Love At First Fight Reviews

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Iria Suárez

Iria Suárez

Our marriage is now flourishing.

I am incredibly grateful for the transformative experience that the Cure Conflicts course provided for my marriage.

Before enrolling, my spouse and I found ourselves stuck in a cycle of misunderstandings and arguments. This course equipped us with invaluable communication tools, fostering understanding and empathy. The expert guidance and practical techniques not only resolved conflicts but also strengthened our connection.

Our marriage is now flourishing, thanks to the skills we gained from this impactful course. We are now closer, we trust in each other with the confidence that we want the best for our relationship. 

I wholeheartedly recommend it to anyone seeking to revive and enhance their relationship.

Iria Suárez

Rose Hamel

Rose Hamel

We're head over heels in love again!

The Conflict Cure was the miracle that was truly God sent. I was at the most helpless moment in my relationship. My fiancé was leaving me for another woman, there was no way to change his mind, he was moving out. I got down on my knees to pray for a miracle, the next morning I stumbled on Bruce’s video on FB.

I signed up immediately because he said I could single handedly save my relationship, I had nothing to lose. My fiancé didn’t wanna take the course, but when he saw the changes in me, he slowly turned around, the started to do the course with me.

We had so many AHA moments and by the end of week 5, he proposed we get married this year. By the end of week 6, we had set a wedding date, his infatuation with the other woman completely faded, and we’re head over heels in love again! We’re actively and happily making wedding plans!

Thank you Bruce, you’re truly God sent!

Rose Hamel

Hope

Hope

The world would be a better place if we all had these skills.

This program everyone should take. It is not a course just for couples struggling. This course provides all the vital information for any healthy relationship! The world would be a better place if we all had these skills.

I’m not in a relationship now, and I took this course. I wanted to find out why I couldn’t make a relationship work and what skills I needed.

I am so grateful to you Bruce. In eight weeks, I already feel more aware, knowledgeable, confident, and capable of attracting and being in a healthier relationship. I’ve even shared so much of this information with friends that probably eight of my friends have signed up.

It is the best course out there!

Hope

Hazel Currie

Hazel Currie

The whole course had me wowed from beginning to end.

If you want to cure conflict within your relationship, then this is a must! The whole course had me wowed from beginning to end.

The vast knowledge you will receive has been gathered by highly respected professionals in their individual field of expertise. They have done the hard work you just need to listen to what has been proven to work.

It is amazing how much the insight of others can change your whole outlook on a situation and all for the better.

You will enjoy the time you spend with Bruce Muzik who hosts the program as he walks you through the course. I even found myself eager for the next Module to arrive.

You will receive important information and tools throughout the course, but it is not all serious it’s fun too.

If you value your relationship, just sign up! You won’t regret it!

Hazel Currie

Anne Finlay

Anne Finlay

There is an increase in the trust between us and a decrease in fear and resentment.

Quite simply, the best course I have ever done.

I have been able to apply these learnings and tools in my relationship with my husband, our children, my parents and friends, and my colleagues. My ability as a manager of people in teams to achieve outcomes in high pressure situations has become next level.

The connection between us has strengthened, as has the love and affection. Our conflicts no longer escalate into fights. There is an increase in the trust between us and a decrease in fear and resentment.

We can talk now.

Anne Finlay

Yana Nazarenko

Yana Nazarenko

This program truly saved our relationship.

I highly recommend this course to anyone struggling in their relationship.

My partner and I had really rough months before joining this program, with so many fights and frustration and threats to our relationship. This program completely changed the way we see our relationship and how we deal with our conflicts, with our challenges, with our differences.

It taught us to listen. It taught us how to be a team. It gave us new beliefs about the relationship that make so much more sense and make so much better than the conventional wisdom.

It truly saved our relationship and I could not have been more grateful to Bruce for that.

By far the best investment I’ve ever made.

Yana Nazarenko

Della and Rock Keen

Della and Rock Keen

This program is a gold mine of information delivered by a great man.

My name is Della Keen and I truly believe this program is a gold mine of information within a structured setting that is delivered by a great man who is very well educated in the topic of helping and healing broken and/or damaged marriages, relationships and etc.

Knowledge is power. He delivers that in abundance. I’m so blessed to have came across this on the internet. Wish I would have been given this chance a long long time ago.

Thank you Bruce Muzik for your “Love At First Fight” counseling program.

Della and Rock Keen

Nati-Piti

Natalia P.

"Connect first, communicate later" is a true game-changer.

The program is based on principles that made me feel safe and understood. Not broken and at fault.

“Connect first, communicate later” is a true game-changer.

“Whatever isn’t love is just a misunderstanding” is also a great understanding or reframe.

Bruce seems to actually believe in love and truly value relationships!

Unlike many other therapists and even relationship coaches who are very relativistic about the topic and eager to discount a relationship on some intellectual, rational grounds. But we’re talking about love here, and no rational calculation is enough to make a marriage work.

Throughout the program Bruce was being helpful and kind and his light manner and sense of humor made for a warm and understanding atmosphere.

The amount of knowledge about what makes relationships work in real life this course contains is impressive. And best of all, none of it is “how it should be”, but it’s all based in pragmatism, in what works, in studies of real couples.

This is a truly comprehensive program which touches on spiritual and sexual aspects of a relationship as well.

I recommend Bruce Muzik as mentor to anyone at any stage of a committed relationship.

Natalia P.

Jennifer

Jennifer

We feel closer then we have ever felt before. Truly saved our marriage.

My husband and I began this course at each others throats! We were the definition of insanity, our families worried about our stability, as we often used them to vent to.

We have been married 16 years, all of which were alongside my husbands military career. Since his retirement, we fell into arguing and fighting daily, we both lost hope and we’re on path for separation and divorce.

When I found Bruce, it was a free 2 hour masterclass that revitalized my faith that we haven’t tried everything, and that this course could be our way back to each other!

My husband and I were astounded at even just the first couple weeks how much relief we felt together. There was definitely some hard things to face, and accept; but the program helped us see light at the end of the tunnel.

We worked through heartbreaking things and we feel closer then we have ever felt before. Learning attachment styles and personality types was a game changer.

If you’re hopeless and tried it all, before you throw in the towel for good please try this- you have so much to gain! I will forever be grateful the universe aligned and I found this program. Truly saved our marriage.

Jennifer

Jane Swanson

Jane Swanson

I've read a lot of books about relationships, but nothing has compared to this course.

This program was extremely helpful to me, especially in understanding reoccurring conflict. It was the one thing tearing up our marriage. My husband was blaming it all on me!

I didn’t understand that it is actually normal in a marriage and that it is NOT  all my fault and can be fixed! I’ve read a lot of books about relationships, but nothing has compared to this course.

I don’t know how I found it but I am so so grateful I did. The information is priceless.

Jane Swanson

Suzanne Brand

Suzanne Brand

My husband and I were practically divorced. Now we're back together!

Bruce is just a wonderful human.  I admire the love and compassion he radiates. 

My husband and I were practically divorced. The program really taught us so much, especially how we lost our connection and ways to get it back. Now we’re back together!

Thank you for your dedication to saving couples! We love you!

Suzanne Brand

Patricia Malnick

Patricia Malnick

The change in both of us is unbelievable.

After 17 years being together with my partner, with over 7 years of coping with my partner’s addictions and feeling unheard, unconnected, unaccepted for who I was, and out of ideas with other therapist and books to try to save our situation, I separated from my partner, Mark.

I needed the separation to understand why I was in a relationship like this and what part I had in it. I couldn’t be under the same roof anymore. Our conversations were always so toxic and it was making me ill. And I knew I had to work on me too.

After 17 years I didn’t want it to end in a confrontational way. If it was going to end I wanted it to be cordial and to learn why it happened and know there was nothing else left to do.

Then one day I saw Bruce online.

Immediately he was explaining on his YouTube page the exact feelings I had and the exact situations I had been involved in with my partner. I couldn’t believe it! He was talking to me! Was he in my house and heard our conversations?

I signed up right away for his 7-week course.

Within the first hour I shared some of the information with my partner. We were separated but still communicating here or there. He wasn’t participating in the program but he showed interest When I shared some of Bruce’s stuff. A matter of fact, he showed more interest than he had in 7 years of counseling and other books that we had tried to do together.

As I kept doing the course, I followed what Bruce said to do when sharing with your partner. And within a few weeks, my partner started to participate in some of the exercises.

Now that I finished the 7 weeks, He is going to do the course. And I am going to retake the course with him. I was smart enough to buy the lifetime option.

The change in both of us is unbelievable.

We are reconnecting again. And even if we decide not to get back together again, we both have become better people and understand much more about ourselves individually and as a couple and how we both were responsible for the split.

We have shared this with other friends and they too are amazed at how helpful Bruce is.

No matter what happens, I feel so empowered with tools that’ll help me for the rest of my life. I foresee, my relationship rekindling and us getting back together.

This course is worth every penny. The materials are awesome. Do the homework, I found myself excited every week when Bruce would release the next videos, handouts and homework. Apply yourself, utilize the live phone calls. Talking to Bruce in person is life-changing. And I guarantee you will finish this program feeling empowered and with the tools to be a better partner and to make your relationship magnificent.

Patricia Malnick

Kiera Flening

Kiera Flening

This allowed us to understand and communicate with one another in a way that 2.5 years of couples' therapy never did.

My partner and I decided to give the program a try because it was reasonably priced and after watching Bruce’s free videos seemed intrigued.

The program gave us so many useful and easy to follow exercises to reignite the spark that has turned into a flame that heats up the passion between us. The information that we have learned allowed us to understand and communicate with one another in a way that 2.5 plus years of couples therapy never did. The work we did came with many “A ha” moments and has brought us to a space that we were beginning to believe was unachievable.

Having completed the program  we realize we have only scratched the surface to the level of communication, understanding, and most importantly compassionate love that we will achieve with continued dedication to applying the tools we learned. Our relationship has changed by recapturing that missing intimacy I believed was lost forever.

It has also changed the relationship and communication between us and our two teenage children. I encourage you give this program a try, you will not regret it.

Kiera Flening

Lynne Graham

Lynne Graham

My partner is a recovering alcoholic with autism and trauma. Who would be brave enough (and qualified) to take that on? Bruce Muzik.

I am 64 and I have done a lot of therapy through personal growth. So has my Partner. My partner is a recovering alcoholic with ADHD, high functioning ASD and complex trauma that he only shared with me at his 56th Birthday.  Now who would be brave enough (and qualified enough) to take that on? He is called Bruce Muzik. 

We had a pretty awesome relationship for several years that we had worked hard at because of the above with many therapists.  However we kept on hitting a brick wall.  This course did not bulldoze it down it created the most beautiful opening for both of us to feel safe to walk through together hand in hand or individually when needed.    

I discovered through the course I am not securely attached either and it created a secure understanding of what work needed to be done . It was inspiring it gave me hope it soothed both our fears it gave us structured strategies and exercises to face our fears .  It allowed me and my partner to re write our pathways together respectfully. It gave me insight and excitement to try the new ways.  It taught us the way to  be connected to give us how to have it all: independence as well inter-dependence. It taught me how important even in the darkest moments that connection is so important and how to bid for it. 

Thank you Bruce.

Lynne Graham

Nicole Armstrong

Nicole Armstrong

I tell everyone I know about Bruce's program and how much it changed my life!

This program has saved me. Not just for my relationship with my partner but everyone I have a relationship in my life including family and friends. I have learned so many tools. When I implement these tools in my everyday life, I feel conflict with anyone has been at a minimum.

I tell everyone I know in my life about Bruce’s program and how much it changed my life! It’s amazing that one person in this world can put every utensil on the table and say use them I promise each utensil has a purpose you just have to use them to see what they can do for you!

From the bottom of my heart Bruce this has been a blessing and I am very grateful!

