Here's How To Repair Your Relationship From Conflict, and
Create A Safe Haven Of Intimacy and Connection Together
From The Comfort Of Your Home...WITHOUT Years Of Therapy or Compromising Yourself.
If your relationship (or marriage) is in trouble or you’re fighting with each other or growing apart, I will show you how to fix your relationship in 7 weeks or less..
Hi, I’m Bruce Muzik.
I’ll cut to the chase… If you’re reading this page, then I imagine that your relationship is not making you happy, you don’t know how to fix it and you’re ready to get real help.
I’ve designed an online program to help you fix your relationship problems, without needing a therapist – even if you’re the only one trying.
Within 7 weeks:
- The anxiety and tension in your relationship will disappear.
- You’ll stop arguing and begin connecting in a meaningful way (that sticks).
- The intimacy between you will return and you’ll begin feeling like team mates rather than room mates.
- If your partner is withdrawing, they’ll begin coming out of their shell and responding to you.
- If your partner is clingy or demanding, they’ll begin giving you the breathing room you need to feel emotionally safe again.
After watching the videos each week, you’ll download that week’s exercise workbook and complete a series of powerful exercises and techniques designed to reconnect you with your partner and heal your troubled relationship.
Each week we’ll jump on a 90 minute group coaching call together where I’ll personally answer your questions and give you the support and coaching you need to repair your relationship or marriage.
The next Love At First Fight Coaching Program begins on 08 June 2013 2013.
- How to inspire your partner into participating in the program with you
- Reveal Your Blind Spots: Discover your hidden relationship patterns so they don’t creep up on you and sabotage your relationship unconsciously.
- Create A Relationship Vision: 69% of divorced couples cite "lack of shared vision" as their reason for divorce. You’ll create a vision that motivates and inspires you both.
- Get Clarity: Discover your negotiable and non-negotiable needs, wants and requirements so that you’re both on the same page with what you want and need to be happy.
- 7 key mind sets: Learn 7 game-changing ways to approach your relationship that create a deeply connected partnership.
- Your Hidden Fantasy: Discover the hidden "fantasy person" you’re hoping your partner will be
- Discover your partner’s hidden intention behind every argument – knowing this it will be hard to be angry at your partner again
- The 3 roles you can play in your relationship and which one creates love
- A little known mind set shift that will have you and your partner join forces instead of fighting each other
- Ever noticed how some words and phrases pour gasoline on the conflict and take it to the next level? Well, you’ll learn the most important question you need to keep asking yourself in the middle of a fight, to ensure that every word that comes out of your mouth is the equivalent of pouring water instead of gasoline.
“In the past we’d both say “You’re not listening to me!” Now we find ourselves stopping, reflecting and getting clarity from each other. This program has influenced us so much that we’ve referred it to family, relatives and friends.” - Michael Cournoyer, BelizeIn week 2, you learn the core communication skills that you were never taught growing up. By the end of week 2 you’ll be able to speak and listen in a way that stops a fight dead in its tracks. Some of the topics we’ll cover in detail include:
- The 7 steps to de-escalate any argument in minutes
- 3 simple ways to talk with your lover that will make them see you as the only person in the world who ‘gets’ them and make them want to be more intimate with each time you use them
- How to turn a blow-out into an opportunity to connect with your partner in a deep, meaningful way that builds more trust between you
- The secret meaning behind your partner’s upset and how to approach him/her in a way that shows them that you’re not a threat and prevents the conversation from exploding into an argument
- What to do when you get into a screaming match so you avoid destroying your relationship
“We’ve learned some real tools that helped us to soften the tension between us. Arguments now seem to blow over because we feel like we’re both being heard… We’re even happier than when we were first together.” - Gerry Thorpe, CanadaWeek 3 is when we learn how to create safety inside our relationship. Safety is the single most important ingredient that must be present in your relationship if you want to stand a chance of moving past the “power struggle” stage without breaking up or breaking down. Until we create this safety, we cannot begin the important work of healing the childhood psychological wounds we all inherited. Some of the tools you’ll learn include:
- What to do when one of you gets needy and the other withdraws
- How to communicate with your partner and get them to share their deepest feelings, their secret fears and fantasies with you, so that you stop drifting further and further apart and begin building an unbreakable bond between you
- A "magic wand" like tool for instantly making your partner feel safe enough to open up and share their deepest feelings with you. This one is a "relationship saver"
- You’ll identify the ways you "leak" trust out of your relationship… and how to plug the holes
- Ever noticed how when you tell your partner to “Calm Down” that they get more upset? You’ll learn exactly what to say to instantly soothe your partner – no matter how angry they are.
