Fix Your Relationship Problems and Wake Up Happy Together…

in 7 weeks or less, even if you’re the only one trying.

Introducing the online alternative to marriage counseling.

Need to save your marriage or fix a relationship?

Our 7-week online relationship repair program provides step-by-step solutions to fix your relationship troubles so you can start being happy together.

Keep reading or watch the video (to the right) to learn more.

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PRESENTED BY BRUCE MUZIK AS SEEN ON

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How to Fix Your Relationship Problems
or Save Your Marriage

from the privacy of your home, without expensive couples therapy

Hi there. I’m Bruce Muzik.

If you’re reading this page, then I imagine that your relationship is no longer the romance it once used to be. Perhaps you’re feeling frustrated, desperate, alone or even afraid.

You’re in the right place. Read this letter all the way to the end and I’ll show you how to fix things between you and your partner before they go from bad to worse.

I can show you how to fix a relationship or how to save your marriage

Bruce Muzik – Relationship Repair Expert

Do any of these
describe your relationship
or marriage?

  • You walk on eggshells, tiptoeing around sensitive topics
  • It feels like there’s a “fuzzy” communication problem whenever you talk
  • Arguments over small things explode into heated fights
  • Your sex life has lost its spark
  • Your partner has withdrawn or shut down emotionally
  • You feel blamed and criticized – like nothing you do is ever enough
  • Your spouse has angry outbursts and can be demanding
  • Your spouse doesn’t really listen to you
  • You’re struggling to forgive a betrayal of trust (e.g. an affair)

If you answered YES while reading the list above,
the first thing I want you to know is that…

RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS ARE NORMAL. IT’S NOT YOUR FAULT THAT YOU WERE NEVER TAUGHT A ‘RELATIONSHIPS 101’ CLASS AT SCHOOL.

Here’s what you need to know about how to fix or save a relationship…

Your Relationship Will Go Through 3 Stages, But…

you’ll probably stay stuck at the 2nd (unless you get help).

1. The Romance Stage

This is when we fall in love – two ME’s dreaming of the possibility of a WE. We feel excited. Being with our partner makes the world feel brighter. This stage lasts up to 2 years.

2. The Power Struggle

The rose tinted glasses are abruptly flung off. We try to change each other in an attempt to get our needs met. We fight – for our partner’s attention or for our independence and freedom. Almost ALL divorces and breakups happen here.

3. Mature Love

Finally you feel like a WE. You stop trying to change each other and accept (even love) each other’s flaws. Your connection feel secure. Commonly, couples in this stage work on a mutually meaningful project together.

Most couples NEVER make it to the Mature Love stage.
They break up in the Power Struggle stage.

If you’re reading this page, your relationship is most likely
stuck in the Power Struggle stage and…

What you do next is critical…

Don’t Make These 3 Deadly Mistakes
That Lead To Divorce or a Breakup

MISTAKE #1

Thinking your relationship struggles will somehow just go away.

 

They won’t. At least not until you deal with the heart of what is causing them.

 

In most cases, things will get worse until you get professional help or break up.

MISTAKE #2

Taking friend’s and family’s advice.

 

I know they mean well. I know they want to help because they care for you, but…

 

Unless they are a qualified relationship professional, their advice will make things worse.

 

That’s because fixing a relationship is not obvious, nor common sense. If it was, you wouldn’t be reading this.

MISTAKE #3

Trying to fix things on your own.

 

It may be tempting to think you can fix your relationship without help, but that rarely works. Why? Because you’re too close to it to see things clearly and from an impartial perspective.

 

When emotions are high, all the books you read will be forgotten and you’ll do what you’ve always done – fight, freeze or flee.

Here’s What Can Repair Your Relationship

(this works for 90% of couples)

YOU DON’T NEED COUPLES THERAPY

Unless you’re suffering from a deep childhood psychological trauma, you don’t need couples therapy to fix your relationship.

Besides, if you’re anything like me, you don’t want to be sitting on some stuffy therapist’s couch telling your darkest secrets to a stranger who is taking notes about what’s wrong with you. You are not broken.

Not to mention the fact that traditional marriage therapy has an embarrassingly high failure rate – greater than 70%.

I help hundreds of couples each year and here’s what I’ve found works for most couples:

1. You need awareness of your unconscious patterns of relating

These ‘blind spots’ prevent you from communicating kindly, getting on the same page and being a team together. Only when you can see what you’re doing wrong, can you start doing it right.

2. You need a step-by-step learning system...

that teaches you tools, strategies and proven solutions to your relationship problems (even if you are the only one trying).

3. You need an expert advisor...

to hold your hand, help and mentor you as you get on the same page and build a secure bond between you.

Introducing the

LOVE AT FIRST FIGHT

COACHING PROGRAM

The online alternative to marriage counseling that will show you
how to fix a relationship or how to save your marriage in 7 weeks
or less, even if you’re the only one trying.

So, What Exactly Is
The Coaching Program?

The coaching program is a 7-week home-study relationship repair program backed by scientific research.

It is an online alternative to couples counseling delivered via weekly online training videos and downloadable workbooks.

You also get 7 group coaching calls with me (Bruce) so you are guaranteed to get help with your unique situation.

You’ll learn proven communication tools and conflict resolution strategies to get you connected and on the same page again.

You can participate in your own time, from anywhere in the world, and turn things around even if you’re the only one trying.

Is This Course
Right For You?

Here are just some of the common relationship problems that the coaching program solves…

  • There’s a constant tension between you both…
  • You walk on eggshells, tip-toeing around sensitive topics…
  • Little arguments escalate into full blown fights…
  • You can’t talk about how you’re feeling without communcation breaking down or sparking an argument…
  • Issues don’t get resolved, and you sweep your problems under the carpet…
  • You don’t fight at all (this is the #1 predictor of divorce)…
  • Your partner withdraws, goes “numb” or shuts down emotionally…
  • Your partner angrily pursues you, leaving you feeling criticized…
  • You feel judged, not accepted and like your partner is trying to change you…
  • You’re wrestling with trust issues or forgiveness after a betrayal…
  • Your sex life has lost its spark (or non-existent)…
  • One of you has said some variation of “I love you, but I’m not in love with you…”
  • You can’t count on your partner to have your back and provide emotional support…
  • One of you is not fully committed, has left or threatened to leave…

Counted one or more?
Then this program can help you.

How The Coaching Program Works

The first session of the Coaching Program is
available the moment you complete your registration.

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STEP #1: WATCH THE WEEKLY VIDEO TRAINING

Each Saturday you’ll receive access to new relationship repair training videos that will teach you communication skills, proven strategies and tools to get you both on the same page.

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STEP #2: DO THE WEEKLY EXERCISES

Your implementation workbook will guide you step-by-step through a series of powerful exercises and conversations that will get you on the same page.

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STEP #3: TALK WITH ME & GET HELP

Finally, once a week we’ll connect on our live group mentoring call together. You ask me questions and I provide solutions tailored to your specific relationship situation.

What You Can Expect 7 Weeks From Now…

You’ll be laughing playfully together, feeling safely and securely connected to one another.

You’ll have resolved your differences without fighting, instead building a deep bond between you.

You’ll be using your new communication tools to talk feely about your feelings, needs and wants without sparking a disconnection.

Your withdrawn and shut down partner will come out of his/her shell and open up emotionally.

Your critical, angry partner will soften, listen and offer you the space you need.

Your old hurts will have healed and trust rebuilt between you.

Sexual desire naturally returns as the emotional bond between you strengthens.

As you get on the same page again, you both begin feeling like team mates instead of room mates.