Nicole Armstrong

Hilja Uiras

Hilja Uiras

In just the 1st week of the Connection Rituals, we began feeling in love again, which was missing for years.

This program Love At First Fight popped up on my Facebook page the time my husband and I were struggling to connect. We were living like brothers and sisters shared a house. We drifted apart long time and each one’s just mind your own business.

Living like brothers bothers me, and I decided to search for some marriage program. When I listened to Bruce introductory video, it really caught my soul and I told my husband about it, and both of us agreed to give it a try.

In just the first week of doing the Connection Rituals, we began feeling connected and in love again, which was missing in our marriage for years. This program helped us to meet each other’s emotional needs. It helped us to know our differences.

In short,  THIS PROGRAM IS A THERAPY ON ITS OWN. ONE NEED NOT TO CONSULT A PSYCHOLOGIST. THIS IS THERAPEUTIC. Our childhood traumas have been exposed and healed in just 7 weeks. Thank you Bruce for a well presented program.

Hilja Uiras

Lisa Ritchie

Lisa Ritchie

We are like teenagers that have just fell in love.

We are like teenagers that have just fell in love. We have learned how to be 100% honest about how we feel.

We are vulnerable with each other and ask in a healthy, not a demanding,  way to have our needs met. We laugh, talk and sex is great.

It’s like we are seeing and hearing each other for the first time in the 25 years being together. Life changing.

Lisa Ritchie

Michael Ritchie

Michael Ritchie

This has not only saved our marriage, it 'honestly" saved my life. Thank you Bruce Muzik - our children still have both parents.

My wife and i were almost at the end of our 27 year relationship, living and sleeping in separate rooms, talking about divorce and selling the house etc. Thankfully my wife noticed an “ad” on social media, and curiously clicked on it then went onto listen to the introduction webinar, about half way through she called me at work and then shared the link with me to join.

I immediately offered to pay the fee to complete the course with lifetime access, in my opinion, well worth the fee if my marriage could be saved.

This has not only saved our marriage, (im pleased and yet vulnerably ashamed to admit), its ‘honestly” saved my life, i was about to give up on everything after seeing no other way to give my wife the happiness and freedom she deserves. Now we can be happy and free together.

This really does work, although it is tough, so as long as you commit to complete the whole course, it works. Its certainly worked for us.

Thank you Bruce Muzik, our children still have both parents. My wife and I are more connected and understanding of each other than ever before.

Michael Ritchie

Mari Marion

Mari Marion

After 6 months of my husband being gone... my husband moved back last week, in week 7 of the course. We are in a brand new place.

I found this program after my husband left suddenly, saying he had been miserable for years and was moving to another state. He wasn’t interested in even speaking to me, he completely shut me out.  I was absolutely devastated and quite literally traumatised. I’d loved him for nearly 30 years and didn’t think we were even having problems that would have resulted in something like this. 

I began looking for ways to save my marriage even if I was the only one trying.  I found many programs but none seemed to have the right tools. 

After 6 months of my husband being gone and trying to accept the divorce and plan for a future I didn’t want, I came across a video of Bruce regarding communication in relationships, it made so much sense to me, he spoke about his Love at First Fight program at the end and I looked it up, researched it and decided I wanted to do it. Possibly the best decision I’ve made in my lifetime! 

I didn’t think my soon to be ex husband would even consider joining me in this but I found a way to communicate that I’d found a program to work on myself and future relationships.  He asked about it and I told him I’d be willing to restore our marriage, he said he’d see how it went. 

Many of the exercises were a painful process but each week they were drawing us closer and closer… my husband moved back last week, in week 7 of the course.  We are in a brand new place now with amazing tools to continue to use and become closer and more connected than we’ve ever been.

We can’t thank Bruce enough and his program!  I honestly didn’t think this was even a possibility… Bruce is an amazingly special human who has changed our lives for the better.  And our 5 children we’ve raised together.  There isn’t an adequate way to thank him… so I’ll simply say… thank you Bruce, you’ve given me everything.

Mari Marion

Miriam and DuWayne Heppner

Miriam and DuWayne Heppner

After 42 years, we were stuck. Now we have the tools (and desire) to continue growing and connecting together.

After 42 years of marriage, we were stuck and couldn’t continue. We have read many books on marriage, attended and listened to marriage seminars and workshops, participated in individual and marriage counseling, went on a cruise focusing on marriage, and have even attended weeklong “schools” for counselors and pastors. While we received some helpful insights from each of these, we were still stuck. Even though we occupied and operated in the same house, our marriage had been essentially dead for over three years.

Last fall we each participated in separate intensive weekend retreats that brought a lot of insight and healing and freedom as individuals, but we were still stuck in destructive patterns. I continued to pursue learning, and found your Love at First Fight information. My husband said he was all in when I told him I had signed up for the course.

This program has given us practical tools that we have never owned. We have a better understanding of what each of us bring to the table. Our communication patterns were counter productive. This program has provided the means to relearn and apply productive understanding, communication and behavior.

The life-time access to the materials is allowing us to continue to learn, apply and connect. We are also excited about how these positive life-changing tools will affect our relationships with our children, their spouses, our grandchildren, and others in our lives.

We’re encouraging our newly engaged son to go through this with his fiancée.

We wish we could have had access to the information in this course for our premarital counseling. Now we have the tools (and desire) to continue growing and connecting in significant productive ways.

Thank you, Bruce.

Miriam and DuWayne Heppner

Chad Kuriger

Chad Kuriger

We were beyond broken. We're not only reconnecting, but also understanding why we were so reactive. The program works. 

We were beyond broken and setting a drop dead date for resolution (divorce) when we began the program and simply put, the program works. 

We are not only reconnecting but also understanding why we were so reactionary in our behaviors. 

On the surface the exercises, rituals and worksheets appear so simple and obvious but if any couple or individual truly works the program you will become so more self aware you cannot help but gain some enlightenment.

 

Chad Kuriger

Julissa Charbonneau

Julissa Charbonneau

Paul and I are on cloud 9! Our marriage is beautiful, our parenting is on the same path, and we found ourselves within it all.

Hello Bruce! This is Julissa from your March 2022 sessions.

It has taken me a while to send this survey as things have been pretty busy after our course was complete. Although I did want to share our marriage update.

Paul and I are on cloud 9! Our relationship didn’t change per say…your course helped us become stronger!

Sometimes, in life, we wish we can go back in time and change things and redo what we didn’t like or what didn’t work out well for us. Yet, those are the lessons we learn from. Paul and I held on strong for 16 years. Sadly, we only concentrated on all the negatives in our marriage and becoming angrier as years went on. We neglected to see the obvious…16 years!! Yes, we did go through horrible emotional hurdles but we didn’t give up! There was love in all that turmoil! And it was this course that helped us find it.

There are times that hurt still creeps in from underneath although we know where it came from with our exercises. Previously, all we wanted to do was attack each other or be in the right. Hailstorm vs Wolf! Yikes! And now, we actually talk! We are truly vulnerable with each other. No judgment. Just understanding and love.

Don’t get me wrong, we have our “Wave Pool Waltz” here and there (like you mentioned it will happen) but it’s nothing like it was before. No more of days or weeks of not talking. Or when we did, it was actually screaming at each other, hiding all the soft emotions we wouldn’t express. And now, it has changed to half an hour break from each other and then come together to have a reflective conversation. Obviously, there are times that feelings are still heightened although that’s when we use our mantra. I melt every time he uses it!

The reason for my delay with this survey was we’ve been busy. We have taken our connections tools to a whole new level. We are now taking time to enjoy what each of us like, experiencing new things together, concurring fears and started a small business together. And in the midst of all this, we also take time for ourselves separately. We’ve either been go go go or slowing the world down, just being with each other or alone. It’s been a blessing! All because of you and your help for us to come together!

I also wanted to let you know that at the end of the course, Paul and I went out on a date and I gifted Paul an ornamental glass “Endless Knot”. This man means the world to me! The knot represents a never ending connection, a symbol of eternity, harmony and endless love. The intertwining of both the past and the present, unifying both the giver and recipient with no beginning and no end, links our fate, binds us together.

This is how we both feel. Endless love!

Thank you Bruce, for what you do, how you connect with people, how you help others to connect with each other and how much you have saved our marriage!

Bruce, we were 1 step away from a divorce, if I didn’t bump into your Facebook post. I said to myself and Paul, that this was my last attempt at fixing this marriage. I kid you not! Paul and I could not communicate.

We wouldn’t understand each other, too much resentment and we just couldn’t connect. Now we can’t imagine our lives without each other. Our marriage is beautiful, our parenting is on the same path and we found ourselves within it all.

Thank you, thank you so much! And a thank you and proud moment to Paul and I for not giving up!

Much love to you Bruce,

Julissa Charbonneau

Julissa Charbonneau

Steve Rogers

Steve R.

This is serious progress for us... All the best marriage practices, advice and techniques in one program. Totally worth it.

Great News!! Two months ago I would have told you that my marriage was not salvageable; that too many bad things have been said and done.  That we are just not good for each other and that our relationship was toxic.  Twenty years of trying and we were still having the same issues with not much improvement. 

I had a realtor, I was looking for places to live and I had a lawyer that I finally got an appointment with.  I was already scoping out other possible relationships, however, I knew that I needed time on my own not another relationship.  I was just married to the wrong person; I was pretty convinced of that.  We had not been intimate in basically two years and I was sleeping in a separate room.  I said though that I still believed in miracles.

So one morning about two months ago, I remembered to turn my will and my life over to a power greater than myself and I had done this many times in the past. But this day, my wife asked me if I would be willing to watch a webinar on relationships and that maybe it would help us get along better after we separated, to be better co-parents, so I agreed.  I wanted to be friends if possible.  I just felt like I could not give my wife what she needed, we couldn’t work together and couldn’t talk about our issues without it blowing up.  I wanted both of us to be happy and if we couldn’t be happy together then I would want us to be happy apart.   

So we watch this free webinar with this guy Bruce Muzik.  He said he had a hard 1st marriage and it drove him to seek out relationship “gurus” and read all the books and learned what went wrong.  He was saying things that I recognized like when he was talking about hailstorms and turtles; that is from Imago (Harville Hendrix). 

He basically described what we are going through like it was just a normal thing that happens in relationships.  I started thinking that maybe there was hope for our relationship. I should also add that both of us came from families affected by addiction 2 generations ago. So we both had lot of unhealthy relationship skills, but we were both working on it, although it didn’t seem to help our marriage. 

Anyway we watch this webinar together and it was good information and I could tell he knew his stuff, because I had also read a lots of relationship books and went to lots of workshops and counselors. He is really down to earth and genuine

And I said to my wife, “Are you sure you want to do this? This is a marriage rescue program.” 

We were both at a place where we thought it was over and didn’t want to risk getting back into the same stuff.  But hey this I was thinking might be that miracle I said I was open to.  So we decided to do it. I like the name of it: Love at First Fight. 

And I knew based on all the cash we spend on workshops and coaches and all that stuff that it was a good price and investment in our marriage… even if it didn’t work out in the end.  It costs about the price for one or possibly two hours with a good divorce lawyer, except it is an 8-week course. 

It was the same price as my Costco bill; that place, I tell yeah. So we did it. 

I kind of see this as a meta study.  All the best marriage practices, advice and techniques in one program.

And for the last two months things have been much better.  I will say there is a lot of soul searching and self-discovery work in it and we are definitely behind, but we are working it.  We even went on a date last night to a nice restaurant, a piano bar that serves tapas.  First date in 2 years probably

That is serious progress for us.  And any program is helpful if time and effort is put into it.  And yes it really helps if both people work the program, but if that is not possible, even if one person does it and the other person sees a change that may make them think a better relationship is possible and things can get better. 

The point is, that even if you feel like your marriage can not possibly be salvaged, you could be wrong like I was. 

