"Fix Your Relationship" Webinar Replay

Press the “Play” button below to listen to the “Fix Your Relationship” Webinar training.

Audio clip: Adobe Flash Player (version 9 or above) is required to play this audio clip. Download the latest version here. You also need to have JavaScript enabled in your browser.

In just 90 minutes, you’ll learn:

  • How to fix your relationship and feel like partners on the same team again
  • 3 magic words that will instantly stop a fight dead in it’s tracks
  • 5 simple communication skills guaranteed to melt your lover’s heart and make you feel close again
  • The 3 things you must do before trying to resolve your issues with your partner (if you don’t do this your conversation will fail and explode into a fight)


Here’s How To Repair Your Relationship From Conflict, and
Create A Safe Haven of Intimacy and Connection Together
Without Hours Of Expensive Therapy or Leaving The Comfort Of Your Home…
If your relationship (or marriage) is in trouble or you’re fighting with each other or growing apart, you’re about to discover how to fix your relationship in 7 weeks or less..

Hi, I’m Bruce Muzik.

I’ll cut to the chase… If you’re reading this page, then I imagine that your relationship is not making you happy, you don’t know how to fix it and you’re ready to get real help.

I’ve designed an online program to help you fix your relationship problems, without needing a therapist – even if you’re the only one trying.

Within 7 weeks:

  • The anxiety and tension in your relationship will disappear.
  • You’ll stop arguing and begin connecting in a meaningful way (that sticks).
  • The intimacy between you will return and you’ll begin feeling like team mates rather than room mates.
  • If your partner is withdrawing, they’ll begin coming out of their shell and responding to you.
  • If your partner is clingy or demanding, they’ll begin giving you the breathing room you need to feel emotionally safe again.
How The Program Works
In a nutshell, the Love At First Fight coaching program is a 7 week online video training program which includes 7 weekly 90 minute relationship coaching calls. Each week you’ll receive a new set of relationship training videos that you’ll watch in the private members area of this website.

After watching the videos each week, you’ll download that week’s exercise workbook and complete a series of powerful exercises and techniques designed to reconnect you with your partner and heal your troubled relationship.

Each week we’ll jump on a 90 minute group coaching call together where I’ll personally answer your questions and give you the support and coaching you need to repair your relationship or marriage.

The next Love At First Fight Coaching Program begins on 10 May 2014.

Love At First Fight Online Relationship Coaching Program

What You’ll Learn In This Program:

Week 1: Foundational Principles
In our first week together, our intention is to get real about where your relationship is currently at and put you in a position to take it to where you want it to go. Some of the items you’ll learn include:
  • How to inspire your partner into participating in the program with you
  • Reveal Your Blind Spots: Discover your hidden relationship patterns so they don’t creep up on you and sabotage your relationship unconsciously.
  • Create A Relationship Vision: 69% of divorced couples cite “lack of shared vision” as their reason for divorce. You’ll create a vision that motivates and inspires you both.
  • Get Clarity: Discover your negotiable and non-negotiable needs, wants and requirements so that you’re both on the same page with what you want and need to be happy.
  • 7 key mind sets: Learn 7 game-changing ways to approach your relationship that create a deeply connected partnership.
  • Your Hidden Fantasy: Discover the hidden “fantasy person” you’re hoping your partner will be
  • Discover your partner’s hidden intention behind every argument – knowing this it will be hard to be angry at your partner again
  • The 3 roles you can play in your relationship and which one creates love
  • A little known mind set shift that will have you and your partner join forces instead of fighting each other
  • Ever noticed how some words and phrases pour gasoline on the conflict and take it to the next level? Well, you’ll learn the most important question you need to keep asking yourself in the middle of a fight, to ensure that every word that comes out of your mouth is the equivalent of pouring water instead of gasoline.

