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Love At First Fight Reviews

They did it.

So can you.

Miriam and DuWayne Heppner

Miriam and DuWayne Heppner

After 42 years of marriage, we were stuck and couldn't continue...Now, we are encouraging our newly engaged son to go through this with his fiancee.

After 42 years of marriage, we were stuck and couldn’t continue. We have read many books on marriage, attended and listened to marriage seminars and workshops, participated in individual and marriage counseling, went on a cruise focusing on marriage, and have even attended weeklong “schools” for counselors and pastors. While we received some helpful insights from each of these, we were still stuck. Even though we occupied and operated in the same house, our marriage had been essentially dead for over three years.

Last fall we each participated in separate intensive weekend retreats that brought a lot of insight and healing and freedom as individuals, but we were still stuck in destructive patterns. I continued to pursue learning, and found your Love at First Fight information. My husband said he was all in when I told him I had signed up for the course.

This program has given us practical tools that we have never owned. We have a better understanding of what each of us bring to the table. Our communication patterns were counter productive. This program has provided the means to relearn and apply productive understanding, communication and behavior.

The life-time access to the materials is allowing us to continue to learn, apply and connect. We are also excited about how these positive life-changing tools will affect our relationships with our children, their spouses, our grandchildren, and others in our lives.

We are encouraging our newly engaged son to go through this with his fiancee.

We wish we could have had access to the information in this course for our premarital counseling. We now have the tools and desire to continue growing and connecting in significant productive ways.

Thank you, Bruce.

Miriam and DuWayne Heppner

Chad Kuriger

Chad Kuriger

We were beyond broken... simply put, the program works. 

We were beyond broken and setting a drop dead date for resolution (divorce) when we began the program and simply put, the program works. 

We are not only reconnecting but also understanding why we were so reactionary in our behaviors. 

On the surface the exercises, rituals and worksheets appear so simple and obvious but if any couple or individual truly works the program you will become so more self aware you cannot help but gain some enlightenment.

 

Chad Kuriger

Julissa Charbonneau

Julissa Charbonneau

Our marriage is beautiful, our parenting is on the same path and we found ourselves within it all.

Hello Bruce! This is Julissa from your March 2022 sessions.

It has taken me awhile to send this survey as things have been pretty busy after our course was complete. Although I did want to share our marriage update.

Paul and I are on cloud 9! Our relationship didn’t change per say…your course helped us become stronger!

Sometimes, in life, we wish we can go back in time and change things and redo what we didn’t like or what didn’t work out well for us. Yet, those are the lessons we learn from. Paul and I held on strong for 16 years. Sadly, we only concentrated on all the negatives in our marriage and becoming angrier as years went on. We neglected to see the obvious…16 years!! Yes, we did go through horrible emotional hurdles but we didn’t give up! There was love in all that turmoil! And it was this course that helped us find it.

There are times that hurt still creeps in from underneath although we know where it came from with our exercises. Previously, all we wanted to do was attack eachother or be in the right. Hailstorm vs Wolf! Yikes! And now, we actually talk! We are truly vulnerable with eachother. No judgment. Just understanding and love.

Don’t get me wrong, we have our “Wave Pool Waltz” here and there (like you mentioned it will happen) but it’s nothing like it was before. No more of days or weeks of not talking. Or when we did, it was actually screaming at eachother, hiding all the soft emotions we wouldn’t express. And now, it has changed to half an hour break from eachother and then come together to have a reflective conversation. Obviously, there are times that feelings are still heightened although that’s when we use our mantra. I melt everytime he uses it!

The reason for my delay with this survey was we’ve been busy. We have taken our connections tools to a whole new level. We are now taking time to enjoy what each of us like, experiencing new things together, concurring fears and started a small business together. And in the midst of all this, we also take time for ourselves separately. We’ve either been go go go or slowing the world down, just being with eachother or alone. It’s been a blessing! All because of you and your help for us to come together!

I also wanted to let you know that at the end of the course, Paul and I went out on a date and I gifted Paul an ornamental glass “Endless Knot”. This man means the world to me! The knot represents a never ending connection, a symbol of eternity, harmony and endless love. The intertwining of both the past and the present, unifying both the giver and recipient with no beginning and no end, links our fate, binds us together.

This is how we both feel. Endless love!

Thank you Bruce, for what you do, how you connect with people, how you help others to connect with eachother and how much you have saved our marriage!

Bruce, we were 1 step away from a divorce, if I didn’t bump into your Facebook post. I said to myself and Paul, that this was my last attempt at fixing this marriage. I kid you not! Paul and I could not communicate.

We wouldn’t understand eachother, too much resentment and we just couldn’t connect. Now we can’t imagine our lives without eachother. Our marriage is beautiful, our parenting is on the same path and we found ourselves within it all.

Thank you, thank you so much! And a thank you and proud moment to Paul and I for not giving up!

Much love to you Bruce,

Julissa Charbonneau

Julissa Charbonneau

Steve Rogers

Steve R.

This is serious progress for us... All the best marriage practices, advice and techniques in one program.

Great News!! Two months ago I would have told you that my marriage was not salvageable; that too many bad things have been said and done.  That we are just not good for each other and that our relationship was toxic.  Twenty years of trying and we were still having the same issues with not much improvement. 

I had a realtor, I was looking for places to live and I had a lawyer that I finally got an appointment with.  I was already scoping out other possible relationships, however, I knew that I needed time on my own not another relationship.  I was just married to the wrong person; I was pretty convinced of that.  We had not been intimate in basically two years and I was sleeping in a separate room.  I said though that I still believed in miracles.

So one morning about two months ago, I remembered to turn my will and my life over to a power greater than myself and I had done this many times in the past. But this day, my wife asked me if I would be willing to watch a webinar on relationships and that maybe it would help us get along better after we separated, to be better co-parents, so I agreed.  I wanted to be friends if possible.  I just felt like I could not give my wife what she needed, we couldn’t work together and couldn’t talk about our issues without it blowing up.  I wanted both of us to be happy and if we couldn’t be happy together then I would want us to be happy apart.   

So we watch this free webinar with this guy Bruce Muzik.  He said he had a hard 1st marriage and it drove him to seek out relationship “gurus” and read all the books and learned what went wrong.  He was saying things that I recognized like when he was talking about hailstorms and turtles; that is from Imago (Harville Hendrix). 

He basically described what we are going through like it was just a normal thing that happens in relationships.  I started thinking that maybe there was hope for our relationship. I should also add that both of us came from families affected by addiction 2 generations ago. So we both had lot of unhealthy relationship skills, but we were both working on it, although it didn’t seem to help our marriage. 

Anyway we watch this webinar together and it was good information and I could tell he knew his stuff, because I had also read a lots of relationship books and went to lots of workshops and counselors. He is really down to earth and genuine

So of course there was the sales pitch at the end….. if you sign up with the next 30 minutes you get $100 off and a free lifetime membership….. all that stuff to create urgency.  And I said to my wife, “Are you sure you want to do this? This is a marriage rescue program.” 

We were both at a place where we thought it was over and didn’t want to risk getting back into the same stuff.  But hey this I was thinking might be that miracle I said I was open to.  So we decided to do it. I like the name of it: Love at First Fight. 

And I knew based on all the cash we spend on workshops and coaches and all that stuff that it was a good price and investment in our marriage… even if it didn’t work out in the end.  It costs about the price for one or possibly two hours with a good divorce lawyer, except it is an 8-week course. 

It was the same price as my Costco bill; that place, I tell yeah. So we did it. 

I kind of see this as a metastudy.  All the best marriage practices, advice and techniques in one program.

And for the last two months things have been much better.  I will say there is a lot of soul searching and self-discovery work in it and we are definitely behind, but we are working it.  We even went on a date last night to a nice restaurant, a piano bar that serves tapas.  First date in 2 years probably

That is serious progress for us.  And any program is helpful if time and effort is put into it.  And yes it really helps if both people work the program, but if that is not possible, even if one person does it and the other person sees a change that may make them think a better relationship is possible and things can get better. 

The point is, that even if you feel like your marriage can not possibly be salvaged, you could be wrong like I was. 

The bottom line is that all our issues are actually about our needs not being met. The things that really make us mad is almost never really about our partner; it is about a need we have that we expect them to know about and fulfill.

The more we understand our own needs and our partners needs the better our relationship will be.  The crazy and awesome part is that by is stretching to meet our partner’s needs we actually grow those undeveloped parts of ourselves. 

We can actually help heal our partner and grow at the same time. It’s a beautiful thing. Mature love is the ultimate goal. 

Bruce brings all of the best marriage practices into one program. 

I highly recommend this program for any marriage that isn’t everything you hoped it would be and for people that think their marriage was a mistake or is hopeless and irreconcilable. 

Give it go, it is totally worth it.

Steve R.

Vicki Hamilton

Vicki Hamilton

We can STOP PAUSE THINK RESET...move on...it's great.

Better me, better him, BETTER US: marriage back on track

My husband and I knew we loved each other BUT couldn’t work out why we were fighting so much & slowly disconnecting.

It would usually end in loud accusing voices and blaming each other, and just walking away…until the next time….

Things were gradually getting worse affecting not only us, but our beautiful daughter.

The universe landed me on Bruce’s page…I loved the intro video so much, I immediately shared it with my husband, who was also impressed & that was the beginning of our new beginning.

After taking the course with Bruce, we now have a better understanding of WHY we each act the way we do.

A complete game changer….

This knowledge, along with some connection and communication skills, has helped us to finally get back to being kind, loving & understanding towards each other.

We are no longer taking what each other does/says personally because we understand how our personality types figure into our actions.

We can STOP PAUSE THINK RESET…move on…it’s great.

Not only does Bruce have the knowledge, but his sense of humour, delivery & most importantly, Passion for helping…amazing man.

This course should be mandatory in school….everybody & every relationship would benefit greatly AND then maybe the world would be a better place to be in….

We will keep the exercises & relearn when needed…we will forever have Bruce in our lives….

I couldn’t recommend this course enough…if trouble is looming…get into this immediately…things change from the very 1st words

Thx Bruce xxx

Vicki Hamilton

Luz Toral

Luz

I didn't expect to feel so seen and understood.

I was ready to get out of the relationship. I had told Richard that I was not willing to keep the status quo.

On the same day we had that argument, I saw the video of the free seminar on my Facebook feed, and it was like you were talking to me.

It really addressed my issues, so I sent it to Richard and thought, if he doesn’t react,  I’m done. To my surprise he watched the video and responded that he was willing to do the seminar.

I had no idea what was going to happen, but we were both so motivated to make it work, we got invested in learning and seeing that really motivated me, but I was not really prepared to the amount of things I learned about myself and it all made so much sense!

I consider myself a skeptic, I went in with open mind but I didn’t expect to feel so seen and understood.

Bruce you made me feel very comfortable and I trust your knowledge, because each tool, exercise, video, was addressing my problems and just being so accurate.

