I must say so many marriages need you at the moment. Please permit me to invite them. I was scared because I was feeling mine was different because I am African. But I don’t think it has to do with where you come from .

This strategy is an eye opener and has changed my home.

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Chisom Adigo

Our relationship is greatly improved and we look forward to the journey together now.


Bruce knows his love! He is engaging, charismatic and makes the course fun. He is also direct (in a kind way), honest and inherently helpful. You really feel he wants the best for you and your relationship.

The course content is amazing! You learn not only about your relationship but also gain, a much deeper understanding of your part in the dynamics, a much better understanding of your partner and also yourself as an individual. The things you learn within the course can spill over beneficially into other relationships too.

This course packs a loving punch and we feel like better people for it. There were insights and ‘aha’s!’ every week. Our relationship is greatly improved and we look forward to the journey together now.

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Angie & Gavin Dearsley

We have rediscovered  our lost passion again!


Bruce, your course delivered more than I could have even hoped for.

Honestly, our 34 year marriage is experiencing a true renaissance. While we had no major upsets or infidelities, we had lost our connection and joy.

We feel connected, we are feeling joyful even, and we have rediscovered  our lost passion again!

Your course has given us the tools to revitalize our relationship and move it to a much deeper level.

 

 

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Star Bradbury

This program will provide as much personal growth and insight as it will relationship growth!


This program will provide as much personal growth and insight as it will relationship growth!

Bruce is extremely empathetic and knowledgeable and is easy to relate to – he feels more like a trustworthy friend than a coach.

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Natalie Wilke

Personally your program uncovered what years of therapy I've been through has not been able to figure out.


Going through it solo while still married and ending the program closer to divorce, might seem like your program doesn’t work.

However, I didn’t go through the effort needed to save my marriage because that wasn’t the intention for me taking the course and I have since reached a point that I don’t want the marriage, to much regret and resentment that more the of us want to put in the time to work through.

But I do know that personally your program uncovered what years of therapy I’ve been through has not been able to figure out. As well as new found confidence in myself that will no doubt only get better.

I was also able to pinpoint various contributing factors that led to my upcoming divorce, and had we not waiting so long to get your help …. we could have easily turned things around, no doubt in my mind.

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Teresa Hodecker

I have felt a shift in my marriage and we are both happier as a result.


I am so thankful for the programme.

It has helped me gain insight about myself, my behaviours and what I bring to my marriage.

By doing so, I have felt a shift in my marriage and we are both happier as a result.

Its a wonderful programme, requires effort, but well worth it.

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Ghada Salim Renner

The program provided me with healing in my heart and mind.


Love At First Fight is something I did as a single person. I wanted to work on myself to be ready to able and ready to have a healthy relationship with the right person in the future.

The program provided me with insight about myself within relationships. It also helped me to look at past relationships with a different perspective that provided healing in my heart and mind about them.

I believe that with practice, I will have a strong skill set to apply to my relationships with family, friends, and the relationship that will come into my future.

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Lisa Rose

Even my therapist was asking what course I was taking.


I learned more about myself and my relationship dynamics in this class than any other course I’ve taken.

The material peels back the onion and goes deep.

I combined it with therapy and even my therapist was asking what course I was taking. She noticed how much reflection I was having on my relationship.

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Mary Ambrose

The course initiated some very intense, in-depth genuine conversations – probably more open and honest conversations in the last 7 weeks than we had over our 40 year relationship put together.


40 years together/ 1 year divorced.   We were both in a bad place with each other. 

Maybe it was meant to be – but I enrolled for the course, and through some very limited emailing, he said he was interested in doing it as well.

So we have completed this course in tandem, but have called on our experiences from when we were together.  We have been meeting weekly to complete the exercises as best we can, given that we are no longer together.

The course initiated some very intense, in-depth genuine conversations – probably more open and honest conversations in the last 7 weeks than we had over our 40 year relationship put together.

The tools provided have been instrumental in allowing us to communicate, connect and hear each other, probably for the first time in a very long time, if ever.

We have covered pretty much every subject and issue that was a relationship killer for us – and we also pondered on how much time and effort was wasted and lost across all those years. 

