Love At First Fight Reviews

They did it.

So can you.

Lisa Moore

Lisa Moore

I feel heard! This is huge after not feeling heard for all these years.

The Conflict Cure was a God send that I happened upon on social media.

Over the 36 years we have been married we have had the same arguments just on different days. This program has given us tools, taught us how to safely communicate, encourage one another in a meaningful way, and so much more.

I feel heard! This is huge after not feeling heard for all these years.

We have sought counseling over the years that did nothing to improve our relationship. They seemed to be expensive gripe sessions and a waste of money.

The Conflict Cure is so different, with exercises to discover the basis of the emotional problems that led to hurt feelings and arguments, and ways to navigate and heal these issues. We are excited to see where it leads. We anticipate much happier retirement years by applying your teachings – wish we had it years ago!

Lisa Moore

Carla Heins

The Conflict Cure is truly a MIRACLE.

Dear Bruce,

First let me say how much this program has been saving our marriage.

After almost 13 years together we were finding ourselves stuck in the Power Struggle stage. (The exact description you used in the Instagram reel where I saw your program come across my feed. The reel that made me stop in my tracks and say, Holy Crap!! That’s US!) I felt it in my heart how much your words resonated with me in that reel.

I chose to attend your mastermind class, and after that, I KNEW that I had to delicately approach my partner with ONE MORE THING to try. And oh, how we have tried ALL. THE. THINGS!!!! I shared with him what I learned and even signed up AGAIN, so he could watch it.
And to my surprise, he agreed!

During the first 5 years of our marriage, we reveled in the blissful Romance Stage where we co-owned and operated a thriving landscape maintenance business where we worked happily side-by-side and were together 24/7! I ask you, how many married couples can DO THAT, and STILL remain married? Apparently, we thrived on it. Then after deciding 30 years in the landscape business was enough, (and so our aging bodies were telling us) we retired from that work and Brad moved on to a different, mid-life career path that slammed us both into a more traditional (and separate) employment role, where we only saw each other in the evenings and on weekends.

This was A HUGE and significant change in the dynamic of our life together. A challenge that was becoming increasingly difficult to navigate, even after 6 years of trying to adjust we found ourselves smack dab in the middle of your Power Struggle Stage. And the last 2 years especially, had been slowly and increasingly intensifying to the point where we were beginning to question how much longer we would even be together.

The enormous fire we once shared had become a dying coal buried under a soggy mountain of resentment, blame and ego. We were becoming desperate to find a way to re-ignite the flame between us. But we didn’t know how. We just knew, that underneath, the love was still there. We just needed the right TOOLS to fan it back to previous glory!

And that’s where you stepped in. Not even halfway through The Conflict Cure, we have found more connection in the last 3 weeks than we have had in YEARS! Our love flame has re-kindled and we are, oh so gently, breathing life back into its delicate heat. The techniques we are learning in this course are proving invaluable and incredibly compatible with our love values of kindness, gentleness, and respectfulness. Values we had temporarily forgotten in the struggle of this stage.

Brad has expressed to me that there is SO MUCH in this course to absorb, that he wants to restart it from the beginning upon its completion. And I agree wholeheartedly!

I have already recommended The Conflict Cure to MANY of my friends who would most definitely benefit from its magic!

Trust me when I say, that what The Conflict Cure has done for us in such a short amount of time is truly a MIRACLE in my book. You don’t realize HOW many things we have tried, all to no avail, which is kind of ironic considering how we met in the first place….in a Divorce Recovery Support Group!  LOL! THAT particular tale is a long and beautiful one; that of an innocent friendship blossoming into an amazing love story.

I can’t thank you enough for this amazing program.

Many Blessings,
Carla & Brad Heins

Carla Heins

Iria Suárez

Iria Suárez

Our marriage is now flourishing.

I am incredibly grateful for the transformative experience that the Cure Conflicts course provided for my marriage.

Before enrolling, my spouse and I found ourselves stuck in a cycle of misunderstandings and arguments. This course equipped us with invaluable communication tools, fostering understanding and empathy. The expert guidance and practical techniques not only resolved conflicts but also strengthened our connection.

Our marriage is now flourishing, thanks to the skills we gained from this impactful course. We are now closer, we trust in each other with the confidence that we want the best for our relationship. 

I wholeheartedly recommend it to anyone seeking to revive and enhance their relationship.

Iria Suárez

Rose Hamel

Rose Hamel

We're head over heels in love again!

The Conflict Cure was the miracle that was truly God sent. I was at the most helpless moment in my relationship. My fiancé was leaving me for another woman, there was no way to change his mind, he was moving out. I got down on my knees to pray for a miracle, the next morning I stumbled on Bruce’s video on FB.

I signed up immediately because he said I could single handedly save my relationship, I had nothing to lose. My fiancé didn’t wanna take the course, but when he saw the changes in me, he slowly turned around, the started to do the course with me.

We had so many AHA moments and by the end of week 5, he proposed we get married this year. By the end of week 6, we had set a wedding date, his infatuation with the other woman completely faded, and we’re head over heels in love again! We’re actively and happily making wedding plans!

Thank you Bruce, you’re truly God sent!

Rose Hamel

Hope

Hope

The world would be a better place if we all had these skills.

This program everyone should take. It is not a course just for couples struggling. This course provides all the vital information for any healthy relationship! The world would be a better place if we all had these skills.

I’m not in a relationship now, and I took this course. I wanted to find out why I couldn’t make a relationship work and what skills I needed.

I am so grateful to you Bruce. In eight weeks, I already feel more aware, knowledgeable, confident, and capable of attracting and being in a healthier relationship. I’ve even shared so much of this information with friends that probably eight of my friends have signed up.

It is the best course out there!

Hope

Hazel Currie

Hazel Currie

The whole course had me wowed from beginning to end.

If you want to cure conflict within your relationship, then this is a must! The whole course had me wowed from beginning to end.

The vast knowledge you will receive has been gathered by highly respected professionals in their individual field of expertise. They have done the hard work you just need to listen to what has been proven to work.

It is amazing how much the insight of others can change your whole outlook on a situation and all for the better.

You will enjoy the time you spend with Bruce Muzik who hosts the program as he walks you through the course. I even found myself eager for the next Module to arrive.

You will receive important information and tools throughout the course, but it is not all serious it’s fun too.

If you value your relationship, just sign up! You won’t regret it!

Hazel Currie

Anne Finlay

Anne Finlay

There is an increase in the trust between us and a decrease in fear and resentment.

Quite simply, the best course I have ever done.

I have been able to apply these learnings and tools in my relationship with my husband, our children, my parents and friends, and my colleagues. My ability as a manager of people in teams to achieve outcomes in high pressure situations has become next level.

The connection between us has strengthened, as has the love and affection. Our conflicts no longer escalate into fights. There is an increase in the trust between us and a decrease in fear and resentment.

We can talk now.

Anne Finlay

Yana Nazarenko

Yana Nazarenko

This program truly saved our relationship.

I highly recommend this course to anyone struggling in their relationship.

My partner and I had really rough months before joining this program, with so many fights and frustration and threats to our relationship. This program completely changed the way we see our relationship and how we deal with our conflicts, with our challenges, with our differences.

It taught us to listen. It taught us how to be a team. It gave us new beliefs about the relationship that make so much more sense and make so much better than the conventional wisdom.

It truly saved our relationship and I could not have been more grateful to Bruce for that.

By far the best investment I’ve ever made.

Yana Nazarenko

Della and Rock Keen

Della and Rock Keen

This program is a gold mine of information delivered by a great man.

My name is Della Keen and I truly believe this program is a gold mine of information within a structured setting that is delivered by a great man who is very well educated in the topic of helping and healing broken and/or damaged marriages, relationships and etc.

Knowledge is power. He delivers that in abundance. I’m so blessed to have came across this on the internet. Wish I would have been given this chance a long long time ago.

Thank you Bruce Muzik for your “Love At First Fight” counseling program.

Della and Rock Keen

Nati-Piti

Natalia P.

"Connect first, communicate later" is a true game-changer.

The program is based on principles that made me feel safe and understood. Not broken and at fault.

“Connect first, communicate later” is a true game-changer.

“Whatever isn’t love is just a misunderstanding” is also a great understanding or reframe.

Bruce seems to actually believe in love and truly value relationships!

Unlike many other therapists and even relationship coaches who are very relativistic about the topic and eager to discount a relationship on some intellectual, rational grounds. But we’re talking about love here, and no rational calculation is enough to make a marriage work.

Throughout the program Bruce was being helpful and kind and his light manner and sense of humor made for a warm and understanding atmosphere.

The amount of knowledge about what makes relationships work in real life this course contains is impressive. And best of all, none of it is “how it should be”, but it’s all based in pragmatism, in what works, in studies of real couples.

This is a truly comprehensive program which touches on spiritual and sexual aspects of a relationship as well.

I recommend Bruce Muzik as mentor to anyone at any stage of a committed relationship.

Natalia P.

Jennifer

Jennifer

We feel closer then we have ever felt before. Truly saved our marriage.

My husband and I began this course at each others throats! We were the definition of insanity, our families worried about our stability, as we often used them to vent to.

We have been married 16 years, all of which were alongside my husbands military career. Since his retirement, we fell into arguing and fighting daily, we both lost hope and we’re on path for separation and divorce.

When I found Bruce, it was a free 2 hour masterclass that revitalized my faith that we haven’t tried everything, and that this course could be our way back to each other!

My husband and I were astounded at even just the first couple weeks how much relief we felt together. There was definitely some hard things to face, and accept; but the program helped us see light at the end of the tunnel.

We worked through heartbreaking things and we feel closer then we have ever felt before. Learning attachment styles and personality types was a game changer.

If you’re hopeless and tried it all, before you throw in the towel for good please try this- you have so much to gain! I will forever be grateful the universe aligned and I found this program. Truly saved our marriage.

Jennifer

Jane Swanson

Jane Swanson

I've read a lot of books about relationships, but nothing has compared to this course.

This program was extremely helpful to me, especially in understanding reoccurring conflict. It was the one thing tearing up our marriage. My husband was blaming it all on me!

I didn’t understand that it is actually normal in a marriage and that it is NOT  all my fault and can be fixed! I’ve read a lot of books about relationships, but nothing has compared to this course.

I don’t know how I found it but I am so so grateful I did. The information is priceless.

Jane Swanson

Suzanne Brand

Suzanne Brand

My husband and I were practically divorced. Now we're back together!

Bruce is just a wonderful human.  I admire the love and compassion he radiates. 

My husband and I were practically divorced. The program really taught us so much, especially how we lost our connection and ways to get it back. Now we’re back together!

Thank you for your dedication to saving couples! We love you!

Suzanne Brand

Patricia Malnick

Patricia Malnick

The change in both of us is unbelievable.

After 17 years being together with my partner, with over 7 years of coping with my partner’s addictions and feeling unheard, unconnected, unaccepted for who I was, and out of ideas with other therapist and books to try to save our situation, I separated from my partner, Mark.

I needed the separation to understand why I was in a relationship like this and what part I had in it. I couldn’t be under the same roof anymore. Our conversations were always so toxic and it was making me ill. And I knew I had to work on me too.

After 17 years I didn’t want it to end in a confrontational way. If it was going to end I wanted it to be cordial and to learn why it happened and know there was nothing else left to do.

Then one day I saw Bruce online.

Immediately he was explaining on his YouTube page the exact feelings I had and the exact situations I had been involved in with my partner. I couldn’t believe it! He was talking to me! Was he in my house and heard our conversations?

I signed up right away for his 7-week course.

Within the first hour I shared some of the information with my partner. We were separated but still communicating here or there. He wasn’t participating in the program but he showed interest When I shared some of Bruce’s stuff. A matter of fact, he showed more interest than he had in 7 years of counseling and other books that we had tried to do together.

As I kept doing the course, I followed what Bruce said to do when sharing with your partner. And within a few weeks, my partner started to participate in some of the exercises.

Now that I finished the 7 weeks, He is going to do the course. And I am going to retake the course with him. I was smart enough to buy the lifetime option.

The change in both of us is unbelievable.

We are reconnecting again. And even if we decide not to get back together again, we both have become better people and understand much more about ourselves individually and as a couple and how we both were responsible for the split.

We have shared this with other friends and they too are amazed at how helpful Bruce is.

No matter what happens, I feel so empowered with tools that’ll help me for the rest of my life. I foresee, my relationship rekindling and us getting back together.

This course is worth every penny. The materials are awesome. Do the homework, I found myself excited every week when Bruce would release the next videos, handouts and homework. Apply yourself, utilize the live phone calls. Talking to Bruce in person is life-changing. And I guarantee you will finish this program feeling empowered and with the tools to be a better partner and to make your relationship magnificent.

Patricia Malnick

Kiera Flening

Kiera Flening

This allowed us to understand and communicate with one another in a way that 2.5 years of couples' therapy never did.

My partner and I decided to give the program a try because it was reasonably priced and after watching Bruce’s free videos seemed intrigued.

The program gave us so many useful and easy to follow exercises to reignite the spark that has turned into a flame that heats up the passion between us. The information that we have learned allowed us to understand and communicate with one another in a way that 2.5 plus years of couples therapy never did. The work we did came with many “A ha” moments and has brought us to a space that we were beginning to believe was unachievable.

Having completed the program  we realize we have only scratched the surface to the level of communication, understanding, and most importantly compassionate love that we will achieve with continued dedication to applying the tools we learned. Our relationship has changed by recapturing that missing intimacy I believed was lost forever.

It has also changed the relationship and communication between us and our two teenage children. I encourage you give this program a try, you will not regret it.

Kiera Flening

Lynne Graham

Lynne Graham

My partner is a recovering alcoholic with autism and trauma. Who would be brave enough (and qualified) to take that on? Bruce Muzik.

I am 64 and I have done a lot of therapy through personal growth. So has my Partner. My partner is a recovering alcoholic with ADHD, high functioning ASD and complex trauma that he only shared with me at his 56th Birthday.  Now who would be brave enough (and qualified enough) to take that on? He is called Bruce Muzik. 

We had a pretty awesome relationship for several years that we had worked hard at because of the above with many therapists.  However we kept on hitting a brick wall.  This course did not bulldoze it down it created the most beautiful opening for both of us to feel safe to walk through together hand in hand or individually when needed.    

I discovered through the course I am not securely attached either and it created a secure understanding of what work needed to be done . It was inspiring it gave me hope it soothed both our fears it gave us structured strategies and exercises to face our fears .  It allowed me and my partner to re write our pathways together respectfully. It gave me insight and excitement to try the new ways.  It taught us the way to  be connected to give us how to have it all: independence as well inter-dependence. It taught me how important even in the darkest moments that connection is so important and how to bid for it. 

Thank you Bruce.

Lynne Graham

Nicole Armstrong

Nicole Armstrong

I tell everyone I know about Bruce's program and how much it changed my life!

This program has saved me. Not just for my relationship with my partner but everyone I have a relationship in my life including family and friends. I have learned so many tools. When I implement these tools in my everyday life, I feel conflict with anyone has been at a minimum.

I tell everyone I know in my life about Bruce’s program and how much it changed my life! It’s amazing that one person in this world can put every utensil on the table and say use them I promise each utensil has a purpose you just have to use them to see what they can do for you!

From the bottom of my heart Bruce this has been a blessing and I am very grateful!

Nicole Armstrong

Hilja Uiras

Hilja Uiras

In just the 1st week of the Connection Rituals, we began feeling in love again, which was missing for years.

This program Love At First Fight popped up on my Facebook page the time my husband and I were struggling to connect. We were living like brothers and sisters shared a house. We drifted apart long time and each one’s just mind your own business.

Living like brothers bothers me, and I decided to search for some marriage program. When I listened to Bruce introductory video, it really caught my soul and I told my husband about it, and both of us agreed to give it a try.

In just the first week of doing the Connection Rituals, we began feeling connected and in love again, which was missing in our marriage for years. This program helped us to meet each other’s emotional needs. It helped us to know our differences.

In short,  THIS PROGRAM IS A THERAPY ON ITS OWN. ONE NEED NOT TO CONSULT A PSYCHOLOGIST. THIS IS THERAPEUTIC. Our childhood traumas have been exposed and healed in just 7 weeks. Thank you Bruce for a well presented program.

Hilja Uiras

Lisa Ritchie

Lisa Ritchie

We are like teenagers that have just fell in love.

We are like teenagers that have just fell in love. We have learned how to be 100% honest about how we feel.

We are vulnerable with each other and ask in a healthy, not a demanding,  way to have our needs met. We laugh, talk and sex is great.

It’s like we are seeing and hearing each other for the first time in the 25 years being together. Life changing.

Lisa Ritchie

Michael Ritchie

Michael Ritchie

This has not only saved our marriage, it 'honestly" saved my life. Thank you Bruce Muzik - our children still have both parents.

My wife and i were almost at the end of our 27 year relationship, living and sleeping in separate rooms, talking about divorce and selling the house etc. Thankfully my wife noticed an “ad” on social media, and curiously clicked on it then went onto listen to the introduction webinar, about half way through she called me at work and then shared the link with me to join.

I immediately offered to pay the fee to complete the course with lifetime access, in my opinion, well worth the fee if my marriage could be saved.

This has not only saved our marriage, (im pleased and yet vulnerably ashamed to admit), its ‘honestly” saved my life, i was about to give up on everything after seeing no other way to give my wife the happiness and freedom she deserves. Now we can be happy and free together.

This really does work, although it is tough, so as long as you commit to complete the whole course, it works. Its certainly worked for us.

Thank you Bruce Muzik, our children still have both parents. My wife and I are more connected and understanding of each other than ever before.

Michael Ritchie

Mari Marion

Mari Marion

After 6 months of my husband being gone... my husband moved back last week, in week 7 of the course. We are in a brand new place.

I found this program after my husband left suddenly, saying he had been miserable for years and was moving to another state. He wasn’t interested in even speaking to me, he completely shut me out.  I was absolutely devastated and quite literally traumatised. I’d loved him for nearly 30 years and didn’t think we were even having problems that would have resulted in something like this. 

I began looking for ways to save my marriage even if I was the only one trying.  I found many programs but none seemed to have the right tools. 

After 6 months of my husband being gone and trying to accept the divorce and plan for a future I didn’t want, I came across a video of Bruce regarding communication in relationships, it made so much sense to me, he spoke about his Love at First Fight program at the end and I looked it up, researched it and decided I wanted to do it. Possibly the best decision I’ve made in my lifetime! 

I didn’t think my soon to be ex husband would even consider joining me in this but I found a way to communicate that I’d found a program to work on myself and future relationships.  He asked about it and I told him I’d be willing to restore our marriage, he said he’d see how it went. 

Many of the exercises were a painful process but each week they were drawing us closer and closer… my husband moved back last week, in week 7 of the course.  We are in a brand new place now with amazing tools to continue to use and become closer and more connected than we’ve ever been.

We can’t thank Bruce enough and his program!  I honestly didn’t think this was even a possibility… Bruce is an amazingly special human who has changed our lives for the better.  And our 5 children we’ve raised together.  There isn’t an adequate way to thank him… so I’ll simply say… thank you Bruce, you’ve given me everything.

Mari Marion

Miriam and DuWayne Heppner

Miriam and DuWayne Heppner

After 42 years, we were stuck. Now we have the tools (and desire) to continue growing and connecting together.

After 42 years of marriage, we were stuck and couldn’t continue. We have read many books on marriage, attended and listened to marriage seminars and workshops, participated in individual and marriage counseling, went on a cruise focusing on marriage, and have even attended weeklong “schools” for counselors and pastors. While we received some helpful insights from each of these, we were still stuck. Even though we occupied and operated in the same house, our marriage had been essentially dead for over three years.

Last fall we each participated in separate intensive weekend retreats that brought a lot of insight and healing and freedom as individuals, but we were still stuck in destructive patterns. I continued to pursue learning, and found your Love at First Fight information. My husband said he was all in when I told him I had signed up for the course.

This program has given us practical tools that we have never owned. We have a better understanding of what each of us bring to the table. Our communication patterns were counter productive. This program has provided the means to relearn and apply productive understanding, communication and behavior.

The life-time access to the materials is allowing us to continue to learn, apply and connect. We are also excited about how these positive life-changing tools will affect our relationships with our children, their spouses, our grandchildren, and others in our lives.

We’re encouraging our newly engaged son to go through this with his fiancée.

We wish we could have had access to the information in this course for our premarital counseling. Now we have the tools (and desire) to continue growing and connecting in significant productive ways.

Thank you, Bruce.

Miriam and DuWayne Heppner

Chad Kuriger

Chad Kuriger

We were beyond broken. We're not only reconnecting, but also understanding why we were so reactive. The program works. 

We were beyond broken and setting a drop dead date for resolution (divorce) when we began the program and simply put, the program works. 

We are not only reconnecting but also understanding why we were so reactionary in our behaviors. 

On the surface the exercises, rituals and worksheets appear so simple and obvious but if any couple or individual truly works the program you will become so more self aware you cannot help but gain some enlightenment.

 

Chad Kuriger

Julissa Charbonneau

Julissa Charbonneau

Paul and I are on cloud 9! Our marriage is beautiful, our parenting is on the same path, and we found ourselves within it all.

Hello Bruce! This is Julissa from your March 2022 sessions.

It has taken me a while to send this survey as things have been pretty busy after our course was complete. Although I did want to share our marriage update.

Paul and I are on cloud 9! Our relationship didn’t change per say…your course helped us become stronger!

Sometimes, in life, we wish we can go back in time and change things and redo what we didn’t like or what didn’t work out well for us. Yet, those are the lessons we learn from. Paul and I held on strong for 16 years. Sadly, we only concentrated on all the negatives in our marriage and becoming angrier as years went on. We neglected to see the obvious…16 years!! Yes, we did go through horrible emotional hurdles but we didn’t give up! There was love in all that turmoil! And it was this course that helped us find it.

There are times that hurt still creeps in from underneath although we know where it came from with our exercises. Previously, all we wanted to do was attack each other or be in the right. Hailstorm vs Wolf! Yikes! And now, we actually talk! We are truly vulnerable with each other. No judgment. Just understanding and love.

Don’t get me wrong, we have our “Wave Pool Waltz” here and there (like you mentioned it will happen) but it’s nothing like it was before. No more of days or weeks of not talking. Or when we did, it was actually screaming at each other, hiding all the soft emotions we wouldn’t express. And now, it has changed to half an hour break from each other and then come together to have a reflective conversation. Obviously, there are times that feelings are still heightened although that’s when we use our mantra. I melt every time he uses it!

The reason for my delay with this survey was we’ve been busy. We have taken our connections tools to a whole new level. We are now taking time to enjoy what each of us like, experiencing new things together, concurring fears and started a small business together. And in the midst of all this, we also take time for ourselves separately. We’ve either been go go go or slowing the world down, just being with each other or alone. It’s been a blessing! All because of you and your help for us to come together!

I also wanted to let you know that at the end of the course, Paul and I went out on a date and I gifted Paul an ornamental glass “Endless Knot”. This man means the world to me! The knot represents a never ending connection, a symbol of eternity, harmony and endless love. The intertwining of both the past and the present, unifying both the giver and recipient with no beginning and no end, links our fate, binds us together.

This is how we both feel. Endless love!

Thank you Bruce, for what you do, how you connect with people, how you help others to connect with each other and how much you have saved our marriage!

Bruce, we were 1 step away from a divorce, if I didn’t bump into your Facebook post. I said to myself and Paul, that this was my last attempt at fixing this marriage. I kid you not! Paul and I could not communicate.

We wouldn’t understand each other, too much resentment and we just couldn’t connect. Now we can’t imagine our lives without each other. Our marriage is beautiful, our parenting is on the same path and we found ourselves within it all.

Thank you, thank you so much! And a thank you and proud moment to Paul and I for not giving up!

Much love to you Bruce,

Julissa Charbonneau

Julissa Charbonneau

Steve Rogers

Steve R.

This is serious progress for us... All the best marriage practices, advice and techniques in one program. Totally worth it.

Great News!! Two months ago I would have told you that my marriage was not salvageable; that too many bad things have been said and done.  That we are just not good for each other and that our relationship was toxic.  Twenty years of trying and we were still having the same issues with not much improvement. 

I had a realtor, I was looking for places to live and I had a lawyer that I finally got an appointment with.  I was already scoping out other possible relationships, however, I knew that I needed time on my own not another relationship.  I was just married to the wrong person; I was pretty convinced of that.  We had not been intimate in basically two years and I was sleeping in a separate room.  I said though that I still believed in miracles.

So one morning about two months ago, I remembered to turn my will and my life over to a power greater than myself and I had done this many times in the past. But this day, my wife asked me if I would be willing to watch a webinar on relationships and that maybe it would help us get along better after we separated, to be better co-parents, so I agreed.  I wanted to be friends if possible.  I just felt like I could not give my wife what she needed, we couldn’t work together and couldn’t talk about our issues without it blowing up.  I wanted both of us to be happy and if we couldn’t be happy together then I would want us to be happy apart.   

So we watch this free webinar with this guy Bruce Muzik.  He said he had a hard 1st marriage and it drove him to seek out relationship “gurus” and read all the books and learned what went wrong.  He was saying things that I recognized like when he was talking about hailstorms and turtles; that is from Imago (Harville Hendrix). 

He basically described what we are going through like it was just a normal thing that happens in relationships.  I started thinking that maybe there was hope for our relationship. I should also add that both of us came from families affected by addiction 2 generations ago. So we both had lot of unhealthy relationship skills, but we were both working on it, although it didn’t seem to help our marriage. 

Anyway we watch this webinar together and it was good information and I could tell he knew his stuff, because I had also read a lots of relationship books and went to lots of workshops and counselors. He is really down to earth and genuine

And I said to my wife, “Are you sure you want to do this? This is a marriage rescue program.” 

We were both at a place where we thought it was over and didn’t want to risk getting back into the same stuff.  But hey this I was thinking might be that miracle I said I was open to.  So we decided to do it. I like the name of it: Love at First Fight. 

And I knew based on all the cash we spend on workshops and coaches and all that stuff that it was a good price and investment in our marriage… even if it didn’t work out in the end.  It costs about the price for one or possibly two hours with a good divorce lawyer, except it is an 8-week course. 

It was the same price as my Costco bill; that place, I tell yeah. So we did it. 

I kind of see this as a meta study.  All the best marriage practices, advice and techniques in one program.

And for the last two months things have been much better.  I will say there is a lot of soul searching and self-discovery work in it and we are definitely behind, but we are working it.  We even went on a date last night to a nice restaurant, a piano bar that serves tapas.  First date in 2 years probably

That is serious progress for us.  And any program is helpful if time and effort is put into it.  And yes it really helps if both people work the program, but if that is not possible, even if one person does it and the other person sees a change that may make them think a better relationship is possible and things can get better. 

The point is, that even if you feel like your marriage can not possibly be salvaged, you could be wrong like I was. 

The bottom line is that all our issues are actually about our needs not being met. The things that really make us mad is almost never really about our partner; it is about a need we have that we expect them to know about and fulfill.

The more we understand our own needs and our partners needs the better our relationship will be.  The crazy and awesome part is that by is stretching to meet our partner’s needs we actually grow those undeveloped parts of ourselves. 

We can actually help heal our partner and grow at the same time. It’s a beautiful thing. Mature love is the ultimate goal. 

Bruce brings all of the best marriage practices into one program. 

I highly recommend this program for any marriage that isn’t everything you hoped it would be and for people that think their marriage was a mistake or is hopeless and irreconcilable. 

Give it go, it is totally worth it.

Steve R.

Vicki Hamilton

Vicki Hamilton

I can't recommend this course enough. Things change from the very 1st words. Marriage back on track.

Better me, better him, BETTER US: marriage back on track

My husband and I knew we loved each other BUT couldn’t work out why we were fighting so much & slowly disconnecting.

It would usually end in loud accusing voices and blaming each other, and just walking away…until the next time….