This is exactly what we needed!

Luz and Richard

Luz

Helen Fernihough

Helen Fernihough

I have grown enormously in a short space of time

The loveatfirstfight course is definitely a transformational moment in my life. It is a couples repair coaching program but what it really is is a self-realisation program.

It opens the door for me to look inside myself and in doing that influences the way I relate to people around me, my partner, my children, friends and colleagues.

I feel that I have grown enormously in a short space of time and there is so much more waiting for me still.

Charles and I are so much closer and trusting each other. We are very confident we will make it through the power struggles stage, we dont know how long but we will.

Thank you Bruce, you are amazing!

Helen Fernihough

Doreen Lethbridge

Doreen Lethbridge

We can testify that Bruce and his program is the real deal and it’s saved our marriage.

Bruce is truly the relationship whisperer!

We were on verge of divorce when this program came up on my Facebook page.

“It was meant to be” we both said, watching the video about his program; but yet thinking “this has to be too good to be true.” Well, turns out it was meant to be and had transformed our relationship.

We have emotionally connected more than we have ever had in 35 years being together.

We can highly testify that Bruce and his program is the real deal and it’s saved our marriage.

So excited. We’re sharing it with our family and friends!

Thank you so very much Bruce for all your inspiration and guidance in this journey of love and commitment!

Doreen Lethbridge

Vis-Mona-Naidoo

Vis Naidoo

I'm grateful that Mona and I have found the tools... and continue living a beautiful life together.

Mona and I were on the verge of a breakup when she enrolled us onto Bruce’s program.

There seemed like there was no way out of our constant fighting and regular disagreements that turned into shouting matches.

This program was the best investment ever, and in my most important relationship.

I’m grateful to Bruce for this fabulous program, and I’m grateful that Mona and I have found the tools of communication, understanding and soothing to reset our relationship, and continue living a beautiful life together.

We highly recommend Love At First Fight. No matter how bad things seem, with Bruce as your coach and the right tools, and most importantly the willingness to do the work, you can rekindle your beautiful relationship before all is lost.

I’m glad we saved ours.

Vis Naidoo

Judy LeCash

Judy

I think I've waited for this for 24 years of being with my husband - we've tried many things but you have worked for us.

My husband and I have been miserably fighting for 24 years – we had no idea there was a solution.

We have become SO much closer – it’s like a miracle. We are vulnerable and feel safe to be so. Sharing our homework has been wonderful for both of us.

I felt I was getting somewhere right from the very first Welcome call. I felt you could see into my soul and knew exactly what I needed to learn and how I needed to learn it and change.

I think I’ve waited for this for 24 years of being with my husband – we’ve tried many things but you have worked for us.

Thank you Bruce for giving us the tools to become more connected and loving – to actually see and hear each other and to rediscover our deep love and respect for each other – has been amazing.

Now we have the tools to put out any fights that flare up quickly and efficiently. 

Blessings, Judy

Judy

Marcy McQuown

Marcy

It was a game changer for us.

This program has changed our marriage.

It changed a relationship that was just going through the motions into a relationship that is alive and thriving. I can’t wait to be with my husband each day now.

Before the program I was always a little apprehensive of our interactions because I seemed to hurt his feelings and could not figure out how it was happening.

This program is thorough and complete. Each week we were challenged to grow in areas that built on each other.

We now have tools to communicate with each other and have the tools to handle conflict when it arises.

I am so thankful that we have done this program.

It was a game changer for us.

Marcy

Cindy & Dan LeBlanc

Cindy & Dan LeBlanc

Your life can and will be transformed in ways you never knew possible! 

Thank you so very much Bruce. We can’t say enough good things about this course.

You have really done your homework and we now do ours. It continues to change our lives.

We were in a very bad place and about to call it quits after 31 years together, but after your course we are on our way to Bliss in all ways.

If anyone out there wonders if this course can help, as long as you really want it and apply yourself honestly, your life can and will be transformed in ways you never knew possible!  

Not enough ways to say thank you, but a HUGE HEARTFELT THANK YOU, Smiles, Cindy & Dan

Cindy & Dan LeBlanc

Ryan & Melodi de Havelyn

Ryan & Melodi

If we can make it - anyone can.  It is the best gift we could have given each other. 

‘Love at First Fight’ has changed our lives!  We feel as though there couldn’t have been a worse marriage out there. 

We experienced every hurtful thing you can imagine.  We were caught in the ‘power-struggle’ phase of our marriage and it didn’t seem like we had any hope of fixing that. 

Our home was a war-zone 24/7.  We cannot thank Bruce enough for giving us the tools to act like adults and fix the hurt children inside of each of us.  

We are committed to continuing the process.  We have a new understanding of each other and a new ability to communicate.  We had neither before at all. 

We cannot emphasize how  important this program could be if you are struggling in a marriage that feels like it is hopeless. 

If we can make it – anyone can.  It is the best gift we could have given each other. 

We go to sleep at night holding hands instead of turned away back-to-back.

Ryan & Melodi

Andrea-Panzarella

Andrea

We knew we needed something more than couples counseling to bring us back together. 

Our marriage was consumed with infertility and loss approximately 1-1/2 years after our wedding.  We had to face traumatic situations that most couples never have to encounter. 

Several years later, after we were blessed with our babies, we found ourselves further apart from each other than ever before.  Our marriage was filled with anger, resentment, and griefWe knew we needed something more than couples counseling to bring us back together. 

I remember this feeling of desperation and doing a random google search one night.  I came across the Love At First Fight website and I could not stop scrolling.  Everything that was written described exactly where we were in our relationship. 

We signed up for the course hopeful, but very unsure.  Now, we are in a place that we have never been before. 

We are finally on the same team together, we are completely vulnerable with each other, we are connected in ways that we would not have been otherwise, and we are healing our hearts together. 

This program has changed our lives, individually and together, in a very powerful way. 

Thank you Bruce!  We are so grateful!

Andrea

Hallie Crawford

Hallie Crawford

We’ve been through hours of therapy...

Bruce, our session was the most helpful thing Chad and I have ever done.

We’ve been through hours of therapy but were never able to get to the root of what my fear was about his ex.

We had the best weekend together we have had almost since I met him a year ago, not kidding.

The things you said were hard to hear, which is part of why I was quiet during a part of the call, and, at one point I got tears in my eyes because you were speaking to/calling out the wound I hadn’t yet fully recognized.

Knowing these 2 things has brought peace in my heart I haven’t had in a while, for myself but also for my relationship with Chad.

Both Chad and I are SO impressed. Catherine was right. She sings your praises and I’m so glad we joined your program.

We still have work to do and – this is amazing great progress regarding one of the largest things we have faced as a couple so far.

Very grateful 🙂

Hallie Crawford

Theresa Crowley-Ferreira

Theresa Crowley-Ferreira

There is no greater gift we could give our new daughter than how strong we feel as a team now.

This program is the real deal.

It’s not for the faint of heart, but if you bravely surrender yourself to this even half-heartedly, Bruce will help pull you through to the other side.

Bruce has poured himself into this work and research in a way that removed many frustrating roadblocks we kept running into as a couple.

We are expecting our first child any day now and there is no greater gift we could give our new daughter than how strong we feel as a team now.

Theresa Crowley-Ferreira

KATIE MILLER

Katie Miller

Now am confident that I have the tools to have a meaningful relationship.

I joined Bruce’s program to learn how to win my partner back and I am exiting the program having learned how to win myself back.

I learned so much about myself and the impact an individual can have in a relationship.

I now fully understand the dynamics of a relationship and all that impacts it.

The experience transformed me and I now am confident that I have the tools to have a meaningful relationship and truly connect with a partner, without fear or hesitation.

I wish Bruce’s program was longer because I learned so much on each and every call.

Katie Miller

Deborah

Deborah

We now have a better understanding of WHY we each act the way we do.

Although we had been married for over 30 years, my husband and I had a couple of recurring arguments that never seemed to get resolved.

They would usually end in raising voices, or accusing and blaming each other, and just walking away…until the next time the topic came up.

After taking the course with Bruce, we now have a better understanding of WHY we each act the way we do.

This knowledge, along with some basic connection and communication skills, has helped us to finally achieve resolution.

We are no longer taking what each other does personally because we understand how our personality types figure into our actions.

I really do believe that the course has brought us closer, and we have better tools now for discussing difficult topics (which everyone deals with).

I highly recommend it!

Deborah

Kevin Haspela

Kevin Haspela

Conflict is no longer something to be avoided.

Because of this program, my partner and I are more accepting of and skillful when conflict arises.

Conflict is no longer something to be avoided, but a sign of an opportunity to fulfill a need and love more deeply. I have put down my sword in exchange for vulnerability and trust.

Kevin Haspela

Pam Sortor

Pam Sortor

I am inspired by and deeply grateful for the work you are doing.

I see your program as brilliant and sorely needed in a society that is severely underdeveloped in relationship and communication skills.

I think this type of information should be taught in schools as part of the core curriculum.

And if parents developed these skills to model to their children, imagine the legacy for rich intimacy they would leave for future generations. I am inspired by and deeply grateful for the work you are doing.

If people are open-minded and teachable and actually consistently utilize the tools and wisdom you are imparting, relationships will transform.

It’s not to say that all troubled relationships will or should be saved, but what you teach will provide a healthy and respectful foundation for the relationship to reach its highest potential as well as bring clarity to make intelligent decisions about the highest and best outcome for those concerned.

I wholeheartedly agree that your course is exceedingly more effective and less expensive than traditional couple’s counseling.

What you have put together in this program is an excellent value.

Pam Sortor

Anya Staal

Anya Staal

This course has been mind-blowing. I will never be the same.

WOW! I had never thought I would look at relationships and behaviours in a completely different way after just a few weeks of training.

This course has been mind-blowingI will never be the same.

I have realized that any relationship can be salvaged if you want to. Yes, it’s a conscious decision.

The tools I’ve been given in this program have taught me how.

Anya Staal

Marie Leboeuf and John Grover

Marie Leboeuf and John Grover

Knowing that we have the tools now to communicate in a loving, mature way, takes the anxiety away.

Together for just under 2 years, the misunderstandings, disagreements, and frustrations between John and I caused a constant volatile environment for us.

Luckily, we were both willing to keep trying, but also realized something major had to shift between us- and soon- or we probably weren’t going to make it as a romantic couple.

Bruce’s program was exactly what we needed! It is organized and succinct, super insightful, fun and actually life-changing.

He’s a true pro with compassion, yet realistic and always willing to fight for you (and with you). I won’t kid you!

It brings up the shit you don’t want to face and is one of the scariest things I’ve ever done!

But it also opened my heart and helped me face my biggest fears.

Knowing that we have the tools now to communicate in a loving, mature way, takes the anxiety away.

I’ve never been happier with my man.

Mahalo Nui Loa Bruce!

