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THE CONFLICT CURE

The online relationship repair course based on proven research.

FIX YOUR RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS
AND WAKE UP HAPPY TOGETHER,

in 7 weeks or less, even if you’re the only one trying.


INTRODUCING THE ONLINE ALTERNATIVE TO MARRIAGE COUNSELING...

Arguing? Relationship "issues?"

Need to save your marriage or fix your relationship problems?

The Conflict Cure is a 7-week online relationship repair program that provides step-by-step solutions to end your relationship struggles, so that you can start being happy together.

HOW TO FIX YOUR RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS
OR SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE

from the privacy of your home, without expensive couples therapy

Hi there. I’m Bruce Muzik.

If you’re reading this page, then I imagine that you’re feeling unappreciated, frustrated, desperate, alone or even afraid.

You’re in the right place. Read this page all the way to the bottom and I’ll show you how to fix things between you and your partner before they go from bad to worse.

Bruce Muzik - Relationship & Marriage Expert Coach
BRUCE MUZIK
RELATIONSHIP REPAIR SPECIALIST
DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOUR RELATIONSHIP
OR MARRIAGE?
  • You walk on eggshells, tiptoeing around sensitive topics...
  • It feels like there’s a “fuzzy” communication problem whenever you talk...
  • Arguments over small things blow up into heated fights...
  • Your sex life has lost its spark...
  • Your partner has withdrawn or shut down emotionally...
  • You feel blamed and criticized – like nothing you do is ever enough...
  • Your spouse has angry outbursts and can be demanding...
  • Your spouse doesn’t really listen to you...
  • You’re struggling to forgive a betrayal of trust (e.g. an affair)...

then I want you to know that…

Your relationship problems are normal. 

It's not your fault.

You are not alone.

Allow me to explain how to fix or save your relationship…

YOUR RELATIONSHIP WILL TRAVEL THROUGH 3 STAGES,

but you’ll probably stay stuck in stage two (unless you get help).

The Romance Stage Of Relationships

STAGE 1: THE ROMANCE STAGE

This is when we fall in love – two ME’s dreaming of the possibility of a WE. 

We feel excited. Being with our partner makes the world feel brighter. This stage lasts up to 2 years.

The Power Struggle Stage Of Relationships

STAGE 2: THE POWER STRUGGLE

The rose tinted glasses are abruptly flung off. We try to change each other, attempting to get our needs met. We fight for our partner’s attention or for our independence. Almost ALL divorces and breakups happen here.

The Mature Love Stage Of Relationships

STAGE 3: MATURE LOVE

You finally feel like a team. You stop trying to change each other and accept (even love) each other’s flaws. Your connection feel secure. Commonly, couples in this stage work on a mutually meaningful project together.

Most couples NEVER make it to the Mature Love stage.
They break up during the Power Struggle stage.

If you're reading this page, your relationship is likely stuck in the Power Struggle Stage, and...

What you do next is critical.

DON’T MAKE THESE 3 DEADLY MISTAKES
THAT LEAD TO DIVORCE OR A BREAKUP

MISTAKE #1

THINKING YOUR RELATIONSHIP STRUGGLES WILL SOMEHOW JUST GO AWAY.

They most likely won’t. At least not until you deal with the heart of what is causing them.

In most cases, things will get worse until you get professional help or break up.

MISTAKE #2

TAKING FRIEND’S AND FAMILY’S ADVICE.

I know they mean well. I know they want to help because they care for you, but…

Unless they are a qualified relationship professional, their advice will just make things even worse.

That’s because fixing a relationship is not obvious, nor common sense. If it was, you wouldn’t be reading this.

MISTAKE #3

TRYING TO FIX THINGS ON YOUR OWN.

It may be tempting to think you can fix your relationship without help, but that rarely works. Why? Because you’re too close to it to see things clearly and from an impartial perspective.

When emotions are high, all the books you read will be forgotten and you’ll do what you’ve always done – fight or flee.

HERE’S WHAT CAN REPAIR YOUR RELATIONSHIP

(this works well for 90% of couples)

YOU DON’T NEED COUPLES THERAPY...

Unless you’re suffering from childhood psychological trauma, you probably don’t need couples therapy to fix your relationship.

Besides, if you’re anything like me, you don’t want to be sitting on some stuffy therapist’s couch telling your darkest secrets to a stranger who is taking notes about what’s wrong with you. You are not broken.

Not to mention the fact that traditional marriage therapy has an embarrassingly high failure rate – often greater than 70%.