The bottom line is that all our issues are actually about our needs not being met. The things that really make us mad is almost never really about our partner; it is about a need we have that we expect them to know about and fulfill.

The more we understand our own needs and our partners needs the better our relationship will be.  The crazy and awesome part is that by is stretching to meet our partner’s needs we actually grow those undeveloped parts of ourselves. 

We can actually help heal our partner and grow at the same time. It’s a beautiful thing. Mature love is the ultimate goal. 

Bruce brings all of the best marriage practices into one program. 

I highly recommend this program for any marriage that isn’t everything you hoped it would be and for people that think their marriage was a mistake or is hopeless and irreconcilable. 

Give it go, it is totally worth it.

Steve R.

Vicki Hamilton

Vicki Hamilton

I can't recommend this course enough. Things change from the very 1st words. Marriage back on track.

Better me, better him, BETTER US: marriage back on track

My husband and I knew we loved each other BUT couldn’t work out why we were fighting so much & slowly disconnecting.

It would usually end in loud accusing voices and blaming each other, and just walking away…until the next time….

Things were gradually getting worse affecting not only us, but our beautiful daughter.

The universe landed me on Bruce’s page…I loved the intro video so much, I immediately shared it with my husband, who was also impressed & that was the beginning of our new beginning.

After taking the course with Bruce, we now have a better understanding of WHY we each act the way we do.

A complete game changer….

This knowledge, along with some connection and communication skills, has helped us to finally get back to being kind, loving & understanding towards each other.

We are no longer taking what each other does/says personally because we understand how our personality types figure into our actions.

We can STOP PAUSE THINK RESET…move on…it’s great.

Not only does Bruce have the knowledge, but his sense of humor, delivery & most importantly, Passion for helping… amazing man.

This course should be mandatory in school… everybody & every relationship would benefit greatly AND then maybe the world would be a better place to be in….

We will keep the exercises & relearn when needed… we will forever have Bruce in our lives….

I can’t recommend this course enough. If trouble is looming, get into this immediately. Things change from the very 1st words.

Thx Bruce xxx

Vicki Hamilton

Luz Toral

Luz

I consider myself a skeptic, but I didn't expect to feel so seen and understood. This is exactly what we needed!

I was ready to get out of the relationship. I had told Richard that I was not willing to keep the status quo.

On the same day we had that argument, I saw the video of the free seminar on my Facebook feed, and it was like you were talking to me.

It really addressed my issues, so I sent it to Richard and thought, if he doesn’t react,  I’m done. To my surprise he watched the video and responded that he was willing to do the seminar.

I had no idea what was going to happen, but we were both so motivated to make it work, we got invested in learning and seeing that really motivated me, but I was not really prepared to the amount of things I learned about myself and it all made so much sense!

I consider myself a skeptic, I went in with open mind but I didn’t expect to feel so seen and understood.

Bruce you made me feel very comfortable and I trust your knowledge, because each tool, exercise, video, was addressing my problems and just being so accurate.

This is exactly what we needed!

Luz and Richard

Luz

Helen Fernihough

Helen Fernihough

Charles and I are so much closer and trusting each other. I have grown enormously in a short space of time.

The loveatfirstfight course is definitely a transformational moment in my life. It is a couples repair coaching program but what it really is is a self-realisation program.

It opens the door for me to look inside myself and in doing that influences the way I relate to people around me, my partner, my children, friends and colleagues.

I feel that I have grown enormously in a short space of time and there is so much more waiting for me still.

Charles and I are so much closer and trusting each other. We are very confident we will make it through the power struggles stage, we don’t know how long but we will.

Thank you Bruce, you are amazing!

Helen Fernihough

Doreen Lethbridge

Doreen Lethbridge

We can testify that Bruce and his program is the real deal. It’s saved our marriage. We have connected more than in 35 years together.

Bruce is truly the relationship whisperer!

We were on verge of divorce when this program came up on my Facebook page.

“It was meant to be” we both said, watching the video about his program; but yet thinking “this has to be too good to be true.” Well, turns out it was meant to be and had transformed our relationship.

We have emotionally connected more than we have ever had in 35 years being together.

We can highly testify that Bruce and his program is the real deal and it’s saved our marriage.

So excited. We’re sharing it with our family and friends!

Thank you so very much Bruce for all your inspiration and guidance in this journey of love and commitment!

Doreen Lethbridge

Vis-Mona-Naidoo

Vis Naidoo

Mona and I were on the verge of a breakup. This program was the best investment ever.

Mona and I were on the verge of a breakup when she enrolled us onto Bruce’s program.

There seemed like there was no way out of our constant fighting and regular disagreements that turned into shouting matches.

This program was the best investment ever, and in my most important relationship.

I’m grateful to Bruce for this fabulous program, and I’m grateful that Mona and I have found the tools of communication, understanding and soothing to reset our relationship, and continue living a beautiful life together.

We highly recommend Love At First Fight. No matter how bad things seem, with Bruce as your coach and the right tools, and most importantly the willingness to do the work, you can rekindle your beautiful relationship before all is lost.

I’m glad we saved ours.

Vis Naidoo

Judy

Judy

We have become SO much closer - it’s like a miracle. We are vulnerable and feel safe to be so. We tried many things, but you have worked for us.

My husband and I have been miserably fighting for 24 years – we had no idea there was a solution.

We have become SO much closer – it’s like a miracle. We are vulnerable and feel safe to be so. Sharing our homework has been wonderful for both of us.

I felt I was getting somewhere right from the very first Welcome call. I felt you could see into my soul and knew exactly what I needed to learn and how I needed to learn it and change.

I think I’ve waited for this for 24 years of being with my husband – we’ve tried many things but you have worked for us.

Thank you Bruce for giving us the tools to become more connected and loving – to actually see and hear each other and to rediscover our deep love and respect for each other – has been amazing.

Now we have the tools to put out any fights that flare up quickly and efficiently. 

Blessings, Judy

Judy

Marcy McQuown

Marcy

We went from 'going through the motions' to 'alive and thriving'. I can't wait to be with my husband each day now.

This program has changed our marriage.

We went from ‘going through the motions’ into ‘alive and thriving’. I can’t wait to be with my husband each day now.

Before the program I was always a little apprehensive of our interactions because I seemed to hurt his feelings and could not figure out how it was happening.

This program is thorough and complete. Each week we were challenged to grow in areas that built on each other.

We now have tools to communicate with each other and have the tools to handle conflict when it arises.

I am so thankful that we have done this program.

It was a game changer for us.

Marcy

Cindy & Dan LeBlanc

Cindy & Dan LeBlanc

We were about to call it quits after 31 years, but now we're on our way to bliss. We can’t say enough good things about this course.

Thank you so very much Bruce. We can’t say enough good things about this course.

You have really done your homework and we now do ours. It continues to change our lives.

We were in a very bad place and about to call it quits after 31 years together, but after your course we are on our way to Bliss in all ways.

If anyone out there wonders if this course can help, as long as you really want it and apply yourself honestly, your life can and will be transformed in ways you never knew possible!  

Not enough ways to say thank you, but a HUGE HEARTFELT THANK YOU, Smiles, Cindy & Dan

Cindy & Dan LeBlanc

Ryan & Melodi de Havelyn

John & Emily

We go to sleep at night holding hands instead of turned away back-to-back. 'Love at First Fight' has changed our lives!

‘Love at First Fight’ has changed our lives!  We feel as though there couldn’t have been a worse marriage out there. 

We experienced every hurtful thing you can imagine.  We were caught in the ‘power-struggle’ phase of our marriage and it didn’t seem like we had any hope of fixing that. 

Our home was a war-zone 24/7.  We cannot thank Bruce enough for giving us the tools to act like adults and fix the hurt children inside of each of us.  

We are committed to continuing the process.  We have a new understanding of each other and a new ability to communicate.  We had neither before at all. 

We cannot emphasize how  important this program could be if you are struggling in a marriage that feels like it is hopeless. 

If we can make it – anyone can.  It is the best gift we could have given each other. 

We go to sleep at night holding hands instead of turned away back-to-back.

John & Emily

Andrea-Panzarella

Andrea

We're finally on the same team together, completely vulnerable with each other. We're connected and healing our hearts together. 

Our marriage was consumed with infertility and loss approximately 1-1/2 years after our wedding.  We had to face traumatic situations that most couples never have to encounter. 

Several years later, after we were blessed with our babies, we found ourselves further apart from each other than ever before.  Our marriage was filled with anger, resentment, and griefWe knew we needed something more than couples counseling to bring us back together. 

I remember this feeling of desperation and doing a random google search one night.  I came across the Love At First Fight website and I could not stop scrolling.  Everything that was written described exactly where we were in our relationship. 

We signed up for the course hopeful, but very unsure.  Now, we are in a place that we have never been before. 

We are finally on the same team together, we are completely vulnerable with each other, we are connected in ways that we would not have been otherwise, and we are healing our hearts together. 

This program has changed our lives, individually and together, in a very powerful way. 

Thank you Bruce!  We are so grateful!

Andrea

Hallie Crawford

Hallie Crawford

We’ve been through hours of therapy... Bruce, this course was the most helpful thing Chad and I have ever done.

Bruce, this course was the most helpful thing Chad and I have ever done.

We’ve been through hours of therapy but were never able to get to the root of what my fear was about his ex.

We had the best weekend together we have had almost since I met him a year ago, not kidding.

The things you said were hard to hear, which is part of why I was quiet during a part of the call, and, at one point I got tears in my eyes because you were speaking to/calling out the wound I hadn’t yet fully recognized.

Knowing these 2 things has brought peace in my heart I haven’t had in a while, for myself but also for my relationship with Chad.

Both Chad and I are SO impressed. Catherine was right. She sings your praises and I’m so glad we joined your program.

We still have work to do and – this is amazing great progress regarding one of the largest things we have faced as a couple so far.

Very grateful 🙂

Hallie Crawford

Theresa Crowley-Ferreira

Theresa Crowley-Ferreira

This program is the real deal. Bruce will help pull you through to the other side.

This program is the real deal.

It’s not for the faint of heart, but if you bravely surrender yourself to this even half-heartedly, Bruce will help pull you through to the other side.

Bruce has poured himself into this work and research in a way that removed many frustrating roadblocks we kept running into as a couple.

We are expecting our first child any day now and there is no greater gift we could give our new daughter than how strong we feel as a team now.

Theresa Crowley-Ferreira

KATIE MILLER

Katie Miller

The experience transformed me. I'm confident I have the tools to truly connect with a partner, without fear or hesitation.

I joined Bruce’s program to learn how to win my partner back and I am exiting the program having learned how to win myself back.

I learned so much about myself and the impact an individual can have in a relationship.

I now fully understand the dynamics of a relationship and all that impacts it.

The experience transformed me. I’m confident I have the tools to truly connect with a partner, without fear or hesitation.

I wish Bruce’s program was longer because I learned so much on each and every call.

Katie Miller

Deborah

Deborah

The course has brought us closer and helped us to finally achieve resolution. We're no longer taking what each other does personally.

Although we had been married for over 30 years, my husband and I had a couple of recurring arguments that never seemed to get resolved.

They would usually end in raising voices, or accusing and blaming each other, and just walking away…until the next time the topic came up.

After taking the course with Bruce, we now have a better understanding of WHY we each act the way we do.

This knowledge, along with some basic connection and communication skills, has helped us to finally achieve resolution.

We are no longer taking what each other does personally because we understand how our personality types figure into our actions.

I really do believe that the course has brought us closer, and we have better tools now for discussing difficult topics (which everyone deals with).

I highly recommend it!

Deborah

Kevin Haspela

Kevin Haspela

Conflict is no longer something to be avoided. I have put down my sword in exchange for vulnerability and trust.

Because of this program, my partner and I are more accepting of and skillful when conflict arises.