Keep up the good work 😉 <3

Marie Leboeuf and John Grover

Steven Bouris

Steven Bouris

I will have both my children do it as soon as they are ready to.

Bruce is an amazing mentor and coach.

His passion for what he does is evident from the minute you meet him.

What I have taken away from this course is to purely understand myself on a deeper more personal level, discovering why I am the way I am.

Understanding why I react to issues the way that I do. Understanding the core essence of a relationship, and the dynamics of our relationships.

I have done a lot of personal development over the years, yet the information I obtained in his 7-week program is phenomenal.

This 7-week course has changed my life. I am so glad that I found Bruce Muzik and his course.

I would recommend it to all, no matter whether you are in a relationship or not. I will have both my children do it as soon as they are ready to.

I know that I will be referring back to Bruce’s material for many years to come.

If we all took the time to do this course, the world would be a much better place.

Thank you, Bruce, for the amazing, inspiring person that you are.

Steven Bouris

Steven Bouris

Arturo

Arturo

Mandatory for any couples considering a long-term partnership.

Bruce’s program is an outstanding, well-structured class that should be mandatory for any couples considering a long-term partnership.

The delicate balance between personal connection and group anonymity is handled well, and you really feel like you’re in a safe group environment (even when you and your partner break to do the exercises on your own).

I highly recommend couples put the effort into this course. The ability to have a shared vocabulary and identical toolkit will go a long way towards connecting your relationship.

We’re grateful for your guidance throughout the last two months.

We’ve spent some rocky nights the last few years trying to overcome many of the pitfalls you deftly addressed in your course. The latter half of the course was of particular benefit.

We can both say it’s been a different game altogether following your intensive program.

We want you to know we were consistently impressed at how you handled your calls. The way you kept track of time, engendered engagement, and dealt with issues kindly but firmly were simply very cool to experience.

Also, your emotional cocktail video was one of the most powerful and vulnerable things we’ve seen. Kudos on including it. It was, for us, the most connecting of the course.

Arturo

Dawn Cormier-Hazen

Dawn Cormier-Hazen

I now feel safe and “gotten”.

I wish I found your 7-week course 18 years ago before I decided to get married!

The marriage boot camp should be mandatory for everyone in a serious relationship. Who knew marriage counselling could be so positive and motivating.

I was in a disconnected unhappy marriage for 18 years, and we have tried marriage counselling in the past only coming out more wounded.

I now feel safe and “gotten”.

My partner understands me better and I get him now! He feels safe and now opens up to me. He is emotionally present now.

We know how to avoid triggers now, and even if we do trigger each other, we call it out and we deal with it successfully.

The structure was very smart as it built week by week to explore and open up new portals as we went along.

We have hope and great tools that now we actually are out of anger and resentment and we use the tools with great sincerity.

Bruce, you’ve incorporated the best strategy and techniques on the planet to help couples in trouble.

With your absolute positivity about love and relationships, your charisma and authenticity, you help motivate and guide others to a happy loving relationship.

You give the gift of lovely companionship! God Bless you and your work.

Dawn Cormier-Hazen

Christine Morrison

Christine Morrison

I shifted from a hurt and frustrated separated wife to a solid powerful woman.

This workshop is “all the good things wrapped up into one.” Personally, it helped me with transitioning through one of the most difficult times in my life.

I shifted from a hurt and frustrated separated wife to a solid powerful woman.

Professionally, as a Licensed Clinical Family Therapist and college professor myself, I have learned more in this one workshop than I have in many years of workshops combined.

Personally and professionally speaking, if you are interested in having great relationships….do this workshop!

Christine Morrison

Chris Stuhldreher

Chris Stuhldreher

Now I am a better man.

When I joined the program I was unable to feel, unable to be in touch with myself or to express love to my wife.

I never even drop a tear in 8 years of relations. When the hardest time of the relationship began, I found myself unqualified to resolve our conflict.

Now I am a better man, I have changed 100%, a more open, more emotional, with no fear to share myself with my wife.

I see now that if I can share everything with her, we will create a safer and happy life together!

Thank you Bruce.

Chris Stuhldreher

Susan Barnard

Susan Barnard

We’re closer & happier than ever! Marriage back on track.

Our model 30 year relationship was about to collapse because we didn’t have the skills and knowledge to really connect & communicate effectively.

Marriage counseling made it worse. Then I found this cutting-edge program.

It was a rocky summer going thru it and we haven’t resolved everything yet. NOW, we have excellent tools and innovative methods that really support us!

We’re closer & happier than ever! Marriage back on track. DANCE partners!!

We are so grateful we found Bruce!

His creative approach plus his genuine, personal and supportive group coaching style made all the difference for us this summer.

And we experienced one of our hardest challenges ever, just as the program began in June. I really wasn’t sure we’d make it past that … and wasn’t sure I even cared.

Now, we’re out socializing and swing dancing together again … feeling more loving and encouraged than ever.

Tho we still have LOTS of work to do on our own, Bruce has given us plenty of excellent tools with the possibility of lifetime access to all of them.

And he’ll still be there for us if we need him for private coaching. All very comforting and helpful.

We both feel much more empowered to move past our natural differences that used to get in the way and prevented real connection and communication.

I’m really not sure we’d still be together if we hadn’t found this program when we did.

Bruce certainly over-delivers for all of us.

Big HUGS to you, Bruce!!

Muchas, muchas gracias!!

Susan Barnard

Rebecca

Rebecca

If you are ready to give up, you need to try this program first.

Divorce was my next step. After 11 years of marriage and 2 kids, we had slowly drifted apart until I felt completely disconnected and misunderstood.

Being parents kept us highly motivated to try everything to save our marriage, but we were running out of things to try.

We had tried individual and couples counseling with mediocre results. We just needed to learn the tools to connect and communicate. Bruce was able to do that.

I stumbled across Bruce’s program just in time. Another month may have been too late, we were on the brink of giving up entirely.

Now, even though it’s still not easy, at least we feel like we have the tools and skills to move through conflict towards a more positive result.

If you are ready to give up, you need to try this program first.

A heartfelt thank you to Bruce!

Thank you for sharing your knowledge and gift of teaching with us. It really has made all the difference.

Rebecca

Malin Nordmark

Malin Nordmark

I understand and know my partner better than I have ever done, I love him more deeply than ever.

I loved this program, I loved your videos and the Mentoring Calls.

We got to hear about other couples in trouble and I think that’s good for two reasons.

1. Because we learned a lot from the others. 2. We learned that we are not alone.

We learned that relationships can’t be easy all the time and that you should not break up when things get tough.

The exercises were both hard and very rewarding.

Both I and Christofer have been crying and filled with anxiety, “what are my needs?” “What do I want?” etc. we had no idea what was waiting when we hit that buy button 8 weeks ago but I’m so glad that we did.

And your coaching Bruce, amazing! You have all the information in your head so you know exactly what to answer the instant a question gets asked.

You listen and make sure that you understand completely, your passion is inspiring.

We felt like we could trust you and that’s part of why we spent so much time with this program.

“If Bruce says so then it must be true, we could at least try” (if there was an exercise one of us was afraid of or that felt unnecessary).

This program is hard work, it is entirely up to each person what you get out of it. If you decide to work hard and do all the exercises you will see an incredibly big difference in your relationship.

We have received so many tools and so many insights through the program, love is not just something that happens, it’s something you do and it’s not easy to know exactly what to do, but Bruce has shown us just that.

Everything in this program should be things you learn in school, after every week I have been thinking: “why have not I been told this before?”.

I understand and know my partner better than I have ever done, I love him more deeply than ever.

Malin Nordmark

Sue Mackimmie

Sue Mackimmie

This is the best gift you can give to yourself and your love.

This is the best gift you can give to yourself and your love.

I never thought I could get past being right, or that I do all the giving (insert tearful martyr face here…)

This is a partnership and if you want to move past your sticking points and really make progress in your most important relationship, take this course.

Bruce is a great coach, using teaching tools from many experts, and being an unbiased coach – not a therapist or cop or family member who means well.

You can make progress and see a brighter future. I would never have thought we could really have so much intimacy and hope for our future which has already started.

I was at the end of my proverbial rope, with nothing else to lose, we signed up and did the homework, took advantage of the Mentoring Calls and now we have this bond that is solid.

My partner is my best friend and we have so much love and have de-garbaged our relationship. It’s so much lighter and I have so much more insight into what my partner treasures and I can offer that.

INVEST in your love and yourself and your future together as a loving, best friend team. You won’t regret it!

The anonymity of calls online was so helpful in staying focused and feeling free to talk about issues.

The price! totally affordable and we could just move ahead.

I’ve spent the cost of my house in SF on therapy over the last few decades and I got further with this short course than ever before.

Sue Mackimmie

Kaira Wyss

Kaira Wyss

After only two sessions our relationship turned around completely.

I am a 58y old woman from Europe that did a lot of personal growth work in my past.

I also struggled through many relationships and two failed marriages. Of all the interesting work I’ve done, Bruce’s Love At First Fight curriculum has been the clearest, most helpful, expedient, insightful, most professionally put together and most lovingly and joyfully delivered!

I enrolled together with my boyfriend of 2 years.

We love each other very much but were completely stuck in the Power Struggle phase without knowing it.

We experienced it as a complete break down of our otherwise excellent, open and honest communication and a total loss of connection, which hurt and scared us tremendously.
We simply did not know how to deal with the sudden misunderstandings, the feelings of alienation, of experiencing the partner as an enemy and of total hope- and helplessness in our previously so beautiful, intimate and deeply caring relationship

We were desperate because no communication could solve our problems!

We were headed towards a totally unwanted break up and were devastated by the thought of another relationship failure. Since I remembered that a relationship has to fall out of the Romantic Stage in order to grow, I googled “relationship phases” and checked different sites that were dealing with this issue.

Bruce’s energy was so upbeat, loving, confident and supportive that we felt very comfortable right away. After only two sessions our relationship turned around completely. Connection and communication were restored, we learned about the deeper causes of our problems and how to solve them expediently.

It was such a liberating and nonjudgmental process, we were utterly elated and in awe of it! It had no therapeutic feel to it, which we really liked, having had unsatisfying experiences with couples therapy in former relationships.

The greatest result is that we feel like a deeply loving, committed, invincible team now. We got the skills to deal with future challenges, and we can share what we learned with other couples!

Thank you Bruce, for your service to the world!

Kaira Wyss

JULIE ROBBINS

Julie Robbins

This program transformed everything in just three weeks.

We’re totally on track and LOVING this program. Unlike most courses, programs, books, coaching, counselling I’ve come across or experienced – I would love to inspire EVERYONE interested in a more fulfilling life to do this course.

Sebastian and I are giving it our all and it’s transformed everything in just three weeks (we started a week before the course by watching videos we found on your website).

Not only am I reaping the benefits of the course with myself and in my marriage, but I’m also really enjoying and appreciate your skills and heart at holding space for people in their vulnerability, their courage and their possibility.