Things were gradually getting worse affecting not only us, but our beautiful daughter.

The universe landed me on Bruce’s page…I loved the intro video so much, I immediately shared it with my husband, who was also impressed & that was the beginning of our new beginning.

After taking the course with Bruce, we now have a better understanding of WHY we each act the way we do.

A complete game changer….

This knowledge, along with some connection and communication skills, has helped us to finally get back to being kind, loving & understanding towards each other.

We are no longer taking what each other does/says personally because we understand how our personality types figure into our actions.

We can STOP PAUSE THINK RESET…move on…it’s great.

Not only does Bruce have the knowledge, but his sense of humor, delivery & most importantly, Passion for helping… amazing man.

This course should be mandatory in school… everybody & every relationship would benefit greatly AND then maybe the world would be a better place to be in….

We will keep the exercises & relearn when needed… we will forever have Bruce in our lives….

I can’t recommend this course enough. If trouble is looming, get into this immediately. Things change from the very 1st words.

Thx Bruce xxx

Vicki Hamilton

Luz

Luz

I consider myself a skeptic, but I didn't expect to feel so seen and understood. This is exactly what we needed!

I was ready to get out of the relationship. I had told Richard that I was not willing to keep the status quo.

On the same day we had that argument, I saw the video of the free seminar on my Facebook feed, and it was like you were talking to me.

It really addressed my issues, so I sent it to Richard and thought, if he doesn’t react,  I’m done. To my surprise he watched the video and responded that he was willing to do the seminar.

I had no idea what was going to happen, but we were both so motivated to make it work, we got invested in learning and seeing that really motivated me, but I was not really prepared to the amount of things I learned about myself and it all made so much sense!

I consider myself a skeptic, I went in with open mind but I didn’t expect to feel so seen and understood.

Bruce you made me feel very comfortable and I trust your knowledge, because each tool, exercise, video, was addressing my problems and just being so accurate.

This is exactly what we needed!

Luz and Richard

Luz

Helen Fernihough

Helen Fernihough

Charles and I are so much closer and trusting each other. I have grown enormously in a short space of time.

The loveatfirstfight course is definitely a transformational moment in my life. It is a couples repair coaching program but what it really is is a self-realisation program.

It opens the door for me to look inside myself and in doing that influences the way I relate to people around me, my partner, my children, friends and colleagues.

I feel that I have grown enormously in a short space of time and there is so much more waiting for me still.

Charles and I are so much closer and trusting each other. We are very confident we will make it through the power struggles stage, we don’t know how long but we will.

Thank you Bruce, you are amazing!

Helen Fernihough

Doreen Lethbridge

Doreen Lethbridge

We can testify that Bruce and his program is the real deal. It’s saved our marriage. We have connected more than in 35 years together.

Bruce is truly the relationship whisperer!

We were on verge of divorce when this program came up on my Facebook page.

“It was meant to be” we both said, watching the video about his program; but yet thinking “this has to be too good to be true.” Well, turns out it was meant to be and had transformed our relationship.

We have emotionally connected more than we have ever had in 35 years being together.

We can highly testify that Bruce and his program is the real deal and it’s saved our marriage.

So excited. We’re sharing it with our family and friends!

Thank you so very much Bruce for all your inspiration and guidance in this journey of love and commitment!

Doreen Lethbridge

Vis-Mona-Naidoo

Vis Naidoo

Mona and I were on the verge of a breakup. This program was the best investment ever.

Mona and I were on the verge of a breakup when she enrolled us onto Bruce’s program.

There seemed like there was no way out of our constant fighting and regular disagreements that turned into shouting matches.

This program was the best investment ever, and in my most important relationship.

I’m grateful to Bruce for this fabulous program, and I’m grateful that Mona and I have found the tools of communication, understanding and soothing to reset our relationship, and continue living a beautiful life together.

We highly recommend Love At First Fight. No matter how bad things seem, with Bruce as your coach and the right tools, and most importantly the willingness to do the work, you can rekindle your beautiful relationship before all is lost.

I’m glad we saved ours.

Vis Naidoo

Judy

Judy

We have become SO much closer - it’s like a miracle. We are vulnerable and feel safe to be so. We tried many things, but you have worked for us.

My husband and I have been miserably fighting for 24 years – we had no idea there was a solution.

We have become SO much closer – it’s like a miracle. We are vulnerable and feel safe to be so. Sharing our homework has been wonderful for both of us.

I felt I was getting somewhere right from the very first Welcome call. I felt you could see into my soul and knew exactly what I needed to learn and how I needed to learn it and change.

I think I’ve waited for this for 24 years of being with my husband – we’ve tried many things but you have worked for us.

Thank you Bruce for giving us the tools to become more connected and loving – to actually see and hear each other and to rediscover our deep love and respect for each other – has been amazing.

Now we have the tools to put out any fights that flare up quickly and efficiently. 

Blessings, Judy

Judy

Marcy McQuown

Marcy

We went from 'going through the motions' to 'alive and thriving'. I can't wait to be with my husband each day now.

This program has changed our marriage.

We went from ‘going through the motions’ into ‘alive and thriving’. I can’t wait to be with my husband each day now.

Before the program I was always a little apprehensive of our interactions because I seemed to hurt his feelings and could not figure out how it was happening.

This program is thorough and complete. Each week we were challenged to grow in areas that built on each other.

We now have tools to communicate with each other and have the tools to handle conflict when it arises.

I am so thankful that we have done this program.

It was a game changer for us.

Marcy

Cindy & Dan LeBlanc

Cindy & Dan LeBlanc

We were about to call it quits after 31 years, but now we're on our way to bliss. We can’t say enough good things about this course.

Thank you so very much Bruce. We can’t say enough good things about this course.

You have really done your homework and we now do ours. It continues to change our lives.

We were in a very bad place and about to call it quits after 31 years together, but after your course we are on our way to Bliss in all ways.

If anyone out there wonders if this course can help, as long as you really want it and apply yourself honestly, your life can and will be transformed in ways you never knew possible!  

Not enough ways to say thank you, but a HUGE HEARTFELT THANK YOU, Smiles, Cindy & Dan

Cindy & Dan LeBlanc

John and Sarah De Haven

John & Sarah

We go to sleep at night holding hands instead of turned away back-to-back. 'Love at First Fight' has changed our lives!

‘Love at First Fight’ has changed our lives!  We feel as though there couldn’t have been a worse marriage out there. 

We experienced every hurtful thing you can imagine.  We were caught in the ‘power-struggle’ phase of our marriage and it didn’t seem like we had any hope of fixing that. 

Our home was a war-zone 24/7.  We cannot thank Bruce enough for giving us the tools to act like adults and fix the hurt children inside of each of us.  

We are committed to continuing the process.  We have a new understanding of each other and a new ability to communicate.  We had neither before at all. 

We cannot emphasize how  important this program could be if you are struggling in a marriage that feels like it is hopeless. 

If we can make it – anyone can.  It is the best gift we could have given each other. 

We go to sleep at night holding hands instead of turned away back-to-back.

John & Sarah

Andrea-Panzarella

Andrea

We're finally on the same team together, completely vulnerable with each other. We're connected and healing our hearts together. 

Our marriage was consumed with infertility and loss approximately 1-1/2 years after our wedding.  We had to face traumatic situations that most couples never have to encounter. 

Several years later, after we were blessed with our babies, we found ourselves further apart from each other than ever before.  Our marriage was filled with anger, resentment, and griefWe knew we needed something more than couples counseling to bring us back together. 

I remember this feeling of desperation and doing a random google search one night.  I came across the Love At First Fight website and I could not stop scrolling.  Everything that was written described exactly where we were in our relationship. 

We signed up for the course hopeful, but very unsure.  Now, we are in a place that we have never been before. 

We are finally on the same team together, we are completely vulnerable with each other, we are connected in ways that we would not have been otherwise, and we are healing our hearts together. 

This program has changed our lives, individually and together, in a very powerful way. 

Thank you Bruce!  We are so grateful!

Andrea

Hallie Crawford

Hallie Crawford

We’ve been through hours of therapy... Bruce, this course was the most helpful thing Chad and I have ever done.

Bruce, this course was the most helpful thing Chad and I have ever done.

We’ve been through hours of therapy but were never able to get to the root of what my fear was about his ex.

We had the best weekend together we have had almost since I met him a year ago, not kidding.

The things you said were hard to hear, which is part of why I was quiet during a part of the call, and, at one point I got tears in my eyes because you were speaking to/calling out the wound I hadn’t yet fully recognized.

Knowing these 2 things has brought peace in my heart I haven’t had in a while, for myself but also for my relationship with Chad.

Both Chad and I are SO impressed. Catherine was right. She sings your praises and I’m so glad we joined your program.

We still have work to do and – this is amazing great progress regarding one of the largest things we have faced as a couple so far.

Very grateful 🙂

Hallie Crawford

Theresa Crowley-Ferreira

Theresa Crowley-Ferreira

This program is the real deal. Bruce will help pull you through to the other side.

This program is the real deal.

It’s not for the faint of heart, but if you bravely surrender yourself to this even half-heartedly, Bruce will help pull you through to the other side.

Bruce has poured himself into this work and research in a way that removed many frustrating roadblocks we kept running into as a couple.

We are expecting our first child any day now and there is no greater gift we could give our new daughter than how strong we feel as a team now.

Theresa Crowley-Ferreira

KATIE MILLER

Katie Miller

The experience transformed me. I'm confident I have the tools to truly connect with a partner, without fear or hesitation.

I joined Bruce’s program to learn how to win my partner back and I am exiting the program having learned how to win myself back.

I learned so much about myself and the impact an individual can have in a relationship.

I now fully understand the dynamics of a relationship and all that impacts it.

The experience transformed me. I’m confident I have the tools to truly connect with a partner, without fear or hesitation.

I wish Bruce’s program was longer because I learned so much on each and every call.

Katie Miller

Deborah

Deborah

The course has brought us closer and helped us to finally achieve resolution. We're no longer taking what each other does personally.

Although we had been married for over 30 years, my husband and I had a couple of recurring arguments that never seemed to get resolved.

They would usually end in raising voices, or accusing and blaming each other, and just walking away…until the next time the topic came up.

After taking the course with Bruce, we now have a better understanding of WHY we each act the way we do.

This knowledge, along with some basic connection and communication skills, has helped us to finally achieve resolution.

We are no longer taking what each other does personally because we understand how our personality types figure into our actions.

I really do believe that the course has brought us closer, and we have better tools now for discussing difficult topics (which everyone deals with).

I highly recommend it!

Deborah

Kevin Haspela

Kevin Haspela

Conflict is no longer something to be avoided. I have put down my sword in exchange for vulnerability and trust.

Because of this program, my partner and I are more accepting of and skillful when conflict arises.

Conflict is no longer something to be avoided, but a sign of an opportunity to fulfill a need and love more deeply. I have put down my sword in exchange for vulnerability and trust.

Kevin Haspela

Pam Sortor

Pam Sortor

Your course is more effective and less expensive than traditional couple’s counseling.

I see your program as brilliant and sorely needed in a society that is severely underdeveloped in relationship and communication skills.

I think this type of information should be taught in schools as part of the core curriculum.

And if parents developed these skills to model to their children, imagine the legacy for rich intimacy they would leave for future generations. I am inspired by and deeply grateful for the work you are doing.

If people are open-minded and teachable and actually consistently utilize the tools and wisdom you are imparting, relationships will transform.

It’s not to say that all troubled relationships will or should be saved, but what you teach will provide a healthy and respectful foundation for the relationship to reach its highest potential as well as bring clarity to make intelligent decisions about the highest and best outcome for those concerned.

I wholeheartedly agree that your course is exceedingly more effective and less expensive than traditional couple’s counseling.

What you have put together in this program is an excellent value.

Pam Sortor

Anya Staal

Anya Staal

This course has been mind-blowing. I will never be the same.

WOW! I had never thought I would look at relationships and behaviours in a completely different way after just a few weeks of training.

This course has been mind-blowingI will never be the same.

I have realized that any relationship can be salvaged if you want to. Yes, it’s a conscious decision.

The tools I’ve been given in this program have taught me how.

Anya Staal

Marie Leboeuf and John Grover

Marie Leboeuf and John Grover

I’ve never been happier with my man. Bruce is a true pro.

Together for just under 2 years, the misunderstandings, disagreements, and frustrations between John and I caused a constant volatile environment for us.

Luckily, we were both willing to keep trying, but also realized something major had to shift between us- and soon- or we probably weren’t going to make it as a romantic couple.

Bruce’s program was exactly what we needed! It is organized and succinct, super insightful, fun and actually life-changing.

Bruce is a true pro with compassion, yet realistic and always willing to fight for you (and with you). I won’t kid you!

It brings up the shit you don’t want to face and is one of the scariest things I’ve ever done!

But it also opened my heart and helped me face my biggest fears.

Knowing that we have the tools now to communicate in a loving, mature way, takes the anxiety away.

I’ve never been happier with my man.

Mahalo Nui Loa Bruce!

Keep up the good work 😉 <3

Marie Leboeuf and John Grover

Steven Bouris

Steven Bouris

Bruce is an amazing mentor. This 7-week course has changed my life. I will have both my children do it as soon as they are ready to.

Bruce is an amazing mentor and coach.

His passion for what he does is evident from the minute you meet him.

What I have taken away from this course is to purely understand myself on a deeper more personal level, discovering why I am the way I am.

Understanding why I react to issues the way that I do. Understanding the core essence of a relationship, and the dynamics of our relationships.

I have done a lot of personal development over the years, yet the information I obtained in his 7-week program is phenomenal.

This 7-week course has changed my life. I am so glad that I found Bruce Muzik and his course.

I would recommend it to all, no matter whether you are in a relationship or not. I will have both my children do it as soon as they are ready to.

I know that I will be referring back to Bruce’s material for many years to come.

If we all took the time to do this course, the world would be a much better place.

Thank you, Bruce, for the amazing, inspiring person that you are.

Steven Bouris

Steven Bouris

Arturo

Arturo

Mandatory for any couples considering a long-term partnership.

Bruce’s program is an outstanding, well-structured class that should be mandatory for any couples considering a long-term partnership.

The delicate balance between personal connection and group anonymity is handled well, and you really feel like you’re in a safe group environment (even when you and your partner break to do the exercises on your own).

I highly recommend couples put the effort into this course. The ability to have a shared vocabulary and identical toolkit will go a long way towards connecting your relationship.

We’re grateful for your guidance throughout the last two months.

We’ve spent some rocky nights the last few years trying to overcome many of the pitfalls you deftly addressed in your course. The latter half of the course was of particular benefit.

We can both say it’s been a different game altogether following your intensive program.

We want you to know we were consistently impressed at how you handled your calls. The way you kept track of time, engendered engagement, and dealt with issues kindly but firmly were simply very cool to experience.

Also, your emotional cocktail video was one of the most powerful and vulnerable things we’ve seen. Kudos on including it. It was, for us, the most connecting of the course.

Arturo

Dawn Cormier-Hazen

Dawn Cormier-Hazen

I now feel safe and “gotten”. He now opens up to me. God Bless you and your work.

I wish I found your 7-week course 18 years ago before I decided to get married!

The marriage boot camp should be mandatory for everyone in a serious relationship. Who knew marriage counselling could be so positive and motivating.

I was in a disconnected unhappy marriage for 18 years, and we have tried marriage counselling in the past only coming out more wounded.

I now feel safe and “gotten”.

My partner understands me better and I get him now! He feels safe and now opens up to me. He is emotionally present now.

We know how to avoid triggers now, and even if we do trigger each other, we call it out and we deal with it successfully.

The structure was very smart as it built week by week to explore and open up new portals as we went along.

We have hope and great tools that now we actually are out of anger and resentment and we use the tools with great sincerity.

Bruce, you’ve incorporated the best strategy and techniques on the planet to help couples in trouble.

With your absolute positivity about love and relationships, your charisma and authenticity, you help motivate and guide others to a happy loving relationship.

You give the gift of lovely companionship! God Bless you and your work.

Dawn Cormier-Hazen

Christine Morrison

Christine Morrison

As a Licensed Clinical Family Therapist (and college professor), I've learned more in this one workshop than I have in many years of workshops combined.

This workshop is “all the good things wrapped up into one.” Personally, it helped me with transitioning through one of the most difficult times in my life.

I shifted from a hurt and frustrated separated wife to a solid powerful woman.

Professionally, as a Licensed Clinical Family Therapist and college professor myself, I have learned more in this one workshop than I have in many years of workshops combined.

Personally and professionally speaking, if you are interested in having great relationships….do this workshop!

Christine Morrison

Chris Stuhldreher

Chris Stuhldreher

When I joined the program I was unable to feel. I have changed 100% - more open and emotional. I am a better man.

When I joined the program I was unable to feel, unable to be in touch with myself or to express love to my wife.

I never even drop a tear in 8 years of relations. When the hardest time of the relationship began, I found myself unqualified to resolve our conflict.

Now I am a better man, I have changed 100% – more open and emotional, with no fear to share myself with my wife.

I see now that if I can share everything with her, we will create a safer and happy life together!

Thank you Bruce.

Chris Stuhldreher

Susan Barnard

Susan Barnard

We’re closer & happier than ever! Marriage back on track. We are so grateful we found Bruce!

Our model 30 year relationship was about to collapse because we didn’t have the skills and knowledge to really connect & communicate effectively.

Marriage counseling made it worse. Then I found this cutting-edge program.

It was a rocky summer going thru it and we haven’t resolved everything yet. NOW, we have excellent tools and innovative methods that really support us!

We’re closer & happier than ever! Marriage back on track. DANCE partners!!

We are so grateful we found Bruce!

His creative approach plus his genuine, personal and supportive group coaching style made all the difference for us this summer.

And we experienced one of our hardest challenges ever, just as the program began in June. I really wasn’t sure we’d make it past that … and wasn’t sure I even cared.

Now, we’re out socializing and swing dancing together again … feeling more loving and encouraged than ever.

Tho we still have LOTS of work to do on our own, Bruce has given us plenty of excellent tools with the possibility of lifetime access to all of them.

And he’ll still be there for us if we need him for private coaching. All very comforting and helpful.

We both feel much more empowered to move past our natural differences that used to get in the way and prevented real connection and communication.

I’m really not sure we’d still be together if we hadn’t found this program when we did.

Bruce certainly over-delivers for all of us.

Big HUGS to you, Bruce!!

Muchas, muchas gracias!!

Susan Barnard

Rebecca

Rebecca

Divorce was my next step. If you are ready to give up, you need to try this program first.

Divorce was my next step. After 11 years of marriage and 2 kids, we had slowly drifted apart until I felt completely disconnected and misunderstood.

Being parents kept us highly motivated to try everything to save our marriage, but we were running out of things to try.

We had tried individual and couples counseling with mediocre results. We just needed to learn the tools to connect and communicate. Bruce was able to do that.

I stumbled across Bruce’s program just in time. Another month may have been too late, we were on the brink of giving up entirely.

Now, even though it’s still not easy, at least we feel like we have the tools and skills to move through conflict towards a more positive result.

If you are ready to give up, you need to try this program first.

A heartfelt thank you to Bruce!

Thank you for sharing your knowledge and gift of teaching with us. It really has made all the difference.

Rebecca

Malin Nordmark

Malin Nordmark

We had no idea what was waiting for us when we hit that buy button 8 weeks ago, but I’m so glad that we did.

I loved this program, I loved your videos and the Mentoring Calls.

We got to hear about other couples in trouble and I think that’s good for two reasons.

1. Because we learned a lot from the others. 2. We learned that we are not alone.

We learned that relationships can’t be easy all the time and that you should not break up when things get tough.

The exercises were both hard and very rewarding.

Both I and Christofer have been crying and filled with anxiety, “what are my needs?” “What do I want?” etc. we had no idea what was waiting when we hit that buy button 8 weeks ago but I’m so glad that we did.

And your coaching Bruce, amazing! You have all the information in your head so you know exactly what to answer the instant a question gets asked.

You listen and make sure that you understand completely, your passion is inspiring.

We felt like we could trust you and that’s part of why we spent so much time with this program.

“If Bruce says so then it must be true, we could at least try” (if there was an exercise one of us was afraid of or that felt unnecessary).

This program is hard work, it is entirely up to each person what you get out of it. If you decide to work hard and do all the exercises you will see an incredibly big difference in your relationship.

We have received so many tools and so many insights through the program, love is not just something that happens, it’s something you do and it’s not easy to know exactly what to do, but Bruce has shown us just that.

Everything in this program should be things you learn in school, after every week I have been thinking: “why have not I been told this before?”.

I understand and know my partner better than I have ever done, I love him more deeply than ever.

Malin Nordmark

Sue Mackimmie

Sue Mackimmie

I’ve spent the cost of my house in SF on therapy over the last few decades and I got further with this short course than ever before.

This is the best gift you can give to yourself and your love.

I never thought I could get past being right, or that I do all the giving (insert tearful martyr face here…)

This is a partnership and if you want to move past your sticking points and really make progress in your most important relationship, take this course.

Bruce is a great coach, using teaching tools from many experts, and being an unbiased coach – not a therapist or cop or family member who means well.

You can make progress and see a brighter future. I would never have thought we could really have so much intimacy and hope for our future which has already started.

I was at the end of my proverbial rope, with nothing else to lose, we signed up and did the homework, took advantage of the Mentoring Calls and now we have this bond that is solid.

My partner is my best friend and we have so much love and have de-garbaged our relationship. It’s so much lighter and I have so much more insight into what my partner treasures and I can offer that.

INVEST in your love and yourself and your future together as a loving, best friend team. You won’t regret it!

The anonymity of calls online was so helpful in staying focused and feeling free to talk about issues.

The price! totally affordable and we could just move ahead.

I’ve spent the cost of my house in SF on therapy over the last few decades and I got further with this short course than ever before.

Sue Mackimmie

Kaira Wyss

Kaira Wyss

We were desperate because we couldn't resolve our problems! After only 2 sessions our relationship turned around.

I am a 58 year old woman from Europe that did a lot of personal growth work in my past.

I also struggled through many relationships and two failed marriages. Of all the interesting work I’ve done, Bruce’s Love At First Fight curriculum has been the clearest, most helpful, expedient, insightful, most professionally put together and most lovingly and joyfully delivered!

I enrolled together with my boyfriend of 2 years.

We love each other very much but were completely stuck in the Power Struggle phase without knowing it.

We experienced it as a complete break down of our otherwise excellent, open and honest communication and a total loss of connection, which hurt and scared us tremendously.
We simply did not know how to deal with the sudden misunderstandings, the feelings of alienation, of experiencing the partner as an enemy and of total hope- and helplessness in our previously so beautiful, intimate and deeply caring relationship

We were desperate because no communication could solve our problems!

We were headed towards a totally unwanted break up and were devastated by the thought of another relationship failure. Since I remembered that a relationship has to fall out of the Romantic Stage in order to grow, I googled “relationship phases” and checked different sites that were dealing with this issue.

Bruce’s energy was so upbeat, loving, confident and supportive that we felt very comfortable right away. After only two sessions our relationship turned around completely. Connection and communication were restored, we learned about the deeper causes of our problems and how to solve them expediently.

It was such a liberating and nonjudgmental process, we were utterly elated and in awe of it! It had no therapeutic feel to it, which we really liked, having had unsatisfying experiences with couples therapy in former relationships.

The greatest result is that we feel like a deeply loving, committed, invincible team now. We got the skills to deal with future challenges, and we can share what we learned with other couples!

Thank you Bruce, for your service to the world!

Kaira Wyss

JULIE ROBBINS

Julie Robbins

This program has transformed everything in just three weeks.

We’re totally on track and LOVING this program. Unlike most courses, programs, books, coaching, counselling I’ve come across or experienced – I would love to inspire EVERYONE interested in a more fulfilling life to do this course.

Sebastian and I are giving it our all and it’s transformed everything in just three weeks (we started a week before the course by watching videos we found on your website).

Not only am I reaping the benefits of the course with myself and in my marriage, but I’m also really enjoying and appreciate your skills and heart at holding space for people in their vulnerability, their courage and their possibility.

I engage in a leadership circle with colleagues from different parts of the world and last week shared with them some gems from your course – which I described to them as a leadership course about cultivating deeply fulfilling relationships.

What you’ve created here Bruce is huge – know that we’re working our butts off and enjoy your videos and you during the live calls – and although some of them are super challenging (mostly to the ego!) we’re also really enjoying the exercises.

Julie Robbins

Pamela Cournoyer

Pamela Cournoyer

We’re in a whole different space now and I’m not scared of what might happen anymore. This program has saved our marriage.

Our marriage is transforming right before our eyes! Thank you for sharing this invaluable information, you are a delight to work with, I love how you make it safe to share.

Bruce, I’m a communications expert myself (by profession), and you’ve just taught me how to listen!

I am seeing Michael and I connecting faster, and becoming more vulnerable with each other without defensiveness.

We’re in a whole different space now and I’m not scared of what might happen anymore. Thanks to what we’ve learned, I know now that we have the tools to deal with anything.

We’re only on Week 3, but I have to tell you, this program has saved our marriage. My work has skyrocketed and I know that’s because of the peace that I have with my husband now.

We WILL finish this class, because it’s just so wonderful.

We told our kids about your program, they are watching the free video’s right now, can’t wait to get them enrolled in this!

Thank you Bruce.

Pamela Cournoyer

Mandi Ellefson

Mandi Ellefson

Our marriage has gone from very rocky, with us both being hurt and resentful, to a deep love that I didn’t think was possible.

Bruce, thank you so much for all of the time and energy you put into our relationship.

Our marriage has gone from very rocky, with us both being hurt and resentful, to a deep love that I didn’t think was possible.

You helped us create a safe space to open up and be close again. And it has had a lasting impact in every area of my life.

I am now a better, wife, mother, and overall person. I have grown so much as a person through our brief time working together. Jay and I have both grown in love and appreciation.

You have accomplished miracles where marriage counseling, personal therapy, a seminar, and countless books fell short.

Thank you for all the time and care you have taken to develop and share your gifts with the world. You are providing an invaluable service. This is the best investment we have ever made as a couple in our 10 years together.

Mandi Ellefson

Jason Foote

Jason Foote

If things seem unbearable, hold off just 7 more weeks. Not only did it re-engage us, it has given me massive insight into myself.

Well what a journey this has been. I joined this program to attempt to re-engage with my ex (mother of my daughter) after a considerable break and a tumultuous 7 year relationship.

Not only did it re-engage us, it has given me massive insight to myself and relationships in general.

This course is very well researched and effectively compiled for maximum results.

7 weeks is not long to make such a considerable change in your relationship.

If you are thinking of leaving your partner or if things seem unbearable, hold off just 7 more weeks with an open mind and a willingness to resolve relationship issues once and for all.

Jason Foote

Verity Noble

Verity Noble

We were in a really rocky place. Although we haven’t yet managed to complete the whole course, we have fallen back in love.

I just wanted to write you an email and say how life changing this experience has been for us.

We were in a really rocky place and although we haven’t yet managed to complete the whole course, it has changed our relationship immensely.

We have fallen back in love, we argue less, we’re more understanding and most importantly, we can see how to succeed for the long-term.
I have been telling a ton of people how amazing the course is so wanted to find out if you had some kind of referral system so that I can put them in touch with you or send them a link to the next course?

Huge congratulations on producing such a fantastic curriculum, one that truly works.

Verity Noble

Todd Sedelmeier

Todd Sedelmeier

We’ve been in tears of joy. Our sex has improved and our love and appreciation is deeper.

Man, you blew the doors off of what I was expecting. Not only did my girl and I come together in a whole new way, but I finally felt understood by her like I never have.

As a result, we’re more intimate, our sex has improved, our love and appreciation is deeper… and friends keep telling us that we are ‘such a great couple’.

We’ve been in tears of joy and since then, I’ve been applying my new understanding of relationships and communication in my business with clients and with my family and with my friends.

This work is soooo important.

Thanks Bruce!