It has brought closure to a lot of issues that were bumps in the road for a long time, but which became insurmountable mountains by the end and caused the marriage to breakdown. 

Yesterday we even agreed that had we had these tools, and known how to use them, it could have probably saved our marriage. And we fantasized how good our time together could have been, and what our retirement now might have been like.  

I suggested a get-together with our grown children and everyone was keen.  It all fell into place very easily.   We all met up last weekend down in Byron Bay to see a favourite family band, and then spent the weekend together (a first since he and I separated nearly 5 years ago).  And it was lovely. 

Everyone commented on how harmonious and relaxed it all was – none of the angst they were used to. And I think I can speak for both of us, that it was very calm and enjoyable. 

We have both learned a lot about each other and about ourselves through the program, and I would like to thank you for having the insight to put this program together. 

The ability to communicate and connect should be incorporated into the schooling system to assist with the emotional development of young people.  

It is invaluable in being understood and understanding another person – be it in relationships/friendships or other.  And even more invaluable connecting.

 

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Jeanette Murphy

Amazing how in just 7 weeks, my wife and I could achieve so much toward building a stronger, more intimate relationship.


It was amazing how in just 7 weeks, my wife and I could achieve so much toward building a stronger, more intimate relationship.

We have had a lot more intimate conversations and have taken time to get to know each other on a deeper level.  It’s helped us appreciate each other more and why we are the way we are…and how to work with each others’ personality a bit better.

Bruce has done a great job hand-selecting the right topics and organizing them in the most impactful manner that allowed us to build on each week.

 

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Tony Castronovo

I wish I had discovered this program a lot sooner!


If you are willing to trust Bruce and work the program, it will be life-changing for your relationship.

You will have a renewed sense of emotional connection, intimacy, and overall joy between you and your partner.  I wish I had discovered this program a lot sooner!

You need to charge more money.  Bruce, I would have paid a lot more for such a wonderful transformation with my partner!

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Lee Heffernan

I took it on my own I learned lots about myself.


I have enjoyed the program, it wasn’t too long and I learned lots of very useful tools and information.

Loved the coaching calls and I got tons of great advice just listening to them. I took it on my own I learned lots about myself. I keep slowly applying it in my relationship.

Hopeful I can single-handedly change my relationship for better.

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Gabriela Howard

It was great to have a booster shot in the arm for our relationship.


This is a great program if you are working on a relationship, or want to know yourself better in preparation for a future relationship. 

I highly recommend it for all humans in relationship with other humans if you want to have deep , delicious relationships. 

I have been married for 41 years and it was great to have a booster shot in the arm for our relationship.

Cindy.

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Cindy Muro

I honestly cannot recall ever being as happy as I am now.


I highly recommend this program to any couple whose relationship is in jeopardy, or who just want to be closer to each other, communicate effectively and learn strategies to navigate conflicts that will inevitably arise.

Bruce is an gifted mentor who spends real time with participants, listens carefully (using the techniques he teaches), and provides thoughtful, useful and specific advice. The program provides excellent value for the price, and was invaluable to me.

Communication is more honest, open, vulnerable and immediate. We understand ourselves, and each other, much better. Both of us are happier and less stressed. I honestly cannot recall ever being as happy as I am now.

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Michael Keleher

Way more helpful than all of the couples therapy we have ever done!


Way more helpful than all of the couples therapy we have ever done!

The course addresses actual problems and gives actual solutions that work in the real world instead of trying to give tools they think “should” work with an ideal partner in a perfect world that doesn’t exist.

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Michelle Matias

Relationship status update - 6 months after taking your course.


Dear Bruce,

I attended your relationship course in Oct-Nov 2021 (by myself), and I wanted to share with you a positive update: my boyfriend of 2 years proposed to me recently, on our anniversary day.
When I first reached out to you last year, I felt quite frustrated and helpless, thinking that our relationship might have no future. You made me realize my mistakes right from your first email response – and how I, alone, can turn things around, even without my boyfriends’ participation in the course. You were right. I followed your advice and I also read and applied “The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work” in John Gottman’s book. And it worked!
I wanted to thank you once again for all your advice and support – it has made a great difference in our relationship! Going forward, I will continue to apply the lessons learned and recommend your relationship course to others – because now I know, from my own experience, that they work.
With much appreciation,
Laura
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Laura Lacatis

I learned so many things that I had never heard of through years of couples counseling!