I engage in a leadership circle with colleagues from different parts of the world and last week shared with them some gems from your course – which I described to them as a leadership course about cultivating deeply fulfilling relationships.

What you’ve created here Bruce is huge – know that we’re working our butts off and enjoy your videos and you during the live calls – and although some of them are super challenging (mostly to the ego!) we’re also really enjoying the exercises.

Julie Robbins

Pamela Cournoyer

Pamela Cournoyer

This program has saved our marriage.

Our marriage is transforming right before our eyes! Thank you for sharing this invaluable information, you are a delight to work with, I love how you make it safe to share.

Bruce, I’m a communications expert myself (by profession), and you’ve just taught me how to listen!

I am seeing Michael and I connecting faster, and becoming more vulnerable with each other without defensiveness.

We’re in a whole different space now and I’m not scared of what might happen anymore. Thanks to what we’ve learned, I know now that we have the tools to deal with anything.

We’re only on Week 3, but I have to tell you, this program has saved our marriage. My work has skyrocketed and I know that’s because of the peace that I have with my husband now.

We WILL finish this class, because it’s just so wonderful.

We told our kids about your program, they are watching the free video’s right now, can’t wait to get them enrolled in this!

Thank you Bruce.

Pamela Cournoyer

Mandi Ellefson

Mandi Ellefson

From very rocky, to a deep love

Bruce, thank you so much for all of the time and energy you put into our relationship.

Our marriage has gone from very rocky, with us both being hurt and resentful, to a deep love that I didn’t think was possible.

You helped us create a safe space to open up and be close again. And it has had a lasting impact in every area of my life.

I am now a better, wife, mother, and overall person. I have grown so much as a person through our brief time working together. Jay and I have both grown in love and appreciation.

You have accomplished miracles where marriage counseling, personal therapy, a seminar, and countless books fell short.

Thank you for all the time and care you have taken to develop and share your gifts with the world. You are providing an invaluable service. This is the best investment we have ever made as a couple in our 10 years together.

Mandi Ellefson

Jason Foote

Jason Foote

If things seem unbearable, hold off just 7 more weeks

Well what a journey this has been. I joined this program to attempt to re-engage with my ex (mother of my daughter) after a considerable break and a tumultuous 7 year relationship.

Not only did it re-engage us, it has given me massive insight to myself and relationships in general.

This course is very well researched and effectively compiled for maximum results.

7 weeks is not long to make such a considerable change in your relationship.

If you are thinking of leaving your partner or if things seem unbearable, hold off just 7 more weeks with an open mind and a willingness to resolve relationship issues once and for all.

Jason Foote

Verity Noble

Verity Noble

We have fallen back in love

I just wanted to write you an email and say how life changing this experience has been for us.

We were in a really rocky place and although we haven’t yet managed to complete the whole course, it has changed our relationship immensely.

We have fallen back in love, we argue less, we’re more understanding and most importantly, we can see how to succeed for the long-term.
I have been telling a ton of people how amazing the course is so wanted to find out if you had some kind of referral system so that I can put them in touch with you or send them a link to the next course?

Huge congratulations on producing such a fantastic curriculum, one that truly works.

Verity Noble

Todd Sedelmeier

Todd Sedelmeier

We’ve been in tears of joy

Man, you blew the doors off of what I was expecting. Not only did my girl and I come together in a whole new way, but I finally felt understood by her like I never have.

As a result, we’re more intimate, our sex has improved, our love and appreciation is deeper… and friends keep telling us that we are ‘such a great couple’.

We’ve been in tears of joy and since then, I’ve been applying my new understanding of relationships and communication in my business with clients and with my family and with my friends.

This work is soooo important.

Thanks Bruce!

Todd Sedelmeier

Anna Burns

Anna Burns

We are kinder to each other, more loving and... more romantic too!

Having known Bruce through his Designer Life courses we both knew as soon as the info landed in our inbox that it was the course for us.

The 7 week course really has changed our relationship. We were stuck in a cycle of power struggles and very independent, which meant we were not always kind or compassionate towards each other.

The fantastic videos, along with the excellent weekly exercises allowed us gently and genuinely to relook at ourselves and our relationship and to create a new way of being with each other, in only 7 weeks.

The weekly conference calls were a great addition too, with lots of lovely participants sharing from their hearts.

Since finishing the course, we have had very little conflict, and any conflict we have had has been resolved quickly and easily. We are kinder to each other, more loving and are experimenting with being more romantic too!

We now do fun things together on the weekend, instead of complaining that we don’t have anything in common! And we’ve just celebrated our 12th anniversary, so it was a wonderful anniversary gift to ourselves.

I’ll admit we were geeky and did all our homework every week as instructed, but I’d really recommend this – get as much as you can out of it while it runs, you can always go back and redo some parts at a more in depth level later on.

I’d totally recommend Bruce’s Love at First Fight programme – it really changed our whole relationship.”

Anna Burns

Cheryl Coffey

Cheryl Coffey

Attending this class saved our relationship.

After my divorce I found myself slipping back into an old pattern of three month relationships. Either I or the man I was dating would run at the first sign of trouble.

As my current relationship approached three months I received an email from Bruce about his “Love at First Fight” program, so I signed up. The timing was perfect.

Bruce taught me to see and overcome my escape tendencies, increase my understanding of myself and my partner and gave me the confidence to stay present as we worked through our struggles.

Attending this class saved our relationship.

I am so grateful for his help and encourage everyone, no matter what your relationship circumstances, to take this class. Bliss is attainable.

Cheryl Coffey

Lorne Noble

Lorne Noble

It is now my greatest pleasure to support my wife

I didn’t realize it, but my wife and I had started living completely independent lives.

Bruce’s programme has helped us understand each other, communicate more effectively and avoid the daily friction and pain.

It is now my greatest pleasure to support my wife in the way she wants and consequently, she understands when I need space. We have reconnected on a level I never imagined and it’s truly magical.

Thank you so much Bruce, we couldn’t be happier.

Lorne Noble

Lyndel Maroske

Lyndel Maroske

Made me feel I was normal.

Bruce, your program is one of the most comprehensive and easy to understand programs for couples I can imagine finding.

I loved the naturalness of your presentation and the anecdotes from your own relationship, which made me feel I was normal.

While my partner didn’t participate as much as I had expected, the skills and info that I shared with him still succeeded in bringing about much needed improvements in our relationship.

With the videos, exercises and coaching calls, the program is excellent value for money.

I have already recommended the program to other friends and family members.

I just want to thank you Bruce, for your hard work in putting together such an insightful and brilliant couple’s program!

Lyndel Maroske

Tessa Klein

Tessa Klein

I gave my husband an ultimatum...

I couldn’t stand the fighting any more. We’d seen two other therapists who couldn’t help us at all.

I gave my husband an ultimatum – either figure out how to communicate better, or I’m moving out. My bags were packed!

I can’t believe it, but my husband and I actually made it through our big fight yesterday. After going through Love at First Fight, I think we are actually going to make it.

So, we are on the mend. Thank you Bruce! I enjoy how committed you are. You worked some magic here because we were definitely a worst-case scenario!

Tessa Klein

Craig Filek

Craig Filek

This saved me years of conventional therapy

Bruce – I just had to reach out and thank you. An hour on the phone with you saved me years of conventional therapy. The maps of relationship you laid out, combined with insights from the Enneagram about the specific needs my partner and I have – brilliant!

Your gentle and penetrating insights are very easily received and I’m confident my road ahead in this relationship will be much smoother as a result.

Thanks for turning the lights on for me!

Craig Filek

Caryn V.

Caryn

Before this program I had low self esteem...

Before this program I was wishy washy, had low self esteem and was powerless in all of my relationships. Now I have clarity on healthy relationships, my confidence has increased and my relationship with my son, friends and family are so much more fulfilling now.

I highly recommend this program for anyone in relationships or single.

Caryn

Angel Lek

Angel Lek

Do not sacrifice what you want most for what you want right now.

Hi Bruce, I entered this program ready to grow and change the way I usually behave in relationships, and I feel like I have learnt exactly how to do that in the past few weeks.

The most beneficial tool to us so far has been the communication skill you taught us in week 2. We started using it, I learned that before we broke up he had been feeling as if this relationship was THE ONE and that scared him. I had no idea that he considered me THE ONE!

When I first asked him to do this program with me eight weeks ago, we had just broken up and he agreed to only as a means of figuring out what had gone wrong. He said that we could reevaluate in two months and see if we were actually compatible. Of course, those beginning weeks were horrible and filled with fear that he would leave at any moment, but what you taught us about Hailstorms and Turtles and their specific needs motivated me to stop myself from acting out whenever I felt insecure.

It was amazing how safe that conversation made me feel, and we definitely could not have done it without everything you taught us! I can easily imagine a similar conversation in the past building up into accusations and conflict, so I cannot thank you enough for helping us avoid that. I kept this quote at the back of my mind: “Do not sacrifice what you want most for what you want right now.”

Although we still have a long way to go, we’re definitely loving and connected now. This is a HUGE improvement from the pain we were both in just eight weeks ago.

Thank you so much Bruce, for guiding us through this and for being such a phenomenal person and coach. I love what you do for people and there really should be more people teaching these essential life skills. I’ll really miss talking to you!

Thank you once again, my gratitude is beyond words.

Angel Lek

Vikki Brown

Vikki Brown

I found what I was looking for before I even finished the course.

I highly recommend The Love of First Fight coaching program for any couple wishing to grow their relationship and connect on a deeper level.

Heck, I recommend this course for single people too. I was single when I signed up – wanting to learn as much as possible about myself and the best way to create an intimate, loving and connected relationship!

I found what I was looking for before I even finished the course.

Bruce’s open and honest style of teaching/coaching, videos with the practical exercises, the live coaching calls that link current relationship theory and neuroscience creates a package that will meet the needs of most every type of adult learner. Give your self the gift of love. Join Bruce for 7 weeks.”

Vikki Brown

Jay Ellefson

Jay Ellefson

We're closer than we could have ever imagined

Bruce, I just wanted to take a minute to thank you for all the work you did with Mandi and I. Your relationship coaching has brought us closer than we could have ever imagined.

We thought we wanted to go back to the way things were when we married but you’ve put us into a place far beyond that.

I know that you have a life other than work, so making an exception and doing our sessions on Saturday was less than optimal for you. Thank goodness you stuck with us.

Our time with you has made such and difference in our lives. We have become so much closer in every respect.

Again, I can not express how grateful I personally am for your kindness and help.

Jay Ellefson

Rhonda Darling

Rhonda Darling

We were not talking... and now we are

The Love at First Fight program has brought renewed hope into our relationship. We were not talking to one another before the course began and now we are. We are beginning to see one another and our relationship in a new way.

Bruce cares deeply about his clients and supporting them in getting the most out of the program. He creates a safe and accepting space to explore yourself and your relationships in order to create greater happiness and wholeness.