- Exactly what to say and do to get your partner to WANT to give you the reassurance and love that you need when the anxiety of the “power struggle” makes everything look and feel hopeless
- Exactly what to say and do to lure your partner back out of their shell when they retreat, zip up their hearts and shut you out during an argument
- A sure-fire way to stop your partner being ‘needy’ with you, so you can take the space and time you need to recharge after an emotional moment
- How to inspire your partner to crave meeting your needs, without you having to beg him/her to
- Learn how to get your partner to WANT to give you all the space you need when you’re feeling overwhelmed and scared, without manipulating them and without compromising yourself
“We have fallen back in love, we argue less, we’re more understanding and most importantly, we can see how to succeed for the long-term.”- Verity Noble, UK
Most couples have one or two recurring arguments that sabotage their sense of closenss over and over agian. In week 4, we dig deep and discover your main patterns of recurring conflict and put an end to them. Some of what we’ll learn together includes:
- Why some arguments never get resolved and how to finally resolve them in 3 simple steps
- Why we repeat relationship patterns from our past and how to break the cycle
- How to stop unconsciously sabotaging your connection with your partner
- Learn how to stop a recurring argument before it spirals out of control into a full blown fight… and then turn it into an opportunity for increased intimacy
“Attending this class saved our relationship. Bruce taught me to overcome my escape tendencies, increase my understanding of myself and my partner, and gave me the confidence to stay present as we worked through our struggles.” - Cheryl Coffey, USA
Everyone is different. In romantic relationships we often are attracted to someone with opposite, yet complementary personaity traits. This can cause huge problems if your partner doesn’t understand how you work (and vice versa). In week 5, you’ll learn things about yourself and your partner that you will wish you had know years ago. You’ll learn:
- A profoundly useful (and simple) personality typing system that will decode the hidden meanings behind you partner’s actions (knowing this will make you appear “psychic” to your partner and they’ll begin to trust you to know them better than they know themselves)
- Discover the unconscious needs that you and your partner don’t even realize you have (meeting these unconscious needs will cause your partner to fall in love with you all over again)
- Get an in depth personality profile of your relationship
“The personality typing session was HUGE for me. I’m no longer be afraid of our differences and we’re both very ready to make this our last relationship. We are so very grateful for you fighting so hard for our success, it worked!” - Denise Olsen, USARemember how close you felt to your partner when you first fell in love? Conflict will erode that closeness in seconds. In week 6 we create a culture of closeness that will pull you towards each other like magnets. You’ll learn:
- How to cultivate a culture of acceptance and trust, so you both feel safe to be yourselves with each other, without having to pretend you’re someone you’re not…
- 2 ways of being that will encourage your partner to open up emotionally
- How to share your feelings in a way that builds intimacy in seconds
- Emotional Intelligence and how to increase yours
- Topics you need to talk about to keep deepening the feelings of closeness and connection between you
“We’ve learned some real tools that helped us to soften the tension between us. Arguments now seem to blow over because we feel like we’re both being heard… We’re even happier than when we were first together.” - Gerry Thorpe, CanadaIn week 7, we go far beyond where traditional relationship advice stops. We begin to explore what happens once the Power Struggle is over and how to navigate through the next developmental stages your relationship will inevitably go through if you’re committed to growing together. Some of what you’ll learn include:
- How to tell when the Power Struggle stage is over, and what to expect from the 3 developmental stages of relationship that follow it
- How to live and love as a couple without losing yourself
- How closeness can be a trap, and exactly how to avoid getting stuck
- The next giant leap your relationship must once "closeness" becomes routine
- The stages of dependence: Codependence, Independence and Interdependence
“We’re truly overjoyed with how much more connected and powerful we are as both a team and couple because of your coaching.I feel secure now. It’s been fantastic.” - Alexa Clark, UK
“”We have reconnected on a level I never imagined and it’s truly magical. Thank you so much Bruce, we couldn’t be happier.” - Lorne Noble, U.K.08 June 2013 includes:
- 7 weeks of online relationship training videos and exercises
- 7 weekly group coaching calls of 90 minutes each (with replays in case I miss a call)
Have your credit card handy, choose a payment option below and click a happy orange “Add To Cart” button now to reserve your place…
OPTION 2: 3 small payments of
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“This program has already saved our marriage, and we’re only in week 3. I’m not scared of what might happen anymore.” ~ Pamela Cournoyer, Belize |
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“We have fallen back in love, we argue less, we’re more understanding and most importantly, we can see how to succeed for the long-term.” ~ Verity Noble, U.K. |
You can attend this program without your partner and it will be transformational. However, you will see even more meaningful changes to your relationship if both you and your partner complete it together.