This is a fantastic program!

I learned so many things that I had never heard of through years of couples counseling! These things made total sense and I feel the tools were able to help us build up a strong foundation again.

I learned a lot about both myself and my husband and it was all very eye opening!

Highly recommend this program for anyone having marriage struggles!

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Laura Granston

In eight weeks he achieved what years of marriage counseling did not.


Bruce’s structured approach to communicating with your significant other will leave you feeling heard and understood.

In eight weeks he achieved what years of marriage counseling did not.

Bruce gets  right into the thick of it. No cliché solutions, no wasted time.

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Estela Sainz

I believe, it should be taught at schools.


I found this thorough and highly entertaining program extremely educational for understanding and improving my relationships with others and self.

The constructive relational skills it teaches are deeply steeped in scientific research and are relevant not just to couples but in all contexts of human interactions.

It is so fundamental, I believe, it should be taught at schools.

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Nicoletta Babbs

Our relationship was an absolute nightmare and on the brink of ending for good...


Thank you Bruce!

Our relationship was an absolute nightmare and on the brink of ending for good, with the inability to communicate safely, the love completely one sided, regular blow outs and extreme emotional pain, but finally thanks to your online program and guidance we are reconnected, happy and having fun together again and feeling very positive about our future together.

You have literally saved our relationship and no words can thank you enough for that!

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Sarah Cutting

Worth the investment in your marriage!


Bruce is a wealth of knowledge. He packages many psychological principles into one easy-to-follow guide.

The tools you will learn are extremely useful and the group dynamic allows for sharing of trial and error.

Worth the investment in your marriage!

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Caitlin Marsh

Better myself for not just in my marriage, but in life.


The Love at First Fight Program has helped me to better communicate with my husband and others.

It has made me realize things that I can work on to better myself for not just in my marriage, but in life. I truly believe that a couple going through this program may have success in their relationship.

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Gina Lamb

I will be growing for years to come...


Bruce brings so much passion and excitement to helping you grow your relationship. His desire to build up each individual into their most alive and fulfilled self and then bring them together is inspiring.

I will be growing for years to come from his wisdom and insights.

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Dawson Grau

Nothing brought us closer than Love at First Fight.


This course brought to me afresh understanding of myself and in sharing this with my Wife, then her sharing what she discovered about herself, lead us to understand both our selves and each other in a way that cannot be expressed without understating the worth.

We had the “blame game” being played to the fullest and it is being taken out.

Also the tools brought to us in this program brought us to communicating instead of talking at each other.

We’ve tried other courses for couples and even counselling, nothing brought us closer than Love at First Fight.

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Scott Wheeler

I feel like this content should be part of our curriculum in the education systems it is that valuable.


In our years of struggles in our marriage we have gone to a marriage counselor, read several books etc., this course, by far, was the most valuable and provided real life tools to help in beginning to heal, grow and repair our relationship. 

We have tools to direct improved communication, we have shared more vulnerability in the last 8 weeks than we have in our 38 years together (35 married).

This truly is worth every penny and more.  I feel like this content should be part of our curriculum in the education systems it is that valuable.

Bruce has done a fantastic job with the right content, and how the program is laid out.  I can’t say enough about the program.

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Patti Boegeman

The program was a huge surprise.


The program was a huge surprise.

Learning about just how many other couples are experiencing the same things we have been going through.

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Gil Glastetter

I've become more open and willing to engage on sensitive topics, feelings, and hurts.


I’ve become more open and willing to engage on sensitive topics, feelings, and hurts.  I’ve become more open to hers as well.

Bruce’s program is exceptional.  It’s enlightening, challenging, and well worth it! 

It is understandable and provides proven strategies to spur authentic communication and genuine connection.

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Andrew Swilling

The program helped us reconnect after 19 years of marriage.


The program helped us reconnect after 19 years of marriage.

