HOW TO FIX YOUR RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS
OR SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE

There were no “Communication 101” classes at high school, so just like trying to ride a bicycle blindfolded, we crash and burn when we try to talk about difficult “issues” with our spouse.

If you don't have the communication skills to reach your partner, years of hard-earned trust and connection can be destroyed with one thoughtless sentence yelled in anger…

…or one stone cold silence or look of contempt.

Communication issues is the #1 reason my clients cite for their relationship troubles.

Using the tools you learn in The Communication Module, instead of bickering, arguing or fighting like cat and dog, you’ll resolve your differences and finally feel heard and understood – perhaps for the first time ever.

Conflict won’t stop until you both feel emotionally safe and secure around each other.

When we feel unsafe, everything becomes a struggle – even a simple conversation about what to eat for dinner can feel threatening.

A bit like walking through a minefield, you can’t fully relax because at some level you sense danger - the danger that your partner might not be there for you.

So, always on the lookout for a potential threat, you stop being your usual happy self. Instead, you protect your heart from being rejected, abandoned or from being engulfed by your partner. After a while, this protective state becomes the norm and you forget to relate as lovers.

In the Safety Module you’ll create a safe haven inside your relationship. As your needs for security and safety get met, so you begin to relax into feeling comfortable – being ‘happy you’ again. Read on more more juicy details...

We all have needs that can only be met by our partner.

When they go unmet, we feel unsure of our relationship and begin pushing and pulling to get them met. 

In The Needs Module, you’ll discover your relationship needs (and your partner’s) and inspire your partner to meet them for you.

When you experience having your relationship needs met, you’ll fall deeper in love than when you first met.

But wait, there's more! You'll learn how to stop any fight dead in its tracks in just seconds.

Plus, I'll show you an insanely powerful self-soothing tool, so that if your partner is unable to be there for you, you can feel better fast without them.

And lot's more...

Here's a truth about long-term committed relationships:

We’re all human… and if we’re going to be together for decades, it’s inevitable that we’ll screw things from time to time up along the way. 

But screwing up isn’t a problem. 

The problem that leads to conflict and then resentment is the lack of meaningful repair after you’ve messed up.

So, in the Rapid Repair module, we'll learn how to repair everyday hurt feelings, how to make things right after you mess up, and how to heal catastrophic betrayals of trust.

Most couples have at least one or two unresolved conflicts that they tiptoe around and just can’t seem to get past.

Often, these issues have been like a broken record for years, turning into hyper-sensitive topics that spark finger pointing, defensiveness and explosive fights at the mere mention of them.

Left unresolved, these volatile issues are like a ticking timebomb, exploding into fight after fight and destroying any last trust, intimacy and emotional connection.

This pattern doesn’t have a happy ending.

Eventually, both of you withdraw to protect yourselves from more hurt, making closeness and intimacy impossible. Then it’s just a matter of time before the relationship ends or one partner has an affair.

In The Conflict Cure Module, we dig deep and identify your recurring patterns of conflict. Then, we'll put an end to them once and for all. No more walking on eggshells around each other.

You’ll have conversations with your partner that will stop the hurt and the destructive cycle of withdrawing and chasing.

Now that conflict, connection and safety are no longer issues in your relationship, we’ll look at the next important steps you must take to become a strong team and continue growing together.

You’ll learn what makes for a supportive, collaborative partnership where both of you have each other's back.

As a team, one of the skills you’ll need is the skill of making joint decisions together – decisions that work for both of you.

I've got you covered.

You'll learn a tool for coming up with solutions together that are likely to be far better that the initial ideas each of you had.

then you'll create joint agreements that ensure that all the breakthroughs you've had during the course stick.

Finally, we’ll wrap up the program by celebrating our success stories.