Love At First Fight Reviews
They did it.
So can you.
So can you.
"We were 2 months from divorce..."
When we came to the program, my husband had estimated we were “2 months from divorce”.
Married for nearly 23 years, so it was worth the investment in relationship coaching. (Which is A LOT cheaper than marriage counseling.)
By week 3 of this program, things were turning around in a big way. Today, at the end of the program we have fallen in love with each other again.
Everything this program promises is possible, including returning to “hot sex”.
"We have been able to have SEVERAL conflict conversations without ANY fighting... It's been a lifesaver."
We were so in love, and yet we couldn’t stop the fighting. It was going to destroy us.
Seeing a therapist just didn’t seem like it would be enough. I heard about this program and decided to give it a try.
The program is flexible and allowed us to really focus on our communication issues.
We have been able to have SEVERAL conflict conversations without ANY fighting as a result. It’s been at least a couple weeks since our last angry conversation.
We feel so much more connected and so much closer now. It’s been a lifesaver.
We are more in love than ever.
"We are beginning to laugh a lot more like we used to and to kid around with each other again."
Even though I did the program on my own, I see several positive changes.
I am getting better at not reacting so quickly and at letting things go at the moment instead of trying to talk an issue to death.
We aren’t having the kinds of blowups and long unproductive conversations that were the norm.
I am learning how to approach him in a less confrontational way that doesn’t trigger him.
We are beginning to laugh a lot more like we used to and to kid around with each other again.
Bruce, this is an outstanding program. It has taken a lot of time and effort to research and synthesize this material, and you present it in a clear, understandable format.
I appreciate the encouragement to adopt different mindsets, the exercises that put the material into practice, and the reading lists for additional study.
The course was challenging, but it was lots of fun!
Thank you again!
"What made the biggest difference was learning how to listen."
Bruce has given me the confidence that I will be able to handle whatever comes along in my relationship- and stuff IS gonna come along!!
I feel like I have just taken flying lessons and I will respond appropriately should we suddenly fly into some unexpected turbulence.
For me, what made the biggest difference was learning how to listen and BE OKAY with whatever she is feeling, without trying to get her to stop feeling it to make myself more comfortable.
I can relax!!!
"I am married today because of my participation."
“This is an amazing, AMAZING, program! The information presented here needs to be shared with everyone and anyone that is involved in any type of a relationship!
If two people are committed to work through the program, I cannot imagine how their marriage could fail!
So superior to any books I have read and tried to apply, and marriage counseling.
I am married today because of my participation – thank you Bruce Muzik!”
"Instead of fighting each other, we began to work together to break the cycle of harsh words and hurt feelings."
With 32 loving, faithful and nurturing years of marriage, my wife and I had begun to lose the luster of our relationship, slipping into bickering and fighting.
I always “had to be right” and she felt that I never really heard her, as she was sorely missing the language of love that she wants, needs and deserves.
And we both missed the common ground of intimacy as we engaged in a self-defeating exercise of misunderstanding.
Bruce’s program brought all of this into perspective, and instead of fighting each other, we began to work together to break the cycle of harsh words and hurt feelings — and once again we became a couple working together and not against each other.
The time, the tools, and the coaching made all the difference.
"We have more time connecting. Less time pouting and turning away from each other."
The skills I learned through this course have positively impacted all of my relationships, not just my marriage.
There were so many aha moments.
I realized that we earn loving relationships through our hard work. I was living the dream that our love should be easier than this if it is true love…if I am with the right man. Bullshit. Relationships are work…loving, rewarding work.
We have more time connecting. Less time pouting and turning away from each other.
I had no idea it was possible to turn fighting into a bonding ritual. Bruce showed us how!
Bruce is a gifted and unique coach. His vulnerability and authenticity are inspiring.
He is a warm, wise soul, playful and fun loving, and not afraid to call you on your bullshit.
"Far more than I expected..."
“This comprehensive interactive course was far more than I expected.
I highly recommend it to anyone wanting to understand how to succeed in a fulfilling partnership of any kind.
Bruce is down to earth, creative and colorful. He makes you understand why you want a relationship in the first place!”
"I have not felt this connected or in love with Andre in years..."
“I just wanted to send a mail to say thank you. I have not felt this connected or in love with Andre in years. During the first week I was very nervous – especially looking into his eyes – I wanted to crawl out of my skin and run away… But I didn’t and it has been so beautifully worth it for us.
Your program has been put together magnificently. It is easy to see how passionate you are about helping people to love each other and have wonderful relationships.
I have not been able to express any sort of love for a very long time to anyone. It feels like something has melted away now and these gorgeous, warm and fuzzy feelings have come tumbling out – I am so excited – I feel alive again.
This sounds cheesy – but you really have changed my life forever.”
"I have changed..."
“I have changed. I’m using the things I learned to discuss things with my husband. I find I am listening to him, calming him, soothing him.
This program is amazing. It has changed my view on relationships.
I now understand what behaviours negatively impact my relationship and what to do to make my relationship better. Amazing. I really loved this course and was sad when it finished.”
"By far the best help we could have gotten..."
“We couldn’t have selected a better program to help us, and you are a gift in our lives, Bruce. You said you were passionate about your work & you proved it!
The Love at First Fight material was by far the best help we could have gotten to bring more peace to our relationship.
Your knowledge, compassionate style and unique personality made facing tough challenges much easier than anticipated.
"I feel like I can finally breathe for the first time in weeks!"
I feel like I can finally breathe for the first time in weeks!
I feel like a lot of the tension that was built up inside of me has mostly dissipated!
Bruce, you can’t begin to understand how thankful I am to you for the two weeks of your program thus far which has started to make a difference in our relationship.
I loved learning about the communication techniques, the bids, and attachment styles. I loved the exercises and the videos. They were very informative and very insightful. I loved the first set of assignments as well.
This program teaches you so much about relationships and about strengthening your emotional connection with your partner.
"We were not talking... and now we are."
“The Love at First Fight program has brought renewed hope into our relationship. We were not talking to one another before the course began and now we are. We are beginning to see one another and our relationship in a new way.
Bruce cares deeply about his clients and supporting them in getting the most out of the program. He creates a safe and accepting space to explore yourself and your relationships in order to create greater happiness and wholeness.”
"An eye opening and life changing experience..."
Your Love at First Fight coaching program was an eye opening and life changing experience.
It help me pinpoint and understand the exact reasons for all of the problems we were experiencing in our relationship. What previously felt like one big mess, was pulled apart and cut into bite-size chunks, easy to understand and to work on.
You’re a fantastic presenter and a coach and I loved all of the videos and coaching calls. Joining the program was one of the better decisions I’ve made in life and the whole program and exercises is something I will keep on re-doing.”
"I have freed myself..."
“Bruce, I was just a desperate student with no direction when I joined the coaching program. This has helped me tremendously. You took me by the hand, lead and guided me to where I needed to be. I have freed myself in at such a deep level of my soul and spirit.
One of my aha moments in this program was you. Your concern, willingness, desire and generosity for wanting to help others, came across loud and clear.
I remember the phone call you had from a gentleman who was on the verge of suicide, and you extended the offer to help him for free.
I take off my hat to you.
Thank you for who you are, and your compassion you have for others.”
"We are now able to connect and communicate!"
My husband and I were referred to your course by our counselor (who said she had gained a tremendous amount of help for her marriage from attending it). I want to share how this past 7 weeks has impacted our relationship.
We are now able to connect and communicate! That is an incredible lifesaver.
The program helped us understand where we were going wrong and what steps to take to connect and grow together instead of fighting and staying locked in our power struggle.
Thank you for the tools!!!
I am excited to continue the growth that started with each new video and exercise.
We are so going to be redoing the videos and calls and exercises in the members area as they seem like they will keep enlightening us and guiding us, I feel like we just scratched the surface.
Thank you for putting together this relationship saving material and for being our coach… and for giving of yourself to all of us, Bruce.
Your passion for relationships is wonderful, and truly impacted us.
Take care and God Bless!”
"We're closer than we could have ever imagined..."
“Bruce, I just wanted to take a minute to thank you for all the work you did with Mandi and I. Your relationship coaching has brought us closer than we could have ever imagined.
We thought we wanted to go back to the way things were when we married but you’ve put us into a place far beyond that.
I know that you have a life other than work, so making an exception and doing our sessions on Saturday was less than optimal for you. Thank goodness you stuck with us.
Our time with you has made such and difference in our lives. We have become so much closer in every respect.
Again, I can not express how grateful I personally am for your kindness and help.”
"Solidly on track..."
“I have excelled in most aspects of my life except one – my intimate relationship. To me, this area is more important than any of my other successes.
Bruce’s course put us solidly on track to reach that state of bliss that so few couples achieve. It is never too late – never give up – no matter what your age, or past. Bruce’s work will work for you.”
"I found what I was looking for before I even finished the course..."
“I highly recommend The Love of First Fight coaching program for any couple wishing to grow their relationship and connect on a deeper level.
Heck, I recommend this course for single people too. I was single when I signed up – wanting to learn as much as possible about myself and the best way to create an intimate, loving and connected relationship!
I found what I was looking for before I even finished the course.
Bruce’s open and honest style of teaching/coaching, videos with the practical exercises, the live coaching calls that link current relationship theory and neuroscience creates a package that will meet the needs of most every type of adult learner. Give your self the gift of love. Join Bruce for 7 weeks.”
"The most cost effective investment you could ever make in your relationship..."
“This course is without doubt, the most comprehensive and cost effective investment you could ever make in your relationship.
Bruce is not only an incredible teacher but has an incredible passion for what he does. You will come away with new insight and new tools that will afford you the opportunity to take your relationship to levels you only previously dreamed about.”
"More connected and committed than ever..."
“Bruce, we are now more connected and committed than ever.
I am more optimistic (about our relationship) than ever despite having confirmed we are completely opposite.
A testimonial for you: If you need a port in a storm for a stormy relationship or a track to follow when you’ve lost your way with the love of your life, this is the course for you!”
"Do not sacrifice what you want most for what you want right now."
“Hi Bruce, I entered this program ready to grow and change the way I usually behave in relationships, and I feel like I have learnt exactly how to do that in the past few weeks.
The most beneficial tool to us so far has been the communication skill you taught us in week 2. We started using it, I learned that before we broke up he had been feeling as if this relationship was THE ONE and that scared him. I had no idea that he considered me THE ONE!
When I first asked him to do this program with me eight weeks ago, we had just broken up and he agreed to only as a means of figuring out what had gone wrong. He said that we could reevaluate in two months and see if we were actually compatible. Of course, those beginning weeks were horrible and filled with fear that he would leave at any moment, but what you taught us about Hailstorms and Turtles and their specific needs motivated me to stop myself from acting out whenever I felt insecure.
It was amazing how safe that conversation made me feel, and we definitely could not have done it without everything you taught us! I can easily imagine a similar conversation in the past building up into accusations and conflict, so I cannot thank you enough for helping us avoid that. I kept this quote at the back of my mind: “Do not sacrifice what you want most for what you want right now.”
Although we still have a long way to go, we’re definitely loving and connected now. This is a HUGE improvement from the pain we were both in just eight weeks ago.
Thank you so much Bruce, for guiding us through this and for being such a phenomenal person and coach. I love what you do for people and there really should be more people teaching these essential life skills. I’ll really miss talking to you!
Thank you once again, my gratitude is beyond words.”
"We discovered how to love each other again..."
“We discovered so many ways of facing and dealing with conflicts, how to feel better with ourselves and how to love each other again!
I was a bit skeptical at first but then I went just through the first week and my point of view on life actually changed in a positive way.
Whoever you are, Bruce will change your life!”
"He finally makes room for me in his life..."