I help thousands of couples each year and here’s what I’ve found works for most couples:

1. YOU NEED AWARENESS OF YOUR BLIND SPOTS...

Your unconscious patterns stop you from connecting, speaking kindly, and being a great team together. Only when you can see what you’re doing incorrectly, can you start doing things differently.

2. YOU NEED A STEP-BY-STEP LEARNING SYSTEM...

that teaches you tools, strategies and proven solutions to your relationship problems (even if you are the only one trying).

3. YOU NEED AN EXPERT ADVISOR...

to hold your hand, help and mentor you as you get on the same page and build a secure bond between you.

Introducing...

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THE

Conflict Cure

Everything You Need to Fix Your Relationship Problems Fast, even if you’re the only one trying - Guaranteed.

The Conflict Cure is a 7-week online program based on proven relationship research.

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SO, WHAT EXACTLY IS
THE CONFLICT CURE?

The Conflict Cure is a proven 7-week home-study program based on the latest research by the world's top relationship researchers.

The curriculum is delivered via weekly streaming videos and workbooks.

If you choose the Group Coaching option, you also get four 60-minute group coaching calls with me (Bruce). That way, you're guaranteed to get help with your personal relationship situation.

You’ll learn time-tested communication tools and conflict resolution strategies to get you feeling safe, connected and on the same page again.

You can participate in your own time, from anywhere in the world, and turn things around even if you’re the only one trying.

The program begins this Saturday.

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IS THIS COURSE
RIGHT FOR YOU?

This quick quiz will help you decide…

Here are just some of the common relationship problems that the coaching program solves...

How many of these Symptoms do you notice in your relationship?
Click the text below to select your relationship’s symptoms.

Checked one or more boxes?
Then this program can help you.

  • There's a constant tension between you both...
  • You walk on eggshells, tip-toeing around sensitive topics...
  • Little arguments escalate into full blown fights...
  • You can't talk about how you're feeling without communication breaking down or sparking an argument...
  • Issues don't get resolved, and you sweep your problems under the carpet...
  • You don't fight at all (this is the #1 predictor of divorce...)
  • Your partner withdraws, goes "numb" or shuts down emotionally...
  • Your partner angrily pursues you, leaving you feeling criticized...
  • You feel judged, not accepted and like your partner is trying to change you...
  • You're wrestling with trust issues or forgiveness after a betrayal...
  • Your sex life has lost its spark (or non-existent)...
  • One of you had said some variation of "I love you but I'm not in love with you..."
  • You can't count on your partner to have your back and provide emotional support...
  • One of you is not fully committed, has left, or threatened to leave...

Counted one or more? Then this program can help you.

Chris Stuhldreher

I was unable to feel or to express love to my wife. I hadn’t shed a tear in our 8 year relationship.


Thanks to this program, I am more open, without fear of sharing myself with my wife. Thank you Bruce.

- CHRIS STUHLDREHER

HOW IT WORKS

The first module of The Conflict Cure is available to watch the moment you complete your registration.

STEP #1: WATCH THE WEEKLY VIDEO TRAINING

Each Saturday you’ll receive access to a new module. Each module contains life-changing training videos that will teach you communication skills, proven strategies and tools proven to end conflict and get you both back on the same page.

STEP #2: DO THE WEEKLY EXERCISES

Your implementation workbook will help cement your learning and guide you through a series of insightful exercises and heart-opening, healing conversations.

STEP #3: TALK WITH ME & GET HELP

Finally, if you choose the Group Coaching option, we’ll chat every two weeks during our four 60-minute live Group Coaching calls. You ask me questions and I provide solutions tailored to your specific relationship situation.

IN 7 WEEKS TIME, YOU CAN EXPECT THAT...

  • You’ll be laughing playfully together,  feeling safely and securely connected to one another.
  • You’ll have resolved your differences without fighting, instead building a deep bond between you.
  • You’ll be using your new communication tools to talk feely about your feelings, needs and wants without sparking a disconnection.
  • Your withdrawn and shut down partner will come out of his/her shell and open up emotionally.
  • Your critical, angry partner will soften, listen and offer you the space you need.
  • Your old hurts will have healed and trust rebuilt between you.
  • Sexual desire naturally returns as the emotional bond between you strengthens.
  • As you get on the same page again, you both begin feeling like team mates instead of room mates.

Start being happy together.

THE CONFLICT CURE CURRICULUM:

Our curriculum consists of 7 modules grounded in the most up-to-date research by the world’s smartest relationship scientists in the fields of:

  • Neuroscience,
  • Attachment theory,
  • Personality theory,
  • Developmental psychology, and
  • The couples therapy with the highest success rate.