Todd Sedelmeier

Anna Burns

Anna Burns

We are kinder to each other, more loving and... more romantic too! It really changed our whole relationship.

Having known Bruce through his Designer Life courses we both knew as soon as the info landed in our inbox that it was the course for us.

The 7 week course really has changed our relationship. We were stuck in a cycle of power struggles and very independent, which meant we were not always kind or compassionate towards each other.

The fantastic videos, along with the excellent weekly exercises allowed us gently and genuinely to relook at ourselves and our relationship and to create a new way of being with each other, in only 7 weeks.

The weekly conference calls were a great addition too, with lots of lovely participants sharing from their hearts.

Since finishing the course, we have had very little conflict, and any conflict we have had has been resolved quickly and easily. We are kinder to each other, more loving and are experimenting with being more romantic too!

We now do fun things together on the weekend, instead of complaining that we don’t have anything in common! And we’ve just celebrated our 12th anniversary, so it was a wonderful anniversary gift to ourselves.

I’ll admit we were geeky and did all our homework every week as instructed, but I’d really recommend this – get as much as you can out of it while it runs, you can always go back and redo some parts at a more in depth level later on.

I’d totally recommend Bruce’s Love at First Fight programme – it really changed our whole relationship.”

Anna Burns

Cheryl Coffey

Cheryl Coffey

Bruce gave me the confidence to stay present as we worked through our struggles. Attending this class saved our relationship.

After my divorce I found myself slipping back into an old pattern of three month relationships. Either I or the man I was dating would run at the first sign of trouble.

As my current relationship approached three months I received an email from Bruce about his “Love at First Fight” program, so I signed up. The timing was perfect.

Bruce taught me to see and overcome my escape tendencies, increase my understanding of myself and my partner and gave me the confidence to stay present as we worked through our struggles.

Attending this class saved our relationship.

I am so grateful for his help and encourage everyone, no matter what your relationship circumstances, to take this class. Bliss is attainable.

Cheryl Coffey

Lorne Noble

Lorne Noble

We have reconnected on a level I never imagined and it’s truly magical.

I didn’t realize it, but my wife and I had started living completely independent lives.

Bruce’s programme has helped us understand each other, communicate more effectively and avoid the daily friction and pain.

It is now my greatest pleasure to support my wife in the way she wants and consequently, she understands when I need space. We have reconnected on a level I never imagined and it’s truly magical.

Thank you so much Bruce, we couldn’t be happier.

Lorne Noble

Lyndel Maroske

Lyndel Maroske

While my partner didn’t participate as much as I'd hoped, the skills still succeeded in bringing about much needed improvements.

Bruce, your program is one of the most comprehensive and easy to understand programs for couples I can imagine finding.

I loved the naturalness of your presentation and the anecdotes from your own relationship, which made me feel I was normal.

While my partner didn’t participate as much as I’d hoped, the skills and info that I shared with him still succeeded in bringing about much needed improvements in our relationship.

With the videos, exercises and coaching calls, the program is excellent value for money.

I have already recommended the program to other friends and family members.

I just want to thank you Bruce, for your hard work in putting together such an insightful and brilliant couple’s program!

Lyndel Maroske

Tessa Klein

Tessa Klein

I can’t believe it, but my husband and I actually made it through our big fight yesterday.

I couldn’t stand the fighting any more. We’d seen two other therapists who couldn’t help us at all.

I gave my husband an ultimatum – either figure out how to communicate better, or I’m moving out. My bags were packed!

I can’t believe it, but my husband and I actually made it through our big fight yesterday. After going through Love at First Fight, I think we are actually going to make it.

So, we are on the mend. Thank you Bruce! I enjoy how committed you are. You worked some magic here because we were definitely a worst-case scenario!

Tessa Klein

Craig Filek

Craig Filek

This saved me years of conventional therapy. Thanks for turning the lights on for me!

Bruce – I just had to reach out and thank you. An hour on the phone with you saved me years of conventional therapy. The maps of relationship you laid out, combined with insights from the Enneagram about the specific needs my partner and I have – brilliant!

Your gentle and penetrating insights are very easily received and I’m confident my road ahead in this relationship will be much smoother as a result.

Thanks for turning the lights on for me!

Craig Filek

Caryn V.

Caryn

Before this program I had low self esteem. Now I have clarity, my confidence has increased and my relationships are so much more fulfilling.

Before this program I was wishy washy, had low self esteem and was powerless in all of my relationships. Now I have clarity on healthy relationships, my confidence has increased and my relationship with my son, friends and family are so much more fulfilling now.

I highly recommend this program for anyone in relationships or single.

Caryn

Angel Lek

Angel Lek

We’re definitely loving and connected now. This is a HUGE improvement from the pain we were both in just eight weeks ago.

Hi Bruce, I entered this program ready to grow and change the way I usually behave in relationships, and I feel like I have learnt exactly how to do that in the past few weeks.

The most beneficial tool to us so far has been the communication skill you taught us in week 2. We started using it, I learned that before we broke up he had been feeling as if this relationship was THE ONE and that scared him. I had no idea that he considered me THE ONE!

When I first asked him to do this program with me eight weeks ago, we had just broken up and he agreed to only as a means of figuring out what had gone wrong. He said that we could reevaluate in two months and see if we were actually compatible. Of course, those beginning weeks were horrible and filled with fear that he would leave at any moment, but what you taught us about Hailstorms and Turtles and their specific needs motivated me to stop myself from acting out whenever I felt insecure.

It was amazing how safe that conversation made me feel, and we definitely could not have done it without everything you taught us! I can easily imagine a similar conversation in the past building up into accusations and conflict, so I cannot thank you enough for helping us avoid that. I kept this quote at the back of my mind: “Do not sacrifice what you want most for what you want right now.”

Although we still have a long way to go, we’re definitely loving and connected now. This is a HUGE improvement from the pain we were both in just eight weeks ago.

Thank you so much Bruce, for guiding us through this and for being such a phenomenal person and coach. I love what you do for people and there really should be more people teaching these essential life skills. I’ll really miss talking to you!

Thank you once again, my gratitude is beyond words.

Angel Lek

Chris Partington

Chris Partington

If you need a track to follow when you’ve lost your way with the love of your life, this is the course for you!

Bruce, we are now more connected and committed than ever.

I am more optimistic (about our relationship) than ever despite having confirmed we are completely opposite.

A testimonial for you: If you need a port in a storm for a stormy relationship or a track to follow when you’ve lost your way with the love of your life, this is the course for you!

Chris Partington

Vikki Brown

Vikki Brown

I was single when I signed up. I found what I was looking for before I even finished the course.

I highly recommend The Love of First Fight coaching program for any couple wishing to grow their relationship and connect on a deeper level.

Heck, I recommend this course for single people too. I was single when I signed up – wanting to learn as much as possible about myself and the best way to create an intimate, loving and connected relationship!

I found what I was looking for before I even finished the course.

Bruce’s open and honest style of teaching/coaching, videos with the practical exercises, the live coaching calls that link current relationship theory and neuroscience creates a package that will meet the needs of most every type of adult learner. Give your self the gift of love. Join Bruce for 7 weeks.”

Vikki Brown

Jay Ellefson

Jay Ellefson

Our time with you has made such and difference in our lives. We have become so much closer in every respect.

Bruce, I just wanted to take a minute to thank you for all the work you did with Mandi and I. Your relationship coaching has brought us closer than we could have ever imagined.

We thought we wanted to go back to the way things were when we married but you’ve put us into a place far beyond that.

I know that you have a life other than work, so making an exception and doing our sessions on Saturday was less than optimal for you. Thank goodness you stuck with us.

Our time with you has made such and difference in our lives. We have become so much closer in every respect.

Again, I can not express how grateful I personally am for your kindness and help.

Jay Ellefson

Rhonda Darling

Rhonda Darling

We were not talking to one another before the course began and now we are.

The Love at First Fight program has brought renewed hope into our relationship. We were not talking to one another before the course began and now we are. We are beginning to see one another and our relationship in a new way.

Bruce cares deeply about his clients and supporting them in getting the most out of the program. He creates a safe and accepting space to explore yourself and your relationships in order to create greater happiness and wholeness.

Rhonda Darling

Rebecca Mead

Rebecca Mead

I have changed. I really loved this course and was sad when it finished.

I have changed. I’m using the things I learned to discuss things with my husband. I find I am listening to him, calming him, soothing him.

This program is amazing. It has changed my view on relationships.

I now understand what behaviours negatively impact my relationship and what to do to make my relationship better. Amazing. I really loved this course and was sad when it finished.

Rebecca Mead

Lynette Anderson

Lynette Anderson

I have not felt this connected or in love with Andre in years. Your program has been put together magnificently.

I just wanted to send a mail to say thank you. I have not felt this connected or in love with Andre in years. During the first week I was very nervous – especially looking into his eyes – I wanted to crawl out of my skin and run away… But I didn’t and it has been so beautifully worth it for us.

Your program has been put together magnificently. It is easy to see how passionate you are about helping people to love each other and have wonderful relationships.

I have not been able to express any sort of love for a very long time to anyone. It feels like something has melted away now and these gorgeous, warm and fuzzy feelings have come tumbling out – I am so excited – I feel alive again.

Thank you.

This sounds cheesy – but you really have changed my life forever.

Lynette Anderson

Dezana Aman

Dezana Aman

This comprehensive interactive course was far more than I expected.

This comprehensive interactive course was far more than I expected.

I highly recommend it to anyone wanting to understand how to succeed in a fulfilling partnership of any kind.

Bruce is down to earth, creative and colorful. He makes you understand why you want a relationship in the first place!

Dezana Aman

Laura Haspela

We have more time connecting. Less time pouting and turning away from each other.

The skills I learned through this course have positively impacted all of my relationships, not just my marriage.

There were so many aha moments.

I realized that we earn loving relationships through our hard work. I was living the dream that our love should be easier than this if it is true love…if I am with the right man. Bullshit. Relationships are work…loving, rewarding work.

We have more time connectingLess time pouting and turning away from each other.

I had no idea it was possible to turn fighting into a bonding ritual. Bruce showed us how!

Bruce is a gifted and unique coach. His vulnerability and authenticity are inspiring.

He is a warm, wise soul, playful and fun loving, and not afraid to call you on your bullshit.

Laura Haspela

Dan Lee

Dan Lee

I had begun to lose the luster of our relationship. Now, instead of fighting each other, we've become a couple working together.

With 32 loving, faithful and nurturing years of marriage, my wife and I had begun to lose the luster of our relationship, slipping into bickering and fighting.

I always “had to be right” and she felt that I never really heard her, as she was sorely missing the language of love that she wants, needs and deserves.

And we both missed the common ground of intimacy as we engaged in a self-defeating exercise of misunderstanding.

Bruce’s program brought all of this into perspective. Now, instead of fighting each other, we began to work together to break the cycle of harsh words and hurt feelings — and once again we became a couple working together and not against each other.

The time, the tools, and the coaching made all the difference.

Bravo, Bruce!

Dan Lee

Laura and Tom Davis

Laura and Tom Davis

This is an amazing, AMAZING, program! I am married today because of my participation

This is an amazing, AMAZING, program! The information presented here needs to be shared with everyone and anyone that is involved in any type of a relationship!

If two people are committed to work through the program, I cannot imagine how their marriage could fail!

So superior to any books I have read and tried to apply, and marriage counseling.

I am married today because of my participation – thank you Bruce Muzik!

Laura and Tom Davis

JENNIFER MCCAIN

Jennifer McCain

We have been able to have SEVERAL difficult conversations without ANY fighting... It’s been a lifesaver.

We were so in love, and yet we couldn’t stop the fighting. It was going to destroy us.

Seeing a therapist just didn’t seem like it would be enough. I heard about this program and decided to give it a try.

The program is flexible and allowed us to really focus on our communication issues.

We have been able to have SEVERAL difficult conversations without ANY fighting as a result. It’s been at least a couple of weeks since our last angry conversation.

We feel so much more connected and so much closer now. It’s been a lifesaver.

We are more in love than ever.

Jennifer McCain

Beth A.

Beth A.

We were 2 months from divorce... By the end of the program we had fallen in love again.

When we came to the program, my husband had estimated we were “2 months from divorce”.

Married for nearly 23 years, so it was worth the investment in relationship coaching. (Which is A LOT cheaper than marriage counseling.)

By week 3 of this program, things were turning around in a big way. Today, at the end of the program we have fallen in love with each other again.

Everything this program promises is possible, including returning to “hot sex”.

Beth A.

Beth A.

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Jill M.

This program should be done by every individual on earth, whether in a relationship or not.

This program is phenomenal. I did the EST training when I was 8 years old in 1978, and since that time filled my life with trainings of all sorts. I have read and done several of the various techniques that Bruce brought to this course and was familiar with almost everything. My previous work was all done independently, at random, and not until Bruce’s workshop, where he skillfully provided a guided format was I able to connect all the dots, to see a view like never before, a result like no other in regards to relationships. 

What’s SO BRILLIANT about what you, Bruce, have done is that you have put all these amazing tools and techniques and research together in such a way that it has the most profound effect I have ever experienced in my life in regards to personal transformation. You had the bigger view to see what pieces needed to be put in place to make the “relationship puzzle” complete, for my own relationship to become a more transparent, loving, communicative relationship with my husband, (and myself!). It’s absolutely hands down, an unprecedented life changing realm. And, again this is coming from someone who has spent their whole life doing this kind of work, (40 plus years) utilizing various modalities for empowerment, healing, and transformation. 

This program should be done by every individual on earth, whether in a relationship or not. I see it realistically, not optimistically, as a viable avenue, with the holding capacity to bring about world peace, based simply on the foundation of communicating to each other our “softer feelings”. What I learned in the workshop was that these tender feelings we are scared to express and let people see, once expressed, are in reality what brings us fearlessness. And, in turn, have the ability to generate compassion and empathy in the listener. That was a life changer.

Bruce, you are The Great Encourager, giving people the courage to be loving and kind, take the first step, and be bigger than they have known themselves to be.

I am eternally, and beyond eternity, grateful for you, Bruce. 

With much love and much respect, 

Jill M.

Jill M.

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Amy

I wish I would not have waited so long to seek out Bruce for help.

When I first started the Love at First Fight course, my marriage was in jeopardy.  Our discussions seemed to always escalate in the typical power struggle mode of disagreement.  

My spouse was not supportive of taking this with me, so I took the steps to go through the course on my own, for my personal growth.  

On each mentoring call, Bruce was sensitive to each individual’s situation. When I would share my celebrations and struggles, he was genuinely interested in what was going well and was equally determined to help each person with the next step of their own personal relationship journey. 

Even though I implemented the exercises independently, the change that overcame me spilled over to my spouse and we have been able to have healthy discussions and more physical intimacy.  

I wish I would not have waited so long to seek out Bruce for help.  

If you are struggling in your relationship, give Bruce a chance. He is credible, caring, and a wonderful human being!  You won’t be sorry you took the step to allow him to coach you.

Amy

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Angela Bard

My partner and I have never been more connected... we live as a team everyday supporting our love.

Bruce is brilliant.  My partner and I have never been more connected.  

We have been able to apply the tools Bruce taught us in his Love at First Fight program and move through repetitive arguments that had eventually cause us to separate and question if we wanted to stay together. 

Bruce has designed a program that teaches you connection first and he shares research from around the world that impacts relationships. 

Not only do these tools help you understand your reactions but also your partner’s reactions which helped us to become vulnerable and react from a place of love instead of being defensive.  

I cannot say enough about the Love at First Fight program. 

I would and have recommended this program to anyone whether they are currently in a relationship or not.  I learned so much about myself and was able to show up for my partner and we live as a team everyday supporting our love. 

Angela Bard

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Laura

This is not an average couple counselling program in which you are advised to improve your communication skills – this relationship course goes much deeper than that.

“Love at First Fight” is an amazing program that will challenge you to see things differently – not only about yourself, but also about your partner and your relationship, as a whole.

In my case, even though I have been studying personal development for several years and have read many books and articles about relationships, it has still brought up new things that I have never knew or even considered – such as learning about the “5 stages of a relationship”, how your childhood wounds can affect your relationship, how your blind spots and escape hatches can sabotage your relationship, as well as how to create a handbook to your heart to give to your partner, instead of expecting them to guess your needs, wants and requirements.

Also, Bruce is an amazing teacher, who not only has made his own mistakes in the past that he learned from, but he is now leading the way through example.

This is a very important aspect to consider when joining a relationship coaching program – so always do your thorough research prior to joining a couple counselling program and ask yourself: Is the instructor leading the way through example or just paraphrasing from books, like many others, while their personal life and relationship/marriage is far from what they are preaching?

I have personally done what I am advising you to do, before joining this program. And now that I have completed it, I can say that this is not an average couple counselling program in which you are advised to improve your communication skills – this relationship course goes much deeper than that.

But don’t just take my word for it. Instead, look up Bruce on LinkedIn or Facebook, listen to his Ted Talk, or his free relationship videos on YouTube and read his free articles on the web – and you will understand what I mean.

I can assure you that if you are serious about your partner and your relationship, this course will be one of the best investments that you will ever make in your life!

Laura

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Samantha Du Toit

I hope this course goes forever because when our kids get engaged we’re sending them both on this course.

We would highly recommend couples to do this course at the start of their journey.

I hope this course goes forever because when our kids get engaged we’re sending them both on this course.

It’s incredibly valuable for everyone to spend the time understanding themselves, what makes them tick, how and why they react the way they do, and what they truly value.

Bruce is so passionate about everything that he teaches and he’s so knowledgeable.

We learnt so much about ourselves and each other in the last 7 weeksmore than we did in the last 10 years of being married.

Thank you Bruce.

Samantha Du Toit

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Denisa and Shihab

I was initially skeptical...

Bruce….you the man!!!

For some background, Denisa and I come from diametrically opposite backgrounds (She is Romanian and I am Indian) and we have been in a long distance relationship for about a year now.

We decided to enter your program because we couldn’t figure out how to resolve our challenges by ourselves, as it seemed that we were having the same arguments over and over again or creating new conflicts without resolving old ones.

It has been a struggle at times and though we love each other deeply, our conflicts usually ended up in both of us feeling hurt and miserable.

It was Denisa’s idea to seek help and she found your body of work. I was initially skeptical as I wasn’t sure how effective it would be, however your program completely changed my views and you totally delivered with all your promises!

As a direct result of going through your course, we are both happier, feel more connected to each other, are safe and secure in each other’s love and are so much more comfortable together than we have ever been. The weekly calls and your insight have given us a more profound understanding of how our relationship works and a lot of credit for that goes to you.

Thank you so much for all your help and support, it has been an enlightening experience going through the program together and both of us have walked away from it having learnt so much more about each other and ourselves.

With lots of love,

Denisa and Shihab

Denisa and Shihab

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Jel

After us seeing two couples counsellors over several years... THIS was the course that knocked our socks off.

After us seeing two couples counsellors over several years and a lot of “communication tools” THIS was the course that knocked our socks off and actually spoke to both of us, and we are using this as a foundation to build our relationship.

EVERYONE should do this course, whether or not you are actually in conflict – I wish I had found this years ago.

Bruce is an excellent teacher and I absolutely recommend it

Jel

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Jane J

It has helped us have a united approach to our children. 

I feel so much more safe with my husband.  He is more open and I feel special to him because he has let me into his inner life again.  Our sex life has improved because I don’t feel like he is just looking for me to do another chore.

It is about both of us expressing love and having fun. I have become a calmer person and things that use to make me hailstorm do not any longer.

I realize so much of my behavior that was bugging my husband was just a bid for attention.  It has helped us have a united approach to our children.  They know we are doing the program and we have talked about what we have learned. 

We were always a loyal family and protective of each other but now we are more mindful of our interactions with each other and being kind. 

Thank you Bruce.

Jane J

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Denise

Bruce far exceeds any marriage therapy session one could take.

The videos Bruce made each week were informative, enlightening and helpful.

Bruce is masterful at integrating research from various experts, such as John Gottman and David Deida, into his various topics.

In addition, Bruce added personal experiences with a dose of his own vulnerability and realness.

He is better than any therapist I have ever had.

Most importantly, he seems to really care about his program and the effectiveness of it.

He helped me by modeling the tools to examine my behavior more effectively.

I have attended marriage counseling with reputable Ph.D. therapists, who have studied the research of John Gottman and other relationship experts. However, Bruce Muzik is a master communicator and so well-read with best practice and research.

Bruce far exceeds any marriage therapy session one could take, providing both partners commit to the program.

I would pay to see him live.

Denise

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Mark Johnson

To anyone falling out of love with someone you know you used to love, this will change your lives.

After 32 years of a fabulous relationship and life together, we found ourselves emotionally disconnected and finally physically disconnected knowing something was wrong.

The scary thing was, we being smart people had no idea how to fix it.

We went to counseling; counsel tells you what you can and can’t do, we read books, but we got no tools that worked for us. Our relationship was broken and we didn’t know how to fix it!!

A very scary point when the wife suggested she stay at a friend’s house….and I was helping her pack her bag out of frustration and helplessness.

Just as she was at the door, she came into the den to say goodbye. Out of desperation, I was searching the internet for answers and had just watched your ‘intro’ video and it spoke to me.

With tears running down my face, I asked if she would take a moment and just watch it with me….I’m crying again as I type this…. sorry.

Bruce, you saved our marriage!!!!!

It spoke to her and to me in a way that was unimaginable. We are more in love emotionally and physically than we ever thought possible.

We have reduced our escalation of conflicts in number and intensity by 90% and understand what to do now when it happens. We are deeply in love and committed to each other’s requirements, needs, and wants.

Bruce has a special gift to provide insight and understanding in a non-judging non-threatening way on deeply personal and emotional subject matters.

He is honest and vulnerable about himself.

To anyone falling out of love with someone you know you used to love, this will change your lives.

It’s the best of the best of the best of Marriage coaching all rolled into one concise program.

Mark Johnson

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Anonymous

The Mentoring Calls have been absolutely awesome!!! We love them!

Now, after four weeks into the program, we are loving each other, she has moved back in with me.

Our arguments are a thing of the past, we are connected and we have acquired so many tools to de-escalate and resolve conflict, that it rarely occurs anymore.

We were simply ignorant and quite frankly, didn’t know how to love each other, that awareness and realization overall was a very humbling experience!

I am now able to love her and she is able to love me.

We have gained valuable insight and understanding as to what went wrong, why it went wrong and why we both suffered so painfully for 5 long and agonizing years.

We no longer live with fear, hurt, unresolved conflict, anger or disconnection.

We are not perfect and still have on occasion a disagreement, but it resolves very quickly and we can easily love each other and end things in a warm embrace instead of a “freeze & flee” result which is so destructive.

We will always be grateful Bruce for what you have given us in this program, it has saved our relationship, our lives, our original music along with our hopes, aspirations, and dreams.

We now live in peace and harmony and can be the loving songwriting team that we need to be to make our existence successful. We look forward to completing the program and making LAFF a lifestyle for the remainder of our lives.

When we are done, we will on occasion repeat the program so it stays fresh and we can obtain deeper things we didn’t catch the first time though.

I burned all the Mentoring Calls to date (4 weeks along with the welcome call) onto a CD that we listen to in the car, and although we have attended every Mentoring Call, we have found that we get so much out of doing this.

We gain much deeper insight, are able to listen more in-depth and get more out of it after multiple listens.

I was a bit skeptical when I found out that we would meet as a group and thought that perhaps I might get a bit lost in the mix, but I was wrong to doubt in any fashion, it turns out just as you said, being part of the group works extremely well and offers more than what we would probably get out of doing it one on one.

Things that I didn’t think of in many cases someone else did, or problems that I thought I didn’t have someone else did and I was just not aware that I had the same troubles or had not faced them yet.

We have learned a lot listening to the perspective of others, listening to your responses to them as well as sharing our journey and where we are at and getting feedback on that.

The Mentoring Calls have been absolutely awesome!!! We love them!

Anonymous

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Anonymous

7 short weeks later my wife calls me ‘her man’.

My wife asked me for a separation 9 weeks ago. I said no or I knew we were finished. She found this online course and said she would commit to the 7 weeks.

We worked at it diligently and put other things aside for the sake of our children.

We had worked with two marriage counselors over the past 10 years and were familiar with the 5 Languages of Love, Susan Johnson’s work with attachment theory etc.

It all made sense but nothing really changed in our relationship. We were still deeply unhappy and just felt ‘we had married the wrong person’.

With your course, 7 short weeks later my wife calls me ‘her man’ and I feel real love for her for the first time in years.

We are excited by our new tools, language, and learning.

You have something that makes it all work. By observation, I would say it is not only the skill that you bring to the Marital Therapy arena but something more powerful.

I believe it is a congruence of belief, speech, and action.

By this, I mean that to have the positive kind of influence that you have, you must own an unshakably held core belief-that couples in most instances can not only ‘work it out’ but be thrilled with the partner that once was the object of a seething resentment.

You really and truly believe it yourself.

This is powerful. It cannot be faked and the motive behind the results is a pure one. It is not the money but a passion for good relationships that drives you.

This combined with genuine enthusiasm toward those relationships, skilled pedagogical technique, fantastic materials, and insight all make for a program that CANNOT be overlooked by anyone interested in a better relationship.

My only caveat is that these techniques are so powerful that dishonest men and women can misuse them to make anyone they choose to fall in love with them!

So thank you, Bruce, for so diligently pursuing your life’s passion.

The family is the bedrock of society and your work is saving and enriching that bedrock. This is truly an enduring legacy.

Keep up the great work!

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Barry

There is a wealth of really great material in the course. You’ll get back 10-fold what you put into it.

My girlfriend and I have just completed the Love At First Fight program and I must say we feel we’re in better shape now because of it.

There is a wealth of really great material in the course – the weekly videos, the calls and the resource material (recommended books, etc.).

It is going to take up a good deal of your time so you will need to come committed but trust me, you’ll get back 10-fold what you put into it.

It’s a very useful course if you need some help to get you through the rockier moments or if you want to grow as people and a couple.

Thank you Bruce!

Barry

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Sherezz

I feel like I can finally breathe for the first time in weeks! I loved the insightful exercises and informative videos.

I feel like I can finally breathe for the first time in weeks!

I feel like a lot of the tension that was built up inside of me has mostly dissipated!

Bruce, you can’t begin to understand how thankful I am to you for the two weeks of your program thus far which has started to make a difference in our relationship.

I loved learning about the communication techniques, the bids, and attachment styles. I loved the exercises and the videos. They were very informative and very insightful. I loved the first set of assignments as well.

This program teaches you so much about relationships and about strengthening your emotional connection with your partner.

Thank you!

Sherezz

Michael Frazier

Michael Frazier

What made the biggest difference was learning how to listen and BE OKAY with whatever she is feeling.

Bruce has given me the confidence that I will be able to handle whatever comes along in my relationship – and stuff IS gonna come along!!

I feel like I have just taken flying lessons and I will respond appropriately should we suddenly fly into some unexpected turbulence.

For me, what made the biggest difference was learning how to listen and BE OKAY with whatever she is feeling, without trying to get her to stop feeling it to make myself more comfortable.

I can relax!!!

Michael Frazier

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Kristin Zufan

Thank you for giving new life to my dying marriage.

This program is truly marriage saving! My marriage was on the edge of the cliff and I had one foot off the ledge ready to jump into the divorce pool.

We were so disconnected and every time we talked was a fight and it felt like the fight that was going to end it all. We both felt under appreciated , disconnected and unloved.

Within weeks of this course and putting in the work, our relationship changed! We were connecting every day (odd at first because we drift so far apart). After connected, it was easier to talk. We learned our fighting styles and it was a lightbulb moment and we used it to recognize why we were the way we are to each other.

In 7 weeks, my broken marriage has made 180 degree turn. We are connecting, communicating, fighting less, able to have hard conversations and are actually giving each other the love and appreciation we both needed.