Start being happy together…

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Our relationship repair curriculum:

The curriculum I’ll lead you though is designed from the most up-to-date research by the world’s smartest relationship scientists in the fields of:

  • Neuroscience,
  • Attachment theory,
  • Personality theory,
  • Developmental psychology, and
  • The couples therapy with the highest success rate.

I’ve distilled all this research into tools and strategies that are easy to apply with your partner.

More importantly, they just plain work.

Couples Therapy, Neuroscience, Attachemtn Theory, Personality Theory
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What You Will Learn In Only 7 Weeks

(Click on the “+” below to learn more about each week)

WEEK 1

How To Reconnect Emotionally

so you no longer see each other as adversaries…

Remember when you first fell in love? You felt close and conversations just flowed effortlessly. You didn’t need communication techniques – you just talked. You were connected. And it was fun. Feeling closely connected to each other is the holy grail of a happy, fulfilled marriage or relationship.

When your emotional connection gets lost, so does that sense of safety and security that goes hand in hand with it. You begin to feel more like adversaries than teammates.

Quickly, little arguments explode into full-blown wars when your connection feel threatened and before you know it, you’re sitting in a lawyers office signing divorce papers.

In Week 1 you’ll RE-CONNECT, open each other’s hearts, and learn how to stay connected.

“It feels already as if we are so much lighter and connected (and I started your program only 2 weeks ago)!”
Daisy Grodski
Daisy Grodski
“Bruce, we were in a really rocky place, living independent lives. This program helped us re-connect on a level I never imagined. In 7 weeks, we have fallen back in love.”
Lorne Noble
Lorne Noble

Here’s a small sample of what you’ll learn in Week 1:

  • 3 counter-intuitive connection strategies that take less than 3 minutes a day, yet will bond you emotionally together like superglue.
  • Discover your relationship blind spot – the unconscious relationship pattern that sabotages your love life, so it doesn’t creep up on you and destroy your relationship.
  • How to never fear your partner’s anger again. You’ll learn the truth about anger, its hidden purpose and how to calm your partner (and yourself) when they’re angry.
  • Discover the #1 reason cited for divorce and how to protect your relationship from it.
  • 7 mindsets that securely connected couples use. Adopt these and you’ll turn your relationship into a safe-haven in no time.
  • How to talk to your partner about the program so that they feel inspired to participate with you.

Click here to enroll now

WEEK 2

COMMUNICATION SKILLS THAT STOP FIGHTING

so you can resolve your differences and get on the same page…

There were no “Communication 101” classes at high school, so just like trying to ride a bicycle blindfolded, we crash and burn when we try to talk about “issues” with our spouse.

If you haven’t been taught communication skills for couples, years of hard-earned trust and connection can be destroyed with one thoughtless sentence yelled in anger…

…or one stone cold silence and look of contempt.

Lack of communication skills is the #1 reason my clients cite for their relationship troubles.

Using the tools you learn in Week 2 of the Coaching Program, instead of bickering, arguing or fighting like cat and dog, you’ll resolve your differences and finally feel heard and understood – perhaps for the first time ever.

“In the past we’d both say ‘You’re not listening to me!’ Now we stop, reflect and get clarity from each other. This program has influenced us so much.”
Michael feel heard in his marriage
Michael Cournoyer
“The most beneficial tool to us so far has been the communication skill you taught us in week 2. Although we still have a long way to go, we’re definitely loving and connected now. This is HUGE improvement from the pain we were both in just weeks ago.”
Angel Lek
Angel Lek

Here’s a small sample of what you’ll learn in Week 2:

  • How to get your partner to listen, without begging or manipulating them.
  • A hostage negotiators technique that will de-escalate any argument in seconds.
  • 3 simple words that will make your lover see you as the only person in the world who truly understands them.
  • A word-for-word script to soothe your partner when they are upset, hurt, afraid or angry. This will give you magic-like powers to turn any tense difficult situation into an opportunity to connect.

Click here to enroll now

WEEK 3

How To Feel Secure Together

so you can relax into being your loving selves again…

Conflict won’t stop until you both feel emotionally safe and secure around each other.

A bit like walking through a minefield, when your relationship feels unsafe and insecure, you can’t fully relax because you sense that your partner might not be there for you.

Always on the lookout for a potential threat, you stop being your usual happy self. Instead, you protect your heart from being rejected, abandoned or engulfed by your partner. After a while, this protective state becomes the norm and you forget to relate as lovers.

In Week 3 you’ll create a safe haven inside your relationship. As your need for security and safety get met, so you begin to relax into feeling comfortable – being ‘happy you’ again.

“After 22 years, we’re truly overjoyed with how connected and powerful we are as a team. I finally feel secure now. This program has been fantastic.”
Alexa Clark
Alexa Clark
“Bruce, we thought we wanted to go back to the way things were when we married but this program has put us into a place far beyond that.”
Jay Ellefson
Jay Ellefson

Here’s a small sample of what you’ll learn in Week 3:

  • Discover how you unintentionally ‘leak’ safety and trust out of your relationship… and how to plug the holes so you both feel emotionally safe around each other.
  • A sure-fire way to stop your partner being clingy or demanding, and actually offer you space and time to recharge after an emotional moment.
  • Exactly what to say and do to lure your withdrawn partner back out of their shell when they retreat and shut you out during an argument.
  • Your Needs: We all have emotional needs that can only be met by our lover. When they go unmet, we feel unsure of our relationship and begin pushing and pulling to get them met. In week 3, you’ll discover your relationship needs (and your partner’s) and inspire your partner to meet them for you. When you experience having your relationship needs met, you’ll fall deeper in love than when you first met.

Click here to enroll now

WEEK 4

How To Resolve Conflict & Heal Old Hurts

so you can stop the fighting and start connecting…

Most couples have one or two unresolved issues that they tiptoe around and just can’t seem to get past. Often, these issues become sensitive topics that spark finger pointing, defensiveness and explosive fights at the mere mention of them.

Left unresolved, these volatile issues trigger fight after fight, destroying your trust, intimacy and emotional connection.

Commonly, one partner withdraws into their shell while the other desperately chases them in an attempt to get them to respond. I call these two archetypes the Hailstorm and the Turtle.

This pattern doesn’t have a happy ending. Eventually, both partners withdraw to protect themselves from further hurt, making closeness and intimacy impossible. Then it’s just a matter of time before the relationship ends or one partner has an affair.

In week 4, we dig deep and discover your recurring patterns of conflict and put an end to them once and for all. No more walking on eggshells around each other.

You’ll have conversations with your partner that will stop the hurt and the destructive cycle of withdrawing and chasing.

“After 4 weeks of the program, we are loving each other and daily arguments are a thing of the past. We are connected and we have so many communication tools to de-escalate and resolve conflict that it rarely occurs anymore. We now live in peace and harmony and can be the loving songwriting team we need to be.”
Doug and Leah
Doug and Leah
“Since finishing the course, we have had very little conflict, and any conflict we have had has been resolved quickly and easily.”
Anna Burns
Anna Burns
“After 36 years of marriage, we can now view our problems as the “enemy” and have come together, united as a team, to fight those enemies and keep our marriage strong.”
Daniel Carr
Daniel Carr

Here’s a small sample of what you’ll learn in Week 4:

  • Discover which long-forgotten childhood experiences are at the root of your relationship struggles (even if you had a happy childhood). This new awareness will spark empathy and compassion in both you and your spouse.
  • You’ll master a step-by-step proven system that stops recurring patterns of conflict dead in their tracks before they spiral into a blowout (this is a goodie).
  • Heal old hurts (that you may have forgiven, but cannot let go of) so trust can finally return to your relationship.
  • Learn to use conflict as an opportunity to connect and grow an unshakable foundation of trust together.