I’ve distilled all this research into tools and strategies that are easy to apply with your partner. More importantly, they just plain work.

Research based curriculum...

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WHAT YOU WILL LEARN IN ONLY 7 WEEKS
(Click on the “+” below to learn more about each week)

WEEK 1: THE CONNECTION MODULE

How to reconnect quickly,

so you can drop your guard and get back to feeling close again.

Remember when you first fell in love? You felt close and conversations just flowed effortlessly. You didn’t need communication tools – you just talked. You were connected. And it was fun. Feeling closely connected to each other is the holy grail of a happy, fulfilled marriage or relationship.

When your emotional connection gets lost, so does that sense of safety and security that goes hand in hand with it. You begin to feel more like adversaries than teammates.

Quickly, little arguments explode into full-blown wars when your connection feel threatened and before you know it, you’re sitting in a lawyers office signing divorce papers.

In The Connection Module you’ll reconnect, open each other’s hearts, and learn how to stay connected.

Daisy Grodzki

It feels already as if we are so much lighter and connected (and I started your program only 2 weeks ago)!

- DAISY GRODSKI

Lorne Noble

Bruce, we were in a really rocky place, living independent lives. This program helped us re-connect on a level I never imagined. In 7 weeks, we have fallen back in love.

- LORNE NOBLE

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THE CONNECTION MODULE:

  • How To Connect Fast: You'll learn 4 simple connection rituals that take less than 5 minutes a day, yet will break down the barriers to connection in just one week.
  • The Science Of Love: Discover 7 big ideas from relationship research that will get you both thinking along the same lines about what makes for a happy, healthy relationship.
  • Discover Your Relationship Blind Spot: You'll figure out your hidden relationship pattern that sabotages the connection between you and learn what to do about it.
  • The #1 reason for divorce... and how to protect your relationship from it.
  • What connected couples do differently from struggling couples.
  • The 7 little-known mindsets that securely connected couples use. Adopt these and you’ll turn your relationship into a safe-haven in no time.

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WEEK 2: THE COMMUNICATION MODULE

How to have tough conversations,
without them escalating...

so you can resolve your differences and get back on the same page.

There were no “Communication 101” classes at high school, so just like trying to ride a bicycle blindfolded, we crash and burn when we try to talk about difficult “issues” with our spouse.

If you don't have the communication skills to reach your partner, years of hard-earned trust and connection can be destroyed with one thoughtless sentence yelled in anger…

…or one stone cold silence or look of contempt.

Communication issues is the #1 reason my clients cite for their relationship troubles.

Using the tools you learn in The Communication Module, instead of bickering, arguing or fighting like cat and dog, you’ll resolve your differences and finally feel heard and understood – perhaps for the first time ever.

Michael Cournoyer

In the past we’d both say ‘You’re not listening to me!’ Now we stop, reflect and get clarity from each other. This program has influenced us so much.

- MICHAEL COURNOYER

Vicki Hamilton

We couldn’t work out why we were fighting so much and slowly disconnecting. Now, we're no longer taking what the other does/says personally. We can PAUSE THINK RESET… move on… it’s great. Our marriage is back on track.

- Vicki Hamilton

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THE COMMUNICATION MODULE:

  • 3 Common mistakes we all make when communicating and what to do instead.
  • How to make high-stakes conversations go well and get important issues resolved quickly and kindly.
  • A little-known hostage negotiator's technique that will make your partner want to listen to you and care about what you have to say.
  • The one thing you must do before starting a high-stakes conversation with your partner. If you don't do this one thing, your conversation will end badly.
  • How to deescalate any argument in seconds: Learn the exact words to say (and not to say) in order to de-escalate an argument and prevent World War 3 from erupting.
  • 3 words that will make your partner see you as the only person in the world who truly understands them. No, they're not "I love you!" 😉
  • The exact body language, cadence and voice tone to use to make your partner relax and listen.

WEEK 3: THE SAFETY MODULE

How to feel safe and secure together,

so you can relax, open up and laugh again.

Conflict won’t stop until you both feel emotionally safe and secure around each other.

When we feel unsafe, everything becomes a struggle – even a simple conversation about what to eat for dinner can feel threatening.

A bit like walking through a minefield, you can’t fully relax because at some level you sense danger - the danger that your partner might not be there for you.

So, always on the lookout for a potential threat, you stop being your usual happy self. Instead, you protect your heart from being rejected, abandoned or from being engulfed by your partner. After a while, this protective state becomes the norm and you forget to relate as lovers.