Rhonda Darling

Rebecca Mead

Rebecca Mead

I have changed.

I have changed. I’m using the things I learned to discuss things with my husband. I find I am listening to him, calming him, soothing him.

This program is amazing. It has changed my view on relationships.

I now understand what behaviours negatively impact my relationship and what to do to make my relationship better. Amazing. I really loved this course and was sad when it finished

Rebecca Mead

Lynette Anderson

Lynette Anderson

I have not felt this connected or in love with Andre in years.

I just wanted to send a mail to say thank you. I have not felt this connected or in love with Andre in years. During the first week I was very nervous – especially looking into his eyes – I wanted to crawl out of my skin and run away… But I didn’t and it has been so beautifully worth it for us.

Your program has been put together magnificently. It is easy to see how passionate you are about helping people to love each other and have wonderful relationships.

I have not been able to express any sort of love for a very long time to anyone. It feels like something has melted away now and these gorgeous, warm and fuzzy feelings have come tumbling out – I am so excited – I feel alive again.

Thank you.

This sounds cheesy – but you really have changed my life forever.

Lynette Anderson

Dezana Aman

Dezana Aman

Far more than I expected...

This comprehensive interactive course was far more than I expected.

I highly recommend it to anyone wanting to understand how to succeed in a fulfilling partnership of any kind.

Bruce is down to earth, creative and colorful. He makes you understand why you want a relationship in the first place!

Dezana Aman

Laura Haspela

We have more time connecting. Less time pouting and turning away from each other.

The skills I learned through this course have positively impacted all of my relationships, not just my marriage.

There were so many aha moments.

I realized that we earn loving relationships through our hard work. I was living the dream that our love should be easier than this if it is true love…if I am with the right man. Bullshit. Relationships are work…loving, rewarding work.

We have more time connectingLess time pouting and turning away from each other.

I had no idea it was possible to turn fighting into a bonding ritual. Bruce showed us how!

Bruce is a gifted and unique coach. His vulnerability and authenticity are inspiring.

He is a warm, wise soul, playful and fun loving, and not afraid to call you on your bullshit.

Laura Haspela

Dan Lee

Dan Lee

Instead of fighting each other, we began to work together to break the cycle of harsh words and hurt feelings

With 32 loving, faithful and nurturing years of marriage, my wife and I had begun to lose the luster of our relationship, slipping into bickering and fighting.

I always “had to be right” and she felt that I never really heard her, as she was sorely missing the language of love that she wants, needs and deserves.

And we both missed the common ground of intimacy as we engaged in a self-defeating exercise of misunderstanding.

Bruce’s program brought all of this into perspective, and instead of fighting each other, we began to work together to break the cycle of harsh words and hurt feelings — and once again we became a couple working together and not against each other.

The time, the tools, and the coaching made all the difference.

Bravo, Bruce!

Dan Lee

Laura and Tom Davis

Laura and Tom Davis

I am married today because of my participation

This is an amazing, AMAZING, program! The information presented here needs to be shared with everyone and anyone that is involved in any type of a relationship!

If two people are committed to work through the program, I cannot imagine how their marriage could fail!

So superior to any books I have read and tried to apply, and marriage counseling.

I am married today because of my participation – thank you Bruce Muzik!

Laura and Tom Davis

Michael Frazier

Michael Frazier

What made the biggest difference was learning how to listen

Bruce has given me the confidence that I will be able to handle whatever comes along in my relationship- and stuff IS gonna come along!!

I feel like I have just taken flying lessons and I will respond appropriately should we suddenly fly into some unexpected turbulence.

For me, what made the biggest difference was learning how to listen and BE OKAY with whatever she is feeling, without trying to get her to stop feeling it to make myself more comfortable.

I can relax!!!

Michael Frazier

JENNIFER MCCAIN

Jennifer McCain

We have been able to have SEVERAL conflict conversations without ANY fighting... It’s been a lifesaver.

We were so in love, and yet we couldn’t stop the fighting. It was going to destroy us.

Seeing a therapist just didn’t seem like it would be enough. I heard about this program and decided to give it a try.

The program is flexible and allowed us to really focus on our communication issues.

We have been able to have SEVERAL conflict conversations without ANY fighting as a result. It’s been at least a couple of weeks since our last angry conversation.

We feel so much more connected and so much closer now. It’s been a lifesaver.

We are more in love than ever.

Jennifer McCain

Beth A.

Beth A.

We were 2 months from divorce...

When we came to the program, my husband had estimated we were “2 months from divorce”.

Married for nearly 23 years, so it was worth the investment in relationship coaching. (Which is A LOT cheaper than marriage counseling.)

By week 3 of this program, things were turning around in a big way. Today, at the end of the program we have fallen in love with each other again.

Everything this program promises is possible, including returning to “hot sex”.

Beth A.

Beth A.

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Jill M.

This program should be done by every individual on earth, whether in a relationship or not.

This program is phenomenal. I did the EST training when I was 8 years old in 1978, and since that time filled my life with trainings of all sorts. I have read and done several of the various techniques that Bruce brought to this course and was familiar with almost everything. My previous work was all done independently, at random, and not until Bruce’s workshop, where he skillfully provided a guided format was I able to connect all the dots, to see a view like never before, a result like no other in regards to relationships. 

What’s SO BRILLIANT about what you, Bruce, have done is that you have put all these amazing tools and techniques and research together in such a way that it has the most profound effect I have ever experienced in my life in regards to personal transformation. You had the bigger view to see what pieces needed to be put in place to make the “relationship puzzle” complete, for my own relationship to become a more transparent, loving, communicative relationship with my husband, (and myself!). It’s absolutely hands down, an unprecedented life changing realm. And, again this is coming from someone who has spent their whole life doing this kind of work, (40 plus years) utilizing various modalities for empowerment, healing, and transformation. 

This program should be done by every individual on earth, whether in a relationship or not. I see it realistically, not optimistically, as a viable avenue, with the holding capacity to bring about world peace, based simply on the foundation of communicating to each other our “softer feelings”. What I learned in the workshop was that these tender feelings we are scared to express and let people see, once expressed, are in reality what brings us fearlessness. And, in turn, have the ability to generate compassion and empathy in the listener. That was a life changer.

Bruce, you are The Great Encourager, giving people the courage to be loving and kind, take the first step, and be bigger than they have known themselves to be.

I am eternally, and beyond eternity, grateful for you, Bruce. 

With much love and much respect, 

Jill M.

Jill M.

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Amy

I wish I would not have waited so long to seek out Bruce for help.

When I first started the Love at First Fight course, my marriage was in jeopardy.  Our discussions seemed to always escalate in the typical power struggle mode of disagreement.  

My spouse was not supportive of taking this with me, so I took the steps to go through the course on my own, for my personal growth.  

On each mentoring call, Bruce was sensitive to each individual’s situation. When I would share my celebrations and struggles, he was genuinely interested in what was going well and was equally determined to help each person with the next step of their own personal relationship journey. 

Even though I implemented the exercises independently, the change that overcame me spilled over to my spouse and we have been able to have healthy discussions and more physical intimacy.  

I wish I would not have waited so long to seek out Bruce for help.  

If you are struggling in your relationship, give Bruce a chance. He is credible, caring, and a wonderful human being!  You won’t be sorry you took the step to allow him to coach you.

Follow-up email from Amy

Amy

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Angela Bard

My partner and I have never been more connected... we live as a team everyday supporting our love.

Bruce is brilliant.  My partner and I have never been more connected.  

We have been able to apply the tools Bruce taught us in his Love at First Fight program and move through repetitive arguments that had eventually cause us to separate and question if we wanted to stay together. 

Bruce has designed a program that teaches you connection first and he shares research from around the world that impacts relationships. 

Not only do these tools help you understand your reactions but also your partner’s reactions which helped us to become vulnerable and react from a place of love instead of being defensive.  

I cannot say enough about the Love at First Fight program. 

I would and have recommended this program to anyone whether they are currently in a relationship or not.  I learned so much about myself and was able to show up for my partner and we live as a team everyday supporting our love. 

Angela Bard

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Laura

This is not an average couple counselling program in which you are advised to improve your communication skills – this relationship course goes much deeper than that.

“Love at First Fight” is an amazing program that will challenge you to see things differently – not only about yourself, but also about your partner and your relationship, as a whole.

In my case, even though I have been studying personal development for several years and have read many books and articles about relationships, it has still brought up new things that I have never knew or even considered – such as learning about the “5 stages of a relationship”, how your childhood wounds can affect your relationship, how your blind spots and escape hatches can sabotage your relationship, as well as how to create a handbook to your heart to give to your partner, instead of expecting them to guess your needs, wants and requirements.

Also, Bruce is an amazing teacher, who not only has made his own mistakes in the past that he learned from, but he is now leading the way through example.

This is a very important aspect to consider when joining a relationship coaching program – so always do your thorough research prior to joining a couple counselling program and ask yourself: Is the instructor leading the way through example or just paraphrasing from books, like many others, while their personal life and relationship/marriage is far from what they are preaching?

I have personally done what I am advising you to do, before joining this program. And now that I have completed it, I can say that this is not an average couple counselling program in which you are advised to improve your communication skills – this relationship course goes much deeper than that.

But don’t just take my word for it. Instead, look up Bruce on LinkedIn or Facebook, listen to his Ted Talk, or his free relationship videos on YouTube and read his free articles on the web – and you will understand what I mean.

I can assure you that if you are serious about your partner and your relationship, this course will be one of the best investments that you will ever make in your life!

Laura

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Samantha Du Toit

I hope this course goes forever because when our kids get engaged we’re sending them both on this course.

We would highly recommend couples to do this course at the start of their journey.

I hope this course goes forever because when our kids get engaged we’re sending them both on this course.

It’s incredibly valuable for everyone to spend the time understanding themselves, what makes them tick, how and why they react the way they do, and what they truly value.

Bruce is so passionate about everything that he teaches and he’s so knowledgeable.

We learnt so much about ourselves and each other in the last 7 weeksmore than we did in the last 10 years of being married.

Thank you Bruce.

Samantha Du Toit

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Denisa and Shihab

I was initially skeptical...

Bruce….you the man!!!

For some background, Denisa and I come from diametrically opposite backgrounds (She is Romanian and I am Indian) and we have been in a long distance relationship for about a year now.

We decided to enter your program because we couldn’t figure out how to resolve our challenges by ourselves, as it seemed that we were having the same arguments over and over again or creating new conflicts without resolving old ones.

It has been a struggle at times and though we love each other deeply, our conflicts usually ended up in both of us feeling hurt and miserable.

It was Denisa’s idea to seek help and she found your body of work. I was initially skeptical as I wasn’t sure how effective it would be, however your program completely changed my views and you totally delivered with all your promises!

As a direct result of going through your course, we are both happier, feel more connected to each other, are safe and secure in each other’s love and are so much more comfortable together than we have ever been. The weekly calls and your insight have given us a more profound understanding of how our relationship works and a lot of credit for that goes to you.