Thank you for giving new life to my dying marriage

Kristin Zufan

Ellen Hammant

Ellen Hammant

I was very impressed and would recommend to everyone!

There was so much informative and helpful content and tools jam packed into this program.

A wealth of useful education and practical strategies to help any relationship in trouble, or simply to enhance any relationship.

I was very impressed and would recommend to everyone!

Ellen Hammant

Laura Wallace

Laura Wallace

...the best is yet to come.

Participating in the Conflict Cure has given us the tools that we have been looking for.

It’s been such a gift to finally learn what it was that was keeping us trapped in a conflict stage for 30 years even with so much past love and effort, the materials, tools and sequences here have been fine tuned to truly work for anyone.

I wish we had found it earlier, Worth every penny.

We loved it so much we purchased the following program Better Together and look forward to the next stage of our lives together…the best is yet to come.

Laura Wallace

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LD

This course has saved our relationship and I will forever be grateful for it.

Me and my boyfriend of 5 years, butted heads a LOT! We were absolutely in a power struggle.

After taking this course and just 2 lessons in, we began to learn how to communicate with each other in a way that was calming to the other, without an argument arising in the midst of it. We have only had one instance come up about midway through the course and was able to immediately deescilate and end it, before it became a full fledged fight, just by using the tools we had learned in this course.

We have learned sooo much about everything we were doing wrong and why we were about to break up.

This course has saved our relationship and I will forever be grateful for it.

LD

Melissa Tinney

Melissa Tinney

Thank you Bruce.

Thank you Bruce.

Your wonderful and powerful course has enriched our relationship and given us tools and new understanding that will lead us to a secure relationship and to enjoy each other and be supported to enjoy and manage life forever together.

Melissa Tinney

Christine Faulconbridge

Christine Faulconbridge

This course brought peace and tranquility to our relationship.

This course brought peace and tranquility to our relationship.

Anyone who has been in a relationship for several years would benefit from this recharge.

Christine Faulconbridge

Pamela Bird

Pamela Bird

We started loving one another and we became closer.

My wife and I fought all of the time. Someone would say something or we would disagree then we would get into a fight. Round and round we would go. We were pushing each other apart. I was looking for something to help us.

I found Bruce’s “Conflict Cure” in an advertisement on FB. I started the course myself. My wife was not interested in taking it. Within 2 days of us putting into practice the activities of module 1 we stopped fighting, and we started loving one another and we became closer.

This course saved my marriage! It made us feel more satisfied, connected and loved in our marriage.

I would recommend this course to anyone. It is wonderful!!

Pamela Bird

Jane Toomath

Jane Toomath

A DEFINITE MUST for everyone!

This program was so full of knowledge and kept to a simple form to understand.

I wish if only I had discovered it years ago. The weekly modules were very easy to fit into your life day to day…A DEFINITE MUST for every one.

Jane Toomath

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Anonymous

My husband and I have really begun making huge inroads on our relationship.

This course just works, if you want it to. With commitment and an open heart and mind, the knowledge path Bruce takes you on is worth every moment.

My husband and I have really begun making huge inroads on our relationship and we attribute this solely to the inspirational delivery of this course.

Thank you Bruce.

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Heike Brewster

Heike Brewster

Bruce's programme helped my husband and me to come unstuck from a cycle of arguments.

Bruce’s programme helped my husband and me to come unstuck from a cycle of arguments and move forward into a connected and loving relationship where we now have effective tools to work through our difficult moments calmly.

Having tried relationship counselling in the past without result we both engaged in this accessible, clear and in depth program and got the results we were looking for.

Thank you Bruce for making the research so easy to understand, your analogies and examples resonated easily with me, the structure is and sequence of the modules works extremely well and the tools are invaluable and the whole course is so accessible.

Heike Brewster

Marcia Nardo

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After completing the program I have reconnected with the guy I fell in love with back then.

We’ve been together for 19 years, after completing the program I have reconnected with the guy I fell in love with back then.

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Sarah Claridge

Sarah Claridge

It was a pleasure to do this course and a real eye opener.

Bruce has an amazing way of speaking that hits right at the heart. He is funny, empathetic and incredibly educated in this field. It was a pleasure to do this course and a real eye opener.

Helped me to realise that we are not the only ones with relationship issues – we are all the same, struggling to be loved, heard and understood. Thank you Bruce.

Sarah Claridge

Kerri Reber

Kerri Reber

I loved the program and wholeheartedly recommend it to any couple.

Loveatfirstfight is the first relationship program I’ve taken that actually makes sense!

Bruce tackles real life situations with real life solutions that really can’t fail if both partners are invested and committed to each other.

I loved the program and wholeheartedly recommend it to any couple, whether they are struggling, or not.

Kerri Reber

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Poppy Chickadee

This program should be mandatory for all couples - it would have saved us years of suffering.

This program should be mandatory for all couplesit would have saved us years of suffering. I am so glad that I know about it now, because it reframes what feels like personal slights into a broader context of human attachment patterns.

This makes it easier to identify and rectify exactly where and why the relationship is breaking down, and how to fix it in an way that makes both people feel seen, heard, valued, safe, and loved.

I regret the years I spent in my marriage taking things personally and not taking responsibility for my own behaviour. Now I know two things I never thought I would: how to feel safe and how to be happy. Years 18 of our marriage is finally looking bright.

Thank you Bruce!

Poppy Chickadee

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Anonymous

I now feel more capable, and therefore less afraid, when things come up.

Wow, wow, wow!!! The thoroughness, clarity and value of this course work offers a game changer.

When I began I was utterly shattered, frustrated and feeling despair in my current relationship, and in relating with my son’s father. I have historically leaned towards being conciliatory, and absolutely averse to any conflict, always compromising myself in a commitment to harmony which was therefore never true harmony.

All that Bruce models in this course work has been an answer to my prayers, as I didn’t have such examples to draw upon previously for how to deal with conflict.

I now feel more capable, and therefore less afraid, when things come up. Just being able to be more relaxed, by having greater awareness and effective tools, is helping me in all of my relating.

I’m wildly grateful that this body of work exists and is so easily absorbable. I looked forward to each video and inspiration. I feel a great hope for the first time in a long time.

Thank you, Bruce!!

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Rachael

Rachael

Even working alone I have seen improvement with our relationship as I have new skills to utilize.

This program has been well worth the time and expense. I strongly recommend it to anyone wanting to improve or save their relationship with their spouse/partner.

Even working alone I have seen improvement with our relationship as I have new skills to utilize. Learning about my own patterns and the ways that I react to situations has truly shined a light on how I can become a better communicator and to get my needs met.

Thank you Bruce for this opportunity- Rachael

Rachael

Karen Leigh Brady

Karen Leigh Brady

We have been ambicable separated For five years.

This program Was so worth it in a number of ways.

First of all you feel like Bruce is right there with so knowledgeable and so easy to understand what he is trying to get across to you.

I have been married, and we have been ambicable separated For five years. We are trying now to see what our next steps should be .

Thus program has helped us so much we both feel better about making a decision than we ever have and we all right with not knowing and taking the information we have gotten from the program and process it and take our time !

H thank you Bruce

Karen Leigh Brady

Sarah

Sarah

We started to understand each other 100% more.

We’ve been together for twenty-eight years, and whilst we’d had our ups and downs, we were living peacefully enough but I was feeling lonely within the relationship and David was missing a loving, physical relationship.

When we learned the different languages of love, apologies, and the different ways of protesting, also the significance of bidding, we started to understand each other 100% more.

The things we have learned to do are sustainable, because they make sense, and we are now looking forward to our future with excitement and interest.

Sarah

Sarah Schwandt

Sarah Schwandt

This program is revolutionary!

This program is revolutionary! So much valuable information and tools…no need to let your relationship suffer any more. Highly recommend!!

Sarah Schwandt

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Aleksandra Durmanovic

I can hardly believe the results of this transformation.

When I proposed this course to my husband, I was grasping at straws. My efforts, as well as our visits to the psychologist, did not make much progress in reviving our relationship.

This course we received exceeded all our expectations and the results started to appear after the first week. What is important, Bruce managed to gain the interest and attention of my husband and managed to awaken his understanding, empathy and love. He also managed to point out the things I need to do to make our relationship work.

Today I have a man who is warmer and gentler than he has ever been, and I can hardly believe the results of this transformation. Sometimes I wonder if it will last.

I think that during this course we both learned how to work on our relationship and how to solve problems before they turn into something bad.

In any case, I am very happy at this moment and I want to enjoy what I have been dreaming about for years.

Aleksandra Durmanovic

Arnaud Slim

Arnaud Slim

A structure on which we can rely on.

Good analyse of the couple dynamics, helps to setup a structure on which we can rely on to react in a better way to various issues.

Arnaud Slim

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Jennifer Connell

I feel powerful for the first time in years...If you are hesitating, DON'T.

I wish I had taken this course when I first got married 15 years ago. I felt hopeless at the beginning of this course, but it has given me hope that these tools can truly change relationships. Thank you, thank you.

I feel powerful for the first time in years, and I am changing how I show up in our relationship.

I signed up for this course as a last ditch effort to save a marriage that everyone I know has been telling me to leave for years. He is definitely the explosive one in our marriage and I have been so shut down. Realizing that we are both playing a role in things made me feel powerful enough to show up differently and effect change, not just in my marriage but in my relationships in general. I learned tools that are helping me as a parent.

I thought I had read every relationship book out there, but this teaches you how to go deeper, gives you steps and tools to follow, and helps you get so much insight into the WHY of what’s happening. If you are hesitating, DON’T.

Jennifer Connell

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Nicolas

If we hadn't taken it or hadn't committed to it, it would likely be the end of us.

This course was seen by my partner as a last resort and if we hadn’t taken it or hadn’t committed to it, it would likely be the end of us.

Instead we learnt an incredible amount about who we are individually and how that affects our relationship. What I needed most was concrete tools because I wanted to work on fixing our relationship but had no idea how to do it and where to start.

This need was fulfilled brilliantly through the Conflict Cure course.

And while we still have a long way to go, we are in a much better place than when we started the course and are now working on how to keep improving rather than wondering if this relationship will continue.

Nicolas

Elzanne Steyn

Elzanne Steyn

Whether you just started dating or have been married for years!

I would recommend the Love At First Fight course to anyone – whether you just started dating or have been married for years!

It is an insightful course, that will not only help your relationship, but also help you grow as an individual.

I really appreciate the knowledge that Bruce shared with us!

Elzanne Steyn

Skye Dunn

Skye Dunn

Our relationship was pretty much over, my partner had left...

Our relationship was pretty much over, my partner had left, if i didnt find this course we wouldnt have made it any further, we were very deep in the “power struggle” stage and just didnt know how to get out.. this course has moved us closer, we are now talking and working on a new version of us.

Skye Dunn

Mary Harbocian

Mary Harbocian

After 40 years of marriage, one would think we had found all of the answers! But there is always more to learn.

This course is a life changer.

Conflict is a relationship is a given. This course shows you a simple way to navigate those rocky times with kindness. That was what was missing between my husband and I. Kind negotiation was what we learned. And we discovered we could use these tools outside of our relationship.

After 40 years of marriage, one would think we had found all of the answers! But there is always more to learn.

It is definitely worth every penny!

Mary Harbocian

Lysa Kenyon

Lysa Kenyon

This program is nothing short of transformational!

This program is nothing short of transformational!

We worked the entire program together as it was provided, did all the exercises, and made the time and effort a priority. It was hard. It was emotional. It required courage. It required persistence.

It was ALL worth it!

Lysa Kenyon

Cara Trujillo

Cara Trujillo

We have learned how to better stay present and care for each other's needs.

We suggest this course to anyone in relationships. We have learned how to better stay present and care for each others needs while in a place of emotional self protection.

This has also helped us tp be able to discuss difficult topics while putting aside defensiveness.

Cara Trujillo

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Diana

What we thought was a Hail Mary actually worked!

Our relationship had all 10 warning signs that it’s in danger. Even with couples and individual counseling, we felt like we were stuck in a bad situation after 25 years of being together. Divorce might be the only solution left until I stumbled on Bruce’s master class video.

To my surprise, my husband was willing to try the conflict cure course with me. We both assumed the other person had given up while deep down we still loved each other.

Connection first, communication later was a big AHA moment for us.

The program provided many tools for us to better understand each other and better communicate our needs. We are now on the right track and no longer display any of the 10 warning signs.

What we thought was a Hail Mary actually worked! – Diana

Diana

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Darin Manney

I persisted and I am happy that I did.

I was initially skeptical that some stranger from South Africa could be of help to an American/British and even after the first session I was not sure I would continue. However I persisted and I am happy that I did.

While Bruce’s stories were sometimes corny, he has a way of using them to make a point resonate well. I complete the course in the allotted time and find myself relating with my partner and other people in a much healthier way.

Thank you Bruce.

Darin Manney

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Jared Mcclure

The course is not easy, but it’s very rewarding and totally worth the effort it took.

This course really changed my partner and I’s outlook on not only our relationship but each other as people.

We now have a better understanding of who we are innately. Which has allowed for more intimacy and vulnerability to be created. We have grown so much through this. It also taught us that we can go through hard things together.

The course is not easy, but it’s very rewarding and totally worth the effort it took.

We are already saying we want to do it again at some point. 🙂

Jared Mcclure

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Mali Rivers

He saw the change in me.

When I listen to each model, I either go ”Yes! that make a lot of sense” ”Wow! that’s what I need to implement next”

Thank you Bruce. I enjoy your program and love how you speak to me with truth and kindness on what ”I” can do in order to get the results I need so I can be confident about myself and to be a better person and a better role model for others especially my children.

Your program changed me and as a matter of fact my husband (who hasn’t started the program yet), told me that he had paid to have lifetime access to the program this morning and will catch up.

Why? because he saw the change in me. Because he sees value in your program for our family’s sake and wants to help us connect even more and better. I can’t wait to discover our-selves together and to move our relationship closer to maturity level.

You are right, no need to force your partner to do anything.

Have to say he was happy to do find his apology language and to do a reflective conversation with me once 🙂

Mali Rivers

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George

We've grown and are able to see where things are going before they happen.

The Love at First Fight program is great if you want to save your relationship. You’ll soon realize after starting the program that the negative patterns that taint your relationship become a thing of the past. You will soon once again connect with your partner and feel as if you’re getting to know them all over again. 

My wife seems happier since we started the program. Things that used to bother her seem less important now. She seems to have regained hope and that’s great. I also feel we’ve grown and are able to see where things are going before they happen. It’s led to less conflicts and we’re there for each other rather than against.

The program is non-intrusive and leads to personal growth rather than blaming one or the other. I was hesitant at first but was pleasantly surprised at how well it went and its impact on us.

George

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Phil Chorosevic

The first counseling that placed greater emphasis on uncovering why I react the way I do and strategies to effectively deescalate the conflict.

My spouse and I have participated in couples counseling in person on 2 separate occasions with 2 different therapists. We have learned our flaws and the root causes that escalated our conflicts into what I described as running gun battles with words and emotions. 

This is the first counseling that placed greater emphasis on uncovering why I react the way I do and strategies to effectively deescalate the conflict before it becomes toxic.

Phil Chorosevic

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Rachel Aden

More valuable to us than a year of counseling.

This program is the real deal.  It causes you to go deep and learn about yourself and your partner and gives you actual tools that you can use to make real change. 

It is a game changer for both personal development and relationships and was more valuable to us than a year of counseling.

Rachel Aden

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Justin

Seven week program did more for our marriage than a years worth of traditional in-person couples counseling. 

Bruce – Your seven week program did more for our marriage than a years worth of traditional in-person couples counseling.

Thank you for your help and dedication to saving and restoring marriages.

Justin

Justin

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JC Colorado

TAKE THE COURSE, it will help.

I’m not a person that likes take help classes, I taken a few,  my wife and I went to counseling to 4 different therapist. Some help,  but never just dove into reconnecting, before you can deal with the problem, Just talked about what the problem at hand was.

I believe, which not always  . That you can take nuggets out of any courses you take,  Bruce’s course had many nuggets for me.  Yes, done things didn’t connect with me, but enough did and really help my relationship,  probably the most , no The Most in any relationship help threapy we taken.

Sorry for the rambling.

TAKE THE COURSE,it will help.

JC Colorado

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Pindy Soggi

Handling conflicts and differences has become alot easier and straightforward.

Bruce’s program has taught us alot, so many insights and aha moments.

After years of being completely disconnected and caught up in conflicts and power struggles, making eachother completely miserable, we now feel we have a better connection and more loving communication and have learnt to understand and see things better from eachothers perspectives.

We are able to communicate in a way where we feel safe to express our truths and are also heard, valued and respected, and handling conflicts and differences has become alot easier and straightforward.

We have been given some wonderful tools to guide us through our life’s ups and downs and develop a stronger, happier, loving and secure relationship.

With continued practice and faith, we will continue to get stronger and can look forward to a better more harmonious future together with lots of love and joy along the way.

Thankyou Bruce for your great program and wonderful insights, its a tool for life, thankyou.

Pindy Soggi

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Janette Klie

It has been much better than any therapy session I've ever received.

This is the most in-depth couples counseling course I’ve ever experienced. It has been much better than any therapy session I’ve ever received.

The course requires dedication to exploring your shadow sides, and learning how to shift your mindsets and patterns to become more intimate. 

It is not easy, but provides so much reward by the end.  Not only do you learn the tools to get along better, but there is a lot of self discovery as well.

It was well worth the price!

Janette Klie

Jayne and John Captein

Jayne and John Captein

It will make a big difference in your relationship.

This course is full of tools and information that can help you get back on track and learn about each other. If you commit to the time needed and following through with the training it will make a big difference in your relationship.

Jayne and John Captein

Lisa Boeres

Lisa Boeres

I'd told him he needs to move out... Now we're communicating, planning our future, and having great sex!

Bruce’s course has literally saved our marriage! We’ve been married for 33 years and it has been a struggle.

We could not communicate. Every interaction held the possibility of me being hurt. His perception of me was skewed and this would cause him to lash out at me for doing everyday mundane activities, or even doing nice things for him. He constantly perceived me as a threat and would fight with me, berate me, and disrespect me. I was often left feeling unimportant, disrespected, hurt and sad.

The result of this course has changed everything! I heard the words that I have been praying to hear: “I’m so sorry I have hurt you, I have been such an asshole, I don’t deserve you, will you forgive me.?”

He has repeated that to me several times already and I can feel his sincerity. He is genuinely showing regret and feeling my pain. I cannot say enough about how this has changed our marriage and changed my life!

Just a few months ago I’d told him he needs to move out (he didn’t) and now we’re communicating, planning our future, and having great sex!

Lisa Boeres

Candice King

Candice King

This course has truly revived my marriage.

Bruce, this course has truly revived my marriage. My husband and I are using the tools we were taught and we are becoming closer and more love is flowing between the both of us.

We had tried traditional marriage counseling many times in our 16+ years yet your program is the ONLY one that “clicked” for the both of us. Such a refreshing approach with this relationship program because it truly does create closeness and understanding.

I cannot thank you enough! God bless you Bruce!

Candice King

Mark Pakan

Mark Pakan

We were constantly fighting and talking about divorce before our Love at First Fight course. 

I highly recommend this program to any couple because we were constantly fighting and talking about divorce before our Love at First Fight course. 

My wife and I are communicating better now and have revitalized our love and commitment with each other. 

Bruce Muzik is a talented speaker and gifted relationship coach.  My wife and I both felt comfortable tackling our problems with his guidance.

Mark Pakan

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Jon Nield

We have virtually stopped arguing and blaming.

For me this program was revolutionary and for the first time ever I’ve gained a deep insight into what I need to do to improve my relationship.

We have virtually stopped arguing and blaming (mainly me) and while still practicing, my listening skills are improving.

Jon Nield

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Katherine Keen

A real eye opener... ( The Art Of Love )

Bruce’s Love At First Fight Program is a real eye opener into the knowledge of how relationships work and how relationships can be recreated.

It’s more than a program; Bruce has it down to an art form.  ( The Art Of Love )

Katherine Keen

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Kerry Traugott

I am no longer scared to discuss my feelings with people.

This program gave me the understanding of how to confront conflict in a caring and respectful way. Not only can I use it with my partner, but I can also use it with anyone else in my life.

I’m able to use the skills at home and at work, and I am no longer scared to discuss my feelings with people. I also understand my behavior patterns, and I’m able to let go of the guilt behind them rather than continuing to believe that I am better wrong, these are just behaviors that I am doing.

It’s empowering to know that I can change these and that I’m able to change the way the others respond to me through my behaviors.

Kerry Traugott

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DeeDee Cavanagh

We had amazing results!!!! He is back in our bedroom... and we are loving each other again.

I have been married for 50 years and my husband stopped talking to me and ignored me . He told me to get a divorce and he wanted nothing to do with me. This was a shocking event in our lives since we seemed very happy. Had a Therapist, 2 really and they could not figure this issue out. after 6.5 months of no talking , I started this class.

The first week on hearing what to do and his instructions , I apologized to my husband for the hurt we were going through and he heard me , that opened him up little by little. It is 9 months and he is back in our bedroom and he is talking again and we are loving each other again. I finished the course and did what Bruce said to do and we had amazing results!!!!

Thank You DeeDee

DeeDee Cavanagh

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Jody Atwood

We've spent a great deal on couples' counseling. This course was far more effective and a greater value! 

We have spent a great deal of money on couples’ counseling.  This course was by far more effective and a greater value! 

This program puts more accountability on the participants to explore deeper into their relationship than couple’s counseling.  The tools presented were extremely helpful. 

We have been married for 40 years and both wished we would have had this information and tools to use to improve our relationship about 30 years ago!  Well worth the time and money!!

Jody Atwood

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Kim S.

I've been able to tell my husband my difficult feelings for the first time in 20 years.

I had spent years reading and listening to relationship counselors, searching for a fix for my relationship. Bruce’s Love at First Fight program is the first one that has really worked for my partner and me.

Bruce has a way of seeing to the core of relationship problems and helping others find their way out of them. His step-by-step methods to create connection work! Implementing his simple tools for communication has  enabled honest, effective, and loving conversations. And he teaches how to do all this & more without blaming & vilifying one another.

I’ve been able to tell my husband my difficult feelings for the first time in 20 years, and he was able to help me process them with love & compassion. These experiences are helping to repair my sense of safety in the relationship.

We still have work to do, but we are so grateful to have the tools we need to do that work. My partner and I feel empowered & hopeful for our future. I’m so grateful to Bruce.

Kim S.

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Tasha

Instead of fighting each other as we explore reconciliation, we are fighting our misunderstandings.

After years of couples counseling that didn’t get us unstuck, exhausted from our power struggles, we divorced 2.5 years ago. I wish we had the benefit of going through Bruce Muzik’s course.

We learned how much our insecure attachment styles played in our circular fights, and how to soothe each other in midst of a fight so it doesn’t escalate so we can be open to listening and understanding each other. Instead of fighting each other as we explore reconciliation, we are fighting our misunderstandings.

Even if you are not in crisis, your relationship will improve if you both work through the course.

Tasha

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Romualdo

We went from civil war to reconstruction.

We went from civil war to reconstruction. Now we know how to work together and build a stronger relationship at every conflict.

Romualdo

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Helen Pyman

Totally recommend this to anyone who wants to build a phenomenal relationship.

The course delivered everything it promised and so much more in personal insights, understanding of my partner, how our relationship was working… The material is extensive and delivered in an engaging way with real-time calls and coaching and really great practical tools – totally recommend this to anyone who wants to build a phenomenal relationship.

Helen Pyman

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Heidi Peart

Your course was way cheaper and by far the most useful, transforming, interesting, and successful thing I've ever done.

Your teaching methods are absolutely outstanding. You provide so much value. Your course exceeded my expectations on every level. I’ve spent so much money on counselling and in other courses with varying success… your course was way cheaper and by far the most useful, transforming, interesting, and successful thing I’ve ever done.

Every couple could benefit from this course, even those in relatively happy relationships. You have taken all the great research on creating long term, committed, deeply fulfilling relationships and put it into a phenomenal 7 week course.

This has been such a gift to me. I was on my way out of my marriage before this course… so deeply hurt,angry and hopeless. Now I’m excited to grow with my partner. Every day I feel myself soften more and open back up to being loved.

Heidi Peart

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Isabel

I will carry with me for the rest of my life not only in the relationship with my partner but with my children and anyone else in my life.

Bruce is an incredible teacher. He’s making difficult to grasp concepts easily explained. I knew when I signed up that what he’s teaching is the latest most reliable research and concepts that actually work and support everyone in the relationship. What I didn’t know was how much I would enjoy doing the course. Bruce’s enthusiasm was contagious and his story telling captivating.

I learned so much that I will carry with me for the rest of my life not only in the relationship with my partner but with my children and anyone else in my life.

Isabel

Judy Barrett

Judy Barrett

It has helped me turn my marriage around just learning how I was in my relationship with him.

I do recommend this class to anyone who desires a better relationship. It has helped me turn my marriage around just learning how I was in my relationship with him. The pieces started coming together and time again to fill up once again for my husband.

Judy Barrett

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Gretchen Stockwell

Now I have insight into how to address issues in the future.

My four year relationship had just painfully ended when I ran across the Love at First Fight course.  It probably wouldn’t be as meaningful working it on my own but I signed up anyway and I’m so thankful I did. 

Now I have insight into how to address issues in the future.  My prayer is that a future partner and I will be way better at navigating from the Romantic phase, through the Power Struggle phase and into the Mature phase of our relationship. 

Love, long-term love is my goal!  Life is too short to beat one’s head against the relationship ending brick wall.

Gretchen Stockwell

Fabiana and Romario were about to get divorced...

Fabiana and Romario

I was ready for a divorce. I did the course anyway and in Week 2 we had an Ah-Ha moment. Romario finally understands how to connect with my heart.

When we started the program I felt it was my last chance for my marriage.

I was seeing a counselor and he encouraged me to join this program, but I was ready for a divorce. I was not feeling loved. In my mind, we were just two roommates. He is the sweetest guy in the world but there was no romance. I was planning to give him the (divorce) papers to sign.

I did the course anyway and in Week 2 we had an Ah-Ha moment…

Romario finally understands how to connect with my heart. He said the scales fell off of his eyes and he could see how he was not loving me. Since that day he’s starting to love me full force.

Since then I’ve felt so loved and I fell in love with him again. I just want to be together with him for the rest of my life.

Basically you saved our marriage and we’re in the honeymoon again. It is amazing. I don’t have the words to express how happy I am in my marriage right now.

I learned so much from the coaching calls with others. I like the format of the program and the exercises. It really helped us understand each other and to connect deeper. Thank you very much from the bottom of my heart. I appreciate everything that you did for us.

Fabiana and Romario

Aska Naito

Aska

My fiancé told me our relationship was over. It’s been a huge improvement from where we were.

We were engaged, but had a huge fight. He (my fiancé) told me that he wanted me to move out and that our relationship was over.

We’re in a very good spot right now. We went out to a movie yesterday. We had dinner. He took me out for my birthday as well and we talked a lot and I feel like me opening up has really changed the way that he has opened up and I give him space and I know what he needs because he’s a turtle and I’m the hail-storm.

At the birthday dinner, he said, “I don’t want to lose you to somebody else.”

It’s been a huge improvement from where we were. So thank you so much. I feel so much better. I’ve been through a lot but every time I would listen to your videos or I’d watch, I’d feel hopeful.

Aska

Marisa and Murray stopped their pattern of distancing and coming back...

Marisa

We’ve managed to break the cycle and consistently be there for each other, loving each other.

Well I definitely feel more unconditionally loved – where it’s not so much of a connection/disconnection cycle. I feel like we have it very consistent at this point – this flow of love, connection, and intimacy.

Before, we would have times of more distancing and coming back and distancing and coming back and we’ve managed to somehow break that cycle and just consistently be there for each other, love each other and that’s obviously a huge breakthrough and I think part of what led us to be able to take the next step with each other as well.