“Bruce, we are closer than ever before. I feel safe and heard and understood by Michel for the first time really in all the time we’ve known each other.
I feel he finally makes room for me in his life and honors me for who I am and not who he’d like me to be.
This program unlocked the door to a life long love that just wasn’t working out. It gently guided us through incremental steps that opened up our communication, taught us how to trust and support one another and finally got us on the same team.
After years of frustration, the tools saved our relationship and will allow us to create the future I’ve always dreamed of.
I honestly wasn’t sure Michel would ever come to hear me, yet alone understand what I need and want, then provide it.
I know Michel related to your energy and that was an important factor in trusting your expertise.”
"Before this program I had low self esteem..."
“Before this program I was wishy washy, had low self esteem and was powerless in all of my relationships. Now I have clarity on healthy relationships, my confidence has increased and my relationship with my son, friends and family are so much more fulfilling now.
I highly recommend this program for anyone in relationships or single.”
"So well researched..."
“I enjoyed the program more than i thought I would. I appreciate how well you manage all of us from around the world.
I loved the content of the program, and how amazing your knowledge is, so well researched and understanding of today’s world. Very reassuring.
Thank you so much for your dedication to assisting relationships, this in turn will help me to pay it forward for my own clients and friends.”
"The trust has started to return..."
“This program gave me the tools we needed get through those times I thought that all hope was lost. The trust has started to return and I can see a bright and happy future with my partner that I was starting to lose sight of. The best part is that we were able to do this from the comfort of our own home.
Bruce, you do a fantastic job at relating to every single person, regardless of their issue. I highly recommend this program to anyone who is committed fixing their relationship.”
"This saved me years of conventional therapy..."
“Bruce – I just had to reach out and thank you. An hour on the phone with you saved me years of conventional therapy. The maps of relationship you laid out, combined with insights from the Enneagram about the specific needs my partner and I have – brilliant!
Your gentle and penetrating insights are very easily received and I’m confident my road ahead in this relationship will be much smoother as a result.
Thanks for turning the lights on for me!”
"I am discovering myself."
“I have started watching all your videos, and it has been an extraordinary experience. I am discovering myself.
At this stage things are more calm at our relationship and she is already happy for some changes, which encourage her to watch some of your videos tonight 🙂
Bruce, I have no words to express how you have been a huge help, and I am confident that all our relationship is needing is exactly a coach like you.”
"I gave my husband an ultimatum..."
“I couldn’t stand the fighting any more.We’d seen two other therapists who couldn’t help us at all.
I gave my husband an ultimatum – either figure out how to communicate better, or I’m moving out. My bags were packed!
I can’t believe it, but my husband and I actually made it through our big fight yesterday. After going through Love at First Fight, I think we are actually going to make it.
So, we are on the mend. Thank you Bruce! I enjoy how committed you are. You worked some magic here because we were definitely a worst-case scenario!”
"Made me feel I was normal."
“Bruce, your program is one of the most comprehensive and easy to understand programs for couples I can imagine finding.
I loved the naturalness of your presentation and the anecdotes from your own relationship, which made me feel I was normal.
While my partner didn’t participate as much as I had expected, the skills and info that I shared with him still succeeded in bringing about much needed improvements in our relationship.
With the videos, exercises and coaching calls, the program is excellent value for money.
I have already recommended the program to other friends and family members.
I just want to thank you Bruce, for your hard work in putting together such an insightful and brilliant couple’s program!”
"Big, raw, emotional things come up, and bring us closer..."
“When we signed up for the Love At First Fight program, we were quietly annoyed with each other. Drifting apart. Not able to be honest with each other. Not able to talk about real things without blowup fights (including not able to have important conversations about how we wanted to raise our daughter.)
The class jump started us towards a complete change in our relationship.
We are now able to be MUCH more honest with each other, able to talk to each other about REAL things. Big, raw, emotional things come up, and bring us closer instead of farther apart.
I also believe we’re better parents – we are able to have real conversations about how we want to raise our daughter (without fighting!) We’re also more comfortable just being ourselves, which is good for the whole family. I’m happier in our relationship now than I have been since the very beginning.”
"I've fallen even more in love..."
“This program really has made me see our relationship and my responsibility in it from an outside perspective:
I can see my partner for who he really is again, and have fallen even more in love with him (even though we did not do the program together, I did it on my own)!!
It’s unbelievable to see how much has changed since I started. I recommend the Love At First Fight coaching program to everyone!!”
"It is now my greatest pleasure to support my wife..."
“I didn’t realize it, but my wife and I had started living completely independent lives.
Bruce’s programme has helped us understand each other, communicate more effectively and avoid the daily friction and pain.
It is now my greatest pleasure to support my wife in the way she wants and consequently, she understands when I need space. We have reconnected on a level I never imagined and it’s truly magical.
Thank you so much Bruce, we couldn’t be happier.”
"One of the hardest things I have ever done..."
“One of the hardest things I have ever done… looking myself in the mirror and having to actually focus in on the details of my buried childhood family issues. The challenge was deciding not to let them define me.
With my triggers defined and acknowledged, I now have the freedom to grow in my relationships again both personal and professional.
"We signed up as a last resort..."
“Going on our 36th year of marriage we signed up for Bruce’s class more as a last resort than anything else.
We had been to counselors and learned a lot about emotional healing, but still struggled with intimacy and “connection” issues.
Bruce’s material shed light on some of our “dark” areas and gave us practical tools that have helped us work effectively on those issues.
Thanks Bruce, for your class and for taking a personal interest in all of your students. Your efforts have helped us immensely!”
"We now feel able to build a loving and bright future together..."
“Love At First Fight has been of great benefit to us both and we now feel able to build a loving and bright future together using the tools Bruce has taught us.
It’s great that I can keep returning to the website as a life long member and I believe this will be so useful to keep our love bank topped up!
Thank you Bruce for your commitment to us, and I would highly recommend this course to anyone who wants to improve and deepen their relationship. I would also recommend the program to any of our single friends as they would gain a great deal of personal growth and self awareness from it.”
"Already so much better and lighter since I started the program..."
“I want you to know Bruce, that I am feeling already so much better and lighter, since I started your program (only 2 weeks ago)!!
And also there has changed something between my partner and me. And to be honest, I think that it is actually me that changed: I am not as negative anymore towards him, not looking for ‘what is wrong’… and this makes him much more relaxed and open as well…
I think he must have felt so judged by me… and I didn’t even realize that, that I was actually the one that was responsible for how we were together!
It feels already as if we are so much lighter and connected.
Bruce, thank you so so much!!”
"The emotional tone has switched..."
“The emotional tone (in our relationship) has switched to more loving, rather than being prickly and always vigilant and looking out for an attack or criticism, so that’s a relief!
I think we are getting a lot out of the material because the pacing is matched to where we are at in out pattern/dynamic.
I love love love this program :-)”
"Attending this class saved our relationship..."
“After my divorce I found myself slipping back into an old pattern of three month relationships. Either I or the man I was dating would run at the first sign of trouble.
As my current relationship approached three months I received an email from Bruce about his “Love at First Fight” program, so I signed up. The timing was perfect.
Bruce taught me to see and overcome my escape tendencies, increase my understanding of myself and my partner and gave me the confidence to stay present as we worked through our struggles.
Attending this class saved our relationship.
I am so grateful for his help and encourage everyone, no matter what your relationship circumstances, to take this class. Bliss is attainable.”
"We are kinder to each other, more loving and... more romantic too!"
“Having known Bruce through his Designer Life courses we both knew as soon as the info landed in our inbox that it was the course for us.
The 7 week course really has changed our relationship. We were stuck in a cycle of power struggles and very independent, which meant we were not always kind or compassionate towards each other.
The fantastic videos, along with the excellent weekly exercises allowed us gently and genuinely to relook at ourselves and our relationship and to create a new way of being with each other, in only 7 weeks.
The weekly conference calls were a great addition too, with lots of lovely participants sharing from their hearts.
Since finishing the course, we have had very little conflict, and any conflict we have had has been resolved quickly and easily. We are kinder to each other, more loving and are experimenting with being more romantic too!
We now do fun things together on the weekend, instead of complaining that we don’t have anything in common! And we’ve just celebrated our 12th anniversary, so it was a wonderful anniversary gift to ourselves.
I’ll admit we were geeky and did all our homework every week as instructed, but I’d really recommend this – get as much as you can out of it while it runs, you can always go back and redo some parts at a more in depth level later on.
I’d totally recommend Bruce’s Love at First Fight programme – it really changed our whole relationship.”
"I can now communicate my boundaries, feelings, and needs to my partner..."
“What I have learnt most from your relationship coaching is the power of being 100% honest with my partner.
I can now communicate my boundaries, feelings, and needs to my partner in a way that strengthens our relationship, instead of weakening it.
Thank you Bruce for your wisdom, enthusiasm, love, support and insightful understanding of the dynamics of a creating a successful intimate relationship.”
"We've been in tears of joy"
“Man, you blew the doors off of what I was expecting. Not only did my girl and I come together in a whole new way, but I finally felt understood by her like I never have.
As a result, we’re more intimate, our sex has improved, our love and appreciation is deeper… and friends keep telling us that we are ‘such a great couple’.
We’ve been in tears of joy and since then, I’ve been applying my new understanding of relationships and communication in my business with clients and with my family and with my friends.
This work is soooo important.
"Your relationship advice is outstanding..."
“Bruce, your relationship advice is outstanding. You have helped me over the last few months navigate my way through the ups and downs of my relationship and empowered me to have incredible conversations with my partner, so that my partner really “gets” me and vice versa.
You’ve helped me uncover the things I really need to work on in relationship and shown me a way through the difficult times.”
"It's influenced us so much that we've referred it to family and friends."
“In the past we’d both say “You’re not listening to me!” Now we find ourselves stopping, reflecting and getting clarity from each other. This program has influenced us so much that we’ve referred it to family, relatives and friends.”
"I'm amazed at how deep our relationship has become..."
“The program is giving me amazing tools that have allowed me to go much deeper with my man than in any previous relationship.
I’m no longer be afraid of our differences and we’re both very ready to make this our last relationship.
The personality typing session in Week 5 was HUGE for me. It gave words to be able to explain my emotions to him so that he can understand me.
I’m amazed at how deep our relationship has become considering that we’re both 60 years old and and have only been together 3 months.
We are so very grateful for you fighting so hard for our success, it worked!”
"Happier than when we were first together."
“Bruce, we are very impressed by the course. Your material is VERY helpful.
We learned some real tools that helped us to soften the tension and power struggles between us. I feel way more supported and arguments seem to blow over because we feel like we’re both being heard, so we don’t have to raise the volume anymore, which is REALLY nice.
Now, we understand each other better every time we have a conflict. We just keep learning about each other and evolving together.
We are even happier now than when we were first together.”
"You'll get back 10-fold what you put in..."
“My girlfriend and I have just completed the Love At First Fight coaching program and I must say we feel we’re in better shape now because of it.
There is a wealth of really great material in the course – the weekly videos, the calls and the resource material (recommended books, etc.).
It is going to take up a good deal of your time so you will need to come committed but trust me, you’ll get back 10-fold what you put into it.
It’s a very useful course if you need some help to get you through the rockier moments or if you want to grow as people and a couple.
Thank you Bruce!”
“Love At First Fight called to us from the moment we heard about it. Everyone said that relationships had to be worked at, but we still thought that after 11 years married things should be a bit easier.
The course exceeded expectations with great quality videos presenting new distinction after new distinction,well designed exercises to translate the theory into practice and excellent coaching calls.
We gained immediate benefit within the first weeks as we discovered so many new facets of our relationship which we were unaware of. And we gained tools which we can use any time we have the need.
Thanks Bruce, much appreciated.”
"I feel secure now."