“In the past we’d both say “You’re not listening to me!” Now we find ourselves stopping, reflecting and getting clarity from each other. This program has influenced us so much that we’ve referred it to family, relatives and friends.” - Michael Cournoyer, Belize

Week 2: Communication Skills That Stop Fights

In week 2, you learn the core communication skills that you were never taught growing up. By the end of week 2 you’ll be able to speak and listen in a way that stops a fight dead in its tracks. Some of the topics we’ll cover in detail include:
  • The 7 steps to de-escalate any argument in minutes
  • 3 simple ways to talk with your lover that will make them see you as the only person in the world who ‘gets’ them and make them want to be more intimate with each time you use them
  • How to turn a blow-out into an opportunity to connect with your partner in a deep, meaningful way that builds more trust between you
  • The secret meaning behind your partner’s upset and how to approach him/her in a way that shows them that you’re not a threat and prevents the conversation from exploding into an argument
  • What to do when you get into a screaming match so you avoid destroying your relationship

“We’ve learned some real tools that helped us to soften the tension between us. Arguments now seem to blow over because we feel like we’re both being heard… We’re even happier than when we were first together.” - Gerry Thorpe, Canada

Week 3: Create A Safe Space Between You

Week 3 is when we learn how to create safety inside our relationship. Safety is the single most important ingredient that must be present in your relationship if you want to stand a chance of moving past the “power struggle” stage without breaking up or breaking down. Until we create this safety, we cannot begin the important work of healing the childhood psychological wounds we all inherited. Some of the tools you’ll learn include:
  • What to do when one of you gets needy and the other withdraws
  • How to communicate with your partner and get them to share their deepest feelings, their secret fears and fantasies with you, so that you stop drifting further and further apart and begin building an unbreakable bond between you
  • A “magic wand” like tool for instantly making your partner feel safe enough to open up and share their deepest feelings with you. This one is a “relationship saver”
  • You’ll identify the ways you “leak” trust out of your relationship… and how to plug the holes
  • Ever noticed how when you tell your partner to “Calm Down” that they get more upset? You’ll learn exactly what to say to instantly soothe your partner – no matter how angry they are.
  • Exactly what to say and do to get your partner to WANT to give you the reassurance and love that you need when the anxiety of the “power struggle” makes everything look and feel hopeless
  • Exactly what to say and do to lure your partner back out of their shell when they retreat, zip up their hearts and shut you out during an argument
  • A sure-fire way to stop your partner being ‘needy’ with you, so you can take the space and time you need to recharge after an emotional moment
  • How to inspire your partner to crave meeting your needs, without you having to beg him/her to
  • Learn how to get your partner to WANT to give you all the space you need when you’re feeling overwhelmed and scared, without manipulating them and without compromising yourself

“We have fallen back in love, we argue less, we’re more understanding and most importantly, we can see how to succeed for the long-term.”- Verity Noble, UK

Week 4: End Recurring Conflict

Most couples have one or two recurring arguments that sabotage their sense of closenss over and over agian. In week 4, we dig deep and discover your main patterns of recurring conflict and put an end to them. Some of what we’ll learn together includes:
  • Why some arguments never get resolved and how to finally resolve them in 3 simple steps
  • Why we repeat relationship patterns from our past and how to break the cycle
  • How to stop unconsciously sabotaging your connection with your partner
  • Learn how to stop a recurring argument before it spirals out of control into a full blown fight… and then turn it into an opportunity for increased intimacy

“Attending this class saved our relationship. Bruce taught me to overcome my escape tendencies, increase my understanding of myself and my partner, and gave me the confidence to stay present as we worked through our struggles.” - Cheryl Coffey, USA

Week 5: Appreciate Your Differences

Everyone is different. In romantic relationships we often are attracted to someone with opposite, yet complementary personaity traits. This can cause huge problems if your partner doesn’t understand how you work (and vice versa). In week 5, you’ll learn things about yourself and your partner that you will wish you had know years ago. You’ll learn:
  • A profoundly useful (and simple) personality typing system that will decode the hidden meanings behind you partner’s actions (knowing this will make you appear “psychic” to your partner and they’ll begin to trust you to know them better than they know themselves)
  • Discover the unconscious needs that you and your partner don’t even realize you have (meeting these unconscious needs will cause your partner to fall in love with you all over again)
  • Get an in depth personality profile of your relationship

“The personality typing session was HUGE for me. I’m no longer be afraid of our differences and we’re both very ready to make this our last relationship. We are so very grateful for you fighting so hard for our success, it worked!” - Denise Olsen, USA