Conflict is no longer something to be avoided, but a sign of an opportunity to fulfill a need and love more deeply. I have put down my sword in exchange for vulnerability and trust.

Kevin Haspela

Pam Sortor

Pam Sortor

Your course is more effective and less expensive than traditional couple’s counseling.

I see your program as brilliant and sorely needed in a society that is severely underdeveloped in relationship and communication skills.

I think this type of information should be taught in schools as part of the core curriculum.

And if parents developed these skills to model to their children, imagine the legacy for rich intimacy they would leave for future generations. I am inspired by and deeply grateful for the work you are doing.

If people are open-minded and teachable and actually consistently utilize the tools and wisdom you are imparting, relationships will transform.

It’s not to say that all troubled relationships will or should be saved, but what you teach will provide a healthy and respectful foundation for the relationship to reach its highest potential as well as bring clarity to make intelligent decisions about the highest and best outcome for those concerned.

I wholeheartedly agree that your course is exceedingly more effective and less expensive than traditional couple’s counseling.

What you have put together in this program is an excellent value.

Pam Sortor

Anya Staal

Anya Staal

This course has been mind-blowing. I will never be the same.

WOW! I had never thought I would look at relationships and behaviours in a completely different way after just a few weeks of training.

This course has been mind-blowingI will never be the same.

I have realized that any relationship can be salvaged if you want to. Yes, it’s a conscious decision.

The tools I’ve been given in this program have taught me how.

Anya Staal

Marie Leboeuf and John Grover

Marie Leboeuf and John Grover

I’ve never been happier with my man. Bruce is a true pro.

Together for just under 2 years, the misunderstandings, disagreements, and frustrations between John and I caused a constant volatile environment for us.

Luckily, we were both willing to keep trying, but also realized something major had to shift between us- and soon- or we probably weren’t going to make it as a romantic couple.

Bruce’s program was exactly what we needed! It is organized and succinct, super insightful, fun and actually life-changing.

Bruce is a true pro with compassion, yet realistic and always willing to fight for you (and with you). I won’t kid you!

It brings up the shit you don’t want to face and is one of the scariest things I’ve ever done!

But it also opened my heart and helped me face my biggest fears.

Knowing that we have the tools now to communicate in a loving, mature way, takes the anxiety away.

I’ve never been happier with my man.

Mahalo Nui Loa Bruce!

Keep up the good work 😉 <3

Marie Leboeuf and John Grover

Steven Bouris

Steven Bouris

Bruce is an amazing mentor. This 7-week course has changed my life. I will have both my children do it as soon as they are ready to.

Bruce is an amazing mentor and coach.

His passion for what he does is evident from the minute you meet him.

What I have taken away from this course is to purely understand myself on a deeper more personal level, discovering why I am the way I am.

Understanding why I react to issues the way that I do. Understanding the core essence of a relationship, and the dynamics of our relationships.

I have done a lot of personal development over the years, yet the information I obtained in his 7-week program is phenomenal.

This 7-week course has changed my life. I am so glad that I found Bruce Muzik and his course.

I would recommend it to all, no matter whether you are in a relationship or not. I will have both my children do it as soon as they are ready to.

I know that I will be referring back to Bruce’s material for many years to come.

If we all took the time to do this course, the world would be a much better place.

Thank you, Bruce, for the amazing, inspiring person that you are.

Steven Bouris

Steven Bouris

Arturo

Arturo

Mandatory for any couples considering a long-term partnership.

Bruce’s program is an outstanding, well-structured class that should be mandatory for any couples considering a long-term partnership.

The delicate balance between personal connection and group anonymity is handled well, and you really feel like you’re in a safe group environment (even when you and your partner break to do the exercises on your own).

I highly recommend couples put the effort into this course. The ability to have a shared vocabulary and identical toolkit will go a long way towards connecting your relationship.

We’re grateful for your guidance throughout the last two months.

We’ve spent some rocky nights the last few years trying to overcome many of the pitfalls you deftly addressed in your course. The latter half of the course was of particular benefit.

We can both say it’s been a different game altogether following your intensive program.

We want you to know we were consistently impressed at how you handled your calls. The way you kept track of time, engendered engagement, and dealt with issues kindly but firmly were simply very cool to experience.

Also, your emotional cocktail video was one of the most powerful and vulnerable things we’ve seen. Kudos on including it. It was, for us, the most connecting of the course.

Arturo

Dawn Cormier-Hazen

Dawn Cormier-Hazen

I now feel safe and “gotten”. He now opens up to me. God Bless you and your work.

I wish I found your 7-week course 18 years ago before I decided to get married!

The marriage boot camp should be mandatory for everyone in a serious relationship. Who knew marriage counselling could be so positive and motivating.

I was in a disconnected unhappy marriage for 18 years, and we have tried marriage counselling in the past only coming out more wounded.

I now feel safe and “gotten”.

My partner understands me better and I get him now! He feels safe and now opens up to me. He is emotionally present now.

We know how to avoid triggers now, and even if we do trigger each other, we call it out and we deal with it successfully.

The structure was very smart as it built week by week to explore and open up new portals as we went along.

We have hope and great tools that now we actually are out of anger and resentment and we use the tools with great sincerity.

Bruce, you’ve incorporated the best strategy and techniques on the planet to help couples in trouble.

With your absolute positivity about love and relationships, your charisma and authenticity, you help motivate and guide others to a happy loving relationship.

You give the gift of lovely companionship! God Bless you and your work.

Dawn Cormier-Hazen

Christine Morrison

Christine Morrison

As a Licensed Clinical Family Therapist (and college professor), I've learned more in this one workshop than I have in many years of workshops combined.

This workshop is “all the good things wrapped up into one.” Personally, it helped me with transitioning through one of the most difficult times in my life.

I shifted from a hurt and frustrated separated wife to a solid powerful woman.

Professionally, as a Licensed Clinical Family Therapist and college professor myself, I have learned more in this one workshop than I have in many years of workshops combined.

Personally and professionally speaking, if you are interested in having great relationships….do this workshop!

Christine Morrison

Chris Stuhldreher

Chris Stuhldreher

When I joined the program I was unable to feel. I have changed 100% - more open and emotional. I am a better man.

When I joined the program I was unable to feel, unable to be in touch with myself or to express love to my wife.

I never even drop a tear in 8 years of relations. When the hardest time of the relationship began, I found myself unqualified to resolve our conflict.

Now I am a better man, I have changed 100% – more open and emotional, with no fear to share myself with my wife.

I see now that if I can share everything with her, we will create a safer and happy life together!

Thank you Bruce.

Chris Stuhldreher

Susan Barnard

Susan Barnard

We’re closer & happier than ever! Marriage back on track. We are so grateful we found Bruce!

Our model 30 year relationship was about to collapse because we didn’t have the skills and knowledge to really connect & communicate effectively.

Marriage counseling made it worse. Then I found this cutting-edge program.

It was a rocky summer going thru it and we haven’t resolved everything yet. NOW, we have excellent tools and innovative methods that really support us!

We’re closer & happier than ever! Marriage back on track. DANCE partners!!

We are so grateful we found Bruce!

His creative approach plus his genuine, personal and supportive group coaching style made all the difference for us this summer.

And we experienced one of our hardest challenges ever, just as the program began in June. I really wasn’t sure we’d make it past that … and wasn’t sure I even cared.

Now, we’re out socializing and swing dancing together again … feeling more loving and encouraged than ever.

Tho we still have LOTS of work to do on our own, Bruce has given us plenty of excellent tools with the possibility of lifetime access to all of them.

And he’ll still be there for us if we need him for private coaching. All very comforting and helpful.

We both feel much more empowered to move past our natural differences that used to get in the way and prevented real connection and communication.

I’m really not sure we’d still be together if we hadn’t found this program when we did.

Bruce certainly over-delivers for all of us.

Big HUGS to you, Bruce!!

Muchas, muchas gracias!!

Susan Barnard

Rebecca

Rebecca

Divorce was my next step. If you are ready to give up, you need to try this program first.

Divorce was my next step. After 11 years of marriage and 2 kids, we had slowly drifted apart until I felt completely disconnected and misunderstood.

Being parents kept us highly motivated to try everything to save our marriage, but we were running out of things to try.

We had tried individual and couples counseling with mediocre results. We just needed to learn the tools to connect and communicate. Bruce was able to do that.

I stumbled across Bruce’s program just in time. Another month may have been too late, we were on the brink of giving up entirely.

Now, even though it’s still not easy, at least we feel like we have the tools and skills to move through conflict towards a more positive result.

If you are ready to give up, you need to try this program first.

A heartfelt thank you to Bruce!

Thank you for sharing your knowledge and gift of teaching with us. It really has made all the difference.

Rebecca

Malin Nordmark

Malin Nordmark

We had no idea what was waiting for us when we hit that buy button 8 weeks ago, but I’m so glad that we did.

I loved this program, I loved your videos and the Mentoring Calls.

We got to hear about other couples in trouble and I think that’s good for two reasons.

1. Because we learned a lot from the others. 2. We learned that we are not alone.

We learned that relationships can’t be easy all the time and that you should not break up when things get tough.

The exercises were both hard and very rewarding.

Both I and Christofer have been crying and filled with anxiety, “what are my needs?” “What do I want?” etc. we had no idea what was waiting when we hit that buy button 8 weeks ago but I’m so glad that we did.

And your coaching Bruce, amazing! You have all the information in your head so you know exactly what to answer the instant a question gets asked.

You listen and make sure that you understand completely, your passion is inspiring.

We felt like we could trust you and that’s part of why we spent so much time with this program.

“If Bruce says so then it must be true, we could at least try” (if there was an exercise one of us was afraid of or that felt unnecessary).

This program is hard work, it is entirely up to each person what you get out of it. If you decide to work hard and do all the exercises you will see an incredibly big difference in your relationship.

We have received so many tools and so many insights through the program, love is not just something that happens, it’s something you do and it’s not easy to know exactly what to do, but Bruce has shown us just that.

Everything in this program should be things you learn in school, after every week I have been thinking: “why have not I been told this before?”.

I understand and know my partner better than I have ever done, I love him more deeply than ever.

Malin Nordmark

Sue Mackimmie

Sue Mackimmie

I’ve spent the cost of my house in SF on therapy over the last few decades and I got further with this short course than ever before.

This is the best gift you can give to yourself and your love.

I never thought I could get past being right, or that I do all the giving (insert tearful martyr face here…)

This is a partnership and if you want to move past your sticking points and really make progress in your most important relationship, take this course.

Bruce is a great coach, using teaching tools from many experts, and being an unbiased coach – not a therapist or cop or family member who means well.

You can make progress and see a brighter future. I would never have thought we could really have so much intimacy and hope for our future which has already started.

I was at the end of my proverbial rope, with nothing else to lose, we signed up and did the homework, took advantage of the Mentoring Calls and now we have this bond that is solid.

My partner is my best friend and we have so much love and have de-garbaged our relationship. It’s so much lighter and I have so much more insight into what my partner treasures and I can offer that.

INVEST in your love and yourself and your future together as a loving, best friend team. You won’t regret it!

The anonymity of calls online was so helpful in staying focused and feeling free to talk about issues.

The price! totally affordable and we could just move ahead.

I’ve spent the cost of my house in SF on therapy over the last few decades and I got further with this short course than ever before.

Sue Mackimmie

Kaira Wyss

Kaira Wyss

We were desperate because we couldn't resolve our problems! After only 2 sessions our relationship turned around.

I am a 58 year old woman from Europe that did a lot of personal growth work in my past.

I also struggled through many relationships and two failed marriages. Of all the interesting work I’ve done, Bruce’s Love At First Fight curriculum has been the clearest, most helpful, expedient, insightful, most professionally put together and most lovingly and joyfully delivered!

I enrolled together with my boyfriend of 2 years.

We love each other very much but were completely stuck in the Power Struggle phase without knowing it.