“Bruce. I want to thank you for the Love At First Fight coaching program. It has made an incredible difference to our relationship during a very challenging time.
I am overjoyed that we kept at it, because since the program, I feel that we’re safe, that we’re together (after 22 years together).
We’re truly overjoyed with how much more connected and powerful we are as both a team and couple because of Love at First Fight and your coaching. I feel secure now. It’s been fantastic.
Thank you again, and we miss you.”
"We have fallen back in love..."
“I just wanted to write you an email and say how life changing this experience has been for us.
We were in a really rocky place and although we haven’t yet managed to complete the whole course, it has changed our relationship immensely.
We have fallen back in love, we argue less, we’re more understanding and most importantly, we can see how to succeed for the long-term.
I have been telling a ton of people how amazing the course is so wanted to find out if you had some kind of referral system so that I can put them in touch with you or send them a link to the next course?
Huge congratulations on producing such a fantastic curriculum, one that truly works.”
"If things seem unbearable, hold off just 7 more weeks..."
“Well what a journey this has been. I joined this program to attempt to re-engage with my ex (mother of my daughter) after a considerable break and a tumultuous 7 year relationship.
Not only did it re-engage us, it has given me massive insight to myself and relationships in general.
This course is very well researched and effectively compiled for maximum results.
7 weeks is not long to make such a considerable change in your relationship.
If you are thinking of leaving your partner or if things seem unbearable, hold off just 7 more weeks with an open mind and a willingness to resolve relationship issues once and for all.”
"From very rocky, to a deep love..."
“Bruce, thank you so much for all of the time and energy you put into our relationship.
Our marriage has gone from very rocky, with us both being hurt and resentful, to a deep love that I didn’t think was possible.
You helped us create a safe space to open up and be close again. And it has had a lasting impact in every area of my life.
I am now a better, wife, mother, and overall person. I have grown so much as a person through our brief time working together. Jay and I have both grown in love and appreciation.
You have accomplished miracles where marriage counseling, personal therapy, a seminar, and countless books fell short.
Thank you for all the time and care you have taken to develop and share your gifts with the world. You are providing an invaluable service. This is the best investment we have ever made as a couple in our 10 years together.“
"This program has saved our marriage."
“Our marriage is transforming right before our eyes! Thank you for sharing this invaluable information, you are a delight to work with, I love how you make it safe to share.
Bruce, I’m a communications expert myself (by profession), and you’ve just taught me how to listen!
I am seeing Michael and I connecting faster, and becoming more vulnerable with each other without defensiveness.
We’re in a whole different space now and I’m not scared of what might happen anymore. Thanks to what we’ve learned, I know now that we have the tools to deal with anything.
We’re only on Week 3, but I have to tell you, this program has saved our marriage. My work has skyrocketed and I know that’s because of the peace that I have with my husband now.
We WILL finish this class, because it’s just so wonderful.
We told our kids about your program, they are watching the free video’s right now, can’t wait to get them enrolled in this!
Thank you Bruce.”
"This program has transformed everything in just three weeks..."
“We’re totally on track and LOVING this program. Unlike most courses, programs, books, coaching, counselling I’ve come across or experienced – I would love to inspire EVERYONE interested in a more fulfilling life to do this course.
Sebastian and I are giving it our all and it’s transformed everything in just three weeks (we started a week before the course by watching videos we found on your website).
Not only am I reaping the benefits of the course with myself and in my marriage, but I’m also really enjoying and appreciate your skills and heart at holding space for people in their vulnerability, their courage and their possibility.
I engage in a leadership circle with colleagues from different parts of the world and last week shared with them some gems from your course – which I described to them as a leadership course about cultivating deeply fulfilling relationships.
What you’ve created here Bruce is huge – know that we’re working our butts off and enjoy your videos and you during the live calls – and although some of them are super challenging (mostly to the ego!) we’re also really enjoying the exercises.”
"We now have a relationship that is better than anything I could have imagined."
“Although I was totally committed to my partner, I would have agonizing rows with her which left us both raw and drained. During these encounters at times, part of me would wish that she would finish the relationship so that I’d not have to endure them anymore.
I’d also withdraw from her; something over which I had no conscious control.
Since completing the course, we’ve practically finished with the rows and I’m able to be present to her most of the time.
I now share openly and honestly how I’m feeling with her and we now have a relationship that is better than anything I could have imagined.
I feel very blessed by this and thankful that we were fortunate enough to find Love at first Fight.”
"We now have the tools to help us through the Power Struggle!"
“Thank you Bruce! I loved the program.
I learnt a lot about relationships and people in general and of course about myself and my husband too. Highly recommended.
You have an answer for everything and put your theories across in a way that are easy to understand and use.
We now have the tools to help us through the Power Struggle! Thank you again.”
"After only two sessions our relationship turned around completely."
“I am a 58y old woman from Europe that did a lot of personal growth work in my past.
I also struggled through many relationships and two failed marriages. Of all the interesting work I’ve done, Bruce’s Love At First Fight curriculum has been the clearest, most helpful, expedient, insightful, most professionally put together and most lovingly and joyfully delivered!
I enrolled together with my boyfriend of 2 years.
We love each other very much but were completely stuck in the Power Struggle phase without knowing it.
We experienced it as a complete break down of our otherwise excellent, open and honest communication and a total loss of connection, which hurt and scared us tremendously.
We simply did not know how to deal with the sudden misunderstandings, the feelings of alienation, of experiencing the partner as an enemy and of total hope- and helplessness in our previously so beautiful, intimate and deeply caring relationship
We were desperate because no communication could solve our problems!
We were headed towards a totally unwanted break up and were devastated by the thought of another relationship failure. Since I remembered that a relationship has to fall out of the Romantic Stage in order to grow, I googled “relationship phases” and checked different sites that were dealing with this issue.
Bruce’s energy was so upbeat, loving, confident and supportive that we felt very comfortable right away. After only two sessions our relationship turned around completely. Connection and communication were restored, we learned about the deeper causes of our problems and how to solve them expediently.
It was such a liberating and nonjudgmental process, we were utterly elated and in awe of it! It had no therapeutic feel to it, which we really liked, having had unsatisfying experiences with couples therapy in former relationships.
The greatest result is that we feel like a deeply loving, committed, invincible team now. We got the skills to deal with future challenges, and we can share what we learned with other couples! Thank you Bruce, for your service to the world!“
"The best relationship course I have found."
Put simply, this is the best relationship course I have found.
I have learned so much about myself, fmy husband and us as a couple. The course has been an excellent vehicle for growth.
I would wholeheartedly recommend this programme!
"This is the best gift you can give to yourself and your love."
This is the best gift you can give to yourself and your love.
I never thought I could get past being right, or that I do all the giving (insert tearful martyr face here…)
This is a partnership and if you want to move past your sticking points and really make progress in your most important relationship, take this course.
Bruce is a great coach, using teaching tools from many experts, and being an unbiased coach – not a therapist or cop or family member who means well.
You can make progress and see a brighter future. I would never have thought we could really have so much intimacy and hope for our future which has already started.
I was at the end of my proverbial rope, with nothing else to lose, we signed up and did the homework, took advantage of the Mentoring Calls and now we have this bond that is solid.
My partner is my best friend and we have so much love and have de-garbaged our relationship. It’s so much lighter and I have so much more insight into what my partner treasures and I can offer that.
INVEST in your love and yourself and your future together as a loving, best friend team. You won’t regret it!
The anonymity of calls online was so helpful in staying focused and feeling free to talk about issues.
The price! totally affordable and we could just move ahead.
I’ve spent the cost of my house in SF on therapy over the last few decades and I got further with this short course than ever before.
"I understand and know my partner better than I have ever done, I love him more deeply than ever."
I loved this program, I loved your videos and the Mentoring Calls.
We got to hear about other couples in trouble and I think that’s good for two reasons.
1. Because we learned a lot from the others. 2. We learned that we are not alone.
We learned that relationships can’t be easy all the time and that you should not break up when things get tough.
The exercises were both hard and very rewarding.
Both I and Christofer have been crying and filled with anxiety, “what are my needs?” “What do I want?” etc. we had no idea what was waiting when we hit that buy button 8 weeks ago but I’m so glad that we did.
And your coaching Bruce, amazing! You have all the information in your head so you know exactly what to answer the instant a question gets asked.
You listen and make sure that you understand completely, your passion is inspiring.
We felt like we could trust you and that’s part of why we spent so much time with this program.
“If Bruce says so then it must be true, we could at least try” (if there was an exercise one of us was afraid of or that felt unnecessary).
This program is hard work, it is entirely up to each person what you get out of it. If you decide to work hard and do all the exercises you will see an incredibly big difference in your relationship.
We have received so many tools and so many insights through the program, love is not just something that happens, it’s something you do and it’s not easy to know exactly what to do, but Bruce has shown us just that.
Everything in this program should be things you learn in school, after every week I have been thinking: “why have not I been told this before?”.
I understand and know my partner better than I have ever done, I love him more deeply than ever.
"It's the best money I've ever spent on any program."
What Bruce teaches you in this program is absolutely life changing! It’s the best money I’ve ever spent on any program, as he gently swifts you into learning not only about yourself and your partner but what a healthy, loving relationship is all about.
The energy, passion, and commitment he brought into our lives was incredibly educational, positive and enlightening!
It’s not just about learning the theories – Bruce actually shows us how to apply specific tools in real life tough situations we have all felt so defeated by.
This program gave me so much hope in the darkest moments of my life!
Highly recommended to anyone who wants to have a trusting, solid, fulfilling partnership.
Thank you so much, Bruce!!
"The most meaningful important class for me personally in 48 years."
Bruce effectively teaches many valuable relationship skills for creating a deeper meaningful relationship.
This program should be a prerequisite to getting married or creating babies.
This was the most meaningful important class for me personally in 48 years, very glad to have signed for the course, right for me.
"If you are ready to give up, you need to try this program first."
Divorce was my next step. After 11 years of marriage and 2 kids, we had slowly drifted apart until I felt completely disconnected and misunderstood.
Being parents kept us highly motivated to try everything to save our marriage, but we were running out of things to try.
We had tried individual and couples counseling with mediocre results. We just needed to learn the tools to connect and communicate. Bruce was able to do that.
I stumbled across Bruce’s program just in time. Another month may have been too late, we were on the brink of giving up entirely.
Now, even though it’s still not easy, at least we feel like we have the tools and skills to move through conflict towards a more positive result.
If you are ready to give up, you need to try this program first.
A heartfelt thank you to Bruce!
Thank you for sharing your knowledge and gift of teaching with us. It really has made all the difference.
"We're closer & happier than ever! Marriage back on track."
Our model 30 year relationship was about to collapse because we didn’t have the skills and knowledge to really connect & communicate effectively.
Marriage counseling made it worse. Then I found this cutting-edge program.
It was a rocky summer going thru it and we haven’t resolved everything yet. NOW, we have excellent tools and innovative methods that really support us!
We’re closer & happier than ever! Marriage back on track. DANCE partners!!
We are so grateful we found Bruce!
His creative approach plus his genuine, personal and supportive group coaching style made all the difference for us this summer.
And we experienced one of our hardest challenges ever, just as the program began in June. I really wasn’t sure we’d make it past that … and wasn’t sure I even cared.
Now, we’re out socializing and swing dancing together again … feeling more loving and encouraged than ever.
Tho we still have LOTS of work to do on our own, Bruce has given us plenty of excellent tools with lifetime access to all of them.
And he’ll still be there for us if we need him for private coaching. All very comforting and helpful.
We both feel much more empowered to move past our natural differences that used to get in the way and prevented real connection and communication.
I’m really not sure we’d still be together if we hadn’t found this program when we did.
Bruce certainly over-delivers for all of us.