To make this reality more likely for you, I’ve got a little surprise.
If you’re one of the first 10 people to register for the program, your partner can attend with you for free*.
That’s TWO seats for the price of ONE.
* Please note that a partner is someone you are in a committed romantic relationship with only. Once you’ve registered your place, send me an email with your partner’s name and contact details and we’ll add them to the roster.
You are fully protected by my 100%, iron clad Money Back Guarantee!
If you attend the coaching calls, watch the video trainings, do the class work and apply what you learn and you don’t see a marked difference in your ability to connect with your partner and resolve conflict, then I don’t deserve your money. Simply drop me an e-mail within 7 days of completing the Love At First Fight Coaching Program and I’ll happily refund all your money in full. You really can’t lose.“This program has saved our marriage.”
“Our marriage is transforming right before our eyes! Thank you for sharing this invaluable information, you are a delight to work with, I love how you make it safe to share.
Bruce, I’m a communications expert myself (by profession), and you’ve just taught me how to listen!
I am seeing Michael and I connecting faster, and becoming more vulnerable with each other without defensiveness.
We’re in a whole different space now and I’m not scared of what might happen anymore. Thanks to what we’ve learned, I know now that we have the tools to deal with anything.
We’re only on Week 3, but I have to tell you, this program has saved our marriage. My work has skyrocketed and I know that’s because of the peace that I have with my husband now.
We WILL finish this class, because it’s just so wonderful.
We told our kids about your program, they are watching the free video’s right now, can’t wait to get them enrolled in this!
Thank you Bruce.”
“We have fallen back in love…”
“I just wanted to write you an email and say how life changing this experience has been for us.
We were in a really rocky place and although we haven’t yet managed to complete the whole course, it has changed our relationship immensely.
We have fallen back in love, we argue less, we’re more understanding and most importantly, we can see how to succeed for the long-term.
I have been telling a ton of people how amazing the course is so wanted to find out if you had some kind of referral system so that I can put them in touch with you or send them a link to the next course?
Huge congratulations on producing such a fantastic curriculum, one that truly works.”
“I feel secure now.”
“Bruce. I want to thank you for the Love At First Fight coaching program. It has made an incredible difference to our relationship during a very challenging time.
I am overjoyed that we kept at it, because since the program, I feel that we’re safe, that we’re together (after 22 years together).
We’re truly overjoyed with how much more connected and powerful we are as both a team and couple because of Love at First Fight and your coaching. I feel secure now. It’s been fantastic.
Thank you again, and we miss you.”
“Exceeded expectations…”
Love At First Fight called to us from the moment we heard about it. Everyone said that relationships had to be worked at, but we still thought that after 11 years married things should be a bit easier.
The course exceeded expectations with great quality videos presenting new distinction after new distinction, well designed exercises to translate the theory into practise and excellent coaching calls.
We gained immediate benefit within the first weeks as we discovered so many new facets of our relationship which we were unaware of. And we gained tools which we can use any time we have the need. Thanks Bruce, much appreciated.
“You’ll get back 10-fold what you put in…”
“My girlfriend and I have just completed the Love At First Fight coaching program and I must say we feel we’re in better shape now because of it.
There is a wealth of really great material in the course – the weekly videos, the calls and the resource material (recommended books, etc.).
It is going to take up a good deal of your time so you will need to come committed but trust me, you’ll get back 10-fold what you put into it.
It’s a very useful course if you need some help to get you through the rockier moments or if you want to grow as people and a couple. Thank you Bruce!”
“Happier than when we were first together.”
“Bruce, we are very impressed by the course. Your material is VERY helpful.
We learned some real tools that helped us to soften the tension and power struggles between us. I feel way more supported and arguments seem to blow over because we feel like we’re both being heard, so we don’t have to raise the volume anymore, which is REALLY nice.