(Towards the end of the program Murray proposed to Marisa – she said YES!)

Marisa

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Mark

Truly see your partner. Perhaps for the first time.

This course will let you really see yourself, sometimes in ways that are difficult. But in that seeing, you will also be able to truly see your partner. Perhaps for the first time.

Mark

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Deborah Dang

I learned more in the 8 weeks than I ever did through counseling.

This is the relationship course everyone should take. No one is taught how to be in a relationship and most of us muddle through and never get to the point of a fulfilling relationship. I learned more in the 8 weeks than I ever did through counseling.

Some of the concepts taught were familiar – we learned them as part of counseling but at that time, we were too busy fighting to learn it. The videos and homework bypass the relationship issues by teaching the concept and then have you work on applying them as homework. It is very effective.

Deborah Dang

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Anonymous

I can’t believe that only 8 weeks ago, I really couldn’t see any future with my partner.

We were in constant conflict. There was so much anger and hostility, on a daily basis. We have two young children, and I had started to envisage what my life would look like as a single parent.

Within the first week, notably from using the connection rituals, we were calmer and kinder towards each other.

This course is so much more productive than marriage counselling. Understanding how to communicate in a different way, understanding why we react the way we do in our relationship, and understanding how to express ourselves in a more effective way has been so enlightening.

We are communicating so much better and are so much happier. I can’t believe that only 8 weeks ago, I really couldn’t see any future with my partner.

Anonymous

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​​Tamika Guiton

Not only rescued my marriage from life support but also brought miraculous results at my job and in other groups I'm involved with that are a big part of my life.

This program is really one of a kind and the best out in the marketplace for development. Any other alternatives that I have personally used were recipies for disastrous divorce. I had wasted literally $11K with marriage coaches, therapists, and programs that resulted in a further disconnected marriage.

When I ran across Bruce’s program on a Facebook ad I just knew this would be the answer I was seeking and I ended up being more developed and a better communicator in all areas of my life that not only rescued my marriage from life support but also brought miraculous results at my job and in other groups I’m involved with that are a big part of my life.

Where others fail, Bruce’s program suceeds without excuses. This program sets a new standard and raises the bar to what should exist out in the marketplace. His program is affordable for anyone also and is no where near thousands. He produces the value above and beyond the cost. I got the pathway to an extraordinary life which is what mankind is destined for anyways. He puts the possibility in what occurs as impossible.

I only wish there was a part 2 or a mastery program.

​​Tamika Guiton

Catherine Murphy

Catherine Murphy

We now know how to be a team and tackle the misunderstanding and not each other.

I cannot recommend this course highly enough.

My husband and I learned so much the first time around and the material is so rich that we knew going back to re-do the course two years didn’t mean things weren’t working, it meant we were ready to appreciate the depth of the perspectives on offer and engage the ideas and practical applications in a way that was more nuanced and could bring us even closer.

Overall, we have learned so much about clear and respectful communication but more importantly we learned that our disconnection and the pain of it was based on misunderstandings of one another’s motivations and intentions and we learned to have more compassion and more patience for how in our own way, we were each doing our best but we couldn’t see through the misunderstandings.

Bruce’s course really made clear that whatever wasn’t love was misunderstanding. It sounds like a cheesy tagline, but it’s really true and all the materials in this course illuminate this core principle. My husband and I still have disagreements  but we now know how to be a team and tackle the misunderstanding and not each other.

Catherine Murphy

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Kim Zizza

I learned a lot about myself and how to be a better listener and a soft-emotion talker.

I learned a lot about myself and how to be a better listener and a soft-emotion talker. My husband did not participate but I feel it was still beneficial for me. I think if he participated some old hurts would have healed because the program helps you have a softened heart and gives you tools to work out differences.  

I did find Bruce’s statement about what is not love is a misunderstanding true a lot of the time. An example ( my husband and I do not live together) my husband attended a retirement party for someone who did not pay their bill with my business office. I was greatly offended. He totally forget about it and said had he remembered he would not have attended. Before the program, I would have just been hurt. However, instead, we spoke about it and I no longer have any negative emotions.

Kim Zizza

Deborah DeSouza

Deborah DeSouza

I was feeling frustrated, alone, and stuck.

Bruce’s pitch came on my Facebook ad when my husband and I were at a standoff from another recurrent conflict. I was feeling frustrated, alone, and stuck. Then Bruce came along out of the blue with a course that was so much cheaper and doable than online marriage counseling.

His course provided hope, vision, and a way forward for me, even with just providing more awareness of myself and  how I can show up more in our relationship.  I have yet to master all the skills, but already I have experienced more effective communication with my husband, and the life-affirming value of my own role and contribution to our continued growth.

Deborah DeSouza

Sylvia Spacil

Sylvia Spacil

You will hit a rocky road and this program can help you navigate it.

This program is suitable for all couples married or not and same sex couples.

Whether your not talking to each other and looking at divorce or whether your happily together this course will enable you to go to the next level in the right direction.

​​I highly recommend this program for anyone who is in a relationship. You will hit a rocky road and this program can help you navigate it.

Sylvia Spacil

Robin Valentine

Robin Valentine

What AMAZING, FREAKING AMAZING Course you have put together Bruce!

This course has been life changing!~  I did the course alone and am so grateful for discovering myself, my attachment style, exposing my blind spots, showing me my weaknesses and giving me concrete tools to use to help me have success in relationships. 

There’s a part of me that just wants to be perfect never make mistakes.  This is such unrealisticly high expectation or finish line I set for myself and it is self-sabotaging.  I am learning to give myself ample space, grace and time to practice these new behaviors. 

Above all, I have learned that I show up best when I am emotionally honest, vulnerable, accept responsibility for my actions, share the soft emotions, ask for the things that I need, engage with my partner with kindness, look for the misunderstanding when tensions arise and then stand together and fight for our love and look for ways to find the misunderstanding together.  What AMAZING, FREAKING AMAZING Course you have put together Bruce! You have truly found your calling in life.  I thank you from the bottom of my heart.

Robin Valentine

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Michele Star Sararas

I have led courses and both been a therapist and been in therapy... Love at First Fight is a gem!

The Love at First Fight program contains so many concrete practical tools and can help couples to live together again in true love and connection. It is thorough, Bruce is very down-to-earth and kindly cuts straight to the point to be helpful. 

This program provides us with the action-based skills needed and some well-researched psychological education. The live mentor calls takes it a step beyond other self-help courses or books.

I have led courses and both been a therapist and been in therapy to know many of these concepts and I still found it addressed and supported growing edges. Love at First Fight is a gem!

Michele

Michele Star Sararas

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Gina Lynch

Less confusion and misunderstandings are occurring between us.

Bruce has helped us create a safer space for us to connect on a more meaningful level. Less confusion and misunderstandings are occurring between us. More honest insights are coming out, and that has helped us be more vulnerable and accepting of each others differences, without disconnecting.

Gina Lynch

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Charlotte

The most enlightening thing to happen in our relationship since it started.

Bruce and his program have been the most enlightening thing to happen in our relationship since it started.

Despite the love for each we continued to have regular conflict which we were both struggling to deal with. The LAFF program was our last attempt at communication and rebuilding our relationship and so far it has made giant leaps forward in comparison to where we were.

We’ve learnt more about ourselves, each other, and how to interact in our relationship in this 8 week program than we did in 15 months of marriage counseling.

Thank you Bruce for all that you do to help others, you have a gift and we are grateful for everything that you’ve shared with us. We have much to practice but I have hope that our relationship will only get stronger over time.

Charlotte

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Lauren

Our relationship has absolutely blossomed!

Our relationship has absolutely blossomed! We went from distant and rocky to connected and fully loving in just 8 weeks!

The reoccurring fight has been put to rest (just like you said it would) and we have these amazing skills that mean we stop any other potential arguments in their tracks. It’s an incredible super power!

“Marriage whisperer” is a well-earned title for Bruce. This program is absolutely incredible and is worth every penny and more! The skills you’ll learn are game-changers!

If you’re considering this program, even a little bit, do it and watch your relationship transform, you will not be sorry! It’s going to work!

 

 

Lauren

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Barbie Duggan

We love the Love at First Fight teaching program!

We love the Love at First Fight teaching program!  It has showed us how to lovingly and compassionately relate and respond to each other.  We feel that your level of compassion and love for other’s’ relationships is amazing, and so appreciated !  Thank you so much  !

Barbie Duggan

Megan Rose

Megan Rose

The entire program was amazing. I’m so thankful I joined.

My husband and I of 11 years have been to several counselors over the last 6 years and tried numerous alternatives on our own. I came across this program and it fit us so well that I immediately joined and I’m so grateful.

The entire program was amazing. I’m so thankful I joined. I will continue to use this program for the future.

Megan Rose

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Kristen Bennett

He was reluctant to have any support to improve our communication and yet he was really drawn to the activities and videos each week.

My husband and I grew alot through this program.  He was reluctant to have any support to improve our communication and yet he was really drawn to the activities and videos each week. 

We both gained so much knowledge and skills to improve our communication.

We are closer, understand each other more and are able to think before we react.

Kristen Bennett

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May Cao

Dramatically changed the course of my life for the better.

This Love At First Sight Couple’s Therapy Coaching program has dramatically changed the course of my life for the better.

I’m so glad that I trusted my intuition and signed up!  I have Bruce to thank for my renewed relationship with my husband!

May Cao

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David Uirab

We have learned how to diffuse tense situations.

The Love at First Fight Programme has helped us to rekindle the tender feelings we used to have for each other.

We have learned how to connect. we have learned how to diffuse tense situations.’

We are really happy that we did the programme. Thank you, Bruce

David Uirab

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Melinda Pope

It helped us learn how to communicate with love instead of anger.

We loved the program.  Bruce was real and sincere.  It helped us learn how to communicate with love instead of anger.  It gave us hope and we will continue to work on our relationship.

Thanks Bruce 🙂

Melinda Pope

Pauline

Pauline

Priceless!

Bruce has honed the art of respectful communication. Whether you are in a relationship or not, his program is insightful, structured, and transformational.

For greater love and respect between all people of the world, this course would be a major contribution.

As self-awareness grows, with automatic defense mechanisms reducing and softening, kinder more productive communication becomes a reality. 

Priceless!

Pauline

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Anonymous

I no longer want a divorce and love him more now than I ever have.

I did not like most of the activities and lessons but I can not deny their effectiveness.

I was fine with our marriage when my husband forced this program on us. I all but hated the whole thing, however I no longer want a divorce and love him more now than I ever have in the 20 years we have been together. He too says he loves me more now.

I may dislike the method but I can not deny the results. I would recommend this program to everyone.

Anonymous

Anonymous

Anonymous

This program is different from all the other counseling programs I have participated regarding marriage.

This program is different from all the other counseling programs I have participated regarding marriage. 

He focuses more on the relationship versus each person in the relationship while still recognizing the importance of each individual and the role they each play. He shows us how important it is to understand our personality type in the context of the relationship and one concept Bruce teaches that no one else does is that we have a role to play in helping our mate with their emotions. 

This is a key concept for both my husband and I and I believe it has roots that have been in place since the beginning of time.

Anonymous

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Melissa Trent

I learned so much more about myself and him in 7 weeks with Bruce then 8 months in therapy.

My husband and I have been separated and going to couple counseling for 8 months, 6 before finding and starting this course. I learned so much more about myself and him in 7 weeks with Bruce then 8 months in therapy. 

This course is so informative and eye opening about the dynamics of relationships. I would recommend to anyone single or married as a way to learn more about yourself, your partner and how to communicate better.

Melissa Trent

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Brad

If you’re tired of going to couples counseling and paying good money to talk in circles, do this program.

If you’re tired of going to couples counseling and paying good money to talk in circles, do this program.

The best part is everything is actionable. Learn the skills and do something to practice them. The mentoring calls help keep you accountable for the “homework”.

If you are someone who wants to take action when something in your life isn’t going right, this is absolutely for you.

Brad

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Caleb

I can’t imagine that any couple can’t succeed if they truly want to if they take this course.

Bruce Muzik is a miracle worker. It is all here.

I can’t imagine that any couple can’t succeed if they truly want to if they take this course. And it was very clear while taking this course why the majority of relationships ultimately fail.

Relationships are not easy without a comprehensive program that has figured out the science of how they work. This is that program. I couldn’t ask for more.

Caleb

Stacey Neilson

Stacey Neilson

I have learned so much about myself.

I was captivated from the first time I saw Bruce on Facebook and wanted to learn more ASAP.

The information and AHA moments were so accurate as well as the personality typing systems and love languages. I have learned so much about myself and wish I could use it im my marriage and recover what we had however we both need to do this to make it effective, if we did I’m absolutely sure we could make it.

Stacey Neilson

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Marcus

I am grateful that my partner persuaded me to do this.

The Bruce Muzik Love at first fight course has made a real and genuine change to the way my partner and myself see, hear, understand and love each other. I am grateful that my partner persuaded me to do not and I wish I / we would of known about it earlier.

Our relationship is definitely ally better in that we communicate much better, are more patient with each other and understand each other a lot better because of the direct learning from the course. We have argued quite a lot less. We have still argued quite a bit and there is still a lot of work to be done for us to say that we both feel like we have a strong future with each other but I am surprised how much positive changes the cruse has brought.

Time will tell if we are meant to be together in the long run but we are in a much better place.

Marcus

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Hazel Krause-Gayle

It’s so good to no longer feel alone!

Having done therapy for two years on a one on one basis, I came to the point that I said ‘I think i’ve done all I can here and my next bit of work I will need to be in a relationship’.

Then I met my partner and although I adored him we got stuck in the power struggle. We both wanted to be better people, more loving partners and get out of this horrid negative cycle.

We have learnt so much about ourselves, about each other and relationships in general. It has felt like the missing piece of the jigsaw. The course educates you on the elements of yourself that are hard to see and perhaps you don’t want to see. 

However as soon as you start seeing your own truths you are able to start changing and letting go of elements of your personality which are stopping you be the best version of yourself.

And it’s so good to no longer feel alone!

Hazel Krause-Gayle

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Stephanie

I can honestly say I have never felt such inner peace and happiness.

Enrolling in this course is, without a doubt, one of the best decisions I have ever made. I had high expectations after attending the free webinar and this course exceeded these expectations by miles.

I truly believe that Bruce, whether he knows it or not, is an angel put here on Earth to guide people from all over the world, when they are most in need, to a happier, healthier life and relationship.

We are having much less arguments and most of our arguments don’t blow up into a huge fight anymore. I used to get depressed after arguing, no sleep, no appetite, feeling sad. This hasn’t happened once since starting the course.

I can honestly say I have never felt such inner peace and happiness. Thank you Bruce, from the bottom of my heart.

Stephanie

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April

How I interact and communicate with my spouse, my child, and my clients has changed for the better.

The knowledge and tools I walked away with from this program has impacted me in various aspects of my life. How I interact and communicate with my spouse, my child, and my clients has changed for the better.

I have been able to take all the tools/knowledge and repackage it for use within my small business of coaching dog owners how to have better relationship with their dogs.

April

Jade Mitchel

Jade Mitchel

I think every person and couple should need to do this.

Brilliant program, could not recommend enough, think every person amd couple should need to do this as part of their courtship or in your 20s learning to be an adult.

Jade Mitchel

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Whitney

Now more capable of withstanding and dealing with present and future difficulties together.

It works if you work it!

Through this program we have learned many new techniques and strategies that have helped us work together and feel connected in a way we weren’t able to do on our own during our marriage. The exercises are challenging and emotional at times but we have learned so much and are now more capable of withstanding and dealing with present and future difficulties together.

The short time commitment and affordable price of this program will provide a big reward from the fruits of your effort. Reach out for the help you need and give this program your best effort.

You will not regret it!

Whitney

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Tina Marsh

It has turned our marriage into a relationship of love, acceptance and joy.

We had tried marriage counselling before but nothing stuck. This program was delivered in the comfort of our own home, in our private emotional space and we could work at our own pace during the week.

It is hard work but if you want to improve your relationship I highly recommend working with this program.

Bruce teaches you the skills to make your relationship wonderful, but it is up to you to do the hard work. You will receive support during the course and beyond.

I could not recommend this program and Bruce highly enough. It has turned our marriage into a relationship of love, acceptance and joy.

Tina Marsh

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Anonymous

I was ready to walk out the door, until I came across this program.

The Love at First Fight has given me renewed hope in my relationship when I thought nothing more could be done and I had all but given up on my relationship.

I was ready to walk out the door, until I came across this program.

Thanks Bruce you may have just given me the tools I need to save my marriage. 

Anonymous

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Laura B.

We are now a team working together to heal our relationship and transform it.

Thank you for your work and this course! I’ve learned so much about myself and ways to express my needs and feelings, communicate and connect in meaningful ways with my partner.

I am sharing the knowledge and practice with my partner, and we are now able to have deep conversations, be emotionally present and honest, meet each other’s needs in a more connecting way.

I am so humbled by the experience; We are now a team working together to heal our relationship and transform it.

Laura B.

Dee Dixon

Dee Dixon

It really allowed us to take a step back and consider each other's feelings and how our responses to each other affected us.

This program was both insightful and provocative. It really allowed us to take a step back and consider each other’s feelings and how our responses to each other affected us.

We would definitely recommend this program to many of our friends.

Thanks Bruce! Boom shakalaka!!

Dee Dixon

Gary White

Gary White

I’ve been married for 44 years and I can tell you we are closer now than maybe ever before.

For anyone experiencing a “stale” relationship or have a need to overcome hurt feelings due to an infidelity, Bruce’s program (if followed) could be your saving grace.

I’ve been married for 44 years and I can tell you we are closer now than maybe ever before.

Not to mention our intimacy is at the level of 35 yr olds. 🙂

Thank you Bruce for all your wise and well put advice, giving me the marriage I’ve always yearned for!

Gary White

Michelle Todaro

Michelle Todaro

It has saved our 12 year marriage.

Completing Bruce’s Love at First Fight course has been a game changer for us it has saved our 12 year marriage and we will be forever thankful for your amazing knowledge and commitment to supporting us through this incredibly difficult time. 

We can’t believe how our relationship has turned around in just 7 weeks.

I think every couple should do this course regardless if it is in trouble or not the skills you learn you can apply to every relationship or friendship  you have. 

Thank you Bruce you are a gift from heaven. Xx

 

Michelle Todaro

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Steve O'Brien

I would recommend this course to anybody that wants to improve their life and their relationships.

I thought the course was great.  I really think it helped me to understand the inner workings of personal relationships which I have been sharing with others. 

I would recommend this course to anybody that wants to improve their life and their relationships.  For me it has deepened my understanding of both myself and my partner.

Steve O'Brien

Kelley Brandle

Kelley Brandle

I feel more seen, heard and understood by my husband than I have in a long while... A shift happened that has lightened and opened my heart. 

When my husband and I fought, I felt rage and hatred in my heart. I questioned whether we would make it much longer.  The anguish was unbearable. 

I found this course through a suggestion in a facebook group.  I signed up knowing we had nothing to lose.  The first few weeks were tough because I couldn’t imagine that we could shift out of the continual argument cycle we did so often.

But I feel more seen, heard and understood by my husband than I have in a long while. He understands his part in the arguments, and understands where I am coming from.  I understand him and his needs more as well.  We learned we never learned how to communicate properly and created a toxic environment for both of us.  When we learned this, a shift happened that has lightened and opened my heart. 

I am grateful we decided to say yes to this course. I am hopeful for the future.

Kelley Brandle

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Donna

Little did we know, that we would get sooooo much more in only 7 weeks, that we would never have gotten in years of traditional counseling.

I found Bruce Muzik after deciding to abandon traditional marriage counseling.

In traditional counseling, we spent a fortune over the course of just 3 months, only to find ourselves even more conflicted in the relationship and with no hope of making any progress on our own.

In fact, the therapist actually became to each of us, what he was supposed to be teaching us to become for each other. He taught us no tools, and shed very little light on what our source of conflict was.

When I listened to Bruce’s short series of videos on YouTube, I knew that Bruce had a way of thinking and offering his insight that showed me hope. I shared it with Mark, on the heels of both of us on the verge of abandoning the relationship. We both felt a sense of hope and decided to take the course.

Little did we know, that we would get sooooo much more in only 7 weeks, that we would never have gotten in years of traditional counseling.

Bruce’s course has been an amazing journey of personal and relational growth that included a lot of self-discovery, difficult “thruths” that were faced, and methods that we learned and utilized; giving us a basis from which we could make progress against our constant conflict.

Donna

Kim Lane

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This course turned the light on for us and has helped us improve our relationship.

This course has helped both of us understand each other and we realize how we got where we are through childhood trauma.

This course turned the light on for us and has helped us improve our relationship.

Thank you Bruce!

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David Cozens

David Cozens

We are able to talk about any difficult subjects without triggering each other.

The program is challenging, it requires work, but we put in the work and wow did it pay off!.

We now feel so connected and our relationship is going from strength to strength. We are able to talk about any difficult subjects without triggering each other. We have both grown so much as individuals and as a couple.

Thank you Bruce, saying you saved our relationship just doesn’t do it justice, you have saved it and set us on a course to bliss.

David Cozens

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Mikyla Limpkin

I wish I’d had this coaching when I was 20. It has changed my life.

I wish I’d had this coaching when I was 20. It has changed my life.

The bit of me that felt inadequate, incomplete and a relationship disaster, has been soothed and rebuilt. From now on I will be having the most amazing life I’d always secretly wanted but never felt I deserved.

I now know how to be the person I always felt I had the potential to be, with my partner there beside me, in the best ever, interdependent relationship.

I wish Bruce was teaching this to the whole world, particularly kids so they can avoid the pain I’ve experienced.

Mikyla Limpkin

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Michelle Bateman

Stop struggling to figure it out on your own.

This course was amazing and highly recommend it to anyone. Even if you have a great relationship you’ll gain so much awareness about yourself and each other it’s profound.

We love to learn and so this was exciting and I loved the concrete solutions and scripts to use in certain situations. Over time they will become more second nature.

I’ve taken a lot of personal development and much of what Bruce talks about I’d never heard before and it all made sooo much sense.

Stop struggling to figure it out on your own. We weren’t taught to understand ourselves, our past and our emotions much less our partners so this will help you be more connected to yourself and your partner!!

Thanks Bruce this was valuable!!

Michelle Bateman

Matthew McQuaid

Matthew McQuaid

My wife and I were on the verge of divorce.

My wife and I were on the verge of divorce. She had already decided to leave.

The program completely surprised my wife in it’s ability to restore loving connection. We both responded together, just as Bruce promised.

Thank you Bruce for helping us stay together!

Matthew McQuaid

Stacey Nagel

Stacey

It has saved our marriage.

We were headed for divorce until we signed up for the “Love at first fight” program. 

I am able to be more understanding now. We communicate better and have learned what triggers each other so we can make changes to prevent hurting each other.

It has saved our marriage and helped us to connect with each other.

Stacey

Julie Kennedy

Julie Kennedy

The program helped us immensely! 

 My husband and I found Bruce to be engaging, practical, and spot on with his descriptions of how relationships unravel and what techniques provide the scaffolding needed to jump in feet first and repair or refresh the relationship. 

Every person is treated with respect and Bruce passionately honors the process he offers people to uncover root problems and to use  his resources to make observable differences right away. 

He has the uncanny ability to strip away the surface issues and get to the heart of the matter in seconds!  He is reliable and dedicated to his practice and we found the program helped us immensely! 

Bruce keeps things real and encourages honest, reassuring communication that diffuses the heat and leads to harmony.

Julie Kennedy

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Rebecca Martin-Scott

Definately be working on a co-parenting relationship now rather than our marriage if we did not find you and this course.

Bruce, you are genuinely a relationship genius. Your advice and knowledge is invaluable. We would definately be working on a co-parenting relationship now rather than our marriage if we did not find you and this course.

I have learnt more things about myself and what I do to hinder and sabotage my healthy connections than I ever thought possible. I always blamed my husband, or it was always something someone else was doing to cause the reaction in me that they were getting and now I understand how to show my soft emotions and be vulnerable I can see how much I have to develop and be aware of in myself that contribute to the way my relationships are and have been in the past.

Thank you bruce.

For anyone wondering if this is a course for you, do it!! Even if your partner isnt willing, you will learn so much more about yourself that it will give you a boost in self-esteem, self confidence and self awareness that you never thought possible.

Keep doing what you do bruce because you are brilliant at it. Thank you so much again.

Rebecca Martin-Scott

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Chris

We are more connected now than ever before and we have been married for 33 years.

We are more connected now than ever before and we have been married for 33 years. We are fighting less and when we do have a disagreement we know better how to find out what the root cause of it is so we can solve it together instead of accusing one another like we used to

Love at first fight has really opened my eyes to just how important it is to get and keep connection with your partner and how everything else seems to fall in place once you achieve this.

This program is a lot of work but worth so worth it to anyone who wants to save their marriage.

Chris

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Kathie

Valuable lessons that I can apply in any relationship.

This program was really beneficial in spite of the fact that I am single.

I learned valuable lessons that I can apply in any relationship, and some that will come in handy if I ever fall in love again.

Kathie

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Mary Dellos

More insight into our marriage than anyone else over our 42 years of marriage.

Bruce is a relationship expert. He lives what he teaches & gave us more insight into our marriage than anyone else over our 42 years of marriage. He helped us discover root issues & then how to solve the problems.

This course is jam packed with revelations & helpful, meaningful tools. We grew to appreciate our strengths & growth areas.

Bruce speaks truth from his heart. We appreciated his own vulnerability & kindness.

It was excellent & we are hopeful for continued growth & healing in our marriage. We are grateful for what we have learned & excited to share with other couples.

Mary Dellos

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Aisha

Within the first 2 weeks I started to see changes.

I joined the course solo and was sceptical about how I alone could turn around my relationship which for 14 years was on the brink of breakdown.

We were both moving in opposite directions and just waiting to move on in our lives. I was desodorier something to change and need help desperately but never in a million years thought that in a short space of time I alone could turn things around so dramatically.

I whole heartedly thank Bruce for this course and tools he tought.

To be honest within the first 2 weeks I started to see changes as a result of implementing the tools and after discovering the reflective conversation tool my relationship changed dramatically!

We are now connected, in-love again, want to spend time with each other, started to actually open up without fear of being judged and if things start to get into an argument I have to tools to deesscilate.

We havnt had another full blown argument since I started the course.

Big Thank you Bruce credit is all to you! I believe being alone on the course was a benefit because I wasn’t relying on my husband to do his part!

Aisha

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Andrea

This programme goes deep.

Bruce’s programme is amazing. I still have a lot to work on, but now with the right tools, I’m planning to continue working on my own issues of opening up and making myself vulnerable in order to help us both better communicate.

This programme goes deep, and the way Bruce explains things is astounding and helps you look at things with a different mindset.

I still have a long way to go, but my husband has told me he’s proud of me for working on our relationship, and that means the world to me. So, thank you Bruce. You’re the best!

Andrea

Caroline Brett

Caroline Brett

I thought I already knew all there was to know about relationships...

This is a well designed course and the tools are effective. 

I thought I already knew all there was to know about relationships and that we had already tried everything, but this is better and more effective. 

I recommend you try it if you are feeling hopeless about your relationship having a future but you don’t want to break up if possible.

Caroline Brett

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Elise George

It worked way better than I expected.

The program is fantastic.

Given what I invested in this program, it worked way better than I expected. I am grateful that Bruce shared his wonderful insights and tools to navigate relationship challenges and have a more connected and rewarding relationship.

I highly recommend this program to all couples at any stage and to singles who want to be in a loving relationship.

Elise George

Emily Bell

Emily Bell

We feel more in love and connected than ever.

We loved Bruce’s easygoing, no nonsense approach to relationships. The way he shares his own experiences really breaks down barriers and encourages open communication.

Bruce is really good at simplifying things down and his great sense of humour keeps things interesting.

We loved doing this work together. It’s truly life changing. We feel more in love and connected than ever.

