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Love At First Fight Reviews

They did it.

So can you.

Steve Rogers

Steve R.

This is serious progress for us... All the best marriage practices, advice and techniques in one program.

Great News!! Two months ago I would have told you that my marriage was not salvageable; that too many bad things have been said and done.  That we are just not good for each other and that our relationship was toxic.  Twenty years of trying and we were still having the same issues with not much improvement. 

I had a realtor, I was looking for places to live and I had a lawyer that I finally got an appointment with.  I was already scoping out other possible relationships, however, I knew that I needed time on my own not another relationship.  I was just married to the wrong person; I was pretty convinced of that.  We had not been intimate in basically two years and I was sleeping in a separate room.  I said though that I still believed in miracles.

So one morning about two months ago, I remembered to turn my will and my life over to a power greater than myself and I had done this many times in the past. But this day, my wife asked me if I would be willing to watch a webinar on relationships and that maybe it would help us get along better after we separated, to be better co-parents, so I agreed.  I wanted to be friends if possible.  I just felt like I could not give my wife what she needed, we couldn’t work together and couldn’t talk about our issues without it blowing up.  I wanted both of us to be happy and if we couldn’t be happy together then I would want us to be happy apart.   

So we watch this free webinar with this guy Bruce Muzik.  He said he had a hard 1st marriage and it drove him to seek out relationship “gurus” and read all the books and learned what went wrong.  He was saying things that I recognized like when he was talking about hailstorms and turtles; that is from Imago (Harville Hendrix). 

He basically described what we are going through like it was just a normal thing that happens in relationships.  I started thinking that maybe there was hope for our relationship. I should also add that both of us came from families affected by addiction 2 generations ago. So we both had lot of unhealthy relationship skills, but we were both working on it, although it didn’t seem to help our marriage. 

Anyway we watch this webinar together and it was good information and I could tell he knew his stuff, because I had also read a lots of relationship books and went to lots of workshops and counselors. He is really down to earth and genuine

So of course there was the sales pitch at the end….. if you sign up with the next 30 minutes you get $100 off and a free lifetime membership….. all that stuff to create urgency.  And I said to my wife, “Are you sure you want to do this? This is a marriage rescue program.” 

We were both at a place where we thought it was over and didn’t want to risk getting back into the same stuff.  But hey this I was thinking might be that miracle I said I was open to.  So we decided to do it. I like the name of it: Love at First Fight. 

And I knew based on all the cash we spend on workshops and coaches and all that stuff that it was a good price and investment in our marriage… even if it didn’t work out in the end.  It costs about the price for one or possibly two hours with a good divorce lawyer, except it is an 8-week course. 

It was the same price as my Costco bill; that place, I tell yeah. So we did it. 

I kind of see this as a metastudy.  All the best marriage practices, advice and techniques in one program.

And for the last two months things have been much better.  I will say there is a lot of soul searching and self-discovery work in it and we are definitely behind, but we are working it.  We even went on a date last night to a nice restaurant, a piano bar that serves tapas.  First date in 2 years probably

That is serious progress for us.  And any program is helpful if time and effort is put into it.  And yes it really helps if both people work the program, but if that is not possible, even if one person does it and the other person sees a change that may make them think a better relationship is possible and things can get better. 

The point is, that even if you feel like your marriage can not possibly be salvaged, you could be wrong like I was. 

The bottom line is that all our issues are actually about our needs not being met. The things that really make us mad is almost never really about our partner; it is about a need we have that we expect them to know about and fulfill.

The more we understand our own needs and our partners needs the better our relationship will be.  The crazy and awesome part is that by is stretching to meet our partner’s needs we actually grow those undeveloped parts of ourselves. 

We can actually help heal our partner and grow at the same time. It’s a beautiful thing. Mature love is the ultimate goal. 

Bruce brings all of the best marriage practices into one program. 

I highly recommend this program for any marriage that isn’t everything you hoped it would be and for people that think their marriage was a mistake or is hopeless and irreconcilable. 

Give it go, it is totally worth it.

Steve R.

Vicki Hamilton

Vicki Hamilton

We can STOP PAUSE THINK RESET...move on...it's great.

Better me, better him, BETTER US: marriage back on track

My husband and I knew we loved each other BUT couldn’t work out why we were fighting so much & slowly disconnecting.

It would usually end in loud accusing voices and blaming each other, and just walking away…until the next time….

Things were gradually getting worse affecting not only us, but our beautiful daughter.

The universe landed me on Bruce’s page…I loved the intro video so much, I immediately shared it with my husband, who was also impressed & that was the beginning of our new beginning.

After taking the course with Bruce, we now have a better understanding of WHY we each act the way we do.

A complete game changer….

This knowledge, along with some connection and communication skills, has helped us to finally get back to being kind, loving & understanding towards each other.

We are no longer taking what each other does/says personally because we understand how our personality types figure into our actions.

We can STOP PAUSE THINK RESET…move on…it’s great.

Not only does Bruce have the knowledge, but his sense of humour, delivery & most importantly, Passion for helping…amazing man.

This course should be mandatory in school….everybody & every relationship would benefit greatly AND then maybe the world would be a better place to be in….

We will keep the exercises & relearn when needed…we will forever have Bruce in our lives….

I couldn’t recommend this course enough…if trouble is looming…get into this immediately…things change from the very 1st words

Thx Bruce xxx

Vicki Hamilton

Luz Toral

Luz

I didn't expect to feel so seen and understood.

I was ready to get out of the relationship. I had told Richard that I was not willing to keep the status quo.

On the same day we had that argument, I saw the video of the free seminar on my Facebook feed, and it was like you were talking to me.

It really addressed my issues, so I sent it to Richard and thought, if he doesn’t react,  I’m done. To my surprise he watched the video and responded that he was willing to do the seminar.

I had no idea what was going to happen, but we were both so motivated to make it work, we got invested in learning and seeing that really motivated me, but I was not really prepared to the amount of things I learned about myself and it all made so much sense!

I consider myself a skeptic, I went in with open mind but I didn’t expect to feel so seen and understood.

Bruce you made me feel very comfortable and I trust your knowledge, because each tool, exercise, video, was addressing my problems and just being so accurate.

This is exactly what we needed!

Luz and Richard

Luz

Helen Fernihough

Helen Fernihough

I have grown enormously in a short space of time

The loveatfirstfight course is definitely a transformational moment in my life. It is a couples repair coaching program but what it really is is a self-realisation program.

It opens the door for me to look inside myself and in doing that influences the way I relate to people around me, my partner, my children, friends and colleagues.

I feel that I have grown enormously in a short space of time and there is so much more waiting for me still.

Charles and I are so much closer and trusting each other. We are very confident we will make it through the power struggles stage, we dont know how long but we will.

Thank you Bruce, you are amazing!

Helen Fernihough

Doreen Lethbridge

Doreen Lethbridge

We can testify that Bruce and his program is the real deal and it’s saved our marriage.

Bruce is truly the relationship whisperer!

We were on verge of divorce when this program came up on my Facebook page.

“It was meant to be” we both said, watching the video about his program; but yet thinking “this has to be too good to be true.” Well, turns out it was meant to be and had transformed our relationship.

We have emotionally connected more than we have ever had in 35 years being together.

We can highly testify that Bruce and his program is the real deal and it’s saved our marriage.

So excited. We’re sharing it with our family and friends!

Thank you so very much Bruce for all your inspiration and guidance in this journey of love and commitment!

Doreen Lethbridge

Vis-Mona-Naidoo

Vis Naidoo

I'm grateful that Mona and I have found the tools... and continue living a beautiful life together.

Mona and I were on the verge of a breakup when she enrolled us onto Bruce’s program.

There seemed like there was no way out of our constant fighting and regular disagreements that turned into shouting matches.

This program was the best investment ever, and in my most important relationship.

I’m grateful to Bruce for this fabulous program, and I’m grateful that Mona and I have found the tools of communication, understanding and soothing to reset our relationship, and continue living a beautiful life together.

We highly recommend Love At First Fight. No matter how bad things seem, with Bruce as your coach and the right tools, and most importantly the willingness to do the work, you can rekindle your beautiful relationship before all is lost.

I’m glad we saved ours.

Vis Naidoo

Judy LeCash

Judy

I think I've waited for this for 24 years of being with my husband - we've tried many things but you have worked for us.

My husband and I have been miserably fighting for 24 years – we had no idea there was a solution.

We have become SO much closer – it’s like a miracle. We are vulnerable and feel safe to be so. Sharing our homework has been wonderful for both of us.

I felt I was getting somewhere right from the very first Welcome call. I felt you could see into my soul and knew exactly what I needed to learn and how I needed to learn it and change.

I think I’ve waited for this for 24 years of being with my husband – we’ve tried many things but you have worked for us.

Thank you Bruce for giving us the tools to become more connected and loving – to actually see and hear each other and to rediscover our deep love and respect for each other – has been amazing.

Now we have the tools to put out any fights that flare up quickly and efficiently. 

Blessings, Judy

Judy

Marcy McQuown

Marcy

It was a game changer for us.

This program has changed our marriage.

It changed a relationship that was just going through the motions into a relationship that is alive and thriving. I can’t wait to be with my husband each day now.

Before the program I was always a little apprehensive of our interactions because I seemed to hurt his feelings and could not figure out how it was happening.

This program is thorough and complete. Each week we were challenged to grow in areas that built on each other.

We now have tools to communicate with each other and have the tools to handle conflict when it arises.

I am so thankful that we have done this program.

It was a game changer for us.

Marcy

Cindy & Dan LeBlanc

Cindy & Dan LeBlanc

Your life can and will be transformed in ways you never knew possible! 

Thank you so very much Bruce. We can’t say enough good things about this course.

You have really done your homework and we now do ours. It continues to change our lives.

We were in a very bad place and about to call it quits after 31 years together, but after your course we are on our way to Bliss in all ways.

If anyone out there wonders if this course can help, as long as you really want it and apply yourself honestly, your life can and will be transformed in ways you never knew possible!  

Not enough ways to say thank you, but a HUGE HEARTFELT THANK YOU, Smiles, Cindy & Dan

Cindy & Dan LeBlanc

Ryan & Melodi de Havelyn

Ryan & Melodi

If we can make it - anyone can.  It is the best gift we could have given each other. 

‘Love at First Fight’ has changed our lives!  We feel as though there couldn’t have been a worse marriage out there. 

We experienced every hurtful thing you can imagine.  We were caught in the ‘power-struggle’ phase of our marriage and it didn’t seem like we had any hope of fixing that. 

Our home was a war-zone 24/7.  We cannot thank Bruce enough for giving us the tools to act like adults and fix the hurt children inside of each of us.  

We are committed to continuing the process.  We have a new understanding of each other and a new ability to communicate.  We had neither before at all. 

