THE CONFLICT CURE
The online relationship repair course based on proven research.
FIX YOUR RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS
AND WAKE UP HAPPY TOGETHER,
in 7 weeks or less, even if you’re the only one trying.
INTRODUCING THE ONLINE ALTERNATIVE TO MARRIAGE COUNSELING...
Arguing? Relationship "issues?"
Need to save your marriage or fix your relationship problems?
The Conflict Cure is a 7-week online relationship repair program that provides step-by-step solutions to end your relationship struggles, so that you can start being happy together.
HOW TO FIX YOUR RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS
OR SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE
from the privacy of your home, without expensive couples therapy
Hi there. I’m Bruce Muzik.
If you’re reading this page, then I imagine that you’re feeling unappreciated, frustrated, desperate, alone or even afraid.
You’re in the right place. Read this page all the way to the bottom and I’ll show you how to fix things between you and your partner before they go from bad to worse.
BRUCE MUZIK
RELATIONSHIP REPAIR SPECIALIST
DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOUR RELATIONSHIP
OR MARRIAGE?
then I want you to know that…
Your relationship problems are normal.
It's not your fault.
You are not alone.
Allow me to explain how to fix or save your relationship…
YOUR RELATIONSHIP WILL TRAVEL THROUGH 3 STAGES,
but you’ll probably stay stuck in stage two (unless you get help).
STAGE 1: THE ROMANCE STAGE
This is when we fall in love – two ME’s dreaming of the possibility of a WE.
We feel excited. Being with our partner makes the world feel brighter. This stage lasts up to 2 years.
STAGE 2: THE POWER STRUGGLE
The rose tinted glasses are abruptly flung off. We try to change each other, attempting to get our needs met. We fight for our partner’s attention or for our independence. Almost ALL divorces and breakups happen here.
STAGE 3: MATURE LOVE
You finally feel like a team. You stop trying to change each other and accept (even love) each other’s flaws. Your connection feel secure. Commonly, couples in this stage work on a mutually meaningful project together.
Most couples NEVER make it to the Mature Love stage.
They break up during the Power Struggle stage.
If you're reading this page, your relationship is likely stuck in the Power Struggle Stage, and...
What you do next is critical.
DON’T MAKE THESE 3 DEADLY MISTAKES
THAT LEAD TO DIVORCE OR A BREAKUP
MISTAKE #1
THINKING YOUR RELATIONSHIP STRUGGLES WILL SOMEHOW JUST GO AWAY.
They most likely won’t. At least not until you deal with the heart of what is causing them.
In most cases, things will get worse until you get professional help or break up.
MISTAKE #2
TAKING FRIEND’S AND FAMILY’S ADVICE.
I know they mean well. I know they want to help because they care for you, but…
Unless they are a qualified relationship professional, their advice will just make things even worse.
That’s because fixing a relationship is not obvious, nor common sense. If it was, you wouldn’t be reading this.
MISTAKE #3
TRYING TO FIX THINGS ON YOUR OWN.
It may be tempting to think you can fix your relationship without help, but that rarely works. Why? Because you’re too close to it to see things clearly and from an impartial perspective.
When emotions are high, all the books you read will be forgotten and you’ll do what you’ve always done – fight or flee.
HERE’S WHAT CAN REPAIR YOUR RELATIONSHIP
(this works well for 90% of couples)
YOU DON’T NEED COUPLES THERAPY...
Unless you’re suffering from childhood psychological trauma, you probably don’t need couples therapy to fix your relationship.
Besides, if you’re anything like me, you don’t want to be sitting on some stuffy therapist’s couch telling your darkest secrets to a stranger who is taking notes about what’s wrong with you. You are not broken.
Not to mention the fact that traditional marriage therapy has an embarrassingly high failure rate – often greater than 70%.
I help thousands of couples each year and here’s what I’ve found works for most couples:
1. YOU NEED AWARENESS OF YOUR BLIND SPOTS...
Your unconscious patterns stop you from connecting, speaking kindly, and being a great team together. Only when you can see what you’re doing incorrectly, can you start doing things differently.