Now, we understand each other better every time we have a conflict. We just keep learning about each other and evolving together.
We are even happier than when we were first together.”
“I’m amazed at how deep our relationship has become…”
The program is giving me amazing tools that have allowed me to go much deeper with my man than in any previous relationship.
I’m no longer be afraid of our differences and we’re both very ready to make this our last relationship.
The personality typing session in Week 5 was HUGE for me. It gave words to be able to explain my emotions to him so that he can understand me.
I’m amazed at how deep our relationship has become considering that we’re both 60 years old and and have only been together 3 months.
We are so very grateful for you fighting so hard for our success, it worked!”
“It’s influenced us so much that we’ve referred it to family and friends.”
“In the past we’d both say “You’re not listening to me!” Now we find ourselves stopping, reflecting and getting clarity from each other.
This program has influenced us so much that we’ve referred it to family, relatives and friends.”
“Your relationship advice is outstanding…”
“Bruce, your relationship advice is outstanding. You have helped me over the last few months navigate my way through the ups and downs of my relationship and empowered me to have incredible conversations with my partner, so that my partner really “gets” me and vice versa. You’ve helped me uncover the things I really need to work on in relationship and shown me a way through the difficult times.”
“We’ve been in tears of joy”
“Man, you blew the doors off of what I was expecting. Not only did my girl and I come together in a whole new way, but I finally felt understood by her like I never have.
As a result, we’re more intimate, our sex has improved, our love and appreciation is deeper… and friends keep telling us that we are ‘such a great couple’.
We’ve been in tears of joy and since then, I’ve been applying my new understanding of relationships and communication in my business with clients and with my family and with my friends. This work is soooo important. Thanks Bruce!”
“I can now communicate my boundaries, feelings, and needs to my partner…”
“What I have learnt most from your relationship coaching is the power of being 100% honest with my partner.
I can now communicate my boundaries, feelings, and needs to my partner in a way that strengthens our relationship, instead of weakening it.
Thank you Bruce for your wisdom, enthusiasm, love, support and insightful understanding of the dynamics of a creating a successful intimate relationship.”
“We are kinder to each other, more loving and… more romantic too!”
Having known Bruce through his Designer Life courses we both knew as soon as the info landed in our inbox that it was the course for us.The 7 week course really has changed our relationship. We were stuck in a cycle of power struggles and very independent, which meant we were not always kind or compassionate towards each other.
The fantastic videos, along with the excellent weekly exercises allowed us gently and genuinely to relook at ourselves and our relationship and to create a new way of being with each other, in only 7 weeks.
The weekly conference calls were a great addition too, with lots of lovely participants sharing from their hearts.
Since finishing the course, we have had very little conflict, and any conflict we have had has been resolved quickly and easily. We are kinder to each other, more loving and are experimenting with being more romantic too!
We now do fun things together on the weekend, instead of complaining that we don’t have anything in common! And we’ve just celebrated our 12th anniversary, so it was a wonderful anniversary gift to ourselves.
I’ll admit we were geeky and did all our homework every week as instructed, but I’d really recommend this – get as much as you can out of it while it runs, you can always go back and redo some parts at a more in depth level later on.
I’d totally recommend Bruce’s Love at First Fight programme – it really changed our whole relationship.”
Attending this class saved our relationship…
“After my divorce I found myself slipping back into an old pattern of three month relationships. Either I or
the man I was dating would run at the first sign of trouble.
As my current relationship approached three months I received an email from Bruce about his “Love at First Fight” program, so I signed up. The timing
was perfect.
Bruce taught me to see and overcome my escape tendencies, increase my understanding of myself and my partner and gave me the confidence to stay present as we worked through our struggles.
Attending this class saved our relationship.
I am so grateful for his help and encourage everyone, no matter what your relationship circumstances, to take this class. Bliss is attainable.”
08 June 2013 includes:
- 7 weeks of online relationship training videos and exercises
- 7 weekly group coaching calls of 90 minutes each (with replays in case I miss a call)
Have your credit card handy, choose a payment option below and click a happy orange “Add To Cart” button now to reserve your place…
OPTION 2: 3 small payments of
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“This program has already saved our marriage, and we’re only in week 3. I’m not scared of what might happen anymore.” ~ Pamela Cournoyer, Belize |
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“We have fallen back in love, we argue less, we’re more understanding and most importantly, we can see how to succeed for the long-term.” ~ Verity Noble, U.K. |