We experienced it as a complete break down of our otherwise excellent, open and honest communication and a total loss of connection, which hurt and scared us tremendously.
We simply did not know how to deal with the sudden misunderstandings, the feelings of alienation, of experiencing the partner as an enemy and of total hope- and helplessness in our previously so beautiful, intimate and deeply caring relationship

We were desperate because no communication could solve our problems!

We were headed towards a totally unwanted break up and were devastated by the thought of another relationship failure. Since I remembered that a relationship has to fall out of the Romantic Stage in order to grow, I googled “relationship phases” and checked different sites that were dealing with this issue.

Bruce’s energy was so upbeat, loving, confident and supportive that we felt very comfortable right away. After only two sessions our relationship turned around completely. Connection and communication were restored, we learned about the deeper causes of our problems and how to solve them expediently.

It was such a liberating and nonjudgmental process, we were utterly elated and in awe of it! It had no therapeutic feel to it, which we really liked, having had unsatisfying experiences with couples therapy in former relationships.

The greatest result is that we feel like a deeply loving, committed, invincible team now. We got the skills to deal with future challenges, and we can share what we learned with other couples!

Thank you Bruce, for your service to the world!

Kaira Wyss

JULIE ROBBINS

Julie Robbins

This program has transformed everything in just three weeks.

We’re totally on track and LOVING this program. Unlike most courses, programs, books, coaching, counselling I’ve come across or experienced – I would love to inspire EVERYONE interested in a more fulfilling life to do this course.

Sebastian and I are giving it our all and it’s transformed everything in just three weeks (we started a week before the course by watching videos we found on your website).

Not only am I reaping the benefits of the course with myself and in my marriage, but I’m also really enjoying and appreciate your skills and heart at holding space for people in their vulnerability, their courage and their possibility.

I engage in a leadership circle with colleagues from different parts of the world and last week shared with them some gems from your course – which I described to them as a leadership course about cultivating deeply fulfilling relationships.

What you’ve created here Bruce is huge – know that we’re working our butts off and enjoy your videos and you during the live calls – and although some of them are super challenging (mostly to the ego!) we’re also really enjoying the exercises.

Julie Robbins

Pamela Cournoyer

Pamela Cournoyer

We’re in a whole different space now and I’m not scared of what might happen anymore. This program has saved our marriage.

Our marriage is transforming right before our eyes! Thank you for sharing this invaluable information, you are a delight to work with, I love how you make it safe to share.

Bruce, I’m a communications expert myself (by profession), and you’ve just taught me how to listen!

I am seeing Michael and I connecting faster, and becoming more vulnerable with each other without defensiveness.

We’re in a whole different space now and I’m not scared of what might happen anymore. Thanks to what we’ve learned, I know now that we have the tools to deal with anything.

We’re only on Week 3, but I have to tell you, this program has saved our marriage. My work has skyrocketed and I know that’s because of the peace that I have with my husband now.

We WILL finish this class, because it’s just so wonderful.

We told our kids about your program, they are watching the free video’s right now, can’t wait to get them enrolled in this!

Thank you Bruce.

Pamela Cournoyer

Mandi Ellefson

Mandi Ellefson

Our marriage has gone from very rocky, with us both being hurt and resentful, to a deep love that I didn’t think was possible.

Bruce, thank you so much for all of the time and energy you put into our relationship.

Our marriage has gone from very rocky, with us both being hurt and resentful, to a deep love that I didn’t think was possible.

You helped us create a safe space to open up and be close again. And it has had a lasting impact in every area of my life.

I am now a better, wife, mother, and overall person. I have grown so much as a person through our brief time working together. Jay and I have both grown in love and appreciation.

You have accomplished miracles where marriage counseling, personal therapy, a seminar, and countless books fell short.

Thank you for all the time and care you have taken to develop and share your gifts with the world. You are providing an invaluable service. This is the best investment we have ever made as a couple in our 10 years together.

Mandi Ellefson

Jason Foote

Jason Foote

If things seem unbearable, hold off just 7 more weeks. Not only did it re-engage us, it has given me massive insight into myself.

Well what a journey this has been. I joined this program to attempt to re-engage with my ex (mother of my daughter) after a considerable break and a tumultuous 7 year relationship.

Not only did it re-engage us, it has given me massive insight to myself and relationships in general.

This course is very well researched and effectively compiled for maximum results.

7 weeks is not long to make such a considerable change in your relationship.

If you are thinking of leaving your partner or if things seem unbearable, hold off just 7 more weeks with an open mind and a willingness to resolve relationship issues once and for all.

Jason Foote

Verity Noble

Verity Noble

We were in a really rocky place. Although we haven’t yet managed to complete the whole course, we have fallen back in love.

I just wanted to write you an email and say how life changing this experience has been for us.

We were in a really rocky place and although we haven’t yet managed to complete the whole course, it has changed our relationship immensely.

We have fallen back in love, we argue less, we’re more understanding and most importantly, we can see how to succeed for the long-term.
I have been telling a ton of people how amazing the course is so wanted to find out if you had some kind of referral system so that I can put them in touch with you or send them a link to the next course?

Huge congratulations on producing such a fantastic curriculum, one that truly works.

Verity Noble

Todd Sedelmeier

Todd Sedelmeier

We’ve been in tears of joy. Our sex has improved and our love and appreciation is deeper.

Man, you blew the doors off of what I was expecting. Not only did my girl and I come together in a whole new way, but I finally felt understood by her like I never have.

As a result, we’re more intimate, our sex has improved, our love and appreciation is deeper… and friends keep telling us that we are ‘such a great couple’.

We’ve been in tears of joy and since then, I’ve been applying my new understanding of relationships and communication in my business with clients and with my family and with my friends.

This work is soooo important.

Thanks Bruce!

Todd Sedelmeier

Anna Burns

Anna Burns

We are kinder to each other, more loving and... more romantic too! It really changed our whole relationship.

Having known Bruce through his Designer Life courses we both knew as soon as the info landed in our inbox that it was the course for us.

The 7 week course really has changed our relationship. We were stuck in a cycle of power struggles and very independent, which meant we were not always kind or compassionate towards each other.

The fantastic videos, along with the excellent weekly exercises allowed us gently and genuinely to relook at ourselves and our relationship and to create a new way of being with each other, in only 7 weeks.

The weekly conference calls were a great addition too, with lots of lovely participants sharing from their hearts.

Since finishing the course, we have had very little conflict, and any conflict we have had has been resolved quickly and easily. We are kinder to each other, more loving and are experimenting with being more romantic too!

We now do fun things together on the weekend, instead of complaining that we don’t have anything in common! And we’ve just celebrated our 12th anniversary, so it was a wonderful anniversary gift to ourselves.

I’ll admit we were geeky and did all our homework every week as instructed, but I’d really recommend this – get as much as you can out of it while it runs, you can always go back and redo some parts at a more in depth level later on.

I’d totally recommend Bruce’s Love at First Fight programme – it really changed our whole relationship.”

Anna Burns

Cheryl Coffey

Cheryl Coffey

Bruce gave me the confidence to stay present as we worked through our struggles. Attending this class saved our relationship.

After my divorce I found myself slipping back into an old pattern of three month relationships. Either I or the man I was dating would run at the first sign of trouble.

As my current relationship approached three months I received an email from Bruce about his “Love at First Fight” program, so I signed up. The timing was perfect.

Bruce taught me to see and overcome my escape tendencies, increase my understanding of myself and my partner and gave me the confidence to stay present as we worked through our struggles.

Attending this class saved our relationship.

I am so grateful for his help and encourage everyone, no matter what your relationship circumstances, to take this class. Bliss is attainable.

Cheryl Coffey

Lorne Noble

Lorne Noble

We have reconnected on a level I never imagined and it’s truly magical.

I didn’t realize it, but my wife and I had started living completely independent lives.

Bruce’s programme has helped us understand each other, communicate more effectively and avoid the daily friction and pain.

It is now my greatest pleasure to support my wife in the way she wants and consequently, she understands when I need space. We have reconnected on a level I never imagined and it’s truly magical.

Thank you so much Bruce, we couldn’t be happier.

Lorne Noble

Lyndel Maroske

Lyndel Maroske

While my partner didn’t participate as much as I'd hoped, the skills still succeeded in bringing about much needed improvements.

Bruce, your program is one of the most comprehensive and easy to understand programs for couples I can imagine finding.

I loved the naturalness of your presentation and the anecdotes from your own relationship, which made me feel I was normal.

While my partner didn’t participate as much as I’d hoped, the skills and info that I shared with him still succeeded in bringing about much needed improvements in our relationship.

With the videos, exercises and coaching calls, the program is excellent value for money.

I have already recommended the program to other friends and family members.

I just want to thank you Bruce, for your hard work in putting together such an insightful and brilliant couple’s program!

Lyndel Maroske

Tessa Klein

Tessa Klein

I can’t believe it, but my husband and I actually made it through our big fight yesterday.

I couldn’t stand the fighting any more. We’d seen two other therapists who couldn’t help us at all.

I gave my husband an ultimatum – either figure out how to communicate better, or I’m moving out. My bags were packed!

I can’t believe it, but my husband and I actually made it through our big fight yesterday. After going through Love at First Fight, I think we are actually going to make it.

So, we are on the mend. Thank you Bruce! I enjoy how committed you are. You worked some magic here because we were definitely a worst-case scenario!

Tessa Klein

Craig Filek

Craig Filek

This saved me years of conventional therapy. Thanks for turning the lights on for me!

Bruce – I just had to reach out and thank you. An hour on the phone with you saved me years of conventional therapy. The maps of relationship you laid out, combined with insights from the Enneagram about the specific needs my partner and I have – brilliant!

Your gentle and penetrating insights are very easily received and I’m confident my road ahead in this relationship will be much smoother as a result.

Thanks for turning the lights on for me!

Craig Filek

Caryn V.

Caryn

Before this program I had low self esteem. Now I have clarity, my confidence has increased and my relationships are so much more fulfilling.

Before this program I was wishy washy, had low self esteem and was powerless in all of my relationships. Now I have clarity on healthy relationships, my confidence has increased and my relationship with my son, friends and family are so much more fulfilling now.

I highly recommend this program for anyone in relationships or single.

Caryn

Angel Lek

Angel Lek

We’re definitely loving and connected now. This is a HUGE improvement from the pain we were both in just eight weeks ago.

Hi Bruce, I entered this program ready to grow and change the way I usually behave in relationships, and I feel like I have learnt exactly how to do that in the past few weeks.

The most beneficial tool to us so far has been the communication skill you taught us in week 2. We started using it, I learned that before we broke up he had been feeling as if this relationship was THE ONE and that scared him. I had no idea that he considered me THE ONE!

When I first asked him to do this program with me eight weeks ago, we had just broken up and he agreed to only as a means of figuring out what had gone wrong. He said that we could reevaluate in two months and see if we were actually compatible. Of course, those beginning weeks were horrible and filled with fear that he would leave at any moment, but what you taught us about Hailstorms and Turtles and their specific needs motivated me to stop myself from acting out whenever I felt insecure.

It was amazing how safe that conversation made me feel, and we definitely could not have done it without everything you taught us! I can easily imagine a similar conversation in the past building up into accusations and conflict, so I cannot thank you enough for helping us avoid that. I kept this quote at the back of my mind: “Do not sacrifice what you want most for what you want right now.”

Although we still have a long way to go, we’re definitely loving and connected now. This is a HUGE improvement from the pain we were both in just eight weeks ago.

Thank you so much Bruce, for guiding us through this and for being such a phenomenal person and coach. I love what you do for people and there really should be more people teaching these essential life skills. I’ll really miss talking to you!

Thank you once again, my gratitude is beyond words.

Angel Lek

Chris Partington

Chris Partington

If you need a track to follow when you’ve lost your way with the love of your life, this is the course for you!