Emily Bell

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Amy Keeling

Now I see a glimmer of hope and possibility, where before I saw only despair and hopelessness.

I learnt so much about myself, my partner and relationships.

I feel as though this course has helped me learn how to love.

Now I see a glimmer of hope and possibility, where before I saw only despair and hopelessness.

Amy Keeling

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Anne-Marie

Well worth the effort, time, and money.

My husband and I highly recommend this program. We were initially a bit wary about its usefulness, but we followed it step by step.

Several tools have helped us significantly improve our conflict problem. We intend to practice the recommendations regularly and maybe get a refresher course at some point.

It is well worth the effort, time, and money.

Anne-Marie

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Heather Evans

Even though I was not in a relationship when I took this course...

Even though I was not in a relationship when I took this course, I found this course to be incredibly valuable in learning the Art of Relationship Intimacy. 

I feel less triggered now that I have a greater understanding of other people. I’m still not in a relationship, but I can’t wait to try out these tools with a partner.

Bruce is a master at coaching on relationships and intimacy and I feel confident in myself that I have the tools now to cultivate a deeply loving, intimate relationship.

Worth every penny and every minute!

 

Heather Evans

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Shurie Bocanegra

I personally think it should be taught in all High Schools!

It is a work in progress… but the program has helped us communicate our feelings better and share our needs. We are finally going on ‘fun’ dates – without the kids! (we used to only go out to dinner alone together for birthdays, holidays or our anniversary)!

The content is very easy to follow and use in ‘real life’. Bruce is very knowledgeable in relationships and communication.

The live calls were a great way to have specific questions answered and Bruce was always approachable and helpful.

I highly recommend this course and I personally think it should be taught in all High Schools!

Shurie Bocanegra

Chelsea Peil

Chelsea Peil

I took this class as a single person...

I took this class as a single person, but this class has altered my approach to healing, dating, and understanding my friends and my needs, wants, and requirements for the next relationship.

I would love to see this type of all in middle and high school, possibly combined with meditation and dance classes.

I highly recommend you learn these tools to take with you for the relationship you deserve and can and will co-create. – Chelsea Peil

Chelsea Peil

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Seth Rabovsky

It actually works.

It actually works. It’s a bit of a commitment but it works.

You want to fix what was once broken then sign up.

Bruce is not crazy, he knows his stuff.

Seth Rabovsky

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Debbie Nasarro

I am happier and enjoying life.

An excellent program for developing intimacy and love in a marriage. I have developed a greater love for my husband and that has flowed over to my other relationships.

I am happier and enjoying life.

We got busy when I was schedule to complete the program. I did it 3 months later and enjoyed still having access and reading some of the comments at the end of every week.

Debbie Nasarro

Caitlin Aguero

Caitlin Aguero

Helped us practice relating in a healthier way.

This program has taught us tools be more aware of ourselves and eachother and helped us practice relating in a healthier way.

Caitlin Aguero

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Maureen Lonero

We have hope for a happy future.

Thank you, Bruce, for this valuable program. We had tried marriage weekend and counseling. Your program gave us valuable information and tools that made a difference very quickly. And it was more affordable!!

We have hope for a happy future.  Thank you!

Maureen Lonero

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Mel Reizig

We have learnt so much and have so many new tools at our disposal.

Bruce is so down to earth and made us both feel comfortable and able to be vulnerable on the coaching calls. 

We have learnt so much and have so many new tools at our disposal to help us grow together again.

Thank you so much, Bruce!

Mel Reizig

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Julia G.

Join & see it for yourselves!

This is an amazing transformative program for couples wishing to improve their relationships!

Highly recommended for those, stuck in a rut and willing to work on their relationship to live a happier, more fulfilled life.

The program is full of fantastic insights, explained in a fun & engaging way!

Bruce is an absolutely brilliant coach – he will inspire you from the “get go”. Join & see it for yourselves!

Julia G.

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Laetitia

A fight that would have been on for days before are now arguments for couple of hours.

When your little voice inside feels lost and tells you “I don’t know what to do right now.” While fighting with your partner. Well Bruce knows.

His program gives you all the tools you needs to have a loving and peaceful relationship. You still need to put the work on.

Bruce doesn’t do that for you but will definitely do that with you. It works though. A fight that would have been on for days before are now arguments for couple of hours. Soon it will be no more I am sure of it.

Laetitia

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Samantha

My husband wouldn’t do the course but even doing it on my own has made a real difference.

I joined the course by myself when my 15 year marriage to my husband hit complete rock bottom. He was angry and blaming me for all our problems and I was just so sad and lonely.

Over the seven weeks of the course I have learnt how to communicate with my husband in a safe way. My husband wouldn’t do the course but even doing it on my own has made a real difference.

We are now talking again, we are kissing and we are hugging. He has now agreed to do the course with me.

Bruce has given me really practical tools and techniques which are already repairing my marriage. I felt completely desperate before I joined the course, feeling like my husband was about to leave me. Now I feel like I am not walking out blindly into the next stage of my marriage.

Bruce has given me so much hope for the future of my marriage.

Samantha

John Lonero

John Lonero

Our relationship improved very quickly.

This course was enlightening and thorough. Our relationship improved very quickly. We feel the tools we have gained will continue to help us through out our marriage.

Thank you Bruce for an amazing program that was convenient and affordable.

John Lonero

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Nicoletta

This course has transformed our relationship into one of loev and respect.

I am beyond grateful for Bruce and the course he has created.

Before this course, I was at a complete loss for how my husband and I could move forward witb our relationship. We were constantly disagreeing and very disconnected since having kids.

This course has transformed our relationship into one of loev and respect. It gives me so much hope for our diture ahead together.

Honestly, the information shared in this course is invaluable. There was not a sentence wasted. So many aha moments.

Thank you Bruce for sharing your wisdom and knowledge.

Nicoletta

Mark Sugden

Mark Sugden

This is a listen, act and DO program. Just Nike it "Just Do It"

Your program goes a long way in helping people to use the 4 Wise men effectively. How, When Where Why.

Wonderful program that will work if you are committed to a successful life long partnership. Commitment means you may have to drop some less important things in your life to make the time to do the relationship course effective.

In other words this is priority One. This is a listen, act and DO program. Just Nike it “Just Do It”

Mark Sugden

Brenda Pineo

Brenda Pineo

The entire course was an AHA moment for me.

The entire course was an AHA moment for me. It was not anything that I had expected it to be. But exactly what we needed.

I knew from the moment that I listened to the webinar that this was exactly what we needed after having 6 couples counselor’s in our 27 years together (celebrated our 25th wedding anniversary this year!)The only counseling that helped at all was the 6th one we had and then this program was the most helpful of all.

My husband and I are finally able to understand each other better and resolve conflicts faster. We are not completely there yet but things are so much better.

There is no way to describe the wealth of knowledge or information in this program. After going through six different counselors over the course of 27 years to improve our marriage and resolve conflicts, this program is what  has helped us do that.

In just seven weeks our marriage has improved immensely and we are excited and hopeful for what is in our future.

Thank you for everything  Bruce!

 

Brenda Pineo

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Melissa

This program is so amazing. I did this program as a single woman as I had recently separated from my partner.

My relationship with myself has changed. I have more awareness and a greater compassion and love and worth for myself. It’s ok to have needs and to express them. I’m so excited I have the tools to have a healthy, securely attached relationship with great connection and communication tools.

There is so much incredible wisdom and practical tools provided.

I wish I had the tools earlier. Bruce is also so lovely and wise. I recommend this program to everyone.

You learn priceless life lessons and practical tools that I hope everyone learns.

Melissa

Rachel and Neil Macdonald

Rachel and Neil Macdonald

...the only course we have committed to and completed together during our 22 year marriage.

Bruce’s programme exceeded our expectations, our relationship was at rock bottom and we had been stuck for a very long time.

Apart from raising the children, it is the only course we have committed to and completed together during our 22 year marriage.

Bruce helped us to rebuild our friendship, unpick behaviors and skill us up going forward.  The homework was exhausting but we stuck at it and thoroughly enjoyed the journey, thank you Bruce.

 

 

Rachel and Neil Macdonald

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Laura Bailey

If there is a misunderstanding, I can now stop & think instead of assuming the worst & walking away.

From the pre-worksheets to the final video, this course has given me a revolutionary insight into myself, my partner (as he did the course with me) & our relationship.

If there is a misunderstanding, I can now stop & think instead of assuming the worst & walking away.

We are stronger than ever & use elements from the course regularly. 

Laura Bailey

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D.

There was no hope, until I came across Bruce and immediately we were hopeful.

Having gone through a couple of marriage counsellors and failed, we were stuck on the what to do next.

Almost felt like there was no hope, until I came across Bruce and immediately we were hopeful.

The program has not only helped our relationship but the tools we have been provided with will help us with all relationships.

D.

Mitchell Jim

Mitchell Jim

Bless and enrich our union.

34 years into our 2nd marriage (we’re in our 70’s!), we were referred to this program. We discovered much about each other and ourselves that will bless and enrich our union.

I like to say, “Bruce has given us a new toolkit full of live tools for us to practice using.”

Mitchell Jim

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Chisom Adigo

My relationship changed from 30% to 98%

This program was worth it . I thought my marriage was unfixable until I joined Love At First Fight. At some point I said I would go for a divorce.

But the program saved my marriage and it is like we just got married again. My relationship changed from 30% to 98%.

My hubby never agreed to join until the 5th week, but to my greatest surprise when I shared all my homework and assignments – there was one assignment that you would never believe will work.

I can agree with Bruce when you say Connect first and then communicate later – it’s a good strategy.

Bruce I must say so many marriages need you at the moment. Please permit me to invite them. I was scared because I was feeling mine was different because I am African. But I don’t think it has to do with where you come from .

This strategy is an eye opener and has changed my home.

Chisom Adigo

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Angie & Gavin

Our relationship is greatly improved and we look forward to the journey together now.

Bruce knows his love! He is engaging, charismatic and makes the course fun. He is also direct (in a kind way), honest and inherently helpful. You really feel he wants the best for you and your relationship.

The course content is amazing! You learn not only about your relationship but also gain, a much deeper understanding of your part in the dynamics, a much better understanding of your partner and also yourself as an individual. The things you learn within the course can spill over beneficially into other relationships too.

This course packs a loving punch and we feel like better people for it. There were insights and ‘aha’s!’ every week. Our relationship is greatly improved and we look forward to the journey together now.

Angie & Gavin

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Star Bradbury

We have rediscovered  our lost passion again!

Bruce, your course delivered more than I could have even hoped for.

Honestly, our 34 year marriage is experiencing a true renaissance. While we had no major upsets or infidelities, we had lost our connection and joy.

We feel connected, we are feeling joyful even, and we have rediscovered  our lost passion again!

Your course has given us the tools to revitalize our relationship and move it to a much deeper level.

 

 

Star Bradbury

Natalie Wilke

Natalie

This program will provide as much personal growth and insight as it will relationship growth!

This program will provide as much personal growth and insight as it will relationship growth!

Bruce is extremely empathetic and knowledgeable and is easy to relate to – he feels more like a trustworthy friend than a coach.

Natalie

Teresa Hodecker

Teresa Hodecker

Personally your program uncovered what years of therapy I've been through has not been able to figure out.

Going through it solo while still married and ending the program closer to divorce, might seem like your program doesn’t work.

However, I didn’t go through the effort needed to save my marriage because that wasn’t the intention for me taking the course and I have since reached a point that I don’t want the marriage, to much regret and resentment that more the of us want to put in the time to work through.

But I do know that personally your program uncovered what years of therapy I’ve been through has not been able to figure out. As well as new found confidence in myself that will no doubt only get better.

I was also able to pinpoint various contributing factors that led to my upcoming divorce, and had we not waiting so long to get your help …. we could have easily turned things around, no doubt in my mind.

Teresa Hodecker

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Anonymous

I have felt a shift in my marriage and we are both happier as a result.

I am so thankful for the programme.

It has helped me gain insight about myself, my behaviours and what I bring to my marriage.

By doing so, I have felt a shift in my marriage and we are both happier as a result.

Its a wonderful programme, requires effort, but well worth it.

Anonymous

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Lisa Rose

The program provided me with healing in my heart and mind.

Love At First Fight is something I did as a single person. I wanted to work on myself to be ready to able and ready to have a healthy relationship with the right person in the future.

The program provided me with insight about myself within relationships. It also helped me to look at past relationships with a different perspective that provided healing in my heart and mind about them.

I believe that with practice, I will have a strong skill set to apply to my relationships with family, friends, and the relationship that will come into my future.

Lisa Rose

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Mary Ambrose

Even my therapist was asking what course I was taking.

I learned more about myself and my relationship dynamics in this class than any other course I’ve taken.

The material peels back the onion and goes deep.

I combined it with therapy and even my therapist was asking what course I was taking. She noticed how much reflection I was having on my relationship.

Mary Ambrose

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Jeanette Murphy

The course initiated some very intense, in-depth genuine conversations – probably more open and honest conversations in the last 7 weeks than we had over our 40 year relationship put together.

40 years together/ 1 year divorced.   We were both in a bad place with each other. 

Maybe it was meant to be – but I enrolled for the course, and through some very limited emailing, he said he was interested in doing it as well.

So we have completed this course in tandem, but have called on our experiences from when we were together.  We have been meeting weekly to complete the exercises as best we can, given that we are no longer together.

The course initiated some very intense, in-depth genuine conversations – probably more open and honest conversations in the last 7 weeks than we had over our 40 year relationship put together.

The tools provided have been instrumental in allowing us to communicate, connect and hear each other, probably for the first time in a very long time, if ever.

We have covered pretty much every subject and issue that was a relationship killer for us – and we also pondered on how much time and effort was wasted and lost across all those years. 

It has brought closure to a lot of issues that were bumps in the road for a long time, but which became insurmountable mountains by the end and caused the marriage to breakdown. 

Yesterday we even agreed that had we had these tools, and known how to use them, it could have probably saved our marriage. And we fantasized how good our time together could have been, and what our retirement now might have been like.  

I suggested a get-together with our grown children and everyone was keen.  It all fell into place very easily.   We all met up last weekend down in Byron Bay to see a favourite family band, and then spent the weekend together (a first since he and I separated nearly 5 years ago).  And it was lovely. 

Everyone commented on how harmonious and relaxed it all was – none of the angst they were used to. And I think I can speak for both of us, that it was very calm and enjoyable. 

We have both learned a lot about each other and about ourselves through the program, and I would like to thank you for having the insight to put this program together. 

The ability to communicate and connect should be incorporated into the schooling system to assist with the emotional development of young people.  

It is invaluable in being understood and understanding another person – be it in relationships/friendships or other.  And even more invaluable connecting.

 

Jeanette Murphy

Tony C.

Tony C.

Amazing how in just 7 weeks, my wife and I could achieve so much toward building a stronger, more intimate relationship.

It was amazing how in just 7 weeks, my wife and I could achieve so much toward building a stronger, more intimate relationship.

We have had a lot more intimate conversations and have taken time to get to know each other on a deeper level.  It’s helped us appreciate each other more and why we are the way we are…and how to work with each others’ personality a bit better.

Bruce has done a great job hand-selecting the right topics and organizing them in the most impactful manner that allowed us to build on each week.

 

Tony C.

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Lee Heffernan

I wish I had discovered this program a lot sooner!

If you are willing to trust Bruce and work the program, it will be life-changing for your relationship.

You will have a renewed sense of emotional connection, intimacy, and overall joy between you and your partner.  I wish I had discovered this program a lot sooner!

You need to charge more money.  Bruce, I would have paid a lot more for such a wonderful transformation with my partner!

Lee Heffernan

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Gabriela

I took it on my own I learned lots about myself.

I have enjoyed the program, it wasn’t too long and I learned lots of very useful tools and information.

Loved the coaching calls and I got tons of great advice just listening to them. I took it on my own I learned lots about myself. I keep slowly applying it in my relationship.

I can single-handedly change my relationship for the better.

Gabriela

Cindy Muro

Cindy Muro

It was great to have a booster shot in the arm for our relationship.

This is a great program if you are working on a relationship, or want to know yourself better in preparation for a future relationship. 

I highly recommend it for all humans in relationship with other humans if you want to have deep , delicious relationships. 

I have been married for 41 years and it was great to have a booster shot in the arm for our relationship.

Cindy.

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Michael Keleher

Michael Keleher

I honestly cannot recall ever being as happy as I am now.

I highly recommend this program to any couple whose relationship is in jeopardy, or who just want to be closer to each other, communicate effectively and learn strategies to navigate conflicts that will inevitably arise.

Bruce is an gifted mentor who spends real time with participants, listens carefully (using the techniques he teaches), and provides thoughtful, useful and specific advice. The program provides excellent value for the price, and was invaluable to me.

Communication is more honest, open, vulnerable and immediate. We understand ourselves, and each other, much better. Both of us are happier and less stressed. I honestly cannot recall ever being as happy as I am now.

Michael Keleher

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Michelle Matias

Way more helpful than all of the couples therapy we have ever done!

Way more helpful than all of the couples therapy we have ever done!

The course addresses actual problems and gives actual solutions that work in the real world instead of trying to give tools they think “should” work with an ideal partner in a perfect world that doesn’t exist.

Michelle Matias

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Laura

Relationship status update - 6 months after taking your course.

Dear Bruce,

I attended your relationship course in Oct-Nov 2021 (by myself), and I wanted to share with you a positive update: my boyfriend of 2 years proposed to me recently, on our anniversary day.
When I first reached out to you last year, I felt quite frustrated and helpless, thinking that our relationship might have no future. You made me realize my mistakes right from your first email response – and how I, alone, can turn things around, even without my boyfriends’ participation in the course. You were right. I followed your advice and I also read and applied “The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work” in John Gottman’s book. And it worked!
I wanted to thank you once again for all your advice and support – it has made a great difference in our relationship! Going forward, I will continue to apply the lessons learned and recommend your relationship course to others – because now I know, from my own experience, that they work.
With much appreciation,
Laura

Laura

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Laura

I learned so many things that I had never heard of through years of couples counseling!

This is a fantastic program!

I learned so many things that I had never heard of through years of couples counseling! These things made total sense and I feel the tools were able to help us build up a strong foundation again.

I learned a lot about both myself and my husband and it was all very eye opening!

Highly recommend this program for anyone having marriage struggles!

Laura

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Estela Sainz

In eight weeks he achieved what years of marriage counseling did not.

Bruce’s structured approach to communicating with your significant other will leave you feeling heard and understood.

In eight weeks he achieved what years of marriage counseling did not.

Bruce gets  right into the thick of it. No cliché solutions, no wasted time.

Estela Sainz

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Nicoletta Babbs

I believe, it should be taught at schools.

I found this thorough and highly entertaining program extremely educational for understanding and improving my relationships with others and self.

The constructive relational skills it teaches are deeply steeped in scientific research and are relevant not just to couples but in all contexts of human interactions.

It is so fundamental, I believe, it should be taught at schools.

Nicoletta Babbs

Sarah Cutting

Sarah Cutting

Our relationship was an absolute nightmare and on the brink of ending for good...

Thank you Bruce!

Our relationship was an absolute nightmare and on the brink of ending for good, with the inability to communicate safely, the love completely one sided, regular blow outs and extreme emotional pain, but finally thanks to your online program and guidance we are reconnected, happy and having fun together again and feeling very positive about our future together.

You have literally saved our relationship and no words can thank you enough for that!

Sarah Cutting

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Caitlin Marsh

Worth the investment in your marriage!

Bruce is a wealth of knowledge. He packages many psychological principles into one easy-to-follow guide.

The tools you will learn are extremely useful and the group dynamic allows for sharing of trial and error.

Worth the investment in your marriage!

Caitlin Marsh

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Gina

Better myself for not just in my marriage, but in life.

The Love at First Fight Program has helped me to better communicate with my husband and others.

It has made me realize things that I can work on to better myself for not just in my marriage, but in life. I truly believe that a couple going through this program may have success in their relationship.

Gina

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Anonymous

I will be growing for years to come...

Bruce brings so much passion and excitement to helping you grow your relationship. His desire to build up each individual into their most alive and fulfilled self and then bring them together is inspiring.

I will be growing for years to come from his wisdom and insights.

Anonymous

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Scott

Nothing brought us closer than Love at First Fight.

This course brought to me afresh understanding of myself and in sharing this with my Wife, then her sharing what she discovered about herself, lead us to understand both our selves and each other in a way that cannot be expressed without understating the worth.

We had the “blame game” being played to the fullest and it is being taken out.

Also the tools brought to us in this program brought us to communicating instead of talking at each other.

We’ve tried other courses for couples and even counselling, nothing brought us closer than Love at First Fight.

Scott

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Patti

I feel like this content should be part of our curriculum in the education systems it is that valuable.

In our years of struggles in our marriage we have gone to a marriage counselor, read several books etc., this course, by far, was the most valuable and provided real life tools to help in beginning to heal, grow and repair our relationship. 

We have tools to direct improved communication, we have shared more vulnerability in the last 8 weeks than we have in our 38 years together (35 married).

This truly is worth every penny and more.  I feel like this content should be part of our curriculum in the education systems it is that valuable.

Bruce has done a fantastic job with the right content, and how the program is laid out.  I can’t say enough about the program.

Patti

Gil Glastetter

Gil Glastetter

The program was a huge surprise.

The program was a huge surprise.

Learning about just how many other couples are experiencing the same things we have been going through.

Gil Glastetter

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Andrew

I've become more open and willing to engage on sensitive topics, feelings, and hurts.

I’ve become more open and willing to engage on sensitive topics, feelings, and hurts.  I’ve become more open to hers as well.

Bruce’s program is exceptional.  It’s enlightening, challenging, and well worth it! 

It is understandable and provides proven strategies to spur authentic communication and genuine connection.

Andrew

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Anonymous

The program helped us reconnect after 19 years of marriage.

The program helped us reconnect after 19 years of marriage.

Taking the time to talk and create intimacy was just what we needed. We learned skills needed to open communication back up again.

Anonymous

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Alessandra Farneti

How to grow personally and together in a healthy and happy relationship.

I really enjoyed to attend Bruce’s Program, very interesting, enlightening and useful to everyone wishing to know the dynamic of love and human relationships.

Whether in a relationship to improve it or preparing to start a new one with awareness and confidence, I think this Program gives all the tools and inputs on how to grow personally and together in a healthy and happy relationship.

Alessandra Farneti

Crayton and Rosalind Williams

Crayton and Rosalind Williams

We were angry with each other most days and did not know what to do... One of the BEST decisions we made in our marriage!

We do not have enough words to express how grateful we are for taking Bruce’s “Married At First Fight” coaching program.  His program has truly been a blessing and was much needed at the time we signed up. 

We were really struggling to just converse with each other over little or big topics. We were angry with each other most days and did not know what to do. 

I came across an advertisement of Bruce’s program and signed up.  I told my husband after I signed up and asked him if he would join me in attending. I know he was tired of the way we were communicating also and he agreed to participate.

One of the BEST decisions we made in our marriage! The tools, exercises and coaching provided to us by Bruce was phenomenal!

Thank you, thank you, thank you Bruce!

Crayton and Rosalind Williams

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Christina

I have learned more in these 7 weeks about how to talk to my partner than all 12 sessions with a private counselor...

I found this program to be so enlightening to my own behavior and understanding how my words and actions affect my partner.

The program showed me how changing my dynamic could improve my marriage, even without my partner participating. I have been obsessively reading, watching videos and trying to learn everything I could about relationships to save mine before finding this program.

Bruce puts all the research by leaders in the field into digestible chunks that would have saved me weeks of research, and what’s more is the research alone won’t fix your marriage. You need to learn how to apply it, this does that.

We previously had 12 sessions with a counselor and made no progress. I have learned more in these 7 weeks about how to talk to my partner than all 12 sessions with a private counselor and feel like I can still use these tools to move forward.

Christina

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Coleen Ashmore

I will definitely refer my friends to your program.

I will definitely refer my friends to your program, and use the tools I have learned in my day to day life, as well as any future relationship I may enter into.

Coleen Ashmore

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Anonymous

I would strongly recommend that people take Bruce's course. 

I have never been a believer in taking marriage counseling courses or seeing a marriage counselor, but I would strongly recommend that people take Bruce’s course. 

Bruce does a fantastic job explaining things with real life examples and really makes you feel comfortable about your own situation and teaches you some wonderful tools that can really make the difference.

Bruce’s philosophy of connecting first, then communicating after, is one example that I believe will make all the difference in a relationship.

Anonymous

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Ros

You have really opened my eyes to being vulnerable and expressing myself properly

Thank you so much for this course, Bruce!

You have really opened my eyes to being vulnerable and expressing myself properly in order to communicate more effectively with my partner about my wants and needs.

We now understand each other better and I hope we can grow closer with the tools you have taught us.

Ros

Adrienne Politowicz

Adrienne Politowicz

Repair, renew and reinvent your relationship with yourself and your partner.

I highly recommend Bruce and his Love at First Fight course for anyone who is looking for personal growth both individually and in relationships and to better understand why we keep repeating the same destructive pattens.

The course provides an opportunity to learn about yourself, your partner and how to better connect, communicate, understand our childhood wounds and how they present themselves as raw spots in our relationships as well as identify the cycles we get caught in and how to approach conflict differently; turn towards each other.

It is a lot of work but if you make the commitment to yourself and your relationship, Bruce gives you all the tools to repair, renew and reinvent your relationship with yourself and your partner.

Adrienne Politowicz

Sally Young

Sally Young

We feel closer, more loving, more understood and more connected and are looking forward to where this journey will take us.

This program unlocks all the components needed to have a healthy inspired  evolving marriage with topics on connection, communication, individual needs, teamwork and sex.

It has given us so many tools to navigate situations where we had felt stuck and frustrated.

We feel closer, more loving, more understood and more connected and are looking forward to where this journey will take us.

Sally Young

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Jacinta

A brilliant course that has transformed our relationship.

A brilliant course that has transformed our relationship. We feel so lucky to have come across this program.

It is 1000% times better. We are so much happier and communicating so well.

The best money we have spent and way more effective than coupled counselling as it quickly gets to the root cause of issues.

 

Jacinta

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Kailyn P

I am changing the way that I react to situations

I was pleasantly surprised at the amount of information that the Love at First Fight program offers.

Although my partner was unwilling to participate with me, my relationship has still benefited from the work I have put in.

I have found that I am changing the way that I react to situations because I have more tools and understanding than I did before.

I am definitely glad that I made this investment in my relationship, and ultimately, in my self.

Kailyn P

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Megan King

Together we fell more in love and felt more connected. 

The Love at First Fight program has been a game changer for us. Through the daily connection rituals and doing the weekly exercises together we fell more in love and felt more connected. 

This program brings forward alot of self awareness and relationship patterns the good and the ugly. I believe it is worth the time and reminds you that your relationship is the number 1 priority.

Megan King

AshleyMike

Ashley Kibby

My husband and I are both experiencing greater intimacy and feelings of affection for each other.

Bruce is a relationship guru!

We learned so much useful information about attachment and personality styles which helped us understand each other better. We also learned invaluable tools for resolving conflict in a safe and respectful way, as well as getting to the bottom of the raw spots driving repeating conflict.

We walked away from the workshop with a whole toolbox ranging from step-by-step communication strategies to personality inventories.

My husband and I are both experiencing greater intimacy and feelings of affection for each other.

Ashley Kibby

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Dana

Whether we work it out or not I’m still thankful I did this

The program is really full of incite.  I gathered many tools and uncovered many things about my part in my marriage. 

My wife was unwilling to accompany me on this learning journey for now; however I hope she’ll one day change her mind. 

Whether we work it out or not I’m still thankful I did this; I truly did learn a lot that I will utilize in numerous types of relationships going forward.

Dana

Ian Stevenson

Ian Stevenson

Useful course to any couple who genuinely wishes to improve their relationship

Bruce is very professional, patient, likeable and significantly experienced in this field. He showed a real empathy and built trust by using his own experiences. 