Week 6: A Culture Of Closeness

Remember how close you felt to your partner when you first fell in love? Conflict will erode that closeness in seconds. In week 6 we create a culture of closeness that will pull you towards each other like magnets. You’ll learn:
  • How to cultivate a culture of acceptance and trust, so you both feel safe to be yourselves with each other, without having to pretend you’re someone you’re not…
  • 2 ways of being that will encourage your partner to open up emotionally
  • How to share your feelings in a way that builds intimacy in seconds
  • Emotional Intelligence and how to increase yours
  • Topics you need to talk about to keep deepening the feelings of closeness and connection between you

“We are now MUCH more honest with each other, able to talk to each other about REAL things, have big, raw, emotional things come up, and have it bring us closer instead of farther apart.” - Nicole Jackson, USA

Week 7: Keeping Passion Alive

In week 7, we go far beyond where traditional relationship advice stops. We begin to explore what happens once the Power Struggle is over and how to navigate through the next developmental stages your relationship will inevitably go through if you’re committed to growing together. Some of what you’ll learn include:
  • How to tell when the Power Struggle stage is over, and what to expect from the 3 developmental stages of relationship that follow it
  • How to live and love as a couple without losing yourself
  • How closeness can be a trap, and exactly how to avoid getting stuck
  • The next giant leap your relationship must once “closeness” becomes routine
  • The stages of dependence: Codependence, Independence and Interdependence

“We’re truly overjoyed with how much more connected and powerful we are as both a team and couple because of your coaching.
I feel secure now. It’s been fantastic.” - Alexa Clark, UK
“”We have reconnected on a level I never imagined and it’s truly magical. Thank you so much Bruce, we couldn’t be happier.” - Lorne Noble, U.K.

The Love At First Fight Coaching Program, which commences on
10 May 2014 includes:100% guaranteed
  • 7 weeks of online relationship training videos and exercises
  • 7 weekly group coaching calls of 90 minutes each (with replays in case I miss a call)
I’m ready to learn how to stop arguing and start connecting meaningfully with my partner so that we feel close again and I can feel safe in the knowledge that our love is secure. I can responsibly afford to invest $497 to learn how to make this happen.

Have your credit card handy, choose a payment option below and click a happy orange “Add To Cart” button now to reserve your place…

OPTION 1: One easy payment of $2000 $497
Add to cart

OPTION 2: 3 small payments of $700 $177

Pamela Cournoyer This program has already saved our marriage, and we’re only in week 3. I’m not scared of what might happen anymore.”
~ Pamela Cournoyer, Belize
Verity Noble We have fallen back in love, we argue less, we’re more understanding and most importantly, we can see how to succeed for the long-term.” ~ Verity Noble, U.K.



Special Bonus – 10 people only

Register Now & Your Partner Attends FREE
Bonus You can attend this program without your partner and it will be transformational. However, you will see even more meaningful changes to your relationship if both you and your partner complete it together.

To make this reality more likely for you, I’ve got a little surprise.

If you’re one of the first 10 people to register for the program, your partner can attend with you for free*.

That’s TWO seats for the price of ONE.

* Please note that a partner is someone you are in a committed romantic relationship with only. Once you’ve registered your place, send me an email with your partner’s name and contact details and we’ll add them to the roster.



You are fully protected by my 100%, iron clad Money Back Guarantee!

If you attend the coaching calls, watch the video trainings, do the class work and apply what you learn and you don’t see a marked difference in your ability to connect with your partner and resolve conflict, then I don’t deserve your money. Simply drop me an e-mail within 7 days of completing the Love At First Fight Coaching Program and I’ll happily refund all your money in full. You really can’t lose.


“This program has saved our marriage.”

“Our marriage is transforming right before our eyes! Thank you for sharing this invaluable information, you are a delight to work with, I love how you make it safe to share.

Bruce, I’m a communications expert myself (by profession), and you’ve just taught me how to listen!

I am seeing Michael and I connecting faster, and becoming more vulnerable with each other without defensiveness.