We cannot emphasize how  important this program could be if you are struggling in a marriage that feels like it is hopeless. 

If we can make it – anyone can.  It is the best gift we could have given each other. 

We go to sleep at night holding hands instead of turned away back-to-back.

Ryan & Melodi

Andrea-Panzarella

Andrea

We knew we needed something more than couples counseling to bring us back together. 

Our marriage was consumed with infertility and loss approximately 1-1/2 years after our wedding.  We had to face traumatic situations that most couples never have to encounter. 

Several years later, after we were blessed with our babies, we found ourselves further apart from each other than ever before.  Our marriage was filled with anger, resentment, and griefWe knew we needed something more than couples counseling to bring us back together. 

I remember this feeling of desperation and doing a random google search one night.  I came across the Love At First Fight website and I could not stop scrolling.  Everything that was written described exactly where we were in our relationship. 

We signed up for the course hopeful, but very unsure.  Now, we are in a place that we have never been before. 

We are finally on the same team together, we are completely vulnerable with each other, we are connected in ways that we would not have been otherwise, and we are healing our hearts together. 

This program has changed our lives, individually and together, in a very powerful way. 

Thank you Bruce!  We are so grateful!

Andrea

Hallie Crawford

Hallie Crawford

We’ve been through hours of therapy...

Bruce, our session was the most helpful thing Chad and I have ever done.

We’ve been through hours of therapy but were never able to get to the root of what my fear was about his ex.

We had the best weekend together we have had almost since I met him a year ago, not kidding.

The things you said were hard to hear, which is part of why I was quiet during a part of the call, and, at one point I got tears in my eyes because you were speaking to/calling out the wound I hadn’t yet fully recognized.

Knowing these 2 things has brought peace in my heart I haven’t had in a while, for myself but also for my relationship with Chad.

Both Chad and I are SO impressed. Catherine was right. She sings your praises and I’m so glad we joined your program.

We still have work to do and – this is amazing great progress regarding one of the largest things we have faced as a couple so far.

Very grateful 🙂

Hallie Crawford

Theresa Crowley-Ferreira

Theresa Crowley-Ferreira

There is no greater gift we could give our new daughter than how strong we feel as a team now.

This program is the real deal.

It’s not for the faint of heart, but if you bravely surrender yourself to this even half-heartedly, Bruce will help pull you through to the other side.

Bruce has poured himself into this work and research in a way that removed many frustrating roadblocks we kept running into as a couple.

We are expecting our first child any day now and there is no greater gift we could give our new daughter than how strong we feel as a team now.

Theresa Crowley-Ferreira

KATIE MILLER

Katie Miller

Now am confident that I have the tools to have a meaningful relationship.

I joined Bruce’s program to learn how to win my partner back and I am exiting the program having learned how to win myself back.

I learned so much about myself and the impact an individual can have in a relationship.

I now fully understand the dynamics of a relationship and all that impacts it.

The experience transformed me and I now am confident that I have the tools to have a meaningful relationship and truly connect with a partner, without fear or hesitation.

I wish Bruce’s program was longer because I learned so much on each and every call.

Katie Miller

Deborah

Deborah

We now have a better understanding of WHY we each act the way we do.

Although we had been married for over 30 years, my husband and I had a couple of recurring arguments that never seemed to get resolved.

They would usually end in raising voices, or accusing and blaming each other, and just walking away…until the next time the topic came up.

After taking the course with Bruce, we now have a better understanding of WHY we each act the way we do.

This knowledge, along with some basic connection and communication skills, has helped us to finally achieve resolution.

We are no longer taking what each other does personally because we understand how our personality types figure into our actions.

I really do believe that the course has brought us closer, and we have better tools now for discussing difficult topics (which everyone deals with).

I highly recommend it!

Deborah

Kevin Haspela

Kevin Haspela

Conflict is no longer something to be avoided.

Because of this program, my partner and I are more accepting of and skillful when conflict arises.

Conflict is no longer something to be avoided, but a sign of an opportunity to fulfill a need and love more deeply. I have put down my sword in exchange for vulnerability and trust.

Kevin Haspela

Pam Sortor

Pam Sortor

I am inspired by and deeply grateful for the work you are doing.

I see your program as brilliant and sorely needed in a society that is severely underdeveloped in relationship and communication skills.

I think this type of information should be taught in schools as part of the core curriculum.

And if parents developed these skills to model to their children, imagine the legacy for rich intimacy they would leave for future generations. I am inspired by and deeply grateful for the work you are doing.

If people are open-minded and teachable and actually consistently utilize the tools and wisdom you are imparting, relationships will transform.

It’s not to say that all troubled relationships will or should be saved, but what you teach will provide a healthy and respectful foundation for the relationship to reach its highest potential as well as bring clarity to make intelligent decisions about the highest and best outcome for those concerned.

I wholeheartedly agree that your course is exceedingly more effective and less expensive than traditional couple’s counseling.

What you have put together in this program is an excellent value.

Pam Sortor

Anya Staal

Anya Staal

This course has been mind-blowing. I will never be the same.

WOW! I had never thought I would look at relationships and behaviours in a completely different way after just a few weeks of training.

This course has been mind-blowingI will never be the same.

I have realized that any relationship can be salvaged if you want to. Yes, it’s a conscious decision.

The tools I’ve been given in this program have taught me how.

Anya Staal

Marie Leboeuf and John Grover

Marie Leboeuf and John Grover

Knowing that we have the tools now to communicate in a loving, mature way, takes the anxiety away.

Together for just under 2 years, the misunderstandings, disagreements, and frustrations between John and I caused a constant volatile environment for us.

Luckily, we were both willing to keep trying, but also realized something major had to shift between us- and soon- or we probably weren’t going to make it as a romantic couple.

Bruce’s program was exactly what we needed! It is organized and succinct, super insightful, fun and actually life-changing.

He’s a true pro with compassion, yet realistic and always willing to fight for you (and with you). I won’t kid you!

It brings up the shit you don’t want to face and is one of the scariest things I’ve ever done!

But it also opened my heart and helped me face my biggest fears.

Knowing that we have the tools now to communicate in a loving, mature way, takes the anxiety away.

I’ve never been happier with my man.

Mahalo Nui Loa Bruce!

Keep up the good work 😉 <3

Marie Leboeuf and John Grover

Steven Bouris

Steven Bouris

I will have both my children do it as soon as they are ready to.

Bruce is an amazing mentor and coach.

His passion for what he does is evident from the minute you meet him.

What I have taken away from this course is to purely understand myself on a deeper more personal level, discovering why I am the way I am.

Understanding why I react to issues the way that I do. Understanding the core essence of a relationship, and the dynamics of our relationships.

I have done a lot of personal development over the years, yet the information I obtained in his 7-week program is phenomenal.

This 7-week course has changed my life. I am so glad that I found Bruce Muzik and his course.

I would recommend it to all, no matter whether you are in a relationship or not. I will have both my children do it as soon as they are ready to.

I know that I will be referring back to Bruce’s material for many years to come.

If we all took the time to do this course, the world would be a much better place.

Thank you, Bruce, for the amazing, inspiring person that you are.

Steven Bouris

Steven Bouris

Arturo

Arturo

Mandatory for any couples considering a long-term partnership.

Bruce’s program is an outstanding, well-structured class that should be mandatory for any couples considering a long-term partnership.

The delicate balance between personal connection and group anonymity is handled well, and you really feel like you’re in a safe group environment (even when you and your partner break to do the exercises on your own).

I highly recommend couples put the effort into this course. The ability to have a shared vocabulary and identical toolkit will go a long way towards connecting your relationship.

We’re grateful for your guidance throughout the last two months.

We’ve spent some rocky nights the last few years trying to overcome many of the pitfalls you deftly addressed in your course. The latter half of the course was of particular benefit.

We can both say it’s been a different game altogether following your intensive program.

We want you to know we were consistently impressed at how you handled your calls. The way you kept track of time, engendered engagement, and dealt with issues kindly but firmly were simply very cool to experience.

Also, your emotional cocktail video was one of the most powerful and vulnerable things we’ve seen. Kudos on including it. It was, for us, the most connecting of the course.

Arturo

Dawn Cormier-Hazen

Dawn Cormier-Hazen

I now feel safe and “gotten”.

I wish I found your 7-week course 18 years ago before I decided to get married!

The marriage boot camp should be mandatory for everyone in a serious relationship. Who knew marriage counselling could be so positive and motivating.

I was in a disconnected unhappy marriage for 18 years, and we have tried marriage counselling in the past only coming out more wounded.

I now feel safe and “gotten”.

My partner understands me better and I get him now! He feels safe and now opens up to me. He is emotionally present now.

We know how to avoid triggers now, and even if we do trigger each other, we call it out and we deal with it successfully.

The structure was very smart as it built week by week to explore and open up new portals as we went along.

We have hope and great tools that now we actually are out of anger and resentment and we use the tools with great sincerity.

Bruce, you’ve incorporated the best strategy and techniques on the planet to help couples in trouble.

With your absolute positivity about love and relationships, your charisma and authenticity, you help motivate and guide others to a happy loving relationship.

You give the gift of lovely companionship! God Bless you and your work.

Dawn Cormier-Hazen

Christine Morrison

Christine Morrison

I shifted from a hurt and frustrated separated wife to a solid powerful woman.

This workshop is “all the good things wrapped up into one.” Personally, it helped me with transitioning through one of the most difficult times in my life.

I shifted from a hurt and frustrated separated wife to a solid powerful woman.

Professionally, as a Licensed Clinical Family Therapist and college professor myself, I have learned more in this one workshop than I have in many years of workshops combined.

Personally and professionally speaking, if you are interested in having great relationships….do this workshop!

Christine Morrison

Chris Stuhldreher

Chris Stuhldreher

Now I am a better man.

When I joined the program I was unable to feel, unable to be in touch with myself or to express love to my wife.

I never even drop a tear in 8 years of relations. When the hardest time of the relationship began, I found myself unqualified to resolve our conflict.

Now I am a better man, I have changed 100%, a more open, more emotional, with no fear to share myself with my wife.

I see now that if I can share everything with her, we will create a safer and happy life together!

Thank you Bruce.

Chris Stuhldreher

Susan Barnard

Susan Barnard

We’re closer & happier than ever! Marriage back on track.

Our model 30 year relationship was about to collapse because we didn’t have the skills and knowledge to really connect & communicate effectively.

Marriage counseling made it worse. Then I found this cutting-edge program.

It was a rocky summer going thru it and we haven’t resolved everything yet. NOW, we have excellent tools and innovative methods that really support us!

We’re closer & happier than ever! Marriage back on track. DANCE partners!!

We are so grateful we found Bruce!