2. YOU NEED A STEP-BY-STEP LEARNING SYSTEM...
that teaches you tools, strategies and proven solutions to your relationship problems (even if you are the only one trying).
3. YOU NEED AN EXPERT ADVISOR...
to hold your hand, help and mentor you as you get on the same page and build a secure bond between you.
Fix Your Relationship Problems Fast, even if you’re the only one trying. Guaranteed.
THE
Conflict Cure
The 7-week relationship repair program based on proven research.
SO, WHAT EXACTLY IS
THE CONFLICT CURE?
The Conflict Cure is a proven 7-week home-study program based on the latest research by the world's top relationship researchers.
The curriculum is delivered via weekly streaming videos and workbooks.
If you choose the Group Coaching option, you also get four 60-minute group coaching calls with me (Bruce). That way, you're guaranteed to get help with your personal relationship situation.
You’ll learn time-tested communication tools and conflict resolution strategies to get you feeling safe, connected and on the same page again.
You can participate in your own time, from anywhere in the world, and turn things around even if you’re the only one trying.
The program begins this Saturday.
IS THIS COURSE
RIGHT FOR YOU?
This quick quiz will help you decide…
Here are just some of the common relationship problems that the coaching program solves...
How many of these Symptoms do you notice in your relationship?
Click the text below to select your relationship’s symptoms.
Checked one or more boxes?
Then this program can help you.
Counted one or more? Then this program can help you.
I was unable to feel or to express love to my wife. I hadn’t shed a tear in our 8 year relationship.
Thanks to this program, I am more open, without fear of sharing myself with my wife. Thank you Bruce.
- CHRIS STUHLDREHER
HOW IT WORKS
The first module of The Conflict Cure is available to watch the moment you complete your registration.
STEP #1: WATCH THE WEEKLY VIDEO TRAINING
Each Saturday you’ll receive access to a new module. Each module contains life-changing training videos that will teach you communication skills, proven strategies and tools proven to end conflict and get you both back on the same page.
STEP #2: DO THE WEEKLY EXERCISES
Your implementation workbook will help cement your learning and guide you through a series of insightful exercises and heart-opening, healing conversations.
STEP #3: TALK WITH ME & GET HELP
Finally, if you choose the Group Coaching option, we’ll chat every two weeks during our four 60-minute live Group Coaching calls. You ask me questions and I provide solutions tailored to your specific relationship situation.
IN 7 WEEKS TIME, YOU CAN EXPECT THAT...
Start being happy together.
THE CONFLICT CURE CURRICULUM:
Our curriculum consists of 7 modules grounded in the most up-to-date research by the world’s smartest relationship scientists in the fields of:
- Neuroscience,
- Attachment theory,
- Personality theory,
- Developmental psychology, and
- The couples therapy with the highest success rate.
I’ve distilled all this research into tools and strategies that are easy to apply with your partner. More importantly, they just plain work.
Research based curriculum...
WHAT YOU WILL LEARN IN ONLY 7 WEEKS
(Click on the “+” below to learn more about each week)
How to reconnect quickly,
so you can drop your guard and get back to feeling close again.
Remember when you first fell in love? You felt close and conversations just flowed effortlessly. You didn’t need communication tools – you just talked. You were connected. And it was fun. Feeling closely connected to each other is the holy grail of a happy, fulfilled marriage or relationship.
When your emotional connection gets lost, so does that sense of safety and security that goes hand in hand with it. You begin to feel more like adversaries than teammates.
Quickly, little arguments explode into full-blown wars when your connection feel threatened and before you know it, you’re sitting in a lawyers office signing divorce papers.
In The Connection Module you’ll reconnect, open each other’s hearts, and learn how to stay connected.
It feels already as if we are so much lighter and connected (and I started your program only 2 weeks ago)!
- DAISY GRODSKI
Bruce, we were in a really rocky place, living independent lives. This program helped us re-connect on a level I never imagined. In 7 weeks, we have fallen back in love.
- LORNE NOBLE
WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THE CONNECTION MODULE:
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How to have tough conversations,
without them escalating...
so you can resolve your differences and get back on the same page.