Bruce, we are now more connected and committed than ever.

I am more optimistic (about our relationship) than ever despite having confirmed we are completely opposite.

A testimonial for you: If you need a port in a storm for a stormy relationship or a track to follow when you’ve lost your way with the love of your life, this is the course for you!

Chris Partington

Vikki Brown

Vikki Brown

I was single when I signed up. I found what I was looking for before I even finished the course.

I highly recommend The Love of First Fight coaching program for any couple wishing to grow their relationship and connect on a deeper level.

Heck, I recommend this course for single people too. I was single when I signed up – wanting to learn as much as possible about myself and the best way to create an intimate, loving and connected relationship!

I found what I was looking for before I even finished the course.

Bruce’s open and honest style of teaching/coaching, videos with the practical exercises, the live coaching calls that link current relationship theory and neuroscience creates a package that will meet the needs of most every type of adult learner. Give your self the gift of love. Join Bruce for 7 weeks.”

Vikki Brown

Jay Ellefson

Jay Ellefson

Our time with you has made such and difference in our lives. We have become so much closer in every respect.

Bruce, I just wanted to take a minute to thank you for all the work you did with Mandi and I. Your relationship coaching has brought us closer than we could have ever imagined.

We thought we wanted to go back to the way things were when we married but you’ve put us into a place far beyond that.

I know that you have a life other than work, so making an exception and doing our sessions on Saturday was less than optimal for you. Thank goodness you stuck with us.

Our time with you has made such and difference in our lives. We have become so much closer in every respect.

Again, I can not express how grateful I personally am for your kindness and help.

Jay Ellefson

Rhonda Darling

Rhonda Darling

We were not talking to one another before the course began and now we are.

The Love at First Fight program has brought renewed hope into our relationship. We were not talking to one another before the course began and now we are. We are beginning to see one another and our relationship in a new way.

Bruce cares deeply about his clients and supporting them in getting the most out of the program. He creates a safe and accepting space to explore yourself and your relationships in order to create greater happiness and wholeness.

Rhonda Darling

Rebecca Mead

Rebecca Mead

I have changed. I really loved this course and was sad when it finished.

I have changed. I’m using the things I learned to discuss things with my husband. I find I am listening to him, calming him, soothing him.

This program is amazing. It has changed my view on relationships.

I now understand what behaviours negatively impact my relationship and what to do to make my relationship better. Amazing. I really loved this course and was sad when it finished.

Rebecca Mead

Lynette Anderson

Lynette Anderson

I have not felt this connected or in love with Andre in years. Your program has been put together magnificently.

I just wanted to send a mail to say thank you. I have not felt this connected or in love with Andre in years. During the first week I was very nervous – especially looking into his eyes – I wanted to crawl out of my skin and run away… But I didn’t and it has been so beautifully worth it for us.

Your program has been put together magnificently. It is easy to see how passionate you are about helping people to love each other and have wonderful relationships.

I have not been able to express any sort of love for a very long time to anyone. It feels like something has melted away now and these gorgeous, warm and fuzzy feelings have come tumbling out – I am so excited – I feel alive again.

Thank you.

This sounds cheesy – but you really have changed my life forever.

Lynette Anderson

Dezana Aman

Dezana Aman

This comprehensive interactive course was far more than I expected.

This comprehensive interactive course was far more than I expected.

I highly recommend it to anyone wanting to understand how to succeed in a fulfilling partnership of any kind.

Bruce is down to earth, creative and colorful. He makes you understand why you want a relationship in the first place!

Dezana Aman

Laura Haspela

We have more time connecting. Less time pouting and turning away from each other.

The skills I learned through this course have positively impacted all of my relationships, not just my marriage.

There were so many aha moments.

I realized that we earn loving relationships through our hard work. I was living the dream that our love should be easier than this if it is true love…if I am with the right man. Bullshit. Relationships are work…loving, rewarding work.

We have more time connectingLess time pouting and turning away from each other.

I had no idea it was possible to turn fighting into a bonding ritual. Bruce showed us how!

Bruce is a gifted and unique coach. His vulnerability and authenticity are inspiring.

He is a warm, wise soul, playful and fun loving, and not afraid to call you on your bullshit.

Laura Haspela

Dan Lee

Dan Lee

I had begun to lose the luster of our relationship. Now, instead of fighting each other, we've become a couple working together.

With 32 loving, faithful and nurturing years of marriage, my wife and I had begun to lose the luster of our relationship, slipping into bickering and fighting.

I always “had to be right” and she felt that I never really heard her, as she was sorely missing the language of love that she wants, needs and deserves.

And we both missed the common ground of intimacy as we engaged in a self-defeating exercise of misunderstanding.

Bruce’s program brought all of this into perspective. Now, instead of fighting each other, we began to work together to break the cycle of harsh words and hurt feelings — and once again we became a couple working together and not against each other.

The time, the tools, and the coaching made all the difference.

Bravo, Bruce!

Dan Lee

Laura and Tom Davis

Laura and Tom Davis

This is an amazing, AMAZING, program! I am married today because of my participation

This is an amazing, AMAZING, program! The information presented here needs to be shared with everyone and anyone that is involved in any type of a relationship!

If two people are committed to work through the program, I cannot imagine how their marriage could fail!

So superior to any books I have read and tried to apply, and marriage counseling.

I am married today because of my participation – thank you Bruce Muzik!

Laura and Tom Davis

JENNIFER MCCAIN

Jennifer McCain

We have been able to have SEVERAL difficult conversations without ANY fighting... It’s been a lifesaver.

We were so in love, and yet we couldn’t stop the fighting. It was going to destroy us.

Seeing a therapist just didn’t seem like it would be enough. I heard about this program and decided to give it a try.

The program is flexible and allowed us to really focus on our communication issues.

We have been able to have SEVERAL difficult conversations without ANY fighting as a result. It’s been at least a couple of weeks since our last angry conversation.

We feel so much more connected and so much closer now. It’s been a lifesaver.

We are more in love than ever.

Jennifer McCain

Beth A.

Beth A.

We were 2 months from divorce... By the end of the program we had fallen in love again.

When we came to the program, my husband had estimated we were “2 months from divorce”.

Married for nearly 23 years, so it was worth the investment in relationship coaching. (Which is A LOT cheaper than marriage counseling.)

By week 3 of this program, things were turning around in a big way. Today, at the end of the program we have fallen in love with each other again.

Everything this program promises is possible, including returning to “hot sex”.

Beth A.

Beth A.

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Jill M.

This program should be done by every individual on earth, whether in a relationship or not.

This program is phenomenal. I did the EST training when I was 8 years old in 1978, and since that time filled my life with trainings of all sorts. I have read and done several of the various techniques that Bruce brought to this course and was familiar with almost everything. My previous work was all done independently, at random, and not until Bruce’s workshop, where he skillfully provided a guided format was I able to connect all the dots, to see a view like never before, a result like no other in regards to relationships. 

What’s SO BRILLIANT about what you, Bruce, have done is that you have put all these amazing tools and techniques and research together in such a way that it has the most profound effect I have ever experienced in my life in regards to personal transformation. You had the bigger view to see what pieces needed to be put in place to make the “relationship puzzle” complete, for my own relationship to become a more transparent, loving, communicative relationship with my husband, (and myself!). It’s absolutely hands down, an unprecedented life changing realm. And, again this is coming from someone who has spent their whole life doing this kind of work, (40 plus years) utilizing various modalities for empowerment, healing, and transformation. 

This program should be done by every individual on earth, whether in a relationship or not. I see it realistically, not optimistically, as a viable avenue, with the holding capacity to bring about world peace, based simply on the foundation of communicating to each other our “softer feelings”. What I learned in the workshop was that these tender feelings we are scared to express and let people see, once expressed, are in reality what brings us fearlessness. And, in turn, have the ability to generate compassion and empathy in the listener. That was a life changer.

Bruce, you are The Great Encourager, giving people the courage to be loving and kind, take the first step, and be bigger than they have known themselves to be.

I am eternally, and beyond eternity, grateful for you, Bruce. 

With much love and much respect, 

Jill M.

Jill M.

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Amy

I wish I would not have waited so long to seek out Bruce for help.

When I first started the Love at First Fight course, my marriage was in jeopardy.  Our discussions seemed to always escalate in the typical power struggle mode of disagreement.  

My spouse was not supportive of taking this with me, so I took the steps to go through the course on my own, for my personal growth.  

On each mentoring call, Bruce was sensitive to each individual’s situation. When I would share my celebrations and struggles, he was genuinely interested in what was going well and was equally determined to help each person with the next step of their own personal relationship journey. 

Even though I implemented the exercises independently, the change that overcame me spilled over to my spouse and we have been able to have healthy discussions and more physical intimacy.  

I wish I would not have waited so long to seek out Bruce for help.  

If you are struggling in your relationship, give Bruce a chance. He is credible, caring, and a wonderful human being!  You won’t be sorry you took the step to allow him to coach you.

Amy

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Angela Bard

My partner and I have never been more connected... we live as a team everyday supporting our love.

Bruce is brilliant.  My partner and I have never been more connected.  

We have been able to apply the tools Bruce taught us in his Love at First Fight program and move through repetitive arguments that had eventually cause us to separate and question if we wanted to stay together. 

Bruce has designed a program that teaches you connection first and he shares research from around the world that impacts relationships. 

Not only do these tools help you understand your reactions but also your partner’s reactions which helped us to become vulnerable and react from a place of love instead of being defensive.  

I cannot say enough about the Love at First Fight program. 

I would and have recommended this program to anyone whether they are currently in a relationship or not.  I learned so much about myself and was able to show up for my partner and we live as a team everyday supporting our love. 

Angela Bard

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Laura

This is not an average couple counselling program in which you are advised to improve your communication skills – this relationship course goes much deeper than that.

“Love at First Fight” is an amazing program that will challenge you to see things differently – not only about yourself, but also about your partner and your relationship, as a whole.

In my case, even though I have been studying personal development for several years and have read many books and articles about relationships, it has still brought up new things that I have never knew or even considered – such as learning about the “5 stages of a relationship”, how your childhood wounds can affect your relationship, how your blind spots and escape hatches can sabotage your relationship, as well as how to create a handbook to your heart to give to your partner, instead of expecting them to guess your needs, wants and requirements.

Also, Bruce is an amazing teacher, who not only has made his own mistakes in the past that he learned from, but he is now leading the way through example.

This is a very important aspect to consider when joining a relationship coaching program – so always do your thorough research prior to joining a couple counselling program and ask yourself: Is the instructor leading the way through example or just paraphrasing from books, like many others, while their personal life and relationship/marriage is far from what they are preaching?

I have personally done what I am advising you to do, before joining this program. And now that I have completed it, I can say that this is not an average couple counselling program in which you are advised to improve your communication skills – this relationship course goes much deeper than that.

But don’t just take my word for it. Instead, look up Bruce on LinkedIn or Facebook, listen to his Ted Talk, or his free relationship videos on YouTube and read his free articles on the web – and you will understand what I mean.

I can assure you that if you are serious about your partner and your relationship, this course will be one of the best investments that you will ever make in your life!

Laura

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Samantha Du Toit

I hope this course goes forever because when our kids get engaged we’re sending them both on this course.

We would highly recommend couples to do this course at the start of their journey.

I hope this course goes forever because when our kids get engaged we’re sending them both on this course.

It’s incredibly valuable for everyone to spend the time understanding themselves, what makes them tick, how and why they react the way they do, and what they truly value.

Bruce is so passionate about everything that he teaches and he’s so knowledgeable.

We learnt so much about ourselves and each other in the last 7 weeksmore than we did in the last 10 years of being married.

Thank you Bruce.

Samantha Du Toit

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Denisa and Shihab

I was initially skeptical...

Bruce….you the man!!!