We’re in a whole different space now and I’m not scared of what might happen anymore. Thanks to what we’ve learned, I know now that we have the tools to deal with anything.

We’re only on Week 3, but I have to tell you, this program has saved our marriage. My work has skyrocketed and I know that’s because of the peace that I have with my husband now.

We WILL finish this class, because it’s just so wonderful.

We told our kids about your program, they are watching the free video’s right now, can’t wait to get them enrolled in this!

Thank you Bruce.”

Pamela Cournoyer, Belize

If things seem unbearable, hold off just 7 more weeks…

“Well what a journey this has been. I joined this program to attempt to re-engage with my ex (mother of my daughter) after a considerable break and a tumultuous 7 year relationship.

Not only did it re-engage us, it has given me massive insight to myself and relationships in general.

This course is very well researched and effectively compiled for maximum results.

7 weeks is not long to make such a considerable change in your relationship.

If you are thinking of leaving your partner or if things seem unbearable, hold off just 7 more weeks with an open mind and a willingness to resolve relationship issues once and for all.”

Jason Foote, Australia

“We have fallen back in love…”

“I just wanted to write you an email and say how life changing this experience has been for us.

We were in a really rocky place and although we haven’t yet managed to complete the whole course, it has changed our relationship immensely.

We have fallen back in love, we argue less, we’re more understanding and most importantly, we can see how to succeed for the long-term.

I have been telling a ton of people how amazing the course is so wanted to find out if you had some kind of referral system so that I can put them in touch with you or send them a link to the next course?

Huge congratulations on producing such a fantastic curriculum, one that truly works.”

Verity Noble, U.K. - www.careermentor.me

“I feel secure now.”

“Bruce. I want to thank you for the Love At First Fight coaching program. It has made an incredible difference to our relationship during a very challenging time.

I am overjoyed that we kept at it, because since the program, I feel that we’re safe, that we’re together (after 22 years together).

We’re truly overjoyed with how much more connected and powerful we are as both a team and couple because of Love at First Fight and your coaching. I feel secure now. It’s been fantastic.

Thank you again, and we miss you.”

Alexa Clark, Canada

“Exceeded expectations…”

“Love At First Fight called to us from the moment we heard about it. Everyone said that relationships had to be worked at, but we still thought that after 11 years married things should be a bit easier.

The course exceeded expectations with great quality videos presenting new distinction after new distinction, well designed exercises to translate the theory into practise and excellent coaching calls.

We gained immediate benefit within the first weeks as we discovered so many new facets of our relationship which we were unaware of. And we gained tools which we can use any time we have the need. Thanks Bruce, much appreciated.”

Dale Burrell, New Zealand

“You’ll get back 10-fold what you put in…”

“My girlfriend and I have just completed the Love At First Fight coaching program and I must say we feel we’re in better shape now because of it.

There is a wealth of really great material in the course – the weekly videos, the calls and the resource material (recommended books, etc.).

It is going to take up a good deal of your time so you will need to come committed but trust me, you’ll get back 10-fold what you put into it.

It’s a very useful course if you need some help to get you through the rockier moments or if you want to grow as people and a couple. Thank you Bruce!”

Barry, Netherlands

“Happier than when we were first together.”

“Bruce, we are very impressed by the course. Your material is VERY helpful.

We learned some real tools that helped us to soften the tension and power struggles between us. I feel way more supported and arguments seem to blow over because we feel like we’re both being heard, so we don’t have to raise the volume anymore, which is REALLY nice.

Now, we understand each other better every time we have a conflict. We just keep learning about each other and evolving together.

We are even happier than when we were first together.”

Gerry Thorpe, Canada

“I’m amazed at how deep our relationship has become…”

“The program is giving me amazing tools that have allowed me to go much deeper with my man than in any previous relationship.

I’m no longer be afraid of our differences and we’re both very ready to make this our last relationship.

The personality typing session in Week 5 was HUGE for me. It gave words to be able to explain my emotions to him so that he can understand me.

I’m amazed at how deep our relationship has become considering that we’re both 60 years old and and have only been together 3 months.

We are so very grateful for you fighting so hard for our success, it worked!”

Denise Olsen, USA

“It’s influenced us so much that we’ve referred it to family and friends.”

