Relationship problems? Need professional help?
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FIX YOUR RELATIONSHIP STRUGGLES. IN WEEKS.
WHAT IS RELATIONSHIP COACHING?
Relationship coaching is a highly effective alternative to marriage counseling or online relationship counseling.
Thanks to the internet, I can help you repair your marriage or relationship from the privacy of your own home. No driving to a therapist and sitting on a couch, face to face with a stranger.
During our sessions, I’ll help you resolve your issues, repair the connection between you and begin being happy together.
KINDS OF PROBLEMS
CAN RELATIONSHIP COACHING HELP
No matter what you’re dealing with in your relationship,
your relationship struggles are normal and can be fixed.
We’ll meet on my private phone conference line for 90 minutes.
You can dial in for free from anywhere in the world as long as you have an internet connection and a computer or Apple/Android mobile device. You and your partner can be in the same room or in different locations.
On our call, I'll assess where you’re at and where you want your relationship to be. Then I’ll create a custom curriculum to get you there quickly.
We’ll repair your relationship in 3 distinct phases…
PHASE 1: CONNECT
If you're struggling to communicate, it's because neither of you feel safe enough to open up to the other. My first agenda is to get you both feeling safe and securely connected again.
PHASE 2: COMMUNICATE
Once you feel securely connected, I'll guide you through a series of heart-opening conversations that will heal past hurts, resolve your differences and get you both on the same page.
PHASE 3: COLLABORATE
Next, you need to learn to collaborate as partners on the same team, instead of opponents at war. This phase of our coaching will move you from feeling like two ME's to one WE.
WHAT WE’LL DO TOGETHER:
WHY SHOULD WE WORK WITH YOU, BRUCE?
You shouldn’t just hire me.
Hire somebody with a proven track record that you respect.
If that’s me, great. Let’s get going.
If you’re not sure yet, go and use all the free advice on this website and test me out.
My relationship coaching practice has a global reputation for quickly fixing most marriage and relationship problems.
In the end, my results are the only reason you should consider me as your coach.
Take the next steps…
1. Watch the video above first so that you fully understand what relationship coaching involves.
2. Select a relationship coaching package below that best suits your budget. You’ll then be taken to my 100% secure online payment page where you can pay using a card or PayPal.
3. You schedule our first call in my online calendar. Then, my assistant will email you our conference line details and we’ll chat at your chosen time.
Remember, your romantic relationship is the single most important relationship in your life. When it stops working, everything suffers – work, family, health, peace of mind – everything!
It’s normal to get stuck from time to time…
STAYING STUCK IS COMPLETELY OPTIONAL.
GET THE RELATIONSHIP HELP YOU NEED
I only ever work with 3 private clients at any one time. If you’re seeing this page, it means a rare spot has just opened up.
"Bruce – I just had to reach out and thank you. An hour on the phone with you saved me years of conventional therapy.
Thanks for turning the lights on for me!”
- CRAIG FILEK
"Bruce, our marriage has gone from very rocky, to a deep love I didn’t think was possible.
You accomplished miracles where marriage counseling, therapy, seminars and countless books fell short.
This is the best investment we made in our 10 years together.”
- MANDI & JAY ELLEFSON
Can't afford private relationship counseling?
Check out the Love At First Fight coaching program. You'll still have 7 hours of access to me in our group coaching calls. And, if you complete the assignments, you'll get the same results you would with a one-on-one private session.
If money is a limiting factor, this is the option you want.
BRUCE MUZIK HAS BEEN FEATURED ON
ABOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP COACH
Bruce has built a reputation as the guy relationship counselors refer their toughest clients to, to help fix their troubled marriages.
He has more than 20 years of coaching experience and has been called “The Couples Whisperer” (although he says he rarely whispers).
Direct experience working with hundreds of couples each year has confirmed his belief that even “hopeless case” relationships can be repaired.
More than 3 million people have watched his TEDx talk and he has been featured on the BBC and Financial Times to name a few.
“Bruce cares deeply about his clients. He creates a safe and accepting space to explore your relationship.” – Rhonda Darling
Get on the same page with your partner...
YOUR QUESTIONS ANSWERED
Click the questions below to see the answers…
That all depends on your situation. There’s no one size fits all answer.