For some background, Denisa and I come from diametrically opposite backgrounds (She is Romanian and I am Indian) and we have been in a long distance relationship for about a year now.

We decided to enter your program because we couldn’t figure out how to resolve our challenges by ourselves, as it seemed that we were having the same arguments over and over again or creating new conflicts without resolving old ones.

It has been a struggle at times and though we love each other deeply, our conflicts usually ended up in both of us feeling hurt and miserable.

It was Denisa’s idea to seek help and she found your body of work. I was initially skeptical as I wasn’t sure how effective it would be, however your program completely changed my views and you totally delivered with all your promises!

As a direct result of going through your course, we are both happier, feel more connected to each other, are safe and secure in each other’s love and are so much more comfortable together than we have ever been. The weekly calls and your insight have given us a more profound understanding of how our relationship works and a lot of credit for that goes to you.

Thank you so much for all your help and support, it has been an enlightening experience going through the program together and both of us have walked away from it having learnt so much more about each other and ourselves.

With lots of love,

Denisa and Shihab

Denisa and Shihab

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Jel

After us seeing two couples counsellors over several years... THIS was the course that knocked our socks off.

After us seeing two couples counsellors over several years and a lot of “communication tools” THIS was the course that knocked our socks off and actually spoke to both of us, and we are using this as a foundation to build our relationship.

EVERYONE should do this course, whether or not you are actually in conflict – I wish I had found this years ago.

Bruce is an excellent teacher and I absolutely recommend it

Jel

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Jane J

It has helped us have a united approach to our children. 

I feel so much more safe with my husband.  He is more open and I feel special to him because he has let me into his inner life again.  Our sex life has improved because I don’t feel like he is just looking for me to do another chore.

It is about both of us expressing love and having fun. I have become a calmer person and things that use to make me hailstorm do not any longer.

I realize so much of my behavior that was bugging my husband was just a bid for attention.  It has helped us have a united approach to our children.  They know we are doing the program and we have talked about what we have learned. 

We were always a loyal family and protective of each other but now we are more mindful of our interactions with each other and being kind. 

Thank you Bruce.

Jane J

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Denise

Bruce far exceeds any marriage therapy session one could take.

The videos Bruce made each week were informative, enlightening and helpful.

Bruce is masterful at integrating research from various experts, such as John Gottman and David Deida, into his various topics.

In addition, Bruce added personal experiences with a dose of his own vulnerability and realness.

He is better than any therapist I have ever had.

Most importantly, he seems to really care about his program and the effectiveness of it.

He helped me by modeling the tools to examine my behavior more effectively.

I have attended marriage counseling with reputable Ph.D. therapists, who have studied the research of John Gottman and other relationship experts. However, Bruce Muzik is a master communicator and so well-read with best practice and research.

Bruce far exceeds any marriage therapy session one could take, providing both partners commit to the program.

I would pay to see him live.

Denise

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Mark Johnson

To anyone falling out of love with someone you know you used to love, this will change your lives.

After 32 years of a fabulous relationship and life together, we found ourselves emotionally disconnected and finally physically disconnected knowing something was wrong.

The scary thing was, we being smart people had no idea how to fix it.

We went to counseling; counsel tells you what you can and can’t do, we read books, but we got no tools that worked for us. Our relationship was broken and we didn’t know how to fix it!!

A very scary point when the wife suggested she stay at a friend’s house….and I was helping her pack her bag out of frustration and helplessness.

Just as she was at the door, she came into the den to say goodbye. Out of desperation, I was searching the internet for answers and had just watched your ‘intro’ video and it spoke to me.

With tears running down my face, I asked if she would take a moment and just watch it with me….I’m crying again as I type this…. sorry.

Bruce, you saved our marriage!!!!!

It spoke to her and to me in a way that was unimaginable. We are more in love emotionally and physically than we ever thought possible.

We have reduced our escalation of conflicts in number and intensity by 90% and understand what to do now when it happens. We are deeply in love and committed to each other’s requirements, needs, and wants.

Bruce has a special gift to provide insight and understanding in a non-judging non-threatening way on deeply personal and emotional subject matters.

He is honest and vulnerable about himself.

To anyone falling out of love with someone you know you used to love, this will change your lives.

It’s the best of the best of the best of Marriage coaching all rolled into one concise program.

Mark Johnson

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Anonymous

The Mentoring Calls have been absolutely awesome!!! We love them!

Now, after four weeks into the program, we are loving each other, she has moved back in with me.

Our arguments are a thing of the past, we are connected and we have acquired so many tools to de-escalate and resolve conflict, that it rarely occurs anymore.

We were simply ignorant and quite frankly, didn’t know how to love each other, that awareness and realization overall was a very humbling experience!

I am now able to love her and she is able to love me.

We have gained valuable insight and understanding as to what went wrong, why it went wrong and why we both suffered so painfully for 5 long and agonizing years.

We no longer live with fear, hurt, unresolved conflict, anger or disconnection.

We are not perfect and still have on occasion a disagreement, but it resolves very quickly and we can easily love each other and end things in a warm embrace instead of a “freeze & flee” result which is so destructive.

We will always be grateful Bruce for what you have given us in this program, it has saved our relationship, our lives, our original music along with our hopes, aspirations, and dreams.

We now live in peace and harmony and can be the loving songwriting team that we need to be to make our existence successful. We look forward to completing the program and making LAFF a lifestyle for the remainder of our lives.

When we are done, we will on occasion repeat the program so it stays fresh and we can obtain deeper things we didn’t catch the first time though.

I burned all the Mentoring Calls to date (4 weeks along with the welcome call) onto a CD that we listen to in the car, and although we have attended every Mentoring Call, we have found that we get so much out of doing this.

We gain much deeper insight, are able to listen more in-depth and get more out of it after multiple listens.

I was a bit skeptical when I found out that we would meet as a group and thought that perhaps I might get a bit lost in the mix, but I was wrong to doubt in any fashion, it turns out just as you said, being part of the group works extremely well and offers more than what we would probably get out of doing it one on one.

Things that I didn’t think of in many cases someone else did, or problems that I thought I didn’t have someone else did and I was just not aware that I had the same troubles or had not faced them yet.

We have learned a lot listening to the perspective of others, listening to your responses to them as well as sharing our journey and where we are at and getting feedback on that.

The Mentoring Calls have been absolutely awesome!!! We love them!

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Anonymous

7 short weeks later my wife calls me ‘her man’.

My wife asked me for a separation 9 weeks ago. I said no or I knew we were finished. She found this online course and said she would commit to the 7 weeks.

We worked at it diligently and put other things aside for the sake of our children.

We had worked with two marriage counselors over the past 10 years and were familiar with the 5 Languages of Love, Susan Johnson’s work with attachment theory etc.

It all made sense but nothing really changed in our relationship. We were still deeply unhappy and just felt ‘we had married the wrong person’.

With your course, 7 short weeks later my wife calls me ‘her man’ and I feel real love for her for the first time in years.

We are excited by our new tools, language, and learning.

You have something that makes it all work. By observation, I would say it is not only the skill that you bring to the Marital Therapy arena but something more powerful.

I believe it is a congruence of belief, speech, and action.

By this, I mean that to have the positive kind of influence that you have, you must own an unshakably held core belief-that couples in most instances can not only ‘work it out’ but be thrilled with the partner that once was the object of a seething resentment.

You really and truly believe it yourself.

This is powerful. It cannot be faked and the motive behind the results is a pure one. It is not the money but a passion for good relationships that drives you.

This combined with genuine enthusiasm toward those relationships, skilled pedagogical technique, fantastic materials, and insight all make for a program that CANNOT be overlooked by anyone interested in a better relationship.

My only caveat is that these techniques are so powerful that dishonest men and women can misuse them to make anyone they choose to fall in love with them!

So thank you, Bruce, for so diligently pursuing your life’s passion.

The family is the bedrock of society and your work is saving and enriching that bedrock. This is truly an enduring legacy.

Keep up the great work!

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Barry

There is a wealth of really great material in the course. You’ll get back 10-fold what you put into it.

My girlfriend and I have just completed the Love At First Fight program and I must say we feel we’re in better shape now because of it.

There is a wealth of really great material in the course – the weekly videos, the calls and the resource material (recommended books, etc.).

It is going to take up a good deal of your time so you will need to come committed but trust me, you’ll get back 10-fold what you put into it.

It’s a very useful course if you need some help to get you through the rockier moments or if you want to grow as people and a couple.

Thank you Bruce!

Barry

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Sherezz

I feel like I can finally breathe for the first time in weeks! I loved the insightful exercises and informative videos.

I feel like I can finally breathe for the first time in weeks!

I feel like a lot of the tension that was built up inside of me has mostly dissipated!

Bruce, you can’t begin to understand how thankful I am to you for the two weeks of your program thus far which has started to make a difference in our relationship.

I loved learning about the communication techniques, the bids, and attachment styles. I loved the exercises and the videos. They were very informative and very insightful. I loved the first set of assignments as well.

This program teaches you so much about relationships and about strengthening your emotional connection with your partner.

Thank you!

Sherezz

Michael Frazier

Michael Frazier

What made the biggest difference was learning how to listen and BE OKAY with whatever she is feeling.

Bruce has given me the confidence that I will be able to handle whatever comes along in my relationship – and stuff IS gonna come along!!

I feel like I have just taken flying lessons and I will respond appropriately should we suddenly fly into some unexpected turbulence.

For me, what made the biggest difference was learning how to listen and BE OKAY with whatever she is feeling, without trying to get her to stop feeling it to make myself more comfortable.

I can relax!!!

Michael Frazier

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Heike Brewster

Heike Brewster

Bruce's programme helped my husband and me to come unstuck from a cycle of arguments.

Bruce’s programme helped my husband and me to come unstuck from a cycle of arguments and move forward into a connected and loving relationship where we now have effective tools to work through our difficult moments calmly.

Having tried relationship counselling in the past without result we both engaged in this accessible, clear and in depth program and got the results we were looking for.

Thank you Bruce for making the research so easy to understand, your analogies and examples resonated easily with me, the structure is and sequence of the modules works extremely well and the tools are invaluable and the whole course is so accessible.

Heike Brewster

Marcia Nardo

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After completing the program I have reconnected with the guy I fell in love with back then.

We’ve been together for 19 years, after completing the program I have reconnected with the guy I fell in love with back then.

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Sarah Claridge

Sarah Claridge

It was a pleasure to do this course and a real eye opener.

Bruce has an amazing way of speaking that hits right at the heart. He is funny, empathetic and incredibly educated in this field. It was a pleasure to do this course and a real eye opener.

Helped me to realise that we are not the only ones with relationship issues – we are all the same, struggling to be loved, heard and understood. Thank you Bruce.

Sarah Claridge

Kerri Reber

Kerri Reber

I loved the program and wholeheartedly recommend it to any couple.

Loveatfirstfight is the first relationship program I’ve taken that actually makes sense!

Bruce tackles real life situations with real life solutions that really can’t fail if both partners are invested and committed to each other.

I loved the program and wholeheartedly recommend it to any couple, whether they are struggling, or not.

Kerri Reber

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Poppy Chickadee

This program should be mandatory for all couples - it would have saved us years of suffering.

This program should be mandatory for all couplesit would have saved us years of suffering. I am so glad that I know about it now, because it reframes what feels like personal slights into a broader context of human attachment patterns.

This makes it easier to identify and rectify exactly where and why the relationship is breaking down, and how to fix it in an way that makes both people feel seen, heard, valued, safe, and loved.

I regret the years I spent in my marriage taking things personally and not taking responsibility for my own behaviour. Now I know two things I never thought I would: how to feel safe and how to be happy. Years 18 of our marriage is finally looking bright.

Thank you Bruce!

Poppy Chickadee

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Anonymous

I now feel more capable, and therefore less afraid, when things come up.