Taking the time to talk and create intimacy was just what we needed. We learned skills needed to open communication back up again.

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Kristin Petrelius

How to grow personally and together in a healthy and happy relationship.


I really enjoyed to attend Bruce’s Program, very interesting, enlightening and useful to everyone wishing to know the dynamic of love and human relationships.

Whether in a relationship to improve it or preparing to start a new one with awareness and confidence, I think this Program gives all the tools and inputs on how to grow personally and together in a healthy and happy relationship.

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Alessandra Farneti

We were angry with each other most days and did not know what to do... One of the BEST decisions we made in our marriage!


We do not have enough words to express how grateful we are for taking Bruce’s “Married At First Fight” coaching program.  His program has truly been a blessing and was much needed at the time we signed up. 

We were really struggling to just converse with each other over little or big topics. We were angry with each other most days and did not know what to do. 

I came across an advertisement of Bruce’s program and signed up.  I told my husband after I signed up and asked him if he would join me in attending. I know he was tired of the way we were communicating also and he agreed to participate.

One of the BEST decisions we made in our marriage! The tools, exercises and coaching provided to us by Bruce was phenomenal!

Thank you, thank you, thank you Bruce!

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Crayton and Rosalind Williams

I have learned more in these 7 weeks about how to talk to my partner than all 12 sessions with a private counselor...


I found this program to be so enlightening to my own behavior and understanding how my words and actions affect my partner.

The program showed me how changing my dynamic could improve my marriage, even without my partner participating. I have been obsessively reading, watching videos and trying to learn everything I could about relationships to save mine before finding this program.

Bruce puts all the research by leaders in the field into digestible chunks that would have saved me weeks of research, and what’s more is the research alone won’t fix your marriage. You need to learn how to apply it, this does that.

We previously had 12 sessions with a counselor and made no progress. I have learned more in these 7 weeks about how to talk to my partner than all 12 sessions with a private counselor and feel like I can still use these tools to move forward.

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Christina Saraiva

I will definitely refer my friends to your program.


I will definitely refer my friends to your program, and use the tools I have learned in my day to day life, as well as any future relationship I may enter into.

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Coleen Ashmore

I would strongly recommend that people take Bruce's course. 


I have never been a believer in taking marriage counseling courses or seeing a marriage counselor, but I would strongly recommend that people take Bruce’s course. 

Bruce does a fantastic job explaining things with real life examples and really makes you feel comfortable about your own situation and teaches you some wonderful tools that can really make the difference.

Bruce’s philosophy of connecting first, then communicating after, is one example that I believe will make all the difference in a relationship.

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Morrie Tobin

This program should be done by every individual on earth, whether in a relationship or not.


This program is phenomenal. I did the EST training when I was 8 years old in 1978, and since that time filled my life with trainings of all sorts. I have read and done several of the various techniques that Bruce brought to this course and was familiar with almost everything. My previous work was all done independently, at random, and not until Bruce’s workshop, where he skillfully provided a guided format was I able to connect all the dots, to see a view like never before, a result like no other in regards to relationships. 

What’s SO BRILLIANT about what you, Bruce, have done is that you have put all these amazing tools and techniques and research together in such a way that it has the most profound effect I have ever experienced in my life in regards to personal transformation. You had the bigger view to see what pieces needed to be put in place to make the “relationship puzzle” complete, for my own relationship to become a more transparent, loving, communicative relationship with my husband, (and myself!). It’s absolutely hands down, an unprecedented life changing realm. And, again this is coming from someone who has spent their whole life doing this kind of work, (40 plus years) utilizing various modalities for empowerment, healing, and transformation. 

This program should be done by every individual on earth, whether in a relationship or not. I see it realistically, not optimistically, as a viable avenue, with the holding capacity to bring about world peace, based simply on the foundation of communicating to each other our “softer feelings”. What I learned in the workshop was that these tender feelings we are scared to express and let people see, once expressed, are in reality what brings us fearlessness. And, in turn, have the ability to generate compassion and empathy in the listener. That was a life changer.

Bruce, you are The Great Encourager, giving people the courage to be loving and kind, take the first step, and be bigger than they have known themselves to be.