In the Safety Module you’ll create a safe haven inside your relationship. As your needs for security and safety get met, so you begin to relax into feeling comfortable – being ‘happy you’ again. Read on more more juicy details...

Judy

After 24 years - it’s like a miracle. We are vulnerable and feel safe to be so. – We’ve tried many things but you worked for us.

- JUDY & DAVID

Dawn Cormier-Hazen

I now feel safe and “gotten”. My partner understands me better and I get him now! He feels safe and now opens up to me.

- Dawn Cormier-Hazen

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THE SAFETY MODULE:

  • How To turn your relationship into a Safe Haven.
  • Learn how you unintentionally ‘leak’ safety and trust out of your relationship… and how to plug the holes so that you both feel emotionally safe around each other.
  • Start doing the 2 things that Securely Attached couples do differently (they're easy to do).
  • How to cultivate a culture of trust and honestyso you both feel safe to be yourselves with each other, without having to pretend you’re someone you’re not...
  • How to get your spouse to open up and share their deepest feelings and fears with you, so that you stop drifting further apart and begin building an unshakable bridge between you.
  • Discover your Fighting Style. Are you a Hailstorm? Turtle? Chameleon? Wolf? Sheep? You'll soon find out!
  • How to end blame in your relationship for good.
  • Break through your biggest barrier to intimacy.
  • What Securely Attached couples do differently (and how you can too).
  • The 6 human Survival Strategies and which you one you use most.
  • 4 skills that increase your Emotional Intelligence (and make you a better lover).
  • Learn how to access your inner landscape and share it in a way that skyrockets trust and safety and bonds you emotionally like super-glue.
  • How to identify and share what you're feeling even if you never know what you're feeling.
  • How to speak so that your partner can hear you. This tool is a game changer.

WEEK 4: THE NEEDS MODULE

How to get your needs met,

and make each other happy.

We all have needs that can only be met by our partner.

When they go unmet, we feel unsure of our relationship and begin pushing and pulling to get them met. 

In The Needs Module, you’ll discover your relationship needs (and your partner’s) and inspire your partner to meet them for you.

When you experience having your relationship needs met, you’ll fall deeper in love than when you first met.

But wait, there's more! You'll learn how to stop any fight dead in its tracks in just seconds.

Plus, I'll show you an insanely powerful self-soothing tool, so that if your partner is unable to be there for you, you can feel better fast without them.

And lot's more...

Madison Baltonado

We learned how to how to lovingly ask one another to meet each other’s needs, instead of demanding and making the other partner feel bad.

- Madison Baltonado

Leena Phaneuf

I feel so much braver. I now know what to do and say to be respectful of my needs and others needs. Bruce is so kind, hopeful, and informative.

- Leena Phaneuf

Susan Barnard

We both feel empowered to move past our differences that used to get in the way of real connection.

- sUSAN bARNARD

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THE NEEDS MODULE:

  • The 3 kinds of needs... and which ones your partner must meet for you.
  • How to inspire your partner to want to meet your needs.
  • Learn the most meaningful way to communicate love to your partner. If you don’t know this, they’ll never feel loved no matter how many times you tell them or show them.
  • A sure-fire way to stop your partner being clingy or demanding. They'll actually offer you space and time to recharge after an emotional moment instead.
  • Exactly what to say and do to lure your withdrawn partner back out of their shell when they retreat and shut you out during an argument.
  • A word-for-word script to get any conversation back on track if it goes off the rails: This will give you magic powers to turn any heated conversation around.
  • How to safely handle anger, without scaring your partner.
  • Discover an insanely powerful self-soothing technique to make you feel better fast when you're not feeling OK.

WEEK 5: THE RAPID REPAIR MODULE

How to quickly heal hurt feelings,

restore trust, and move on from pain - together.

Here's a truth about long-term committed relationships:

We’re all human… and if we’re going to be together for decades, it’s inevitable that we’ll screw things from time to time up along the way. 

But screwing up isn’t a problem. 

The problem that leads to conflict and then resentment is the lack of meaningful repair after you’ve messed up.

So, in the Rapid Repair module, we'll learn how to repair everyday hurt feelings, how to make things right after you mess up, and how to heal catastrophic betrayals of trust.

Andrea-Panzarella

We are finally on the same team together, we are completely vulnerable with each other, we are connected in ways that we would not have been otherwise, and we are healing our hearts together.

- Andrea & Paul

Nicole Jackson

We are now able to be MUCH more honest with each other, able to talk to each other about REAL things, have big, raw, emotional things come up, and have it bring us closer instead of apart.