Recommend this very methodical structured and useful course to any couple who genuinely wishes to improve their relationship

Thank you for all your support and words of wisdom.

Ian Stevenson

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Sumi Anirudhan

I find peace through this course, peace with myself and others around me.

I was skeptical of the course at the start. But as each week passed, I learned simple but strong skills to connect, commjnicate and use silence where needed. 

The connecting ritual is such a core and base of it. 

Bruce has gone through various areas and the psychology behind why we are the way we are” was eye opening. 

I find peace through this course, peace with myself and others around me. 

Will recommend to everyone regardless they have struggle or not. This can be a gift given for Wedding.

Sumi Anirudhan

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Rebecca Newell

SO many gold nuggets in this program

I went into this by myself, I’m part of long distance relationship, very skeptical. But from the first emails of the prep work I had hope. 

Not just for the relationship (I wasn’t convinced we would make it) but for myself as a person who never learnt these vital skills. 

Regardless of how our relationship unfolds, the skills I’ve learnt have been able to be transferred in all my relationship, kids, colleagues, work, family. 

SO many gold nuggets in this program and Bruce is such an amazing man. 

Thank you!

Rebecca Newell

Ashley Schneider

Ashley Schneider

The whole program teaches you how to deepen and repair that connection

Bruce gives the best advice up front and for free.

The key thing you need to help your relationship, is to connect first, and communicate later.

The whole program teaches you how to deepen and repair that connection so that you can communicate.

And what couple doesn’t need exactly that!

Ashley Schneider

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Paola and Nick

An eye opener.

We loved the program and the conversations it triggered.

It also was an eye opener for things we each have to work on.

Paola and Nick

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Kylie

We are arguing a lot less and enjoying a renewed feeling of love and team work. 

Bruce’s program has been a game changer for our relationship.

We have learnt a lot about ourselves and each other. We are arguing a lot less and enjoying a renewed feeling of love and team work. 

Thank you so much for the work you have put into this course and your commitment to helping people improve their lives together. 

Thanks Kylie & Grant

Kylie

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Stefan

Worth every grain of money and effort.

You need to invest a lot of time and energy, but if you’re both committed it’s worth every grain of money and effort.

Stefan

Timothy Atkins

Timothy Atkins

Love at First Fight program was a game-changer for us!

Bruce Muzik’s Love at First Fight program was a game-changer for us! Our marriage of 8 years had stalled and we needed some intervention that was fast but thorough. 

This delightful process helped us build the foundation that we didn’t even know we were missing, and provided us enduring communication skills, a positive vision for our relationship, and a pathway to growing together as a couple into the future.

We collaborate more now to make family decisions which has the added benefit of preventing unnecessary friction at a later date. We are both happier and in a better state of mind.

Thanks for all the coaching and wonderful instruction, Bruce!

Timothy Atkins

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Sveinn Kjartansson

Navigate the land mine field of past trauma and miscommunications.

This course has been instrumental in helping to navigate the land mine field of past trauma and miscommunications.

It has given us tools to help reach a softer connection which helps avoid harsh words and fighting attitudes.

Sveinn Kjartansson

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Claire Naylor

A more harmonious existence with less conflict.

I was skeptical about signing up for the online course, I wasn’t sure it would be worth the money or if it would be a load of rubbish.

I’m truly glad to have taken a leap of faith after checking out the work Bruce does.

The course was informative and provided lots of insights into how the dynamics of relationships work, and lessons in how to improve skills and fine tune the way I communicate in my relationship.

I’d highly recommend this coaching to anyone who wants to become more in tune with their partner for a more harmonious existence with less conflict.

Claire Naylor

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Jennifer

By week 6 of the program, my husband built a king mattress frame and bought us a new king mattress.

Before the Love at First Fight Program, we were sleeping on separate twin mattresses on the floor. One morning Bruce’s ad popped up on my Facebook feed and it spoke to me. 

We weren’t sure what to expect and my husband was a little skeptical. However, by week 6 of the program, my husband built a king mattress frame and bought us a new king mattress.

The program requires work, commitment, and an open mind. However, I feel that my husband and I are equipped with tools to help us move forward.

We still have work to do, but a good foundation has been laid. I feel more in love and connected with my husband.

Jennifer

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Lynne Duquette

Just as worthwhile to complete on your own if your spouse is unwilling.

The delivery of the course afforded multiple ways to learn and participate.

As the course says, it is great to do with your partner, however it is just as worthwhile to complete on your own if your spouse is unwilling.

The techniques you will learn will enable  you to improve your relationship regardless of your partner’s participation.

Glad I took a chance on this course. It was money well spent!

Lynne Duquette

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Yvette

Fight the misunderstanding rather than one another.

Thank you Bruce for your sense of humor and honesty as you addressed various relationship dynamic issues and challenges.

Loved the analogy of dancing with your partner and standing on sore toes; and the reminder to fight the misunderstanding rather than one another.

Yvette

Miranda

Miranda

The program really gave me  excellent insights on why I do certain things a certain way.

The program really gave me  excellent insights on why I do certain things a certain way and why my partner does things a certain way, especially when it comes to attachment styles.

Bruce is wonderful, very knowledgeable and approachable.

I would highly recommend this program to anyone who wants to learn more about how to make relationships work and what the pitfalls are!!!

Miranda

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Antionette Taylor

THIS ENTIRE PROGRAM WAS A MIND BLOWN AHA MOMENT!...This will not only affect us but our kids!

THIS ENTIRE PROGRAM WAS A MIND BLOWN AHA MOMENT! Finally bring the tools to build a healthy relationship was such a huge eye awaken thing.

This program helped us (unhealthy couple) get the actual blue print to what a healthy relationship would actually look like and the work we needed to do!

Thank god for this program so long we were stuck in limbo not knowing where to start or what different thing we needed to do after being aware that we were doing relationships wrong due to what was modeled to us as we grew up.

And this program was THE PLACE TO START! I feel like this will not only affect us but our kids! thank you Bruce for giving us a  safe place to land with mentoring calls and also to help us get through the power struggle!

Antionette Taylor

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Kelly Grant

This was our last shot.

We were at a crisis point in our marriage and this was our last shot.

Being vulnerable is scary but without it we had nothing, so be uncomfortable, share your inner thoughts and feelings because if you don’t your relationship is not going to start to repair.

We have learnt so much and are feeling so lucky to have come across this at the perfect time, it saved our marriage.

Thank you so much.

Kelly Grant

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Sophie MacDonald

My partner and I have gotten to know each other way more in the course of the 8 weeks that the 5 year we have been together.

Before we took this course, I thought our relationship was going okay, we would fight from time to time and I would sometimes just ignore that I was not getting my needs met.

During this course, I feel my partner and I have gotten to know each other way more in the course of the 8 weeks that the 5 year we have been together.

I now feel much calmer approaching a disagreement and I know that I can say ‘lets have a reflective conversation’ without feeling any negative emotions. We also go to bed saying ‘I love you’ rather than hanging up the phone while still angry.

I know how he would like to be talked to and how to handle situations when they become difficult.

Sophie MacDonald

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Mike Kassin

Everyone on earth should go through the course.

So many great knowledge points on the in and outs of relationships. 

Everyone on earth should go through the course.

Mike Kassin

Chrissy Levett & Barlow

Chrissy Levett

Well worth the time and investment.

Bruce’s course was a game changer for us, it helped us navigate a really tricky time in our relationship.

We can’t recommend enough well worth the time and investment.

Chrissy Levett

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Barlow

We fell in love all over again.

Bruce is a master of his craft – we learnt some amazing techniques that we will carry with us for the rest of our lives.

It’s not for the faint hearted, but if you put in the work it can be utterly transformative.

We fell in love all over again.

Barlow

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Brenda

Elevating my experience as a human.

This course has been a huge help for me in learning a new communication style for all relationships in my life, personal and professional. 

Bruce is a very caring, compassionate teacher who helps you understand different perspectives to your current communication style. 

The weekly live calls are a wonderful way to ask questions about the lessons from the week, learn from others experiences and get to talk with Bruce about how to approach situations in your own life that you may not know how to appropriately approach with confidence and still allow for a safe place for your partner’s sharing of their persepective. 

I have learned a lot about conflict resolution and why it is so important to connect emotionally before you learn how to communicate using words with your partner. I would highly recommended this course.

Each week, I feel like I understand the lessons on a different and more profound level. It is elevating my experience as a human and I, thank you so much for that, Bruce.

Brenda

Carmelo Paoa

Carmelo Paoa

I have learnt how to love and show empathy in a way that my spouse understands.

Doing the course has enabled me to learn a lot more about myself and my spouse.

Has given us more stability in our relationship with less propensity to be at each other’s throat.

I have learnt how to love and show empathy in a way that my spouse understands.

Carmelo Paoa

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Wendy Tuckett

Bruce's information, resources and sessions shed a lot of light.

As a person in the final stages of divorce when I embarked on the program, sex has always been a source of confusion.

Bruce’s information, resources and sessions shed a lot of light in this area for me and put into perspective male and female dynamics and I look forward to maybe one day in the future meeting a person that I can build a healthy, respectful, joyful, loving relationship with, much better equipped with the tools to be successful next time. 

Thank you Bruce

Wendy Tuckett

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Wilma Pike

My husband and I feel we are not only surviving but also and more importantly flourishing safely and lovingly.

I find Bruce’s coaching program very transformational and healing!

He provides very relevant content and practical tools we can readily grab for self-help. His approach and methodologies as a coach are empowering and enabling that stem from a place of love, authenticity and compassion. He models transparency, healthy boundaries and empowering vulnerability.

With him as your coach, my husband and I feel we are not only surviving but also and more importantly flourishing safely and lovingly.

My husband and I are grateful by how Bruce has helped us shift and move from the power struggle stage to the commitment and Bliss stages in our relationship.

Huge thanks  Bruce!!! I see abundance of clients and love coming to you!

Wilma Pike

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Niki Koutsouridis

Absolutely eye opening.

Bruce’s course has been absolutely eye opening– his wisdom and coaching tools has been invaluable!

I’ve learnt so much about myself and my partner which is a treasure we will keep for life.

Thank you so much Bruce, cannot thank you enough!

Niki

Niki Koutsouridis

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Krista Hawkins

Thoroughly enjoyed every second of this coaching program.

I love the program, and if used fully, and the issues are talked through and applied as we are taught.

If you are open and honest and address your issues and understand and listen. This will work.

I have thoroughly enjoyed every second of this coaching program and would recommend it to everyone.

Krista Hawkins

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Harry

I am able to recognize the fighting patterns that keep happening and slow them down so that they don't get out of control.

We have been in a fighting relationship for many years now and have tried marriage counselling a couple of times and have read many books on the subject .

Nothing really worked or resonated with me until my wife found Bruce’s Love at First Fight 7 week program.

I have now finished the 7 weeks and I have discovered so much about myself and my partner. The 7 weeks are well structured and include exercises which that slow down the fighting and prepare you with a vision for a future that is full of love, adventure and good times. 

I am able to recognise the fighting patterns that keep happening and slow them down so that they don’t get out of control. I am not walking away from conflict like I had been. Work in progress still.

Thanks Bruce, Cheers Harry.

Harry

Stephen Pike

Stephen Pike

We both grew individually and more importantly as a couple.

We came to this program not knowing what our goal was other than to strengthen and solidify our young marriage. We found so much more.

We both found and uncovered old wounds and opened them up for healing.

Bruce has a gift of being able to mix knowledge and humor so you feel comfortable enough to open up and be vulnerable.

We both grew individually and more importantly as a couple.

Thank you Bruce!

Stephen Pike

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Riga Maree

I now believe that we can have a loving fulfilling relationship that will last.

Bruce this is without doubt the best program I have ever done, and I have done quite a few personal development course over the last 25 years.

It is the first program my partner has  ever willingly agreed to do, and that is not from lack of options being presented. I hope he shares what inspired him to choose to do your program, because so many couples would really benefit from doing your program.

The structure, flow and lessons work really well.  As you say, you get out of it, what you put in.  We went all in.

Thanks so so much Bruce.  We desperately needed help.

My partner and I tried 3 different counsellors and self help books but weren’t making progress. Thankfully we found, your “Love At First Fight” course, and it has been the best thing we have ever done for our relationship.  

I now believe that we can have a loving fulfilling relationship that will last.

Riga Maree

Jenny Schlee

​​Jenny Schlee

We are better able to communicate and be heard!

I love how comprehensive this program is, with many layers, digging deeper into things after building a solid foundation.

I LOVED the coaching calls, and how grounded Bruce is with all of his feedback. It was all a total pleasure.

We have regained some trust, are better differentiated, as well as closer, and better able to communicate and be heard!

This is an amazingly helpful program for navigating relational difficulty, no matter how long you have been in relationship. Bruce has decades of experience, is very articulate, and insightful, and he packs in a ton of great information, resources, videos, audios etc.

I cannot recommend his work enough!!!

​​Jenny Schlee

Denni Mobbs

Denni Mobbs

A place where love can be rediscovered with their partner.

There is something very beautiful and profound about observing someone who exhibits mastery in any medium. Bruce Muzik is such a person.

During the course I was often struck by Bruce’s mastery in the realm of relationship.

His depth and years of study, coupled with a passion, curiosity and humility, create a rich experience wherein he gently and firmly guides couples back to their essential loving nature; a place where love can be rediscovered with their partner.

Bruce is a gift!

Denni Mobbs

Zaneta Petrekova

Zaneta Petrekova

My partner and I understand each other more.

I’d recommend Bruce’s relationship course to anyone who struggle to communicate and lacking intimacy in their relationship.

He has a very good understanding of most relationship problems you can think of. He has a capability to explain difficult situations in simple language and teaches very helpful tools to identify the issues and resolved them.

My partner and I understand each other more than before and this course enabled us to learn our inner feelings to communicate better.

Zaneta Petrekova

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Jill

THIS is everything any couple needs to get back on track.

Bruce Muzik was literally a Godsend in our lives. We were struggling so badly before doing this course, we have seen SO many second grade counsellors spent so much money, but THIS is everything any couple needs to get back on track, or be given as a wedding gift.

We are even going to do it  again as we want to solidify all this amazing teaching, thank you Bruce for all that you do at such an affordable price , you are saving families. Don’t ever stop.

Jill

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Yvonne

Starting to let things go and forgive.

We couldn’t speak more highly about this program.  We were hooked right at the promotional videos and every step of the program was well thought out, full of ‘AHA’ moments and tons of extremely useful tips and tools. 

Both of us weren’t sure how to stay together.  Things were very volatile and there was so much hurt and anger between us.

We’re getting better at fighting and communicating.  There’s a lot more love and understanding between us.  Starting to let things go and forgive.  Still have a long way to go.  But that’s a start.

Post program, we are left feeling hopeful and prepared to keep our relationship healthy and thriving.

Yvonne

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Yvette

Bruce was amazing.

Bruce was amazing. He was open to questions and had a listening ear.

I can honestly say if the outcome you are looking for in your relationship doesn’t work after this class then it’s not Bruce’s fault.

You have to follow the plan throughout as instructed.

Yvette

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Barbara Wooding

I am crying writing this...

I would highly recommend this program even when you think there is nothing that can be done. I started this program for myself believing my marriage was over there was hardly any and sometimes for days no communication, we were living apart.

To now talking everyday, laughing having fun (I am crying writing this) the changes is far more than I ever imagined. Its still early days and still lots of work to do.

If you are at a loss with little or no hope, this program is for you. It helped me to see through my behavior (and my partners behavior) into why we do what we do!

We have now established a connection I never thought possible.

Barbara Wooding

Tanvi Kothari

Tanvi Kothari

My husband and I have been able to resolve all our issues.

I would highly recommend this program to anyone dealing with relationship issues. My husband and I have been able to resolve all our issues through this wonderful inspiring program and with Bruce as our mentor on the calls.

The course is super thorough and fun! Our conflicts have resolved and we feel happier and calmer.

Bruce is an amazing life coach and mentor and I would highly recommend to have sessions with him. He is super inspiring!

Tanvi Kothari

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Cynthia

I want to go through this again, and then again...

I have learned more about myself and how relate in romantic relationships.

If you are a Single not in a relationship, this  program will give you a good foundation for your future romantic relationship.   I have suggested this program to every couple that I know that mentions that they want to improve their marriage.

I’m glad I purchased Lifetime access.  I want to go through this again, and then again when I get into a romantic relationship.

Cynthia

Annie

Annie

By far the best I've run across in my life. 

Bruce’s unique & affordable  Coaching Program is by far the best I’ve run across in my life. 

His teachings are valuable, insightful, interesting & fun. 

I highly recommend it to all couples.

It would save so much heartache for couples, individuals & families–and make a significant positive lifetime change for all.   

Annie

Annie

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Darlene

We are way more connected than I thought we could be.

I was not being honest about my emotions as I attacked my husband.  I wanted him to understand my need for me, I think, or be understood by him.  I did not realize I was attacking him. 

What this program has done for me is to give me lots of ideas of what and how to work on them.  Relationships are important and doing them well matters to me.

We are way more connected than I thought we could be.  The connection does lead to communication, not the other way around! If I could have known this way sooner, my basic need of connection could have been being met all along.  

I loved the detailed instructions of so many relational topics.  I loved the ability to be in a group not interconnected in life, to feel safe to ask questions.  I loved how you coached on the calls-an excellent deal!!!  I learned so much hearing you coach the other couples and individuals.  That was great.  Thank you (and them).

The live coaching calls after we studied and worked were so great!!!

Thank you for sharing your wealth of information that you have gathered.  I do believe I got more out of this than we would have with equal number of weeks in a counseling situation.  You shared so much information.  Such helpful info.  I hope to slowly go back through the material.

Thank you!

Darlene

Tony Castillo-and-Alma

Tony Castillo

Optimize where you are with your partner.

Bruce has gathered much useful information about relationship dynamics and personality types and how they clash and compliment each other and how to optimize where you are with your partner and how you can improve and strengthen your relationships.

Tony Castillo

Ruth and Rick

Ruth and Rick

We are so much more confident about our future!

As a result of doing Bruce’s program together we are happier in our relationship, we argue less and we are so much more confident about our future!

Ruth and Rick

Fern Vanderklok

Fern Vanderklok

I’ve honestly fallen in love again

Bruce has tied into a secret of how to reconnect with each other . 

Counseling is a good thing but wears off quickly ,this course is so different ,it has you reconnecting and communicating again.

I’ve honestly fallen in love again, highly recommend

Fern Vanderklok

Michele & Erik Indzonka

Michelle

We really feel we are back to being teammates rather than bickering buddies!

We were in a power struggle phase we didn’t know existed and needed some help to get out of the cycle.

Thank you so much Bruce for explaining that this is a totally normal part in a relationship and showing us how to reconnect and communicate with each other again.

We really feel we are back to being teammates rather than bickering buddies!

Michelle

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Monique

There is so much wonderful information in this course I'm sorry it has to end.

This is a wonderful program that all couples should do whether or not they are having issues.

The communication tools, attachment styles and information on how to have the most fulfilling sex is valuable information that everyone needs.

There is so much wonderful information in this course I’m sorry it has to end.

The mentoring calls were great for additional training and to listen to others in the group and know you are not alone on the journey.

Monique

Kimberly & Brian Leszczynski

Kimberly

Practical steps to communicate more lovingly and to soothe my husband.

Since starting Bruce’s program, my husband would threaten divorce with each disagreement. 

This course taught me practical steps to communicate more lovingly and to soothe my husband when he’s upset and the reasoning/theory behind them.

Kimberly

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Shivonne

I cannot adequately convey how powerfully transformative these seven weeks have been for me

If you’re not currently in a relationship, this program is still FANTASTIC.

If you’re hungry and ready to take your knowledge of how to be an exceptional partner to a whole new level, if you’re willing to really look at what your role has been so that you can do things differently in the future, check this out.

Honestly, I don’t think Bruce’s free videos do justice to the immensity of what he will offer you in this program and the skill with which he will synthesize and present it.

This program is so incredibly more than what you can access for free. It is well, well worth the price.

I cannot adequately convey how powerfully transformative these seven weeks have been for me and might be for you.

Bruce, you’ve done a brilliant job.

A huge Thank You for what you’ve done for me and what you’re doing for all of us. Your gift for understanding, connecting and relaying all of this vital information so many of us haven’t learned, and your exceptional capacity for compassionate listening and guidance, in addition to your teaching, and coupled with your enthusiasm, support and passion–so grateful you’re doing the work you are!

Shivonne

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Becky

We found hope again.

Although we have not done couples counseling, I can understand how this program would be much more worthwhile.

Rather than hashing out all the “things”  you gain perspective and insight to help better understand your partner as well as yourself and  you gain valuable tools to help stop the same ugly cycles.

I highly recommend every couple doing this program.

Thank you Bruce for pouring in to those who feel there is no more hope for their relationship. We found hope again.

Becky

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Heidi McGuire

Absolutely improved our marriage — even in areas we hadn’t realized could be better!

LAFF is a phenomenal course!

It’s Multi-faceted approach (worksheets, video and live instruction, personal coaching) absolutely improved our marriageeven in areas we hadn’t realized  could be better!   It taught me life-skills that I wish I’d learned long ago — for us personally but also for others. 

I repeatedly marveled at how masterfully you pulled no punches but were always kind, allowing both parties to feel heard, validated and supported. Was helpful to us of course, but was also really cool to watch you do it w others too.

Thanks Bruce! Awesome course.

You are stellar at what you do and how you communicate. So glad I found you.

Thank you.

Heidi McGuire

Chuck Knuth

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The insights and skills we learned made us closer and more trusting.

Bruce helped us see our relationship clearly and take responsibility for making it work, to a large extent by helping us each be better people.

The insights and skills we learned made us closer and more trusting, as well as enhancing our relationships with others.

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Steven

I feel more competent and able to know what kind of relationship I am looking for.

Hey, Bruce. I’m so glad I put my trust in you to help me accelerate my growth in relationship.

As you know, I’m a divorced dad of two kiddos who wants to transform the way I do relationships that has been misinformed in many areas – until now!!!

I feel more competent and able to know what kind of relationship I am looking for, and having a solid toolbox to work from to build it.

Much gratitude and thanks for helping me straighten myself out and get even better equipped!

My best, Steve.

Steven

Matt Aldridge

Matt Aldridge

We communicate much better now and feel so much closer

My girlfriend and I were at a breaking point in our relationship, and had briefly broken up before getting back together and deciding to work on things. 

She was pretty adamant about trying couples therapy, and I was very opposed to that idea due to previous bad experiences in therapy with an ex. 

I had been listening to some of Bruce’s work and getting his emails after finding him through some searching while we were having issues.  I recommended this program as kind of a compromise between therapy and just working on things ourselves. 

I’m so glad we decided to do this. 

The videos and homework are deep and insightful, and we learned so much about ourselves and each other. 

We communicate much better now and feel so much closer by going through this program. 

This was so much better than traditional couples therapy, and I couldn’t recommend this more for anyone having any kind of struggles in their relationship.

Matt Aldridge

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Jami & Brandy

Transformed our relationship in just 8 weeks! 

My girlfriend and I we’re in couples counseling for almost a year when we discovered Bruce’s program. 

His interpretation and unique implementation of tons of relationship guru advice has transformed our relationship in just 8 weeks! 

It’s a rigorous coaching schedule, but if you commit to it, it will be the best investment you’ve ever made!

Jami & Brandy

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Logan Schmeikal

This course should be mandatory for anyone getting married.

Hello Bruce,

I want to thank you for the tools that you have provided through out this course.

Me and Kali were on the brink of ending our relationship. I know that if I can keep up these positive ways of listening and communication , that our relationship can progress out of the power struggle stage.

We have been in this struggle for MANY years.

Also I have a lot of bad habits, this course helped me to remove and replace with good habits. I know this has helped my wife kali as well.

In my option as I feel this course should be mandatory for anyone getting married. Also before any legal seperation.

This world is full of the disposable mentality, this course is remedy for that thought process.

Logan Schmeikal

Alicia Wood

Alicia Wood

Cannot stop telling our friends about it! 

We just finished the Love at First Fight course and seriously cannot stop telling our friends about it! 

We have admittedly only made it through the first 3 weeks of the 6 and have already been able to implement the tools in those weeks with more success than I ever thought we’d be able to!

We were both discouraged and had tried so hard to fix certain patterns, but never seemed to have the tools to fix them (even after years of individual and couples therapy). 

The tools/exercises are awesome because it keeps the focus on what I can do to help my relationship instead of blaming my partner. 

Overall I would recommend this course 10/10!

P.S. Some of these tools (reflective listening) have already started helping me heal other strained relationships with different family members so that’s been very exciting as well!

Alicia Wood

Barbara Berman

Barbara Berman

This was the best money I have ever spent.

Bruce Muzik is incredible as a relationship coach.

The course was v structured with lots of homework and a 2 hour group call.

It took me about 5 hours per week or more.

I learned so much about myself and relationships.

This was the best money I have ever spent.

Barbara Berman

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Kerry Stuhlmuller

This course is one of the best courses I've been enrolled in.

This course is one of the best courses I’ve been enrolled in

You being so vulnerable has me trusting you and your process! 

I wasn’t sure at first since even being a Hailstorm, I am not a group sharer or participant – I prefer to talk one-on-one with people.  But, I really felt safe and bonded with you and the other participants by the way you have the course setup for the weekly sessions.  

I really got a lot out of the other participants’ shares and your shares, too!

Kerry Stuhlmuller

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Ben Fritz

I would even recommend that for every couple on this planet to be a relationship kick-off course

Thank you Bruce for this wonderful course and bringing light in the darkness of this ever so mysterious matter of having a beautiful love relationship.

You bring together the insights, knowledge and skills of the top notch professional relationship psychologist, spiritual leaders and other relationship, communication and negotiation professionals in the world to make this accessible for us in a single course.

The course is so full of the most valuable information that I would even recommend that for every couple on this planet to be a relationship kick-off course to convert all the unnecessary pain in most of the relationships and marriages into thriving insights to be able to reach interdependence consistently.

In the end for a better humanity.

Ben Fritz

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Matt Baechle

The best investment in myself I have ever made. 

I’ve purchased and participated in at least a half dozen relationship courses and Bruce’s program is the best investment in myself I have ever made. 

It’s the perfect balance of science, empathy and authenticity.

Matt Baechle

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Sheri-Ann

Fill in the missing pieces to any relationship.

Basically it will change your life and fill in the missing pieces to any relationship.

I don’t think I really knew what it took to be in a relationship until I took this course. 

It’s not as if I was being ignorant I just didn’t know that what I didn’t know what key to my marriage being more of a success and to us being friends again.

For the first time this week I feel my husband and I have connected. It feels so good because it’s real as the result of hard work from each of us. 

We wouldn’t have been able to get here without your tools.  You have helped us a great deal so far and I can’t wait to learn even more.

Thank you so much from me for helping us get to where we are today.  

I look forward to learning more.

Sheri-Ann

Sam and Liesl

Liesl Viljoen

You get immediate results when you apply what you learn.

Just do this course!

You will learn skills that you can apply to every relationship in our life. Not just your romantic relationship.

It is one of the best courses I have ever done – practical and you get immediate results when you apply what you learn.

It’s worth every dollar spent! Just do it!

Liesl Viljoen

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Kathy L Fies

I was skeptical at first but after the first week I was SO happy that I had invested in the course!

Bruce is a wonderful patient teacher and one can learn a lot about relationships and how to repair and enhance them given the teachings and the tools that he gives you!

I really LOVE that he actually talks to each participant on his weekly calls and gives them a chance to ask questions  about anything in their relationship that they need help with!

Plus the teachings stay even after the course is over so you can go back and review each teaching as often as you want!

I was skeptical at first but after the first week I was SO happy that I had invested in the course!

Kathy L Fies

Christina DeVita

Christina DeVita

We knew from the first week that we were right where we belonged

Words cannot adequately express our gratitude for your skilled and heart-led guidance through this program. We knew from the first week that we were right where we belonged…with one another, and with you as our guide.