Thank you so much for all your help and support, it has been an enlightening experience going through the program together and both of us have walked away from it having learnt so much more about each other and ourselves.

With lots of love,

Denisa and Shihab

Denisa and Shihab

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Jel

After us seeing two couples counsellors over several years... THIS was the course that knocked our socks off.

After us seeing two couples counsellors over several years and a lot of “communication tools” THIS was the course that knocked our socks off and actually spoke to both of us, and we are using this as a foundation to build our relationship.

EVERYONE should do this course, whether or not you are actually in conflict – I wish I had found this years ago.

Bruce is an excellent teacher and I absolutely recommend it

Jel

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Jane J

It has helped us have a united approach to our children. 

I feel so much more safe with my husband.  He is more open and I feel special to him because he has let me into his inner life again.  Our sex life has improved because I don’t feel like he is just looking for me to do another chore.

It is about both of us expressing love and having fun. I have become a calmer person and things that use to make me hailstorm do not any longer.

I realize so much of my behavior that was bugging my husband was just a bid for attention.  It has helped us have a united approach to our children.  They know we are doing the program and we have talked about what we have learned. 

We were always a loyal family and protective of each other but now we are more mindful of our interactions with each other and being kind. 

Thank you Bruce.

Jane J

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Denise

Bruce far exceeds any marriage therapy session one could take.

The videos Bruce made each week were informative, enlightening and helpful.

Bruce is masterful at integrating research from various experts, such as John Gottman and David Deida, into his various topics.

In addition, Bruce added personal experiences with a dose of his own vulnerability and realness.

He is better than any therapist I have ever had.

Most importantly, he seems to really care about his program and the effectiveness of it.

He helped me by modeling the tools to examine my behavior more effectively.

I have attended marriage counseling with reputable Ph.D. therapists, who have studied the research of John Gottman and other relationship experts. However, Bruce Muzik is a master communicator and so well-read with best practice and research.

Bruce far exceeds any marriage therapy session one could take, providing both partners commit to the program.

I would pay to see him live.

Denise

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Mark Johnson

To anyone falling out of love with someone you know you used to love, this will change your lives.

After 32 years of a fabulous relationship and life together, we found ourselves emotionally disconnected and finally physically disconnected knowing something was wrong.

The scary thing was, we being smart people had no idea how to fix it.

We went to counseling; counsel tells you what you can and can’t do, we read books, but we got no tools that worked for us. Our relationship was broken and we didn’t know how to fix it!!

A very scary point when the wife suggested she stay at a friend’s house….and I was helping her pack her bag out of frustration and helplessness.

Just as she was at the door, she came into the den to say goodbye. Out of desperation, I was searching the internet for answers and had just watched your ‘intro’ video and it spoke to me.

With tears running down my face, I asked if she would take a moment and just watch it with me….I’m crying again as I type this…. sorry.

Bruce, you saved our marriage!!!!!

It spoke to her and to me in a way that was unimaginable. We are more in love emotionally and physically than we ever thought possible.

We have reduced our escalation of conflicts in number and intensity by 90% and understand what to do now when it happens. We are deeply in love and committed to each other’s requirements, needs, and wants.

Bruce has a special gift to provide insight and understanding in a non-judging non-threatening way on deeply personal and emotional subject matters.

He is honest and vulnerable about himself.

To anyone falling out of love with someone you know you used to love, this will change your lives.

It’s the best of the best of the best of Marriage coaching all rolled into one concise program.

Mark Johnson

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Anonymous

The Mentoring Calls have been absolutely awesome!!! We love them!

Now, after four weeks into the program, we are loving each other, she has moved back in with me.

Our arguments are a thing of the past, we are connected and we have acquired so many tools to de-escalate and resolve conflict, that it rarely occurs anymore.

We were simply ignorant and quite frankly, didn’t know how to love each other, that awareness and realization overall was a very humbling experience!

I am now able to love her and she is able to love me.

We have gained valuable insight and understanding as to what went wrong, why it went wrong and why we both suffered so painfully for 5 long and agonizing years.

We no longer live with fear, hurt, unresolved conflict, anger or disconnection.

We are not perfect and still have on occasion a disagreement, but it resolves very quickly and we can easily love each other and end things in a warm embrace instead of a “freeze & flee” result which is so destructive.

We will always be grateful Bruce for what you have given us in this program, it has saved our relationship, our lives, our original music along with our hopes, aspirations, and dreams.

We now live in peace and harmony and can be the loving songwriting team that we need to be to make our existence successful. We look forward to completing the program and making LAFF a lifestyle for the remainder of our lives.

When we are done, we will on occasion repeat the program so it stays fresh and we can obtain deeper things we didn’t catch the first time though.

I burned all the Mentoring Calls to date (4 weeks along with the welcome call) onto a CD that we listen to in the car, and although we have attended every Mentoring Call, we have found that we get so much out of doing this.

We gain much deeper insight, are able to listen more in-depth and get more out of it after multiple listens.

I was a bit skeptical when I found out that we would meet as a group and thought that perhaps I might get a bit lost in the mix, but I was wrong to doubt in any fashion, it turns out just as you said, being part of the group works extremely well and offers more than what we would probably get out of doing it one on one.

Things that I didn’t think of in many cases someone else did, or problems that I thought I didn’t have someone else did and I was just not aware that I had the same troubles or had not faced them yet.

We have learned a lot listening to the perspective of others, listening to your responses to them as well as sharing our journey and where we are at and getting feedback on that.

The Mentoring Calls have been absolutely awesome!!! We love them!

Anonymous

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Anonymous

7 short weeks later my wife calls me ‘her man’.

My wife asked me for a separation 9 weeks ago. I said no or I knew we were finished. She found this online course and said she would commit to the 7 weeks.

We worked at it diligently and put other things aside for the sake of our children.

We had worked with two marriage counselors over the past 10 years and were familiar with the 5 Languages of Love, Susan Johnson’s work with attachment theory etc.

It all made sense but nothing really changed in our relationship. We were still deeply unhappy and just felt ‘we had married the wrong person’.

With your course, 7 short weeks later my wife calls me ‘her man’ and I feel real love for her for the first time in years.

We are excited by our new tools, language, and learning.

You have something that makes it all work. By observation, I would say it is not only the skill that you bring to the Marital Therapy arena but something more powerful.

I believe it is a congruence of belief, speech, and action.

By this, I mean that to have the positive kind of influence that you have, you must own an unshakably held core belief-that couples in most instances can not only ‘work it out’ but be thrilled with the partner that once was the object of a seething resentment.

You really and truly believe it yourself.

This is powerful. It cannot be faked and the motive behind the results is a pure one. It is not the money but a passion for good relationships that drives you.

This combined with genuine enthusiasm toward those relationships, skilled pedagogical technique, fantastic materials, and insight all make for a program that CANNOT be overlooked by anyone interested in a better relationship.

My only caveat is that these techniques are so powerful that dishonest men and women can misuse them to make anyone they choose to fall in love with them!

So thank you, Bruce, for so diligently pursuing your life’s passion.

The family is the bedrock of society and your work is saving and enriching that bedrock. This is truly an enduring legacy.

Keep up the great work!

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Barry

You’ll get back 10-fold what you put into it.

My girlfriend and I have just completed the Love At First Fight coaching program and I must say we feel we’re in better shape now because of it.

There is a wealth of really great material in the course – the weekly videos, the calls and the resource material (recommended books, etc.).

It is going to take up a good deal of your time so you will need to come committed but trust me, you’ll get back 10-fold what you put into it.

It’s a very useful course if you need some help to get you through the rockier moments or if you want to grow as people and a couple.

Thank you Bruce!

Barry

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Sherezz

I feel like I can finally breathe for the first time in weeks!

I feel like I can finally breathe for the first time in weeks!

I feel like a lot of the tension that was built up inside of me has mostly dissipated!

Bruce, you can’t begin to understand how thankful I am to you for the two weeks of your program thus far which has started to make a difference in our relationship.

I loved learning about the communication techniques, the bids, and attachment styles. I loved the exercises and the videos. They were very informative and very insightful. I loved the first set of assignments as well.

This program teaches you so much about relationships and about strengthening your emotional connection with your partner.

Thank you!

Sherezz

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Melissa

This program is so amazing. I did this program as a single woman as I had recently separated from my partner.

My relationship with myself has changed. I have more awareness and a greater compassion and love and worth for myself. It’s ok to have needs and to express them. I’m so excited I have the tools to have a healthy, securely attached relationship with great connection and communication tools.

There is so much incredible wisdom and practical tools provided.

I wish I had the tools earlier. Bruce is also so lovely and wise. I recommend this program to everyone.

You learn priceless life lessons and practical tools that I hope everyone learns.

Melissa

Rachel and Neil Macdonald

Rachel and Neil Macdonald

...the only course we have committed to and completed together during our 22 year marriage.

Bruce’s programme exceeded our expectations, our relationship was at rock bottom and we had been stuck for a very long time.

Apart from raising the children, it is the only course we have committed to and completed together during our 22 year marriage.

Bruce helped us to rebuild our friendship, unpick behaviors and skill us up going forward.  The homework was exhausting but we stuck at it and thoroughly enjoyed the journey, thank you Bruce.

 

 

Rachel and Neil Macdonald

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Laura Bailey

If there is a misunderstanding, I can now stop & think instead of assuming the worst & walking away.

From the pre-worksheets to the final video, this course has given me a revolutionary insight into myself, my partner (as he did the course with me) & our relationship.

If there is a misunderstanding, I can now stop & think instead of assuming the worst & walking away.

We are stronger than ever & use elements from the course regularly. 

Laura Bailey

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D.

There was no hope, until I came across Bruce and immediately we were hopeful.

Having gone through a couple of marriage counsellors and failed, we were stuck on the what to do next.

Almost felt like there was no hope, until I came across Bruce and immediately we were hopeful.

The program has not only helped our relationship but the tools we have been provided with will help us with all relationships.

D.

Mitchell Jim

Mitchell Jim

Bless and enrich our union.

34 years into our 2nd marriage (we’re in our 70’s!), we were referred to this program. We discovered much about each other and ourselves that will bless and enrich our union.

I like to say, “Bruce has given us a new toolkit full of live tools for us to practice using.”

Mitchell Jim

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Chisom Adigo

My relationship changed from 30% to 98%

This program was worth it . I thought my marriage was unfixable until I joined Love At First Fight. At some point I said I would go for a divorce.

But the program saved my marriage and it is like we just got married again. My relationship changed from 30% to 98%.

My hubby never agreed to join until the 5th week, but to my greatest surprise when I shared all my homework and assignments – there was one assignment that you would never believe will work.

I can agree with Bruce when you say Connect first and then communicate later – it’s a good strategy.

Bruce I must say so many marriages need you at the moment. Please permit me to invite them. I was scared because I was feeling mine was different because I am African. But I don’t think it has to do with where you come from .