There were no “Communication 101” classes at high school, so just like trying to ride a bicycle blindfolded, we crash and burn when we try to talk about difficult “issues” with our spouse.
If you don't have the communication skills to reach your partner, years of hard-earned trust and connection can be destroyed with one thoughtless sentence yelled in anger…
…or one stone cold silence or look of contempt.
Communication issues is the #1 reason my clients cite for their relationship troubles.
Using the tools you learn in The Communication Module, instead of bickering, arguing or fighting like cat and dog, you’ll resolve your differences and finally feel heard and understood – perhaps for the first time ever.
In the past we’d both say ‘You’re not listening to me!’ Now we stop, reflect and get clarity from each other. This program has influenced us so much.
- MICHAEL COURNOYER
We couldn’t work out why we were fighting so much and slowly disconnecting. Now, we're no longer taking what the other does/says personally. We can PAUSE THINK RESET… move on… it’s great. Our marriage is back on track.
- Vicki Hamilton
How to feel safe and secure together,
so you can relax, open up and laugh again.
Conflict won’t stop until you both feel emotionally safe and secure around each other.
When we feel unsafe, everything becomes a struggle – even a simple conversation about what to eat for dinner can feel threatening.
A bit like walking through a minefield, you can’t fully relax because at some level you sense danger - the danger that your partner might not be there for you.
So, always on the lookout for a potential threat, you stop being your usual happy self. Instead, you protect your heart from being rejected, abandoned or from being engulfed by your partner. After a while, this protective state becomes the norm and you forget to relate as lovers.
In the Safety Module you’ll create a safe haven inside your relationship. As your needs for security and safety get met, so you begin to relax into feeling comfortable – being ‘happy you’ again. Read on more more juicy details...
After 24 years - it’s like a miracle. We are vulnerable and feel safe to be so. – We’ve tried many things but you worked for us.
- JUDY & DAVID
I now feel safe and “gotten”. My partner understands me better and I get him now! He feels safe and now opens up to me.
- Dawn Cormier-Hazen
How to get your needs met,
and make each other happy.
We all have needs that can only be met by our partner.
When they go unmet, we feel unsure of our relationship and begin pushing and pulling to get them met.
In The Needs Module, you’ll discover your relationship needs (and your partner’s) and inspire your partner to meet them for you.
When you experience having your relationship needs met, you’ll fall deeper in love than when you first met.
But wait, there's more! You'll learn how to stop any fight dead in its tracks in just seconds.
Plus, I'll show you an insanely powerful self-soothing tool, so that if your partner is unable to be there for you, you can feel better fast without them.
And lot's more...
We learned how to how to lovingly ask one another to meet each other’s needs, instead of demanding and making the other partner feel bad.
- Madison Baltonado
I feel so much braver. I now know what to do and say to be respectful of my needs and others needs. Bruce is so kind, hopeful, and informative.
- Leena Phaneuf
We both feel empowered to move past our differences that used to get in the way of real connection.
- sUSAN bARNARD
How to quickly heal hurt feelings,
restore trust, and move on from pain - together.
Here's a truth about long-term committed relationships:
We’re all human… and if we’re going to be together for decades, it’s inevitable that we’ll screw things from time to time up along the way.
But screwing up isn’t a problem.
The problem that leads to conflict and then resentment is the lack of meaningful repair after you’ve messed up.
So, in the Rapid Repair module, we'll learn how to repair everyday hurt feelings, how to make things right after you mess up, and how to heal catastrophic betrayals of trust.
We are finally on the same team together, we are completely vulnerable with each other, we are connected in ways that we would not have been otherwise, and we are healing our hearts together.
- Andrea & Paul
We are now able to be MUCH more honest with each other, able to talk to each other about REAL things, have big, raw, emotional things come up, and have it bring us closer instead of apart.
- NICOLE JACKSON
How to end “blowups out of nowhere”,
so you can stop walking on eggshells and relax around each other.
Most couples have at least one or two unresolved conflicts that they tiptoe around and just can’t seem to get past.
Often, these issues have been like a broken record for years, turning into hyper-sensitive topics that spark finger pointing, defensiveness and explosive fights at the mere mention of them.