Surprisingly, the format worked really well for us.  We were both excited about the chance to do the work but dreading the format…neither one of us loves technology and neither of us does any social media. 

However, the video delivery was smooth and easy, the exercises clear and easy to follow.  We felt confident about your expertise and your care for us and the group.  And we found ourselves willing to participate, even with other couples/individuals on the call.  Your program skillfully navigated us through, from connection, to communication, to looking back to trigger empathy, to conflict work, to secrets, to sex and connection…full circle! We felt safe in your care.

Thank you for gently helping us to re-find one another and to see each other as the perfect mirror for our own needed growth. The fullness of our relationship is now within our sight!

Thank you Bruce, thank you.

Christina DeVita

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Melissa Anthony

We know how to be open and vulnerable with each other.

When we first enrolled in the Love at First Fight program, I wasn’t sure what to expect; I just knew we needed something to help us through our relationship challenges.

Now we have the tools and resources needed to overcome any obstacle we face because we know how to be open and vulnerable with each other.

Is our relationship perfect after completing the course? Of course not! It never will be and that is just fine. Accept where you are. Share it with your partner. Ask for what you need. Listen to your partner. And never stop sharing your love vulnerably.

Forever thankful to you for helping me realize this, Bruce.

Melissa Anthony

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Caron

I now have tools to help me move forward.

Although I did not get through all the course material, the content that I have processed has been more than useful to help build a good and lasting relationship.

At the end of the day, the amount of effort you put in, will determine the results that you get out.

For someone who is anxious about being courageous, it takes me a bit longer to take action, but I now have tools to help me move forward. 

Thank you.

Caron

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Anonymous

I look forward to using some of the communication tips with my children!! 

I signed up for the program not really knowing what I was getting into or whether my partner would participate. 

I quickly came to see that he was all in with me and we both learned some pretty deep things about each other and this is after having been together for 23 years! 

Amazing advice and strategies about connection, about communication and about getting your needs met. 

I look forward to continuing to use the tools & even using some of the communication tips with my children!!  Truly amazing to be a part of!

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Emily Snider

Emily Snider

Not for the faint of heart, but totally worth the investment of time and money.

Love at First Fight was like a grad level course on rewiring the brain for healthy relating–not for the faint of heart, but totally worth the investment of time and money.

Bruce is an expert coach, full of clarity and compassion.

The coaching calls alone were incredibly valuable and helped me and my partner to more deeply integrate the content of the program.

Emily Snider

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Julie

Change your relationship forever.

Bruce is the most diplomatic relationship counselor I have ever come across. I wish I could keep him in my pocket to help us through tricky marital issues.

Hearing him guide couples through personal issues during the webinars was very impressive.  I loved his style of being pretty direct but also very compassionate to both partners.

His tools are invaluable and if used 100%, they will change your relationship forever.

I would highly recommend this course to any couples needing some direction and help in their lives.

Julie

Stephanie Wilson

Stephanie Wilson

We are a much stronger team.

I highly recommend that young couples take this course.

Learning the concepts Bruce taught us brought us closer together and as a result we are a much stronger team.

We have gained confidence to take the steps needed for a fulfilling future.

Stephanie Wilson

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DR

This should be taught to everyone, from teenagers onward.

I wish I had done Bruce’s course before getting into any relationship.

This should be taught to everyone, from teenagers onward.

Whether you are starting a relationship or in one already, if you are committed and apply even one part of the program, it will help you more than you can imagine!

DR

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Shiva

This course is a new beginning to every relationship

This course is a new beginning to every relationship (even if you are single, you are still in a relationship with yourself).

This course definitely helped me and my partner to overcome some of our difficulties in our relationship and to become more familiar with our past.

We learned a lot from Bruce and he was very engaging and encouraged participants to ask questions and to be vulnerable.

Shiva

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Inge

It's been challenging, but so rewarding!!

You’ve empowered me in ways no one else has ever been able to in the realm of self development and relationships. 

I realized my challenges are normal, which allowed me to be gentle with myself through the process instead of self criticism and judgment of myself or the other person.

Awareness brings understanding and patience and kindness.

It’s been challenging, but so rewarding!! Walking away with confidence and hope.

Inge

Jennifer Dempster

Jennifer Dempster

This course has really helped us reconnect and bring to light all the things that we were doing wrong in our relationship without even realizing it. 

This course has really helped us reconnect and bring to light all the things that we were doing wrong in our relationship without even realizing it. 

We learnt so much in the seven week course that will definitely carry us through any situation that might come up in the future. 

Even if you think you have a brilliant relationship, you could still benefit greatly from this course and create a deeper, more meaningful relationship with your partner.

Jennifer Dempster

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Robert Fischer

She could feel that I was relating to her in a different way.

Bruce’s knowledge on relationships and psychology and his teaching style were a joy to read through. 

My wife was completely set on divorce and she was filling out the divorce paperwork and ready to file. 

Every day I learned something new from Bruce during the program to implement.  In this time she could feel that I was relating to her in a different way and day after day I did not waver. 

After months and months of not giving an inch, my wife said she wanted to give our marriage a second try. 

I’m not sure if we will make it in the end but getting that chance to see if we can work out is huge for us. 

I can’t thank Bruce enough for this program.

Robert Fischer

Mariette West

Mariette West

The positive results keep showing up as my husband and I both feel safer, more heard and understood.

The Love at First Fight program helped me make some amazing shifts in my relationship and my business.

Bruce pulls so many concepts together, in an easy to understand and enjoyable way,  and always referencing the relationship experts he has learned from that I felt confident to let him guide me in taking new actions.

The positive results keep showing up as my husband and I both feel safer, more heard and understood.

Mariette West

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Anonymous

Don’t waste your time on therapists, been there done that many times.

I would HIGHLY recommend Bruce’s program. It will transform your relationship.

I was fortunate to have a willing and participative partner. Even those who did it on their own in the group found a path forward.

Bruce’s strategies are evidence based ( he has done the hard work) for us in ensuring the program is credible and results focused.

Don’t waste your time on therapists, been there done that many times.

Even if you are sceptical and doubtful you will find yourself transitioning into a new space with your partner that is much more fulfilling.

You have nothing to lose except your own self limiting beliefs.

Anonymous

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Anonymous

No way our relationship would still exist without Bruce's class.

There’s no way our relationship would still exist without Bruce’s class.

It’s allowed me to deepen into my heart and love my partner more fully.

Every couple and anyone that loves relational dynamics needs to take this class.

Anonymous

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Susan Schultz

View the videos at your own pace!

I participated in this program on my own and felt that I matured and had tools to reduce negative reactions with my relationship with my husband and that this program allow a foundation of safety which was missing between us. 

The fact that you can view the videos at your own pace and review them is fantastic!

Thank you for this program Bruce!

Susan Schultz

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Tauna Arnold

Lots of new shiny tools in our box!

We have walked away from the program after 36 years together knowing that with practice we can have a truly connected relationship again.

Lots of new shiny tools in our box!

Tauna Arnold

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Laura Spinka

Chris and I had already split up a year earlier...

I was feeling a little skeptical when I found this program, but given that Chris and I had already split up a year earlier and had only just begun to reconcile, I figured we had nothing to lose.

I think we both gathered a lot of personal insight into our own contributions to the state of our relationship through this process, which is certainly the first step in repairing any relationship.

We’ve begun implementing the tools and have moved back in together and are committed to continuing our journey of healing, supported by Bruce’s tools.

Laura Spinka

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Zoe Shobbrook-Fisher

This course has been a vital support for our journey into deeper intimacy...

Bruce responded to our questions in the calls in a way that felt personal and intuitive whilst drawing on his wealth of knowledge – he is sensitive, clear and shares generously so many resources with incredible ease and a lot of love.

This course has been a vital support for our journey into deeper intimacy and trust, for which we are both very grateful.

Zoe Shobbrook-Fisher

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Kornelia

I feel stronger about myself.

Eye-opening program. Lots of information and advice. I feel stronger about myself.

Not only one person is to blame in relationship, I know that it takes two to understand and adjust to the partner you want to be with.

It’s hard work but rewarding. Love, understanding and perseverance that’s what’s needed though.

Thank you.

Kornelia

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John Curran

The course was better than any face-to-face sessions I had ever experienced.

The Love at First Fight program was outstanding and I recommend that everyone that’s in interpersonal relationships complete this course.

Every week was loaded with AHA moments but the top three were learning how and when to sooth, our love languages, and our personality types such as Turtle vs Hailstorm.

The program pace was fast and it was difficult to keep up but I wouldn’t change a thing.

In seven weeks I learned more about relationships than ever before plus what I learned saved my marriage.

I was initially skeptical taking an on-line course hosted by somebody that I didn’t know, but the course was better than any face-to-face sessions I had ever experienced.

John Curran

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Maureen

Truly improved my relationship and I was on the verge of divorce

I would recommend this course to all couples wanting to repair or strengthen their marriages. 

The insights I gained have truly improved my relationship and I was on the verge of divorce.

Now I can use the tools learned in LAFF to resolve any conflict or misunderstandings that may arise without sabotaging my marriage.

I am very grateful for this course and for Bruce’s wisdom and talent in the art of relationships and healthy connecting!

Maureen

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Clare Elderkin

It has been a total revelation!

I love that the program covered a really broad range of issues/disciplines within the topic of relationships.

I also love how I have got so much from the program even though I have completed a large portion of it alone.

I’m very grateful that I can now keep developing my understanding and growing by revisiting the material. The material has been both deeply transformative and simple to understand.

Thank you Bruce for creating the Life at First Fight coaching program. 

Since completing the program I feel lighter and more confident within my relationship.

It has been a total revelation!

Clare Elderkin

Allison Alper

Allison

Grow to be better partners for each other.

I am very thankful for the Love at First Fight program! It was educational, humbling and eye opening.

The lessons addressed every challenge we were facing before the program: miscommunication, recurring conflict, anger, defense mechanisms, and more.

Bruce taught us about our own behaviors, our partner’s behaviors, and how we can each grow to be better partners for each other. We were introduced to practical tools that provided real solutions to reconnect with each other.

The seven week program is easy to follow, the research is current, and the topics are very relatable.

Bruce is warm, well spoken, authentic and personable. During the coaching sessions, he asked probing, interactive questions while providing analysis and learning opportunities.

We definitely recommend this program to those in, and not in, relationships. The awareness and self growth you experience during the program can be applied to all areas of your life.

Thank you, Bruce, for all your help!

Allison

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Chuck Monroe

I have already recommended LAFF to three dear friends.

I have already recommended LAFF to three dear friends who are having…struggles…in their relationships.

I am not someone who offers unsolicited advice nor one who washes his laundry in public, but was willing to share that we were doing the course and that there was an inherent benefit for them if they were willing to do the work.

Chuck Monroe

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Jackie Forsyth

I feel so much better equipped to deal in relationships

This program is amazing! 

Although I was unable to change the relationship I was in, I don’t regret taking it and know it wasn’t anything to do with the course and just not taking action with what Bruce said….  moving forward I feel so much better equipped to deal in relationships and such a better understanding of what is happening.

More than that though the skills I learned translate over into any relationship in my life!

Thanks for being so awesome Bruce!!

Jackie Forsyth

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Paul

EVERY couple should commit 2 months of their lives to this.

I feel that this program has completely changed the relationship between Andrea and I. 

We met 12 years ago and if I truly look deeply, the power struggle stage began very soon thereafter.  We needed to break our cycle and pattern because we were losing each other. 

I feel so strongly about this program, that I feel that EVERY couple should commit 2 months of their lives to this. 

To know that the divorce rate is as high as it is, this course alone would drive that percentage down! 

My advice to anyone that is interested in taking this course would be to know what you’re signing up for. 

There is a commitment to the course with a lot of work that needs to be put in, in order to achieve the full benefits.  Shortcuts won’t work during the course and it certainly pays to keep up with the material.  At the conclusion of the course, I can reflect back and see where we started and where we’re at now. 

I‘m amazed and thankful for the tools that Bruce provided us with, so that we can have a deeper connection than ever before and be back on the path to forever!!

Paul

Andrea Skews

Andrea & Quentin

Tools to help us along the speed humps of relationships

LAFF gave us the opportunity to learn tools to help us along the speed humps of relationships; personal, family and work related.

It enables you to reset your relationship in a positive way, with a clear direction ahead and the means to negotiate your way through what otherwise seem impasses.

Andrea & Quentin

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Patti

I cannot stop smiling with an inner light of happiness and hopefulness.

I cannot stop smiling with an inner light of happiness and hopefulness that my partner and I are working on our relationship in a deeper, more loving way. 

Bruce Muzik’s Love At First Fight coursework has opened our eyes to some simple steps to create emotional intimacy and connectedness. 

Our arguing, blaming, and emotional distancing have been reduced due to the LAFF coursework introducing Reflective Conversations, Four Connection Rituals, the Hailstorm/Turtle attachments, and so much more!

I have been in the Romance Stage for twelve years and the Protest Stage for two years. 

My partner and I have each other’s Handbook for our Hearts to lead us potentially to the Stability Stage. 

Bruce has provided a well researched and refined  framework and words to say to one another to remind us how to get to where we want to go with a partner, family members, and friends!

Patti

Joanna Mercado

Joanna

I highly  recommend you to give you and your honey this gift !!

Bruce has an amazing program, his wisdom and capacity to share concepts and values that are basic but powerful give couples enough room to work and improve their relationships.

All tools are super powerful and you would be using them way after the course is over to keep improving your relationship!

If you are considering the course or are having issues with your loved one and feeling a little scared and/or lost I highly  recommend you to give you and your honey this gift !!

Joanna

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Damien & Emma

Definitely a must in any self improvement path you may be on.

A great all round course which allows you tools to improve both yourself and your relationship.

Definitely a must in any self improvement path you may be on.

Bruce is very personable and non-judgemental which creates an environment of safety where you can be vulnerable.

Damien & Emma

Jessamee Sanders

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I had zero idea what it was going to be like and am super pleased and happy I took the plunge.

This program has helped me level-up in my relationship.  It has given me hope.  

I always say I want to take responsibility and do whatever I can to improve my relationship (and I do!) and this course has given me a way to do that. 

Sometimes it’s hard to know HOW to make the changes you need to make; the tools and resources that the Love at First Fight Coaching Program teaches are tangible, direct, implementable and unambiguous. Very value-filled and helpful. 

Bruce has a knack for reframing common situations and unlocking understanding in his students. He gives kind, no-BS feedback.

Take the course, it’s weirdly informative and surprisingly helpful even if you’ve been with your partner for a long long time! I had zero idea what it was going to be like and am super pleased and happy I took the plunge.

Thanks BRUCE!

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Maya Vaughan-Tiwary

Maya Vaughan

So many nuggets of gold with none of the fluff.

Hi Bruce,

I wanted to share with you my experience of the course during rather than at the end once it is completed.

I have been exploring the subject of relationships and how best to repair conflict and disconnection for many years.

I have engaged with webinars, conferences, trainings and programmes in my quest for the best research and approaches and what you offer in terms of bringing together the best out there and delivering it so clearly, powerfully and simply is second to none.

Your programme has not only been hugely beneficial to my own relationship it has helped me refine and strengthen my own techniques and strategies in my work as a coach.

I was already working with all the same principles and understanding and have been making great progress with my clients, but the way in which you have brought together all the very best approaches and delivered it so precisely has added great value to my existing work.

For a relatively short programmes you succeed in bringing together so many nuggets of gold with none of the fluff  – no word and no perspective you offer is wasted. It is all hugely relevant, delivered simply and yet grounded in evidence-based research. 

Also, your genuine passion, integrity and lack of ego really shines through. This, to my mind, is essential in a good coach.

The price of the course also reflects this as it is real value for money.

Here’s a testimonial for you:

As a relationship coach myself, I found Bruce’s course to be the most rich with information, insights and powerfully effective strategies and techniques out of all the courses/webinars/conferences I come across.

Every bit of content was useful and inspiring. I love his positive, down to earth and passionate approach.

Not only were all the videos inspiring and useful, the weekly coaching calls was a goldmine of more information, insights and teachings from Bruce as he engaged with the challenges those on the course we’re facing.

I would highly highly recommend this course to anyone struggling or who has struggled in their relationships as well as anyone interested in the science and psychology of love and relationships.

 

Maya Vaughan

Hank Holz

Hank

We are totally in love again.

We were close to ending our five year relationship. We were unhappy, constantly arguing and pulling away from each other.

This program started to change all of that in the first week.

We felt much better and started to understand what we could do to be happier and in love with each other again. We continued to feel better and more in love every week as we learned more.

If you want to understand your partner and improve your communication skills with your partner, this program will give you the tools you need in a step by step, easy to understand program.

We are totally in love again, happy and understand what we both need to keep our love alive.

Hank

Brigitte Goulet

Brigitte Goulet

I feel that i can finally experience love and acceptance in my life.

I feel that i can finally experience love and acceptance in my life.

…I will be reading  books your recommend and also I plan to review and review…and review the Love at First Fight wonderful program…I am sad it is over…but I feel strong armed with powerful tools.

If you want to be able to feel loved and love your partner…if you want to experiment a harmonious relationship…do this program…it will give you the tools to allow both of you to be happy and fulfilled.

Brigitte Goulet

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Janet Jenkins

On a path of a very loving exciting fulfilling rest of our lives together.

This program saved our marriage from living a life of not being really happy or completely satisfied with our relationship. 

We have been married for 31+ years and you don’t realize how easy it is to become disconnected or even that the disconnect is the problem.  It can be so subtle when it is happening and easy to dismiss as just growing apart or “that this is just the way it is”.

Highly recommend Loveatfirstfight.  It truly changed our relationship and put us on a path of a very loving exciting fulfilling rest of our lives together

The approach of treating/fixing the relationship as oppose to trying to fix each other is the key. It is an approach that makes you see everyone in a different light/perspective. 

Highly recommend.  Recommend going all in, doing all the exercises, videos and calls.  Not necessarily easy but so worth it.

Thank you Bruce.  So glad we found you and this program.

Janet Jenkins

Brian Jones

Brian

Be the person that you other half deserves.

Bruce will give you the tools and support that will help you be the person that you other half deserves.

Even with my wife holding back from the programme the tools are ready to use and his support and advice are priceless…   

Relationship rocky? Getting in the ring with Bruce !!!

Brian

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Anita

We learned to connect, validate each other and work as a team.

For 32 years we were puzzled: how could we  stop reacting to each other and engaging in damaging conflict?  Bruce solved the mystery! 

We learned to connect, validate each other and work as a team. We are so grateful.

The format was a real key to success: Bruce gave us exercises to get to the roots, brilliant tools to use in real time, and opportunities to ask questions in a safe, honoring environment.

Anita

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Linda Fulford

Easy to follow.

I loved the program. The videos and homework and the calls to listen to you give advice to others. 

This program combines all of the best advice from books and websites into single instructor-led course that is easy to follow and puts complex methods into real-life terms and examples.

Highly recommend!

Linda Fulford

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Tracey Lee

This program will open your eyes and teach you so much more about relationships.

Even if you think you only have a small problem in your marriage and you put up with it. This program will open your eyes and teach you so much more about relationships and make you feel that love and a renewed level of connection. 

Well done Bruce for your great passion in putting the best science out there.

Tracey Lee

Rodney Hildebrand

Rodney Hildebrand

Celebrating a new beginning.

After 26 years of marriage, my wife was ready to call it quits.

On the day the divorce was to be finalized, she stopped it, only to regret that decision and make plans again to end it.

After four weeks of couples therapy, we were no closer to resolving our relationship.

She agreed to participate in the Love at First Fight program with me and we faithfully did the work.

On the evening of the last day of the program we had a private renewing of vows on the beach and are now wearing wedding rings celebrating a new beginning.

Rodney Hildebrand

Amy & Rodney Hildebrand

Amy

I actually am wanting to stay now.

After 20+ years of marriage and so many power struggles later, we just weren’t getting anywhere.

We loved each other but I did not feel in love at all anymore, any affection I showed him felt so fake. We would try to communicate and get nowhere and then I just kept shutting down.

I filed for divorce and started making a path for myself.

Then Rodney told me about this coaching program and asked me if I would just watch the introductory video.

We started the program and things finally started looking up. I actually am wanting to stay now, not just because of religious beliefs or for our kids.

If you take this program seriously, it will help!

Amy

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Christine

To anyone wishing to gain a better understanding of themselves; they way they love, the way they fight and the way they live.

I unreservedly recommend the Love at First Fight course to anyone wishing to gain a better understanding of themselves; they way they love, the way they fight and the way they live.

I participated in the course solo, and with the help of friends and family and time alone in reflection, I was able to complete the course to make considerable breakthroughs.

I urge you to watch Bruce’s content on the site and Youtube and if it calls to you, do it.

Christine

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Anonymous

Bruce is the first person to be able to engage both of us.

We have been married over 25 years. During that time, we have been successful professionally and have raised three wonderful children. For almost all of that time, however, we have been detached from each other emotionally. 

I have always wanted to pursue therapy, but my husband (who is NOT the touchy feely type) has been strongly opposed.  Actually we did have one experience, but my husband basically showed up under duress and remained highly defended. 

This was despite the fact that this therapist was very distinguished by reputation and known to work well with “hard to reach men.”

Bruce is the first person to be able to engage both of us.  He has helped us begin to make very positive changes in our ways of communicating –ones which honestly I think many talented and formally trained therapists could not have achieved in 10 years of therapy! 

Although Bruce will say he is not formally trained, I believe his talent as a “couples’ whisperer” are absolutely outstanding. 

If you actually want to make a change, be solution oriented in doing so  –and you do not have 10 years on your hands–  you should try this program.

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Steve Scheuber

The videos and worksheets expanded my mind to see relationships in a whole new light.   

Dear Bruce,

This program creates a wonderful perspective on the foundation of a relationship.

The videos and worksheets expanded my mind to see relationships in a whole new light.

The videos kept my attention and always created a curiosity and a question of what exciting things will I learn next? Our weekly mentoring sessions were enlightening and informative.

It was great to speak with Bruce on my “Wins” for the week and to ask advice on topics specific to my relationship with my wife.

Thank you, Bruce!

Steve

Steve Scheuber

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Anonymous

After 7 weeks, we have a shared vision of where we want our relationship to go and a few handy tools to help us get there.

Bruce is not a magician. He cannot undo years of bad habits.

What he can do–and did do for us–was give us insight into our interactions, force us to own our respective parts of the problem, and provide us with a number of ‘tools’ for our relationship toolbox.

We tried them all. Some work for us, others don’t.

After 7 weeks, we have a shared vision of where we want our relationship to go and a few handy tools to help us get there.

Anonymous

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Atinuj Tantivit

Bruce has many years of experience to share

I have been reading many books on relationship and Bruce has put all the best advice and techniques in his program.

So rather than reading the books, I would highly recommend taking this coaching class.

Bruce has many years of experience to share and his encouragement and constructive criticism made me realized that I play an important role in the conflict and I can change to improve the relationship.

Without this realization, change cannot happen.

Thank you so much, Bruce.

Atinuj Tantivit

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Stephanie Marshall

After 7 weeks, we are seeing positive changes in our communication and relationship.

Bruce is an amazing and relatable coach.

He genuinely wants my partner and me to succeed in finding our way out of our struggles.

After 7 weeks, we are seeing positive changes in our communication and relationship.

We are so grateful for Bruce’s words and guidance. This course is time, effort and money well spent.

Stephanie Marshall

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Anonymous

Arguments used to last days… now they last a few minutes. It’s kind of incredible.

Your course has helped me and my relationship out a lot!

My partner and I still experience power struggles, but we’ve gotten WAY better at fighting since.

Arguments used to last days… now they last a few minutes. It’s kind of incredible.

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Celia

My husband and I learned more in this 7-week course by Bruce than in several years of couples therapy we had attended.

My husband and I learned more in this 7-week course by Bruce than in several years of couples therapy we had attended.

The tools are amazingly helpful, clear and universally applicable.

Seriously, these tools will help you with or without every other avenue you are pursuing help in your relationship!

Celia

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Jon

Bruce – you and your fabulous support and tools have breathed life, love, and understanding into our marriage.

The entire course was one long ‘Aha’ moment, basically teaching me that marriages need working on, and can’t be taken for granted.

Loved the calls, Bruce’s humor, his care, and how he showed genuine interest, and frequently asked pertinent follow-up questions about people’s wins etc, to get to the bottom of what had happened and share the lessons with others.

He managed to do this even though he was on a tight schedule and had a lot to get through on each call.

Bruce – you and your fabulous support and tools have breathed life, love, and understanding into our marriage.

I pray that we will always be able to keep using all the gifts you have given us.

Jon

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Tim Del Vecchio

My whole life has grown from this short 7-week course! Wish I had done it earlier.

I consistently rave about this course, to anyone and everyone!

It’s something that should be taught in primary school.

My whole life has grown from this short 7-week course! Wish I had done it earlier.

Tim Del Vecchio

David Campbell

David Campbell

I now find myself saying ‘What would Bruce Do’ #WWBD.

Bruce asked me during one of the mentoring calls if I had a person who I respected or took inspiration from that I could visualize in my head to help me answer a question if in a challenging situation.

That person is you, Bruce. I now find myself saying ‘What would Bruce Do’ #WWBD

David Campbell

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Wendy

This program is a must do for every couple in my opinion.

Bruce’s program is amazing. I had no idea how much I didn’t know about relationships.

This program is a must do for every couple in my opinion.

It is so comprehensive, it will bring great value to anyone who commits to the program and is willing to do the work.

Wendy

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Bryan Yadon

Show up for a healthy, committed, love relationship.

Love at First Fight has been a complete success for me.

The course allowed me to come into a safe space in order to explore and learn more about myself, my partner and our power struggle.

I think it is a beautiful resource for anyone seeking to expand their knowledge and ability to show up for a healthy, committed, love relationship.

I can’t express how powerful and helpful the course has been.

I feel like this is only a beginning and there is so much to work with that it will be useful for the rest of my life as I continue to practice and learn from the many powerful distinctions that were shared by Bruce.

He delivered the course in such a loving way and he is a dynamic personality that is fun to work with.

Thank you, Bruce, I am very grateful to you for all the work you have done to bring us this gift, this LOVE.

Bryan Yadon

Madison Baltonado

Madison Baltonado

It taught myself and my husband how to communicate better.

The information that Bruce has put together in his 7-week course was very valuable and helpful in my relationship.

It taught myself and my husband how to communicate better and how to lovingly ask one another to meet each other’s needs, instead of demanding and making the other partner feel bad.

It also taught us a lot about our differences in personality and why we behave the way we do, which in turn, allowed us to respect each other’s differences instead of taking them as a negative flaw.

Madison Baltonado

Denise Synstelien

Denise Synstelien

We experienced benefits to our relationship immediately after the first session.

We learned so much during the course of this program!

We experienced benefits to our relationship immediately after the first session.

We definitely recommend the program to anyone who wants to fix a broken relationship or move their relationship to the next level.

Denise Synstelien

Heather Faye

Heather

I found amazing insight into myself and how I can be triggered.

I took this course wanting to be better equipped to face the challenges of relationship…To arm me with tools and insights to help create a solid foundation.

I found amazing insight into myself and how I can be triggered. That these triggers are often not about “him” but about me!

Bruce keeps the information interesting, fun ( yes fun in a hard way) and wanting to learn more.

The exercises and tools are incredibly useful and will appeal to both the spiritual and logical brains.

I can’t recommend doing this course enough.

Heather

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Lee

We were on the verge of breaking up, and the course really helped us understand our behavior.

If you’re constantly stuck in a cycle of negative behavior, feeling unhappy, and are about to break up, I’d suggest taking this course.

We were on the verge of breaking up, and the course really helped us understand our behavior.

Glad to say we didn’t break up and are now on a more comfortable road.

Thanks, Bruce!

Lee

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