This strategy is an eye opener and has changed my home.

Chisom Adigo

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Angie & Gavin

Our relationship is greatly improved and we look forward to the journey together now.

Bruce knows his love! He is engaging, charismatic and makes the course fun. He is also direct (in a kind way), honest and inherently helpful. You really feel he wants the best for you and your relationship.

The course content is amazing! You learn not only about your relationship but also gain, a much deeper understanding of your part in the dynamics, a much better understanding of your partner and also yourself as an individual. The things you learn within the course can spill over beneficially into other relationships too.

This course packs a loving punch and we feel like better people for it. There were insights and ‘aha’s!’ every week. Our relationship is greatly improved and we look forward to the journey together now.

Angie & Gavin

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Star Bradbury

We have rediscovered  our lost passion again!

Bruce, your course delivered more than I could have even hoped for.

Honestly, our 34 year marriage is experiencing a true renaissance. While we had no major upsets or infidelities, we had lost our connection and joy.

We feel connected, we are feeling joyful even, and we have rediscovered  our lost passion again!

Your course has given us the tools to revitalize our relationship and move it to a much deeper level.

 

 

Star Bradbury

Natalie Wilke

Natalie

This program will provide as much personal growth and insight as it will relationship growth!

This program will provide as much personal growth and insight as it will relationship growth!

Bruce is extremely empathetic and knowledgeable and is easy to relate to – he feels more like a trustworthy friend than a coach.

Natalie

Teresa Hodecker

Teresa Hodecker

Personally your program uncovered what years of therapy I've been through has not been able to figure out.

Going through it solo while still married and ending the program closer to divorce, might seem like your program doesn’t work.

However, I didn’t go through the effort needed to save my marriage because that wasn’t the intention for me taking the course and I have since reached a point that I don’t want the marriage, to much regret and resentment that more the of us want to put in the time to work through.

But I do know that personally your program uncovered what years of therapy I’ve been through has not been able to figure out. As well as new found confidence in myself that will no doubt only get better.

I was also able to pinpoint various contributing factors that led to my upcoming divorce, and had we not waiting so long to get your help …. we could have easily turned things around, no doubt in my mind.

Teresa Hodecker

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Anonymous

I have felt a shift in my marriage and we are both happier as a result.

I am so thankful for the programme.

It has helped me gain insight about myself, my behaviours and what I bring to my marriage.

By doing so, I have felt a shift in my marriage and we are both happier as a result.

Its a wonderful programme, requires effort, but well worth it.

Anonymous

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Lisa Rose

The program provided me with healing in my heart and mind.

Love At First Fight is something I did as a single person. I wanted to work on myself to be ready to able and ready to have a healthy relationship with the right person in the future.

The program provided me with insight about myself within relationships. It also helped me to look at past relationships with a different perspective that provided healing in my heart and mind about them.

I believe that with practice, I will have a strong skill set to apply to my relationships with family, friends, and the relationship that will come into my future.

Lisa Rose

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Mary Ambrose

Even my therapist was asking what course I was taking.

I learned more about myself and my relationship dynamics in this class than any other course I’ve taken.

The material peels back the onion and goes deep.

I combined it with therapy and even my therapist was asking what course I was taking. She noticed how much reflection I was having on my relationship.

Mary Ambrose

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Jeanette Murphy

The course initiated some very intense, in-depth genuine conversations – probably more open and honest conversations in the last 7 weeks than we had over our 40 year relationship put together.

40 years together/ 1 year divorced.   We were both in a bad place with each other. 

Maybe it was meant to be – but I enrolled for the course, and through some very limited emailing, he said he was interested in doing it as well.

So we have completed this course in tandem, but have called on our experiences from when we were together.  We have been meeting weekly to complete the exercises as best we can, given that we are no longer together.

The course initiated some very intense, in-depth genuine conversations – probably more open and honest conversations in the last 7 weeks than we had over our 40 year relationship put together.

The tools provided have been instrumental in allowing us to communicate, connect and hear each other, probably for the first time in a very long time, if ever.

We have covered pretty much every subject and issue that was a relationship killer for us – and we also pondered on how much time and effort was wasted and lost across all those years. 

It has brought closure to a lot of issues that were bumps in the road for a long time, but which became insurmountable mountains by the end and caused the marriage to breakdown. 

Yesterday we even agreed that had we had these tools, and known how to use them, it could have probably saved our marriage. And we fantasized how good our time together could have been, and what our retirement now might have been like.  

I suggested a get-together with our grown children and everyone was keen.  It all fell into place very easily.   We all met up last weekend down in Byron Bay to see a favourite family band, and then spent the weekend together (a first since he and I separated nearly 5 years ago).  And it was lovely. 

Everyone commented on how harmonious and relaxed it all was – none of the angst they were used to. And I think I can speak for both of us, that it was very calm and enjoyable. 

We have both learned a lot about each other and about ourselves through the program, and I would like to thank you for having the insight to put this program together. 

The ability to communicate and connect should be incorporated into the schooling system to assist with the emotional development of young people.  

It is invaluable in being understood and understanding another person – be it in relationships/friendships or other.  And even more invaluable connecting.

 

Jeanette Murphy

Tony C.

Tony C.

Amazing how in just 7 weeks, my wife and I could achieve so much toward building a stronger, more intimate relationship.

It was amazing how in just 7 weeks, my wife and I could achieve so much toward building a stronger, more intimate relationship.

We have had a lot more intimate conversations and have taken time to get to know each other on a deeper level.  It’s helped us appreciate each other more and why we are the way we are…and how to work with each others’ personality a bit better.

Bruce has done a great job hand-selecting the right topics and organizing them in the most impactful manner that allowed us to build on each week.

 

Tony C.

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Lee Heffernan

I wish I had discovered this program a lot sooner!

If you are willing to trust Bruce and work the program, it will be life-changing for your relationship.

You will have a renewed sense of emotional connection, intimacy, and overall joy between you and your partner.  I wish I had discovered this program a lot sooner!

You need to charge more money.  Bruce, I would have paid a lot more for such a wonderful transformation with my partner!

Lee Heffernan

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Gabriela

I took it on my own I learned lots about myself.

I have enjoyed the program, it wasn’t too long and I learned lots of very useful tools and information.

Loved the coaching calls and I got tons of great advice just listening to them. I took it on my own I learned lots about myself. I keep slowly applying it in my relationship.

Hopeful I can single-handedly change my relationship for better.

Gabriela

Cindy Muro

Cindy Muro

It was great to have a booster shot in the arm for our relationship.

This is a great program if you are working on a relationship, or want to know yourself better in preparation for a future relationship. 

I highly recommend it for all humans in relationship with other humans if you want to have deep , delicious relationships. 

I have been married for 41 years and it was great to have a booster shot in the arm for our relationship.

Cindy.

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Michael Keleher

Michael Keleher

I honestly cannot recall ever being as happy as I am now.

I highly recommend this program to any couple whose relationship is in jeopardy, or who just want to be closer to each other, communicate effectively and learn strategies to navigate conflicts that will inevitably arise.

Bruce is an gifted mentor who spends real time with participants, listens carefully (using the techniques he teaches), and provides thoughtful, useful and specific advice. The program provides excellent value for the price, and was invaluable to me.

Communication is more honest, open, vulnerable and immediate. We understand ourselves, and each other, much better. Both of us are happier and less stressed. I honestly cannot recall ever being as happy as I am now.

Michael Keleher

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Michelle Matias

Way more helpful than all of the couples therapy we have ever done!

Way more helpful than all of the couples therapy we have ever done!

The course addresses actual problems and gives actual solutions that work in the real world instead of trying to give tools they think “should” work with an ideal partner in a perfect world that doesn’t exist.

Michelle Matias

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Laura

Relationship status update - 6 months after taking your course.

Dear Bruce,

I attended your relationship course in Oct-Nov 2021 (by myself), and I wanted to share with you a positive update: my boyfriend of 2 years proposed to me recently, on our anniversary day.
When I first reached out to you last year, I felt quite frustrated and helpless, thinking that our relationship might have no future. You made me realize my mistakes right from your first email response – and how I, alone, can turn things around, even without my boyfriends’ participation in the course. You were right. I followed your advice and I also read and applied “The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work” in John Gottman’s book. And it worked!
I wanted to thank you once again for all your advice and support – it has made a great difference in our relationship! Going forward, I will continue to apply the lessons learned and recommend your relationship course to others – because now I know, from my own experience, that they work.
With much appreciation,
Laura

Laura

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Laura

I learned so many things that I had never heard of through years of couples counseling!

This is a fantastic program!

I learned so many things that I had never heard of through years of couples counseling! These things made total sense and I feel the tools were able to help us build up a strong foundation again.

I learned a lot about both myself and my husband and it was all very eye opening!

Highly recommend this program for anyone having marriage struggles!

Laura

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Estela Sainz

In eight weeks he achieved what years of marriage counseling did not.

Bruce’s structured approach to communicating with your significant other will leave you feeling heard and understood.

In eight weeks he achieved what years of marriage counseling did not.

Bruce gets  right into the thick of it. No cliché solutions, no wasted time.

Estela Sainz

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Nicoletta Babbs

I believe, it should be taught at schools.

I found this thorough and highly entertaining program extremely educational for understanding and improving my relationships with others and self.

The constructive relational skills it teaches are deeply steeped in scientific research and are relevant not just to couples but in all contexts of human interactions.

It is so fundamental, I believe, it should be taught at schools.

Nicoletta Babbs

Sarah Cutting

Sarah Cutting

Our relationship was an absolute nightmare and on the brink of ending for good...

Thank you Bruce!

Our relationship was an absolute nightmare and on the brink of ending for good, with the inability to communicate safely, the love completely one sided, regular blow outs and extreme emotional pain, but finally thanks to your online program and guidance we are reconnected, happy and having fun together again and feeling very positive about our future together.

You have literally saved our relationship and no words can thank you enough for that!

Sarah Cutting

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Caitlin Marsh

Worth the investment in your marriage!

Bruce is a wealth of knowledge. He packages many psychological principles into one easy-to-follow guide.

The tools you will learn are extremely useful and the group dynamic allows for sharing of trial and error.

Worth the investment in your marriage!

Caitlin Marsh

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Gina

Better myself for not just in my marriage, but in life.

The Love at First Fight Program has helped me to better communicate with my husband and others.

It has made me realize things that I can work on to better myself for not just in my marriage, but in life. I truly believe that a couple going through this program may have success in their relationship.

Gina

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Anonymous

I will be growing for years to come...

Bruce brings so much passion and excitement to helping you grow your relationship. His desire to build up each individual into their most alive and fulfilled self and then bring them together is inspiring.

I will be growing for years to come from his wisdom and insights.

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Scott

Nothing brought us closer than Love at First Fight.