His creative approach plus his genuine, personal and supportive group coaching style made all the difference for us this summer.

And we experienced one of our hardest challenges ever, just as the program began in June. I really wasn’t sure we’d make it past that … and wasn’t sure I even cared.

Now, we’re out socializing and swing dancing together again … feeling more loving and encouraged than ever.

Tho we still have LOTS of work to do on our own, Bruce has given us plenty of excellent tools with the possibility of lifetime access to all of them.

And he’ll still be there for us if we need him for private coaching. All very comforting and helpful.

We both feel much more empowered to move past our natural differences that used to get in the way and prevented real connection and communication.

I’m really not sure we’d still be together if we hadn’t found this program when we did.

Bruce certainly over-delivers for all of us.

Big HUGS to you, Bruce!!

Muchas, muchas gracias!!

Susan Barnard

Rebecca

Rebecca

If you are ready to give up, you need to try this program first.

Divorce was my next step. After 11 years of marriage and 2 kids, we had slowly drifted apart until I felt completely disconnected and misunderstood.

Being parents kept us highly motivated to try everything to save our marriage, but we were running out of things to try.

We had tried individual and couples counseling with mediocre results. We just needed to learn the tools to connect and communicate. Bruce was able to do that.

I stumbled across Bruce’s program just in time. Another month may have been too late, we were on the brink of giving up entirely.

Now, even though it’s still not easy, at least we feel like we have the tools and skills to move through conflict towards a more positive result.

If you are ready to give up, you need to try this program first.

A heartfelt thank you to Bruce!

Thank you for sharing your knowledge and gift of teaching with us. It really has made all the difference.

Rebecca

Malin Nordmark

Malin Nordmark

I understand and know my partner better than I have ever done, I love him more deeply than ever.

I loved this program, I loved your videos and the Mentoring Calls.

We got to hear about other couples in trouble and I think that’s good for two reasons.

1. Because we learned a lot from the others. 2. We learned that we are not alone.

We learned that relationships can’t be easy all the time and that you should not break up when things get tough.

The exercises were both hard and very rewarding.

Both I and Christofer have been crying and filled with anxiety, “what are my needs?” “What do I want?” etc. we had no idea what was waiting when we hit that buy button 8 weeks ago but I’m so glad that we did.

And your coaching Bruce, amazing! You have all the information in your head so you know exactly what to answer the instant a question gets asked.

You listen and make sure that you understand completely, your passion is inspiring.

We felt like we could trust you and that’s part of why we spent so much time with this program.

“If Bruce says so then it must be true, we could at least try” (if there was an exercise one of us was afraid of or that felt unnecessary).

This program is hard work, it is entirely up to each person what you get out of it. If you decide to work hard and do all the exercises you will see an incredibly big difference in your relationship.

We have received so many tools and so many insights through the program, love is not just something that happens, it’s something you do and it’s not easy to know exactly what to do, but Bruce has shown us just that.

Everything in this program should be things you learn in school, after every week I have been thinking: “why have not I been told this before?”.

I understand and know my partner better than I have ever done, I love him more deeply than ever.

Malin Nordmark

Sue Mackimmie

Sue Mackimmie

This is the best gift you can give to yourself and your love.

This is the best gift you can give to yourself and your love.

I never thought I could get past being right, or that I do all the giving (insert tearful martyr face here…)

This is a partnership and if you want to move past your sticking points and really make progress in your most important relationship, take this course.

Bruce is a great coach, using teaching tools from many experts, and being an unbiased coach – not a therapist or cop or family member who means well.

You can make progress and see a brighter future. I would never have thought we could really have so much intimacy and hope for our future which has already started.

I was at the end of my proverbial rope, with nothing else to lose, we signed up and did the homework, took advantage of the Mentoring Calls and now we have this bond that is solid.

My partner is my best friend and we have so much love and have de-garbaged our relationship. It’s so much lighter and I have so much more insight into what my partner treasures and I can offer that.

INVEST in your love and yourself and your future together as a loving, best friend team. You won’t regret it!

The anonymity of calls online was so helpful in staying focused and feeling free to talk about issues.

The price! totally affordable and we could just move ahead.

I’ve spent the cost of my house in SF on therapy over the last few decades and I got further with this short course than ever before.

Sue Mackimmie

Kaira Wyss

Kaira Wyss

After only two sessions our relationship turned around completely.

I am a 58y old woman from Europe that did a lot of personal growth work in my past.

I also struggled through many relationships and two failed marriages. Of all the interesting work I’ve done, Bruce’s Love At First Fight curriculum has been the clearest, most helpful, expedient, insightful, most professionally put together and most lovingly and joyfully delivered!

I enrolled together with my boyfriend of 2 years.

We love each other very much but were completely stuck in the Power Struggle phase without knowing it.

We experienced it as a complete break down of our otherwise excellent, open and honest communication and a total loss of connection, which hurt and scared us tremendously.
We simply did not know how to deal with the sudden misunderstandings, the feelings of alienation, of experiencing the partner as an enemy and of total hope- and helplessness in our previously so beautiful, intimate and deeply caring relationship

We were desperate because no communication could solve our problems!

We were headed towards a totally unwanted break up and were devastated by the thought of another relationship failure. Since I remembered that a relationship has to fall out of the Romantic Stage in order to grow, I googled “relationship phases” and checked different sites that were dealing with this issue.

Bruce’s energy was so upbeat, loving, confident and supportive that we felt very comfortable right away. After only two sessions our relationship turned around completely. Connection and communication were restored, we learned about the deeper causes of our problems and how to solve them expediently.

It was such a liberating and nonjudgmental process, we were utterly elated and in awe of it! It had no therapeutic feel to it, which we really liked, having had unsatisfying experiences with couples therapy in former relationships.

The greatest result is that we feel like a deeply loving, committed, invincible team now. We got the skills to deal with future challenges, and we can share what we learned with other couples!

Thank you Bruce, for your service to the world!

Kaira Wyss

JULIE ROBBINS

Julie Robbins

This program transformed everything in just three weeks.

We’re totally on track and LOVING this program. Unlike most courses, programs, books, coaching, counselling I’ve come across or experienced – I would love to inspire EVERYONE interested in a more fulfilling life to do this course.

Sebastian and I are giving it our all and it’s transformed everything in just three weeks (we started a week before the course by watching videos we found on your website).

Not only am I reaping the benefits of the course with myself and in my marriage, but I’m also really enjoying and appreciate your skills and heart at holding space for people in their vulnerability, their courage and their possibility.

I engage in a leadership circle with colleagues from different parts of the world and last week shared with them some gems from your course – which I described to them as a leadership course about cultivating deeply fulfilling relationships.

What you’ve created here Bruce is huge – know that we’re working our butts off and enjoy your videos and you during the live calls – and although some of them are super challenging (mostly to the ego!) we’re also really enjoying the exercises.

Julie Robbins

Pamela Cournoyer

Pamela Cournoyer

This program has saved our marriage.

Our marriage is transforming right before our eyes! Thank you for sharing this invaluable information, you are a delight to work with, I love how you make it safe to share.

Bruce, I’m a communications expert myself (by profession), and you’ve just taught me how to listen!

I am seeing Michael and I connecting faster, and becoming more vulnerable with each other without defensiveness.

We’re in a whole different space now and I’m not scared of what might happen anymore. Thanks to what we’ve learned, I know now that we have the tools to deal with anything.

We’re only on Week 3, but I have to tell you, this program has saved our marriage. My work has skyrocketed and I know that’s because of the peace that I have with my husband now.

We WILL finish this class, because it’s just so wonderful.

We told our kids about your program, they are watching the free video’s right now, can’t wait to get them enrolled in this!

Thank you Bruce.

Pamela Cournoyer

Mandi Ellefson

Mandi Ellefson

From very rocky, to a deep love

Bruce, thank you so much for all of the time and energy you put into our relationship.

Our marriage has gone from very rocky, with us both being hurt and resentful, to a deep love that I didn’t think was possible.

You helped us create a safe space to open up and be close again. And it has had a lasting impact in every area of my life.

I am now a better, wife, mother, and overall person. I have grown so much as a person through our brief time working together. Jay and I have both grown in love and appreciation.

You have accomplished miracles where marriage counseling, personal therapy, a seminar, and countless books fell short.

Thank you for all the time and care you have taken to develop and share your gifts with the world. You are providing an invaluable service. This is the best investment we have ever made as a couple in our 10 years together.

Mandi Ellefson

Jason Foote

Jason Foote

If things seem unbearable, hold off just 7 more weeks

Well what a journey this has been. I joined this program to attempt to re-engage with my ex (mother of my daughter) after a considerable break and a tumultuous 7 year relationship.

Not only did it re-engage us, it has given me massive insight to myself and relationships in general.

This course is very well researched and effectively compiled for maximum results.

7 weeks is not long to make such a considerable change in your relationship.

If you are thinking of leaving your partner or if things seem unbearable, hold off just 7 more weeks with an open mind and a willingness to resolve relationship issues once and for all.

Jason Foote

Verity Noble

Verity Noble

We have fallen back in love

I just wanted to write you an email and say how life changing this experience has been for us.

We were in a really rocky place and although we haven’t yet managed to complete the whole course, it has changed our relationship immensely.

We have fallen back in love, we argue less, we’re more understanding and most importantly, we can see how to succeed for the long-term.
I have been telling a ton of people how amazing the course is so wanted to find out if you had some kind of referral system so that I can put them in touch with you or send them a link to the next course?

Huge congratulations on producing such a fantastic curriculum, one that truly works.

Verity Noble

Todd Sedelmeier

Todd Sedelmeier

We’ve been in tears of joy

Man, you blew the doors off of what I was expecting. Not only did my girl and I come together in a whole new way, but I finally felt understood by her like I never have.

As a result, we’re more intimate, our sex has improved, our love and appreciation is deeper… and friends keep telling us that we are ‘such a great couple’.

We’ve been in tears of joy and since then, I’ve been applying my new understanding of relationships and communication in my business with clients and with my family and with my friends.

This work is soooo important.

Thanks Bruce!

Todd Sedelmeier

Anna Burns

Anna Burns

We are kinder to each other, more loving and... more romantic too!

Having known Bruce through his Designer Life courses we both knew as soon as the info landed in our inbox that it was the course for us.

The 7 week course really has changed our relationship. We were stuck in a cycle of power struggles and very independent, which meant we were not always kind or compassionate towards each other.

The fantastic videos, along with the excellent weekly exercises allowed us gently and genuinely to relook at ourselves and our relationship and to create a new way of being with each other, in only 7 weeks.

The weekly conference calls were a great addition too, with lots of lovely participants sharing from their hearts.

Since finishing the course, we have had very little conflict, and any conflict we have had has been resolved quickly and easily. We are kinder to each other, more loving and are experimenting with being more romantic too!