Click here to enroll now

WEEK 5

Appreciate Your Differences

so you stop trying to change each other and finally feel accepted as you are…

Everyone is different… and that’s a good thing in a relationship.

You’ve probably heard that opposites attract, right?

It’s true. Like opposite poles of a magnet, we tend to be most attracted to someone with opposite personality traits to us. Some of these traits complement you, but others can drive you crazy! Are you nodding yet?

If your partner doesn’t understand and appreciate how you’re different, these differences can lead to hurtful fights that leave you feeling misunderstood, judged and alone.

In Week 5, you’ll both take three illuminating personality quizzes designed to give you insight into yourself and your partner that you’ll wish you’d known years ago.

Finally your partner will understand and appreciate the way you are and stop trying to change you.

“I am more optimistic (about our relationship) than ever despite having confirmed we are completely opposite.”
Chris Partington
Chris Partington
“I’m no longer afraid of our differences and we’re both very ready to make this our last relationship.”
Denise's relationship has deepened.
Denise Olsen
“We both feel empowered to move past our differences that used to get in the way of real connection.”
Susan Barnard
Susan Barnard

Here’s a small sample of what you’ll learn in Week 5:

  • You’ll be introduced to 3 well researched personality typing systems that will decode the hidden meanings behind you partner’s actions (knowing this will make you appear “psychic” to your partner and they’ll begin to trust you to understand them better than they understand themselves).
  • Learn why they need time alone and you don’t (or vice versa), why they like to plan and you’re the spontaneous one (or vice-versa), why they withdraw and you get demanding (or vice versa).
  • Learn the most meaningful way to communicate love to your partner. If you don’t know this, they’ll never feel loved no matter how many times you tell them or show them.
  • Discover exactly when to approach your partner for sex (and when not to). This will save you being rejected and make sure your sex life stays passionate.
  • You’ll get tons of fascinating insight into yourself and your partner that you’d probably never learn any other way…

Click here to enroll now

WEEK 6

How To Restore Trust & Feel Close Again

so you can fully forgive the past and safely open up to intimacy…

Allowing your partner to know you intimately is the entry fee to a rich emotional life, passionate sex life and deeply satisfying relationship.

In practice, actually being that vulnerable requires that you risk rejection or abandonment.

And that is terrifying for most of us.

So we hide our authentic selves from each other to avoid taking that risk.

Yet if we don’t take that risk, we’ll never be known deeply, never be able to fully express ourselves and never feel fully alive.

In week 6 you’ll break through the biggest barrier to intimacy – being vulnerable. If you struggle to share your feelings with your partner, you’ll learn how to access your inner landscape and share it in a way that skyrockets trust and safety and bonds you emotionally like super-glue.

“I was unable to feel or to express love to my wife. I hadn’t shed a tear in our 8 year relationship. Thanks to this program, I am more open and emotional, with no fear to share myself with my wife. I see now that if I can share everything with her, we will create a safer and happy life together! Thank you Bruce.”
Chris Stuhldreher
Chris Stuhldreher
“We are now able to be MUCH more honest with each other, able to talk to each other about REAL things, have big, raw, emotional things come up, and have it bring us closer instead of farther apart.”
Nicole Jackson
Nicole Jackson

Here’s a small sample of what you’ll learn in Week 6:

  • The #1 thing you need to talk about if you want to feel deeply connected (no, it’s not sex).
  • How to get your spouse to open up and share their deepest feelings, fears and fantasies with you, so that you stop drifting further apart and begin building an unshakable bridge between you.
  • How to cultivate a culture of honesty and acceptance, so you both feel safe to be yourselves with each other, without having to pretend you’re someone you’re not…
  • How to get in touch with your feelings and share them in a way that builds intimacy in seconds – even if you have no idea what you’re feeling in the moment.

Click here to enroll now

WEEK 7

Sex, Passion & Partnership

re-ignite sexual passion and become an invincible team…

While it’s common for sexual passion to simmer down a little over the years, if your sex life has become boring or lifeless, the “Sex, Passion & Partnership” videos in the Video Vault are for you.

You’ll discover exactly how to revive an uninspiring sex life and create powerful sexual chemistry with your partner… on demand.

Now that issues of connection and safety are no longer an issue in your relationship, we’ll then look at the next important steps your relationship must take. Finally, we’ll wrap up the program sharing our success stories with each other on the final Relationship Repair call.

This call is always fun because by the time you’ve gotten this far is the program, your relationship feels safer, more loving, and your spouse feels like a team mate.

“We’re more intimate, our sex has improved, our love and appreciation is deeper… and friends keep telling us that we are ‘such a great couple’.”
Todd Sedelmeier
Todd Sedelmeier
“Bruce, we are closer than ever before. I feel safe and heard by Michel for the first time in all the time we’ve known each other. The program opened up our communication, taught us how to trust and support one another and finally got us on the same team.”
Linda H
Linda H

Here’s a small sample of what you’ll learn in Week 7:

  • The 2 ways of making love that are toxic to intimacy (most couples fall into these 2 traps) and how to have the kind of sex that truly fulfills.
  • How to approach your lover for sex without being rejected, even if it feels like it’s been years since s/he was interested…
  • The difference between how men and women become sexually aroused (this is not obvious to most men).
  • Discover how independence can actually prevent your relationship growing into a team and bring it screeching to a halt. Then, you’ll learn what lies beyond independent relationships and how to take yours there.

Click here to enroll now

Stop Fighting, Start Connecting

“More connected & committed than ever…”

“Bruce, we are now more connected and committed than ever. Here’s a testimonial: If you need a path to follow when you’ve lost your way with the love of your life, this is for you!”
CHRIS PARTINGTON

“We are kind and more loving…”

“We were stuck in a cycle of power struggles, not being kind to each other. Since the course we have very little conflict. We are kind and more loving and romantic too!”
ANNA & DALE

Click here To Enroll Now

Click each tab below to hear success stories from past participants…

1. FABIANA & ROMARIO
Fabiana and Romario were about to get divorced...

“I was planning to give him the (divorce) papers…”

Hit PLAY Below To Listen To Fabiana and Romario’s Story

FABIANA & ROMARIO

“When we started the program I felt it was my last chance for my marriage.

I was seeing a counselor and he encouraged me to join this program, but I was ready for a divorce. I was not feeling loved. In my mind, we were just two roommates. He is the sweetest guy in the world but there was no romance. I was planning to give him the (divorce) papers to sign.

I did the course anyway and in Week 2 we had an Ah-Ha moment…

Romario finally understands how to connect with my heart. He said the scales fell off of his eyes and he could see how he was not loving me. Since that day he’s starting to love me full force.

Since then I’ve felt so loved and I fell in love with him again. I just want to be together with him for the rest of my life.

Basically you saved our marriage and we’re in the honeymoon again. It is amazing. I don’t have the words to express how happy I am in my marriage right now.

I learned so much from the coaching calls with others. I like the format of the program and the exercises. It really helped us understand each other and to connect deeper. Thank you very much from the bottom of my heart. I appreciate everything that you did for us.

2. DANIEL & ASKA
Aska thought her relationship was over...

“My fiance told me our relationship was over…”

Hit PLAY Below To Listen To Daniel and Aska’s Story

DANIEL & ASKA

“We were engaged, but had a huge fight. He (my fiance) told me that he wanted me to move out and that our relationship was over.

BRUCE: So you went from being broken up when you started the program to now he’s taking you out to dinner on your birthday and he’s sharing vulnerable things he hadn’t shared before and you guys are learning to connect slowly and securely again.