- NICOLE JACKSON

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THE RAPID REPAIR MODULE:

  • How to apologize in a way that your partner can accept.
  • A step-by-step formula to heal old hurt that will melt your partner’s heart every time
  • 5 things that you need to do to make things right between you when you next mess up.
  • How to forgive things you just can't let go of, so trust can finally return to your relationship.
  • A scientifically proven process that can dissolve years of resentment in less than an hour.
  • How to get past a catastrophic betrayal of trust.

WEEK 6: THE CONFLICT CURE MODULE

How to end blowups out of nowhere,

so you can stop walking on eggshells and relax around each other.

Most couples have at least one or two unresolved conflicts that they tiptoe around and just can’t seem to get past.

Often, these issues have been like a broken record for years, turning into hyper-sensitive topics that spark finger pointing, defensiveness and explosive fights at the mere mention of them.

Left unresolved, these volatile issues are like a ticking timebomb, exploding into fight after fight and destroying any last trust, intimacy and emotional connection.

This pattern doesn’t have a happy ending.

Eventually, both of you withdraw to protect yourselves from more hurt, making closeness and intimacy impossible. Then it’s just a matter of time before the relationship ends or one partner has an affair.

In The Conflict Cure Module, we dig deep and identify your recurring patterns of conflict. Then, we'll put an end to them once and for all. No more walking on eggshells around each other.

You’ll have conversations with your partner that will stop the hurt and the destructive cycle of withdrawing and chasing.

Anna Burns

Since finishing the course, we have had very little conflict, and any conflict we have had has been resolved quickly and easily.

- ANNA BURNS

Ryan & Melodi de Havelyn

Our home was a war-zone 24/7. We cannot thank you enough for giving us the tools to act like adults and fix the hurt children inside each of us.

- JOHN & EMILY

Doug and Leah

After 4 weeks of the program, we are loving each other and daily arguments are a thing of the past. We are connected and conflict rarely occurs anymore. We now live in peace and harmony and can be the loving songwriting team we need to be.

- DOUG AND LEAH

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THE CONFLICT CURE MODULE:

  • Disarm your emotional hot-button wounds that trigger all of your upsets.
  • Identify the 3 deadly conversations that trap you in conflict forever - and end them.
  • Discover which long-forgotten childhood experiences are at the root of your relationship struggles (even if you had a happy childhood). This new awareness will spark empathy and compassion in both you and your spouse.
  • A 7-step cheat sheet to resolve your recurring conflicts for good.
  • Learn to use conflict as an opportunity to connect and grow an unshakable foundation of trust together.
  • Master a step-by-step proven system that stops recurring patterns of conflict dead in their tracks before they spiral into a blowout (this is a goodie).

WEEK 7: THE PARTNERSHIP MODULE

How to become an invincible team,

that has each other's back.

Now that conflict, connection and safety are no longer issues in your relationship, we’ll look at the next important steps you must take to become a strong team and continue growing together.

You’ll learn what makes for a supportive, collaborative partnership where both of you have each other's back.

As a team, one of the skills you’ll need is the skill of making joint decisions together – decisions that work for both of you.

I've got you covered.

You'll learn a tool for coming up with solutions together that are likely to be far better that the initial ideas each of you had.

then you'll create joint agreements that ensure that all the breakthroughs you've had during the course stick.

Finally, we’ll wrap up the program by celebrating our success stories.

Todd Sedelmeier

We’re more intimate, our sex has improved, our love and appreciation is deeper… and friends keep telling us that we are ‘such a great couple'

- TODD SEDELMEIER

Linda H.

Bruce, we are closer than ever before. I feel safe and heard by Michel for the first time in all the time we’ve known each other.

The program opened up our communication, taught us how to trust and support one another and finally got us on the same team.

- LINDA H

Daniel Carr

After 36 years of marriage, we can now view our problems as the “enemy” and have come together, united as a team, to fight those enemies and keep our marriage strong.

- DANIEL CARR

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THE PARTNERSHIP MODULE:

  • Learn what makes for a supportive, collaborative partnership.
  • How to collaborate to make an important joint decision together.
  • Peaceful Problem Solving: Discover how to come to a mutual agreement, even when you both feel strongly about your viewpoint.
  • You'll create a joint vision for your relationship that will act as a guiding light, leading you both into the Mature Love stage together.
  • Create powerful relationship agreements that ensure that your vision isn’t just wishful thinking, but actually comes true.
  • How to sustain the breakthroughs you've had and not fall back into old patterns.
STOP FIGHTING, START CONNECTING

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