We now do fun things together on the weekend, instead of complaining that we don’t have anything in common! And we’ve just celebrated our 12th anniversary, so it was a wonderful anniversary gift to ourselves.

I’ll admit we were geeky and did all our homework every week as instructed, but I’d really recommend this – get as much as you can out of it while it runs, you can always go back and redo some parts at a more in depth level later on.

I’d totally recommend Bruce’s Love at First Fight programme – it really changed our whole relationship.”

Anna Burns

Cheryl Coffey

Cheryl Coffey

Attending this class saved our relationship.

After my divorce I found myself slipping back into an old pattern of three month relationships. Either I or the man I was dating would run at the first sign of trouble.

As my current relationship approached three months I received an email from Bruce about his “Love at First Fight” program, so I signed up. The timing was perfect.

Bruce taught me to see and overcome my escape tendencies, increase my understanding of myself and my partner and gave me the confidence to stay present as we worked through our struggles.

Attending this class saved our relationship.

I am so grateful for his help and encourage everyone, no matter what your relationship circumstances, to take this class. Bliss is attainable.

Cheryl Coffey

Lorne Noble

Lorne Noble

It is now my greatest pleasure to support my wife

I didn’t realize it, but my wife and I had started living completely independent lives.

Bruce’s programme has helped us understand each other, communicate more effectively and avoid the daily friction and pain.

It is now my greatest pleasure to support my wife in the way she wants and consequently, she understands when I need space. We have reconnected on a level I never imagined and it’s truly magical.

Thank you so much Bruce, we couldn’t be happier.

Lorne Noble

Lyndel Maroske

Lyndel Maroske

Made me feel I was normal.

Bruce, your program is one of the most comprehensive and easy to understand programs for couples I can imagine finding.

I loved the naturalness of your presentation and the anecdotes from your own relationship, which made me feel I was normal.

While my partner didn’t participate as much as I had expected, the skills and info that I shared with him still succeeded in bringing about much needed improvements in our relationship.

With the videos, exercises and coaching calls, the program is excellent value for money.

I have already recommended the program to other friends and family members.

I just want to thank you Bruce, for your hard work in putting together such an insightful and brilliant couple’s program!

Lyndel Maroske

Tessa Klein

Tessa Klein

I gave my husband an ultimatum...

I couldn’t stand the fighting any more. We’d seen two other therapists who couldn’t help us at all.

I gave my husband an ultimatum – either figure out how to communicate better, or I’m moving out. My bags were packed!

I can’t believe it, but my husband and I actually made it through our big fight yesterday. After going through Love at First Fight, I think we are actually going to make it.

So, we are on the mend. Thank you Bruce! I enjoy how committed you are. You worked some magic here because we were definitely a worst-case scenario!

Tessa Klein

Craig Filek

Craig Filek

This saved me years of conventional therapy

Bruce – I just had to reach out and thank you. An hour on the phone with you saved me years of conventional therapy. The maps of relationship you laid out, combined with insights from the Enneagram about the specific needs my partner and I have – brilliant!

Your gentle and penetrating insights are very easily received and I’m confident my road ahead in this relationship will be much smoother as a result.

Thanks for turning the lights on for me!

Craig Filek

Caryn V.

Caryn

Before this program I had low self esteem...

Before this program I was wishy washy, had low self esteem and was powerless in all of my relationships. Now I have clarity on healthy relationships, my confidence has increased and my relationship with my son, friends and family are so much more fulfilling now.

I highly recommend this program for anyone in relationships or single.

Caryn

Angel Lek

Angel Lek

Do not sacrifice what you want most for what you want right now.

Hi Bruce, I entered this program ready to grow and change the way I usually behave in relationships, and I feel like I have learnt exactly how to do that in the past few weeks.

The most beneficial tool to us so far has been the communication skill you taught us in week 2. We started using it, I learned that before we broke up he had been feeling as if this relationship was THE ONE and that scared him. I had no idea that he considered me THE ONE!

When I first asked him to do this program with me eight weeks ago, we had just broken up and he agreed to only as a means of figuring out what had gone wrong. He said that we could reevaluate in two months and see if we were actually compatible. Of course, those beginning weeks were horrible and filled with fear that he would leave at any moment, but what you taught us about Hailstorms and Turtles and their specific needs motivated me to stop myself from acting out whenever I felt insecure.

It was amazing how safe that conversation made me feel, and we definitely could not have done it without everything you taught us! I can easily imagine a similar conversation in the past building up into accusations and conflict, so I cannot thank you enough for helping us avoid that. I kept this quote at the back of my mind: “Do not sacrifice what you want most for what you want right now.”

Although we still have a long way to go, we’re definitely loving and connected now. This is a HUGE improvement from the pain we were both in just eight weeks ago.

Thank you so much Bruce, for guiding us through this and for being such a phenomenal person and coach. I love what you do for people and there really should be more people teaching these essential life skills. I’ll really miss talking to you!

Thank you once again, my gratitude is beyond words.

Angel Lek

Vikki Brown

Vikki Brown

I found what I was looking for before I even finished the course.

I highly recommend The Love of First Fight coaching program for any couple wishing to grow their relationship and connect on a deeper level.

Heck, I recommend this course for single people too. I was single when I signed up – wanting to learn as much as possible about myself and the best way to create an intimate, loving and connected relationship!

I found what I was looking for before I even finished the course.

Bruce’s open and honest style of teaching/coaching, videos with the practical exercises, the live coaching calls that link current relationship theory and neuroscience creates a package that will meet the needs of most every type of adult learner. Give your self the gift of love. Join Bruce for 7 weeks.”

Vikki Brown

Jay Ellefson

Jay Ellefson

We're closer than we could have ever imagined

Bruce, I just wanted to take a minute to thank you for all the work you did with Mandi and I. Your relationship coaching has brought us closer than we could have ever imagined.

We thought we wanted to go back to the way things were when we married but you’ve put us into a place far beyond that.

I know that you have a life other than work, so making an exception and doing our sessions on Saturday was less than optimal for you. Thank goodness you stuck with us.

Our time with you has made such and difference in our lives. We have become so much closer in every respect.

Again, I can not express how grateful I personally am for your kindness and help.

Jay Ellefson

Rhonda Darling

Rhonda Darling

We were not talking... and now we are

The Love at First Fight program has brought renewed hope into our relationship. We were not talking to one another before the course began and now we are. We are beginning to see one another and our relationship in a new way.

Bruce cares deeply about his clients and supporting them in getting the most out of the program. He creates a safe and accepting space to explore yourself and your relationships in order to create greater happiness and wholeness.

Rhonda Darling

Rebecca Mead

Rebecca Mead

I have changed.

I have changed. I’m using the things I learned to discuss things with my husband. I find I am listening to him, calming him, soothing him.

This program is amazing. It has changed my view on relationships.

I now understand what behaviours negatively impact my relationship and what to do to make my relationship better. Amazing. I really loved this course and was sad when it finished

Rebecca Mead

Lynette Anderson

Lynette Anderson

I have not felt this connected or in love with Andre in years.

I just wanted to send a mail to say thank you. I have not felt this connected or in love with Andre in years. During the first week I was very nervous – especially looking into his eyes – I wanted to crawl out of my skin and run away… But I didn’t and it has been so beautifully worth it for us.

Your program has been put together magnificently. It is easy to see how passionate you are about helping people to love each other and have wonderful relationships.

I have not been able to express any sort of love for a very long time to anyone. It feels like something has melted away now and these gorgeous, warm and fuzzy feelings have come tumbling out – I am so excited – I feel alive again.

Thank you.

This sounds cheesy – but you really have changed my life forever.

Lynette Anderson

Dezana Aman

Dezana Aman

Far more than I expected...

This comprehensive interactive course was far more than I expected.

I highly recommend it to anyone wanting to understand how to succeed in a fulfilling partnership of any kind.

Bruce is down to earth, creative and colorful. He makes you understand why you want a relationship in the first place!

Dezana Aman

Laura Haspela

We have more time connecting. Less time pouting and turning away from each other.

The skills I learned through this course have positively impacted all of my relationships, not just my marriage.

There were so many aha moments.

I realized that we earn loving relationships through our hard work. I was living the dream that our love should be easier than this if it is true love…if I am with the right man. Bullshit. Relationships are work…loving, rewarding work.

We have more time connectingLess time pouting and turning away from each other.

I had no idea it was possible to turn fighting into a bonding ritual. Bruce showed us how!

Bruce is a gifted and unique coach. His vulnerability and authenticity are inspiring.

He is a warm, wise soul, playful and fun loving, and not afraid to call you on your bullshit.

Laura Haspela

Dan Lee

Dan Lee

Instead of fighting each other, we began to work together to break the cycle of harsh words and hurt feelings

With 32 loving, faithful and nurturing years of marriage, my wife and I had begun to lose the luster of our relationship, slipping into bickering and fighting.

I always “had to be right” and she felt that I never really heard her, as she was sorely missing the language of love that she wants, needs and deserves.

And we both missed the common ground of intimacy as we engaged in a self-defeating exercise of misunderstanding.

Bruce’s program brought all of this into perspective, and instead of fighting each other, we began to work together to break the cycle of harsh words and hurt feelings — and once again we became a couple working together and not against each other.

The time, the tools, and the coaching made all the difference.

Bravo, Bruce!

Dan Lee

Laura and Tom Davis

Laura and Tom Davis

I am married today because of my participation

This is an amazing, AMAZING, program! The information presented here needs to be shared with everyone and anyone that is involved in any type of a relationship!

If two people are committed to work through the program, I cannot imagine how their marriage could fail!

So superior to any books I have read and tried to apply, and marriage counseling.

I am married today because of my participation – thank you Bruce Muzik!

Laura and Tom Davis

Michael Frazier

Michael Frazier

What made the biggest difference was learning how to listen

Bruce has given me the confidence that I will be able to handle whatever comes along in my relationship- and stuff IS gonna come along!!

I feel like I have just taken flying lessons and I will respond appropriately should we suddenly fly into some unexpected turbulence.

For me, what made the biggest difference was learning how to listen and BE OKAY with whatever she is feeling, without trying to get her to stop feeling it to make myself more comfortable.

I can relax!!!

Michael Frazier

JENNIFER MCCAIN

Jennifer McCain

We have been able to have SEVERAL conflict conversations without ANY fighting... It’s been a lifesaver.

We were so in love, and yet we couldn’t stop the fighting. It was going to destroy us.

Seeing a therapist just didn’t seem like it would be enough. I heard about this program and decided to give it a try.

The program is flexible and allowed us to really focus on our communication issues.

We have been able to have SEVERAL conflict conversations without ANY fighting as a result. It’s been at least a couple of weeks since our last angry conversation.