Yes I feel like that’s fair. At the birthday dinner, he said, “I don’t want to lose you to somebody else.”

We’re in a very good spot right now. We went out to a movie yesterday. We had dinner. He took me out for my birthday as well and we talked a lot and I feel like me opening up has really changed the way that he has opened up and I give him space and I know what he needs because he’s a turtle and I’m the hail-storm.


It’s a huge improvement from where we were. So thank you so much. I feel so much better. I’ve been through a lot but every time I would listen to your videos or I’d watch, I’d feel hopeful.

3. CRISTOFER & MALIN
Malin and Christofer reconnected despite being opposites

“Week after week we’ve been amazed…”

Hit PLAY Below To Listen To Christofer and Malin’s Story

CRISTOFER & MALIN

“First of all, I’d like to thank you , Bruce, for your brilliant coaching program and your awesome mentoring. I feel like this coaching program has been a life saver for me and for my relationship with Malin.

Week after week we’ve been amazed at all of the new important things that we’ve learned about ourselves – that we previously had no clue about at all. It’s really changed how we behave towards each other. We are pretty much exact opposites of each other.

Obviously there were lots of misunderstandings since we’re so very different from each other. So it feels really good to get this knowledge – how to behave, how to make each other happy, and I feel we’ve made so much progress so far.

We learned so much in these 8 weeks and we can totally see a difference. We’re happier and we’re excited. I’m not as irritated and we learn new things about each other every day.

Every time my fears pop up I talk to Christopher and everything feels so much better.

I feel comforted and I feel that I’m accepted and that I’m okay. A new feeling has emerged – a feeling that I’ve never felt before in my entire life. It is composed entirely of gratitude – enormous gratitude and a sense of calm. I can fully enjoy just being. Yeah, so I just want to thank you for all of this.

4. MARISA & MURRAY
Marisa and Murray stopped their pattern of distancing and coming back...

“Before (this program) we would have
times of more distancing and coming back

Hit PLAY Below To Listen To Marisa and Murray’s Story

MARISA & MURRAY

“Well I definitely feel more unconditionally loved – where it’s not so much of a connection/disconnection cycle. I feel like we have it very consistent at this point – this flow of love, connection, and intimacy.

Before, we would have times of more distancing and coming back and distancing and coming back and we’ve managed to somehow break that cycle and just consistently be there for each other, love each other and that’s obviously a huge breakthrough and I think part of what led us to be able to take the next step with each other as well.”

(towards the end of the program Murray proposed to Marisa – she said YES!)

Click each tab below to hear success stories from past participants…

1. FABIANA & ROMARIO
Fabiana and Romario were about to get divorced...

“I was planning to give him the (divorce) papers…”

Hit PLAY Below To Listen To Fabiana and Romario’s Story

FABIANA & ROMARIO

“When we started the program I felt it was my last chance for my marriage.

I was seeing a counselor and he encouraged me to join this program, but I was ready for a divorce. I was not feeling loved. In my mind, we were just two roommates. He is a very nice person. He is the sweetest guy in the world but there was no romance. I was planning to give him the (divorce) papers to sign.

I did the course anyway and in Week 2 we had an Ah-Ha moment…

Romario finally understands how to connect with my heart. He said a scale fell off of his eyes and he could see how he was not loving me. Since that day on, he’s starting to love me like full force on.

Since then I’ve felt so loved and I fell in love with him again. I just want to be together with him for the rest of my life.

Basically you saved our marriage and we’re in honeymoon again. It is so amazing. I don’t have really good words to express how happy I am in my marriage right now.

I learned so much from the coaching with others. I like the format of the program and the exercises. It really helped us understand each other and to connect deeper. Thank you very much from the bottom of my heart. I appreciate everything that you did for us.

2. DANIEL & ASKA
Aska thought her relationship was over...

“My fiance told me that our relationship was over…”

Hit PLAY Below To Listen To Daniel and Aska’s Story

DANIEL & ASKA

“We were engaged, but we had a huge fight he (my fiance) told me that he wanted me to move out and that our relationship was over.

BRUCE: So you went from being broken up when you started the program to now he’s taking you out to dinner on your birthday and he’s sharing vulnerable things he hadn’t shared before and you guys are learning to connect slowly and securely again.

Yes I feel like that’s fair. At the birthday dinner, he said, “I don’t want to lose you to somebody else.”

We’re in a very good spot right now. We went out to a movie yesterday. We had dinner. He took me out for my birthday as well and we talked a lot and I feel like me opening up has really changed the way that he has opened up and I give him space and I know what he needs because he’s a turtle and I’m the hail-storm.
It’s a huge improvement from where we were. So thank you so much. I feel so much better. I’ve been through a lot but every time I would listen to your videos or I’d watch, I’d feel hopeful.

3. CRISTOFER & MALIN
Malin and Christofer reconnected despite being opposites

“Week after week we’ve been amazed…”

Hit PLAY Below To Listen To Cristofer and Malin’s Story

CRISTOFER & MALIN

“First of all, I’d like to thank you , Bruce, for your brilliant coaching program and your awesome mentoring. I feel like this coaching program has been a life saver for me and for my relationship with Malin.

Week after week we’ve been amazed at all of these new important things that we’ve learned about ourselves. That we previously had no clue about at all. It’s really changed how we behave towards each other. We are pretty much exact opposites of each other.

Obviously there were lots of misunderstandings since we’re so very different from each other. So it feels really good to get this knowledge – how to behave, how to make each other happy, and I feel we’ve made so much progress so far.

We learned so much in these 8 weeks and we can totally see a difference. We’re happier and we’re excited and I’m not as irritated and we learn new things about each other every day.

Every time my fears and thoughts pop up I talk to Christopher and everything feels so much better.

I feel comforted and I feel that I’m accepted and that I’m okay. A new feeling has emerged – a feeling that I’ve never felt before in my entire life. It is composed entirely of gratitude, enormous gratitude and a sense of calm. I can fully enjoy just being. Yeah, so I just want to thank you for all of this.”

4. MARISA & MURRAY
Marisa and Murray stopped their pattern of distancing and coming back...

“Before (this program) we would have
times of more distancing and coming back”

Hit PLAY Below To Listen To Marisa and Murray’s Story

MARISA & MURRAY

“Well I definitely feel more unconditionally loved – where it’s not so much of a connection/disconnection cycle. I feel like we have it very consistent at this point – this flow of love, connection, and intimacy.

Before, we would have times of more distancing and coming back and distancing and coming back and we’ve managed to somehow break that cycle and just consistently be there for each other, love each other and that’s obviously a huge breakthrough and I think part of what led us to be able to take the next step with each other as well.”

(towards the end of the program Murray proposed to Marisa – she said YES!)

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What Do You Get?

All the training is delivered online,
so you can participate from the privacy of your home.
All you need is an internet connection.

$297 value

1. LIFETIME ACCESS TO 10+ HOURS OF RELATIONSHIP REPAIR VIDEOS

An online alternative to relationship counselingThe Video Training Vault contains hours of high quality research based relationship repair training videos. You can watch on your phone, tablet or desktop.

 

Get instant access to the answers, strategies, tools, and techniques you need to stop arguing, start connecting and get on the same page again.

 

You get lifetime access to these videos so you can work at your own pace or refer back to them whenever you need to – even if that’s in 5 years from now.

$97 value

2. IMPLEMENTATION WORKBOOKS

Your implementation workbook - packed with insightful exercises and step-by-step conversation scriptsThese downloadable implementation workbooks are where the rubber meets the road. They are packed full of practical exercises designed to reveal the blind spots that unconsciously sabotage the connection between you.