Big HUGS to you, Bruce!!
Muchas, muchas gracias!!
"We both really appreciated how practical this program was."
We both really appreciated how practical this program was.
We were given many tools that really work well for us, and we continue to use them in order to keep immersed and active and engaged with each other.
Bruce was an excellent coach who displayed great knowledge and very strong communication skills, guiding us through some tough work.
Thanks so much!
We look forward to telling those close to us about this course.
"Now I am a better man."
When I joined the program I was unable to feel, unable to be in touch with myself or to express love to my wife.
I never even drop a tear in 8 years of relations. When the hardest time of the relationship began, I found myself unqualified to resolve our conflict.
Now I am a better man, I have changed 100%, a more open, more emotional, with no fear to share myself with my wife.
I see now that if I can share everything with her, we will create a safer and happy life together!
Thank you Bruce.
"This program made me believe in myself again!"
During the course of the program, I came to understand that my needs are valid – normal even – and that there is nothing wrong with me.
This program made me believe in myself again!
"We have so much love and connection."
When my boyfriend and I came to the program we were at the very end of trying and there was really no hope at all for us. We would have been lucky to even salvage the friendship.
He reluctantly agreed to join me on the 7-week journey and now having completed the program we have so much love and connection.
Our communication is profound and the things we have been able to acknowledge and ask for forgiveness to have turned the relationship around 180 degrees.
The program gave us access to ways to deal with problems that we hadn’t been able to resolve before.
It was an amazing program and I learned more about myself and relationships than in any other program I have done or book I have read about relationships.
"Try this before you break up."
This programme has made us more competent as a couple in 7 weeks, than one year of couples therapy. Try this before you break up.
"I shifted from a hurt and frustrated separated wife to a solid powerful woman."
This workshop is “all the good things wrapped up into one.” Personally, it helped me with transitioning through one of the most difficult times in my life.
I shifted from a hurt and frustrated separated wife to a solid powerful woman.
Professionally, as a Licensed Clinical Family Therapist and college professor myself, I have learned more in this one workshop than I have in many years of workshops combined.
Personally and professionally speaking, if you are interested in having great relationships….do this workshop!
"Learn how to fix and rekindle the relationship."
I learned so much from the program!
You don’t just learn how to fix and rekindle the relationship, but you also learn a lot about yourself and your partner in the process, and how to develop even deeper and fulfilling relationship where you both feel heard and understood.
I recommend this program to everyone!
"We have grown as individuals and as a couple."
Working with you has enabled us to take our relationship to a happy, respectful and peaceful place.
We have grown as individuals and as a couple.
"7 short weeks later my wife calls me ‘her man’..."
My wife asked me for a separation 9 weeks ago. I said no or I knew we were finished. She found this online course and said she would commit to the 7 weeks.
We worked at it diligently and put other things aside for the sake of our children.
We had worked with two marriage counselors over the past 10 years and were familiar with the 5 Languages of Love, Susan Johnson’s work with attachment theory etc.
It all made sense but nothing really changed in our relationship. We were still deeply unhappy and just felt ‘we had married the wrong person’.
With your course, 7 short weeks later my wife calls me ‘her man’ and I feel real love for her for the first time in years.
We are excited by our new tools, language, and learning.
You have something that makes it all work. By observation, I would say it is not only the skill that you bring to the Marital Therapy arena but something more powerful.
I believe it is a congruence of belief, speech, and action.
By this, I mean that to have the positive kind of influence that you have, you must own an unshakably held core belief-that couples in most instances can not only ‘work it out’ but be thrilled with the partner that once was the object of a seething resentment.
You really and truly believe it yourself.
This is powerful. It cannot be faked and the motive behind the results is a pure one. It is not the money but a passion for good relationships that drives you.
This combined with genuine enthusiasm toward those relationships, skilled pedagogical technique, fantastic materials, and insight all make for a program that CANNOT be overlooked by anyone interested in a better relationship.
My only caveat is that these techniques are so powerful that dishonest men and women can misuse them to make anyone they choose to fall in love with them!
So thank you, Bruce, for so diligently pursuing your life’s passion.
The family is the bedrock of society and your work is saving and enriching that bedrock. This is truly an enduring legacy.
Keep up the great work!
"The Mentoring Calls have been absolutely awesome!!! We love them!"
Now, after four weeks into the program, we are loving each other, she has moved back in with me.
Our arguments are a thing of the past, we are connected and we have acquired so many tools to de-escalate and resolve conflict, that it rarely occurs anymore.
We were simply ignorant and quite frankly, didn’t know how to love each other, that awareness and realization overall was a very humbling experience!
I am now able to love her and she is able to love me.
We have gained valuable insight and understanding as to what went wrong, why it went wrong and why we both suffered so painfully for 5 long and agonizing years.
We no longer live with fear, hurt, unresolved conflict, anger or disconnection.
We are not perfect and still have on occasion a disagreement, but it resolves very quickly and we can easily love each other and end things in a warm embrace instead of a “freeze & flee” result which is so destructive.
We will always be grateful Bruce for what you have given us in this program, it has saved our relationship, our lives, our original music along with our hopes, aspirations, and dreams.
We now live in peace and harmony and can be the loving songwriting team that we need to be to make our existence successful. We look forward to completing the program and making LAFF a lifestyle for the remainder of our lives.
When we are done, we will on occasion repeat the program so it stays fresh and we can obtain deeper things we didn’t catch the first time though.
I burned all the Mentoring Calls to date (4 weeks along with the welcome call) onto a CD that we listen to in the car, and although we have attended every Mentoring Call, we have found that we get so much out of doing this.
We gain much deeper insight, are able to listen more in-depth and get more out of it after multiple listens.
I was a bit skeptical when I found out that we would meet as a group and thought that perhaps I might get a bit lost in the mix, but I was wrong to doubt in any fashion, it turns out just as you said, being part of the group works extremely well and offers more than what we would probably get out of doing it one on one.
Things that I didn’t think of in many cases someone else did, or problems that I thought I didn’t have someone else did and I was just not aware that I had the same troubles or had not faced them yet.
We have learned a lot listening to the perspective of others, listening to your responses to them as well as sharing our journey and where we are at and getting feedback on that.
The Mentoring Calls have been absolutely awesome!!! We love them!
"I now feel safe and "gotten."
I wish I found your 7-week course 18 years ago before I decided to get married!
The marriage boot camp should be mandatory for everyone in a serious relationship. Who knew marriage counselling could be so positive and motivating.
I was in a disconnected unhappy marriage for 18 years, and we have tried marriage counselling in the past only coming out more wounded.
I now feel safe and “gotten”.
My partner understands me better and I get him now! He feels safe and now opens up to me. He is emotionally present now.
We know how to avoid triggers now, and even if we do trigger each other, we call it out and we deal with it successfully.
The structure was very smart as it built week by week to explore and open up new portals as we went along.
We have hope and great tools that now we actually are out of anger and resentment and we use the tools with great sincerity.
Bruce, you’ve incorporated the best strategy and techniques on the planet to help couples in trouble.
With your absolute positivity about love and relationships, your charisma and authenticity, you help motivate and guide others to a happy loving relationship.
You give the gift of lovely companionship! God Bless you and your work.
"Saved my relationship."
I have found this program and the Mentoring Calls very insightful and has saved my relationship.
We are stronger and have the tools moving forward. I have made a portfolio of my journey, some incomplete exercise (boo). I plan on referring to it and online members area to help guide me in unforeseeable future “stuff”.
I wish I could have talked Mark into participating completely in the program, but the little bit he has done has shifted our relationship into a positive direction.
I strongly feel that our relationship moving forward has the foundation it needs to grow in a loving, supportive, and fun way.
Thank you, Bruce.
And many thanks to everyone in the calls. Your stories have helped me, and I wish I could have made the calls to at the very least to met you. I wish you all happiness.
"Both my wife and I feel more connected, in love and understood."
Bruce truly thank you.
Your teaching method is excellent it was like you knew exactly how to explain to me every time. Not only to understand but how to use each technique in my day to day life.
Both my wife and I feel more connected, in love and understood now we have the tools to keep growing and learning together.
It was also great help to hear what other people had to say on the conference calls, and know I’m not alone.
"I did this course as a single person."
I encourage anyone who is having any sort of relationship issue or even if you aren’t this course will help you to improve your relationship.
I did this course as a single person and believe it will help me in any relationship that I’m in in the future not to repeat the mistakes of the past or at the very least to have some tools to equip me to be a better partner in any future relationship.
This is a great program. It gave me tools to use in my relationship for the rest of my life.
"United as a team."
After 36 years of marriage, our relationship had been consumed by stresses from health and personal issues within our family.
After taking Bruce’s course we have been able to view our problems as the “enemy” and have come together, united as a team, to fight the “enemies” and keep our marriage strong and full of spark and romance.
"We finally are able to have a serious conversation."
After 10 years of marriage counseling, we finally are able to have a serious conversation about something important and come to a resolution. This is the first time this has happened.
"It helped us heal and move forward."
I am really glad I happened on this course. It is put together very thoughtfully and I felt a lot of integrity as well as a lot of background knowledge.
It helped us heal and move forward – thank you!
We had both been willing to do some work to save and improve our relationship but we never found a way to funnel this energy into results – here we found a guideline to grow and move forward.
It was hard work and uncomfortable at times – that’s what I wanted and that’s why it worked.
It was also very rewarding and fun and interesting and worth every minute 🙂
"The most comprehensive effective course on relationships I have ever seen."
In fact, I share about your course all over. It is truly the most comprehensive effective course on relationships I have ever seen.
Thanks for your contribution to the world.
"We now have tools to short-circuit our breakdowns and turn them into breakthroughs."
We were committed to our marriage which had turned us into strained roommates. The passion and love had pretty much gone.
We now have tools to short-circuit our breakdowns and turn them into breakthroughs.
I now get at a deeper level that my wife stands for my well being whereas in the past it seemed she just kept annoying me.
My wife and I now have more power with the turtle and hailstorm distinction. We simply distinguish this and we do not have to stay angry.
We get off it much more quickly.
"A journey of self-discovery and personal growth."
We now have greater insight into the genesis of our recurring get conflicts and a wealth of equipment strategies from which to draw to manage conflict if /where it arises.
We have grown more understanding of each others protest behaviors and what they represent. In two words: insight and awareness
Bruce Muzik is a gifted and talented teacher, mentor and coach.
His program has been a true blessing to us in our struggle to achieve the highest level of relationship satisfaction.
His 7-week course is not only effective and transformative, but also a journey of self-discovery and personal growth for those willing to do the work.
Highly recommended and certainly worth the cost.
"Already it has cleared the air."
Eiran and I just wanted to say Thank you for your amazing course!
It really is so well put together with phenomenal amounts of important information and tools to understand the dynamics of relationships.
Plus, you as a coach, you are amazing and get the message across in a super friendly down to earth manner.
We are so glad to have come across your first video a few years back and Eiran took the courage and enrolled us in the course as a Valentine gift to us.
We still have loads of practicing to do but already it has cleared the air.
Reagan and Eiran
"If you want a relationship that you thought only happened for 'one in a million' couples, then this program will help make your partnership that ONE."
If you want a relationship that you thought only happened for ‘one in a million’ couples, then this program will help make your partnership that ONE.
It was an amazing experience! I’m not sure what else you could add. You gave us lots of extras as well to continue our transformation.
Thank you, Bruce.
"Now we are able to look at issues we face together and stop the blame game."
We lost connection with no sex life and no real communication.
Now we are able to look at issues we face together and stop the blame game.
I would recommend anyone who would like to improve their relationship to get on the program! you will realize many things about you and your partner and will help you get on the right track to have a blissful relationship.
It did it for us!