We feel so much more connected and so much closer now. It’s been a lifesaver.

We are more in love than ever.

Jennifer McCain

Beth A.

Beth A.

We were 2 months from divorce...

When we came to the program, my husband had estimated we were “2 months from divorce”.

Married for nearly 23 years, so it was worth the investment in relationship coaching. (Which is A LOT cheaper than marriage counseling.)

By week 3 of this program, things were turning around in a big way. Today, at the end of the program we have fallen in love with each other again.

Everything this program promises is possible, including returning to “hot sex”.

Beth A.

Beth A.

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Angela Bard

My partner and I have never been more connected... we live as a team everyday supporting our love.

Bruce is brilliant.  My partner and I have never been more connected.  

We have been able to apply the tools Bruce taught us in his Love at First Fight program and move through repetitive arguments that had eventually cause us to separate and question if we wanted to stay together. 

Bruce has designed a program that teaches you connection first and he shares research from around the world that impacts relationships. 

Not only do these tools help you understand your reactions but also your partner’s reactions which helped us to become vulnerable and react from a place of love instead of being defensive.  

I cannot say enough about the Love at First Fight program. 

I would and have recommended this program to anyone whether they are currently in a relationship or not.  I learned so much about myself and was able to show up for my partner and we live as a team everyday supporting our love. 

Angela Bard

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Laura

This is not an average couple counselling program in which you are advised to improve your communication skills – this relationship course goes much deeper than that.

“Love at First Fight” is an amazing program that will challenge you to see things differently – not only about yourself, but also about your partner and your relationship, as a whole.

In my case, even though I have been studying personal development for several years and have read many books and articles about relationships, it has still brought up new things that I have never knew or even considered – such as learning about the “5 stages of a relationship”, how your childhood wounds can affect your relationship, how your blind spots and escape hatches can sabotage your relationship, as well as how to create a handbook to your heart to give to your partner, instead of expecting them to guess your needs, wants and requirements.

Also, Bruce is an amazing teacher, who not only has made his own mistakes in the past that he learned from, but he is now leading the way through example.

This is a very important aspect to consider when joining a relationship coaching program – so always do your thorough research prior to joining a couple counselling program and ask yourself: Is the instructor leading the way through example or just paraphrasing from books, like many others, while their personal life and relationship/marriage is far from what they are preaching?

I have personally done what I am advising you to do, before joining this program. And now that I have completed it, I can say that this is not an average couple counselling program in which you are advised to improve your communication skills – this relationship course goes much deeper than that.

But don’t just take my word for it. Instead, look up Bruce on LinkedIn or Facebook, listen to his Ted Talk, or his free relationship videos on YouTube and read his free articles on the web – and you will understand what I mean.

I can assure you that if you are serious about your partner and your relationship, this course will be one of the best investments that you will ever make in your life!

Laura

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Samantha Du Toit

I hope this course goes forever because when our kids get engaged we’re sending them both on this course.

We would highly recommend couples to do this course at the start of their journey.

I hope this course goes forever because when our kids get engaged we’re sending them both on this course.

It’s incredibly valuable for everyone to spend the time understanding themselves, what makes them tick, how and why they react the way they do, and what they truly value.

Bruce is so passionate about everything that he teaches and he’s so knowledgeable.

We learnt so much about ourselves and each other in the last 7 weeksmore than we did in the last 10 years of being married.

Thank you Bruce.

Samantha Du Toit

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Denisa and Shihab

I was initially skeptical...

Bruce….you the man!!!

For some background, Denisa and I come from diametrically opposite backgrounds (She is Romanian and I am Indian) and we have been in a long distance relationship for about a year now.

We decided to enter your program because we couldn’t figure out how to resolve our challenges by ourselves, as it seemed that we were having the same arguments over and over again or creating new conflicts without resolving old ones.

It has been a struggle at times and though we love each other deeply, our conflicts usually ended up in both of us feeling hurt and miserable.

It was Denisa’s idea to seek help and she found your body of work. I was initially skeptical as I wasn’t sure how effective it would be, however your program completely changed my views and you totally delivered with all your promises!

As a direct result of going through your course, we are both happier, feel more connected to each other, are safe and secure in each other’s love and are so much more comfortable together than we have ever been. The weekly calls and your insight have given us a more profound understanding of how our relationship works and a lot of credit for that goes to you.

Thank you so much for all your help and support, it has been an enlightening experience going through the program together and both of us have walked away from it having learnt so much more about each other and ourselves.

With lots of love,

Denisa and Shihab

Denisa and Shihab

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Jel

After us seeing two couples counsellors over several years... THIS was the course that knocked our socks off.

After us seeing two couples counsellors over several years and a lot of “communication tools” THIS was the course that knocked our socks off and actually spoke to both of us, and we are using this as a foundation to build our relationship.

EVERYONE should do this course, whether or not you are actually in conflict – I wish I had found this years ago.

Bruce is an excellent teacher and I absolutely recommend it

Jel

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Jane J

It has helped us have a united approach to our children. 

I feel so much more safe with my husband.  He is more open and I feel special to him because he has let me into his inner life again.  Our sex life has improved because I don’t feel like he is just looking for me to do another chore.

It is about both of us expressing love and having fun. I have become a calmer person and things that use to make me hailstorm do not any longer.

I realize so much of my behavior that was bugging my husband was just a bid for attention.  It has helped us have a united approach to our children.  They know we are doing the program and we have talked about what we have learned. 

We were always a loyal family and protective of each other but now we are more mindful of our interactions with each other and being kind. 

Thank you Bruce.

Jane J

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Denise

Bruce far exceeds any marriage therapy session one could take.

The videos Bruce made each week were informative, enlightening and helpful.

Bruce is masterful at integrating research from various experts, such as John Gottman and David Deida, into his various topics.

In addition, Bruce added personal experiences with a dose of his own vulnerability and realness.

He is better than any therapist I have ever had.

Most importantly, he seems to really care about his program and the effectiveness of it.

He helped me by modeling the tools to examine my behavior more effectively.

I have attended marriage counseling with reputable Ph.D. therapists, who have studied the research of John Gottman and other relationship experts. However, Bruce Muzik is a master communicator and so well-read with best practice and research.

Bruce far exceeds any marriage therapy session one could take, providing both partners commit to the program.

I would pay to see him live.

Denise

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Mark Johnson

To anyone falling out of love with someone you know you used to love, this will change your lives.

After 32 years of a fabulous relationship and life together, we found ourselves emotionally disconnected and finally physically disconnected knowing something was wrong.

The scary thing was, we being smart people had no idea how to fix it.

We went to counseling; counsel tells you what you can and can’t do, we read books, but we got no tools that worked for us. Our relationship was broken and we didn’t know how to fix it!!

A very scary point when the wife suggested she stay at a friend’s house….and I was helping her pack her bag out of frustration and helplessness.

Just as she was at the door, she came into the den to say goodbye. Out of desperation, I was searching the internet for answers and had just watched your ‘intro’ video and it spoke to me.

With tears running down my face, I asked if she would take a moment and just watch it with me….I’m crying again as I type this…. sorry.

Bruce, you saved our marriage!!!!!

It spoke to her and to me in a way that was unimaginable. We are more in love emotionally and physically than we ever thought possible.

We have reduced our escalation of conflicts in number and intensity by 90% and understand what to do now when it happens. We are deeply in love and committed to each other’s requirements, needs, and wants.

Bruce has a special gift to provide insight and understanding in a non-judging non-threatening way on deeply personal and emotional subject matters.

He is honest and vulnerable about himself.

To anyone falling out of love with someone you know you used to love, this will change your lives.

It’s the best of the best of the best of Marriage coaching all rolled into one concise program.

Mark Johnson

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Anonymous

The Mentoring Calls have been absolutely awesome!!! We love them!

Now, after four weeks into the program, we are loving each other, she has moved back in with me.

Our arguments are a thing of the past, we are connected and we have acquired so many tools to de-escalate and resolve conflict, that it rarely occurs anymore.

We were simply ignorant and quite frankly, didn’t know how to love each other, that awareness and realization overall was a very humbling experience!

I am now able to love her and she is able to love me.

We have gained valuable insight and understanding as to what went wrong, why it went wrong and why we both suffered so painfully for 5 long and agonizing years.

We no longer live with fear, hurt, unresolved conflict, anger or disconnection.

We are not perfect and still have on occasion a disagreement, but it resolves very quickly and we can easily love each other and end things in a warm embrace instead of a “freeze & flee” result which is so destructive.

We will always be grateful Bruce for what you have given us in this program, it has saved our relationship, our lives, our original music along with our hopes, aspirations, and dreams.

We now live in peace and harmony and can be the loving songwriting team that we need to be to make our existence successful. We look forward to completing the program and making LAFF a lifestyle for the remainder of our lives.

When we are done, we will on occasion repeat the program so it stays fresh and we can obtain deeper things we didn’t catch the first time though.

I burned all the Mentoring Calls to date (4 weeks along with the welcome call) onto a CD that we listen to in the car, and although we have attended every Mentoring Call, we have found that we get so much out of doing this.

We gain much deeper insight, are able to listen more in-depth and get more out of it after multiple listens.

I was a bit skeptical when I found out that we would meet as a group and thought that perhaps I might get a bit lost in the mix, but I was wrong to doubt in any fashion, it turns out just as you said, being part of the group works extremely well and offers more than what we would probably get out of doing it one on one.

Things that I didn’t think of in many cases someone else did, or problems that I thought I didn’t have someone else did and I was just not aware that I had the same troubles or had not faced them yet.

We have learned a lot listening to the perspective of others, listening to your responses to them as well as sharing our journey and where we are at and getting feedback on that.

The Mentoring Calls have been absolutely awesome!!! We love them!

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Anonymous

7 short weeks later my wife calls me ‘her man’.

My wife asked me for a separation 9 weeks ago. I said no or I knew we were finished. She found this online course and said she would commit to the 7 weeks.

We worked at it diligently and put other things aside for the sake of our children.

We had worked with two marriage counselors over the past 10 years and were familiar with the 5 Languages of Love, Susan Johnson’s work with attachment theory etc.

It all made sense but nothing really changed in our relationship. We were still deeply unhappy and just felt ‘we had married the wrong person’.

With your course, 7 short weeks later my wife calls me ‘her man’ and I feel real love for her for the first time in years.

We are excited by our new tools, language, and learning.

You have something that makes it all work. By observation, I would say it is not only the skill that you bring to the Marital Therapy arena but something more powerful.

I believe it is a congruence of belief, speech, and action.

By this, I mean that to have the positive kind of influence that you have, you must own an unshakably held core belief-that couples in most instances can not only ‘work it out’ but be thrilled with the partner that once was the object of a seething resentment.