 

They also contain step-by-step roadmaps for having heart-opening conversations that will permanently change your relationship dynamic so you feel closely connected, heard and deeply known by your partner.

$1400 value

3. 7 WEEKLY RELATIONSHIP MENTORING CALLS WITH DIRECT ACCESS TO ME

Each week, we’ll connect for 90 minutes with the other couples in the program.

 

You’ll be able to ask me questions directly and get answers and solutions tailored to your specific relationship situation.

 

Then, as I mentor other couples, you’ll get powerful strategies, tools and insights that you can apply to your own situation. These are fun, interactive calls designed to get your relationship unstuck fast.

 

All calls are recorded in case you cannot attend one.

Click here to enroll now

What Else Do You Get?

$47 value

4. BONUS - 6 STEPS TO HEAL THE AFFAIR

Heal Your AffairIf you’ve ever been cheated on, then you know how much infidelity hurts… and the devastating effect it can have on your sense of security and safety in your marriage or relationship.

 

If your relationship has suffered from an affair, then you’re going to need help healing from it. Otherwise, you risk a breakup or divorce.

 

This bonus audio recording will teach you the 6 steps to healing an affair, overcoming resentment, forgiving and being forgiven.

$47 value

5. BONUS - ATTRACT YOUR EX BACK

Get Your Ex BackIf your partner has left you, or your relationship has ended…

 

This program will teach you how to get your ex back without begging, groveling or manipulating them.

 

Instead of short term tricks that never work in the long term, you’ll learn strategies for identifying and meeting your ex’s needs in the way they want them met. Soon, you’ll be their #1 choice – and getting back with you will be their idea.

$47 value

6. BONUS - TRUST AGAIN: HOW TO FORGIVE AND BE FORGIVEN

Trust Again - How to forgive and be forgivenWe’ll all get hurt by our partner at some point. Mostly it’s unintentional. There is no escaping it. Over time, these hurts can add up until they solidify as feelings of resentment, betrayal and mistrust.

 

If left unhealed, your old hurt can destroy the last remaining threads of connection between the two of you and leave you feeling like strangers living under the same roof instead of passionate lovers.

 

In this program, you’ll learn a step-by-step formula for having a moving conversation that will bring forgiveness and restore trust between you.

 

This process works even if your relationship has suffered a serious breach of trust like an affair.

$47 value

7. BONUS - SEXUAL FIREWORKS

Sexual AgreementsHot sex in a committed relationship doesn’t come from experimenting with Karma Sutra positions. It comes from creating a safe space where we can let go.

 

When we don’t consciously create safe spaces, it’s easy to unconsciously create spaces where we feel inhibited or even turned off…

 

and that’s when our sex life can feel stuck.

 

In this eye opening audio program you’ll identify the unconscious sexual spaces sabotaging your sex life and then create new ones that support fireworks in the bedroom.

$1395 value

8. FAST ACTION BONUS - YOUR PARTNER ATTENDS FREE

Your partner attends freeIf you register for the program now, your partner can attend the course with you for free* – even if they only join in later.

 

That’s TWO seats for the price of ONE.

 

* Please note that a partner is someone you are in a committed romantic relationship with. Once you have enrolled in the program, you’ll receive instructions explaining how to enroll your partner.

TOTAL VALUE: $3377

How Much Will All This Cost?

Not a lot… especially when you consider the alternatives. A divorce could cripple you (financially and emotionally), break your heart and rip your family apart.

You’ll spend upwards of $2000 for a few sessions with any half-decent marriage therapist. By the way, conventional marriage therapy has a higher failure rate than success rate.

So when you consider that in only 7 weeks…

you can fix your relationship struggles with or without your partner’s participation…

you’ll realize that I probably should be charging a LOT more for this program.

But I have this dream… a dream of a world where unnecessary divorce is a thing of the past (I’ve been through one myself) and everyone can afford to get help saving their relationship.

And that’s why I’m offering the Coaching Program for less that the price of one session with a half-decent marriage therapist.

Mandi and Jay saved their relationship“This is the best investment we have ever made as a couple in our 10 years together.

Our marriage has gone from rocky (both of us hurt and resentful) to a deep love that I didn’t think was possible.

Bruce, you have accomplished miracles where marriage counseling, personal therapy and countless books fell short.

We thought we wanted to go back to the way things were when we married but you’ve put us into a place far beyond that.”
JAY & MANDI ELLEFSON

Nick saved his marriage“This course is without doubt, the most comprehensive and cost effective investment you could ever make in your relationship.
NICK PATEY

Fix your relationship problems in 7 weeks or less,
even if you’re the only one trying.

SORRY, THE COACHING PROGRAM IS NOW FULL
AND IS CLOSED FOR REGISTRATION. BUT…

If you’d like to be first to know when the program opens again,
you can get on the waiting list below.

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Pamela & Michael Cournoyer saved their marriage“We’re only on Week 3, but I have to tell you, this program has saved our marriage.”
PAMELA & MICHAEL COURNOYER

Rebecca can calm her husband now...“This program is amazing. I’ve changed. I’m listening, calming and soothing my husband!”
REBECCA MEAD

Lorne and Verity fell back in love“We were in a rocky place living 2 seperate lives. In 7 weeks we’ve fallen back in love…”
LORNE & VERITY NOBLE

Lynette fixed her relationship“This program was the best help we could have gotten to bring peace to our relationship.”
LYNETTE BAILEY

Susan Barnard fixed her relationship struggles“Our 30 year marriage was collapsing. Now, we’re closer & happier than ever. Thank you!”
SUSAN BARNARD

What you do next could mean the difference between going through a painful breakup or expensive divorce and starting on the road to a new happy life together, feeling like partners on the same team.

I think you’ll agree with me that that the “happy option” sounds better.

If you’re ready to start feeling safely connected, loved, appreciated, understood and supported, get on the waiting list (above) now so that you can register before the next class sells out.

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You too could be waking up 7 weeks from now feeling
safely connected, appreciated and happy…

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I’d understand if you’re thinking this sounds too good to be true.

Yet increased safety, trust, compassion, connection, and understanding are just some of what people report after completing the Coaching Program…

Imagine waking up and your partner is gazing lovingly at you with a smile on their face. You feel secure knowing they have your back and you’re #1 in their world.

You know that when you turn to them for comfort, they’ll respond warmly. When you share what’s on your heart, they listen attentively to you and care.

Arguments don’t turn into fights, but instead, your partner assumes the best of you and makes an effort to understand your side of things.

All this is not only possible, it’s probable. Don’t struggle with love any longer.
Click here to start fixing your relationship struggles now.

  • Bruce, you've taught me to overcome my 'escape tendencies' and given me the confidence to stay present as we worked through our struggles. Attending this class saved our relationship.

    Cheryl and Ron
    Cheryl and Ron
  • We were not talking... and now we are.

    Rhonda Darling
    Rhonda Darling
  • So superior to any books I have read and marriage counseling. I am married today because of my this - thank you Bruce Muzik!

    Laura (and Tom)
    Laura (and Tom)
  • “We’re only on Week 3, and this program has already saved our marriage.”

    Pamela Cournoyer
    Pamela Cournoyer
  • “Bruce, you’ve accomplished miracles where marriage counseling, personal therapy, a seminar, and countless books fell short. I don’t know if I’ve ever been happier and I don’t think our relationship has ever been in a better place - even when we first met.”

    Mandi Ellefson
    Mandi Ellefson
  • "We had been to counselors, but still struggled to connect. Now we have practical tools that have helped us work on those issues. Bruce, your efforts have helped us immensely!”