If you’ve completed my Love At First Fight coaching program, you may only need one session.
If your relationship is generally in good shape, but you’re struggling to get on the same page, you may only need one session.
If your relationship feels rocky (i.e unsafe) or you’ve suffered an affair, I recommend at least 2 sessions and completing the Love At First Fight coaching program.
If you’re still unsure about how many sessions you need, please contact me here and tell me a little about your situation and I'll assess how many sessions you might need.
I’ve found that many people feel more comfortable opening up emotionally when they cannot see the person they are talking with.
Being vulnerable face to face with a stranger can feel awkward and scary (especially for men). Working over the phone eliminates this obstacle and can actually speed our work up.
It also has other advantages, like being able to work together even when one of you is travelling. You can be in separate locations and both dial into our private conference line.
I’ve developed some creative ways of using you both as my eyes, when all I have (on the phone) is ears. I’ve noticed absolutely no difference in results working over the phone vs. working in person.
Conventional marriage therapy treats pathologies. The marriage therapist assumes that his/her patients have individual issues that need fixing. The assumption is that once each person is ‘fixed’, they will be able to come together and have a successful relationship. Not surprisingly, conventional marriage therapy has a higher failure rate than success rate.
ONLINE RELATIONSHIP COUNSELING
Online relationship counseling tends to offer advice, rather than therapy. Most counselors have had some level of training, sometimes from a church, religious institution or government organization.
ONLINE RELATIONSHIP COACHING
Relationship coaching provides accountability, tools, and feedback to the couple about how their behavior affects the other person. It is the newest of the three. Anyone can call themselves a relationship coach without having received any formal training.
WHAT I DO
I’m not a therapist. I’m not a counselor. I’m not a life-coach. I do work online and I sometimes refer to myself as a counselor or coach because the couples I work with understand what that means.
Here’s how my approach differs from marriage therapy or relationship counseling:
1. I DON’T FOCUS ON FIXING YOU
Instead, I focus on your relationship.
I treat your relationship as a system – a living organism made up of two people.
Like any living organism, it has basic survival needs. When these needs are not met, the relationship gets into trouble. When these needs are met, the relationship feels secure and both individuals report feeling close, safe and happy together.
So, I work to help you heal old hurt and collaborate to meet the needs of your relationship or marriage (like parents collaborate to meet a child’s needs).
2. I MAKE YOU THE EXPERT
The second way that my approach is different is that I believe that most people don’t need therapy, they need education and training.
Just like you’d be dangerous on the roads if you’d never passed a driving test, so most of us are dangerous to our relationship… not intentionally, but because we never received education and training in how to ‘drive’ our relationship.
Unlike many therapists who get their degree and never study again, I live, breathe and eat relationship research. It’s my passion.
So, if we work together, I’ll end up teaching you some truly life-altering distinctions, tools and strategies for repairing your relationship troubles. Everything you’ll learn is grounded in scientifically proven principles.
This way, once we say goodbye, you won’t need me again because you’ll be able to steer your relationship away from danger yourself.
3. YOU CONNECT FIRST, COMMUNICATE SECOND
The final way my approach is different is that I focus on connection first and communication second.
Conventional wisdom says that if you can communicate effectively, you’ll feel connected. But my experience shows that if you give a couple communication skills before they are connected, they just have better tools to fight with. Not a good idea.
So, I focus on getting a couple connected first. In my opinion, this is the biggest reason for my success rate. It’s also why relationship counselors and marriage therapists send their toughest clients to me.
Yes. You and I can work together one-on-one.
I’d prefer if your partner did participate with you and I can help you get them on board, but you can fix your relationship even if your partner won’t participate or is obstinate.
Take comfort that your relationship troubles are not your fault or your partner’s fault. They are caused by the relationship dynamic you unconsciously co-create together.
A relationship is like a see-saw. When one partner moves, the other has to move too. As you begin changing the way you respond in your relationship, so the dynamic between you will change and your partner will begin showing up in the relationship very differently.
Very often an obstinate partner will choose to join us later as a result of seeing first hand how you’re becoming more loving, more secure, and emotionally safe to be around.