Left unresolved, these volatile issues are like a ticking timebomb, exploding into fight after fight and destroying any last trust, intimacy and emotional connection.
This pattern doesn’t have a happy ending.
Eventually, both of you withdraw to protect yourselves from more hurt, making closeness and intimacy impossible. Then it’s just a matter of time before the relationship ends or one partner has an affair.
In The Conflict Cure Module, we dig deep and identify your recurring patterns of conflict. Then, we'll put an end to them once and for all. No more walking on eggshells around each other.
You’ll have conversations with your partner that will stop the hurt and the destructive cycle of withdrawing and chasing.
Since finishing the course, we have had very little conflict, and any conflict we have had has been resolved quickly and easily.
- ANNA BURNS
Our home was a war-zone 24/7. We cannot thank you enough for giving us the tools to act like adults and fix the hurt children inside each of us.
- JOHN & SARAH DE HAVEN
After 4 weeks of the program, we are loving each other and daily arguments are a thing of the past. We are connected and conflict rarely occurs anymore. We now live in peace and harmony and can be the loving songwriting team we need to be.
- DOUG AND LEAH
How to become an invincible team,
that has each other's back.
Now that conflict, connection and safety are no longer issues in your relationship, we’ll look at the next important steps you must take to become a strong team and continue growing together.
You’ll learn what makes for a supportive, collaborative partnership where both of you have each other's back.
As a team, one of the skills you’ll need is the skill of making joint decisions together – decisions that work for both of you.
I've got you covered.
You'll learn a tool for coming up with solutions together that are likely to be far better that the initial ideas each of you had.
then you'll create joint agreements that ensure that all the breakthroughs you've had during the course stick.
Finally, we’ll wrap up the program by celebrating our success stories.
We’re more intimate, our sex has improved, our love and appreciation is deeper… and friends keep telling us that we are ‘such a great couple'
- TODD SEDELMEIER
Bruce, we are closer than ever before. I feel safe and heard by Michel for the first time in all the time we’ve known each other.
The program opened up our communication, taught us how to trust and support one another and finally got us on the same team.
- LINDA H
After 36 years of marriage, we can now view our problems as the “enemy” and have come together, united as a team, to fight those enemies and keep our marriage strong.
- DANIEL CARR
STOP FIGHTING, START CONNECTING
Read what past participants have to say about The Conflict Cure:
Pam Sortor
Your course is more effective and less expensive than traditional couple’s counseling.
Lisa Ritchie
We are like teenagers that have just fell in love.
Julie Robbins
This program has transformed everything in just three weeks.
Vicki Hamilton
I can't recommend this course enough. Things change from the very 1st words. Marriage back on track.
Michael Ritchie
This has not only saved our marriage, it 'honestly" saved my life. Thank you Bruce Muzik - our children still have both parents.
Tessa Klein
I can’t believe it, but my husband and I actually made it through our big fight yesterday.
Anne Finlay
There is an increase in the trust between us and a decrease in fear and resentment.
Lorne Noble
We have reconnected on a level I never imagined and it’s truly magical.
Rose Hamel
We're head over heels in love again!
Hallie Crawford
We’ve been through hours of therapy... Bruce, this course was the most helpful thing Chad and I have ever done.
Natalia P.
"Connect first, communicate later" is a true game-changer.
Anya Staal
This course has been mind-blowing. I will never be the same.
Dawn Cormier-Hazen
I now feel safe and “gotten”. He now opens up to me. God Bless you and your work.
Jay Ellefson
Our time with you has made such and difference in our lives. We have become so much closer in every respect.
Jennifer
We feel closer then we have ever felt before. Truly saved our marriage.
Christine Morrison
As a Licensed Clinical Family Therapist (and college professor), I've learned more in this one workshop than I have in many years of workshops combined.
Hazel Currie
The whole course had me wowed from beginning to end.
Deborah
The course has brought us closer and helped us to finally achieve resolution. We're no longer taking what each other does personally.
Katie Miller
The experience transformed me. I'm confident I have the tools to truly connect with a partner, without fear or hesitation.