    Michael A.
    Michael A.
  • “We’ve learned tools that softened the tension between us. Arguments now seem to blow over as we feel like we’re both being heard. We’re even happier than when we first met.”

    Gerry Thorpe
    Gerry Thorpe
  • “Bruce, we thought we wanted to go back to the way things were when we married but this program has put us into a place far beyond that.”

    Jay Ellefson
    Jay Ellefson
  • “We are now able to be MUCH more honest with each other, able to talk to each other about REAL things, have big, raw, emotional things come up, and have it bring us closer instead of farther apart.”

    Nicole Jackson
    Nicole Jackson
  • “Daily arguments are a thing of the past. We are connected and we have so many communication tools to de-escalate and resolve conflict that it rarely occurs anymore.”

    Doug Flaherty & Leah Novello
    Doug Flaherty & Leah Novello
  • “After 36 years of marriage, we can now view our problems as the "enemy" and have come together, united as a team, to fight those enemies and keep our marriage strong.”

    Daniel Carr
    Daniel Carr
  • There is no greater gift we could give our new daughter than how strong we feel as a team now.This program is the real deal.

    Theresa Crowley-Ferreira
    Theresa Crowley-Ferreira
  • Well worth the money and as a bonus, you get lifetime access to the site.

    Deon and Kathy Dreyer
    Deon and Kathy Dreyer
  • This course has been mind-blowing. I will never be the same.

    Anya Staal
    Anya Staal
  • I have done a lot of personal development over the years, yet the information I obtained in this 7-week program has changed my life. I will have both my children do it as soon as they are ready to.

    Steven Bouris
    Steven Bouris
  • What made the biggest difference was learning how to listen, and BE OKAY with whatever she is feeling, without trying to get her to stop feeling it to make myself more comfortable.I can relax!!!

    Michael Frazier
    Michael Frazier
  • I did the program by myself and at the end, my marriage changed 360 degrees to where I now connect more with my wife and where now we have a much more deeper and open understanding of each other.

    Petros
    Petros
  • I now feel safe and “gotten”. Even if we do trigger each other, we deal with it successfully.

    Dawn Cormier-Hazen
    Dawn Cormier-Hazen

Meet Some Of Our Happy Students

We are solving disagreements quicker, there are fewer of them and our recovery time is minutes, not days!!! My God. I owe you so much, Bruce.”

Stacia Deraedt

Stacia Deraedt

“I’m no longer afraid of our differences. We are so very grateful for you fighting so hard for our success, it worked!”

Denise Olsen

Denise Olsen

“This program moved our relationship out of critical and into stable. We are thoroughly enjoying being in love with each other again. Thank you Bruce.

Lynette Anderson

LYNETTE ANDERSON & ANDRE BOTHA

“My husband had estimated we were 2 months from divorce. Today, at the end of the program we have fallen in love with each other again.

Beth A.

Beth A

“I felt like breaking up. Since completing the course, we are more connected and we laugh and have good times together again.

JJ Viviers

JJ Viviers

“We argue less and are more understanding, supportive and accepting of each other. When things go wrong, we now have tools to work with and they never seem to fail.

Sarah B

Sarah

About Your Trainer

Bruce has built a reputation as the guy relationship counselors refer their toughest clients to, to help fix their troubled marriages.

He has more than 20 years of coaching experience and has been called “The Couples Whisperer” (although he says he rarely whispers).

Direct experience working with hundreds of couples each year has confirmed his belief that even “hopeless case” relationships can be repaired.

More than 3 million people have watched his TEDx talk and he has been featured on the BBC and Financial Times to name a few.

Bruce Muzik – Relationship Coach

“Bruce cares deeply about his clients. He creates a safe and accepting space to explore your relationship.” – Rhonda Darling


Your Questions Answered

WHEN DOES THE COURSE START?

When you put your name on the waiting list (click the orange bar above) you’ll be notified before anyone else when the course opens for registration.

when you register, you’ll receive immediate access to the Quickstart Videos. If you’ve registered a week or more before we begin the program, these videos will get you started repairing things between you right away.

HOW DOES THE COURSE WORK?

The coaching program is a 7-week home-study relationship repair program backed by scientific research.

It is an online alternative to couples counseling delivered via weekly online training videos and downloadable workbooks.

You also get 7 group coaching calls with me (Bruce) so you are guaranteed to get help with your unique situation.

Here’s how it works:

STEP #1: WATCH THE WEEKLY VIDEO TRAINING

Each Saturday you’ll receive access to new relationship repair training videos that will teach you communication skills, proven strategies and tools to get you both on the same page.

STEP #2: DO THE WEEKLY EXERCISES

Your implementation workbook will guide you step-by-step through a series of powerful exercises and conversations that will get you on the same page.

STEP #3: TALK WITH ME & GET HELP

Finally, once a week we’ll connect on our live group mentoring call together. You ask me questions and I provide solutions tailored to your specific relationship situation.

WHAT WILL I LEARN?

The curriculum I’ll lead you though is designed from the most up-to-date research by the world’s smartest relationship scientists in the fields of:

  • Neuroscience,
  • Attachment theory,
  • Personality theory,
  • Developmental psychology, and
  • The couples therapy with the highest success rate.

I’ve distilled all this research into tools and strategies that are easy to apply with your partner.

You’ll learn proven communication tools and conflict resolution strategies to get you connected and on the same page again.

Here’s a short version of what we’ll learn each week:

  • WEEK 1: Re-connect emotionally with each other
  • WEEK 2: Master the core communication skills for couples
  • WEEK 3: Feel safe together
  • WEEK 4: Resolve recurring conflict and heal old hurt
  • WEEK 5: Appreciate your differences
  • WEEK 6: Restore trust and feel close again
  • WEEK 7: Sex, passion and long-term partnership

The curriculum is available in a lot more detail further up this page.

WHAT PROBLEMS DOES THE COURSE PROVIDE SOLUTIONS FOR?

Here are some of the many symptoms that the coaching program helps with:

  • There’s a constant tension between you both…
  • You walk on eggshells, tip-toeing around sensitive topics…
  • Little arguments escalate into full blown fights…
  • You can’t talk about how you’re feeling without communication breaking down or sparking an argument…
  • Issues don’t get resolved, and you sweep your problems under the carpet…
  • You don’t fight at all (this is the #1 predictor of divorce)…
  • Your partner withdraws, goes “numb” or shuts down emotionally…
  • Your partner angrily pursues you, leaving you feeling criticized…
  • You feel judged, not accepted and like your partner is trying to change you…
  • You’re wrestling with trust issues or forgiveness after a betrayal…
  • Your sex life has lost its spark (or non-existent)…
  • One of you has said some variation of “I love you, but I’m not in love with you…”
  • You can’t count on your partner to have your back and provide emotional support…
  • One of you is not fully committed, has left or threatened to leave…
WHAT CAN I REALISTICALLY EXPECT TO HAPPEN IN 7 WEEKS?

Here’s what you can expect to happen during or after the course:

  • You’ll be laughing playfully together, feeling safely and securely connected to one another.
  • You’ll have resolved your differences without fighting, instead building a deep bond between you.
  • You’ll be using your new communication tools to talk feely about your feelings, needs and wants without sparking a disconnection.
  • Your withdrawn and shut down partner will come out of his/her shell and open up emotionally.
  • Your critical, angry partner will soften, listen and offer you the space you need.
  • Your old hurts will have healed and trust rebuilt between you.
  • Sexual desire naturally returns as the emotional bond between you strengthens.
  • As you get on the same page again, you both begin feeling like team mates instead of room mates.
WILL THE PROGRAM HELP ME IF MY PARTNER IS OBSTINATE OR WON’T PARTICIPATE WITH ME?