Wow, wow, wow!!! The thoroughness, clarity and value of this course work offers a game changer.

When I began I was utterly shattered, frustrated and feeling despair in my current relationship, and in relating with my son’s father. I have historically leaned towards being conciliatory, and absolutely averse to any conflict, always compromising myself in a commitment to harmony which was therefore never true harmony.

All that Bruce models in this course work has been an answer to my prayers, as I didn’t have such examples to draw upon previously for how to deal with conflict.

I now feel more capable, and therefore less afraid, when things come up. Just being able to be more relaxed, by having greater awareness and effective tools, is helping me in all of my relating.

I’m wildly grateful that this body of work exists and is so easily absorbable. I looked forward to each video and inspiration. I feel a great hope for the first time in a long time.

Thank you, Bruce!!

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Rachael

Rachael

Even working alone I have seen improvement with our relationship as I have new skills to utilize.

This program has been well worth the time and expense. I strongly recommend it to anyone wanting to improve or save their relationship with their spouse/partner.

Even working alone I have seen improvement with our relationship as I have new skills to utilize. Learning about my own patterns and the ways that I react to situations has truly shined a light on how I can become a better communicator and to get my needs met.

Thank you Bruce for this opportunity- Rachael

Rachael

Karen Leigh Brady

Karen Leigh Brady

We have been ambicable separated For five years.

This program Was so worth it in a number of ways.

First of all you feel like Bruce is right there with so knowledgeable and so easy to understand what he is trying to get across to you.

I have been married, and we have been ambicable separated For five years. We are trying now to see what our next steps should be .

Thus program has helped us so much we both feel better about making a decision than we ever have and we all right with not knowing and taking the information we have gotten from the program and process it and take our time !

H thank you Bruce

Karen Leigh Brady

Sarah

Sarah

We started to understand each other 100% more.

We’ve been together for twenty-eight years, and whilst we’d had our ups and downs, we were living peacefully enough but I was feeling lonely within the relationship and David was missing a loving, physical relationship.

When we learned the different languages of love, apologies, and the different ways of protesting, also the significance of bidding, we started to understand each other 100% more.

The things we have learned to do are sustainable, because they make sense, and we are now looking forward to our future with excitement and interest.

Sarah

Sarah Schwandt

Sarah Schwandt

This program is revolutionary!

This program is revolutionary! So much valuable information and tools…no need to let your relationship suffer any more. Highly recommend!!

Sarah Schwandt

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Aleksandra Durmanovic

I can hardly believe the results of this transformation.

When I proposed this course to my husband, I was grasping at straws. My efforts, as well as our visits to the psychologist, did not make much progress in reviving our relationship.

This course we received exceeded all our expectations and the results started to appear after the first week. What is important, Bruce managed to gain the interest and attention of my husband and managed to awaken his understanding, empathy and love. He also managed to point out the things I need to do to make our relationship work.

Today I have a man who is warmer and gentler than he has ever been, and I can hardly believe the results of this transformation. Sometimes I wonder if it will last.

I think that during this course we both learned how to work on our relationship and how to solve problems before they turn into something bad.

In any case, I am very happy at this moment and I want to enjoy what I have been dreaming about for years.

Aleksandra Durmanovic

Arnaud Slim

Arnaud Slim

A structure on which we can rely on.

Good analyse of the couple dynamics, helps to setup a structure on which we can rely on to react in a better way to various issues.

Arnaud Slim

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Jennifer Connell

I feel powerful for the first time in years...If you are hesitating, DON'T.

I wish I had taken this course when I first got married 15 years ago. I felt hopeless at the beginning of this course, but it has given me hope that these tools can truly change relationships. Thank you, thank you.

I feel powerful for the first time in years, and I am changing how I show up in our relationship.

I signed up for this course as a last ditch effort to save a marriage that everyone I know has been telling me to leave for years. He is definitely the explosive one in our marriage and I have been so shut down. Realizing that we are both playing a role in things made me feel powerful enough to show up differently and effect change, not just in my marriage but in my relationships in general. I learned tools that are helping me as a parent.

I thought I had read every relationship book out there, but this teaches you how to go deeper, gives you steps and tools to follow, and helps you get so much insight into the WHY of what’s happening. If you are hesitating, DON’T.

Jennifer Connell

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Nicolas

If we hadn't taken it or hadn't committed to it, it would likely be the end of us.

This course was seen by my partner as a last resort and if we hadn’t taken it or hadn’t committed to it, it would likely be the end of us.

Instead we learnt an incredible amount about who we are individually and how that affects our relationship. What I needed most was concrete tools because I wanted to work on fixing our relationship but had no idea how to do it and where to start.

This need was fulfilled brilliantly through the Conflict Cure course.

And while we still have a long way to go, we are in a much better place than when we started the course and are now working on how to keep improving rather than wondering if this relationship will continue.

Nicolas

Elzanne Steyn

Elzanne Steyn

Whether you just started dating or have been married for years!

I would recommend the Love At First Fight course to anyone – whether you just started dating or have been married for years!

It is an insightful course, that will not only help your relationship, but also help you grow as an individual.

I really appreciate the knowledge that Bruce shared with us!

Elzanne Steyn

Skye Dunn

Skye Dunn

Our relationship was pretty much over, my partner had left...

Our relationship was pretty much over, my partner had left, if i didnt find this course we wouldnt have made it any further, we were very deep in the “power struggle” stage and just didnt know how to get out.. this course has moved us closer, we are now talking and working on a new version of us.

Skye Dunn

Mary Harbocian

Mary Harbocian

After 40 years of marriage, one would think we had found all of the answers! But there is always more to learn.

This course is a life changer.

Conflict is a relationship is a given. This course shows you a simple way to navigate those rocky times with kindness. That was what was missing between my husband and I. Kind negotiation was what we learned. And we discovered we could use these tools outside of our relationship.

After 40 years of marriage, one would think we had found all of the answers! But there is always more to learn.

It is definitely worth every penny!

Mary Harbocian

Lysa Kenyon

Lysa Kenyon

This program is nothing short of transformational!

This program is nothing short of transformational!

We worked the entire program together as it was provided, did all the exercises, and made the time and effort a priority. It was hard. It was emotional. It required courage. It required persistence.

It was ALL worth it!

Lysa Kenyon

Cara Trujillo

Cara Trujillo

We have learned how to better stay present and care for each other's needs.

We suggest this course to anyone in relationships. We have learned how to better stay present and care for each others needs while in a place of emotional self protection.

This has also helped us tp be able to discuss difficult topics while putting aside defensiveness.

Cara Trujillo

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Diana

What we thought was a Hail Mary actually worked!

Our relationship had all 10 warning signs that it’s in danger. Even with couples and individual counseling, we felt like we were stuck in a bad situation after 25 years of being together. Divorce might be the only solution left until I stumbled on Bruce’s master class video.

To my surprise, my husband was willing to try the conflict cure course with me. We both assumed the other person had given up while deep down we still loved each other.

Connection first, communication later was a big AHA moment for us.

The program provided many tools for us to better understand each other and better communicate our needs. We are now on the right track and no longer display any of the 10 warning signs.

What we thought was a Hail Mary actually worked! – Diana

Diana

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Darin Manney

I persisted and I am happy that I did.

I was initially skeptical that some stranger from South Africa could be of help to an American/British and even after the first session I was not sure I would continue. However I persisted and I am happy that I did.

While Bruce’s stories were sometimes corny, he has a way of using them to make a point resonate well. I complete the course in the allotted time and find myself relating with my partner and other people in a much healthier way.

Thank you Bruce.

Darin Manney

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Jared Mcclure

The course is not easy, but it’s very rewarding and totally worth the effort it took.

This course really changed my partner and I’s outlook on not only our relationship but each other as people.

We now have a better understanding of who we are innately. Which has allowed for more intimacy and vulnerability to be created. We have grown so much through this. It also taught us that we can go through hard things together.

The course is not easy, but it’s very rewarding and totally worth the effort it took.

We are already saying we want to do it again at some point. 🙂

Jared Mcclure

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Mali Rivers

He saw the change in me.

When I listen to each model, I either go ”Yes! that make a lot of sense” ”Wow! that’s what I need to implement next”

Thank you Bruce. I enjoy your program and love how you speak to me with truth and kindness on what ”I” can do in order to get the results I need so I can be confident about myself and to be a better person and a better role model for others especially my children.

Your program changed me and as a matter of fact my husband (who hasn’t started the program yet), told me that he had paid to have lifetime access to the program this morning and will catch up.

Why? because he saw the change in me. Because he sees value in your program for our family’s sake and wants to help us connect even more and better. I can’t wait to discover our-selves together and to move our relationship closer to maturity level.

You are right, no need to force your partner to do anything.

Have to say he was happy to do find his apology language and to do a reflective conversation with me once 🙂

Mali Rivers

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George

We've grown and are able to see where things are going before they happen.

The Love at First Fight program is great if you want to save your relationship. You’ll soon realize after starting the program that the negative patterns that taint your relationship become a thing of the past. You will soon once again connect with your partner and feel as if you’re getting to know them all over again. 

My wife seems happier since we started the program. Things that used to bother her seem less important now. She seems to have regained hope and that’s great. I also feel we’ve grown and are able to see where things are going before they happen. It’s led to less conflicts and we’re there for each other rather than against.

The program is non-intrusive and leads to personal growth rather than blaming one or the other. I was hesitant at first but was pleasantly surprised at how well it went and its impact on us.

George

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Phil Chorosevic

The first counseling that placed greater emphasis on uncovering why I react the way I do and strategies to effectively deescalate the conflict.

My spouse and I have participated in couples counseling in person on 2 separate occasions with 2 different therapists. We have learned our flaws and the root causes that escalated our conflicts into what I described as running gun battles with words and emotions. 

This is the first counseling that placed greater emphasis on uncovering why I react the way I do and strategies to effectively deescalate the conflict before it becomes toxic.

Phil Chorosevic

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Rachel Aden

More valuable to us than a year of counseling.

This program is the real deal.  It causes you to go deep and learn about yourself and your partner and gives you actual tools that you can use to make real change. 

It is a game changer for both personal development and relationships and was more valuable to us than a year of counseling.

Rachel Aden

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Justin

Seven week program did more for our marriage than a years worth of traditional in-person couples counseling. 

Bruce – Your seven week program did more for our marriage than a years worth of traditional in-person couples counseling.

Thank you for your help and dedication to saving and restoring marriages.

Justin

Justin

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JC Colorado

TAKE THE COURSE, it will help.

I’m not a person that likes take help classes, I taken a few,  my wife and I went to counseling to 4 different therapist. Some help,  but never just dove into reconnecting, before you can deal with the problem, Just talked about what the problem at hand was.

I believe, which not always  . That you can take nuggets out of any courses you take,  Bruce’s course had many nuggets for me.  Yes, done things didn’t connect with me, but enough did and really help my relationship,  probably the most , no The Most in any relationship help threapy we taken.

Sorry for the rambling.

TAKE THE COURSE,it will help.

JC Colorado

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Pindy Soggi

Handling conflicts and differences has become alot easier and straightforward.

Bruce’s program has taught us alot, so many insights and aha moments.

After years of being completely disconnected and caught up in conflicts and power struggles, making eachother completely miserable, we now feel we have a better connection and more loving communication and have learnt to understand and see things better from eachothers perspectives.

We are able to communicate in a way where we feel safe to express our truths and are also heard, valued and respected, and handling conflicts and differences has become alot easier and straightforward.

We have been given some wonderful tools to guide us through our life’s ups and downs and develop a stronger, happier, loving and secure relationship.

With continued practice and faith, we will continue to get stronger and can look forward to a better more harmonious future together with lots of love and joy along the way.

Thankyou Bruce for your great program and wonderful insights, its a tool for life, thankyou.

Pindy Soggi

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Janette Klie