"This program was wonderful and spoke to both of us."
This program was wonderful and spoke to both of us.
I felt that other counseling seemed to blame one person or another. This program required understanding and moving together to a common goal.
No-one was the right partner or the wrong partner.
"To anyone falling out of love with someone you know you used to love, this will change your lives."
After 32 years of a fabulous relationship and life together, we found ourselves emotionally disconnected and finally physically disconnected knowing something was wrong.
The scary thing was, we being smart people had no idea how to fix it.
We went to counseling; counsel tells you what you can and can’t do, we read books, but we got no tools that worked for us. Our relationship was broken and we didn’t know how to fix it!!
A very scary point when the wife suggested she stay at a friend’s house….and I was helping her pack her bag out of frustration and helplessness.
Just as she was at the door, she came into the den to say goodbye. Out of desperation, I was searching the internet for answers and had just watched your ‘intro’ video and it spoke to me.
With tears running down my face, I asked if she would take a moment and just watch it with me….I’m crying again as I type this…. sorry.
Bruce, you saved our marriage!!!!!
It spoke to her and to me in a way that was unimaginable. We are more in love emotionally and physically than we ever thought possible.
We have reduced our escalation of conflicts in number and intensity by 90% and understand what to do now when it happens. We are deeply in love and committed to each other’s requirements, needs, and wants.
Bruce has a special gift to provide insight and understanding in a non-judging non-threatening way on deeply personal and emotional subject matters.
He is honest and vulnerable about himself.
To anyone falling out of love with someone you know you used to love, this will change your lives.
It’s the best of the best of the best of Marriage coaching all rolled into one concise program.
"We tried counseling but quickly grew tired of talking in circles and leaving sessions without any idea of where we were headed."
Bruce’s coaching program is an essential step in improving your relationship or saving one from falling apart.
We tried counseling but quickly grew tired of talking in circles and leaving sessions without any idea of where we were headed.
The Love at First Fight Coaching Program masterfully hones down a multitude of relationship preserving concepts into digestible pieces of practical information couples can use in real life.
Bruce has a gift and is kindly sharing it with the world through this program.
"It's been a different game altogether..."
Bruce’s program is an outstanding, well-structured class that should be mandatory for any couples considering a long-term partnership.
The delicate balance between personal connection and group anonymity is handled well, and you really feel like you’re in a safe group environment (even when you and your partner break to do the exercises on your own).
I highly recommend couples put the effort into this course. The ability to have a shared vocabulary and identical toolkit will go a long way towards connecting your relationship.
We’re grateful for your guidance throughout the last two months.
We’ve spent some rocky nights the last few years trying to overcome many of the pitfalls you deftly addressed in your course. The latter half of the course was of particular benefit.
We can both say it’s been a different game altogether following your intensive program.
We want you to know we were consistently impressed at how you handled your calls. The way you kept track of time, engendered engagement, and dealt with issues kindly but firmly were simply very cool to experience.
Also, your emotional cocktail video was one of the most powerful and vulnerable things we’ve seen. Kudos on including it. It was, for us, the most connecting of the course.
"Thank you for all your commitment to making this a new turn for me in my life."
Your system is simple and incremental, pulling together useful literature findings with actionable implementation. Our homework is very illuminating and positive because it “makes sense.”
To me, your approach is the first that embraces conflict, anger, and vulnerability less as signs of failure in relationships, and more as inevitable.
Conflict seems to be a pivot point for breakthrough. Your approach allows us to work through conflict with compassion and hope.
Most of us just want more connection and are so challenged by life’s heartbreak. We’ve had few tools to deal with childhoods (and marriages) shaped by our taking things personally.
Your system pays tribute to the heartbreak by opening us to honesty and understanding, making friends with what we’ve done to cope. By owning that, we have a choice to grow.
Thank you for all your commitment to making this a new turn for me in my life,
"I have never experienced such insight & wisdom into the issues I had with my husband."
The program was amazing! Best thing I have ever done for our relationship!
It was incredibly invaluable to our relationship & growth.
I have never experienced such insight & wisdom into the issues I had with my husband.
The tools that we were taught in order to bring us closer & to finally be heard with each other have been very long-awaited.
I can not recommend anyone more than Bruce as an expert & coach in the field of relationships.
It’s so sad it has come to an end…… I would love to continue the journey with you!
"I did the program by myself and at the end, my marriage changed 360 degrees..."
To be honest this program had surpassed my expectations.
Our relationship has changed a lot as I feel more connected with her and her with me.
Bruce has been an amazing coach in guiding me through my marriage challenges.
Before entering the program I kept doing the wrong things to try to fix my marriage and as a result, I was pushing my partner away, increasing conflict and having low confidence (low self-esteem).
I did the program by myself and at the end, my marriage changed 360 degrees to where I now connect more with my wife and where now we have a much more deeper and open understanding of each other.
I highly recommend Bruce as he has a wealth of knowledge that he shares which can help couples and his methods do work, they saved my marriage.
If you truly love your wife/husband/girlfriend/boyfriend/ or yourself, you need to do this program, especially if you’re struggling in your relationship.
"...he knows more about making relationships work than anyone I've ever listened to before."
Bruce is amazing when it comes to having the knowledge, the skills, the intuition, the empathy and the “how to deliver the information” to willing students who desire to improve their romantic relationship.
I think he must be an early “Indigo Child” because – for his age – he knows more about making relationships work than anyone I’ve ever listened to before in my life….and I’m much older.
I like the structure: the videos, the written work, and the short training during the Mentoring Calls, and it was great to hear about other people’s challenges and how Bruce handled them on the calls.
I would unequivocally recommend his “Love at First Fight Coaching Program” to anyone who desires to create a more loving, harmonious and passion-filled relationship.
"Much better than conventional marriage counseling."
My wife and I both really enjoyed your demeanor and positivity. You were pleasant and charming on all the calls.
We especially thought your relationship principles and concepts to be very enlightening and much better than conventional marriage counseling.
We believe your program has great merit and we are very thankful to you.
"I feel like we are more a team now."
We were interested in learning more tools to connect quicker and easier on a regular basis … and also tools to use to reconnect when we have a misunderstanding or upset between us.
I feel like we are more a team now and many of the exercises helped me see that we are really powerful when we work together … and reminded me how unsatisfying it feels when I feel that we are not connecting.
It is deeply and richly satisfying and empowering to feel us supporting each other.
I liked that Bruce provided a safe surround for my husband and me to communicate about deep intimate and sometimes painful topics.
The course gave me that extra kick-in-the-ass permission to actually identify and name my hot spots (things that trigger my anger or my fears)
… and it turned out to be a very positive experience sharing those with my husband!
Spending the time focusing on our relationship with this course has had huge payoffs in our connection and love!
"We had been to very talented marriage counselors in the past but none helped us like Bruce."
The results that Cindy and I got were nothing short of miraculous!
We had been to very talented marriage counselors in the past but none helped us like Bruce.
Bruce is a very special person who really cares about the people he works with.
His program was brilliantly well organized, researched, and presented. Very thoughtful.
"I will have both my children do it as soon as they are ready to."
Bruce is an amazing mentor and coach.
His passion for what he does is evident from the minute you meet him.
What I have taken away from this course is to purely understand myself on a deeper more personal level, discovering why I am the way I am.
Understanding why I react to issues the way that I do. Understanding the core essence of a relationship, and the dynamics of our relationships.
I have done a lot of personal development over the years, yet the information I obtained in his 7-week program is phenomenal.
This 7-week course has changed my life. I am so glad that I found Bruce Muzik and his course.
I would recommend it to all, no matter whether you are in a relationship or not. I will have both my children do it as soon as they are ready to.
I know that I will be referring back to Bruce’s material for many years to come.
If we all took the time to do this course, the world would be a much better place.
Thank you, Bruce, for the amazing, inspiring person that you are.
"This program was a lifesaver."
This program was a lifesaver.
This is essentially a masterclass on learning how to be a loving partner and how to take your relationship out of the rut it’s been on, and set it back on track.
I’m forever grateful to Bruce for his help!
"The program was and is fantastic!"
My husband and I lost our connection after 26 years of marriage and were lacking intimacy both emotionally and sexually.
We also seemed to be unable to communicate with one another without creating conflict.
Learning what triggers each of us emotionally causing dysfunctional behavior and the underlying fears behind the actions, made us aware of what each person was doing to create escalated conflict and poor communication.
I learned how to recognize and take ownership for my part in our issues and discontinue the negative behavior.
The Love at First Fight Coaching program is invaluable for anyone who wants to improve themselves and their relationships.
I cannot stress enough how amazing and inspiring the program is as well as the coach himself, Bruce Muzik.
I will be eternally grateful for all that I have learned in the program and Bruce’s enthusiastic support and encouragement which has resulted in a personal and life-changing evolution for me.
The program was and is fantastic!
"I would wholeheartedly recommend your coaching to any of my friends - even the ones who seem happy!"
I just wanted to say Thank You & that I am so pleased I found your videos online as I am certain that we wouldn’t have made this much progress in such a short amount of time without having joined your programme.
I would wholeheartedly recommend your coaching to any of my friends – even the ones who seem happy!
You really are a relationship saver!
We really couldn’t do this without your help and support and I appreciate it 1000%!
I also know (name removed) appreciates it too – he felt so understood and validated after having spoken to you on the call last week and it’s made a huge difference in him.
I feel really positive and excited about the future and I although know it won’t be without its blips, I do feel like we are so much better equipped to deal with them now.
I am a great believer in the fact that the Universe always brings you exactly what you need at just the right time and once again I feel convinced of this assertion.
Thanks a million!
"I can feel a change in both of us."
Just wanted to give some feedback and say a big thank you for the wonderful material and your excellent coaching/communication.
These teachings have hit a nerve with Joy and I and are so relevant. They are helping us to deconstruct what happens between us and to dance in a much joyous and beautiful way.
I can feel a change in both of us. It is not the earth-shattering stuff, it is the grounded and steady growth/movement that makes our relationship stronger.
So thanks again Bruce and know that your words and generosity are being received, even the prompts and nudges.
"(Name removed) and I are closer than we have been in a long time."
We had an incredible breakthrough this week. I poured my heart out to her and she poured hers out as well. It was a very loving and closeness experience!
I can’t thank you enough as a coach and a mentor for helping us and providing this program for those in need!
Anyway, just want to say that (name removed) and I are closer than we have been in a long time and I’m starting to unleash my emotions and feelings upon her for the greater good.
Can’t wait for more to come! Thanks, Bruce.
Here is a testimonial for you:
I would like to say to anyone looking for a program to do in their relationship, this one would be it.
It covers a broad variety of personality differences and how to deal with conflict and how to create closeness and love and being able to express each other’s emotions and raw feelings.
Also helps you discover more about yourself and your partner that you never knew was possible.
"We already argue less."
This program really has changed our relationship significantly!
Before we decided to do the program, Justin and I really had no hope that it would get better again. We understand and accept each other now and it’s nice to have lifelong tools that allow us to work through anything!
We already argue less and are more understanding of each other’s actions now. We are both more supportive and accepting of each other.
When things go wrong, we now have tools to work with and they never seem to fail.
It’s the closest we’ve been to each other in a long long time.
So thank you, Bruce, for saving our relationship. If it wasn’t for you and this program, I really don’t know if me and Justin would’ve made it this far.
"This has been an insightful program."
This has been an insightful program that has helped me grow spiritually and romantically.
It has helped work through the difficult times in a relationship and I have been able to become self-aware of myself and others who I enter relationships with.
Spot on analysis by our coach. Bruce.
It’s just like we were sitting right in front of him, he read through our b.s. and diagnosed us expertly.
"The Love at First Fight Coaching Program has been a much-needed boost to us."