“In the past we’d both say “You’re not listening to me!”

Now we find ourselves stopping, reflecting and getting clarity from each other.

This program has influenced us so much that we’ve referred it to family, relatives and friends.”

Michael Cournoyer, Belize

“Your relationship advice is outstanding…”

“Bruce, your relationship advice is outstanding. You have helped me over the last few months navigate my way through the ups and downs of my relationship and empowered me to have incredible conversations with my partner, so that my partner really “gets” me and vice versa. You’ve helped me uncover the things I really need to work on in relationship and shown me a way through the difficult times.”

Donna McCallum, South Africa

“We’ve been in tears of joy”

“Man, you blew the doors off of what I was expecting. Not only did my girl and I come together in a whole new way, but I finally felt understood by her like I never have.

As a result, we’re more intimate, our sex has improved, our love and appreciation is deeper… and friends keep telling us that we are ‘such a great couple’.

We’ve been in tears of joy and since then, I’ve been applying my new understanding of relationships and communication in my business with clients and with my family and with my friends. This work is soooo important. Thanks Bruce!”

Todd Sedelmeier, USA, www.BookedSolidWithoutSelling.com

“I can now communicate my boundaries, feelings, and needs to my partner…”

“What I have learnt most from your relationship coaching is the power of being 100% honest with my partner.

I can now communicate my boundaries, feelings, and needs to my partner in a way that strengthens our relationship, instead of weakening it.

Thank you Bruce for your wisdom, enthusiasm, love, support and insightful understanding of the dynamics of a creating a successful intimate relationship.”

Carol Hampshire, South Africa, www.redhotdesigns.co.za

“We are kinder to each other, more loving and… more romantic too!”

“Having known Bruce through his Designer Life courses we both knew as soon as the info landed in our inbox that it was the course for us.

The 7 week course really has changed our relationship. We were stuck in a cycle of power struggles and very independent, which meant we were not always kind or compassionate towards each other.

The fantastic videos, along with the excellent weekly exercises allowed us gently and genuinely to relook at ourselves and our relationship and to create a new way of being with each other, in only 7 weeks.

The weekly conference calls were a great addition too, with lots of lovely participants sharing from their hearts.

Since finishing the course, we have had very little conflict, and any conflict we have had has been resolved quickly and easily. We are kinder to each other, more loving and are experimenting with being more romantic too!

We now do fun things together on the weekend, instead of complaining that we don’t have anything in common! And we’ve just celebrated our 12th anniversary, so it was a wonderful anniversary gift to ourselves.

I’ll admit we were geeky and did all our homework every week as instructed, but I’d really recommend this – get as much as you can out of it while it runs, you can always go back and redo some parts at a more in depth level later on.

I’d totally recommend Bruce’s Love at First Fight programme – it really changed our whole relationship.”

Anna Burns, New Zealand

Attending this class saved our relationship…

“After my divorce I found myself slipping back into an old pattern of three month relationships. Either I or the man I was dating would run at the first sign of trouble.

As my current relationship approached three months I received an email from Bruce about his “Love at First Fight” program, so I signed up. The timing was perfect.

Bruce taught me to see and overcome my escape tendencies, increase my understanding of myself and my partner and gave me the confidence to stay present as we worked through our struggles.
Attending this class saved our relationship.

I am so grateful for his help and encourage everyone, no matter what your relationship circumstances, to take this class. Bliss is attainable.”

Cheryl Coffey, USA

The emotional tone has switched…

“The emotional tone (in our relationship) has switched to more loving, rather than being prickly and always vigilant and looking out for an attack or criticism, so that’s a relief! Even though we are moving at a slower pace, I think we are getting a lot out of the material because the pacing is matched to where we are at in out pattern/dynamic.

I love love love this program :-)”

Beth Klein, USA

Already so much better and lighter since I started the program…

“I want you to know Bruce, that I am feeling already so much better and lighter, since I started your program (only 2 weeks ago)!!

And also there has changed something between my partner and me. And to be honest, I think that it is actually me that changed: I am not as negative anymore towards him, not looking for ‘what is wrong’… and this makes him much more relaxed and open as well…

I think he must have felt so judged by me… and I didnt even realize that, that I was actually the one that was responsible for how we were together!