Yes. You can participate in your own time, from anywhere in the world, and turn things around even if you’re the only one trying.

Your partner does not need to participate in order for you to positively impact your relationship.

How can that work? Let’s try a thought experiment together:

Imagine you’re having a romantic dinner with your spouse… What would you have to do or say to make the dinner go downhill fast?

Most people can think of at least one thing immediately. In my marriage, all my wife would have to do is make a comment that my driving is bad. That would be enough to change the tone of our relationship in that moment.

See how easily one person can affect a relationship?

In the same way, you can fix your relationship problems even if your partner won’t participate in the program with you or is obstinate. That’s because a relationship is like a see-saw. As you shift so your partner has to shift in response.

As you begin changing the way you respond in your relationship, so the dynamic between you will change and your partner will begin showing up differently.

Very often an obstinate partner will choose to join you in the program as a result of seeing first hand how you’re responding in a more loving, more secure, and emotionally safe way.

Obviously, I’d rather that your partner did participate with you, so I’ve designed a free training program that will teach you how to get your partner on board participating with you. You’ll get access to it as soon as you register for the Coaching Program.

However, even if they don’t participate, take comfort that your relationship troubles are not your fault or your partner’s fault. They are caused by the relationship dynamic you unconsciously co-create together. You can singlehandedly turn your relationship around, whether or not your partner participates.

WILL THE PROGRAM WORK IF WE ARE SEPARATED OR BROKEN UP?

I regularly witness separated (or broken up) couples get back together during the Love At First Fight coaching program.

Obviously, you and your partner are human beings, not robots, so there are no guarantees. In fact, anyone who guarantees that you will reunite with your ex should not be trusted.

However, if you take responsibility for applying what you learn in the program you will massively increase your chances of your ex wanting to come back into your life. Massively.

WHY SHOULD I BELIEVE THIS PROGRAM WILL HELP ME FIX MY RELATIONSHIP?

Don’t believe me. Go try out my free information on this site and then decide for yourself.

The Love At First Fight methodology is based on decades of scientific research by the world’s smartest relationship scientists in the fields of:

  • neuroscience,
  • attachment theory,
  • Emotionally Focused Couples therapy (the couples therapy with the highest success rate in the world),
  • developmental psychology,
  • and personality theory…

Every technique, skill or strategy you’ll learn has been tested by researchers and by me with the hundreds upon hundreds of couples who have successfully fixed their troubled relationships during the Love At First Fight coaching program.

Unlike a $50 e-book that you’ll probably never read, this program delivers what you need to fix your relationship – education, insight, accountability, mentoring and real support.

Because the program is delivered live and over 7 weeks, it requires you to actually show up consistently to learn, so you’re far more likely to actually fix your relationship struggles.

It works so well because it combines cutting-edge education, with insightful exercises and personal phone mentoring to give you solutions tailored to your specific situation.

Over the last 10 years, I’ve helped thousands of people across the globe from every walk of life. If you’re willing, I can help you and your partner too.

BRUCE, WILL I GET TO TALK WITH YOU PERSONALLY?

Absolutely.

The Mentoring Calls are group calls, so you won’t be having private calls with me.

However, you (along with the other participants in the program) can talk directly with me on the Mentoring Calls.

You can ask me questions or get help and solutions to your unique relationship problem. I may work with you alone, or ask your partner to join the conversation too. Participation is completely voluntary.

As I’m working with the other couples, you’ll learn even more. This is because much of the coaching I will give other couples will apply directly to your situation too.

We only use our first names on the Mentoring Calls. The calls are audio, not video. This way, you remain anonymous in the group. Anonymity helps create a safe environment where we can all open up and share vulnerably and do deep work.

Whatever reservations you may have about sharing in a group, trust me on this: the group dynamic is the very reason the coaching program works so well.

The Wall Of Love would not be filled with happy students sharing their stories of love and transformation if the group call format didn’t work.

Again, you are not obliged to speak on any of the calls.

HOW QUICKLY CAN I EXPECT TO SEE RESULTS IN MY MARRIAGE (OR RELATIONSHIP)?

The coaching program is designed to fix your relationship problems in 7 weeks or less.

However, many participants report having turned their situation around by week 2 of the program thanks to the communication skills they have learned.

There is no one-size-fits-all time-frame for repairing a relationship. It’s dependent mostly on how willing you are to put into practice what you learn in the program.

DO I RECEIVE THE ENTIRE COURSE AT ONCE?

No. I designed the course to be delivered week by week. This way, you get enough time to learn the tools and practice using them in your relationship. The program is a tested system and it’s important to follow the protocol.

Smart people often have a particular weakness of wanting to jump ahead, saying things like, “Yeah yeah, I get it. I want to skip ahead now.” I don’t allow this. The goal is not to rush through the course — it’s to repair your relationship problems and be happy together.

Everything in the course is carefully calibrated to maximize your odds of success.

Trust the system. It works.

HOW LONG DO I HAVE ACCESS TO THE TRAINING MATERIALS?

Yes, you have lifetime access to everything in the program.

WHY IS THE COURSE SO AFFORDABLE? WHAT'S THE CATCH?

There’s no catch.

The reason I can afford to help you for only $497 is that we’re working in a group. Over the many years that I’ve run this program, I’ve found that this group program often get’s better results than working one-on-one.

I know it seems hard to believe that I’m promising to help you repair your relationship problems for the price of one session with a half-decent couples therapist.

Especially considering they’ll charge you $400/session and advise 12 sessions, which works out to $4800. Not to mention that many couples therapists are not actually trained to work with couples and do more damage than good.

If you suspect that I have a thing against couples therapists and counselors, it’s because I do.

I’ve lost count of the number of my students who have told me that they have seen multiple couples therapists and each just made things worse.

I am on a mission to make effective relationship help available and affordable for everyone.

DO YOU HAVE A 100% MONEY BACK GUARANTEE?

Yes, a full 100% money back guarantee. I stand behind my programs 100%.

If you participate fully and complete the program as designed*and you’re not 100% satisfied with it, just send me an email within a week after our final Mentoring Call and I’ll refund all your money. I’ll even eat the credit-card processing fees and we’ll part as friends. I built this and I take responsibility for it.

All I ask is that you actually watch all the videos, complete all the exercises and get help from me on the live Mentoring Calls so I can do everything in my power to help you get the results you want in your marriage or relationship.

Fair enough?

If you’re thinking of purchasing the program just to test-drive it, I’d rather you didn’t join at all. You’re not going to get the extraordinary results you want by dipping your toe in the water, right? You have to apply yourself. In order to be eligible for our 100% Money Back Guarantee, you must have completed the program.

WILL YOU RUN THE COURSE IN A COUPLE OF MONTHS?

I don’t know when I’ll re-open the Love At First Fight coaching program.

Once this upcoming coaching program begins, I devote all of my attention to my students. When I come up for air, I’ll schedule the next one.

HOW MUCH TIME WILL I NEED TO ALLOCATE TO THE PROGRAM EACH WEEK?

In my experience, the couples who do best, put aside 3 – 4 hours over the weekend to watch the videos and complete the assignments. This way, they have time to practice the tools before the Mentoring Calls later the following week.

Your time will be divided roughly as follows:

  • 1 hour to watch the Relationship Repair training videos each week
  • 2 hours to complete the Implementation Workbook assignments each week
  • 1.5 hours for the Relationship Mentoring calls each week
IF I CAN'T ATTEND, CAN I TRANSFER TO ANOTHER PROGRAM?