Bruce has clearly spent a lot of time thinking through the many common struggles of relationship, done a great deal of research, and himself tested everything that he teaches.
I appreciated very much his directness and capacity to speak about anything, including his own challenges in the relationship.
He did an impressive job modeling open sharing. The video lessons were quite thorough, and it was comforting to know that we have lifetime access, since we couldn’t always go through them at a reflective pace.
I appreciate that the calls are also recorded and can be heard as well. I appreciated quick responses from Bruce’s staff.
Bruce’s responses to our queries were always helpful and I felt well understood by him during the times I shared. I think my partner did as well. We also both felt encouraged and normalized throughout the course.
The Love at First Fight Coaching Program has been a much-needed boost to us in the midst of our power struggle stage.
Firstly, just knowing that such a stage exists has been tremendously helpful, and secondly, understanding its many predictable challenges and how to address them in clear, practical ways, has also given us hope in getting through what previously felt like irreconcilable differences.
Bruce’s vast knowledge of current relationship science, along with his very open and encouraging approach, have been extremely valuable to us.
We understand better why being “incompatible” with each other through our many differences is actually much of what we need in order to be stronger and brighter versions of ourselves.
I’ve taken couples counseling and it always fell short.
The tools and the methods here provide an understanding of the situation; a framework that both of us can, if we’ve got the energy, utilize to make this happen.
"I wish we had both known about the program much earlier in our relationship and how much heartache it would've spared us."
I wish we had both known about the program much earlier in our relationship and how much heartache it would’ve spared us.
Relationships are hard work, but if you don’t have the right tools it can be a Sisyphean task that ends in divorce or illness.
This program provided us with tools and experiences that saved our relationship and enriched our lives and relationships with family members and friends.
Bruce delivers the material in a very lighthearted and loving manner. By sharing his own feelings and experiences he makes one feel “normal” and encourages people in the group to open up and share.
"Transformed our relationship and wrapped us in hope and belief in the power of connection."
After 38 years of exploring various ways of improving our relationship, Bruce Muzik’s Love at First Fight coaching program, transformed our relationship and wrapped us in hope and belief in the power of connection.
We fully expect this will diminish our insecurities and transform our happiness as we slip into the uncertainty of our declining years.
Much of the anxiety over making challenging decisions has diminished and we truly have tapped into a new way of connecting.
Reflective listening was without question the most revolutionary tool we found effectively lifted us beyond our broken connection.
It was a powerful testament that old dogs (married 38 years) can and should be taught new tricks.
We now recognize what stage of spirituality we are in and lust after interdependency. Such a cool way to be.
I highly recommend Bruce to Seniors of all ages!
Humble thanks, Bruce.
"We are forever changed."
I love your program, I think you are brilliant. I love your warm, gentle, kind manner.
I would like to convince everyone I know that your coaching program is not optional.
I am just so full of gratitude and thankfulness right now that we happened on your program.
We are forever changed.
We have 4 adult children that I would like to “gift” them your program for Christmas, I kind of ‘adore” you!!!!
"Valuable both for one's growth and also inside the couple - even the entire family."
Bruce’s program is brilliant for people who want to understand the underlying patterns they are navigating regarding their relationships.
Tools and knowledge given here are valuable both for one’s growth and also inside the couple – even the entire family.
"Knowing that we have the tools now to communicate in a loving, mature way, takes the anxiety away."
Together for just under 2 years, the misunderstandings, disagreements, and frustrations between John and I caused a constant volatile environment for us.
Luckily, we were both willing to keep trying, but also realized something major had to shift between us- and soon- or we probably weren’t going to make it as a romantic couple.
Bruce’s program was exactly what we needed! It is organized and succinct, super insightful, fun and actually life-changing.
He’s a true pro with compassion, yet realistic and always willing to fight for you (and with you). I won’t kid you!
It brings up the shit you don’t want to face and is one of the scariest things I’ve ever done!
But it also opened my heart and helped me face my biggest fears.
Knowing that we have the tools now to communicate in a loving, mature way, takes the anxiety away.
I’ve never been happier with my man.
Mahalo Nui Loa Bruce!
Keep up the good work 😉 <3
"Love at First Fight has helped us to connect in ways we haven't in years and to be less volatile."
Love at First Fight has helped us to connect in ways we haven’t in years and to be less volatile.
The systematic way of dealing with conflict has been very helpful to us. The exercises were really interesting and helped us learn so much about ourselves and each other.
We are more accepting of each other and are able to see the deeper meaning behind our behavior.
Bruce is so supportive throughout the process and is very responsive to questions.
I would highly recommend the program!
"This course has helped us both to see each other..."
This has been a fantastic course.
My partner and I are very strong-willed people with definite strong views.
This course has helped us both to see each other in a different light and get a clearer understanding of how we function.
It has truly been a wonderful experience.
"Coming together in the most beautiful and magical way."
This is an amazing course that supports personal growth and relationship growth.
The reflection questions/exercises are wonderful and help support the integration of coming together in the most beautiful and magical way.
"The whole course was an AHA moment!"
This is a fantastic course, you will learn a lot about relationships, how they work and how you can succeed in achieving your relationship goals.
But also you will learn a lot about yourself and this will enrich all aspects of your life.
The whole course was an AHA moment!
"This course has been mind-blowing. I will never be the same."
WOW! I had never thought I would look at relationships and behaviours in a completely different way after just a few weeks of training.
This course has been mind-blowing. I will never be the same.
I have realized that any relationship can be salvaged if you want to. Yes, it’s a conscious decision.
The tools I’ve been given in this program have taught me how.
"There is no longer a weird tension when we are near each other."
Our relationship has changed dramatically!
There is no longer a weird tension when we are near each other.
We are solving disagreements quicker, there are fewer of them and the fallout (length of recovery time) is very short. As in minutes, not days!!!!
My God. I owe you so much, Bruce.
While I know we worked diligently and the credit is ours, I so appreciate your well put together and thoughtful program.
"Cheaper than the UK court fee to lodge your divorce petition..."
If you feel as if you’ve come to the end of the road and you’re asking friends for the name of a matrimonial solicitor, STOP!
Make this course your last-ditch attempt at rekindling the love you once had for each other.
It is only 7 weeks long and it is cheaper than the UK court fee to lodge your divorce petition and MUCH cheaper than your matrimonial solicitor (take it from me, I am one).
What have you got to lose, but seven weeks and less than 5% of what it will cost you for divorce and financial proceedings. The worst case scenario is that you and your partner still decide to call it quits, but by the end of 7 weeks you will be armed with the skills and knowledge to ensure your next relationship has a much better chance of staying the distance.
Best case scenario, you come to the end of the course and wonder why you were ever thinking of looking elsewhere because all that your heart desires has been right beside you all along.
"Don't give up on the love."
If you are facing fighting with your partner more and more.
If you doubt you are the right person for him, he is the right person for you since the fighting just causes more and more distrust and scars.
Then you need to come to Bruce 7 week course to work together with your partner because all couples have good marriage they experiencing more or less the struggling stage to step out.
You are not alone and you are quite normal. Don’t give up on the love you ever trust.
"WE feel much closer now."
WE feel much closer now.
This is a great program to increase intimacy in a relationship.
By taking the time to understand myself more and understand my partner, we were able to grow closer.
We learned tools and techniques that skyrocketed our ability to discuss controversial topics that previously would have resulted in a fight.
I feel that we have a much more solid connection now.
"Your program made sense of it all."
The exercises coupled with the videos and coaching calls put everything together in a way that simply “made sense”.
Many of the concepts and techniques were not new to my wife and I as a couple, but we simply misunderstood them or were not applying them correctly.
Your program made sense of it all and each week built on the previous.
"I feel so much braver about being able to sort out conflict."
I feel so much braver about being able to sort out conflict, remain calm, know what to do and say to be respectful of my needs and others needs.
Bruce is so kind, hopeful, and informative.
"I am inspired by and deeply grateful for the work you are doing."
I see your program as brilliant and sorely needed in a society that is severely underdeveloped in relationship and communication skills.
I think this type of information should be taught in schools as part of the core curriculum.
And if parents developed these skills to model to their children, imagine the legacy for rich intimacy they would leave for future generations. I am inspired by and deeply grateful for the work you are doing.
If people are open-minded and teachable and actually consistently utilize the tools and wisdom you are imparting, relationships will transform.
It’s not to say that all troubled relationships will or should be saved, but what you teach will provide a healthy and respectful foundation for the relationship to reach its highest potential as well as bring clarity to make intelligent decisions about the highest and best outcome for those concerned.
I wholeheartedly agree that your course is exceedingly more effective and less expensive than traditional couple’s counseling.
What you have put together in this program is an excellent value.
"All the tension between us vanished...it saved my marriage."
All the tension between us vanished.
We can now be more free with each other and it feels like the masks we’ve been wearing for so long around each other have been peeled off.
It’s the most liberating feeling in the world.
I feel we are so much stronger than before and that our relationship is deeper/ more meaningful than before.
Just wanted to THANK YOU personally for creating this program.
It’s the most insightful, self-empowering course I have ever attended in my life. Most importantly, it saved my marriage. (Name removed) and I are in a much better place than we were when we began the course.
It’s like all the walls finally came down and we could finally see each other for the first time in so long.
We still have a lot of work to do but the key thing is that WE are now fully together on this journey and I believe that we are well equipped with the tools to help us better navigate whatever lies ahead.
"For the first time in my life, I feel empowered to improve the quality of all my relationships."
This program helped me see my own patterns and how I contribute to issues in the relationship.
I developed more skill at owning my own emotions, reflective listening, and communicating without judging or blaming.
For the first time in my life, I feel empowered to improve the quality of all my relationships.
"Thank you for teaching me new techniques."
Your program is extremely beneficial for me to understand our marriage relationship and how it evolved over the years.
I appreciate the techniques and the research-based materials you supplied for further reading.
It is the best hands-on program that I have found with videos, worksheets, suggested readings etc.
I have been reading and researching fervently and relentlessly for God has told every day not to give up on our marriage.
I have always stayed away from conversations that alluded to conflict.
The most inspiring piece that I will practice and share with my children is how to have a Reflective Conversation. This will not only help anyone in their marriage but in their life.
Thank you for teaching me new techniques.
"Changes happen quicker than you think."
I wish I had known this stuff years ago.
It is incredibly practical and easy to follow, and changes happen quicker than you think.
"You will learn so much about yourself and your partner."
You will learn so much about yourself and your partner in the Love at First Program through the various lessons and tools that Bruce provide.
I was a little unsure when I first signed up but I’m so glad I signed us up.
"This programme saved our marriage."
This programme saved our marriage.
We have been together for 20 years and were divorcing when a friend introduced me to Love At First Fight.
I asked my husband if he would like to participate in the course with me and he did 🙂
Now we are not divorcing and have a deeper understanding for each other than ever.
Thank you, Bruce,
"We saw an immediate improvement in our relationship."
If you are experiencing constant fighting and do not see a way out, this course is amazing, we had read about other counseling but did not feel comfortable talking to a stranger.
As soon as we saw one of Bruce’s free videos we saw an immediate improvement in our relationship, we knew that a great relationship was possible.
Bruce is easy going and easy to listen to. The material was very insightful.
"Bruce's program helped me and my husband take our relationship to a new level."
Bruce’s program helped me and my husband take our relationship to a new level.
It has helped us to create a deeper connection, understanding of each other and healthier way to communicate.
I would recommend this program to anyone who is thinking about it.
"Even though I took this class as a single person, my relationships have grown, deepened, and improved."
I love sharing what I have learned with my nearly grown children (and their friends).
Guess what? They love hearing about what I am learning in my Love at First Fight class!
So, even though I took this class as a single person, my relationships have grown, deepened, and improved.