It feels already as if we are so much more lighter and connected. Bruce, thank you so so much!!”

Daisy Grodzki, Netherlands

We now feel able to build a loving and bright future together…

“Love At First Fight has been of great benefit to us both and we now feel able to build a loving and bright future together using the tools Bruce has taught us.

It’s great that I can keep returning to the website as a life long member and I believe this will be so useful to keep our love bank topped up!

Thank you Bruce for your commitment to us, and I would highly recommend this course to anyone who wants to improve and deepen their relationship. I would also recommend the program to any of our single friends as they would gain a great deal of personal growth and self awareness from it.”

Joanne Murphy, New Zealand

We signed up as a last resort…

“Going on our 36th year of marriage we signed up for Bruce’s class more as a last resort than anything else. We had been to counselors and learned a lot about emotional healing, but still struggled with intimacy and “connection” issues.

Bruce’s material shed light on some of our “dark” areas and gave us practical tools that have helped us work effectively on those issues. Thanks, Bruce, for your class and for taking a personal interest in all of your students. Your efforts have helped us immensely!”

Michael A, USA

One of the hardest things I have ever done…

“One of the hardest things I have ever done… looking myself in the mirror and having to actually focus in on the details of my buried childhood family issues. The challenge was deciding not to let them define me. With my triggers defined and acknowledged, I now have the freedom to grow in my relationships again both personal and professional. Thanks Bruce.”

Tye, USA

It is now my greatest pleasure to support my wife…

“I didn’t realise it, but my wife and I had started living completely independent lives. Bruce’s programme has helped us understand each other, communicate more effectively and avoid the daily friction and pain. It is now my greatest pleasure to support my wife in the way she wants and consequently she understands when I need space, We have reconnected on a level I never imagined and it’s truly magical. Thank you so much Bruce, we couldn’t be happier.”

Lorne Noble, U.K.

I’ve fallen even more in love…

“This program really has made me see our relationship and my responsibility in it from an outside perspective:

I can see my partner for who he really is again, and have fallen even more in love with him (even though we did not do the program together, I did it on my own)!!

It’s unbelievable to see how much has changed since I started. I recommend the Love At First Fight coachign program to everyone!!”

Daisy Grodzki, Netherlands

Big, raw, emotional things come up, and bring us closer instead of farther apart.

“When we signed up for the Love AT First Fight program, we were quietly annoyed with each other. Drifting apart. Not able to be honest with each other. Not able to talk about real things without blowup fights (including not able to have important conversations about how we wanted to raise our daughter.)

The class jump started us towards a complete change in our relationship.

We are now able to be MUCH more honest with each other, able to talk to each other about REAL things, have big, raw, emotional things come up, and have it bring us closer instead of farther apart.

I also believe we’re better parents – we are able to have real conversations about how we want to raise our daughter (without fighting!) We’re also more confortable just being ourselves, which is good for the whole family. I’m happier in our relationship now than I have been since the very beginning.”

Nicole Jackson, USA



The Love At First Fight Coaching Program, which commences on
10 May 2014 includes:100% guaranteed
  • 7 weeks of online relationship training videos and exercises
  • 7 weekly group coaching calls of 90 minutes each (with replays in case I miss a call)
I’m ready to learn how to stop arguing and start connecting meaningfully with my partner so that we feel close again and I can feel safe in the knowledge that our love is secure. I can responsibly afford to invest $497 to learn how to make this happen.

Have your credit card handy, choose a payment option below and click a happy orange “Add To Cart” button now to reserve your place…

OPTION 1: One easy payment of $2000 $497
Add to cart

OPTION 2: 3 small payments of $700 $177

Pamela Cournoyer This program has already saved our marriage, and we’re only in week 3. I’m not scared of what might happen anymore.”
~ Pamela Cournoyer, Belize
Verity Noble We have fallen back in love, we argue less, we’re more understanding and most importantly, we can see how to succeed for the long-term.” ~ Verity Noble, U.K.


Love At First Fight Online Relationship Coaching Program