When my husband and I fought, I felt rage and hatred in my heart. I questioned whether we would make it much longer. The anguish was unbearable.
I found this course through a suggestion in a facebook group. I signed up knowing we had nothing to lose. The first few weeks were tough because I couldn’t imagine that we could shift out of the continual argument cycle we did so often.
But I feel more seen, heard and understood by my husband than I have in a long while. He understands his part in the arguments, and understands where I am coming from. I understand him and his needs more as well. We learned we never learned how to communicate properly and created a toxic environment for both of us. When we learned this, a shift happened that has lightened and opened my heart.
I am grateful we decided to say yes to this course. I am hopeful for the future.