Thank you, Bruce!
"Feels like we are on the right path now."
Somehow we spent 30 years in ‘power struggle’, and that’s quite a ‘habit’ to break.
We needed both the theory (to understand our automatic behaviors) and the exercises (to learn new ways), in order to change.
Feels like we are on the right path now, thanks for helping us “press the reset button” safely.
"Conflict is no longer something to be avoided."
Because of this program, my partner and I are more accepting of and skillful when conflict arises.
Conflict is no longer something to be avoided, but a sign of an opportunity to fulfill a need and love more deeply. I have put down my sword in exchange for vulnerability and trust.
"We feel connected a lot more often now and know how to make each other feel loved."
I love her and accept her for who she is now instead of trying to change her as I was unconsciously doing before the program.
Learned so much amazing stuff… we feel connected a lot more often now and know how to make each other feel loved.
"The Love At First Fight program helped me gain an understanding of why my relationship ended."
Over the last 7 weeks, Bruce walked alongside me as I healed from a painful breakup.
The Love At First Fight program helped me gain an understanding of why my relationship ended.
More importantly, it gave me the tools and hope that my future relationship will be healthier and happier.
"Both partners feel like a team."
You have put in the work and research.
You are completely genuine in every interaction, and you provide a clear and effective framework and tools to use in order to have a healthy relationship in which each partner feels supported and both partners feel like a team.
"We now have a better understanding of WHY we each act the way we do."
Although we had been married for over 30 years, my husband and I had a couple of recurring arguments that never seemed to get resolved.
They would usually end in raising voices, or accusing and blaming each other, and just walking away…until the next time the topic came up.
After taking the course with Bruce, we now have a better understanding of WHY we each act the way we do.
This knowledge, along with some basic connection and communication skills, has helped us to finally achieve resolution.
We are no longer taking what each other does personally because we understand how our personality types figure into our actions.
I really do believe that the course has brought us closer, and we have better tools now for discussing difficult topics (which everyone deals with).
I highly recommend it!
"I now know how to be a better husband..."
This was so enlightening! I learned so much, it’s truly amazing the material packed in here in just 7 weeks.
Before the program started, Bruce said to me that I may not want to be co-parenting in the same household in separate rooms. And, after going through the program, I see the wisdom in that.
Regardless of the immediate future, I know that I am a far better person for having taken this program, and that makes me feel more ready to face a future where I am single again.
I am grateful for this program. It made me a better man.
I now know how to be a better husband, and know how to see problems ahead of time, and what to do about them. That is so big.
I really can’t get across how valuable this has been. I truly want to thank Bruce and his team.
It’s something I will carry forward inside myself forever.
"I've discovered what a relationship really is..."
I was single before, and I’m single now. I haven’t reconnected with my ex, and I’m not ready to. Whether we get back together or not isn’t the point though.
The point is that I’ve discovered what a relationship really is, and how to make it valuable to my partner and I both. I love my ex, but whether or not we get back together isn’t important. Being apart of a loving relationship is.
I owe you so much, thanks for helping me through this whole process, these past 7 weeks are a total win.
"This course provides a strong foundation for creating deeper intimacy and enjoying more joy and love."
Bruce is a wonderfully insightful and skillful coach and teacher.
He has synthesized some of the best research and thinking on intimate partnership into a clear set of classes and exercises that provide couples with a rich and pragmatic approach to understanding and addressing their own roles in a relationship.
For couples and individuals seeking more compassion and less acrimony in their relationships, this course provides a strong foundation for creating deeper intimacy and enjoying more joy and love in their lives.
I am a student of relationships and I am always looking to learn more about interpersonal dynamics and the self in relationship.
I am also a relatively new coach focusing on relationships.
I have read the books and participated in seminars with many of the people whose work you draw upon and reference.
I am really impressed with how you have pulled this work together into a meaningful online program.
Bruce, thank you!!!!
"Evolve as an individual."
I highly recommend this LAFF program by Bruce Muzik for anyone who desires to improve their understanding of themselves and the dynamics of their relationships.
Bruce facilitates a deeper knowledge of oneself as well as providing practical exercises and significant insightful readings to put this knowledge into practice to evolve as an individual, to improve one’s relationships and so much more.
It is crafted in a remarkable way to facilitate making a positive difference in one’s life.
Thank you so very much, Bruce, with deep appreciation.
"My brother and I were hugging each other in tears..."
You don’t need to be in a relationship to benefit from Bruce’s Love at First Fight program.
My girlfriend left me a week before we had a chance to get at our problems so I had to get creative and use my tools with friends and family.
My brother and I were hugging each other in tears thanks to the Appreciation Journal.
My friend and I bridged a barrier of a few years thanks to the Reflective Conversation.
We also talk about the psychology of making sure my next relationship is my best one.
If I were you I’d sign up today.
"Amazing job of giving us the tools necessary to create safety, resolve conflict and live a happy and fulfilling life together."
OK, so I’m like Bruce’s biggest fan.
What I was most impressed with, was how he distilled an immense amount of information, into useful, bite-size chunks.
I was also impressed with the calls – I thought they would get long. However, it worked great, I was never close to bored.
I also like how he is always using his coaching time to teach as well. For me to stay engaged through a 2-hour call is not easy to do, but he did it.
My wife and I have been happily married for 10 years. With passing time and the addition of our two boys, it has become increasingly difficult to stay connected.
Bruce’s 7-week course did an amazing job of giving us the tools necessary to create safety, resolve conflict and live a happy and fulfilling life together.
"Learn the tools to start overcoming those arguments."
This is a really good education into how we tick as both individuals and particularly as couples.
Instead of just hashing out arguments in a therapist’s office, you can instead learn the tools to start overcoming those arguments.
“Teach a man to fish..” vs hand him a fish.
"I will cherish this program."
I would recommend this program to couples that are having issues. I already recommended it to a co-worker, he and his wife may participate.
I also recommended it to my other best friend and her husband who have intimacy issues. I hope that they will or get something out of it to help their marriages stronger and healthy…
I know that I will cherish this program and use it for myself and if I ever get into another relationship…
Thank you, Bruce, for all you have taught me and I am still learning about myself to one day have that GREAT, healthy, loving relationship I have always wanted
"My husband and I could have used these tools a long time ago. It would have saved us from years of intermittent heartache."
My husband and I could have used these tools a long time ago. It would have saved us from years of intermittent heartache.
I would even recommend this course for premarital counseling or for newlyweds to prevent developing bad habits that become entrenched positions.
I would also recommend this program for couples to use before going to counseling.
Bruce has a very engaging style that helps participants feel safe, and you know that he has “been there” and “done that”.
"During the program, we felt a lot closer to each other than we had, ever."
We’d been together for about fifteen years when my husband and I found Love at First Fight and decided to give it a try.
We both participated in the calls and weekly homework… and were amazed by Bruce’s ability to improve our communication in a matter of weeks.
His strategies are so well-researched, thoughtful, and important. Because relationships are not one-size-fits-all he also offers a wide variety of tools that are helpful to couples that may be struggling.
More importantly, his coaching style is very positive, funny, direct, supportive and honest.
We both felt really supported throughout the process and were amazed by the way in which his communication tools elevated the level of our typical tough conversations to articulate, kind dialogues where we spoke to each other with respect and compassion.
We still have a path to walk but feel more confident than ever in our future, thanks to the Love At First Fight program.
During the program, we felt a lot closer to each other than we had, ever.
I personally wish the program had lasted for three or four months, instead of just seven weeks.
My husband and I have both recommended this program highly to several friends and even our kids agree that this class really changed our dynamic for the better.
Thank you so much, Bruce! We now know exactly who to turn to in the future if we find ourselves in true need again.
"Since completing the course, we are more connected and we laugh and have good times together again."
Before doing this course I felt like breaking up as I was lifeless and didn’t have any energy when it came to being with my partner.
I learned that connection is important and that what I want is not always what makes my partner happy.
Since completing the course, we are more connected and we laugh and have good times together again.
"Even taking the course by myself it has helped our relationship and we both are happier."
This course has helped me a lot.
I have been married to Debbie for 16 years. We have been in what Bruce calls the power struggle stage for almost all of the 16 years.
We keep having the same fights with the same results neither of us happy, in fact, we were within one month of getting a divorce.
I signed up for this course without talking with Debbie first.
Well, I didn’t consider how much time it would take and the number of things we had going on during the time of this course and how busy Debbie was going to be so she didn’t take the course along with me.
Even taking the course by myself it has helped our relationship and we both are happier.
Yes, it would have been a LOT better if we both took the course together, even so, with just me incorporating a few of the things that I have learned, we are both happier.
I look forward to the time when we can retake the course together, I know we will grow closer and have a much happier relationship.
There is no better testimonial than yes, I would recommend this program to a friend, a family member or anyone.
"Improve wherever your relationship is now and take it to a higher level."
I was very moved by the warmth and understanding that Bruce has as he leads this training.
This creates a safe place when things are feeling very stressful.
I learned so much and am implementing new ways of relating in my marriage.
I would highly recommend this program! If you take some action and use what you learn, it will improve wherever your relationship is now and take it to a higher level.
It did just that for mine!
"We entered the program with a great relationship and came away with an extraordinary relationship."
We entered the program with a great relationship and came away with an extraordinary relationship.
Our loving connection and trust grew through the deep sharing that the course exercises offered.
Bruce is a master trainer and an intuitive, compassionate guide.
"The best investment any couple could make in their relationship; it will pay dividends forever."
The best investment any couple could make in their relationship; it will pay dividends forever.
As much as I thought I knew about this topic, Love @ gave us a wealth of practical and useful knowledge that allowed us to communicate as never before.
"Honesty has opened the door for us to build and maintain our relationship with positive emotions."
My husband and I recently completed the program and it was such an amazing journey.
I really enjoyed session 6. There was so much from my past I wanted to share with my husband and was finally able to thanks to the guidance provided by the video.
I feel reinvigorated as a result.
Honesty has opened the door for us to build and maintain our relationship with positive emotions.
I highly recommend Bruce Muzik “Love At First Fight” to anyone looking for inner personal growth in preparation for meeting their life partner, husband and/or wife and couples.
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"... leap to better understand each other in a loving way."
I have learned a great deal and would highly recommend a course like this to anyone before they get married.
Bruce has a wonderful approach that is never patronizing.
He brings together so much of the valuable work being done on relationships and makes it accessible to regular couples who are trying to grow.
Thank you, Bruce – you are doing honorable work and I wish you could offer a maintenance package to those of us who’ve taken the leap to better understand each other in a loving way – this is an ongoing journey of love, fun, and understanding.
You’ve helped a lot of people!
"Thrive together as partners."
Applause for Bruce Muzik and his Relationship Repair program.
We recommend this program to anyone who would like to connect with their partner in a more authentic loving manner and thrive together as partners.
"Thank you, Bruce, for being so involved in the work you did with us."
Thank you, Bruce, for being so involved in the work you did with us.
You were so true and did not hesitate to talk about your own relationships and how you suffered.
My opinion is that your past suffering brought you to “Coaching” and then, to us.
Let me greet your opening heart, doing so you healed some of us.
"Well worth the money and as a bonus, you get lifetime access to the site."
We all know how we can be scammed on the internet by quick fixes but Bruce Muzik’s “Love at first fight” online relationship course is an engaging, deeply helpful and worth the time and effort.
It will help or bring your relationship and even yourselves to a new way of thinking.
Bruce comes across as a deeply vulnerable, engaging, funny and charismatic man who is not afraid to share his own flaws and opinions.
He and the course will help you through difficult and many aha moments as you and your partner get to know who you really are and how to communicate in a deeply emotional way in and outside the bedroom.