You really and truly believe it yourself.

This is powerful. It cannot be faked and the motive behind the results is a pure one. It is not the money but a passion for good relationships that drives you.

This combined with genuine enthusiasm toward those relationships, skilled pedagogical technique, fantastic materials, and insight all make for a program that CANNOT be overlooked by anyone interested in a better relationship.

My only caveat is that these techniques are so powerful that dishonest men and women can misuse them to make anyone they choose to fall in love with them!

So thank you, Bruce, for so diligently pursuing your life’s passion.

The family is the bedrock of society and your work is saving and enriching that bedrock. This is truly an enduring legacy.

Keep up the great work!

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Barry

You’ll get back 10-fold what you put into it.

My girlfriend and I have just completed the Love At First Fight coaching program and I must say we feel we’re in better shape now because of it.

There is a wealth of really great material in the course – the weekly videos, the calls and the resource material (recommended books, etc.).

It is going to take up a good deal of your time so you will need to come committed but trust me, you’ll get back 10-fold what you put into it.

It’s a very useful course if you need some help to get you through the rockier moments or if you want to grow as people and a couple.

Thank you Bruce!

Barry

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Sherezz

I feel like I can finally breathe for the first time in weeks!

I feel like I can finally breathe for the first time in weeks!

I feel like a lot of the tension that was built up inside of me has mostly dissipated!

Bruce, you can’t begin to understand how thankful I am to you for the two weeks of your program thus far which has started to make a difference in our relationship.

I loved learning about the communication techniques, the bids, and attachment styles. I loved the exercises and the videos. They were very informative and very insightful. I loved the first set of assignments as well.

This program teaches you so much about relationships and about strengthening your emotional connection with your partner.

Thank you!

Sherezz

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Carmelo Paoa

Carmelo Paoa

I have learnt how to love and show empathy in a way that my spouse understands.

Doing the course has enabled me to learn a lot more about myself and my spouse.

Has given us more stability in our relationship with less propensity to be at each other’s throat.

I have learnt how to love and show empathy in a way that my spouse understands.

Carmelo Paoa

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Wendy Tuckett

Bruce's information, resources and sessions shed a lot of light.

As a person in the final stages of divorce when I embarked on the program, sex has always been a source of confusion.

Bruce’s information, resources and sessions shed a lot of light in this area for me and put into perspective male and female dynamics and I look forward to maybe one day in the future meeting a person that I can build a healthy, respectful, joyful, loving relationship with, much better equipped with the tools to be successful next time. 

Thank you Bruce

Wendy Tuckett

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Wilma Pike

My husband and I feel we are not only surviving but also and more importantly flourishing safely and lovingly.

I find Bruce’s coaching program very transformational and healing!

He provides very relevant content and practical tools we can readily grab for self-help. His approach and methodologies as a coach are empowering and enabling that stem from a place of love, authenticity and compassion. He models transparency, healthy boundaries and empowering vulnerability.

With him as your coach, my husband and I feel we are not only surviving but also and more importantly flourishing safely and lovingly.

My husband and I are grateful by how Bruce has helped us shift and move from the power struggle stage to the commitment and Bliss stages in our relationship.

Huge thanks  Bruce!!! I see abundance of clients and love coming to you!

Wilma Pike

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Niki Koutsouridis

Absolutely eye opening.

Bruce’s course has been absolutely eye opening– his wisdom and coaching tools has been invaluable!

I’ve learnt so much about myself and my partner which is a treasure we will keep for life.

Thank you so much Bruce, cannot thank you enough!

Niki

Niki Koutsouridis

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Krista Hawkins

Thoroughly enjoyed every second of this coaching program.

I love the program, and if used fully, and the issues are talked through and applied as we are taught.

If you are open and honest and address your issues and understand and listen. This will work.

I have thoroughly enjoyed every second of this coaching program and would recommend it to everyone.

Krista Hawkins

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Harry

I am able to recognize the fighting patterns that keep happening and slow them down so that they don't get out of control.

We have been in a fighting relationship for many years now and have tried marriage counselling a couple of times and have read many books on the subject .

Nothing really worked or resonated with me until my wife found Bruce’s Love at First Fight 7 week program.

I have now finished the 7 weeks and I have discovered so much about myself and my partner. The 7 weeks are well structured and include exercises which that slow down the fighting and prepare you with a vision for a future that is full of love, adventure and good times. 

I am able to recognise the fighting patterns that keep happening and slow them down so that they don’t get out of control. I am not walking away from conflict like I had been. Work in progress still.

Thanks Bruce, Cheers Harry.

Harry

Stephen Pike

Stephen Pike

We both grew individually and more importantly as a couple.

We came to this program not knowing what our goal was other than to strengthen and solidify our young marriage. We found so much more.

We both found and uncovered old wounds and opened them up for healing.

Bruce has a gift of being able to mix knowledge and humor so you feel comfortable enough to open up and be vulnerable.

We both grew individually and more importantly as a couple.

Thank you Bruce!

Stephen Pike

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Riga Maree

I now believe that we can have a loving fulfilling relationship that will last.

Bruce this is without doubt the best program I have ever done, and I have done quite a few personal development course over the last 25 years.

It is the first program my partner has  ever willingly agreed to do, and that is not from lack of options being presented. I hope he shares what inspired him to choose to do your program, because so many couples would really benefit from doing your program.

The structure, flow and lessons work really well.  As you say, you get out of it, what you put in.  We went all in.

Thanks so so much Bruce.  We desperately needed help.

My partner and I tried 3 different counsellors and self help books but weren’t making progress. Thankfully we found, your “Love At First Fight” course, and it has been the best thing we have ever done for our relationship.  

I now believe that we can have a loving fulfilling relationship that will last.

Riga Maree

Jenny Schlee

​​Jenny Schlee

We are better able to communicate and be heard!

I love how comprehensive this program is, with many layers, digging deeper into things after building a solid foundation.

I LOVED the coaching calls, and how grounded Bruce is with all of his feedback. It was all a total pleasure.

We have regained some trust, are better differentiated, as well as closer, and better able to communicate and be heard!

This is an amazingly helpful program for navigating relational difficulty, no matter how long you have been in relationship. Bruce has decades of experience, is very articulate, and insightful, and he packs in a ton of great information, resources, videos, audios etc.

I cannot recommend his work enough!!!

​​Jenny Schlee

Denni Mobbs

Denni Mobbs

A place where love can be rediscovered with their partner.

There is something very beautiful and profound about observing someone who exhibits mastery in any medium. Bruce Muzik is such a person.

During the course I was often struck by Bruce’s mastery in the realm of relationship.

His depth and years of study, coupled with a passion, curiosity and humility, create a rich experience wherein he gently and firmly guides couples back to their essential loving nature; a place where love can be rediscovered with their partner.

Bruce is a gift!

Denni Mobbs

Zaneta Petrekova

Zaneta Petrekova

My partner and I understand each other more.

I’d recommend Bruce’s relationship course to anyone who struggle to communicate and lacking intimacy in their relationship.

He has a very good understanding of most relationship problems you can think of. He has a capability to explain difficult situations in simple language and teaches very helpful tools to identify the issues and resolved them.

My partner and I understand each other more than before and this course enabled us to learn our inner feelings to communicate better.

Zaneta Petrekova

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Jill

THIS is everything any couple needs to get back on track.

Bruce Muzik was literally a. Godsend   into our lives, we were struggling so badly before doing this course, we have seen SO many second grade counsellors spent so much money, but THIS is everything any couple needs to get back on track, or be given as a wedding gift.

We are even going to do it  again as we want to solidify all this amazing teaching, thank you Bruce for all that you do at such an affordable price , you are saving familys dont ever stop.

Jill

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Yvonne

Starting to let things go and forgive.

We couldn’t speak more highly about this program.  We were hooked right at the promotional videos and every step of the program was well thought out, full of ‘AHA’ moments and tons of extremely useful tips and tools. 

Both of us weren’t sure how to stay together.  Things were very volatile and there was so much hurt and anger between us.

We’re getting better at fighting and communicating.  There’s a lot more love and understanding between us.  Starting to let things go and forgive.  Still have a long way to go.  But that’s a start.

Post program, we are left feeling hopeful and prepared to keep our relationship healthy and thriving.

Yvonne

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Yvette

Bruce was amazing.

Bruce was amazing. He was open to questions and had a listening ear.

I can honestly say if the outcome you are looking for in your relationship doesn’t work after this class then it’s not Bruce’s fault.

You have to follow the plan throughout as instructed.

Yvette

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Barbara Wooding

I am crying writing this...

I would highly recommend this program even when you think there is nothing that can be done. I started this program for myself believing my marriage was over there was hardly any and sometimes for days no communication, we were living apart.

To now talking everyday, laughing having fun (I am crying writing this) the changes is far more than I ever imagined. Its still early days and still lots of work to do.

If you are at a loss with little or no hope, this program is for you. It helped me to see through my behavior (and my partners behavior) into why we do what we do!

We have now established a connection I never thought possible.

Barbara Wooding

Tanvi Kothari

Tanvi Kothari

My husband and I have been able to resolve all our issues.

I would highly recommend this program to anyone dealing with relationship issues. My husband and I have been able to resolve all our issues through this wonderful inspiring program and with Bruce as our mentor on the calls.

The course is super thorough and fun! Our conflicts have resolved and we feel happier and calmer.

Bruce is an amazing life coach and mentor and I would highly recommend to have sessions with him. He is super inspiring!

Tanvi Kothari

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Cynthia

I want to go through this again, and then again...

I have learned more about myself and how relate in romantic relationships.

If you are a Single not in a relationship, this  program will give you a good foundation for your future romantic relationship.   I have suggested this program to every couple that I know that mentions that they want to improve their marriage.

I’m glad I purchased Lifetime access.  I want to go through this again, and then again when I get into a romantic relationship.

Cynthia

Annie

Annie

By far the best I've run across in my life. 

Bruce’s unique & affordable  Coaching Program is by far the best I’ve run across in my life. 

His teachings are valuable, insightful, interesting & fun. 

I highly recommend it to all couples.

It would save so much heartache for couples, individuals & families–and make a significant positive lifetime change for all.   

Annie

Annie

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Darlene

We are way more connected than I thought we could be.

I was not being honest about my emotions as I attacked my husband.  I wanted him to understand my need for me, I think, or be understood by him.  I did not realize I was attacking him. 

What this program has done for me is to give me lots of ideas of what and how to work on them.  Relationships are important and doing them well matters to me.

We are way more connected than I thought we could be.  The connection does lead to communication, not the other way around! If I could have known this way sooner, my basic need of connection could have been being met all along.  