Yes, as long as you let us know within a week of your program starting, you can transfer to any coaching program that begins within 6 months of the program that you purchased.

WHEN DO THE RELATIONSHIP MENTORING CALLS HAPPEN?

The Relationship Mentoring calls are scheduled at 12:00 pm Pacific Standard Time on Thursdays. This call time was chosen to accommodate people from as many different time zones as possible during daylight hours.

Because your relationship or marriage is possibly the most foundational aspect of your life… and because a troubled relationship can negatively impact every area of your life, I highly recommend re-scheduling your work and social life to accommodate the 90-minute Relationship Mentoring calls for the next 7 weeks. It will be worth it.

If you need to speak to your employer to move your lunch break or work hours around for 7 weeks, do it. Most employers are understanding about relationship issues (because a happier you is a more productive you) and will be flexible if you make a request of them.

Worst case scenario: You can’t attend all the live Mentoring Calls and listen to the recordings while sending me your questions to answer on the Mentoring Calls. I regularly witness couples transform their marriages without even attending a single call in person.

WHAT IF I CAN’T ATTEND THE RELATIONSHIP MENTORING CALLS? ARE THEY RECORDED?

That’s OK. Each call is recorded and posted in the private member’s area within a few hours.

If you know you’ll miss a call ahead of time, just email me your question and I’ll answer it (or provide a solution) for you on the call. You can then listen to my answer even if you don’t attend the live call. We’ve had many couples through our virtual ‘doors’ that fix their relationship struggles never having attended a single live call, but emailing in their questions instead.

You can also download recordings of each call to your mobile device so you can listen on the move or offline.

DO WE GET HARD-COPY WORKBOOKS?

The Implementation Workbooks are digital downloads so you can access them instantly from anywhere in the world and begin fixing your relationship right away. Most participants print theirs out.

I'VE TRIED MARRIAGE THERAPY AND IT DIDN'T WORK. WHY SHOULD THIS WORK?

If marriage therapy didn’t work for you, you’re not alone. In fact, traditional marriage therapy has the highest failure rate of any therapy in existence – mostly due to the fact that you don’t need to be trained to work with couples to be a marriage therapist. All you need is a license to practice individual therapy.

Working with couples requires a completely different set of skills than working with an individual. And that is one of the big reasons marriage therapy so often fails miserably.

The second reason why approximately 3 in 4 couples who attend marriage therapy report no improvement is because traditional marriage therapy focuses on teaching communication skills.

Couples research clearly shows that poor communication is not the reason your marriage is in trouble.

Poor communication is only a symptom of a greater cause – a lack of emotional safety and emotional connection.

My entire philosophy to relationship repair could be summarized as “Connect first, communicate later”.

In the Love At First Fight coaching program, the first thing you’ll learn on our Welcome Call is how to create emotionally connected moments with your spouse so that you both begin feeling emotionally safe with each other.

Only then will I teach you communication skills.

The reason for our incredibly high success rate with couples in conflict is because our primary focus is on getting the two of you feeling connected and safe.

Once you feel connected and safe, communication tends to take care of itself. Of course, in the Love At First Fight coaching program, you’ll get step-by-step processes for resolving the difficult conversations with your partner.

However, many couples report that once they are connected and feeling safe, they don’t need communication skills to resolve their problems.

Sound too simple to be true?

I completely understand if you’re skeptical.

Consider this:

Do you both know how to speak English? Of course you do.

Did you need communication skills to talk to each other when you first fell in love? Of course not. You just talked and it was wonderful.

Why? Because you were emotionally connected and feeling safe with each other.

Here is the final reason I’ll mention for why the Love At First Fight coaching program is likely to work for you even if marriage therapy didn’t:

Traditional marriage therapy often doesn’t do a good job of healing old hurt and resentment. You might be told to forgive and forget. You might be given token apologies like “I’m sorry, OK! Can we please move on now??? When are you going to get over this?”

None of these are going to inspire forgiveness in you or your partner and you’ll be stuck with your resentment unable to let go of the betrayal of trust…

And if there is one thing that will sabotage your felt sense of emotional safety, it is resentment.

In the coaching program, you’ll learn a scientifically proven step-by-step method for healing old hurt and dissolving resentment. It’s easier than you might think and won’t take months and months of talking about what happened over and over again.

I hope this helps you understand how my approach is different from marriage therapy. If marriage therapy didn’t work for you (or just made things worse), the Love At First Fight coaching program is for you.

If that still doesn’t convince you, remember that the Love At First Fight coaching program comes with a 100% money back guarantee. Try getting your money back from your marriage therapist.

“I’ve spent the cost of my house on therapy over the last few decades and I got further with this short course…” – Sue McKimmie

“This program has made us more competent as a couple in 7 weeks, than one year of couples therapy.” – Linea Ivalo

“Your course is more effective than couples counseling (and less expensive).” – Pam Sorter


If You’re Hanging On By A Thread,

Every day you don’t repair your bond you risk that last thread of connection finally snapping…

Don’t risk the most important relationship in your life.

Your relationship will only take so much tension before one of you finally throws in the towel and leaves… or has an affair… and at that point, fixing things will be a lot more difficult.

If you don’t do something different SOON, you’ll almost certainly be waking up alone before long. And that’s a tragedy because fixing your relationship is not only possible but very likely if you have the right road map to follow.

You have a unique window of opportunity in front of you right now – the opportunity to be happy together.

So, do the sensible thing. Get professional help to heal the bond between you before it’s too late and this window of opportunity slams shut.

Register for the Love At First Fight coaching program now and together we’ll fix your marriage or relationship struggles once and for all.

Tessa Klein

“My bags were packed!”

“I couldn’t stand the fighting any more. We’d seen two other therapists who couldn’t help us at all.

I gave my husband an ultimatum – either figure out how to communicate better, or I’m moving out. My bags were packed!

I can’t believe it, but my husband and I actually made it through our big fight yesterday. After going through Love at First Fight, I think we are actually going to make it.

So, we are on the mend. Thank you Bruce! I enjoy how committed you are. You worked some magic here because we were definitely a worst-case scenario!”

Tessa Klein

Nicole Jackson

“emotional things come up and bring us closer…”

“When we signed up, we were quietly annoyed with each other. Drifting apart. Not able to be honest with each other. Not able to talk about real things without blowup fights.

The program jump-started us towards a complete change in our relationship.

We are now able to be MUCH more honest with each other, have big, raw, emotional things come up and have it bring us closer instead of farther apart.

I also believe we’re better parents and more comfortable just being ourselves, which is good for the whole family. I’m happier in our relationship now than I have been since the very beginning.”

Nicole & Andrew

Cheryl Coffey

“Attending this class saved our relationship…”

“After my divorce I found myself slipping back into an old pattern of three month relationships. Either I or the man I was dating would run at the first sign of trouble. As my current relationship approached three months I received an email from Bruce about his “Love at First Fight” program, so I signed up. The timing was perfect.

Bruce taught me to see and overcome my escape tendencies, increase my understanding of myself and my partner and gave me the confidence to stay present as we worked through our struggles.
Attending this class saved our relationship.

I am so grateful for his help and encourage everyone, no matter what your relationship circumstances, to take this class. Bliss is attainable.”

Cheryl & Ron

Kevin D.

“The trust has started to return…”

“This program gave me the tools we needed get through those times I thought that all hope was lost.

The trust has started to return and I can see a bright and happy future with my partner that I was starting to lose sight of.

The best part is that we were able to do this from the comfort of our own home.

Bruce, you do a fantastic job at relating to every single person, regardless of their issue.

I highly recommend this program to anyone who is committed fixing their relationship.”

Kevin & Mikaela

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