Well worth the money and as a bonus, you get lifetime access to the site.
"Now am confident that I have the tools to have a meaningful relationship."
I joined Bruce’s program to learn how to win my partner back and I am exiting the program having learned how to win myself back.
I learned so much about myself and the impact an individual can have in a relationship.
I now fully understand the dynamics of a relationship and all that impacts it.
The experience transformed me and I now am confident that I have the tools to have a meaningful relationship and truly connect with a partner, without fear or hesitation.
I wish Bruce’s program was longer because I learned so much on each and every call.
"I connect better with my partner, and I am on my way to a fulfilling, lasting relationship."
After doing the course, I better understand myself (and the part I play in my relationship).
I connect better with my partner, and I am on my way to a fulfilling, lasting relationship.
The Love At First Fight Program is amazing and insightful!
Thanks, Bruce! Your course really has turned our relationship around for the better. 😀
"We are MUCH more connected, much less "triggered" now that we have the tools presented in such an understandable way."
I was thrilled (name removed) was willing to participate.
We are MUCH more connected, much less “triggered” now that we have the tools presented in such an understandable way.
We LOVED this being online.
It allowed us to progress with a very specific agenda weekly. We knew where we had been–and what was to come.
Your enthusiasm, Bruce, as well as your grasp of the various therapeutic modalities is very impressive.
You are so engaging with EVERYONE!! Your intelligence and genuine compassion just shine through!!
We do not regret at all participating in the program.
It benefitted us greatly to listen to your work with the other couples. The videos and homework assignments are great.
We have ALREADY committed to going back and enhancing our work by “repeating” the program completing the assignments we didn’t complete.
We are VERY grateful we have lifetime access to the videos, the homework assignments, etc!!!!! PLUS–we just LOVE your accent!! and sense of humor!!!
"... the fights started to disappear."
My partner and I were fighting every few days and had come to a point where our relationship was on and off for a few years.
Bruce’s Love at First Fight coaching program was going to be our last go at it – and I’m so lucky that it was.
Going through the course, we noticed almost immediately each of our responsibilities for causing the fight and the fights started to disappear.
The course was so much more thorough, deep and inspiring than I could have imagined and Bruce’s expertise made it such a comfortable and enlightening experience.
Now, my partner and I are closer and more connected than ever before.
"Thank you, Bruce, for showing us how beautiful and perfect we are together!"
This program has been life-changing for us, not only as a couple but on a personal level as well.
Thanks to Bruce and all the information and tools he provided, we realized we didn’t truly know each other deeply.
Each week was a discovery of how beautifully we can work together, being responsible for each other’s wounds, living now for the same purpose: each other’s happiness!
Whenever we seem to have a problem now we think of what Bruce said: “whatever is not love is just a misunderstanding”.
Thank you, Bruce, for showing us how beautiful and perfect we are together!
"...helps you build true love, unlike Hollywood."
Love at first fight is the best program I have seen or heard to build relationships.
The 7-8 week timeline is short enough that it can motivate lots of people to give it a try. The content is great and I can feel that you truly care.
Thank you for taking years of research and condensing into an actionable 8-week program. I wish all couples do this course which helps you build true love, unlike Hollywood.
"This was definitely worth the investment."
Doing this from home was great. We enjoyed a video and exercise program we could do on our schedule.
The lessons curated key concepts from industry leading sources and the exercises reinforced the lessons.
This was much more valuable than trying to read and synthesize information from random sources while also trying to work on our conflict.
We would highly recommend this program to quickly learn the most important skills in improving your relationship.
It is skill focused, so we felt that we were learning actionable techniques and not just abstract ideas.
The value you get out is directly related to the effort you put in, and this was definitely worth the investment.
"Things took a turn around week 6."
After 4 or more breakups in 14 yrs
I was certain that we were DONE, both of us.
Things took a turn around week 6.
I am now confident we have the tools to have a healthy happy fulfilling relationship.
We have a ways to go, but getting there is a lot more fun now.
"We were on the verge of breaking up before starting it and now we feel the most connected for years."
Bruce is an inspirational and understanding coach.
Whatever question you have, he offers in-depth advice and background info.
We learned so much in this course and we are definitely heading in the right direction.
We were on the verge of breaking up before starting it and now we feel the most connected for years.
"We were on the verge of breaking up, and the course really helped us understand our behavior."
If you’re constantly stuck in a cycle of negative behavior, feeling unhappy, and are about to break up, I’d suggest taking this course.
We were on the verge of breaking up, and the course really helped us understand our behavior.
Glad to say we didn’t break up and are now on a more comfortable road.
"I found amazing insight into myself and how I can be triggered."
I took this course wanting to be better equipped to face the challenges of relationship…To arm me with tools and insights to help create a solid foundation.
I found amazing insight into myself and how I can be triggered. That these triggers are often not about “him” but about me!
Bruce keeps the information interesting, fun ( yes fun in a hard way) and wanting to learn more.
The exercises and tools are incredibly useful and will appeal to both the spiritual and logical brains.
I can’t recommend doing this course enough.
"We experienced benefits to our relationship immediately after the first session."
We learned so much during the course of this program!
We experienced benefits to our relationship immediately after the first session.
We definitely recommend the program to anyone who wants to fix a broken relationship or move their relationship to the next level.
"It taught myself and my husband how to communicate better."
The information that Bruce has put together in his 7-week course was very valuable and helpful in my relationship.
It taught myself and my husband how to communicate better and how to lovingly ask one another to meet each other’s needs, instead of demanding and making the other partner feel bad.
It also taught us a lot about our differences in personality and why we behave the way we do, which in turn, allowed us to respect each other’s differences instead of taking them as a negative flaw.
"Show up for a healthy, committed, love relationship."
Love at First Fight has been a complete success for me.
The course allowed me to come into a safe space in order to explore and learn more about myself, my partner and our power struggle.
I think it is a beautiful resource for anyone seeking to expand their knowledge and ability to show up for a healthy, committed, love relationship.
I can’t express how powerful and helpful the course has been.
I feel like this is only a beginning and there is so much to work with that it will be useful for the rest of my life as I continue to practice and learn from the many powerful distinctions that were shared by Bruce.
He delivered the course in such a loving way and he is a dynamic personality that is fun to work with.
Thank you, Bruce, I am very grateful to you for all the work you have done to bring us this gift, this LOVE.
"...There is no greater gift we could give our new daughter than how strong we feel as a team now."
This program is the real deal.
It’s not for the faint of heart, but if you bravely surrender yourself to this even half-heartedly, Bruce will help pull you through to the other side.
Bruce has poured himself into this work and research in a way that removed many frustrating roadblocks we kept running into as a couple.
We are expecting our first child any day now and there is no greater gift we could give our new daughter than how strong we feel as a team now.
"This program is a must do for every couple in my opinion."
Bruce’s program is amazing. I had no idea how much I didn’t know about relationships.
This program is a must do for every couple in my opinion.
It is so comprehensive, it will bring great value to anyone who commits to the program and is willing to do the work.
"I now find myself saying 'What would Bruce Do' #WWBD."
Bruce asked me during one of the mentoring calls if I had a person who I respected or took inspiration from that I could visualize in my head to help me answer a question if in a challenging situation.
That person is you, Bruce. I now find myself saying ‘What would Bruce Do’ #WWBD
"My whole life has grown from this short 7-week course! Wish I had done it earlier."
I consistently rave about this course, to anyone and everyone!
It’s something that should be taught in primary school.
My whole life has grown from this short 7-week course! Wish I had done it earlier.
"Bruce - you and your fabulous support and tools have breathed life, love, and understanding into our marriage."
The entire course was one long ‘Aha’ moment, basically teaching me that marriages need working on, and can’t be taken for granted.
Loved the calls, Bruce’s humor, his care, and how he showed genuine interest, and frequently asked pertinent follow-up questions about people’s wins etc, to get to the bottom of what had happened and share the lessons with others.
He managed to do this even though he was on a tight schedule and had a lot to get through on each call.
Bruce – you and your fabulous support and tools have breathed life, love, and understanding into our marriage.
I pray that we will always be able to keep using all the gifts you have given us.
"My husband and I learned more in this 7-week course by Bruce than in several years of couples therapy we had attended."
My husband and I learned more in this 7-week course by Bruce than in several years of couples therapy we had attended.
The tools are amazingly helpful, clear and universally applicable.
Seriously, these tools will help you with or without every other avenue you are pursuing help in your relationship!
"Arguments used to last days... now they last a few minutes. It's kind of incredible."
Your course has helped me and my relationship out a lot!
My partner and I still experience power struggles, but we’ve gotten WAY better at fighting since.
Arguments used to last days… now they last a few minutes. It’s kind of incredible.
"After 7 weeks, we are seeing positive changes in our communication and relationship."
Bruce is an amazing and relatable coach.
He genuinely wants my partner and me to succeed in finding our way out of our struggles.
After 7 weeks, we are seeing positive changes in our communication and relationship.
We are so grateful for Bruce’s words and guidance. This course is time, effort and money well spent.
"Bruce has many years of experience to share."
I have been reading many books on relationship and Bruce has put all the best advice and techniques in his program.
So rather than reading the books, I would highly recommend taking this coaching class.
Bruce has many years of experience to share and his encouragement and constructive criticism made me realized that I play an important role in the conflict and I can change to improve the relationship.
Without this realization, change cannot happen.
Thank you so much, Bruce.
"After 7 weeks, we have a shared vision of where we want our relationship to go and a few handy tools to help us get there."
Bruce is not a magician. He cannot undo years of bad habits.
What he can do–and did do for us–was give us insight into our interactions, force us to own our respective parts of the problem, and provide us with a number of ‘tools’ for our relationship toolbox.
We tried them all. Some work for us, others don’t.
After 7 weeks, we have a shared vision of where we want our relationship to go and a few handy tools to help us get there.
"The videos and worksheets expanded my mind to see relationships in a whole new light."
This program creates a wonderful perspective on the foundation of a relationship.
The videos and worksheets expanded my mind to see relationships in a whole new light.
The videos kept my attention and always created a curiosity and a question of what exciting things will I learn next? Our weekly mentoring sessions were enlightening and informative.
It was great to speak with Bruce on my “Wins” for the week and to ask advice on topics specific to my relationship with my wife.
Thank you, Bruce!
"Bruce far exceeds any marriage therapy session one could take."
The videos Bruce made each week were informative, enlightening and helpful.
Bruce is masterful at integrating research from various experts, such as John Gottman and David Deida, into his various topics.
In addition, Bruce added personal experiences with a dose of his own vulnerability and realness.
He is better than any therapist I have ever had.
Most importantly, he seems to really care about his program and the effectiveness of it.
He helped me by modeling the tools to examine my behavior more effectively.
I have attended marriage counseling with reputable Ph.D. therapists, who have studied the research of John Gottman and other relationship experts. However, Bruce Muzik is a master communicator and so well-read with best practice and research.
Bruce far exceeds any marriage therapy session one could take, providing both partners commit to the program.
I would pay to see him live.
"We've been through hours of therapy..."
Bruce, our session was the most helpful thing Chad and I have ever done.
We’ve been through hours of therapy but were never able to get to the root of what my fear was about his ex.
We had the best weekend together we have had almost since I met him a year ago, not kidding.
The things you said were hard to hear, which is part of why I was quiet during a part of the call, and, at one point I got tears in my eyes because you were speaking to/calling out the wound I hadn’t yet fully recognized.
Knowing these 2 things has brought peace in my heart I haven’t had in a while, for myself but also for my relationship with Chad.
Both Chad and I are SO impressed. Catherine was right. She sings your praises and I’m so glad we joined your program.
We still have work to do and – this is amazing great progress regarding one of the largest things we have faced as a couple so far.
Very grateful 🙂