I loved the detailed instructions of so many relational topics.  I loved the ability to be in a group not interconnected in life, to feel safe to ask questions.  I loved how you coached on the calls-an excellent deal!!!  I learned so much hearing you coach the other couples and individuals.  That was great.  Thank you (and them).

The live coaching calls after we studied and worked were so great!!!

Thank you for sharing your wealth of information that you have gathered.  I do believe I got more out of this than we would have with equal number of weeks in a counseling situation.  You shared so much information.  Such helpful info.  I hope to slowly go back through the material.

Thank you!

Darlene

Tony Castillo-and-Alma

Tony Castillo

Optimize where you are with your partner.

Bruce has gathered much useful information about relationship dynamics and personality types and how they clash and compliment each other and how to optimize where you are with your partner and how you can improve and strengthen your relationships.

Tony Castillo

Ruth and Rick

Ruth and Rick

We are so much more confident about our future!

As a result of doing Bruce’s program together we are happier in our relationship, we argue less and we are so much more confident about our future!

Ruth and Rick

Fern Vanderklok

Fern Vanderklok

I’ve honestly fallen in love again

Bruce has tied into a secret of how to reconnect with each other . 

Counseling is a good thing but wears off quickly ,this course is so different ,it has you reconnecting and communicating again.

I’ve honestly fallen in love again, highly recommend

Fern Vanderklok

Michele & Erik Indzonka

Michelle

We really feel we are back to being teammates rather than bickering buddies!

We were in a power struggle phase we didn’t know existed and needed some help to get out of the cycle.

Thank you so much Bruce for explaining that this is a totally normal part in a relationship and showing us how to reconnect and communicate with each other again.

We really feel we are back to being teammates rather than bickering buddies!

Michelle

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Monique

There is so much wonderful information in this course I'm sorry it has to end.

This is a wonderful program that all couples should do whether or not they are having issues.

The communication tools, attachment styles and information on how to have the most fulfilling sex is valuable information that everyone needs.

There is so much wonderful information in this course I’m sorry it has to end.

The mentoring calls were great for additional training and to listen to others in the group and know you are not alone on the journey.

Monique

Kimberly & Brian Leszczynski

Kimberly

Practical steps to communicate more lovingly and to soothe my husband.

Since starting Bruce’s program, my husband would threaten divorce with each disagreement. 

This course taught me practical steps to communicate more lovingly and to soothe my husband when he’s upset and the reasoning/theory behind them.

Kimberly

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Shivonne

I cannot adequately convey how powerfully transformative these seven weeks have been for me

If you’re not currently in a relationship, this program is still FANTASTIC.

If you’re hungry and ready to take your knowledge of how to be an exceptional partner to a whole new level, if you’re willing to really look at what your role has been so that you can do things differently in the future, check this out.

Honestly, I don’t think Bruce’s free videos do justice to the immensity of what he will offer you in this program and the skill with which he will synthesize and present it.

This program is so incredibly more than what you can access for free. It is well, well worth the price.

I cannot adequately convey how powerfully transformative these seven weeks have been for me and might be for you.

Bruce, you’ve done a brilliant job.

A huge Thank You for what you’ve done for me and what you’re doing for all of us. Your gift for understanding, connecting and relaying all of this vital information so many of us haven’t learned, and your exceptional capacity for compassionate listening and guidance, in addition to your teaching, and coupled with your enthusiasm, support and passion–so grateful you’re doing the work you are!

Shivonne

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Becky

We found hope again.

Although we have not done couples counseling, I can understand how this program would be much more worthwhile.

Rather than hashing out all the “things”  you gain perspective and insight to help better understand your partner as well as yourself and  you gain valuable tools to help stop the same ugly cycles.

I highly recommend every couple doing this program.

Thank you Bruce for pouring in to those who feel there is no more hope for their relationship. We found hope again.

Becky

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Heidi McGuire

Absolutely improved our marriage — even in areas we hadn’t realized could be better!

LAFF is a phenomenal course!

It’s Multi-faceted approach (worksheets, video and live instruction, personal coaching) absolutely improved our marriageeven in areas we hadn’t realized  could be better!   It taught me life-skills that I wish I’d learned long ago — for us personally but also for others. 

I repeatedly marveled at how masterfully you pulled no punches but were always kind, allowing both parties to feel heard, validated and supported. Was helpful to us of course, but was also really cool to watch you do it w others too.

Thanks Bruce! Awesome course.

You are stellar at what you do and how you communicate. So glad I found you.

Thank you.

Heidi McGuire

Chuck Knuth

Anonymous

The insights and skills we learned made us closer and more trusting.

Bruce helped us see our relationship clearly and take responsibility for making it work, to a large extent by helping us each be better people.

The insights and skills we learned made us closer and more trusting, as well as enhancing our relationships with others.

Anonymous

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Steven

I feel more competent and able to know what kind of relationship I am looking for.

Hey, Bruce. I’m so glad I put my trust in you to help me accelerate my growth in relationship.

As you know, I’m a divorced dad of two kiddos who wants to transform the way I do relationships that has been misinformed in many areas – until now!!!

I feel more competent and able to know what kind of relationship I am looking for, and having a solid toolbox to work from to build it.

Much gratitude and thanks for helping me straighten myself out and get even better equipped!

My best, Steve.

Steven

Matt Aldridge

Matt Aldridge

We communicate much better now and feel so much closer

My girlfriend and I were at a breaking point in our relationship, and had briefly broken up before getting back together and deciding to work on things. 

She was pretty adamant about trying couples therapy, and I was very opposed to that idea due to previous bad experiences in therapy with an ex. 

I had been listening to some of Bruce’s work and getting his emails after finding him through some searching while we were having issues.  I recommended this program as kind of a compromise between therapy and just working on things ourselves. 

I’m so glad we decided to do this. 

The videos and homework are deep and insightful, and we learned so much about ourselves and each other. 

We communicate much better now and feel so much closer by going through this program. 

This was so much better than traditional couples therapy, and I couldn’t recommend this more for anyone having any kind of struggles in their relationship.

Matt Aldridge

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Jami & Brandy

Transformed our relationship in just 8 weeks! 

My girlfriend and I we’re in couples counseling for almost a year when we discovered Bruce’s program. 

His interpretation and unique implementation of tons of relationship guru advice has transformed our relationship in just 8 weeks! 

It’s a rigorous coaching schedule, but if you commit to it, it will be the best investment you’ve ever made!

Jami & Brandy

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Logan Schmeikal

This course should be mandatory for anyone getting married.

Hello Bruce,

I want to thank you for the tools that you have provided through out this course.

Me and Kali were on the brink of ending our relationship. I know that if I can keep up these positive ways of listening and communication , that our relationship can progress out of the power struggle stage.

We have been in this struggle for MANY years.

Also I have a lot of bad habits, this course helped me to remove and replace with good habits. I know this has helped my wife kali as well.

In my option as I feel this course should be mandatory for anyone getting married. Also before any legal seperation.

This world is full of the disposable mentality, this course is remedy for that thought process.

Logan Schmeikal

Alicia Wood

Alicia Wood

Cannot stop telling our friends about it! 

We just finished the Love at First Fight course and seriously cannot stop telling our friends about it! 

We have admittedly only made it through the first 3 weeks of the 6 and have already been able to implement the tools in those weeks with more success than I ever thought we’d be able to!

We were both discouraged and had tried so hard to fix certain patterns, but never seemed to have the tools to fix them (even after years of individual and couples therapy). 

The tools/exercises are awesome because it keeps the focus on what I can do to help my relationship instead of blaming my partner. 

Overall I would recommend this course 10/10!

P.S. Some of these tools (reflective listening) have already started helping me heal other strained relationships with different family members so that’s been very exciting as well!

Alicia Wood

Barbara Berman

Barbara Berman

This was the best money I have ever spent.

Bruce Muzik is incredible as a relationship coach.

The course was v structured with lots of homework and a 2 hour group call.

It took me about 5 hours per week or more.

I learned so much about myself and relationships.

This was the best money I have ever spent.

Barbara Berman

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Kerry Stuhlmuller

This course is one of the best courses I've been enrolled in.

This course is one of the best courses I’ve been enrolled in

You being so vulnerable has me trusting you and your process! 

I wasn’t sure at first since even being a Hailstorm, I am not a group sharer or participant – I prefer to talk one-on-one with people.  But, I really felt safe and bonded with you and the other participants by the way you have the course setup for the weekly sessions.  

I really got a lot out of the other participants’ shares and your shares, too!

Kerry Stuhlmuller

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Ben Fritz

I would even recommend that for every couple on this planet to be a relationship kick-off course

Thank you Bruce for this wonderful course and bringing light in the darkness of this ever so mysterious matter of having a beautiful love relationship.

You bring together the insights, knowledge and skills of the top notch professional relationship psychologist, spiritual leaders and other relationship, communication and negotiation professionals in the world to make this accessible for us in a single course.

The course is so full of the most valuable information that I would even recommend that for every couple on this planet to be a relationship kick-off course to convert all the unnecessary pain in most of the relationships and marriages into thriving insights to be able to reach interdependence consistently.

In the end for a better humanity.

Ben Fritz

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Matt Baechle

The best investment in myself I have ever made. 

I’ve purchased and participated in at least a half dozen relationship courses and Bruce’s program is the best investment in myself I have ever made. 

It’s the perfect balance of science, empathy and authenticity.

Matt Baechle

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Sheri-Ann

Fill in the missing pieces to any relationship.

Basically it will change your life and fill in the missing pieces to any relationship.

I don’t think I really knew what it took to be in a relationship until I took this course. 

It’s not as if I was being ignorant I just didn’t know that what I didn’t know what key to my marriage being more of a success and to us being friends again.

For the first time this week I feel my husband and I have connected. It feels so good because it’s real as the result of hard work from each of us. 

We wouldn’t have been able to get here without your tools.  You have helped us a great deal so far and I can’t wait to learn even more.

Thank you so much from me for helping us get to where we are today.  

I look forward to learning more.

Sheri-Ann

Sam and Liesl

Liesl Viljoen

You get immediate results when you apply what you learn.

Just do this course!

You will learn skills that you can apply to every relationship in our life. Not just your romantic relationship.

It is one of the best courses I have ever done – practical and you get immediate results when you apply what you learn.

It’s worth every dollar spent! Just do it!

Liesl Viljoen

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Kathy L Fies

I was skeptical at first but after the first week I was SO happy that I had invested in the course!

Bruce is a wonderful patient teacher and one can learn a lot about relationships and how to repair and enhance them given the teachings and the tools that he gives you!

I really LOVE that he actually talks to each participant on his weekly calls and gives them a chance to ask questions  about anything in their relationship that they need help with!

Plus the teachings stay even after the course is over so you can go back and review each teaching as often as you want!