This course brought to me afresh understanding of myself and in sharing this with my Wife, then her sharing what she discovered about herself, lead us to understand both our selves and each other in a way that cannot be expressed without understating the worth.

We had the “blame game” being played to the fullest and it is being taken out.

Also the tools brought to us in this program brought us to communicating instead of talking at each other.

We’ve tried other courses for couples and even counselling, nothing brought us closer than Love at First Fight.

Scott

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Patti

I feel like this content should be part of our curriculum in the education systems it is that valuable.

In our years of struggles in our marriage we have gone to a marriage counselor, read several books etc., this course, by far, was the most valuable and provided real life tools to help in beginning to heal, grow and repair our relationship. 

We have tools to direct improved communication, we have shared more vulnerability in the last 8 weeks than we have in our 38 years together (35 married).

This truly is worth every penny and more.  I feel like this content should be part of our curriculum in the education systems it is that valuable.

Bruce has done a fantastic job with the right content, and how the program is laid out.  I can’t say enough about the program.

Patti

Gil Glastetter

Gil Glastetter

The program was a huge surprise.

The program was a huge surprise.

Learning about just how many other couples are experiencing the same things we have been going through.

Gil Glastetter

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Andrew

I've become more open and willing to engage on sensitive topics, feelings, and hurts.

I’ve become more open and willing to engage on sensitive topics, feelings, and hurts.  I’ve become more open to hers as well.

Bruce’s program is exceptional.  It’s enlightening, challenging, and well worth it! 

It is understandable and provides proven strategies to spur authentic communication and genuine connection.

Andrew

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Anonymous

The program helped us reconnect after 19 years of marriage.

The program helped us reconnect after 19 years of marriage.

Taking the time to talk and create intimacy was just what we needed. We learned skills needed to open communication back up again.

Anonymous

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Alessandra Farneti

How to grow personally and together in a healthy and happy relationship.

I really enjoyed to attend Bruce’s Program, very interesting, enlightening and useful to everyone wishing to know the dynamic of love and human relationships.

Whether in a relationship to improve it or preparing to start a new one with awareness and confidence, I think this Program gives all the tools and inputs on how to grow personally and together in a healthy and happy relationship.

Alessandra Farneti

Crayton and Rosalind Williams

Crayton and Rosalind Williams

We were angry with each other most days and did not know what to do... One of the BEST decisions we made in our marriage!

We do not have enough words to express how grateful we are for taking Bruce’s “Married At First Fight” coaching program.  His program has truly been a blessing and was much needed at the time we signed up. 

We were really struggling to just converse with each other over little or big topics. We were angry with each other most days and did not know what to do. 

I came across an advertisement of Bruce’s program and signed up.  I told my husband after I signed up and asked him if he would join me in attending. I know he was tired of the way we were communicating also and he agreed to participate.

One of the BEST decisions we made in our marriage! The tools, exercises and coaching provided to us by Bruce was phenomenal!

Thank you, thank you, thank you Bruce!

Crayton and Rosalind Williams

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Christina

I have learned more in these 7 weeks about how to talk to my partner than all 12 sessions with a private counselor...

I found this program to be so enlightening to my own behavior and understanding how my words and actions affect my partner.

The program showed me how changing my dynamic could improve my marriage, even without my partner participating. I have been obsessively reading, watching videos and trying to learn everything I could about relationships to save mine before finding this program.

Bruce puts all the research by leaders in the field into digestible chunks that would have saved me weeks of research, and what’s more is the research alone won’t fix your marriage. You need to learn how to apply it, this does that.

We previously had 12 sessions with a counselor and made no progress. I have learned more in these 7 weeks about how to talk to my partner than all 12 sessions with a private counselor and feel like I can still use these tools to move forward.

Christina

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Coleen Ashmore

I will definitely refer my friends to your program.

I will definitely refer my friends to your program, and use the tools I have learned in my day to day life, as well as any future relationship I may enter into.

Coleen Ashmore

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Anonymous

I would strongly recommend that people take Bruce's course. 

I have never been a believer in taking marriage counseling courses or seeing a marriage counselor, but I would strongly recommend that people take Bruce’s course. 

Bruce does a fantastic job explaining things with real life examples and really makes you feel comfortable about your own situation and teaches you some wonderful tools that can really make the difference.

Bruce’s philosophy of connecting first, then communicating after, is one example that I believe will make all the difference in a relationship.

Anonymous

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Ros

You have really opened my eyes to being vulnerable and expressing myself properly

Thank you so much for this course, Bruce!

You have really opened my eyes to being vulnerable and expressing myself properly in order to communicate more effectively with my partner about my wants and needs.

We now understand each other better and I hope we can grow closer with the tools you have taught us.

Ros

Adrienne Politowicz

Adrienne Politowicz

Repair, renew and reinvent your relationship with yourself and your partner.

I highly recommend Bruce and his Love at First Fight course for anyone who is looking for personal growth both individually and in relationships and to better understand why we keep repeating the same destructive pattens.

The course provides an opportunity to learn about yourself, your partner and how to better connect, communicate, understand our childhood wounds and how they present themselves as raw spots in our relationships as well as identify the cycles we get caught in and how to approach conflict differently; turn towards each other.

It is a lot of work but if you make the commitment to yourself and your relationship, Bruce gives you all the tools to repair, renew and reinvent your relationship with yourself and your partner.

Adrienne Politowicz

Sally Young

Sally Young

We feel closer, more loving, more understood and more connected and are looking forward to where this journey will take us.

This program unlocks all the components needed to have a healthy inspired  evolving marriage with topics on connection, communication, individual needs, teamwork and sex.

It has given us so many tools to navigate situations where we had felt stuck and frustrated.

We feel closer, more loving, more understood and more connected and are looking forward to where this journey will take us.

Sally Young

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Jacinta

A brilliant course that has transformed our relationship.

A brilliant course that has transformed our relationship. We feel so lucky to have come across this program.

It is 1000% times better. We are so much happier and communicating so well.

The best money we have spent and way more effective than coupled counselling as it quickly gets to the root cause of issues.

 

Jacinta

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Kailyn P

I am changing the way that I react to situations

I was pleasantly surprised at the amount of information that the Love at First Fight program offers.

Although my partner was unwilling to participate with me, my relationship has still benefited from the work I have put in.

I have found that I am changing the way that I react to situations because I have more tools and understanding than I did before.

I am definitely glad that I made this investment in my relationship, and ultimately, in my self.

Kailyn P

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Megan King

Together we fell more in love and felt more connected. 

The Love at First Fight program has been a game changer for us. Through the daily connection rituals and doing the weekly exercises together we fell more in love and felt more connected. 

This program brings forward alot of self awareness and relationship patterns the good and the ugly. I believe it is worth the time and reminds you that your relationship is the number 1 priority.

Megan King

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Ashley Kibby

My husband and I are both experiencing greater intimacy and feelings of affection for each other.

Bruce is a relationship guru!

We learned so much useful information about attachment and personality styles which helped us understand each other better. We also learned invaluable tools for resolving conflict in a safe and respectful way, as well as getting to the bottom of the raw spots driving repeating conflict.

We walked away from the workshop with a whole toolbox ranging from step-by-step communication strategies to personality inventories.

My husband and I are both experiencing greater intimacy and feelings of affection for each other.

Ashley Kibby

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Dana

Whether we work it out or not I’m still thankful I did this

The program is really full of incite.  I gathered many tools and uncovered many things about my part in my marriage. 

My wife was unwilling to accompany me on this learning journey for now; however I hope she’ll one day change her mind. 

Whether we work it out or not I’m still thankful I did this; I truly did learn a lot that I will utilize in numerous types of relationships going forward.

Dana

Ian Stevenson

Ian Stevenson

Useful course to any couple who genuinely wishes to improve their relationship

Bruce is very professional, patient, likeable and significantly experienced in this field. He showed a real empathy and built trust by using his own experiences. 

Recommend this very methodical structured and useful course to any couple who genuinely wishes to improve their relationship

Thank you for all your support and words of wisdom.

Ian Stevenson

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Sumi Anirudhan

I find peace through this course, peace with myself and others around me.

I was skeptical of the course at the start. But as each week passed, I learned simple but strong skills to connect, commjnicate and use silence where needed. 

The connecting ritual is such a core and base of it. 

Bruce has gone through various areas and the psychology behind why we are the way we are” was eye opening. 

I find peace through this course, peace with myself and others around me. 

Will recommend to everyone regardless they have struggle or not. This can be a gift given for Wedding.

Sumi Anirudhan

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Rebecca Newell

SO many gold nuggets in this program

I went into this by myself, I’m part of long distance relationship, very skeptical. But from the first emails of the prep work I had hope. 

Not just for the relationship (I wasn’t convinced we would make it) but for myself as a person who never learnt these vital skills. 

Regardless of how our relationship unfolds, the skills I’ve learnt have been able to be transferred in all my relationship, kids, colleagues, work, family. 

SO many gold nuggets in this program and Bruce is such an amazing man. 

Thank you!

Rebecca Newell

Ashley Schneider

Ashley Schneider

The whole program teaches you how to deepen and repair that connection

Bruce gives the best advice up front and for free.

The key thing you need to help your relationship, is to connect first, and communicate later.

The whole program teaches you how to deepen and repair that connection so that you can communicate.

And what couple doesn’t need exactly that!

Ashley Schneider

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Paola and Nick

An eye opener.

We loved the program and the conversations it triggered.

It also was an eye opener for things we each have to work on.

Paola and Nick

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Kylie

We are arguing a lot less and enjoying a renewed feeling of love and team work. 

Bruce’s program has been a game changer for our relationship.

We have learnt a lot about ourselves and each other. We are arguing a lot less and enjoying a renewed feeling of love and team work. 

Thank you so much for the work you have put into this course and your commitment to helping people improve their lives together. 

Thanks Kylie & Grant

Kylie

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Stefan

Worth every grain of money and effort.

You need to invest a lot of time and energy, but if you’re both committed it’s worth every grain of money and effort.

Stefan

Timothy Atkins

Timothy Atkins

Love at First Fight program was a game-changer for us!

Bruce Muzik’s Love at First Fight program was a game-changer for us! Our marriage of 8 years had stalled and we needed some intervention that was fast but thorough. 

This delightful process helped us build the foundation that we didn’t even know we were missing, and provided us enduring communication skills, a positive vision for our relationship, and a pathway to growing together as a couple into the future.

We collaborate more now to make family decisions which has the added benefit of preventing unnecessary friction at a later date. We are both happier and in a better state of mind.

Thanks for all the coaching and wonderful instruction, Bruce!

Timothy Atkins

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Sveinn Kjartansson

Navigate the land mine field of past trauma and miscommunications.

This course has been instrumental in helping to navigate the land mine field of past trauma and miscommunications.

It has given us tools to help reach a softer connection which helps avoid harsh words and fighting attitudes.

Sveinn Kjartansson

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Claire Naylor

A more harmonious existence with less conflict.