Lyndel Maroske
While my partner didn’t participate as much as I'd hoped, the skills still succeeded in bringing about much needed improvements.
Rebecca Mead
I have changed. I really loved this course and was sad when it finished.
Doreen Lethbridge
We can testify that Bruce and his program is the real deal. It’s saved our marriage. We have connected more than in 35 years together.
Arturo
Mandatory for any couples considering a long-term partnership.
Chris Partington
If you need a track to follow when you’ve lost your way with the love of your life, this is the course for you!
Patricia Malnick
The change in both of us is unbelievable.
Lynne Graham
My partner is a recovering alcoholic with autism and trauma. Who would be brave enough (and qualified) to take that on? Bruce Muzik.
John & Sarah
We go to sleep at night holding hands instead of turned away back-to-back. 'Love at First Fight' has changed our lives!
Steve R.
This is serious progress for us... All the best marriage practices, advice and techniques in one program. Totally worth it.
Beth A.
We were 2 months from divorce... By the end of the program we had fallen in love again.
Craig Filek
This saved me years of conventional therapy. Thanks for turning the lights on for me!
Miriam and DuWayne Heppner
After 42 years, we were stuck. Now we have the tools (and desire) to continue growing and connecting together.
Yana Nazarenko
This program truly saved our relationship.
Judy
We have become SO much closer - it’s like a miracle. We are vulnerable and feel safe to be so. We tried many things, but you have worked for us.
Mari Marion
After 6 months of my husband being gone... my husband moved back last week, in week 7 of the course. We are in a brand new place.
Laura and Tom Davis
This is an amazing, AMAZING, program! I am married today because of my participation
Vis Naidoo
Mona and I were on the verge of a breakup. This program was the best investment ever.
Verity Noble
We were in a really rocky place. Although we haven’t yet managed to complete the whole course, we have fallen back in love.
Pamela Cournoyer
We’re in a whole different space now and I’m not scared of what might happen anymore. This program has saved our marriage.
Jennifer McCain
We have been able to have SEVERAL difficult conversations without ANY fighting... It’s been a lifesaver.
Carla Heins
The Conflict Cure is truly a MIRACLE.
Iria Suárez
Our marriage is now flourishing.
Marie Leboeuf and John Grover
I’ve never been happier with my man. Bruce is a true pro.
Cindy & Dan LeBlanc
We were about to call it quits after 31 years, but now we're on our way to bliss. We can’t say enough good things about this course.
Vikki Brown
I was single when I signed up. I found what I was looking for before I even finished the course.
Theresa Crowley-Ferreira
This program is the real deal. Bruce will help pull you through to the other side.
Suzanne Brand
My husband and I were practically divorced. Now we're back together!
Julissa Charbonneau
Paul and I are on cloud 9! Our marriage is beautiful, our parenting is on the same path, and we found ourselves within it all.
Sue Mackimmie
I’ve spent the cost of my house in SF on therapy over the last few decades and I got further with this short course than ever before.
Nicole Armstrong
I tell everyone I know about Bruce's program and how much it changed my life!
Kiera Flening
This allowed us to understand and communicate with one another in a way that 2.5 years of couples' therapy never did.
Cheryl Coffey
Bruce gave me the confidence to stay present as we worked through our struggles. Attending this class saved our relationship.
Kevin Haspela
Conflict is no longer something to be avoided. I have put down my sword in exchange for vulnerability and trust.
Laura Haspela
We have more time connecting. Less time pouting and turning away from each other.
Malin Nordmark
We had no idea what was waiting for us when we hit that buy button 8 weeks ago, but I’m so glad that we did.
Andrea
We're finally on the same team together, completely vulnerable with each other. We're connected and healing our hearts together.
Kaira Wyss
We were desperate because we couldn't resolve our problems! After only 2 sessions our relationship turned around.
Angel Lek
We’re definitely loving and connected now. This is a HUGE improvement from the pain we were both in just eight weeks ago.
Rhonda Darling
We were not talking to one another before the course began and now we are.
Rebecca
Divorce was my next step. If you are ready to give up, you need to try this program first.