I was skeptical at first but after the first week I was SO happy that I had invested in the course!

Kathy L Fies

Christina DeVita

Christina DeVita

We knew from the first week that we were right where we belonged

Words cannot adequately express our gratitude for your skilled and heart-led guidance through this program. We knew from the first week that we were right where we belonged…with one another, and with you as our guide.

Surprisingly, the format worked really well for us.  We were both excited about the chance to do the work but dreading the format…neither one of us loves technology and neither of us does any social media. 

However, the video delivery was smooth and easy, the exercises clear and easy to follow.  We felt confident about your expertise and your care for us and the group.  And we found ourselves willing to participate, even with other couples/individuals on the call.  Your program skillfully navigated us through, from connection, to communication, to looking back to trigger empathy, to conflict work, to secrets, to sex and connection…full circle! We felt safe in your care.

Thank you for gently helping us to re-find one another and to see each other as the perfect mirror for our own needed growth. The fullness of our relationship is now within our sight!

Thank you Bruce, thank you.

Christina DeVita

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Melissa Anthony

We know how to be open and vulnerable with each other.

When we first enrolled in the Love at First Fight program, I wasn’t sure what to expect; I just knew we needed something to help us through our relationship challenges.

Now we have the tools and resources needed to overcome any obstacle we face because we know how to be open and vulnerable with each other.

Is our relationship perfect after completing the course? Of course not! It never will be and that is just fine. Accept where you are. Share it with your partner. Ask for what you need. Listen to your partner. And never stop sharing your love vulnerably.

Forever thankful to you for helping me realize this, Bruce.

Melissa Anthony

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Caron

I now have tools to help me move forward.

Although I did not get through all the course material, the content that I have processed has been more than useful to help build a good and lasting relationship.

At the end of the day, the amount of effort you put in, will determine the results that you get out.

For someone who is anxious about being courageous, it takes me a bit longer to take action, but I now have tools to help me move forward. 

Thank you.

Caron

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Anonymous

I look forward to using some of the communication tips with my children!! 

I signed up for the program not really knowing what I was getting into or whether my partner would participate. 

I quickly came to see that he was all in with me and we both learned some pretty deep things about each other and this is after having been together for 23 years! 

Amazing advice and strategies about connection, about communication and about getting your needs met. 

I look forward to continuing to use the tools & even using some of the communication tips with my children!!  Truly amazing to be a part of!

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Emily Snider

Emily Snider

Not for the faint of heart, but totally worth the investment of time and money.

Love at First Fight was like a grad level course on rewiring the brain for healthy relating–not for the faint of heart, but totally worth the investment of time and money.

Bruce is an expert coach, full of clarity and compassion.

The coaching calls alone were incredibly valuable and helped me and my partner to more deeply integrate the content of the program.

Emily Snider

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Julie

Change your relationship forever.

Bruce is the most diplomatic relationship counselor I have ever come across. I wish I could keep him in my pocket to help us through tricky marital issues.

Hearing him guide couples through personal issues during the webinars was very impressive.  I loved his style of being pretty direct but also very compassionate to both partners.

His tools are invaluable and if used 100%, they will change your relationship forever.

I would highly recommend this course to any couples needing some direction and help in their lives.

Julie

Stephanie Wilson

Stephanie Wilson

We are a much stronger team.

I highly recommend that young couples take this course.

Learning the concepts Bruce taught us brought us closer together and as a result we are a much stronger team.

We have gained confidence to take the steps needed for a fulfilling future.

Stephanie Wilson

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DR

This should be taught to everyone, from teenagers onward.

I wish I had done Bruce’s course before getting into any relationship.

This should be taught to everyone, from teenagers onward.

Whether you are starting a relationship or in one already, if you are committed and apply even one part of the program, it will help you more than you can imagine!

DR

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Shiva

This course is a new beginning to every relationship

This course is a new beginning to every relationship (even if you are single, you are still in a relationship with yourself).

This course definitely helped me and my partner to overcome some of our difficulties in our relationship and to become more familiar with our past.

We learned a lot from Bruce and he was very engaging and encouraged participants to ask questions and to be vulnerable.

Shiva

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Inge

It's been challenging, but so rewarding!!

You’ve empowered me in ways no one else has ever been able to in the realm of self development and relationships. 

I realized my challenges are normal, which allowed me to be gentle with myself through the process instead of self criticism and judgment of myself or the other person.

Awareness brings understanding and patience and kindness.

It’s been challenging, but so rewarding!! Walking away with confidence and hope.

Inge

Jennifer Dempster

Jennifer Dempster

This course has really helped us reconnect and bring to light all the things that we were doing wrong in our relationship without even realizing it. 

This course has really helped us reconnect and bring to light all the things that we were doing wrong in our relationship without even realizing it. 

We learnt so much in the seven week course that will definitely carry us through any situation that might come up in the future. 

Even if you think you have a brilliant relationship, you could still benefit greatly from this course and create a deeper, more meaningful relationship with your partner.

Jennifer Dempster

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Robert Fischer

She could feel that I was relating to her in a different way.

Bruce’s knowledge on relationships and psychology and his teaching style were a joy to read through. 

My wife was completely set on divorce and she was filling out the divorce paperwork and ready to file. 

Every day I learned something new from Bruce during the program to implement.  In this time she could feel that I was relating to her in a different way and day after day I did not waver. 

After months and months of not giving an inch, my wife said she wanted to give our marriage a second try. 

I’m not sure if we will make it in the end but getting that chance to see if we can work out is huge for us. 

I can’t thank Bruce enough for this program.

Robert Fischer

Mariette West

Mariette West

The positive results keep showing up as my husband and I both feel safer, more heard and understood.

The Love at First Fight program helped me make some amazing shifts in my relationship and my business.

Bruce pulls so many concepts together, in an easy to understand and enjoyable way,  and always referencing the relationship experts he has learned from that I felt confident to let him guide me in taking new actions.

The positive results keep showing up as my husband and I both feel safer, more heard and understood.

Mariette West

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Anonymous

Don’t waste your time on therapists, been there done that many times.

I would HIGHLY recommend Bruce’s program. It will transform your relationship.

I was fortunate to have a willing and participative partner. Even those who did it on their own in the group found a path forward.

Bruce’s strategies are evidence based ( he has done the hard work) for us in ensuring the program is credible and results focused.

Don’t waste your time on therapists, been there done that many times.

Even if you are sceptical and doubtful you will find yourself transitioning into a new space with your partner that is much more fulfilling.

You have nothing to lose except your own self limiting beliefs.

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Anonymous

No way our relationship would still exist without Bruce's class.

There’s no way our relationship would still exist without Bruce’s class.

It’s allowed me to deepen into my heart and love my partner more fully.

Every couple and anyone that loves relational dynamics needs to take this class.

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Susan Schultz

View the videos at your own pace!

I participated in this program on my own and felt that I matured and had tools to reduce negative reactions with my relationship with my husband and that this program allow a foundation of safety which was missing between us. 

The fact that you can view the videos at your own pace and review them is fantastic!

Thank you for this program Bruce!

Susan Schultz

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Tauna Arnold

Lots of new shiny tools in our box!

We have walked away from the program after 36 years together knowing that with practice we can have a truly connected relationship again.

Lots of new shiny tools in our box!

Tauna Arnold

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Laura Spinka

Chris and I had already split up a year earlier...

I was feeling a little skeptical when I found this program, but given that Chris and I had already split up a year earlier and had only just begun to reconcile, I figured we had nothing to lose.

I think we both gathered a lot of personal insight into our own contributions to the state of our relationship through this process, which is certainly the first step in repairing any relationship.

We’ve begun implementing the tools and have moved back in together and are committed to continuing our journey of healing, supported by Bruce’s tools.

Laura Spinka

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Zoe Shobbrook-Fisher

This course has been a vital support for our journey into deeper intimacy...

Bruce responded to our questions in the calls in a way that felt personal and intuitive whilst drawing on his wealth of knowledge – he is sensitive, clear and shares generously so many resources with incredible ease and a lot of love.

This course has been a vital support for our journey into deeper intimacy and trust, for which we are both very grateful.

Zoe Shobbrook-Fisher

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Kornelia

I feel stronger about myself.

Eye-opening program. Lots of information and advice. I feel stronger about myself.

Not only one person is to blame in relationship, I know that it takes two to understand and adjust to the partner you want to be with.

It’s hard work but rewarding. Love, understanding and perseverance that’s what’s needed though.

Thank you.

Kornelia

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John Curran

The course was better than any face-to-face sessions I had ever experienced.

The Love at First Fight program was outstanding and I recommend that everyone that’s in interpersonal relationships complete this course.

Every week was loaded with AHA moments but the top three were learning how and when to sooth, our love languages, and our personality types such as Turtle vs Hailstorm.

The program pace was fast and it was difficult to keep up but I wouldn’t change a thing.

In seven weeks I learned more about relationships than ever before plus what I learned saved my marriage.

I was initially skeptical taking an on-line course hosted by somebody that I didn’t know, but the course was better than any face-to-face sessions I had ever experienced.

John Curran

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Maureen

Truly improved my relationship and I was on the verge of divorce

I would recommend this course to all couples wanting to repair or strengthen their marriages. 

The insights I gained have truly improved my relationship and I was on the verge of divorce.

Now I can use the tools learned in LAFF to resolve any conflict or misunderstandings that may arise without sabotaging my marriage.

I am very grateful for this course and for Bruce’s wisdom and talent in the art of relationships and healthy connecting!

Maureen

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Clare Elderkin

It has been a total revelation!

I love that the program covered a really broad range of issues/disciplines within the topic of relationships.

I also love how I have got so much from the program even though I have completed a large portion of it alone.

I’m very grateful that I can now keep developing my understanding and growing by revisiting the material. The material has been both deeply transformative and simple to understand.

Thank you Bruce for creating the Life at First Fight coaching program. 

Since completing the program I feel lighter and more confident within my relationship.

It has been a total revelation!

Clare Elderkin

Allison Alper

Allison

Grow to be better partners for each other.

I am very thankful for the Love at First Fight program! It was educational, humbling and eye opening.

The lessons addressed every challenge we were facing before the program: miscommunication, recurring conflict, anger, defense mechanisms, and more.

Bruce taught us about our own behaviors, our partner’s behaviors, and how we can each grow to be better partners for each other. We were introduced to practical tools that provided real solutions to reconnect with each other.

The seven week program is easy to follow, the research is current, and the topics are very relatable.

Bruce is warm, well spoken, authentic and personable. During the coaching sessions, he asked probing, interactive questions while providing analysis and learning opportunities.

We definitely recommend this program to those in, and not in, relationships. The awareness and self growth you experience during the program can be applied to all areas of your life.

Thank you, Bruce, for all your help!

Allison