I am eternally, and beyond eternity, grateful for you, Bruce. 

With much love and much respect, 

Jill M.

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Jill Medina Elizalde

You have really opened my eyes to being vulnerable and expressing myself properly


Thank you so much for this course, Bruce!

You have really opened my eyes to being vulnerable and expressing myself properly in order to communicate more effectively with my partner about my wants and needs.

We now understand each other better and I hope we can grow closer with the tools you have taught us.

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Ros Collins

Repair, renew and reinvent your relationship with yourself and your partner.


I highly recommend Bruce and his Love at First Fight course for anyone who is looking for personal growth both individually and in relationships and to better understand why we keep repeating the same destructive pattens.

The course provides an opportunity to learn about yourself, your partner and how to better connect, communicate, understand our childhood wounds and how they present themselves as raw spots in our relationships as well as identify the cycles we get caught in and how to approach conflict differently; turn towards each other.

It is a lot of work but if you make the commitment to yourself and your relationship, Bruce gives you all the tools to repair, renew and reinvent your relationship with yourself and your partner.

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Adrienne Politowicz

We were beyond broken... simply put, the program works. 


We were beyond broken and setting a drop dead date for resolution (divorce) when we began the program and simply put, the program works. 

We are not only reconnecting but also understanding why we were so reactionary in our behaviors. 

On the surface the exercises, rituals and worksheets appear so simple and obvious but if any couple or individual truly works the program you will become so more self aware you cannot help but gain some enlightenment.

 

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Chad Kuriger

We feel closer, more loving, more understood and more connected and are looking forward to where this journey will take us.


This program unlocks all the components needed to have a healthy inspired  evolving marriage with topics on connection, communication, individual needs, teamwork and sex.

It has given us so many tools to navigate situations where we had felt stuck and frustrated.

We feel closer, more loving, more understood and more connected and are looking forward to where this journey will take us.

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Sally Young

A brilliant course that has transformed our relationship.


A brilliant course that has transformed our relationship. We feel so lucky to have come across this program.

It is 1000% times better. We are so much happier and communicating so well.

The best money we have spent and way more effective than coupled counselling as it quickly gets to the root cause of issues.

 

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Jacinta Hardie-Grant

I am changing the way that I react to situations


I was pleasantly surprised at the amount of information that the Love at First Fight program offers.

Although my partner was unwilling to participate with me, my relationship has still benefited from the work I have put in.

I have found that I am changing the way that I react to situations because I have more tools and understanding than I did before.

I am definitely glad that I made this investment in my relationship, and ultimately, in my self.

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Kailyn Pichurski

Together we fell more in love and felt more connected. 


The Love at First Fight program has been a game changer for us. Through the daily connection rituals and doing the weekly exercises together we fell more in love and felt more connected. 

This program brings forward alot of self awareness and relationship patterns the good and the ugly. I believe it is worth the time and reminds you that your relationship is the number 1 priority.

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Megan King

My husband and I are both experiencing greater intimacy and feelings of affection for each other.


Bruce is a relationship guru!

We learned so much useful information about attachment and personality styles which helped us understand each other better. We also learned invaluable tools for resolving conflict in a safe and respectful way, as well as getting to the bottom of the raw spots driving repeating conflict.

We walked away from the workshop with a whole toolbox ranging from step-by-step communication strategies to personality inventories.

My husband and I are both experiencing greater intimacy and feelings of affection for each other.

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Ashley Kibby

Whether we work it out or not I’m still thankful I did this


The program is really full of incite.  I gathered many tools and uncovered many things about my part in my marriage. 

My wife was unwilling to accompany me on this learning journey for now; however I hope she’ll one day change her mind. 

Whether we work it out or not I’m still thankful I did this; I truly did learn a lot that I will utilize in numerous types of relationships going forward.

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Dana Poling

Useful course to any couple who genuinely wishes to improve their relationship


Bruce is very professional, patient, likeable and significantly experienced in this field. He showed a real empathy and built trust by using his own experiences. 

Recommend this very methodical structured and useful course to any couple who genuinely wishes to improve their relationship

Thank you for all your support and words of wisdom.

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Ian Stevenson